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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:44 AM
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I'm not going to explain anything. Are you a ten year old with ADHD or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:27 AM
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I'm not crying or facing any problems right now. I'm making fun of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:54 PM
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"Do you actually think they will acknowledge male problems?" Implying that they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:52 PM
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I think men need to harden the f up and stop demanding mommy feel sorry for them or fix their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:35 PM
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Left-wingers are right about almost nothing I can think of. The biggest misogynists I've know were communist/socialist men's rights and feminist guys. I don't see any of them on either side of the political spectrum building men's shelters.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:26 PM
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Men are never going to stop telling women how to think, feel and act. There are whole religions centered on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:46 PM
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Men do not need special consideration and men's rights activists are wrong about everything. They're just playing a b.s. game to troll feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:28 PM
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Men are the ones complaining about not getting sympathy. You're doing it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:55 PM
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All standards are fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:50 PM
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This sub can't offer a solution for those men. Every situation is different and everyone has to figure it out for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:47 PM
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I've never heard of a college being 70% women. Maybe a liberal arts college. IDK you sound like you're talking about freshmen. Most college students end up meeting their spouse in college, through their internships or at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:50 PM
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And? They're all seeing more than one guy too and weighing their options. That's normal in college. Eventually people do pair off. I think I knew one girl in grad school who wasn't engaged, and she wasn't dating anybody (me LOL).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:30 PM
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Well we're talking about men, not just gen z. And not just Americans. You don't even know the infamous incel that I'm referencing. You don't know what an incel is by definition. Why are we having this discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:24 PM
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Education is really important to me and highly educated men are more interesting. I like a man to be able to hold nerdy conversations with me and this and that. The higher earning power of course is something everybody likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:39 PM
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Unfortunately such relationships are almost impossible to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 01:41 PM
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Who gives a shit about genZ? Lots of them are still minors and half of them are autistic. Nobody is talking about them. We're talking about real actual men here, age 18 to 100. Are you really trying to tell me that almost half of the male population are incels? You're crazy. And statistics don't even matter in this conversation. Everyone knows what an incel is at this point. The Supreme Gentleman set the precedent that the rest follow. These guys will always be despised
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 01:36 PM
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Better try harder and try different things until you find what works then. Gotta get in where you fit in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:12 PM
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I'm asking what benefit in life. Bench pressing is literally less practical than being able to open a coconut with one's teeth. Put me on an island and I'm picking that old lady over some strong guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:06 PM
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Incels are not even close to 30% of men. Sexless =/= incel. My husband is away visiting his family overseas. Watch out everybody I'm a femcel now LOL! There are no 4B terrorists, as of yet. It's all males. But since you're blaming women for men's behavior, it stands to reason that men don't have agency. I'm not an extreme feminist or anything but I think that people who lack agency also lack rights. Should we strip men of rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:04 PM
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How do they smell?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:53 PM
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People with dwarfism and guys in wheelchairs can press huge numbers. Some of them are women too. I saw a muscle chick beat all the guys in a jar opening contest once. A saw an old woman rip a coconut open with her teeth. She beat a bulldog at the same task. Point being: overall strength and skill can't be measured by any one metric. We need all kinds of people to make the world turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:52 PM
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I don't think they're saying men need to make more bread. Women can make their own and often more. Men need to have OTHER things to offer, such as being supportive, offering a deep connection, being a good father and partner and making her life easier and better in general. Lotta guys utterly lack the ability to do those things regardless of how much money they're pulling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:30 PM
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When does bench pressing ability have any benefit to anything in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:27 PM
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They get played then are happier when they quit dating altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:26 PM
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If you're a guy struggling to get a relationship because of looks or whatever better get on it, compete and win one of those jobs then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:24 PM
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Women in porn only look good with their clothes off.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:22 PM
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Nobody is talking about them. I am talking about incels. Did you know they're considered terrorists by some governments? Of course you know that. So stop blowing smoke please.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:14 PM
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What planet are you living on?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:59 PM
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Of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:56 PM
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Guy is trying to minimize the issue and claim it's not as bad as women make it out to be. Just shut up and accept being assaulted ladies! Some man on Reddit got his feelings hurt by being compared to a rapist and that's a far more serious crime!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 09:16 PM
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There have been exactly 0 lesbian separatist mass killings. How many are we up to with incels now? 8 or 10?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 09:14 PM
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You said that they get tons of women. People liking your picture on a dating site doesn't mean they actually have sny intent on getting with you. And those experimental weren't with real pedophiles they were with models.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:16 PM
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At least I have friends and am not jealous of pedophiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:14 PM
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None of that is true and you know it. 🤷‍♀️ So yeah, you are. You're acting jealous of pedophiles. Maybe stop doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:14 PM
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I didn't even say "touch grass". Do you have schizophrenia or something? You were saying some weird stuff about pedophiles in another thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:27 PM
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You're a POS for everything you're saying. And an idiot. That is, if you truly believe it and aren't just a really gross troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:26 PM
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Is this a serious question?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:40 PM
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How many single sexless men do you personally know? Bet it's single digits. Bet it's only one: you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:40 PM
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I'm not here to substantiate anything. You're saying rapists and pedophiles are sexy. What else am I supposed to do besides insult you for being a dog shit human being?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:39 PM
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Nope. No double standard. It's just not relevant. Please refer to the comment where I said it's wrong to treat someone bad regardless of how their demographic broadly acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:40 PM
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I'm not talking about any of that. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:41 PM
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Not my problem. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:40 PM
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I haven't said a word about your specific relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:21 PM
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K well, you do you. Nobody is telling you not to. I'm going to continue advising young women to not let dusty old men waste their time and resources. I'm also going to suggest that they get counseling as needed for daddy issues so they can have perspective. You might have gotten lucky and found a good man but too many don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:15 PM
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What a group does in general has no bearing on how you should treat somebody. That's bloody stupid and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:09 PM
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There's no indication that she's doing that to him. So no it's probably not fair at all. He's a sociopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:57 PM
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Nowhere in my comment did I say the word "condones". If you have a problem with neanderthals, then go away. You're white-knighting for a guy. Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:24 PM
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eVeRy SoCiEtY hAs RaPe iT's nOt ThAt bAd sToP oVeRReAcTiNg! Please evolve already.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:33 PM
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I'm not going to he that specific, you'll just have to use common sense. If a man is 10+ years senior and on the same maturity level as the woman(or girl) that's not okay. There's something seriously wrong with him. And no people don't mature fast for their age. Not by that much. Maturity comes with experience. If two people have had absolutely no life experiences in common, then what are they doing together? The younger one is having their time and life potential wasted by some old fool. It's u…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:04 PM
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Things in common that matter: growing up in a similar culture in a similar time period. Having similar life experiences like having kids or not, being married or not, getting divorced or not. Having the wisdom that life brings. Having a similar level of maturity in general. On the more practical side if one partner is a businessperson looking to run a ranch or something it makes the most sense for their potential partner to have knowledge and skill in that area as well. These are big things in l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:29 PM
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If they start glorifying violence and stripping people of rights then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:23 PM
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It absolutely does mean you have nothing in common that is meaningful. Liking the same videogames, having a similar sense of humor, etc. are superficial. It's smarter to choose a partner who you can relate to on the deepest possible level. Old men can't possibly relate to young women on anything, superficial or deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:47 PM
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A younger person who's never been married isn't a match for a divorcee. Get with women your own age who have had similar life experiences and that you have something in common with. It ain't hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:31 PM
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Better not give the wife any pregnancies then. That's what screws us up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:35 PM
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It will always be inappropriate because these older men are all either married or there's a reason that they're still single at their age. They're not suitable partners for young women for those reasons, and also because there is a power imbalance. Older people have more affluence and options than young people and it's sll too easy for the younger one to end up used and have their best years wasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:23 PM
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Better yet assisted s*icide. These guys resist self-help with every fiber or their being and then some. F them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:02 PM
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I see both.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:00 PM
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Hate to break it to you but most men are getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:58 PM
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It's men who are the ones saying that. Hence this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:57 PM
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Oh look, a rape apologist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:55 PM
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Perseverance, resiliency, and maturity. And being spiritually grounded.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:53 PM
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Sounds like a "you problem". MEN are fine with how things are. Carry on being mad at the successful people. We'll carry on ignoring you. Good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:59 PM
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Dude, you literally brought it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:55 PM
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Why do you keep bringing up feminism? It has nothing to do with this conversation. I've already told you, we're not interested in building a female-only utopia. That would be weird. Normally humans collaborate to build and maintain the village and that's what we're all busy doing while you're stewing and threatening to walk away. And speaking of that, why haven't you walked away yet? What exactly is keeping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:07 AM
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Why would women leave civilization? We're not the ones complaining about how we can't get love or that men's standards are too high. We're happy here. Speaking for myself I've done construction and was in the Corps of Engineers. Half the solders pouring concrete and laying bricks in the tropical sun were females. In most traditional societies, woman build the houses. So no, we don't need you guys for that. How many houses have you built?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 10:01 PM
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That's just sad and weird. The mating dynamic in Japan in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 08:43 PM
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Good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:10 PM
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Men have always posed a threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:48 PM
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Why do models post thirst traps? Same reason that strippers show off what God gave them I suppose. $
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:34 PM
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99% of male attention ranges from annoying to frightening. Validating isn't even on the map. If men were to interact with women respectfully, platonically, with no signs of sexual interest, that would make us feel validated. It would make us like men a lot more. Nobody likes to feel threatened or objectified.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:26 PM
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Women don't want men to do anything for us except leave us alone. And it does matter if you think our standards are ridiculous. Your opinions on the matter mean absolutely nothing. I and others have explained why.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:27 PM
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Are you a pedo or rapist? Speaking from experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 02:23 PM
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LOL what? Nobody gets tens of thousands of women. And have you ever actually seen a pedo or talked to one? I have. These gus are utter failures with women, and life in general. That's why they go after minors. And everyone hates them. I've seen women literally bully them to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 02:16 PM
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Do you live in Korea or something? Please get real. How many men over 30 do you know who are single and don't have any kids? I'll bet it's single digits. Normal average guys are not apathetic. They're normal average people living their average little lives, supporting their families and paying their taxes. And even if it were a large number of men left single, women and society aren't going to change and let them in. That wouldn't even be impossible. Fix yourselves for a change. Or shut up and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 02:15 PM
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Most formula is trash. Have you not looked at the ingredients?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 11:25 PM
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You think everyone is bored of their partners? That's just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:53 PM
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I'm not even talking about my own relationship. But if you're going to try to make this discussion personal I could always report you and have done with it, since that is against the sub's rules. I'm telling you to listen to what people say instead of talking over them. It's what a good, non-shitty person does. Read the other comments here talking about the subject. It will enlighten you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:47 PM
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Dude they never shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:24 PM
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Most men are getting married, getting dates, having sex and fathering kids. Hate to burst your bubble but losers are a small minority and nobody cares about them and never will. Nobody is irreplaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:23 PM
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Almost everyone eventually does end up with a partner that they want. And there are multiple ways to date even. I would say that humanity is doing well in that regard. Other areas, not so much, but at least we're good in the love department. Relatively speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:14 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:55 PM
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Dude, don't babble. People are literally telling you why they got divorced. Their spouse cheated, was abusive or left them. They were useless dead weight. They were bad to the kids. They were unsupportive or the bedroom was dead. This is very simple and direct stuff. No ego trips detected.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:49 PM
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LOL how is it not a big win for everyone if guys no women want anyway walk away? We have zero use for these mf'ers. Please, walk away. Faster!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:46 PM
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Good. Do that and leave us alone. Everybody wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:46 PM
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Anyone's can have whatever standard they want and it requires no justification. And women don't have to feel sorry for guys who don't get picked. I don't know why this needs to be explained over and over in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:30 PM
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You have absolutely no way of knowing people's motivations, unless they tell you. Unless you believe you are psychic and everybody else are liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:25 PM
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Sucks to be them. I don't think cheating will help though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:23 PM
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We're as monogamous as we choose to be. Part of intelligence is not letting involuntary urges dictate your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:57 PM
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Women are telling you the truth about how they think and feel. You just don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:51 PM
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I'll bet you can't point to one person who says the reason for their divorce was boredom.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:39 PM
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Not to mention, people cheat with uggos. A lot. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:18 PM
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I am, in my own opinion, married to the hottest man on Earth. And I still look. I'm sure that he does too. Doesn't mean that either of us are unhappy or will leave or cheat. Human sexuality doesn't automatically get switched off when we become partnered.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:17 PM
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How's "acknowledging reality" working out for you guys? I don't see many happily married red pillers increasing the human population.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:00 PM
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Dude's been watching some crazy porn. 15 inches. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:45 PM
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Paying for stuff doesn't make a man any less of a jerk if he is one. Women don't have to tolerate that behavior, regardless of their "value". You either treat us how we want to be treated or we'll show you the door. That's how it works and is how it should work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:36 PM
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People just need to manage their time better. I'm willing to be that all these lonely guys complaining that they never have time for anything are hooked on social media, videogames, possibly drinking and weed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:33 PM
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Minimum height: none. Minimum fitness level: athletic. Must be able to keep up with me on hikes and preferably plays sports or does martial arts. Unappealing male hobbies: don't care. Entertainment value: must have a sense of humor, preferably one that's crude, crass and dark like mine. Political: just don't be a sheep. I don't care your beliefs are as long as they're sincerely held and not trendy. One to add: at the bare minimum in terms of family, a man must be on good terms with his father an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:53 PM
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Depends on my hormones and the time of the month, and if the guy gets close enough to where I can smell him. If I'm around lots of men day in and day out chances are there will be several that I'm genuinely attracted to and I will probably develop a crush on one. So it's not rare at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:47 PM
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You just called a 15 year old child, a woman. Have a seat right over there please. Chomo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:08 PM
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So, you dated and groomed little girls. I shouldn't need to explain why that's bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:36 PM
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I'm going out on a limb here but i suspect you've done this sort of thing before, with girls much younger than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:41 PM
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Preferably disabled and black.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:36 PM
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Perpetuating the cycle of abuse I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:35 PM
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I have an idea. How about don't marry unhinged abusive psychos, and don't be toxic? Is it really very hard to be normal and raise your kids normally? When I was growing up the messed up families were 1 in 100 but Reddit acts like most are that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:06 AM
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I'm a liberal and I can't stand 99.9% of Democrats and I don't vote for them. Is this aimed at me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:06 PM
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2. And often times they are my male friends and acquaintances that I met on my own and we decided to try out dating and see where it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:00 AM
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How many 20-something guys are provider minded? They're definitely not by choice. Usually when they knock a girl up they don't even stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:47 PM
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I'm very sorry that your family dynamic was that way but that's not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 06:04 PM
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It really depends on how frequently and how long term it is. Every weekend for two years is very different from now and then with the f buddy from work or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:47 PM
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I would choose prison and continue to appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:50 PM
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When the argument is "just as dangerous" I'm comparing the worst things that both sexes do to the other. It's not even a close contest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:44 PM
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More than getting beaten, raped, maimed and tortured by a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:38 PM
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Calling the atrocities that men commit equal to some mean catty female hurting your reputation is trolling. I can't (and don't) believe OP is even serious. This post is vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:21 PM
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Compared to being assaulted and fearing for your life among everything else, it is. Both are awful but there's a BIG difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:15 PM
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Who says the assault is by a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:14 PM
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Off hand Margaret Sanger is the only female eugenicist of note. If you know of others mention them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 04:36 PM
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Trump didn't take reproductive rights away. The states did. And I don't think any of them even asked their voters.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:08 PM
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Lesbians have different rules and that's all I'm going to say. Straight women definitely have "types" and the men we like definitely don't have to be even close to conventionally attractive. If people want evidence, hang out with bikers sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:02 PM
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The government bungles everything and I guarantee they'd be using the apps to push eugenics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:54 PM
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The ones that are off their phones and have an active social life are the ones finding partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:52 PM
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False equivalency. Be honest OP, would you rather be accused of something and be inconvenienced by it, or be asaulted?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:32 PM
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Why are you so obsessed with kids and their sex lives? Yeah I suppose I can't understand that. I don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:08 AM
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Projecting? This weirdo with the pornographic profile is pestering me about the sex lives and STD rates of teenagers and I'm taking the piss off him. Please consider what you are defending. Even if I were a single cat lady that's still better than what he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:07 AM
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Cool story. I do not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:15 PM
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As a formerly awkward, boyish, skinny flat chested teenager/20-something who wore glasses and was ignored by all the boys, I can personally attest that that's not true. And the post just said "women". That includes all weights, looks and ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 05:49 PM
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Because that's not my area of interest nor what this conversation is about. I'm talking about men being responsible for their own behavior. It's not women's job to fix men and besides they don't like it when we try.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 05:43 PM
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Why are you talking about STD's in underage girls? Keep that shit out of my inbox please.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 05:05 PM
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What the heck is up with your profile? Put a shirt on sir. None of the 14 year old girls here are interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 05:04 PM
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Kiss my shiny red ass. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:43 PM
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I think you might be the one with a problem actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:42 PM
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No. It's just that if someone said something like that about my mother they wouldn't be walking away with all their teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:22 PM
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Wow. What a POS you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 03:59 PM
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There's no rational reason that some men act like turds. Their fathers model that in the home, and the sons become their fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 02:49 PM
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Say it with me: Women are not responsible for men's behaviors and attitudes. Men are not women's responsibility to change or fix. Men have agency. If they didn't, they wouldn't deserve rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 02:44 PM
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The comment that started this was talking about violence/stalking etc. against women vs. men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 07:26 PM
1

