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| 1 | Why do a lot of you say, it’s easy for men to get a date nowadays when it really isn’t?I think men need to harden the f up and stop demanding mommy feel sorry for them or fix their problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Men always support men but expect women not to support each otherLeft-wingers are right about almost nothing I can think of. The biggest misogynists I've know were communist/socialist men's rights and feminist guys. I don't see any of them on either side of the political spectrum building men's shelters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Men always support men but expect women not to support each otherMen are never going to stop telling women how to think, feel and act. There are whole religions centered on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Men always support men but expect women not to support each otherMen do not need special consideration and men's rights activists are wrong about everything. They're just playing a b.s. game to troll feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of you say, it’s easy for men to get a date nowadays when it really isn’t?Men are the ones complaining about not getting sympathy. You're doing it now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of you say, it’s easy for men to get a date nowadays when it really isn’t?All standards are fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of you say, it’s easy for men to get a date nowadays when it really isn’t?This sub can't offer a solution for those men. Every situation is different and everyone has to figure it out for themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 03:47 PM |
| 0 | Men not going to collegeI've never heard of a college being 70% women. Maybe a liberal arts college. IDK you sound like you're talking about freshmen. Most college students end up meeting their spouse in college, through their internships or at work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Men not going to collegeAnd? They're all seeing more than one guy too and weighing their options. That's normal in college. Eventually people do pair off. I think I knew one girl in grad school who wasn't engaged, and she wasn't dating anybody (me LOL). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 01:30 PM |
| 0 | Men not going to collegeEducation is really important to me and highly educated men are more interesting. I like a man to be able to hold nerdy conversations with me and this and that. The higher earning power of course is something everybody likes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the tableUnfortunately such relationships are almost impossible to get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 01:41 PM |
| 0 | Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the tableBetter try harder and try different things until you find what works then. Gotta get in where you fit in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the tableI'm asking what benefit in life. Bench pressing is literally less practical than being able to open a coconut with one's teeth. Put me on an island and I'm picking that old lady over some strong guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the tableHow do they smell? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the tablePeople with dwarfism and guys in wheelchairs can press huge numbers. Some of them are women too. I saw a muscle chick beat all the guys in a jar opening contest once. A saw an old woman rip a coconut open with her teeth. She beat a bulldog at the same task. Point being: overall strength and skill can't be measured by any one metric. We need all kinds of people to make the world turn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 06:52 PM |
| -2 | Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the tableI don't think they're saying men need to make more bread. Women can make their own and often more. Men need to have OTHER things to offer, such as being supportive, offering a deep connection, being a good father and partner and making her life easier and better in general. Lotta guys utterly lack the ability to do those things regardless of how much money they're pulling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 05:30 PM |
| 6 | Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the tableWhen does bench pressing ability have any benefit to anything in life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 05:27 PM |
| -1 | Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the tableThey get played then are happier when they quit dating altogether. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 05:26 PM |
| -3 | Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the tableIf you're a guy struggling to get a relationship because of looks or whatever better get on it, compete and win one of those jobs then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 05:24 PM |
| 0 | Why doesn't porn seem to warp womens' perceptions of sex the same way it does for men?Women in porn only look good with their clothes off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 05:22 PM |
| 1 | There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety.At least I have friends and am not jealous of pedophiles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 08:14 PM |
| 1 | There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety.I didn't even say "touch grass". Do you have schizophrenia or something? You were saying some weird stuff about pedophiles in another thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 06:27 PM |
| 2 | There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety.Is this a serious question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 05:40 PM |
| 1 | There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety.How many single sexless men do you personally know? Bet it's single digits. Bet it's only one: you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 05:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: just because she enjoys the sex doesn't mean you aren't using her for her bodyWhat a group does in general has no bearing on how you should treat somebody. That's bloody stupid and you know it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 03:09 PM |
| 1 | CMV: just because she enjoys the sex doesn't mean you aren't using her for her bodyThere's no indication that she's doing that to him. So no it's probably not fair at all. He's a sociopath. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 01:57 PM |
| 0 | There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety.Nowhere in my comment did I say the word "condones". If you have a problem with neanderthals, then go away. You're white-knighting for a guy. Ew. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 10:24 PM |
| -1 | There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety.eVeRy SoCiEtY hAs RaPe iT's nOt ThAt bAd sToP oVeRReAcTiNg! Please evolve already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 09:33 PM |
| 1 | What’s going on with the ‘older men mainly want younger women to manipulate them’ claim?I'm not going to he that specific, you'll just have to use common sense. If a man is 10+ years senior and on the same maturity level as the woman(or girl) that's not okay. There's something seriously wrong with him. And no people don't mature fast for their age. Not by that much. Maturity comes with experience. If two people have had absolutely no life experiences in common, then what are they doing together? The younger one is having their time and life potential wasted by some old fool. It's u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 09:04 PM |
| 1 | What’s going on with the ‘older men mainly want younger women to manipulate them’ claim?Things in common that matter: growing up in a similar culture in a similar time period. Having similar life experiences like having kids or not, being married or not, getting divorced or not. Having the wisdom that life brings. Having a similar level of maturity in general. On the more practical side if one partner is a businessperson looking to run a ranch or something it makes the most sense for their potential partner to have knowledge and skill in that area as well. These are big things in l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 08:29 PM |
| 1 | There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety.If they start glorifying violence and stripping people of rights then yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 08:23 PM |
| 0 | What’s going on with the ‘older men mainly want younger women to manipulate them’ claim?It absolutely does mean you have nothing in common that is meaningful. Liking the same videogames, having a similar sense of humor, etc. are superficial. It's smarter to choose a partner who you can relate to on the deepest possible level. Old men can't possibly relate to young women on anything, superficial or deep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 07:47 PM |
| 1 | What’s going on with the ‘older men mainly want younger women to manipulate them’ claim?A younger person who's never been married isn't a match for a divorcee. Get with women your own age who have had similar life experiences and that you have something in common with. It ain't hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 07:31 PM |
| 5 | "Women marry men hoping they will change. Men marry women hoping they will not. So, each is inevitably disappointed." How can this quote apply to modern relationships and dating, and what is the solution if the problem actually exists?Better not give the wife any pregnancies then. That's what screws us up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 06:35 PM |
| 3 | What’s going on with the ‘older men mainly want younger women to manipulate them’ claim?It will always be inappropriate because these older men are all either married or there's a reason that they're still single at their age. They're not suitable partners for young women for those reasons, and also because there is a power imbalance. Older people have more affluence and options than young people and it's sll too easy for the younger one to end up used and have their best years wasted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 06:23 PM |
| 2 | There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety.Better yet assisted s*icide. These guys resist self-help with every fiber or their being and then some. F them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 03:02 PM |
| 3 | There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety.I see both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 03:00 PM |
| -2 | There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety.Hate to break it to you but most men are getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 02:58 PM |
| 0 | There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety.It's men who are the ones saying that. Hence this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 01:57 PM |
| -1 | There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety.Oh look, a rape apologist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 01:55 PM |
| 0 | What part of a man's personality are women attracted to?Perseverance, resiliency, and maturity. And being spiritually grounded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 01:53 PM |
| 2 | People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages.Dude, you literally brought it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 12:55 PM |
