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I approach the girl, talk to her, even go for a number close, but then soon after I notice that these girls are getting into relationships with guys they met through their social circles from college or high school and work. You do well to get the number, but your game after that is not on point. It can't be a coincidence that these girls you get numbers from get into relationships. Even if a girl is "on the go" with a dude and she finds you more interesting then she'd go for you instead no doub…
/r/seduction20/10/15 10:39 PM
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The universal rule of pickup is: Always assume attraction. I don't have time to see if they are flirting, so I always flirt first if it's a girl I want. If I don't want her then I don't need to know if she's flirting right? If she's still visibly comfortable, it means that they're ATLEAST ok with you flirting. So I escslate, read a guide about Kino if you don't know how. From there, it's experience to know how fast and how they are handling it. Remember eye contact. If you see her eyes going to …
/r/seduction13/07/15 01:27 PM
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go through the pain and embarrassment That's the secret, set the seduction aside. Think about how many people are in the world. Think about youtube videos where people are embarrassed. When's the last time you thought about those people? Do you remember the face? The obvious answer is no. No one cares, remember that time you embarrassed yourself in elementary school, perhaps people mocked you for it, but the embarrassment faded right? That's because no one cares, all the billions of people in th…
/r/seduction02/02/15 05:38 PM
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Well the guarentee of more oppurtunities is a false safety, gamblers loose by the sense "I have another chance, even though the odds are stacked against me ." But knowing that the expected value is positive, the law of large numbers state says that eventually the mean will become the expexted value.
/r/seduction05/01/15 07:58 PM
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Not familiar with how many asians there are around where you live, but i'm sure you friends that have asian friends, just ask them to introduce. As an asian myself in a Western country, I have no problem getting into an asian circle if I wanted to, it's all choosing how to connect! See an asian girl at the bar? approach! Se a group of people with some asians in it? Approach and isolate, chances are high that one asian is friends with many more (how asians work). So anywhere in the world basicall…
/r/seduction20/12/14 11:28 PM
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Tell us a bit more about yourself, so perhaps we can give advice to where you should look that are relevant to what you like as well. If you are into the clubbing scene, I'm not sure of Toronto but else there are always these Asians night etc once every two month where I live and even though there are mainly asians, anyone is welcome. My uni also have asian language cafés once a week so If i wanted to find asian students at my uni, I could go take a look over there.
/r/seduction20/12/14 09:39 PM
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Check the local city subreddit if there are locals who are willing to meet up if you have an approaching anxiety!
/r/seduction22/10/14 06:47 PM
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Answer me this, when was the last time you judged a random couple on the street and thought about how embarrassing it and it sticked into your mind? probably 0. Thing is no one cares. I see a friend puking or is hardcore trying to hook up and fails miserably, sure we might laugh about it, but at the end of the day, no ones gonna have an intervention. No one cares. I'll give an example now, you come off as a person I wouldnt date (if I was a girl), and it might bother you, but in 5 minutes, i wou…
/r/seduction22/09/14 02:23 PM
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Holy hell, it seemed like at first she was going to rebound on you. However, she didn't, and I have to say, for a girl of her caliber she can get anyone she wants. This could mean that she is either playing hard to get or she just isn't that kind of girl that sleeps around alot. Anyways this means that she's pretty special. I obviously don't know too much about her after only so few details, but it seems like she's a girl that I'd go for the long term with. Another thing: If you are looking for …
/r/seduction28/07/14 11:37 PM
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What I like is how you managed to turn it around in such a short time, BIG PROPS TO THAT! Not many people can accomplish this. What I do want to put a big emphasis on though is not necessarily the kino, because you've already done that, but rather on the so called shit tests. If a conversation is boring, then you have no chance unless she's already really attracted to you. By stepping up the conversation and turning every word into a joke is the key here, it can display a lot of factors such as …
/r/seduction21/07/14 12:15 PM
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Man, will everyone stop having rules for everything? Go by the feel, if the girl keeps on answering several hours later then there's a problem, but you know, people do often get into situations where they don't check their phone for 5 hours, maybe because she got home really late and was still sleeping. I've been in situations where I don't check my phone and I consider myself as a very active phone user. Seriosuly man, you just met this girl, and you only give her 5 hours without knowing any ci…
/r/seduction19/07/14 06:47 PM
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Today there is no more 3 day rule. Back in the 90's it was common because people didn't text but called through phone and it was some what of a bigger deal than what it is today. The 3 day rule is for someone to not seem too needy, but nowadays as long as you don't jump to the phone for her it's fine. People tend to overthink this stuff. I agree with QuebecLibre about how she was just doing the same thing to you.I love your mindset, but if you are new, you should rationalize and evaluate a lot b…
/r/seduction09/07/14 04:11 PM
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Hey man how old are you? (If you are my age, we could be able to meet up in stockholm, go bars, drink and game etc) Anyways, the problem with swedish culture is the respect for personal place. You rarely see strangers talk (at all) and this might give you a better picture: http://i.imgur.com/MbUiWJs.jpg So naturally they are a lot more surprised when approached by strangers. There are two ways you can do this: find a group of guys who probably will meet girl friends later when they go out and jo…
/r/seduction08/07/14 10:29 AM
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Well, the main reason they assume it is because I have many attractive female friends on facebook and I get many likes from them for pictures and status updates. It isn't a coincedence that you have many attractive female friends. You screwed up with them like you said urself putting urself in the friendzone. One rule of thumb is that attractive people tend to have attractive friends. Right now you your self esteem is basically telling me "oh i'm not attractive, it's just a coincedence that i ha…
/r/seduction22/06/14 07:31 PM
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The fact that you said: "Ironically most people assume that I am very successful with women." Means that your friends know/assume that you can get those women out of your league as long as you have game. So work on your seduction. You have the basics down such as your "image" i believe.