I think the standard should be to test both the paternity and maternity of every baby before it leaves the hospital.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:48 PM
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Either take action by advocating for yourselves or shut up about it. You MRA's are doing male victims a disservice with all your impotent whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:15 PM
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Coward.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:35 PM
1

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:34 PM
-2

Okay then stop complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:34 PM
1

LOL now he says I'm triggered. Can you guys ever be original or interesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 11:11 PM
1

"Most women don't really pay attention to this, to them any pet is just a normal friend." Then you said these women (most women, per your comment) are devious and manipulative. People are just reading exactly what you said. 🤷‍♀️ Your disrespectful, condescending, sexist, weaselly attitude towards me and anyone else calling you out isn't anything we haven't seen a million times from red-pillers. Unfortunately for you guys even a kid can tell it stems from insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 11:01 PM
3

I literally repeated the words you used for women. Most women even.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:34 PM
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So, you are making it about women then. Those evil devious manipulative women are wanting to be.... friends with men?! How dare they. Quit being such a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:30 PM
3

Because it sounds like you are complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:20 PM
1

Unfortunately some people are judgemental a-holes who never grew out of the highschool phase. I think there might be some sour grapes in the bunch too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:15 PM
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Hypergamy is such a boomer thing. I don't think it exists in the liberated world. Especially among millennials. We work multiple jobs, both spouses, and we make it work haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:06 PM
4

Sounds like it's not women's problem then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:54 PM
2

I don't care what people do or who they love, as long as they're adults. So no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:30 PM
-1

Women fought hard to be taken seriously. Men should too. And it's not like they aren't I mean, this isn't the 1940's
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:29 PM
1

Nah not really. I just prefer straight dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:28 PM
1

Oh. I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:50 AM
1

Thanks. I know I rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:30 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:03 PM
1

Homophobia and bigotry must be okay then, according to you. Fine whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:03 PM
1

Shaming women for having their own wants and preferences is literally what rape culture does. Are we done here?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:00 PM
4

You literally interpret everything I say the opposite of what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:52 PM
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Nobody NEEDS porn or videogames. Edit: but pretty much every man uses them, even hot guys. And that's fine. Just don't mainstream it. It's disrespectful and intimidating to women. Point blank.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:43 PM
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Because she just is? That's literally how attraction and emotions work. They don't have to be justified, reasonable, or logical. I suggest using a different term. "homophobia" carries the stigma of bigotry. Nobody is a bigot for refusing to date someone. Our bodies aren't equal opportunity employers you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:40 PM
1

Feelings are like that. They're not always logical or reasonable, Mr.Spock.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:33 PM
1

No homophobia would be revulsion at the mere concept. I don't care what people choose to do. Just don't make me participate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:19 PM
3

