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How long does it take(in days/weeks) to go from first date to sex?
/r/seduction25/07/26 02:06 AM
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Unfortunately the reality is that most need to do this. Your social circle dating options will probably be less than 5 people, and the chances they are someone highly compatible with you are low. Guys need to make an active effort to be successful in dating. If you do nothing, you’ll get nothing. I wish it wasn’t like this, but that’s the truth.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 01:43 PM
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Just the way the world works.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 01:39 PM
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Men don’t have the opportunity that women do get to know someone like that. If you have to go through 100+ men to find the “Right” one, there’s something wrong with you. Also a simple coffee date doesn’t need to be a huge time suck, it’s a matter of getting to know each other feel each other out. You won’t find everything on the first date, but you’ll get a decent idea. The best part about higher volume is being able to find someone who is compatible. Focusing on one person who is semi compatibl…
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 01:38 PM
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Even if cold approach has a lower success rate, it makes up for it in the volume you can do with it. The slow natural way can take weeks or even months just for a rejection. Cold approach lets you do tens even hundreds in a single day.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 07:47 AM
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If you don’t take action tho, you won’t get results. You don’t just wait around for dates to be handed to you. If you’re a guy, you won’t get any results without conscious effort, unless you’re top 0.1% in looks.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 07:44 AM
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Most people work in corporate America.
/r/BlackPillScience12/07/26 10:34 AM
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Elaborate
/r/seduction01/07/26 11:21 AM
6

You forget the only thing that matters: physical attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:54 AM
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Only a tiny microscopic amount of inexperienced men are like that. They’re just a vocal minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:52 AM
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Where does one find a local munch?
/r/seduction19/06/26 08:05 PM
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Are they friendly to single guys tho? Most sex communities don’t really seem inviting of single guys tho and only seem to let couples and girls in(for in person places at least)
/r/seduction19/06/26 11:21 AM
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Elaborate
/r/seduction19/06/26 06:32 AM
3