| 16 | Your opinion on men who purchase relationships or rent girlfriends.That's just sad and weird. The mating dynamic in Japan in a nutshell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 08:43 PM |
| -2 | The Overabundance of Male Validation Has Made Us DisposableGood for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 05:10 PM |
| -1 | The Overabundance of Male Validation Has Made Us DisposableMen have always posed a threat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 04:48 PM |
| 2 | The Overabundance of Male Validation Has Made Us DisposableWhy do models post thirst traps? Same reason that strippers show off what God gave them I suppose. $ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 04:34 PM |
| -3 | The Overabundance of Male Validation Has Made Us Disposable99% of male attention ranges from annoying to frightening. Validating isn't even on the map. If men were to interact with women respectfully, platonically, with no signs of sexual interest, that would make us feel validated. It would make us like men a lot more. Nobody likes to feel threatened or objectified. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 04:26 PM |
| 2 | People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages.Are you a pedo or rapist? Speaking from experience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 02:23 PM |
| 2 | People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages.LOL what? Nobody gets tens of thousands of women. And have you ever actually seen a pedo or talked to one? I have. These gus are utter failures with women, and life in general. That's why they go after minors. And everyone hates them. I've seen women literally bully them to death. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 02:16 PM |
| -1 | There is a serious hypocrisy in modern dating.Most formula is trash. Have you not looked at the ingredients? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 11:25 PM |
| 1 | People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages.I'm not even talking about my own relationship. But if you're going to try to make this discussion personal I could always report you and have done with it, since that is against the sub's rules. I'm telling you to listen to what people say instead of talking over them. It's what a good, non-shitty person does. Read the other comments here talking about the subject. It will enlighten you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 08:47 PM |
| – | The dating norms are exactly where they should be, applies to both men and women.Dude they never shut up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 08:24 PM |
| – | The dating norms are exactly where they should be, applies to both men and women.Almost everyone eventually does end up with a partner that they want. And there are multiple ways to date even. I would say that humanity is doing well in that regard. Other areas, not so much, but at least we're good in the love department. Relatively speaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 08:14 PM |
| – | The dating norms are exactly where they should be, applies to both men and women.Based. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 07:55 PM |
| 1 | People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages.Dude, don't babble. People are literally telling you why they got divorced. Their spouse cheated, was abusive or left them. They were useless dead weight. They were bad to the kids. They were unsupportive or the bedroom was dead. This is very simple and direct stuff. No ego trips detected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Men are tired with the gamesLOL how is it not a big win for everyone if guys no women want anyway walk away? We have zero use for these mf'ers. Please, walk away. Faster! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 07:46 PM |
| 4 | Men are tired with the gamesGood. Do that and leave us alone. Everybody wins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Men are tired with the gamesAnyone's can have whatever standard they want and it requires no justification. And women don't have to feel sorry for guys who don't get picked. I don't know why this needs to be explained over and over in this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 06:30 PM |
| 1 | People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages.You have absolutely no way of knowing people's motivations, unless they tell you. Unless you believe you are psychic and everybody else are liars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 06:25 PM |
| 8 | How do women in relationships react when they meet a man significantly more attractive and more successful than their current partner?Sucks to be them. I don't think cheating will help though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 06:23 PM |
| 7 | How do women in relationships react when they meet a man significantly more attractive and more successful than their current partner?We're as monogamous as we choose to be. Part of intelligence is not letting involuntary urges dictate your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 04:57 PM |
| 2 | People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages.Women are telling you the truth about how they think and feel. You just don't like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 04:51 PM |
| 1 | People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages.I'll bet you can't point to one person who says the reason for their divorce was boredom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 04:39 PM |
| 3 | How do women in relationships react when they meet a man significantly more attractive and more successful than their current partner?Not to mention, people cheat with uggos. A lot. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 04:18 PM |
| 5 | How do women in relationships react when they meet a man significantly more attractive and more successful than their current partner?I am, in my own opinion, married to the hottest man on Earth. And I still look. I'm sure that he does too. Doesn't mean that either of us are unhappy or will leave or cheat. Human sexuality doesn't automatically get switched off when we become partnered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 04:17 PM |
| 2 | "Red pill" men really just want approval from the same women they complain aboutHow's "acknowledging reality" working out for you guys? I don't see many happily married red pillers increasing the human population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 04:00 PM |
| 0 | Men are tired with the gamesDude's been watching some crazy porn. 15 inches. Wow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 03:45 PM |
| 4 | Men are tired with the gamesPaying for stuff doesn't make a man any less of a jerk if he is one. Women don't have to tolerate that behavior, regardless of their "value". You either treat us how we want to be treated or we'll show you the door. That's how it works and is how it should work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Men are tired with the gamesPeople just need to manage their time better. I'm willing to be that all these lonely guys complaining that they never have time for anything are hooked on social media, videogames, possibly drinking and weed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Whats the true minimum?Minimum height: none. Minimum fitness level: athletic. Must be able to keep up with me on hikes and preferably plays sports or does martial arts. Unappealing male hobbies: don't care. Entertainment value: must have a sense of humor, preferably one that's crude, crass and dark like mine. Political: just don't be a sheep. I don't care your beliefs are as long as they're sincerely held and not trendy. One to add: at the bare minimum in terms of family, a man must be on good terms with his father an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 07:53 PM |
| 1 | How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to?Depends on my hormones and the time of the month, and if the guy gets close enough to where I can smell him. If I'm around lots of men day in and day out chances are there will be several that I'm genuinely attracted to and I will probably develop a crush on one. So it's not rare at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Women are only against age gap relationships when the man is much less attractive than the woman.So, you dated and groomed little girls. I shouldn't need to explain why that's bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 07:36 PM |
| 4 | Women are only against age gap relationships when the man is much less attractive than the woman.I'm going out on a limb here but i suspect you've done this sort of thing before, with girls much younger than her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 06:41 PM |
| 14 | Looking for Blackpill or Non-binary ModeratorsPreferably disabled and black. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Women are only against age gap relationships when the man is much less attractive than the woman.Perpetuating the cycle of abuse I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 06:35 PM |
| 1 | People who think two parent household automatically means a good one are very naive.I have an idea. How about don't marry unhinged abusive psychos, and don't be toxic? Is it really very hard to be normal and raise your kids normally? When I was growing up the messed up families were 1 in 100 but Reddit acts like most are that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Liberal women often increasingly critical of men who voted democrat in the recent U.S. presidential election?I'm a liberal and I can't stand 99.9% of Democrats and I don't vote for them. Is this aimed at me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Do women prefer meeting men through dating apps, mutual friends or being cold approached?2. And often times they are my male friends and acquaintances that I met on my own and we decided to try out dating and see where it goes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 12:00 AM |
| 9 | Most provider men do not end up with traditional womenHow many 20-something guys are provider minded? They're definitely not by choice. Usually when they knock a girl up they don't even stick around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 06:47 PM |
| 5 | Dont say “Choose Better” and then get mad at picky women with high standards.I'm very sorry that your family dynamic was that way but that's not normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Women, Do You Always Need an Emotional Connection to Sleep with a Man You're Seeing?It really depends on how frequently and how long term it is. Every weekend for two years is very different from now and then with the f buddy from work or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will.I would choose prison and continue to appeal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will.When the argument is "just as dangerous" I'm comparing the worst things that both sexes do to the other. It's not even a close contest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will.More than getting beaten, raped, maimed and tortured by a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 05:38 PM |