I told you the reason. Because I don't like it. Why is that hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:18 PM
1

Nope. It matters. Ad no he can't. I will always know the mouth I'd be kissing sucked a cock most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:15 PM
2

It just is. Not my thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:13 PM
0

What's stopping more men from getting the law involved when women stalk or assault them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:46 PM
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Women don't care about your thoughts. They care about how you treat them. Being objectified feels terrible no matter who it's from. It's not like hot guys get a pass for watching degrading porn or smut in video games. It's all repulsive. Do that shit in private where we don't have to know about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:44 PM
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I don't know. That's up to them and not for me to judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:36 PM
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Are you referring to OP's question? The answer is because men seek any excuse to shame women for rejecting them even if it's totally absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:36 PM
-1

It is gay though. I am straight. So why would I want to date gay men or women? Make sense please.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:33 PM
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People can reject for any reason or no reason at all. It doesn't require a justification or explanation and it's not a flaw in the person's character if they do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:32 PM
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Bisexuality is a characteristic I find unattractive. No further discussion needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:31 PM
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Nobody is asking. It was a rhetorical question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:55 PM
-1

Not wanting to fuck someone doesn't mean I'm phobic of them. I don't date women. Am I lesphobic? LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:55 PM
1

Nobody's mating preferences need to be discussed or "corrected" as you put it. You're not going to negotiate your way into being attractive to them. It will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:53 PM
-1

Quit being a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:51 PM
1

I don't date feminine people because I am not a lesbian and femininity doesn't turn me on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:47 PM
1

Sure but it's pointless. Nobody cares what you think about who they date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:22 PM
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You can be as homophobic as you want in your mating preferences and still support the LBGT community. Nobody is obligated to be accepting generally, least of all in the dating world. It's a world of consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:19 PM
1

Okay, forget everything we know about how the human body works. Think for a second. When have you EVER seen a large butt that was all muscle? Can you post a picture?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:55 PM
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Demanding things of strangers then getting mad when they don't do it isn't "backing them into a corner". That'll not debating, that's you being a child. Also I don't have to do shit that I don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:03 PM
1

Oh I see, you weren't really interested in information. You just wanted to be a twat. Good luck with the small d BTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:44 PM
1

No. It's the Internet age and WebMD has this information.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:05 AM
1

Literally every Phys Ed book ever written.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:53 PM
1

Yeah. That's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:14 AM
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First you said fat. Which is it, fat or muscle? Dear alien, fat and muscle are two different types of tissue. And no I'm not going to click your link. You're lucky I don't report you for advertising your shit scam here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:10 AM
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Ass and leg are different body parts sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:29 PM
1

Heavy sitting on the couch more likely, lol. Why are you sending people links to a banned sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:24 PM
1

"Men are suffering because of themselves and women don't care enough. Those bitches!" was your original point. Let's go with that I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:29 PM
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No, that's your own definition. Has nothing to do with what I'm talking about and I don't care about some feminist "shrews" as you put it, out there in the vapor. Can you just cut to the chase and tell me your point? Do you even have one? Pointless misogynistic whining doesn't interest me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:24 PM
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Men are suffering under patriarchy, and fighting that was a mistake? You see, this is why no one feels sorry for y'all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:18 PM
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Yeah and that's really stupid. Why are men's problems women's responsibility to fix? They do this to each other. It's called patriarchy and we've been fighting it for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:09 PM
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You don't get those unless you're on steroids. And I thought muscle mommas were more of a niche interest? Most men aren't into that at all. Good for those who are, may they live their dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:07 PM
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I don't care about your point dude I care about mine. I gave a list of things men don't like in women and it doesn't matter how common or uncommon they are. The fact stands that men don't like disabled, overweight, unattractive, older, or unfeminine women and collectively these are most of the living female population.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:05 PM
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Because it's 100% not true. Fitness and wellness are things I am passionate about and there is too much misinformation floating around, especially in the Internet age where it's so easy yo look this stuff up. You can't spot train to lose fat in a specific area. You can't grow your glutes or hips. Only tone them. Snatched waists are genetic. You can tighten and strengthen your core but it won't make it significantly smaller. Curves are caused by fat. Unless you get surgery you can't take fat from…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:02 PM
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I'm talking about young attractive women. Not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 01:51 PM
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I'm always amused by how impressed Reddit users are by super long text comments, no matter how vacuous the content is. It's like you all think it makes them smart by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 01:51 PM
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I'm not comparing myself to anything and I don't know what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 01:46 PM
1

Whatever that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 01:45 PM
1

There are actually more young men than young women per population statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 01:44 PM
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Those silly disabled women. Why didn't they just not get disabled? What were they thinking? Get a clue dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 01:44 PM
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Dating in your 30's is the worst because most people are married and spoken for. It gets better in 40's and beyond if you don't mind divorcees. Good on you if you can keep fit through those years because a lot of people let themselves go. Muddle aged an older fit women are also very sought after by similar men. I live in a very fitness conscious area and there are so many new couples that are in their mid forties and up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 01:40 PM
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He calls women not worrying about men's dating problems "callous sociopathy. This is an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 09:21 PM
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It would be nice if men would stop calling thin women "bones" and "12 year old boys" as an insult then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:37 PM
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No, I get what you all are saying. Young hot women can get any man they want. No duh. But the OP said "women". "Women" are diverse in age and appearance and their love lives vary widely because of it. Turns out men are pretty picky after all. That's MY point. Don't really care about your's.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:36 PM
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Thin women don't have anything that men like, unless they're leg guys possibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:18 PM
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A pretty small percentage of women are young and attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:14 PM
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We're not talking about young women with a healthy BMI. We're talking about women. That means 18-108 and all sizes and shapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:55 PM
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So you like women who are old, wheelchair bound, fat, weird looking, with no breasts and straight hips? More power to ya. I don't think any other men agree though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:51 PM
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You don't get bigger hips and boobs from muscle. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:50 PM
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Men don't like thin women either. They universally like curves though to varying degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:54 PM
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You would be left on the shelf where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:51 PM
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That's not relevant to what i just said.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:50 PM
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I like how any woman who says the same things men say must automatically be right. You guys are total suckers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:50 PM
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You guys are proving me right and you're too dumb to know it. It isn't as simple as being a woman. A woman must also be young, not fat, have a good face or at least a good body, and have an assertive but still feminine personality. Otherwise she will struggle with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:47 PM
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You can't grow glutes unless you take steroids. Core muscles don't get bulky like skeletal muscles do. You can make your butt tighter and less saggy by working out. Same with the stomach. But curves are created by fay and bone and the only way to add them is through surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:44 PM
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Because that's word for word the stuff that the red pilled puffs say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:39 PM
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I'm not the one with the ego. And don't defend her. White-knighting is so blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:39 PM
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You've said a lot of things. Most of which we've all heard a million times already.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:38 PM
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No, it doesn't. Curves are created by fat and the skeleton. Fat distribution and hip/ribcage ratio are genetic. You can't spot train to keep the fat in your butt while losing belly fat unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:36 PM
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This really isn't a gender thing. Less attractive people live in a desert and attractive people live in a swamp. Unattractive women do not have an easy time in dating at all. They get rejected just as much as the unattractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:28 PM
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Yeah this chick is delusional. Or shit posting. This is the most pickme thing I've read on here recently and the bros are lapping it up like cats at a bowl of milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:25 PM
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Going to the gym doesn't give a woman curves any more than it makes men taller. I hate to agree with the black pillers but she is talking about the options that ATTRACTIVE women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:24 PM
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Only attractive, young, non-obese, able bodied, healthy, fertile women have those options BTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:21 PM
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I've read a good chunk of these replies. I think it just boils down to men thinking it's their place to school women on how we ought to think, feel and behave. It's such a bore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:38 AM
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Sometimes the ones we say we want don't engage with us or don't exist. Gotta take what's available.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:34 AM
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Maybe the A's aren't interested in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:28 AM
2

You've written this woman like an anime porn character LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:45 AM
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Okay now I know she's fictional.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:34 PM
-1

Yes she does need to do that. And the man also needs to read the signs and have a heart and common sense. Again, both can be true at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:45 PM
0

Because regardless of how dumb or weak someone is it's still wrong to hurt them even if they consent to it!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:21 PM
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It absolutely is each person's responsibility to not cause harm. In the situation that OP is talking about, both parties involved are absolutely causing harm to one of them. Yes, it absolutely do have fault if you knowingly, willingly, selfishly let an idiot hurt themselves. You would be complicit. Again, I'm really not interested in debating this. It's not something to debate. It's wrong to take advantage people's weaknesses. I'm will not hear any arguments about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:35 PM
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It's exploitative and wrong to take advantage of someone's hope in order to keep them around. Relationship gurus have terms for this and it's a type of abuse. Am I the only one who has a conscience here? I'm legit concerned that so many people here think it's okay to hurt someone just because they let you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 07:04 PM
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I'm not saying it's it's wise or responsible for her to hold out for a relationship. I'm saying what the man is doing is exploitative, hurtful and wrong. What the woman is doing is foolish. Can you understand that both things can be true at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 06:27 PM
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They're probably different women doing the compliments vs. the insults. That's kinda how the game works. It's the female dominance hierarchy. The better you look the more haters you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 05:55 PM
1

It's not mutual because it's about more than sex for one side, and the other side is taking advantage of that. That is unkind, unethical, and borderline sociopathic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 05:54 PM
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I didn't say anything about following or harassment. What did I just get finished saying in a previous comment? No being obtuse. Now I'm done entertaining you, you deluded little wannabe Machiavelli. Get wrecked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 05:52 PM
0

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 05:48 PM
1

Speak for yourself because that's not what I do. My point I suppose is that hookup guy may or may not even be my type and it doesn't even matter. Cafe guy might really be my type and a sloppy hook up isn't the correct protocol in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 05:48 PM
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I never even said anything about harassment. I said she should destroy something that he loves since he did that to her. Fair is fair. Either we're both bound to ethics or neither are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:17 AM
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K well I hope she manages to blackmail him, runs over his dog, or keys his car. Eye for an eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:53 PM
2

Yeah nah. Maybe paying for the first date as long as it's just coffee or a movie and nothing extravagant or expensive. I'd feel guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:19 PM
1