Big facts. People love to point any exception, but they’re an EXCEPTION
/r/seduction14/06/26 10:45 PM
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I partially agree. Casual sex is a lot more genuine and way less likely to be transactional/duty compared to a relationship. The problem I think a lot of guys suffer from is that many have never felt like what it's like to be a with a woman who genuinely finds you attractive. A lot of guys who've only had sex from relationships haven't felt that true raw sexual desire that comes from casual sex. Casual sex I think shows how little they need to do if the woman actually finds them attractive. A lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:40 PM
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You’re also forgetting that confidence also only works if you’re attractive too. An ugly person trying to be confident comes off as annoying. Confidence can’t make up for ugliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:09 AM
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I will never understand why so many people don't do this. It's the most optimal way to have a fulfilling sex life. Most guys probably have never had sex with a woman who actually was horny and wanted to have sex with them. They don't understand that if a woman is horny for you and wants to genuinely have sex with you, she'll make it easy and you won't have to do any excess bs or question yourself over the small things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:03 PM
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OP is incapable of understanding that women want and enjoy sex too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:58 PM
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Oh yeah I remember you from many other posts. You're the misandrist woman who is incapable of comprehending that women want and enjoy sex. You must live a sad life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:57 PM
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You don't need friends either, but no one is telling anyone to not make friends and avoid friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:52 PM
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Bro your entire comment is cope. Reddit is the least reliable social media site if you want a general public opinion. The average redditor is far detached from normie interests. Reddit is not real life. Reddit does have a lot of biases you need to look out for like the site being very far left leaning and atheist, unlike in real life. Honestly Facebook and Instagram would be better options at looking what normies are thinking than this site by a longshot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 12:17 AM
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even if he has a huge penis, it wouldn't change much, since he'll rarely even get the opportunity to use it All it takes is one girl to give him a try and spread the word to get others interested.
/r/BlackPillScience31/05/26 12:06 AM
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Money attraction isn’t genuine tho
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 11:20 AM
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But if you can’t land the interview you’ll never get the job
/r/seduction11/05/26 03:42 PM
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My strategy is to pay by default but if she insists on splitting I won’t stop. Usually an offer to split is a good sign there’s high attraction from her. It can be used as a test. I personally don’t want to see a woman again if she doesn’t offer to split.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:06 PM
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You’re a little wrong. You are right that being attractive is way more important than game, but saying it has no effect is dumb. Game helps give a small but negligible boost. Most of the time it won’t be the difference maker but on some rare occasions it might.
/r/seduction26/04/26 01:57 PM
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Is being straight-forward and honest a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:12 AM
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Not really, improve your looks and don't be too autistic. If a girl wants to spend time with you, she won't make it difficult. You won't have to jump through many hoops with a girl who's open to dating you. If you have to go above and beyond, the date was already DOA.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 01:45 AM
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Just do cheap dates like coffee or free ones. Also if a girl actually finds you attractive she won't mind paying for her own stuff. If you're putting out a lot with not much response, she doesn't find you attractive and nothing can change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 01:30 AM
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Fr, why are people acting like honesty and directness is sex suicide.
/r/seduction26/02/26 10:52 AM
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Why this post against being honest? If a girl is attracted to you, what you do or say won’t really matter unless it’s extreme.
/r/seduction18/02/26 01:05 PM
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Amazing comment! I agree with pretty much everything, especially how you don't want sex to be transactional or be used as a tool in a power dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:44 PM
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Some people say sex is more akin to education and healthcare, as in a thing required for a healthy mental and physical sense of wellbeing. Honestly a pretty good way of putting it. Like when I think of biological needs I think of stuff you literally need to live will die without like food, water, and shelter. Technically you don’t need sex to live, but your life just feels so much better with it and you’ll never go back.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:43 PM
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It's an issue at every income level. You should pay for anything in the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 12:11 AM
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You better not be a broke struggling woman then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 07:24 PM
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Money should be for yourself and not women. If women is only interested in you for your money, prepare to get cheated by a broke attractive guy. You’re just setting yourself up to be a betabux. Money doesn’t create genuine sexual desire like looks do. I want to make six figures so I can live comfortably not to impress women. The money can also help with improving my looks like getting products and cosmetic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:54 AM
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if you’re not fucking to procreate, what use is sex? Intimacy, pleasure, bonding with your partner, wanting each other to feel good? You clearly have never enjoyed sex and can’t speak on the issue. It’s sad you’ve never enjoyed sex and push that view on everyone you meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:49 AM
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Is any amount of communication gonna fix drastically different libidos or get someone who has no interest in sex to start being interested in sex again?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 11:59 PM
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Friends are not a need, but no one is telling guys that wanting friends is a bad thing and that not having friends is perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 11:56 PM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:29 AM
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What country?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:50 AM
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I don’t get why people try to gaslight and call the other person broke for not wanting to pay. Imo it’s not about being broke but rather seeing if there’s mutual interest. If you paying for a date(especially a cheap one like coffee) is a prerequisite for her dating you, she was never interested in the first place. If a woman actually finds you attractive and wants to spend time with you, she’ll have no qualms paying for her own stuff on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:26 PM
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You don’t need to pay for their share of the date. Just your self.
/r/seduction29/12/25 04:00 PM
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I’d say it’s better this way. Looks create genuine desire, money doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:41 PM
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You act like women are incapable of wanting and enjoying sex. Look honey just because you’re incapable doesn’t mean all women are. In fact most are capable of enjoying and wanting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:48 AM
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lmao i love this analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 08:35 PM
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If my partner isn't sexually attracted to me, why the fuck are we in a romantic relationship then? I feel like so many people don't get this and idk why.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 07:46 PM
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My comment is quite the opposite, I don't want sex to be seen as a reward or something that can be used to incentivize desired behavior. I just want it to be a genuine activity we both enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 07:42 PM
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Nah you’re wrong. Most guys who say that, want sex because a woman wants sex with them not because it’s a gateway to their financial assets. They want that raw genuine lust that no amount of money will ever give. They don’t want that “duty sex” that women treat as a chore that needs to be checked off. Like me personally, I want a girl to suck my cock because she actually wants to suck my cock. Not because it secures access to my assets or because it’s a “duty” that needs to be checked off for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:11 PM
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Money doesn't create genuine sexual attraction. You're just setting yourself up to be used.
/r/seduction16/12/25 03:36 AM
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It's not the sex, but just that feeling of knowing that I'm having sex with someone who wants to have sex with me. No porn, sex dolls, etc will ever give that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 11:53 PM
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Shouldn’t be spending money period on her. If she actually finds you attractive she’ll pay her own fair share without issue.
/r/seduction22/11/25 03:05 PM
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I think it’s more that they’re the most vocal
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 02:13 PM
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Sex is way more than 1% of a relationship. You don’t even have a relationship without it. Lackluster sex is a legitimate reason to end a relationship and/or avoid dating someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 12:38 PM
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If the guy judges the girl for having sex very early then the girl simply should not see that guy anymore and waste time trying to cater to what he likes. You shouldn’t have to play any strategic games in dating to get what you want. If you have to play these types of games with a person, don’t bother wasting your time on them and move on, there are plenty more people who don’t care.
/r/seduction09/11/25 02:15 PM
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Why would you want to solve it with money though? Virgin men who are hurt and feel undesired know that paying for it isn't worth it. It's not just the sex they want, it's the feeling of knowing that someone wants to have sex with them that matters more. Why pay to have sex with someone who doesn't want to have sex with you when everyone else is having sex for free with people who want to have sex with them? See the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:14 PM
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It is more validating. Looks create actual genuine sexual desire. There is way less chance of a bad motive behind it. Compare that to money, attracting with money is terrible and is more prone to manipulation. Money does not create genuine sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:17 PM
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Just for yourself obviously. The goal is to spend time not money.
/r/seduction26/08/25 02:45 PM
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When you ask your friends to hang out, do you pay for all their stuff to? Do you want to build up an expectation that you'll pay for all your friends' stuff? Do want friendships that rely on you spending money on your friends?
/r/seduction26/08/25 01:16 PM
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Just do a cheap coffee where you each buy your own stuff. If a woman actually likes you and is attracted to you, it doesn’t matter if you spend money on her or not. If spending money on her is a pre-condition for attraction, she never cared in the first place. It doesn’t what you say or do if she actually likes you, she’ll just be happy that you showed up.
/r/seduction26/08/25 11:38 AM
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Exactly. Leading with your wallet isn’t a good idea and doesn’t build genuine attraction.
/r/seduction26/08/25 11:35 AM
1