| 0 | Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will.Calling the atrocities that men commit equal to some mean catty female hurting your reputation is trolling. I can't (and don't) believe OP is even serious. This post is vile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will.Compared to being assaulted and fearing for your life among everything else, it is. Both are awful but there's a BIG difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will.Who says the assault is by a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Dating Apps Will Never "Fix" Themselves—They’re Built to Make Sure Men StruggleOff hand Margaret Sanger is the only female eugenicist of note. If you know of others mention them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 04:36 PM |
| 1 | If a woman voted against your reproductive rights, would you still want to date her?Trump didn't take reproductive rights away. The states did. And I don't think any of them even asked their voters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Women truly do not care if you’re unattractive like you think we do. It’s truly about confidence and charm….Lesbians have different rules and that's all I'm going to say. Straight women definitely have "types" and the men we like definitely don't have to be even close to conventionally attractive. If people want evidence, hang out with bikers sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Dating Apps Will Never "Fix" Themselves—They’re Built to Make Sure Men StruggleThe government bungles everything and I guarantee they'd be using the apps to push eugenics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Dating Apps Will Never "Fix" Themselves—They’re Built to Make Sure Men StruggleThe ones that are off their phones and have an active social life are the ones finding partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 02:52 PM |
| 13 | Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will.False equivalency. Be honest OP, would you rather be accused of something and be inconvenienced by it, or be asaulted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 02:32 PM |
| 0 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsBecause that's not my area of interest nor what this conversation is about. I'm talking about men being responsible for their own behavior. It's not women's job to fix men and besides they don't like it when we try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsWhy are you talking about STD's in underage girls? Keep that shit out of my inbox please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 05:05 PM |
| -1 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsWhat the heck is up with your profile? Put a shirt on sir. None of the 14 year old girls here are interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 05:04 PM |
| -1 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsKiss my shiny red ass. 🙂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 04:43 PM |
| -3 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsI think you might be the one with a problem actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 04:42 PM |
| -1 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsNo. It's just that if someone said something like that about my mother they wouldn't be walking away with all their teeth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 04:22 PM |
| -4 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsWow. What a POS you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 03:59 PM |
| -8 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsThere's no rational reason that some men act like turds. Their fathers model that in the home, and the sons become their fathers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 02:49 PM |
| -1 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsSay it with me: Women are not responsible for men's behaviors and attitudes. Men are not women's responsibility to change or fix. Men have agency. If they didn't, they wouldn't deserve rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Are men owed responses?The comment that started this was talking about violence/stalking etc. against women vs. men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 07:26 PM |
| -2 | Are men owed responses?Either take action by advocating for yourselves or shut up about it. You MRA's are doing male victims a disservice with all your impotent whining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 05:15 PM |
| -2 | Are men owed responses?Okay then stop complaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 04:34 PM |
| 3 | About the "friendzone" and it's implicationsI literally repeated the words you used for women. Most women even. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 10:34 PM |
| 4 | About the "friendzone" and it's implicationsSo, you are making it about women then. Those evil devious manipulative women are wanting to be.... friends with men?! How dare they. Quit being such a victim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 09:30 PM |
| 3 | About the "friendzone" and it's implicationsBecause it sounds like you are complaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: As a guy, why would it be wrong to hold out for a specific preference that doesn't match the mainstream, such as a woman who acts like a pornstar or a tradwife or anything else?Unfortunately some people are judgemental a-holes who never grew out of the highschool phase. I think there might be some sour grapes in the bunch too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Can hypergamy include factors other than economic status?Hypergamy is such a boomer thing. I don't think it exists in the liberated world. Especially among millennials. We work multiple jobs, both spouses, and we make it work haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 09:06 PM |
| 4 | About the "friendzone" and it's implicationsSounds like it's not women's problem then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 08:54 PM |
| 2 | CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobicI don't care what people do or who they love, as long as they're adults. So no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 08:30 PM |
| -1 | Are men owed responses?Women fought hard to be taken seriously. Men should too. And it's not like they aren't I mean, this isn't the 1940's | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 08:29 PM |
| 1 | To Women ,High Tier Men and Low Tier Men are 2 entirely Different Genders with Different Rules.No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 11:03 PM |
| 4 | To Women ,High Tier Men and Low Tier Men are 2 entirely Different Genders with Different Rules.You literally interpret everything I say the opposite of what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 10:52 PM |
| 8 | To Women ,High Tier Men and Low Tier Men are 2 entirely Different Genders with Different Rules.Nobody NEEDS porn or videogames. Edit: but pretty much every man uses them, even hot guys. And that's fine. Just don't mainstream it. It's disrespectful and intimidating to women. Point blank. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 10:43 PM |
| 3 | CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobicI told you the reason. Because I don't like it. Why is that hard to understand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 10:18 PM |
| 2 | CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobicIt just is. Not my thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 10:13 PM |
| 0 | Are men owed responses?What's stopping more men from getting the law involved when women stalk or assault them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 09:46 PM |
| 4 | To Women ,High Tier Men and Low Tier Men are 2 entirely Different Genders with Different Rules.Women don't care about your thoughts. They care about how you treat them. Being objectified feels terrible no matter who it's from. It's not like hot guys get a pass for watching degrading porn or smut in video games. It's all repulsive. Do that shit in private where we don't have to know about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 09:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobicI don't know. That's up to them and not for me to judge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 09:36 PM |
| 0 | CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobicAre you referring to OP's question? The answer is because men seek any excuse to shame women for rejecting them even if it's totally absurd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 09:36 PM |
| -1 | CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobicIt is gay though. I am straight. So why would I want to date gay men or women? Make sense please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 09:33 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobicPeople can reject for any reason or no reason at all. It doesn't require a justification or explanation and it's not a flaw in the person's character if they do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 09:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobicBisexuality is a characteristic I find unattractive. No further discussion needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 09:31 PM |
| 0 | CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobicNobody is asking. It was a rhetorical question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 05:55 PM |
| -1 | CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobicNot wanting to fuck someone doesn't mean I'm phobic of them. I don't date women. Am I lesphobic? LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 05:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobicNobody's mating preferences need to be discussed or "corrected" as you put it. You're not going to negotiate your way into being attractive to them. It will never happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 05:53 PM |
| -1 | CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobicQuit being a victim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 05:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobicI don't date feminine people because I am not a lesbian and femininity doesn't turn me on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 05:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobicSure but it's pointless. Nobody cares what you think about who they date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 05:22 PM |