They're not doing it for (straight) men. Compliments from other women and gay men are generally welcome, because they know it's not coming from a predatory place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:17 PM
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He doesn't have to hold her had through every choice she makes. But he has a responsibility to her when she is WITH HIM to not do harm. P.S. to you and to anyone else: don't be obtuse. I have very little patience for it. You're an adult who presumably wasn't raised in a laboratory and you have a conscience and social sentience, so fucking act like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:08 PM
1

Leading with sex makes guys see us as just hook up material.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:05 PM
2

She's not the one hurting anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:02 PM
2

Because they're both human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:07 PM
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Doesn't matter. He's not listening to what she wants yet he's keeping her around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:42 PM
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Because he's giving her false hope, using her, stringing her along and wasting her time. He doesn't care that he's hurting another human being, a human being that is giving him her time, her body, and probably other things too. If you know someone is living by the thread of a hope you should cut them off and go no contact, at least for the time being so they can move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:18 PM
2

Because he's leading her on with false hope just so he can have a bit of fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:13 PM
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Sorry but sex is an intimate act. It's wrong to keep someone around to repeatedly use, especially when they have feelings you. Only an immoral psychopath would do that. Unfortunately it's so common that a lot of people think it's normal and okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:13 PM
2

It's his fault for continuing the relationship knowing she wants more than he plans to give. That's deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:50 PM
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He did do it to hurt her. He should have broken it off and not continued to use her knowing her feelings for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:49 PM
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No he's still wrong. But she is wrong too and is in for a painful lesson. Doesn't excuse him however.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:48 PM
1

You're entitled to your preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:44 PM
2

I'm telling you those are options. They may not be options that you want but that's no different from how the women in question feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:25 PM
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If sex is all it is then everyone has options. You can pay for it, pick up a drunk at a bar, go to a sex party, etc. No one has unlimited options to get the kind of relationship or hookup that they actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:03 PM
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In social settings, yes. Randomly in public or while I'm working, no. I wish more people would show up to group activities, dances, dinners, parties and conventions and actually mingle instead of just hanging out with their friends ir looking at their phones. I wish people would introduce each other more. I've made all my friends, lovers and acquaintances that way. I've even gotten jobs that way. There's a whole world out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 03:34 PM
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Aren't you the same user that was asking a girl about her virginity? You are gone buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 03:12 PM
3

They're not and the other user explained that to you. This isn't a kink sub and you're sexually harassing people at this point. Want to get reported?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:16 PM
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Nobody here is talking about kinky activities except you. Take that shit to a sub that's about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:07 PM
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Women don't have countless options either. And yes dude you can still exercise agency and say no any time you want regardless of what your options are. It's sex not a life boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:06 PM
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I know what he's saying and he's wrong. Neither sex controls access to anything. It's up to each individual to consent or not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:04 PM
2

Most people masturbate even with access to sex with a partner. Sometimes even in the same day. They're separate things. You partner sounds frigid and repressed, or possibly is being dishonest in order to prop up your ego. Women like that irritate me sorry. My problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:03 PM
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What kind of disgusting culture do you live in where men want sex from anyone at any time and never say no? Sorry but that's abhorrent. I feel sorry for the women LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:08 PM
2

That's rather grotesque.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:06 PM
1

Don't answer these creeps when they ask stuff like that. Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:05 PM
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It's like you guys think men never reject women sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:04 PM
0

The guy who gets it right away is the one I met at the bar while I was trashed and horny. I don't remember exactly what he looked like. I think his name starts with an "M". Oh gross he left the condom on the bathroom sink. The guy who I take it slower with is the cute one I see at the coffee shop all the time. We talk and seems like he might like me. Maybe we'll become friends or boyfriend/girlfriend. Sometimes I think about him in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:02 PM
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I don't think it's a gendered issue. And no it's not worth arguing about. You should see what sex addicts look like, be they male or female, trans, straight, or otherwise. They have no problem finding multiple partners a night if they're so inclined. Most people don't want that though. They want intimacy and validation which are a lot harder to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 10:55 PM
2

Oh and let me guess, she doesn't even masturbate. Your wife is a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 10:49 PM
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It's not kink it's male culture. Women don't even have to be involved. Men do the same thing to each other in prison. It's about dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 10:41 PM
0

Congratulations you're just like everybody else. Everybody cares about more than looks. But nobody likes angry losers and that doesn't make them shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:16 AM
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You don't get Brownie points in life for trying. You have to actually accomplish something. And even then it's not a guarantee that anyone will care. It has nothing to do with shallowness or flaws in other people. In fact I can already tell what your problem is. Maybe instead of "trying" whatever it is you are currently doing, you should try being less of a douche canoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:27 AM
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Um no. Those two things are unrelated. You know what a try hard is don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:35 PM
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Nah try-hards are lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:57 PM
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Pickiness does not equal shallowness
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:08 PM
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Why are you, a man, answering on behalf of women and then acting confused as to why women are telling you that you're wrong as hell?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:03 PM
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Deny it how? Some of us are upfront and some of us b.s. like this. It's up to you to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:52 PM
1

2 out of 10 really isn't bad. Maybe you're selling yourself short here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:23 PM
1

Good for them. The homie I was talking to isn't making the magic happen though and at least he admits it's his own fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:34 AM
1

That's not how you get a partner though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:14 PM
1

By being shy and not assertive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:18 PM
1

Personally, I have a penchant for ugly dudes with brow ridges and blue eyes. Pretty boys are dime a dozen. Those actors are both cute. Grint looks very Celtic like my mom's side of the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:17 PM
1

No mating strategy works if you isolate yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 10:53 PM
0

Women grab them up because they're good partners. Look at all the goofy looking church dudes who volunteer and are good with kids. You'll never meet one who's single unless he is autistic and even then it's just a matter of time until a woman finds him who understands and adores his little ways. There are lots of mating strategies that work and being decent is one of the sure ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 10:52 PM
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USA. But I hear you about the religious communities. We have those and also an underlaying puritanical culture compared to other Western nations, due to our history. But there's also an element of individuality where people mostly respect each other's preferences and mind their own business. I've traveled Europe a lot and they're even less judgemental about each other's preferences, to a fault even.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 10:26 PM
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Decent men are attractive due to their decentness. They attract people because they behave in such a way that people admire and want to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 10:22 PM
1

I don't believe any of your four reasons. Maybe it's a cultural difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:34 PM
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Decent men are a hot ticket item and they don't struggle as much. They might struggle with getting with the wrong people (as everyone who dates does sometimes) but they're not struggling with being left on the shelf with the defective merchandise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:16 PM
1

I appreciate your thoughts. But people openly admit to liking farts and feet. There's no shame
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:11 PM
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I have observed people being consistent as a rule. There's no incentive to lie about one's preferences. Most people want to get what they want and are not only unashamed, but unscrupulous about it. We are a self-serving species.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 10:01 PM
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So you've observed every woman who says she doesn't like toxic traits and found that she actually does? I'm curious how this works. No, I don't think that most people are in denial about their preferences. That sounds like an odd psychological issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 07:08 PM
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Sounds like women are telling you that they don't have toxic biases and that they don't like these traits. You should listen to that instead of accusing them of lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:25 PM
-1

Why do the biases have to be toxic?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:41 PM
0

Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:43 PM
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I don't know why you want to know things about me. Kinda creepy. You guys are missing both my point and that of OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:57 PM
1

Get. Wrecked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:18 PM
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Weed and shrooms are legal where I live. The only drug dealers are in the city centers. Rest of us get our stuff from dispensaries or grow it at home. Meth heads make their own. Not everyone lives in the ghetto where rappers and gang bangers are idolized. The whole world isn't America.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:16 PM
1

Huh? Who mentioned race?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:12 PM
1

LOL my point goes along with the original post, which made that distinction. Kindly get wrecked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:12 PM
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First I must say that scenario is very hilarious and needs to be in a sitcom. If I had bonded with the child I would keep it and make sure it always felt loved and no different than any other child. Once the child flies the nest I am getting a divorce though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:55 AM
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You are missing the point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:53 AM
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Those guys are selling weed and shrooms. Maybe some party drugs. They're not the bad boys like OP is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 11:05 PM
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I didn't know how that would work since I'd know that I didn't give birth to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 10:30 PM
3

I think it's pretty much one specific culture that does that. The rest of us have never even met a rapper or drug dealer in real life and we're all dating and marrying average schmo's.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 10:28 PM
3

The way these apps work is diabolical and I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:57 PM
5

Good to know. I will continue to reject guys who don't read my bio since they don't care and only see me as a number. Glad we're on the same page with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:56 PM
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I think legal ties should be severed. I can't fathom leaving a child that you once loved and thought was your's. The child will feel abandoned, will likely blame themselves and have issues for the rest of their life. Don't punish a child for their parent cheating. At least remain in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:52 PM
1

I guess I don't see why she couldn't. People marry up, down and across, within a certain threshold usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:06 PM
1

I never said anything about monoliths either way. Don't be obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:04 PM
1

Successful in what context? Like he's a successful professional with a nice life or he's a successful player?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:33 PM
3

Well, that's more complicated. Sometimes people do things that they know full well they shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:22 PM
5

Yeah! Especially in the kink community. Forget average dudes, ugly dudes are fun as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:56 PM
4

I determine my value because I'm perfectly content being single. I'll either get the exact type of man I want (which I did) or I'll keep shopping. Side note women know the difference between fuck boys and guys who might be serious. We've had this figured out since highschool or early college and we're not stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:53 PM
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Based on my observations, mostly over the Internet, being vaguely humanoid is a big factor but not a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:39 PM
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Men are funny sometimes. You guys think you can read our minds and get to dictate our feelings. As someone with a female brain maybe you should listen to me. Trust me, I speak more for women than either of you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:16 PM
1

Dude hush. Everyone can tell you're not serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:13 PM
1

