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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 08:50 PM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 08:47 PM
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Literally "who you live with" and "I don't want to leave the city but my lease is up" summed up my last couple of dates with a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 05:50 AM
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Does anyone remember that scene from Curb Your Enthusiasm where an Orthodox Jewish woman threw herself off a ski lift while with Larry (main character, also Jewish) because she was scared of being with a man after sundown and since she was unmarried it was against doctrine for her to stay? Weird how its always the women who are expected to uphold the rules but the men don't have to even bother. And there is no "good religion" for a woman. I saw soooo many posts about how Jewish/Islamic/Whatever …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 04:57 AM
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Holy fuck that statistic is insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 09:48 AM
72

This is why I refuse to fuck men without the paper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 09:45 AM
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No. When we idolize the wrong person and put them as the face of a movement (which Tupac was for a while) we take away opportunity to acknowledge non-problematic leaders. Its why we all learned about Rosa Parks and not Claudette (pregnant black teen who was the first to stand up but was removed from history because she would be seen as a controversial figure in civil rights).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 09:02 AM
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If you have to bring sex into your personal brand then you are doing sex work, the definition of sex work boils down to sex being used as a means of gaining resources(money, fame etc). Dita Von Teese has her own line of clothing but is still a sex worker, because of how she structured her career. If you are a sex worker, then are you adequately getting compensated? I can guarantee most thirst trap pics can get confused with OF pics and will ruin your life just the same but you get even less than…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 11:13 AM
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Fucking this. Once I confessed I got orally raped by an ex to my then current boyfriend so he proceeded to take out his guns and lay them out saying its his turn now ("because he was drunk"). Later he apologized saying he thought I was "like a cute shy anime girl". WTAF. But yeah never again will a man know my trauma
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 10:30 AM
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Men gossip much more than women omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 11:46 AM
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If he is a person that puts in effort then he will understand that yelling might be triggering other ppl too. Self defense classes are taken by vulnerable people more often than not or ppl with past trauma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:29 AM
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Rape and molestation is more common than you think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:25 AM
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This. I can't watch a lot of movies/shows because its not happening to Other Women (that are less careful, less smart, lesser than I) but is happening to women like me and inspiring men to act like the killer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 08:34 AM
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This is what New York did for Flav. She was fucked over though and got dragged on tv.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:50 AM
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Lesbians claimed that song btw. They turned it into a love song of a woman in the closet I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:39 AM
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Those officers need to be in prison. They knew what was happening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 07:47 PM
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Oh my god
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 07:34 PM
6

This. Larger women tend to be larger because of hormonal disbalance from bc, because healthcare considers women's health optional/unimportant, because they just gave birth, because of natural predisposition etc. Men do not have as many factors outside of their control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 07:01 PM
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Because she embraced her girliness rather than be ashamed of it. Her bows also made it hard to sell sexualized clothing/style to girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:45 PM
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Was Sabina an influencer/niche celebrity too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:09 PM
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Never heard of Swaziland before but now I want to visit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:04 PM
1

Dumped a fake friend who thought he had compromising pics/info on me. Feels nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:54 PM
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They do. I heard from several men they believe bipoc women especially are better women because they are more willing to accept the bare minimum. Asians are fetishized for being pale skinned (like a white woman) and according to some, "able to appreciate white men" aka accept disrespect and bangmaid-om that most white women would refuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:18 AM
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well from the one article everyone on a random campus in a specific campus knew what it was :^)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 07:40 PM
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Pillow looking coats and bright colored clothes that are usually oversized and baggy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 06:09 PM
17

Thank you, I read some articles claiming it meant outdated/ugly and I'm guessing the mainstream media is trying to co-opt it into something for generational warfare (that isn't really working)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 05:42 PM
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It might be the fashion industry trying to create demand by discrediting previous gen's clothes by making it seem like Zoomers consider them uncool because sustainability and buying less is in right now. You can't exactly sell if the previous gens clothes are being handed down or continued to be worn. Things like Chanel Wallet On Chain and Boy/Flap are being called passe apparently, but I have yet to hear it from a Gen Z representative/any Zoomer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 05:11 PM
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absolutely agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:36 PM
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his wife might have been an accomplice :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 03:58 PM
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"She posts in a community focused on bettering herself, identifying abusers and how to help fellow women... what a inconvenient woman!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 01:09 PM
