Chuckaloft Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Decision time		Chuckaloft	/r/askMRP	12/12/17 03:22 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Decision time Hell yeah it is! I see so much upside to staying together. The reality is the upside was all created by me. I can build it again. I’ve just lost time.	/r/askMRP	12/12/17 08:36 PM
1	Decision time Oh shit!	/r/askMRP	12/12/17 08:14 PM
2	Decision time Internet points don’t matter to me. Be salty. Downvote away.	/r/askMRP	12/12/17 07:25 PM
2	Decision time Thanks! I’m working on a larger male friend group, but it’s tough to find like minded male friends. I have a few, but none that share the rp mindset. I can lean on them, but they won’t help my frame. I won’t be completely alone. I have a couple of house parties I can attend Thanks for reminding me to care for myself. I may be underestimating the weight of this decision over the holidays. I have work to do.	/r/askMRP	12/12/17 07:23 PM
0	Decision time We actually talk about this kind of stuff I know what her family knows and she knows what I talk about with mine. Her mom and sister know we have problems and are close to divorce. The problem is there isn’t a final decision either way. We haven’t filed. Neither of us are making that move immediately. It will likely be amicable and uncontested if it does happen. Me not going to Christmas is a clear and undeniable signal that I’m done. She’s backing away from that. She doesn’t want it to be final…	/r/askMRP	12/12/17 05:24 PM
1	Decision time I’m clarifying not arguing. His point is 100% valid. Seeing my bullshit in print and trying to defend it is the reason I made this post. I am wrestling with a final decision. Fighting against my inclination to make her happy. Choking on the pill a bit.	/r/askMRP	12/12/17 05:18 PM
1	Decision time I’m not having sex with her because if she did get pregnant the the whole situation gets worse. My kid or someone else’s, I don’t even want a .001% chance that I end up a cuck.	/r/askMRP	12/12/17 04:56 PM
8	Decision time Ouch. Seeing my read of it come from someone else makes it seriously real.	/r/askMRP	12/12/17 04:35 PM
2	Decision time I prefer to choke folks.	/r/askMRP	12/12/17 04:24 PM
0	Decision time It hasn’t always been this way. There was a time when she was a good partner. You’re right, the writing is on the wall.	/r/askMRP	12/12/17 04:24 PM
-2	Decision time Honestly I would rather not get divorced. Our combined income affords us a nice lifestyle. We don’t have kids and we are in our 40s. We are nearly debt free. We are set up to have a nice second half of life. I don’t want to end up raising some other assholes kids. On the other hand. I don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with me. I can’t make her want to be here, so I have to let her go.	/r/askMRP	12/12/17 04:22 PM
-4	Decision time Sex is done without a solid commitment from her.	/r/askMRP	12/12/17 04:16 PM
2	Decision time She folds like a cheap lawn chair under any pressure. I’ve been in personal therapy for 5+ years because of some family stuff. She says I am too far ahead of her in personal development to catch up. If work goes bad she stops trying. Her last major job she stopped working entirely. She says she wants to get healthier and then sleeps through her exercise classes. No radical changes, but lots of starts and failure. It feels like she’s just begging to be told what to do, but she won’t listen to me …	/r/askMRP	12/12/17 04:14 PM