Abortion is opting out of pregnancy and all the physical and medical processes that entails. Maybe you should study up on on those details before you think that it's in any way equivoque to men's choices. Once a child exists, there has to be a damned good reason for either parent to abandon it. Nobody cares about deadbeat dad's feelings on the matter. So yeah I will just talk past you. Women's and children's rights, especially children's rights, trump those of men always. The reasons for this ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:01 AM
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Doesn't matter. Nope. Neither can opt out. Abortion isn't opting out. As I've already explained and am not going to repeat. Though shit yes it does. You make a child you support it. Society isn't going to take on your burden nor let children go without their needs being met. As a man you have options. They're not the same options women have but they're your's so use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:55 AM
1

Do men get pregnant and give birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:03 AM
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To carry or terminate a pregnancy is a woman's choice and nature-given right. No further discussionn
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:11 PM
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I've never told anyone they have to stay or leave. I saud men being trash isn't women's fault or responsibility to change. Guys can go be trash over there, away from me. I couldn't care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:17 PM
1

What is the point of your comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:15 PM
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Women pine for their exes sometimes but not guys they just want to bang. That's just silly. Your friend is making this up, as bros are prone to doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:34 PM
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Being single isn't a choice? LOL what happens if a man is single, does he implode like a black hole and vanish?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:32 PM
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I've already addressed the abortion part.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:30 PM
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Wanting some dick isn't pining. It's just being horny. Good grief
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:36 PM
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Being single is a choice 🤷🏼‍♀️ Men are less likely to be murdered if they try to leave than women are. So it's really not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:34 PM
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She is. Fathers can sue mothers for child support too if they leave. It's just less common.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:33 PM
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Nobody does at first. Might I remind that men stay in abusive relationships too. It's complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:51 AM
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Because being abused isn't something any human should experience and it can happen to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 12:59 AM
-1

Women don't pine for men. We don't trip like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 12:59 AM
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20 year olds are still figuring things out, especially boys. They definitely don't consider the girls they like to be "replaceable". They fall hook, line and sinker for these girls even though they could do better and should probably wait and grow some more so they know that they're compatible. I don't know what kind of college town you're in but every college student I know falls into one of several categories: 1. Is only dating to find a husband/wife 2. Is just having fun, and maybe a relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:44 PM
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People date who they want. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:38 PM
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The point is not that most women have a low bar, but that there are some that do and they're not hard to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:56 PM
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Men don't have to be trash. That's a choice they make. And it's not women's responsibility to "incentivise" their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:47 PM
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Speak for your parents and their issues. Most people don't put up with horrible behavior at least not indefinitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:44 PM
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Those are separate issues and I would say that of the mother doesn't want the child but the father does she should give it to him. 🤷🏼‍♀️ But each case is different. The father is bound by his choice to get the mother pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:56 PM
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That's not okay either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:34 AM
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The needs of a living child override the consent of the parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:56 PM
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Both parents have 18 years of financial servitude once the child is born. If the mother abandons the child onto the father she us just as liable for child support. There is no opt out. Abortion only exists because the woman's physical body carries the child. Once it's out of the womb, it's a legal person and it has rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 12:10 AM
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No because that would mean you're a POS.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:47 PM
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They're not equivalent. One has to do with the physical body and the other is finances. As any taxpayer knows there us no such thing as financial autonomy. And in even the most primitive of society children are not abandoned. You chose to create a child so you support it. What matters is what's fair to the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:38 AM
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It does mean nothing but there's no way of knowing what it means. As others have explained; people grow and change with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:34 AM
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There's an elephant in the room here. One culture does that. The others don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:33 AM
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LOL acting like what? I'm not the one being a jerk. Reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:07 PM
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I'm almost 40. One might say I've been a block a few times. People really do inexplicably just find partners. It's a mating instinct or something. As an introvert I don't really get it. I also don't get why perfect strangers like you have to insult people online for no reason. I don't have much patience for that so this is your warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:33 PM
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That might be your experience but it's far from everyone else's.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:24 PM
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Nobody just shows up. I mean think about this. Have any of your friends and relationships in life just shown up? No someone has to break the ice and keep the conversation going and it takes a lot of mingling usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:24 AM
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Moral people in this context are those who are humble, mature, and always seeking to grow in character. They don't demand validation or place blame on others. If they're unhappy they take action instead of complaining and asking the world to change for them. That is a good moral person. I'm not talking about doing good deeds because anyone regardless of character can do those.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 10:50 PM
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If they're shy, passive and never even try to date and yet act the victim and place the blame on men for their loneliness then yes. That's a moral failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 10:47 PM
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They're obviously not looking for sex or a partner otherwise they'd have it. Mating is a human instinct and we don't even really have to compete anymore. I stand by my position that anyone can get a partner. Maybe not a top quality partner or a new one every weekend, but there's something out there for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 10:46 PM
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It's your opinion that they are separate. Good people are socially competent and make others happy. That's not to say you need to he a people pleaser to be a good person. Far from it. You need to be on a self-development journey and I mean at a deeper level not just lifting weights at the gym or whatever. So what do you think being a good person means? Obeying da rules? Saying please and thank you m'lady?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:23 PM
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These types of men are attractive because they have shining personalities and people like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:15 PM
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I mean yeah, racism is pretty much inconsequential. Asians suffer harsher racism than blacks yet they out perform other races and have been for decades. It's about who you are and what you have to offer the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:11 AM
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Young couples are screwed then because there are at least twelve guys per every girl. I'm 5'7" which is tall for where I live. I've not seen short men struggle any more than tall men. At my age they're all married.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:09 AM
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Dating apps aren't a way to test anything. The gender ratios are way off, unequal and the site gets to pick who gets presented to you based on an algorithm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:49 AM
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What does being a sex symbol have to do with anything? We're talking about relationships and dating. And yeah short men get women all the time, where do you think those genes come from? I'm the same height as my dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:47 AM
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It's not sexism. It's biology. Only women get pregnant and give birth. Men can choose to impregnate or not, and women can choose to carry a pregnancy to term or not. Once the child is in the world the choices are pretty much over. You pay for your choices. Why are you obsessed with orphans? Are you one or something? Stay on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:44 AM
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Being a good little boy or girl doesn't entitle someone to a mate. Might as well not even be discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:40 AM
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That's life. Nobody said it was easy. You have to be creative and keep trying until you get what you want. Men of character understand this and that's why they are successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:37 AM
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I've explained my position thoroughly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:36 AM
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People have explained numerous times that attraction isn't about height or immutable characteristics but how one carries these and what they have to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:35 AM
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Who said anything about adopting orphans? I'm talking about biological parents supporting their own kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:13 AM
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Not really. You're just trying to start an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 12:23 AM
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Quit being ridiculous. You're sounding like one of the aforementioned losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 12:15 AM
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🤦‍♀️ I don't have to explain what should be common sense. Figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 12:14 AM
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They specified "sex obsessed incels".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 12:06 AM
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Well, it does really. Complaining yet not taking action to correct the problem is deeply repulsive and flawed. It shows a complete lack of character and a narcissistic victimhood complex. Someone like that is not being the person they could be. That's literally the worst way to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 12:05 AM
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I never said take it. I said quit it instead of staying and being a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 12:02 AM
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Who in the hell talks like that to the person they're dating? I'd stop seeing them based on that alone. And no it wouldn't get under my skin. It would make me think that this person isn't over their ex so I'm just going to move along.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:35 PM
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Nope. I don't complain or get butthurt. OP is talking about envious and jealous spoilt little boys who think they should get a cookie because some other kid got one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:33 PM
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That doesn't make it right for you to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:30 PM
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If they are passive yet constantly whining about how lonely they are, they're no different from the men who do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:30 PM
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Me having lived a different kind of lifestyle before I met them is not equivalent to being verbally abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:56 PM
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Asking anyone to change anything for you is too much to ask. Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:39 PM
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I only get with people who give me what I want and need. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Yeah no maybe I don't get it. I deal with people as they are, not how I wish they would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:38 PM
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Someone will though. The odds are in their favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:31 PM
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Yes I get it. I wouldn't get with that person and then get pissed off about it still. That's like complaining about a headache while hitting yourself in the head with a hammer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:30 PM
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How is it that almost every heterosexual woman is married and/or shagging a man then? You're just making excuses to not even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:50 PM
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Don't defend it though. We all have a choice over what to do with our emotions. Envy considered a sin for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:48 PM
1

Then be alone then. Nobody's loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:46 PM
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Fix whatever it is then. Lot of these guys have very unattractive attitudes and personalities that they aren't willing to do anything about. I wouldn't call them good people. Good people are naturally attractive because they are pleasant to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:45 PM
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Good moral men are usually kind and outgoing, people-oriented individuals. They don't sit on the shelf either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:44 PM
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Anyone can be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:41 PM
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Society doesn't view men as threats. C'mon let's get real. Anyone can get a partner if they have the motivation to. Nobody is involuntarily single, be they good or bad people. A lot of these lonely guys weigh their choices and opt to stay lonely than deal with the drama of a relationship and that's understandable. But it is a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:41 PM
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Only stupid people get emotional about things like this. They're not ready for a relationship. I mean imagine mentally cucking yourself out over something that happened before your partner even met you. How irrational and dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:06 PM
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My good fellow, absolutely no one is stopping you from going out and having sex with tons of SUPER HOT men too!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:03 PM
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Good people take action when they're unhappy with their situation. If you're lonely and constantly being left out, something is wrong with you and people sense it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:52 PM
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Why would anyone get pissed over this? It seems so childish. If you're not getting what you want in an adult relationship then just break it off. Personally I'd be wary of a guy who wastes money like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:51 PM
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You can be an honest tax paying citizen and still not be a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:45 PM
3

George Washington was a "felon" too. A traitor to the Crown. Unlike Europe, Canada and much of the world, Americans don't choose our leaders for their ability to obey tyranny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:42 PM
1

Kid A is a little bitch. Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:41 PM
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Good men are a hot item and they get bought quick. Ain't none of them sitting on the shelf wishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:40 PM
2