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Literally knew an "ephebophile" who thought 14 year olds can consent to sex with 33 year olds. He was a "false rape accusation" advocate, so you know. You are absolutely right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 12:36 PM
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‘women’s inability to pAiR bOnD’ with cheating scrotes who act fake wholesome. THIS. Men will literally be professional PUA's like Roosh of Return of Kings, where he detailed how to approach and groom barely legal girls (which pedophiles just loved because the guide worked best on kids) but now that piece of shit turned around said "oh now I wanna be traditional and have a wife and settle down with my virgin wife" despite the fact that he not only partook in a culture of gaslighting and abusing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:01 AM
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I don't bodyshame women, but men? They can go fuck themselves with unsolicited comments towards children and literally exacerbating eating disorders in girls with their depictions in media, power they hold in fashion and the education/job opportunities they withhold from women they find unattractive. Look up "lookism", men do it all the time towards women to the point its normal and expected to be treated like subhuman for not dressing up for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:50 AM
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hey consider (elegant gothic) lolita. It's fully covered, frilly and very feminine. I feel unsafe being feminine but I collect dresses because of how safe and valid I feel when I put them on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:17 AM
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I think that was a rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:21 AM
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Growing up I was encouraged to have male friends, and the male friends discouraged female friendship while calling me a slut for having multiple male friends. I now understand that the reason men assume women who have female friends is because men know about the friend-baiting. They know that the male friends are likely waiting for you until you are vulnerable with your walls down to con you into sex or an abusive relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:02 PM
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it's literally a powerplay/dominance thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:41 PM
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But in a month he will give you shit for celebrating women's day and not men's day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:23 AM
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I would like to schedule an appointment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:11 PM
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Well Tumblr is still a US company, you could report it to the fbi for hosting unconsenting nudes of yourself that are not age verified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:34 PM
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noooo get an attorney and sue his ass in civil court then in criminal. He should be in jail
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:32 PM
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1000% - identity theft, defamation and revenge porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:31 PM
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I hope you contacted the police and wrote a report on the incident. Shit's not okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:30 PM
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Also the whole height thing's weird af. On average most men are taller than most women so unless as a male you are an outlier there is no reason to be upset at the preference. It's like saying "I prefer guys with jobs" I take it back, not wanting to date a hobo means you are a gold digger, women despite wanting statistically average people are shallow but men with impossible to achieve naturally ideals just have preferences
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:51 PM
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I know a lot of alt-right white guys would worship Asian and Indian girls, despite being racist and actively thinking they are lesser but wanted to have serious relationships with Asian and Brown women because they felt that woc families would keep the woc wife "in check" and make her worship him. Leveraging shame was a common scene from what I saw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:57 PM
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Not even that, but men often only value relationships that come at a high price, the higher the maintenance the more it will sting him if you decide to leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 12:42 AM
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It's a way to fein emotional closeness. A lot of times, what they say is pure lying, men just want to capitalize on good nature and kindness. It's why they don't share with each other their traumas, they know it's a big ask to unload to another person all they're dealing with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 10:10 PM
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Notice, if a woman is in danger her screaming is hysterical. If a man just wants to scream at his video game its fine and requests for silence is met with accusations of overreaction on the woman's part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 09:56 PM
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Nah because that stuff wasn't exploiting minors and barely legal girls. That's why its marketed as lame now (even though planking was REALLY creative and was wayy harder than it looked)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 04:54 AM
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I meant more so "so why are you single? Did you have any long term relationships?" "how long" "how many"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:17 AM
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great point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 02:54 AM
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I feel like the FBI should know about this, not the police. This is serial killer vibes af. Remember: calling someone the N-word is police matter KKK: dealt with by the FBI
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 02:49 AM
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An easy man is a diseased man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 02:17 AM
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Do not entertain ex talk So how do I answer questions on past relationships on a first date?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:54 AM
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Absolutely this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:50 AM
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In the words of Megan Thee Stallion "He already made his mind up 'fore he came". He intentionally did actions that would hurt his gf. You just let her know, you didn't get into a committed, exclusive relationship with her. He did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:02 AM
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As a Tatar mix, I know this. Doesn't mean that the woman in the video is Russian just because she has good diction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 11:43 PM
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What you hear is just good diction, that is common in many people who speak multiple languages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 09:32 PM