| 2 | CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobicYou can be as homophobic as you want in your mating preferences and still support the LBGT community. Nobody is obligated to be accepting generally, least of all in the dating world. It's a world of consent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 05:19 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.He calls women not worrying about men's dating problems "callous sociopathy. This is an incel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 09:21 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.No, I get what you all are saying. Young hot women can get any man they want. No duh. But the OP said "women". "Women" are diverse in age and appearance and their love lives vary widely because of it. Turns out men are pretty picky after all. That's MY point. Don't really care about your's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 08:36 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.Thin women don't have anything that men like, unless they're leg guys possibly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 08:18 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.A pretty small percentage of women are young and attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 08:14 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.We're not talking about young women with a healthy BMI. We're talking about women. That means 18-108 and all sizes and shapes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 07:55 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.So you like women who are old, wheelchair bound, fat, weird looking, with no breasts and straight hips? More power to ya. I don't think any other men agree though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 07:51 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.Men don't like thin women either. They universally like curves though to varying degrees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 05:54 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.You would be left on the shelf where I live. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 05:51 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.That's not relevant to what i just said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 05:50 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.You guys are proving me right and you're too dumb to know it. It isn't as simple as being a woman. A woman must also be young, not fat, have a good face or at least a good body, and have an assertive but still feminine personality. Otherwise she will struggle with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 05:47 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.You can't grow glutes unless you take steroids. Core muscles don't get bulky like skeletal muscles do. You can make your butt tighter and less saggy by working out. Same with the stomach. But curves are created by fay and bone and the only way to add them is through surgery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 05:44 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.Because that's word for word the stuff that the red pilled puffs say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 05:39 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.I'm not the one with the ego. And don't defend her. White-knighting is so blue pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 05:39 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.You've said a lot of things. Most of which we've all heard a million times already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 05:38 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.No, it doesn't. Curves are created by fat and the skeleton. Fat distribution and hip/ribcage ratio are genetic. You can't spot train to keep the fat in your butt while losing belly fat unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 05:36 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.This really isn't a gender thing. Less attractive people live in a desert and attractive people live in a swamp. Unattractive women do not have an easy time in dating at all. They get rejected just as much as the unattractive guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 04:28 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.Yeah this chick is delusional. Or shit posting. This is the most pickme thing I've read on here recently and the bros are lapping it up like cats at a bowl of milk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 04:25 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.Going to the gym doesn't give a woman curves any more than it makes men taller. I hate to agree with the black pillers but she is talking about the options that ATTRACTIVE women have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 04:24 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.Only attractive, young, non-obese, able bodied, healthy, fertile women have those options BTW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 04:21 PM |
| 0 | How do you define accountability, and what specific things should someone do, in your opinion, to “take accountability”?I've read a good chunk of these replies. I think it just boils down to men thinking it's their place to school women on how we ought to think, feel and behave. It's such a bore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Why is there such a deep discrepancy between the type of man some women says they want, and the type of man they actually engages with?Sometimes the ones we say we want don't engage with us or don't exist. Gotta take what's available. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 12:34 AM |
| -4 | Why is there such a deep discrepancy between the type of man some women says they want, and the type of man they actually engages with?Maybe the A's aren't interested in her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Women wield a ton of access to sex. But, it's pointless to argue about it.You've written this woman like an anime porn character LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Women wield a ton of access to sex. But, it's pointless to argue about it.Okay now I know she's fictional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 08:34 PM |
| -1 | CMV: just because she enjoys the sex doesn't mean you aren't using her for her bodyYes she does need to do that. And the man also needs to read the signs and have a heart and common sense. Again, both can be true at the same time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 11:45 PM |
| 0 | CMV: just because she enjoys the sex doesn't mean you aren't using her for her bodyBecause regardless of how dumb or weak someone is it's still wrong to hurt them even if they consent to it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 10:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV: just because she enjoys the sex doesn't mean you aren't using her for her bodyIt's exploitative and wrong to take advantage of someone's hope in order to keep them around. Relationship gurus have terms for this and it's a type of abuse. Am I the only one who has a conscience here? I'm legit concerned that so many people here think it's okay to hurt someone just because they let you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 07:04 PM |
| 1 | CMV: just because she enjoys the sex doesn't mean you aren't using her for her bodyI'm not saying it's it's wise or responsible for her to hold out for a relationship. I'm saying what the man is doing is exploitative, hurtful and wrong. What the woman is doing is foolish. Can you understand that both things can be true at the same time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls invest so much into their looks, but hate to be complimented about it?They're probably different women doing the compliments vs. the insults. That's kinda how the game works. It's the female dominance hierarchy. The better you look the more haters you have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 05:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV: just because she enjoys the sex doesn't mean you aren't using her for her bodyIt's not mutual because it's about more than sex for one side, and the other side is taking advantage of that. That is unkind, unethical, and borderline sociopathic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 05:54 PM |
| 0 | CMV: just because she enjoys the sex doesn't mean you aren't using her for her bodyYes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 05:48 PM |
| 1 | What is the difference between a guy women make wait for sex and a guy guy that gets it shortly after you first meet?Speak for yourself because that's not what I do. My point I suppose is that hookup guy may or may not even be my type and it doesn't even matter. Cafe guy might really be my type and a sloppy hook up isn't the correct protocol in that situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Women do you want your partners to do this ?Yeah nah. Maybe paying for the first date as long as it's just coffee or a movie and nothing extravagant or expensive. I'd feel guilty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls invest so much into their looks, but hate to be complimented about it?They're not doing it for (straight) men. Compliments from other women and gay men are generally welcome, because they know it's not coming from a predatory place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 11:17 PM |
| 1 | What is the difference between a guy women make wait for sex and a guy guy that gets it shortly after you first meet?Leading with sex makes guys see us as just hook up material. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 10:05 PM |
| 2 | CMV: just because she enjoys the sex doesn't mean you aren't using her for her bodyBecause they're both human beings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 09:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: just because she enjoys the sex doesn't mean you aren't using her for her bodyDoesn't matter. He's not listening to what she wants yet he's keeping her around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 08:42 PM |
| -3 | CMV: just because she enjoys the sex doesn't mean you aren't using her for her bodyBecause he's giving her false hope, using her, stringing her along and wasting her time. He doesn't care that he's hurting another human being, a human being that is giving him her time, her body, and probably other things too. If you know someone is living by the thread of a hope you should cut them off and go no contact, at least for the time being so they can move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 08:18 PM |
| 2 | CMV: just because she enjoys the sex doesn't mean you aren't using her for her bodyBecause he's leading her on with false hope just so he can have a bit of fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 08:13 PM |
| 2 | CMV: just because she enjoys the sex doesn't mean you aren't using her for her bodySorry but sex is an intimate act. It's wrong to keep someone around to repeatedly use, especially when they have feelings you. Only an immoral psychopath would do that. Unfortunately it's so common that a lot of people think it's normal and okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 08:13 PM |
| 2 | CMV: just because she enjoys the sex doesn't mean you aren't using her for her bodyIt's his fault for continuing the relationship knowing she wants more than he plans to give. That's deception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 07:50 PM |
| -2 | CMV: just because she enjoys the sex doesn't mean you aren't using her for her bodyHe did do it to hurt her. He should have broken it off and not continued to use her knowing her feelings for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 07:49 PM |
| -6 | CMV: just because she enjoys the sex doesn't mean you aren't using her for her bodyNo he's still wrong. But she is wrong too and is in for a painful lesson. Doesn't excuse him however. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 07:48 PM |
| 5 | Modern dating and IRL approachesIn social settings, yes. Randomly in public or while I'm working, no. I wish more people would show up to group activities, dances, dinners, parties and conventions and actually mingle instead of just hanging out with their friends ir looking at their phones. I wish people would introduce each other more. I've made all my friends, lovers and acquaintances that way. I've even gotten jobs that way. There's a whole world out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Why do you view male sexuality as inherently objectifying and degrading?Aren't you the same user that was asking a girl about her virginity? You are gone buddy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Why do you view male sexuality as inherently objectifying and degrading?They're not and the other user explained that to you. This isn't a kink sub and you're sexually harassing people at this point. Want to get reported? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 02:16 PM |