The guy said that women not only don't like music but can't like it or understand it. And he would mouth off with this to female composers. He was the original man-splainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:38 PM
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Men need to understand something. The only woman who thinks you're special just for being you are your mothers. The rest of humanity sees you for the value you can provide. It's that way for everyone of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:36 PM
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I don't mean to hurt your feelings here but I honestly I only care about what I'm talking about, not refuting or trying to figure out whatever direction you're trying to go in. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:35 PM
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Why is it problematic? Do you guys hate sex or something? And I wouldn't call falling in love and starting a family and a life with someone being a "poor schmuck". He's the one who got the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:25 PM
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Too bad. Shoulda pulled out. The child is his responsibility too since he chose to help create it. Otherwise the burden will fall on the taxpayers and that is not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:23 PM
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I don't date or socialize with socially inept 20 year olds who do nothing but stare at their phones if that's what you mean. Their struggles are self inflicted. I did a talk at a school recently and these dummies don't even interact with each other or answer you when you address them. And they talk in memes. I feel sorry for them. Bunch of damp matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:22 PM
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There's nothing equivalent to pregnancy or abortion. If a man creates a child's existence, it's his responsibility as a father. The mother's choices are separate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:45 AM
1

If I insulted you I apologize. But I think you are trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:20 PM
1

30's
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:01 PM
1

Someone asked me my experience and I told them. I'm not interested in any input on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:12 PM
1

I don't care about your comments or questions. Take my comments at face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:10 PM
1

Men don't carry, birth and nurse the child. That's why it's the womanizer choice. Once a child it born into this world it needs support and that's both parents' responsibility. Fathers actually can and do sue mothers for child support BTW. The law is about who has custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:07 PM
1

Are you married and having kids yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:03 PM
1

I don't know why you're telling me this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:58 PM
1

Okay well you do have a choice to be stupid. I guess I didn't consider that. LOL Trump? Now I know you're just trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:51 PM
1

We were both fans of a local band and said hi to each other at shows all the time. First time we hit it off in my opinion was at an after party with the band. Another close friend of mine met her husband at that party too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:50 PM
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You have no choice but to take my word for it because I'm telling you. he majority of men in patriarchal systems are sent raiding or to war. Or of they're lucky their rich parents send them to seminary. You need to brush up on western history. Nobody feels sorry for men who whine and they never will. Nor should they.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:17 AM
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I am 100% an introvert and an extreme case of that. I have two really close lifelong friends. One I met at school and another at a ceremonial event. I met my husband at a concert through a band we both followed. If people like us can do it anybody can. If you constantly turn off everyone every where you go, you're not emotionally or psychologically well. It's easy to hide that stuff on OLD, and everyone there does.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:49 AM
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I've had dry spells. Everyone has. Either deal with it, get a girlfriend, or hire an expert. You don't get to sit and do nothing about your situation and then whine. FYI these guys would be even bigger losers under patriarchy. You think women only go after Chad now? Try being rejected by a woman's entire family.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:44 PM
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Only the ones who've been left out of real life think that. There's a whole realm they're not part of.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:40 PM
1

That's also pretty much illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:09 PM
1

Yep. That's what I am proposing. Hold out until you get what you want, otherwise don't complain about not getting what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:07 PM
2

People with good mental and emotional traits don't need dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:18 PM
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People with good mental and emotional traits don't need dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:11 PM
5

In real life not dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:09 PM
3

We don't even pick the top guys. We just leave because all the sausages look like they've been stepped on LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:09 PM
1

How are we entitled when we're just living our lives not bothering anyone or asking for anything? We don't even qualify for welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:03 PM
1

Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:07 PM
1

They're not linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:04 PM
1

"Woman" so, a singular woman. Yes I'm sure some woman would. She doesn't speak for all of us. Are you one if those peeps who sees one example of something and thinks you're smarter than everyone because you "recognize patterns"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:03 PM
1

You don't know that. 🤷🏼‍♀️ But again, it's okay to have those views. They're going to limit you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:47 AM
2

My suggestion to those guys: don't date at all until you find someone who's not a degenerate. Hold out for the real souls. They're out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:14 AM
1

You don't know how they feel. You only know your perspective and let's face it it's very male. Men think mating is hierarchical. It's not that way for women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:12 AM
1

Okay you have no experience with the matter so we can dismiss that off hand. You are entitled to your opinions and beliefs though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:17 AM
2

I read the first sentence where you said men can't consent. Know what else can't consent? Animals, children, plants, people in comas...jeez you must have a low opinion of men!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:15 AM
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K I'm not reading all that. Just gonna say that if men can't consent, maybe they shouldn't have rights, hmm?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:54 AM
1

Who says the ones they date are more desirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:54 AM
2

That's not reality is what I'm trying to explain. Almost nobody is still unmarried at 30, unless they want to be. Most women are married by 25 or at least engaged. Again, if they want to. Some folks don't care and just let the pieces fall where they may and might not get married until middle age if ever. Nothing wrong with either. This Chad widow stuff, I hate to tell you, is male revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:14 AM
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I'm not sure what you mean by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:51 PM
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Work their way up? Women have dating figured out by the time they graduate high school. After that it's a matter of searching. And often having fun in college while searching.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:44 PM
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Again, real life humans don't work that way. And yeah, attractive people generally date more and have high chances of meeting the one. I don't know how that's relevant here though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:33 PM
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That's not reality though. People tend to date, bang and marry within their preferred type. Have you EVER seen someone depressed because their spouse isn't hot enough? That's silly. If they weren't attracted, they wouldn't have married them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:24 PM
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It's kinda silly because unattractive men are just as likely to be bums as attractive ones and vise versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:35 PM
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Poor, fat, feminine, ignorant, etc. men are bad men to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:32 PM
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You guys act like young women are stupid. They're not getting "passed around" they're sleeping with who they want, or not, by choice. Most women get married before 30 within a year or two of deciding they want to get married. The most desirable people of both sexes get hitched first. It's quite simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:26 PM
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Because both parties consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:17 PM
1

I mean not really. We are fine single. Women support ourselves and each other. Men don't do much besides protect the tribe from foreign men and hunt large animals. And now that the world is industrialized we don't need men for those either. I'm not saying men aren't nice to have around though. Most people want a soul mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:38 PM
1

There's no threshold. They either like you or they don't. You have no influence over that. All you can do to increase your odds is be more available.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:04 PM
1

I'm not the type of person to repeat myself or listen to whining. My end of the debate is concluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:44 PM
1

I don't know dude. I'm not your relationship coach.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:37 PM
1

Not necessarily. Otherwise hermits wouldn't be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:34 PM
1

Because it's not. It's a desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:30 PM
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No. It isn't a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:18 PM
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It's okay to have dry spells especially when the kids are little or one or both parties is working long hours. We can take care of our own "needs" and stick it out until things are a little less hectic. Placing your needs on your partner's shoulders is needy, and gross. I think the relationship counselors call it toxic co-dependence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:13 PM
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You know what we call people who feel like every desire is a need? Needy. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:06 PM
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People leave and cheat even when their sexual and emotional needs are being met. Cheaters and two-timers lack moral character and respect for their partners, that's all. There's no excuse. Sex isn't a need. And emotional support shouldn't be placed exclusively on your partner's shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:41 PM
1

I don't really get the point of these conversations. If a woman wants a partner badly, she will get one sooner or later. The same applies to most men even if it takes them a bit longer. We shouldn't even be worrying about people's standards. Just find someone who's standards you meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:00 PM
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This is a veiled excuse for infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:57 PM
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Stop functioning? That doesn't happen until retirement age and they have pills for it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:56 PM
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None of these studies show that women are being dishonest though. They are studies asking what women find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:51 PM
1

Maybe don't call people racist or attempt to bully them. Reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:39 PM
1

Time to fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:52 PM
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You seem to have a disorder. Quit blowing up my inbox with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:46 PM
1

Why are you guys such assholes? Leave me alone or I'll block and report you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:02 PM
1

I don't care about your question and I'm not trying to make an argument. I was telling my experience. Now g'bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:01 PM
3

I have no idea. I don't know anybody who does that except one friend who is a model and it's her job.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:00 PM
1

I've known and worked with a lot of both. My experience shatters liberal view the people. And so, the liberal who is frail also shatters
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:53 AM
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These liberal crying guys? There'd be no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:30 AM
1

Are we allowed to agree with the OP now? I don't see the usual mod post. I agree. Complaining is unmasculine in general. Complaining about things you need to subject yourself to is a bad look for either sex. Everyone can relate to an honest man's struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:30 AM
1

Refer to my first comment. That's the answer you seek. There's nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:13 AM
1

LOL calm down. My first comment wasn't trolling but when people ask stupid questions, well, I'm happy to oblige.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:49 AM
4

Reasonable men agree with all of this and feel the same way. Most people want a soul mate and a best friend in a life partner. It's a tall order though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:47 AM
3

Stop being so pompous and literal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:44 AM
4

Women do not give one single pea sized shit about attention from men they don't know. Why pretend that they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:23 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:41 PM
2

No, it is not. Not by strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:29 PM
10

No woman alive gets a dopamine spike from random dudes pestering them online. It's unwanted in fact. It's why most women don't even use OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:33 PM
3

Sure. Things related to immigrants, refugees and the Geneva Convention mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:16 PM
5

I doubt it's even that low. Probably 99% are just there to try any woman they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:28 PM
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95% of them just want to hook up or sext. The remaining 5% don't seem to go anywhere. So e proportion of the above are fake profiles or they match you and then don't respond. Online dating just isn't a good way to meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:53 PM
0

I make liberal men cry 🤷🏼‍♀️ a lot of them are pussies who can't handle my views. Oh well, their loss. I did have a leftist bf once and he was alright but his family was a lot more conservative than me so he wasn't so sensitive to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:51 PM
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I'd be fine with dating a liberal guy. I have a tendency to make them cry though. It's happened on a number of occasions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:23 PM
9

Speaking of cavemen, historically tribe A would capture tribe B's breeding age women and then kill and eat everyone else. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:19 AM
4

Yep. Unless he's vastly recovered from that low point in his life, like say he was an alcoholic and did it and now doesn't drink and is remorseful. Otherwise that's a hard no for me. I think it shows a massive disrespect for women and one's own humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:04 PM
1

Normally children learn all of this from interacting with their peers. Social skills are largely self-taught. A parent's job us the teach their children how to treat the opposite sex, particularly a partner. Hopefully in a loving way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:55 PM
1

None are cheating but none are okay either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:22 PM
7

To each his own. Red pillers don't think anybody should date/be attracted to fat women. And that's idiotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:11 PM
-1