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Because they are talking Korean in the background and her face shape is Korean? A "Russian accent" is usually not even Russian. And I feel like as a Russian I should know and identify accents of other Russians speaking English.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 09:30 PM
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Look at what area you live in. You may go to a place with a better school than your cousins. Consider offering her to live with you for a bit and explain that the schools are better or more hands-on or some extra curricular is better in your area and offer her parents to let her live with you. If they ask why say you two have a bond or you trust her enough to behave well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:42 PM
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Same reason guys have "Yellow Fever" towards Asian women - they think they can get a HVW at the price of being white or being a citizen of a Western country. "Are you exploitable?" is what they're actually asking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:35 PM
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They're Korean not Russian
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:33 PM
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Whenever I hear "Women lie about rape" I think of this image. When MGTOW's talk about "men get raped too" I think of this image and how about who created this policy, what experiences of the creator built up to it and how they felt putting it up. It really helps put things into perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 11:12 AM
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I used to work in a cafe where I got asked to do free labour. It's not on my resume. Why does work need to be on a resume that can give a poor impression need to be disclosed or else its shamed you dont put it there? You don't put "worked at McDonalds in high school" when applying for a financial analyst job, you indicate *relevant* work experience(s) and education.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 10:53 AM
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Fun fact: she's Canadian and hate speech is a federal crime. Do with that what you will
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 10:35 PM
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"I feel safer when my girl is in heels. I can definitely run..." what faster? Faster than the woman you are with?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 10:10 PM
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They leverage their position of power. Doctors love denying medical services because they can, pastors love judging their "sheep" and lawyers, well, you know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 07:33 PM
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Men love exploiting kindness, especially with how women are pro-mental health and "opening up"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 05:35 AM
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Get her a Christmas gift of NLP to a therapist that deals with Cluster B issues. Explain to the mother you've been having great strides with NLP and you want her daughter to try it to improve self control/grades (if the mom has complained about it) or because you see that ___ has plenty of potential and you want her to self actualize through NLP. If you have black family members or one of the girls is a poc, you can even give it with words of a belated kawanzaa present since its customary form w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:58 AM
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If you know their school you could contact their teachers or principal with a tip of oddly inappropriate behaviour which was triggered after one of the children in the family was given porn by an unknown source. You can mention how the girl has become more violent towards the brother that has access to inappropriate materials, you could also ask for a day off with the cousins and see if they can talk to a psychiatrist or doctor for an assessment. Maybe a social worker would know better but these…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 01:42 AM
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"How dare you not want to date me! You're a gold digger for thinking I need to have a job that supports me! Women are vain and materialistic!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 01:20 AM
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She never apologized. She was a woman hater her whole life. "I should be your gf" song was about a girl being raised in a more strict home and getting with a guy and here comes April The Bully, showing how punk it is to hurt a girl in your way. She never denounced her Sk8r boy song or any other of her discography. She made bank off of teaching girls much younger than her to be bullies and pickmes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:41 AM
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Isn't that what happened to that one nurse? It was published by the NewYorkPost
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 01:41 AM
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Happened to me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 01:40 AM
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absolutely, especially "traditional" Catholics. They fetishize rape happening to girls that they find hot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 06:22 PM
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Ugly, broke scrotes want to have the same opportunities to drug and rape girls as "chads" and that is literally all mens rights boils down to. Sexual discrimination and "How Dare You Hold Me Accountable?!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 06:21 PM
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Women need to stop pity fucking and pity praise posting dad bods. It's just pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:14 AM
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This is important information, thank you for passing this over! I had no idea tbh, but I do want to inform other ladies on the same topic: if you're a crafter be careful of silk dyes, epoxy, resin and vinyl. Cricut Tees are cute and all, and so are vinyl decorative boards but the material is very toxic and none of the listed should be near food nor, when working with, breathed in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:09 AM
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literally this, who was he stringing along this whole time? Who was his forever gf? Did he spin plates or something? Especially trad men over 30, if you were trad you'd be married right now not be calling 25 year olds roasties
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:04 AM
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I didn't Coach made such pretty watches <3 it looks so feminine on your wrist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:38 AM
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Bless <3 its so gorgeous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:05 AM
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YES!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 04:46 AM
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What makes her a trash bag? Having a man that acts like a child?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 01:54 AM
23

Pickmes just adore Steve Harvey, I genuinely wish Mary gets her investment back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 01:32 AM