| 3 | Why do you view male sexuality as inherently objectifying and degrading?Nobody here is talking about kinky activities except you. Take that shit to a sub that's about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 02:07 PM |
| 4 | What is the difference between a guy women make wait for sex and a guy guy that gets it shortly after you first meet?Women don't have countless options either. And yes dude you can still exercise agency and say no any time you want regardless of what your options are. It's sex not a life boat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 02:06 PM |
| 2 | What is the difference between a guy women make wait for sex and a guy guy that gets it shortly after you first meet?I know what he's saying and he's wrong. Neither sex controls access to anything. It's up to each individual to consent or not to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Women wield a ton of access to sex. But, it's pointless to argue about it.Most people masturbate even with access to sex with a partner. Sometimes even in the same day. They're separate things. You partner sounds frigid and repressed, or possibly is being dishonest in order to prop up your ego. Women like that irritate me sorry. My problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 02:03 PM |
| 12 | What is the difference between a guy women make wait for sex and a guy guy that gets it shortly after you first meet?What kind of disgusting culture do you live in where men want sex from anyone at any time and never say no? Sorry but that's abhorrent. I feel sorry for the women LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 11:08 PM |
| 2 | What is the difference between a guy women make wait for sex and a guy guy that gets it shortly after you first meet?That's rather grotesque. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 11:06 PM |
| 9 | What is the difference between a guy women make wait for sex and a guy guy that gets it shortly after you first meet?It's like you guys think men never reject women sexually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 11:04 PM |
| 0 | What is the difference between a guy women make wait for sex and a guy guy that gets it shortly after you first meet?The guy who gets it right away is the one I met at the bar while I was trashed and horny. I don't remember exactly what he looked like. I think his name starts with an "M". Oh gross he left the condom on the bathroom sink. The guy who I take it slower with is the cute one I see at the coffee shop all the time. We talk and seems like he might like me. Maybe we'll become friends or boyfriend/girlfriend. Sometimes I think about him in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 11:02 PM |
| 7 | Women wield a ton of access to sex. But, it's pointless to argue about it.I don't think it's a gendered issue. And no it's not worth arguing about. You should see what sex addicts look like, be they male or female, trans, straight, or otherwise. They have no problem finding multiple partners a night if they're so inclined. Most people don't want that though. They want intimacy and validation which are a lot harder to get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Women wield a ton of access to sex. But, it's pointless to argue about it.Oh and let me guess, she doesn't even masturbate. Your wife is a weirdo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 10:49 PM |
| 11 | Why do you view male sexuality as inherently objectifying and degrading?It's not kink it's male culture. Women don't even have to be involved. Men do the same thing to each other in prison. It's about dominance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 10:41 PM |
| 0 | Why don’t women find effort as attractive as men do?Congratulations you're just like everybody else. Everybody cares about more than looks. But nobody likes angry losers and that doesn't make them shallow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 04:16 AM |
| 0 | Why don’t women find effort as attractive as men do?You don't get Brownie points in life for trying. You have to actually accomplish something. And even then it's not a guarantee that anyone will care. It has nothing to do with shallowness or flaws in other people. In fact I can already tell what your problem is. Maybe instead of "trying" whatever it is you are currently doing, you should try being less of a douche canoe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 02:27 AM |
| 0 | Why don’t women find effort as attractive as men do?Um no. Those two things are unrelated. You know what a try hard is don't you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t women find effort as attractive as men do?Nah try-hards are lame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 03:57 PM |
| – | Why do women try to keep a non-shallow facade?Pickiness does not equal shallowness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 10:08 PM |
| – | Why do women try to keep a non-shallow facade?Why are you, a man, answering on behalf of women and then acting confused as to why women are telling you that you're wrong as hell? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 10:03 PM |
| – | What are some code that women use towards guys they’re not interested in?Deny it how? Some of us are upfront and some of us b.s. like this. It's up to you to figure it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 09:52 PM |
| 1 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.No mating strategy works if you isolate yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 10:53 PM |
| 0 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.Women grab them up because they're good partners. Look at all the goofy looking church dudes who volunteer and are good with kids. You'll never meet one who's single unless he is autistic and even then it's just a matter of time until a woman finds him who understands and adores his little ways. There are lots of mating strategies that work and being decent is one of the sure ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 10:52 PM |
| -5 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.Decent men are attractive due to their decentness. They attract people because they behave in such a way that people admire and want to be around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 10:22 PM |
| -7 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.Decent men are a hot ticket item and they don't struggle as much. They might struggle with getting with the wrong people (as everyone who dates does sometimes) but they're not struggling with being left on the shelf with the defective merchandise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 08:16 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women's standards are not too high, men just need to step upI have observed people being consistent as a rule. There's no incentive to lie about one's preferences. Most people want to get what they want and are not only unashamed, but unscrupulous about it. We are a self-serving species. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 10:01 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women's standards are not too high, men just need to step upSo you've observed every woman who says she doesn't like toxic traits and found that she actually does? I'm curious how this works. No, I don't think that most people are in denial about their preferences. That sounds like an odd psychological issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 07:08 PM |
| -2 | CMV: Women's standards are not too high, men just need to step upSounds like women are telling you that they don't have toxic biases and that they don't like these traits. You should listen to that instead of accusing them of lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 05:25 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Women's standards are not too high, men just need to step upWhy do the biases have to be toxic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 04:41 PM |
| 0 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesOkay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 04:43 PM |
| 0 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesI don't know why you want to know things about me. Kinda creepy. You guys are missing both my point and that of OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesGet. Wrecked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 01:18 PM |
| 0 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesWeed and shrooms are legal where I live. The only drug dealers are in the city centers. Rest of us get our stuff from dispensaries or grow it at home. Meth heads make their own. Not everyone lives in the ghetto where rappers and gang bangers are idolized. The whole world isn't America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesHuh? Who mentioned race? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesLOL my point goes along with the original post, which made that distinction. Kindly get wrecked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 01:12 PM |
| 3 | Do you oppose or support men being able to legally cut ties with children not biologically their’s in the case of late stage paternity misattribution?First I must say that scenario is very hilarious and needs to be in a sitcom. If I had bonded with the child I would keep it and make sure it always felt loved and no different than any other child. Once the child flies the nest I am getting a divorce though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 12:55 AM |
| -2 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesYou are missing the point here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 12:53 AM |
| -1 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesThose guys are selling weed and shrooms. Maybe some party drugs. They're not the bad boys like OP is talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 11:05 PM |
| 3 | Do you oppose or support men being able to legally cut ties with children not biologically their’s in the case of late stage paternity misattribution?I didn't know how that would work since I'd know that I didn't give birth to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 10:30 PM |
| 3 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesI think it's pretty much one specific culture that does that. The rest of us have never even met a rapper or drug dealer in real life and we're all dating and marrying average schmo's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 10:28 PM |
| 3 | I’ll Answer the “Why Don’t Men Read Our Profiles?” Question.The way these apps work is diabolical and I love it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 09:57 PM |
| 5 | I’ll Answer the “Why Don’t Men Read Our Profiles?” Question.Good to know. I will continue to reject guys who don't read my bio since they don't care and only see me as a number. Glad we're on the same page with this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 09:56 PM |