If they’re both the small DiGornio frozen personal pizzas yeah.
/r/seduction26/08/25 11:34 AM
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I find it so funny that prostitution is sold as a way for lonely virgin guys to have sex when statistically, it’s mostly older, married, well-off men that buy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:50 AM
2

Why would a woman reject a man for having a skincare routine and taking care of himself? Next you’re gonna tell me that women are gonna reject men who go to the gym and eat healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:51 AM
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It’s not about being broke. It’s about finding someone who is genuine. As a guy I’ve already shown interest by asking the girl out and setting up the date and showing up. The girl not even wanting to pay $5 for a coffee screams broke even more and shows she was never interested in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:40 AM
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Why would you pay for your friends’ stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:30 AM
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I've never seen an actual rich person by flashy designer brands like LV/Gucci. Most people buying that shit are just trying to give the false perception of richness. Rich people by high-quality clothes with no visible branding that'll last a lifetime like Loro Piana or Brunello Cucinelli. Also if you actually like the designs of brands like LV or Gucci, just find a fake from a weidan or yupoo seller and do a haul. You can get near 1:1 reps of this shit for like only 5% of the cost. But even then…
/r/seduction05/07/25 01:32 PM
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I agree that money gives you access to more opportunities but you don’t need branded clothes like Gucci or Versace. If anything these give off a trashy ghetto vibe. Rich people don’t buy flashy designer brands, only broke people in credit card debt do. Just buy a nice variety of solid color Amazon Essentials and you’ll have a nice wardrobe. If you really want designer, just get reps for super cheap. But the thing is money doesn’t create sexual attraction or arousal. All it does is put you in the…
/r/seduction05/07/25 07:37 AM
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If you want marriage(bad deal btw) then money matters. If you want real authentic sexual attraction, it doesn’t matter.
/r/seduction05/07/25 06:52 AM
1

Money should be for yourself only. Attracting women with money is the worst way to attract them. Wouldn’t you feel used and objectified from your wallet? Also money doesn’t create arousal or authentic sexual attraction which is the most important. Also it’s 2025 women should have jobs and be making their own money.
/r/seduction05/07/25 06:51 AM
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“Look at what they DO, not what they say” doesn’t just apply to women, it should be universally applied to everyone you meet, especially your boss and strangers. Never take someone’s word at face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:30 PM
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I personally would only take a phone number since it’s a lot more personal and if they are willing to give it, it shows more investment. Snap and instagram I would never. Also I fucking hate SnapChat for deleting messages really fast. Makes it hard to arrange anything.
/r/seduction28/03/25 12:47 PM
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OP is deaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 12:59 PM
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No it’s not lmao. I’d rather see the harsh truth than a nice lie. Honesty is the way to go, even if someone gets a little hurt. It saves a lot of time and confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 12:57 PM
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If I ever find myself in a “sex is off the table” conversation. I’m definitely responding with this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:10 AM
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When you invite your friends out do you pay for their shit? No? So why pay for her? Both of you are taking time out of your day for this. Is her time really more valuable than yours?
/r/seduction26/12/24 12:27 PM
1

This guy gets it
/r/seduction26/12/24 09:03 AM
1

Ever heard of just having sex for fun? Not for reproducing or using it as a manipulation technique to gain something valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:40 PM
1

Just don’t get involved with women who gold dig.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:12 PM
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Looks are the only thing you listed that creates genuine attraction imo. No amount of money can build genuine sexual attraction. If a woman only pays attention to you because of money, she was never worth it in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:02 PM
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But if the sex is transactional, what’s the point. The women aren’t having because they want to, but so they can gain something out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:50 PM
0

I don’t really get passport bros. Who’s to say the women in these lower-cost countries aren’t just gold digging off of them? If anything they have much more incentive to do so since it would give them great economic mobility.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:20 PM
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Why does everyone have to sell a course/coaching program
/r/seduction01/08/24 12:35 AM
1

You cab always make a bot that autoswipes in python like I did. I have it left swipe 1/7 profiles just so it doesnt look like a bot. I also use ChatGPT api to auto message all my matches. I take in the match's name and bio and have ChatGPT make a greeting based on that and it auto sends it.
/r/seduction15/07/24 12:18 PM
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Send video?
/r/seduction25/04/24 07:54 PM
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