The only red flag here is you snooping.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:08 PM
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Men are the ones who want to pay. I've literally had guys karate chop my hand for reaching for the bill. I'd happily go Dutch.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:27 AM
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We don't need to change for men because we don't need them. We change for ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:42 PM
1

Well, you can. Especially as a man. Having an offspring somewhere that you maybe see once every three years isn't something to aspire to. Tate is a loser for that. Edit: typo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:40 PM
1

I mean...they're probably with other men actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 12:52 AM
3

They're listening to gay men. Very, very gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:01 PM
0

Tate isn't married.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:17 PM
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What is "incriminating" in this context? My gosh. People need to f off and worry about themselves more instead of who other people choose to date!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:16 PM
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What motivation would they have to be dishonest? Do you think that women are just master manipulators out to make men go insane? This is ridiculous. When someone says they like "x" they mean they like "x". Doesn't mean that's what they get with, because life is messy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:13 PM
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I guarantee NO girls are saying that stuff. That's the male idea of what an attractive man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:08 PM
0

Get wrecked.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:44 PM
0

The government doesn't get involved unless you don't sort it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:44 PM
-1

Don't be autistic around me, guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:42 PM
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No matter how high the likelihood of divorce, there's no reason for it not to be amicable. Prenups shouldn't be necessary. Be adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:57 PM
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What's the "current" situation? You not getting any? Why should people who are, care at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:43 PM
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Are most men dealing with these issues? Or is it a vocal minority of fringe extremists who egg on mass k*llers with this stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:19 PM
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I don't think I've ever dated a 6 foot man. My generation and location are all shorties haha. As for the 7" thing....all I can say us: ouch.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:34 AM
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Men can work out and get fitter, and read up on ways to pleasure women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:03 PM
1

Yeah so? What's wrong with that? Either you're exclusive or you're not. If you're not, then at least be open about it so potential partners can decide if they want to bother with your stanky ass. It's simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:22 PM
1

"Rotation" implies it's not exclusive and that the guy has a harem. That's what I'm saying is immoral and nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:52 PM
5

On the contrary most women and girls internalize what happens to them, accepting blame and self-loathing when they are victims of abuse for example. Maybe this is a cultural difference but I see women get blamed for everything all the time. It's the tired old "Well what was she wearing?" mentality and it's alive and well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:37 PM
1

Hey it's your money and time. Waste it however you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:27 PM
1

No, that's called a one night stand, which is also a bad idea for reasons stated above. Do you understand how humans work at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:26 PM
1

Okay you really need to get your story straight. If you're not married to them, you broke up. That's how that works. They're with other men now and not you. You didn't succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:24 PM
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STDs have been steadily declining in heterosexual relationships for decades. The 60's and 70's got wild after the stricter norms of prior decades broke down, we sorta got it out of our systems, and now everyone wants marriage or at least cohabitation again. Anyone can get a serious relationship if it's what they want. And most people want it, so they do. Really, promiscuity is seen as gross after about sophomore year of college.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:47 PM
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Exclusive for the entire time the two people are together. What about this is hard to comprehend?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:25 PM
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Passport bros only want the traditional ones. They only want their fantasy. I'm trying to tell them that women are the same everywhere and they're not going to find a submissive wife, from any country, if they can't even find one at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:24 PM
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No, not really. Most people are at least serially monogamous, with a long term relationship being the goal. Promiscuity is way down compared to decades past.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:21 PM
1

Sounds like they did actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:19 PM
1

"Treating me like an equal human while expecting me to uphold masculine traditions like initiating everything, paying, being chivalrous but not too chivalrous, confident but sensitive, blah blah" Yeah. As in, being a well-rounded male human. What's your issue with that? BTW the foreign women are going to expect that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:30 PM
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If you "don't let them" then they move on. Dod you marry any of these foreign women? Do you even know where they are now?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:25 PM
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No. But sexual relationships should be exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:24 PM
1

Wasn't there a TV show about it on MTV or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:21 AM
3

Just know that any candying of your asses done by women no matter where they are in the world is going to be fake in order to extract something from you. Western women are at least honest, and generally treat men as equal human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:19 AM
1

Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:14 PM
2

With multiple people on rotation, yes. It's also a good way to spread disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:57 PM
2

Not all attractive men have women on rotation. Attractive people can be, and frequently are, moral people. Either way I doubt anyone really cares who other people sleep with. I got mine and that's all I care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:42 PM
1

I talked to my husband for the first time through Facebook after we'd both been to the same concert. Probably would never have crossed paths otherwise. Social media is how most couples meet nowadays so you might as well use it as a tool. It's never going away.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:30 PM
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If you want a partner, or friends, a baby daddy, someone to engage with you whatever weird fetish or fringe political beliefs you may have, you have to look on social media to find the like-minded people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:03 PM
1

Men don't vent their problems to women. It's inappropriate. Go to the bar and talk sht with your buddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:20 PM
0

When has anyone said that feminism is also for men? Whoever is saying that needs to STFU.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:18 PM
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Even pimply faced gamer dudes can and do get girlfriends. It doesn't matter what you look like or even your personality, some girl will like you. If guys are single it's because they want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:09 PM
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Yeah, conservative boys and girls tend to get married young, like right out of highschool or college.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:06 PM
1

The heart wants what it wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:00 AM
1

Sure. A purse isn't a necessity. It's an accessory that's nice to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:59 PM
1

Well yeah. For women that's kind of a status/dominance hierarchy thing though. For those that care anyway. It's not necessarily about the men. Women do all this shit to impress other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:58 PM
1

To me it's to my detriment to have junk in my life that I don't want. I'd rather have no purse for awhile and work hard until I could snag the one I do want. I think a lot of women think this way, unless they're desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:52 PM
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Probably. It's either that or they're making money from the platform itself and they're doing it for views. Or they have weird daddy issues or enjoy exhibitionism as a fetish I suppose. You'd have to ask a psychologist and I'm not one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:03 PM
1

Why is it to their detriment? A purse isn't a need. Personally I would work hard and hold out for the exact purse I wanted rather than settle for one I don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:01 PM
2

I have no idea. I've never done that. But I suspect it's to attract customers, if you know what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 09:59 PM
1

What's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 09:57 PM
2

Exactly. Just like everyone does. Knowing that there are a million horny dudes that would sleep with you if you asked them isn't validating though. And it doesn't alleviate feelings of isolation and loneliness. If anything it makes them worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 09:55 PM
13

Women don't get validation through sex like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:55 PM
5

Low standards are what get you used. Bums are users. If a man isn't willing to invest in you it's clear that he's just there to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:54 PM
2

Nah that's silly. It used to be common for war buddies are closer to each other than to their wives. Sisters or brothers probably have the closest bonds of all. A heterosexual relationship is more like a business transaction than anything. Sure it's nice if there are butterflies at the beginning but that wears off. Men today just don't want to be close to anyone. They expect some random unrelated women to come and save them from their own heads. It's just not reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:48 PM
1

They miss their mommies and fewer and fewer modern women are willing to fill that role.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:44 PM
2

Yeah I don't get it, but good for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 01:43 AM
5

Nothing is trivial. If it's important to the individual, it's important. Most of this is basic adult stuff and proof of character and responsibility. Especially the has kids part.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 01:42 AM
8

Those are all pretty big deal breakers in dating for everyone or at least they should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 11:35 PM
1

Women don't also give and give to their friends? Yes we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 09:58 PM
0

Goodbye already. Go on now. Ge'it!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 09:57 PM
1

It's odd to me because these guys want sex usually. Shaming, threatening and scaring women about sex isn't the way to get them in the mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 09:57 PM
0

Of course it's not. All you guys have to do is pull out and you're good. Women have to track their ovulations and it's a hassle that's not even accurate a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 09:56 PM
9

You can't kill it once it's born. That would be murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 09:53 PM
3

Men need to stop thinking like this. Nobody is manipulating you. You're not that important.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:32 PM
1

Any woman who says "How do you know when you're pretty? Well a man tells you, silly!" is a blatant pickme or is being glib. That is so stupid and misogynistic and fits right into chauvinistic stereotypes. Women in the real world do not feel that way. F what any journalist says.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:34 AM
4

Who says it's a gendered issue. Both genders are so boring LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:40 PM
1

That sounds like a facetious title meant to draw in readers. Don't be so literal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:38 PM
2

I've read that article. She never said that she missed being catcalled. She was concerned at the state of young men who seem so impotent and disinterested that they don't catcall anybody or pursue dating. No woman appreciate being harassed on the street by strangers. I'll never understand why men think that this is flattering in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:22 PM
2

Hey how's it goin?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:28 PM
1

I've never even heard the term "plan b". Women's male friends are typically co-workers, neighbors, their gal pal's partner, friends of relatives, the guy they see at concerts/activities a lot, and maybe even exes. They're not just random dudes they pick from a lineup. I mean heck I've made friends using social media and we've hung out at shows and whatnot and I didn't even know what the guy looked like prior.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:17 PM
1

Women don't work like that. We either want him or we don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:13 PM
1

If they're men's pants and she wears men's underwear too, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:30 PM
2

I had a friend who started getting into this stuff and I slowly distanced myself from him like Homer Simpson backing up into the bushes. I don't f around with any of it. Shame makes people weird. Found out later the guy went to prison for something really scary so I'm glad I got outa der when I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:28 PM
1

Women like having friends. And those messages aren't as mixed as you might think. Friends goof around and "flirt" with each other sometimes in a joking way, even same sex friends. If that's not a guy's style then he should avoid being friends with women who are like that. It's very simple. And you got it twisted. Women don't get validation from attention from men they are not attracted to. Sexual attention from men who are not attractive is like being pestered by flies. That's the best way I can…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:14 PM
2

What's up with all the guys here demanding empathy for men's issues and whatnot? That might be the segment of the male population that OP is referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 06:24 PM
1

And some men just need fishing, and a chair. That's it!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 06:12 PM
2

I agree and as a woman it's obnoxious. The only woman who's job it is to validate a man is his mother. The world doesn't exist to validate anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 06:10 PM
1

I agree and as a woman it's obnoxious. The only woman who's job it is to validate a man is his mother. The world doesn't exist to validate anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 06:08 PM
-3