| 5 | Do you oppose or support men being able to legally cut ties with children not biologically their’s in the case of late stage paternity misattribution?I think legal ties should be severed. I can't fathom leaving a child that you once loved and thought was your's. The child will feel abandoned, will likely blame themselves and have issues for the rest of their life. Don't punish a child for their parent cheating. At least remain in their life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Simple clarification about the "choose better" and the "lowering of standards".I guess I don't see why she couldn't. People marry up, down and across, within a certain threshold usually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Simple clarification about the "choose better" and the "lowering of standards".Successful in what context? Like he's a successful professional with a nice life or he's a successful player? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Simple clarification about the "choose better" and the "lowering of standards".Well, that's more complicated. Sometimes people do things that they know full well they shouldn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 09:22 PM |
| 5 | Simple clarification about the "choose better" and the "lowering of standards".Yeah! Especially in the kink community. Forget average dudes, ugly dudes are fun as hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 08:56 PM |
| 4 | Simple clarification about the "choose better" and the "lowering of standards".I determine my value because I'm perfectly content being single. I'll either get the exact type of man I want (which I did) or I'll keep shopping. Side note women know the difference between fuck boys and guys who might be serious. We've had this figured out since highschool or early college and we're not stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 08:53 PM |
| – | What are some genuine physical requirements do you think women care about when it comes to het dating ?Based on my observations, mostly over the Internet, being vaguely humanoid is a big factor but not a requirement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 08:39 PM |
| 0 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.I've never told anyone they have to stay or leave. I saud men being trash isn't women's fault or responsibility to change. Guys can go be trash over there, away from me. I couldn't care less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 10:17 PM |
| 2 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.Wanting some dick isn't pining. It's just being horny. Good grief | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 02:36 PM |
| 1 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.Nobody does at first. Might I remind that men stay in abusive relationships too. It's complicated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 01:51 AM |
| -1 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.Because being abused isn't something any human should experience and it can happen to anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 12:59 AM |
| -1 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.Women don't pine for men. We don't trip like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 12:59 AM |
| -3 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.20 year olds are still figuring things out, especially boys. They definitely don't consider the girls they like to be "replaceable". They fall hook, line and sinker for these girls even though they could do better and should probably wait and grow some more so they know that they're compatible. I don't know what kind of college town you're in but every college student I know falls into one of several categories: 1. Is only dating to find a husband/wife 2. Is just having fun, and maybe a relation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 10:44 PM |
| 0 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.People date who they want. 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 10:38 PM |
| 1 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.The point is not that most women have a low bar, but that there are some that do and they're not hard to get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 07:56 PM |
| -6 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.Men don't have to be trash. That's a choice they make. And it's not women's responsibility to "incentivise" their behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 07:47 PM |
| 1 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.Speak for your parents and their issues. Most people don't put up with horrible behavior at least not indefinitely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 07:44 PM |
| 1 | If you get mad that a formerly promiscuous woman wants to take it slow with you, you only value women for sexNo because that would mean you're a POS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/25 05:47 PM |
| 1 | If you get mad that a formerly promiscuous woman wants to take it slow with you, you only value women for sexIt does mean nothing but there's no way of knowing what it means. As others have explained; people grow and change with age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/25 06:34 AM |
| – | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.There's an elephant in the room here. One culture does that. The others don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/25 06:33 AM |
| – | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.I'm almost 40. One might say I've been a block a few times. People really do inexplicably just find partners. It's a mating instinct or something. As an introvert I don't really get it. I also don't get why perfect strangers like you have to insult people online for no reason. I don't have much patience for that so this is your warning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/25 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.Moral people in this context are those who are humble, mature, and always seeking to grow in character. They don't demand validation or place blame on others. If they're unhappy they take action instead of complaining and asking the world to change for them. That is a good moral person. I'm not talking about doing good deeds because anyone regardless of character can do those. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.They're obviously not looking for sex or a partner otherwise they'd have it. Mating is a human instinct and we don't even really have to compete anymore. I stand by my position that anyone can get a partner. Maybe not a top quality partner or a new one every weekend, but there's something out there for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.It's your opinion that they are separate. Good people are socially competent and make others happy. That's not to say you need to he a people pleaser to be a good person. Far from it. You need to be on a self-development journey and I mean at a deeper level not just lifting weights at the gym or whatever. So what do you think being a good person means? Obeying da rules? Saying please and thank you m'lady? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.These types of men are attractive because they have shining personalities and people like them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 07:15 PM |
| 0 | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.Dating apps aren't a way to test anything. The gender ratios are way off, unequal and the site gets to pick who gets presented to you based on an algorithm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 05:49 AM |
| -1 | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.What does being a sex symbol have to do with anything? We're talking about relationships and dating. And yeah short men get women all the time, where do you think those genes come from? I'm the same height as my dad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.Being a good little boy or girl doesn't entitle someone to a mate. Might as well not even be discussed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 05:40 AM |
| 0 | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.That's life. Nobody said it was easy. You have to be creative and keep trying until you get what you want. Men of character understand this and that's why they are successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 05:37 AM |
| -1 | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.People have explained numerous times that attraction isn't about height or immutable characteristics but how one carries these and what they have to offer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 05:35 AM |
| 0 | If you get mad that a formerly promiscuous woman wants to take it slow with you, you only value women for sexThey specified "sex obsessed incels". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 12:06 AM |
| -3 | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.Well, it does really. Complaining yet not taking action to correct the problem is deeply repulsive and flawed. It shows a complete lack of character and a narcissistic victimhood complex. Someone like that is not being the person they could be. That's literally the worst way to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 12:05 AM |
| 3 | If you get mad that a formerly promiscuous woman wants to take it slow with you, you only value women for sexWho in the hell talks like that to the person they're dating? I'd stop seeing them based on that alone. And no it wouldn't get under my skin. It would make me think that this person isn't over their ex so I'm just going to move along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 11:35 PM |
| 0 | If you get mad that a formerly promiscuous woman wants to take it slow with you, you only value women for sexNope. I don't complain or get butthurt. OP is talking about envious and jealous spoilt little boys who think they should get a cookie because some other kid got one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 11:33 PM |
| -1 | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.If they are passive yet constantly whining about how lonely they are, they're no different from the men who do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 11:30 PM |
| 2 | If you get mad that a formerly promiscuous woman wants to take it slow with you, you only value women for sexMe having lived a different kind of lifestyle before I met them is not equivalent to being verbally abusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 09:56 PM |
| 1 | If you get mad that a formerly promiscuous woman wants to take it slow with you, you only value women for sexI only get with people who give me what I want and need. 🤷🏼♀️ Yeah no maybe I don't get it. I deal with people as they are, not how I wish they would be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 09:38 PM |
| -1 | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.Someone will though. The odds are in their favor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 09:31 PM |
| 2 | If you get mad that a formerly promiscuous woman wants to take it slow with you, you only value women for sexYes I get it. I wouldn't get with that person and then get pissed off about it still. That's like complaining about a headache while hitting yourself in the head with a hammer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.How is it that almost every heterosexual woman is married and/or shagging a man then? You're just making excuses to not even try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 08:50 PM |
| 5 | If you get mad that a formerly promiscuous woman wants to take it slow with you, you only value women for sexDon't defend it though. We all have a choice over what to do with our emotions. Envy considered a sin for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 08:48 PM |