/r/seduction22/06/14 06:06 PM
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Dude, gratz on the FR and I skimmed through the rest of the wall of text and seems like solid advice. Problem is that you write your stream of consciousness and I felt like I was reading Ulysses ;) But anyways good job and next time, incorporate the text into the field report. Such as "When we started talking, I had no problem talkin with the girl because I had worked my conversation skills etc. my tips are.... what I did in the specific situation was..." And so on, people have an easier time to…
/r/seduction26/05/14 08:23 PM
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so you have conversation problems, and you lack confidence. Both we can work on. I suggest you read the shit test guide and re evalue your short conversation you had. She said you look really out of your element, she is either a bitch making a remark about how awkward it is or trying to starting a conversation with you. It doesn't matter, you gave a beta answer by saying yeah i totally am. You could've either amplified her statement or you disagree and say simething more alpha like "actually, i'…
/r/seduction26/05/14 08:09 PM
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I strongly disagree. It's all about have fun and careless, if he likes to shuffle then sure. It will get him attention, which 99% of the strangers won't have, then it's up to the guy to build interest from the people he got attention from. I mean sure, if he wants to get chicks, don't shuffling the entire time, but like at a drop then it's good timing and when the "chrous" ends he stops shuffling and dances like a normal person, by then he will already have attention from people around him.
/r/seduction24/05/14 03:38 PM
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well she's comfortable talking to you about hooking up, sex and such(although ofc no talking about exes etc). Women are a lot more willing to do something if they feel like they can talk about it to you. However this doesn't mean she will want to do it with you, thats where attraction, kino etc comes into play. This is of course different for everyone. Something that happend to me once (NOTE: I SAID ONCE): There was a group of girls talking at a party, and I go introduce myself. They were talkin…
/r/seduction13/05/14 08:30 PM
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You are kinda right, I still care about the conversation, but I care more about opening her up and talk about something more sensitive. It applies when I've just met someone and intend to hook up. But other times, when I don't intend to hook up but just want a nice chat, then I won't be as aggresive and talk about stuff like music which is always fun.
/r/seduction13/05/14 06:24 PM
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The main reason why we have these conversations is to get a #, K-close etc. You just seem to have the confidence to skip a few steps! That is also another great quality! Good for you!
/r/seduction13/05/14 07:06 AM
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Actually there is no definite mindset, in the end it's all about witty and having a conversation where it's not too serious. So perhaps you can call it a "not-give-a-shit mindset". If you read the shit test guide then you know that all you do is agree and amplify on her statements. But when you stumble upon questions like "Where do you live, what do you do, where are you from" etc, you cannot agree and amplify, but instead you make up some answer that will catch her off guard such as "I live on …
/r/seduction13/05/14 07:04 AM
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I don't really have a good response to this. But i'm sure you have been in a situation where people have asked you eg. what do you do for a living? then use a line you've read, such as "I clone people". Force yourself to say it. Now congrats, you probably just made someone laugh a small bit or lightened the conversation even if it's literally straight from the textbook. Great, step 1 you made it. Then slowly improve from here. You have years ahead of you, day 1 you make one funny thing, day 2 yo…
/r/seduction12/05/14 08:13 PM
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Easylifee, if you want him to shut up, you're going have to say why d8_thc, if you want to go around calling people virgin, then leave this subreddit, our goal is to help people get laid. My opinion of first date sex is how good you're at getting it, and how strong she is at resenting you. If you know she's playing hard to get, then you should definitely get laid the first date if you play your cards right. If the kissing sucked from her part, and unless she's just bad then she's just being nice…
/r/seduction08/05/14 05:10 PM
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Ah I see, yeah you're right it might give them this impression, I should probably clarify more!
/r/seduction08/05/14 04:17 PM
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You are amazing and you're single. This guide didn't tell you to settle for just anything either. It tells the basics of where/how/when to look for people at ur caliber and what you should do to make them desire you! :) I think there's a slight misinterpretation that this is a guide for people just wanna sell as much to anyone, however like i said, you pick your SSSS. You choose if you want to settle for the classier crowd, the nerdy crowd or the victorias secret crowd etc. If you don't think an…
/r/seduction07/05/14 05:26 PM
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Well can you explain on why it might be pathetic? I'm interested. Also ofc someone will want walk up to a girl and say, "Hey, I'm rich....." but again, that's not how I explained you should be selling yourself. If you cold sell someone a product, saying "Hey, this product is great look at everything it can do" isn't going to sell. But getting them to notice the product and using AIDA model might. I can definitely understand where you're coming from though. My point was not to yank the tail of a …
/r/seduction07/05/14 05:21 PM
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I did put ABC into my Famous Last words section!
/r/seduction07/05/14 05:15 PM
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Man, for your first field report/experiment. You did everything perfect. Although except that you didn't get an outright rejection from the HB6, you just got cockblocked by the boyfriend, that's no rejection ;) But still, one of the most amazing transformations in such a short time! I look up to you now!
/r/seduction06/05/14 08:48 PM
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