It's not a personal attack it's the universal "you".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:58 PM
-6

You don't listen though. If you did then you'd have a girlfriend because you met her in person and listened to what she had to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:51 PM
1

Whenever I go to any sort of activity or social function it's 80-100% female. All the guys are with their partners, usually looking miserable and not interacting with anybody. Even sports games are getting like this. It's just odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:45 PM
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If people saying things on Reddit stop you from living your life in the real world, I don't think you can be helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:44 PM
1

Whenever I go to any sort of activity or social function it's 80-100% female. All the guys are with their partners, usually looking miserable and not interacting with anybody. Even sports games are getting like this. It's just odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:43 PM
1

Um, I didn't ask for a source. Did you reply to the wrong person, did your brain just break, or are you a bot? Either way reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:53 PM
1

Okay again, those are personal problems. Society can't fix your feelings of inadequacy. And being okay with being single is definitely not going to get you dates or a partner. This just sounds like more worthless social justice language. In the real world everyone needs to harden tf up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:51 PM
1

K. Reported then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:47 PM
1

Not if you're there to make money from showing your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:46 PM
1

Yes. Some women die before they have kids too. Women die in childbirth too and that also affects the population. It's up to each of us to survive and reproduce, and also contribute to keeping our communities alive. I don't know anything about that book, and I don't care. Not my genre. You gonna drop it or keep this up? I don't like being annoyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:44 PM
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I don't read fiction. I think you misunderstood my comment. I'm saying men need to elevate themselves or else go extinct because nature doesn't gaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:39 PM
1

Now I'm confused. Are you two the same user or not? It looks like I have several different people seemingly trying to argue with me about this in the same thread for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:33 AM
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Ah. We're talking about different species of nerds I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:30 AM
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Yeah on Twitch streams maybe but that doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:18 AM
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Um no. Before I explain it, are you an adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:17 AM
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When men say stuff like this I can't help but wonder if they have transexual fantasies. Biological women DO NOT think like this, at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:40 AM
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They have no problems getting dates though for some reason. Maybe you ruin dating for yourself lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:36 AM
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Fit and nerd do not come in the same package my good sir LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:34 AM
1

Okay I'll ask you again. What do you want to be done about it? Be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:27 AM
1

You typed all that for no reason because I don't care. Women don't want random men bothering them in public. There's no discussion to be had about it. Either learn the time and place to approach or deal with rejection however cruel and hostile it may be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:24 AM
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Yeah it...it did. NASA and some Nazi scientists did it. They didn't ask permission from the people. So what's your actual point here? What do you expect society to actually do to make dating easier for men? There are already social spaces set up for it, countless books and videos on it, even dating services. What's stopping you from using those resources? Because it's not the system. The system WANTS people fucking and giving birth to more tax payers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:37 PM
1

"They acknowledged challenges, adapted, and built structures to make the impossible happen." 🎉🎊 Yay you got it! Now stop demanding that other people do things for you and go do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:12 PM
1

It's impossible not to get someone if you actually try 🤷‍♀️. The key word there is try. You guys don't try. You make excuses. "Chad" bless your heart. I was a 30 year old supervising drunk college students. 20-somethings look like babies to me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:10 PM
1

They're depressed from not being loved by their mom or dad. The attention seeking is maladaptive coping. It doesn't matter if they get the attention or not, the hurt remains.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:04 PM
1

Tiktok is the app where kids were eating the Tide pods.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:01 PM
1

Again, I'd need to see it to believe it. I've never seen any female type get depressed because of a lack of attention from males, not even in middle school when we were all boy crazy. But yeah, it's a valid point about girls who grew up not getting attention from their fathers spending their lives trying to fill that void. But that's not a matter of wanting male attention. That's a matter of being psychologically damaged from a parent not being there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 02:57 PM
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Well yeah, I'm saying the odds are almost certain if you go to these places as a young man. But it depends on the individual and how they present themselves of course. If they present decently and have just a little game, and they keep trying sooner or later they'll find someone. Probably soon if it's the night of a football game or a Friday night. I don't know what some of you guys were doing during your 20's but it definitely wasn't this. I was a bar bak, I would have seen you LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 02:46 PM
1

The dating lives of no two people are ever the same. Why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 02:27 PM
1

Everything online and especially Tiktok is tainted. Jersey Shore is scripted television too. And the antics of drunk kids at the club aren't exactly representative of how society works, thank God. But you were almost on to something for a second. Women want attention from the men THEY DESIRE. Not men in general. These are specific individual men at any given time and place. A lot of times women aren't interested in any of the men around and would prefer that they just act pleasant. And it's not …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 02:26 PM
1

Um no. Did you just ignore most of my comment and reply based on the first sentence of it? I don't know where you get hate from. But think whatever you want it really doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 02:14 PM
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Women don't want attention from MEN. They want attention from THE MAN in their lives. But LOL yeah. These content creators are definitely married with kids and a dog and are posting that stuff as click bait. Or if it's anonymous written posts like on Reddit, it's pure bullshit possibly written by an AI or copy pasted. You'll notice that it's mostly males interacting with this content. It's like you guys are obsessed with it and that's by design.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 02:03 PM
1

It's not denial. There is no system. It doesn't exist. It's just your mammalian brain trying to make sense of the chaos. Anything and I mean anything is possible on this planet. You have to figure out how to make it happen. How do you think we put men on the moon and split the atom?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:54 PM
1

Dude, what did I JUST get done saying about Tiktok and rage content? You have never seen any of this happen in real life and I will bet money on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:59 AM
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Oh I should also have said no Reddit sources. This site is 99% made up stories that get posted over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:57 AM
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I have a hard time believing any woman is miserable without male attention. That'd be like a cat being miserable from not being chased by screaming toddlers. If I see the evidence (NOT some garbage from Tiktok or a podcast) maybe I'll believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 08:21 PM
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K that answered my questions then. You don't interact with humans ever and you make excuses as to why you refuse to. I reiterate: that's not a systemic problem it's a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 07:29 PM
0

Yes and it's obnoxious and stressful. That's why they are glad when it stops.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:49 PM
1

No dude. Do you not have any life at all? Sorry that sounds mean but how do you make friends or have any social life at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:47 PM
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Sure. Or go to parties and bars near a college campus. It's almost impossible to not get hit on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:48 PM
1

There are no systemic issues and the system isn't broken. In fact there isn't a system. If you want something in life you have to do what it takes to get it. Simple as. Sounds like you want a participation trophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:42 PM
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Not talking about relationships. We wre talking about make attention. Women typically want a partner and maybe a fling here or there but get way more surplus attention than they want. It's a relief when you get older and can just chill with the hubby and be left alone by the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:38 PM
1

Speaking from experience or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:39 AM
-7

Shoulda spent that time getting some instead of playing videogames then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:34 AM
2

The average marriage for women age is between 25-30.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:33 AM
0

Women hook up with Chads (and in general) as tryouts for marriage. Try before you buy as they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:32 AM
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Oh trust me, it's unwanted period, and post menopausal women are quick to tell you how much more relaxed their lives are without men hounding them. Ask them and see for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:31 AM
1

If you actually took the time to get to know them you'd find a lot more. These women have interests you probably don't know about or would write off immediately. And who are you talking about, your ex girlfriend? That's a lot of specifics. Just a note, you're coming across like an arrogant rich kid (paying 1000's for people's trips, etc.) Tattoos and playing guitar are not special or interesting, at all. They are downright basic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:19 AM
1

Well that's quite cowardly and immature. Very unmanly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:12 AM
0

Serial abusers are smart and manipulative as well as toxic. The forever alone guys are dumb and socially obtuse, as well as toxic. Doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:21 AM
3

See that doesn't work though. There's this thing called "agency". Do men have it? If not, maybe they shouldn't have rights then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:16 AM
4

I've only ever heard incels say that. What they are really saying is "pick me".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:12 AM
1

Yep. Arrested development. Grody.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:25 AM
1

No, people make a conscious choice that commit crimes. It's not their mommy's fault. Quit blaming women for men's behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:12 AM
1

Well those men are degenerates. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:11 AM
1

Lust is really meaningless and women figure this out by about age 22. Catch up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:26 PM
1

How many kids have you given birth to?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:24 PM
0

Not in marriage. Women marry for love. These degenerate goofballs marry for lust. It it wasn't about sex they wouldn't be whining about their wives not being hot anymore after having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:22 PM
1

Because it's his fault she got fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:11 PM
1

If your spouse becomes an unemployed shut in the correct response is to help them, not manipulate and cheat on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:10 PM
0

Women don't do that though. Men do. These specific men do. And it's projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:06 PM
1

Being self-absorbed is very boring indeed. Guitars and art don't make up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:03 PM
1

People can sleep with or settle for whoever they want and there's nothing wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:59 PM
5

Who is responsible for men being criminals: those individual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:56 PM
1

No, that's just quitting. But you guys do you. Just know that nobody will notice or care about your absence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 08:50 PM
1

A healthy male mindset meets challenges. That's literally what testosterone does for you guys. It's your gift so use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:55 PM
-3

I specifically mentioned men since it's what the post is about but there's no reason this wouldn't also apply to women. I think women are happier and a lot nicer, and a helluva lot more sane and grounded when we are with a good partner (speaking for myself a little bit here).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:34 PM
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I thought about that and yes I'd label voluntarily single men as losers as well unless they're doing it for spiritual reasons, are elderly and already been there/done that, or are highly dedicated experts in an important field and don't have the time for a relationship. Overall I think being partnered rounds us out as human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:10 PM
1

Some feelings aren't valid though. They're just not. That's why we have a rational part of our brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:55 PM
1

Can I go golfing with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:27 PM
3

The disadvantaged men already are dropping out. But guess what. They're not the average. Average people are still dating, falling in love, getting married and starting families just as they always have. What we are seeing today is better selective pressure. Not every loser gets to mate. That's a good thing. And yes you absolutely are a loser if you're single under 99% of circumstances and yes society should continue to stigmatize it, not foster it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:23 PM
1

I would almost disagree with this because cheaters, liars and scumbag have existed for millions of years and these people truly have no shame. Like literally shaming doesn't work on them. But our culture is openly encouraging the behavior nowadays and it's a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:59 PM
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