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And may he not get near the poor uneducated women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 05:23 AM
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Reminds me of how Lucas Werner would go aroud on fb and online telling women and girls that they are aging and his telomeres are amazing. I think at one point a male biologist had to say something on Lucas' twitter because of how prolific his presence was on the platform at some point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 07:52 PM
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Can we please report this dude to tinder? This shit is not okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 05:20 PM
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Seriously I'd appeal the decision
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 05:20 PM
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Men are so cruel to women that dont live up to societal expectations and beauty standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 05:45 AM
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Some men will literally just date women, get them pregnant and dump them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 09:23 PM
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If there are any dating sites where you can report this on, let me know because damn this is not acceptable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 09:18 PM
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literally this, I was conditioned since very very early childhood that I will be a wife and mother and I sometimes wonder why I'd want to be one. Why do I have to sacrifice the development of a personality to be an ideal woman for some dude that eats a $20 dinner in front of me, judging whether I am good enough for him? Why can't I be with a woman who understands me and genuinely loves me as a person? No man wants a sick wife, Chubby Lovie, get something warmer on. I'm expected to dress warmer f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:12 AM
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This sub inspired me to reach out to my college about an abuser they employ. Thank you, I felt like I was abused as a pickme and deserved it, but I recognize now that I have an opportunity to do better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:55 AM
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I keep getting these stupid r/tinder pickup lines and they are so pathetic and cringe, every time. Why bother matching? You have nothing written in your profile and have nothing to contribute other than some lame pun that everyone has heard in elementary school. I'm actually considering just tagging the reddit in the messages because they are so boring and lame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 06:33 PM
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The infantilizing thing is the worst. For some reason the person the man traumatizes must act as the bigger person, the adult, but hold no responsibility. Even when a child is raped, pickmes and NVMs defend the rapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 06:22 PM
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jesus christ, I feel so bad for her, she had to do sex work for him... I wonder if her ex ever considered opening his asshole up for rent to be paid. No? It's degrading? Weird, who knew!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 06:14 PM
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If he is a manchild, making him develop will only turn him in a man-teenager, not an actual man or adult. Kick him out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 06:09 PM
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perfect word, accomplices! When my friend set me up with an abusive guy that threatened I wouldn't get hired in an area I was trying to move to, he felt he was innocent and blameless to the actions of the man he introduced me to. No, dude, you were the one who got him into my life, you're partially responsible. Worst of all when I spoke to him he thought that I was overreacting to his friend being shitty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 06:02 PM
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This is why I purge from my life any pro-lifers: they are incentivized to defend baby trapping women into staying with abusive men. And abusive men absolutely take advantage of the idea of pro-life and "you don't want to murder a child do you??". If you finish in someone who doesn't want a child, it was you who did the abortion, not the woman. The woman just dealt with the problem, it was predictable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:57 PM
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It's so true, period dramas have at least the possibility of developing your interest in history which is abundant, but the shows men watch? Marvel and DC universe shows where distinct good and bad guys exist without nuance, it's literally for children, but no one questions it. Really, every time a man makes fun of female-targeted media we should ask - well what do you watch?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:52 PM
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Wow, its messed up how our experiences are so universal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:47 AM
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Is love to him allowing his partner allowing him to be sexually deceptive?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:43 AM
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You are allowed to leave, even if you feel like you owe him the chance to be better. If he wanted to be a good person he would choose to be one, but if instead of hearing "when you ______it hurt(s) me" as a chance to be better and apologize, and instead he shuts you down with emotional remarks you may want to find an exit strategy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:41 AM
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I never considered trying to be more madeup before, I always felt guilty for this before but this makes a lot of sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:03 PM
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This is small claims court worthy almost... damn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 08:52 PM
13

They just want two women on their junk at the same time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:19 PM
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If his cat is fat that's a reflection on him!! He's the guardian of the cat, not you, you saying the cat is a chonk means that the cat needs to be eating less
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 06:07 AM
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Women make the financial decisions in this country. Call the local companies you buy from regularly or speak to your bank about its collab with Verge. Explain you're considering moving if it allows Verge as a partner or service
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:29 AM
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They're right, you can't escape cooking, but its just healthy normal food, like salad or a simple jarred pasta sauce and macaroni. That's not what's implied by "do you know how to cook" though, every time, means "cook for me, I will judge you for it, judge your choice of ingredients/method, give 'concrit' and then will tell you how it compares to professionals who made the same dish"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:15 AM
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when I had a NVM ex, he asked me to put nudes as private for him on fb (under custom settings) fb, always gave me notices of "hey are you okay? Are you consenting to these pics?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 03:07 AM
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How much of that breast cancer screening was initially funded for women? How many women supported women in getting mastectomies even after their partners said they'd be ugly without a breast or two? How much was raised by fundraising efforts of women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:32 PM
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THIS! In my pick me days I literally did compliment men, and it did not end well for me. Compliments are a way for men not to gain self esteem or feel better about themselves, its a form of justification for any harassment they can bestow upon you later on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:24 PM
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Can we discuss how men will use a diagnosis to be creepy though? I've been molested so many times by aspies and autistic guys when I was a teenager/early college days because even when a man is mentally ill or with a learning disability, his actions are excused. Without a diagnosis, he's untreated and undiagnosed, after diagnosis it's "well we can't socially isolate him" even if he grabs at breasts at 30 years old knowing full well it makes the girls he does it to uncomfortable. Women always hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:18 PM
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Most women that I know said their first bf pressured them into sex though, that might be why fathers are so aggressive towards the idea of their daughters dating. They know their child will be pressured into doing stuff they don't want to, so thats why they report their bfs. Men know what men do to women and girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 02:17 PM
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This is just so infuriating, what makes him think she is still a resource after he used her like that? So disrespectful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 06:37 PM
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"IS SHE PURE" Ma'am is your son pure? Also I bet her experiences were unwanted and her "sexual history" amounts to being coerced into sex acts when she was younger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:39 PM
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Literally this! My friend and roommate wanted me to 'prove' to him that I wasn't lying about getting sexually harassed at an airbnb by the host... then every time I'd tell him more messed up stuff he'd say its not so bad. Men are incentivized to gaslight women into thinking their experiences and assaults "arent as bad as they think"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 10:40 PM
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1000% he is, I wish there was a way to warn her or report his behaviour
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 09:32 PM
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ex-pickme who sent selfies on demand... you can escape only if you dont give too much of a dossier and they dont have too much they can use against you (otherwise you solidify even more as a pickme)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:42 PM
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But let that uncle have been gay and suddenly they know how to kick somebody out of the family it's because gay men are often attracted to twinks which kind of look underage, so traditionally it was done so that the boys in the family don't get targeted by potential predators. Actual predators are treated better than potential predators essentially because of the sex of the victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:19 PM
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when men want something their SO achieved it's "earned" and "deserved" but when women ask a man if he has a job, they're a gold digger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:44 PM
1

Why would a rich man be calling himself rich? A rich man will consider a loan of 6 million "small". 7 figures is not something actually rich people who actually earn that much without debt would brag about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 04:56 PM
8

I indicate I dont do drugs on mine, and men always have an issue with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:58 AM
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"I give her plenty of foreplay!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:19 AM
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I want to see a study on "women who can't orgasm" and their ability to orgasm on their own or with a woman. Notice how lesbians never seem to complain about their partner not being able to orgasm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 07:22 PM
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oh my God, 7 years of free sex, for what? For who? For a disrespectful male who can't even keep his side of being sexually exclusive with one another??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:39 PM
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Some pickme out there is commenting how beautiful the ring is and that she would have loved even "a ringpop ring". The problem isn't how expensive the ring is, it's about how much respect he gives you. Giving a plastic doodle pen ring is disrespectful and shows he did not consider you as a long term partner wearing this ring long term. Walmart has rings for 20-30 bucks that do not look horrible but they are simple, metal and are serious/timeless. Wanting respect and not seeing something you wear…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:12 PM
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This subreddit: :advocate against child grooming: :works hard on helping women establish boundaries: :warn each other of toxic and manipulative behaviour: :supports women in transitionary phases: Reddit: THOSE HARLOTS!!! THEY REFUSE TO BE OUR BANG MAIDS AND THERAPISTS!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 06:07 PM
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Not to mention all the memes about uppity nurses and women who have high schools diplomas being lesser than men who don't even have a GED. Education, jobs and social belonging groups all are "arbitrary boxes" that OOP mentioned apply to women much more often than men, only difference is men aren't getting strange unwanted comments whether "flat is justice" or that their legs are too bony or thicc. Men only deal with part of what women deal with, and the "height discrimination" that men often whi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 10:19 PM
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I was "trad" before, because as a kid on fb I got groomed into it by older men. I was molested, sexually assaulted and humiliated by various men on the alt right and guess what? Every time I went to those men who introduced me to those who would abuse me, I would be the one to shoulder the blame or they'd claim I should have stood up for myself or that "well that's just how Scott is, Chubby-Lovie, at least he wants a family! You should have probably shut up when he asked you to, did you disobey …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 10:07 PM
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Friends was a show that propogated so many toxic stereotypes, mentalities and ideas. From the friendzone, to normalizing EDs and just accepting creepy or obnoxious behaviors... it's become a red flag for me if someone recently got into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:32 PM
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