| -6 | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.Fix whatever it is then. Lot of these guys have very unattractive attitudes and personalities that they aren't willing to do anything about. I wouldn't call them good people. Good people are naturally attractive because they are pleasant to be around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 08:45 PM |
| -6 | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.Good moral men are usually kind and outgoing, people-oriented individuals. They don't sit on the shelf either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 08:44 PM |
| -5 | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.Anyone can be attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.Society doesn't view men as threats. C'mon let's get real. Anyone can get a partner if they have the motivation to. Nobody is involuntarily single, be they good or bad people. A lot of these lonely guys weigh their choices and opt to stay lonely than deal with the drama of a relationship and that's understandable. But it is a choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 08:41 PM |
| 7 | If you get mad that a formerly promiscuous woman wants to take it slow with you, you only value women for sexOnly stupid people get emotional about things like this. They're not ready for a relationship. I mean imagine mentally cucking yourself out over something that happened before your partner even met you. How irrational and dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 08:06 PM |
| -1 | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.Good people take action when they're unhappy with their situation. If you're lonely and constantly being left out, something is wrong with you and people sense it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 07:52 PM |
| 6 | If you get mad that a formerly promiscuous woman wants to take it slow with you, you only value women for sexWhy would anyone get pissed over this? It seems so childish. If you're not getting what you want in an adult relationship then just break it off. Personally I'd be wary of a guy who wastes money like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.You can be an honest tax paying citizen and still not be a good partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.George Washington was a "felon" too. A traitor to the Crown. Unlike Europe, Canada and much of the world, Americans don't choose our leaders for their ability to obey tyranny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.Kid A is a little bitch. Correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 07:41 PM |
| 0 | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.Good men are a hot item and they get bought quick. Ain't none of them sitting on the shelf wishing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 07:40 PM |
| 0 | Hypergamy/women's nature falsely seen as the problem with online datingI don't date or socialize with socially inept 20 year olds who do nothing but stare at their phones if that's what you mean. Their struggles are self inflicted. I did a talk at a school recently and these dummies don't even interact with each other or answer you when you address them. And they talk in memes. I feel sorry for them. Bunch of damp matches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Why is Pregnancy Talked About Like It Should Be A Punishment for Women Who Had Sex?There's nothing equivalent to pregnancy or abortion. If a man creates a child's existence, it's his responsibility as a father. The mother's choices are separate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy/women's nature falsely seen as the problem with online dating30's | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Why is Pregnancy Talked About Like It Should Be A Punishment for Women Who Had Sex?Men don't carry, birth and nurse the child. That's why it's the womanizer choice. Once a child it born into this world it needs support and that's both parents' responsibility. Fathers actually can and do sue mothers for child support BTW. The law is about who has custody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy/women's nature falsely seen as the problem with online datingAre you married and having kids yet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy/women's nature falsely seen as the problem with online datingWe were both fans of a local band and said hi to each other at shows all the time. First time we hit it off in my opinion was at an after party with the band. Another close friend of mine met her husband at that party too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 03:50 PM |
| -1 | Hypergamy/women's nature falsely seen as the problem with online datingI am 100% an introvert and an extreme case of that. I have two really close lifelong friends. One I met at school and another at a ceremonial event. I met my husband at a concert through a band we both followed. If people like us can do it anybody can. If you constantly turn off everyone every where you go, you're not emotionally or psychologically well. It's easy to hide that stuff on OLD, and everyone there does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 12:49 AM |
| -1 | Hypergamy/women's nature falsely seen as the problem with online datingOnly the ones who've been left out of real life think that. There's a whole realm they're not part of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Why is Pregnancy Talked About Like It Should Be A Punishment for Women Who Had Sex?That's also pretty much illegal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Hypergamy/women's nature falsely seen as the problem with online datingPeople with good mental and emotional traits don't need dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 07:18 PM |
| -1 | Hypergamy/women's nature falsely seen as the problem with online datingPeople with good mental and emotional traits don't need dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 07:11 PM |
| 5 | Hypergamy/women's nature falsely seen as the problem with online datingIn real life not dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Hypergamy/women's nature falsely seen as the problem with online datingWe don't even pick the top guys. We just leave because all the sausages look like they've been stepped on LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Why are unmarried childless women way more stigmatised than unmarried childless men?How are we entitled when we're just living our lives not bothering anyone or asking for anything? We don't even qualify for welfare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 11:03 PM |
| – | You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”.K I'm not reading all that. Just gonna say that if men can't consent, maybe they shouldn't have rights, hmm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 12:54 AM |
| – | You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”.Work their way up? Women have dating figured out by the time they graduate high school. After that it's a matter of searching. And often having fun in college while searching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 11:44 PM |
| – | You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”.Again, real life humans don't work that way. And yeah, attractive people generally date more and have high chances of meeting the one. I don't know how that's relevant here though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 11:33 PM |
| – | You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”.That's not reality though. People tend to date, bang and marry within their preferred type. Have you EVER seen someone depressed because their spouse isn't hot enough? That's silly. If they weren't attracted, they wouldn't have married them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 11:24 PM |
| – | You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”.It's kinda silly because unattractive men are just as likely to be bums as attractive ones and vise versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 10:35 PM |
| – | You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”.Poor, fat, feminine, ignorant, etc. men are bad men to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 10:32 PM |
| – | You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”.You guys act like young women are stupid. They're not getting "passed around" they're sleeping with who they want, or not, by choice. Most women get married before 30 within a year or two of deciding they want to get married. The most desirable people of both sexes get hitched first. It's quite simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 10:26 PM |
| – | You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”.Because both parties consent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 09:17 PM |
| 1 | If all men became athletic and lean, hypergamy would not have the average woman's standards suddenly raise to re-exclude them.I mean not really. We are fine single. Women support ourselves and each other. Men don't do much besides protect the tribe from foreign men and hunt large animals. And now that the world is industrialized we don't need men for those either. I'm not saying men aren't nice to have around though. Most people want a soul mate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 05:38 PM |
| 1 | If all men became athletic and lean, hypergamy would not have the average woman's standards suddenly raise to re-exclude them.There's no threshold. They either like you or they don't. You have no influence over that. All you can do to increase your odds is be more available. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 07:04 PM |
| – | Sex is a need.No. It isn't a need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 04:18 PM |
| – | Sex is a need.It's okay to have dry spells especially when the kids are little or one or both parties is working long hours. We can take care of our own "needs" and stick it out until things are a little less hectic. Placing your needs on your partner's shoulders is needy, and gross. I think the relationship counselors call it toxic co-dependence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 04:13 PM |
| – | Sex is a need.You know what we call people who feel like every desire is a need? Needy. Gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 04:06 PM |
| – | Sex is a need.People leave and cheat even when their sexual and emotional needs are being met. Cheaters and two-timers lack moral character and respect for their partners, that's all. There's no excuse. Sex isn't a need. And emotional support shouldn't be placed exclusively on your partner's shoulders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 03:41 PM |
| 1 | If all men became athletic and lean, hypergamy would not have the average woman's standards suddenly raise to re-exclude them.I don't really get the point of these conversations. If a woman wants a partner badly, she will get one sooner or later. The same applies to most men even if it takes them a bit longer. We shouldn't even be worrying about people's standards. Just find someone who's standards you meet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 03:00 PM |
| – | Sex is a need.This is a veiled excuse for infidelity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 02:57 PM |
| – | Sex is a need.Stop functioning? That doesn't happen until retirement age and they have pills for it now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 02:56 PM |
| – | Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it.None of these studies show that women are being dishonest though. They are studies asking what women find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 09:51 PM |
| – | Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough?You seem to have a disorder. Quit blowing up my inbox with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough?I have no idea. I don't know anybody who does that except one friend who is a model and it's her job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Women , would you hook up with/date someone who doesn't share your political beliefs?I've known and worked with a lot of both. My experience shatters liberal view the people. And so, the liberal who is frail also shatters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 03:53 AM |
| -1 | Women , would you hook up with/date someone who doesn't share your political beliefs?These liberal crying guys? There'd be no point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough?LOL calm down. My first comment wasn't trolling but when people ask stupid questions, well, I'm happy to oblige. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 01:49 AM |
| 4 | Being likable does not mean being sexually attractive.Reasonable men agree with all of this and feel the same way. Most people want a soul mate and a best friend in a life partner. It's a tall order though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough?Stop being so pompous and literal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 01:44 AM |
| 4 | Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough?Women do not give one single pea sized shit about attention from men they don't know. Why pretend that they do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough?Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough?No, it is not. Not by strangers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 10:29 PM |
| 10 | Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough?No woman alive gets a dopamine spike from random dudes pestering them online. It's unwanted in fact. It's why most women don't even use OLD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Women , would you hook up with/date someone who doesn't share your political beliefs?Sure. Things related to immigrants, refugees and the Geneva Convention mostly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 08:16 PM |
| 5 | Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough?I doubt it's even that low. Probably 99% are just there to try any woman they can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 07:28 PM |
| 19 | Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough?95% of them just want to hook up or sext. The remaining 5% don't seem to go anywhere. So e proportion of the above are fake profiles or they match you and then don't respond. Online dating just isn't a good way to meet people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 06:53 PM |
| 0 | Women , would you hook up with/date someone who doesn't share your political beliefs?I make liberal men cry 🤷🏼♀️ a lot of them are pussies who can't handle my views. Oh well, their loss. I did have a leftist bf once and he was alright but his family was a lot more conservative than me so he wasn't so sensitive to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 06:51 PM |
| -1 | Women , would you hook up with/date someone who doesn't share your political beliefs?I'd be fine with dating a liberal guy. I have a tendency to make them cry though. It's happened on a number of occasions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 04:23 PM |
| 9 | Appeal to nature arguments and what humans historically did are dumbSpeaking of cavemen, historically tribe A would capture tribe B's breeding age women and then kill and eat everyone else. Just saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 02:19 AM |
| 4 | Would you consider visiting an escort in the past a dealbreaker?Yep. Unless he's vastly recovered from that low point in his life, like say he was an alcoholic and did it and now doesn't drink and is remorseful. Otherwise that's a hard no for me. I think it shows a massive disrespect for women and one's own humanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 07:04 PM |
| 1 | The parents of boys have an obligation to teach them about attracting womenNormally children learn all of this from interacting with their peers. Social skills are largely self-taught. A parent's job us the teach their children how to treat the opposite sex, particularly a partner. Hopefully in a loving way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Which one of these counts as cheating on partner ?None are cheating but none are okay either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 09:22 PM |
| 7 | Most problems in the current dating climate would be solved if everyone was at a healthy weightTo each his own. Red pillers don't think anybody should date/be attracted to fat women. And that's idiotic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 04:11 PM |
| -1 | It is a red flag if you notice a girl has thousands of unread message notices?The only red flag here is you snooping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 04:08 PM |
| – | The majority of women will never change for a manMen are the ones who want to pay. I've literally had guys karate chop my hand for reaching for the bill. I'd happily go Dutch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 12:27 AM |
| – | The majority of women will never change for a manWe don't need to change for men because we don't need them. We change for ourselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 09:42 PM |
| – | Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences"Well, you can. Especially as a man. Having an offspring somewhere that you maybe see once every three years isn't something to aspire to. Tate is a loser for that. Edit: typo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 04:40 PM |
| – | Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences"Tate isn't married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 10:17 PM |
| – | Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences"What motivation would they have to be dishonest? Do you think that women are just master manipulators out to make men go insane? This is ridiculous. When someone says they like "x" they mean they like "x". Doesn't mean that's what they get with, because life is messy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 10:13 PM |
| 0 | Women and their Disgust for PrenupsGet wrecked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 08:44 PM |
| 0 | Women and their Disgust for PrenupsThe government doesn't get involved unless you don't sort it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 08:44 PM |
| -1 | Women and their Disgust for PrenupsDon't be autistic around me, guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 08:42 PM |
| -4 | Women and their Disgust for PrenupsNo matter how high the likelihood of divorce, there's no reason for it not to be amicable. Prenups shouldn't be necessary. Be adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 06:57 PM |
| – | If TRP and men’s issues weren’t legitimate the left and blue pillers wouldn’t be actively trying to censor it at every turnWhat's the "current" situation? You not getting any? Why should people who are, care at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 06:43 PM |
| – | If TRP and men’s issues weren’t legitimate the left and blue pillers wouldn’t be actively trying to censor it at every turnAre most men dealing with these issues? Or is it a vocal minority of fringe extremists who egg on mass k*llers with this stuff? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 05:19 PM |
| – | Women have no excuses to struggle dating but men have some excusesI don't think I've ever dated a 6 foot man. My generation and location are all shorties haha. As for the 7" thing....all I can say us: ouch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 12:34 AM |
| – | Women have no excuses to struggle dating but men have some excusesMen can work out and get fitter, and read up on ways to pleasure women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Inconvenient truths about each gender in modern societyHey it's your money and time. Waste it however you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Inconvenient truths about each gender in modern societyOkay you really need to get your story straight. If you're not married to them, you broke up. That's how that works. They're with other men now and not you. You didn't succeed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 07:24 PM |
| – | Feminists are just mad at TRP men for gaming the system that Feminism createdSTDs have been steadily declining in heterosexual relationships for decades. The 60's and 70's got wild after the stricter norms of prior decades broke down, we sorta got it out of our systems, and now everyone wants marriage or at least cohabitation again. Anyone can get a serious relationship if it's what they want. And most people want it, so they do. Really, promiscuity is seen as gross after about sophomore year of college. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 10:47 PM |
| – | Feminists are just mad at TRP men for gaming the system that Feminism createdExclusive for the entire time the two people are together. What about this is hard to comprehend? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 10:25 PM |
| 0 | Inconvenient truths about each gender in modern societyPassport bros only want the traditional ones. They only want their fantasy. I'm trying to tell them that women are the same everywhere and they're not going to find a submissive wife, from any country, if they can't even find one at home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 10:24 PM |
| – | Feminists are just mad at TRP men for gaming the system that Feminism createdNo, not really. Most people are at least serially monogamous, with a long term relationship being the goal. Promiscuity is way down compared to decades past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Inconvenient truths about each gender in modern societySounds like they did actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Inconvenient truths about each gender in modern society"Treating me like an equal human while expecting me to uphold masculine traditions like initiating everything, paying, being chivalrous but not too chivalrous, confident but sensitive, blah blah" Yeah. As in, being a well-rounded male human. What's your issue with that? BTW the foreign women are going to expect that too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Inconvenient truths about each gender in modern societyIf you "don't let them" then they move on. Dod you marry any of these foreign women? Do you even know where they are now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 06:25 PM |
| – | Feminists are just mad at TRP men for gaming the system that Feminism createdNo. But sexual relationships should be exclusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Inconvenient truths about each gender in modern societyWasn't there a TV show about it on MTV or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Inconvenient truths about each gender in modern societyJust know that any candying of your asses done by women no matter where they are in the world is going to be fake in order to extract something from you. Western women are at least honest, and generally treat men as equal human beings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are just mad at TRP men for gaming the system that Feminism createdSpeak for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Feminists are just mad at TRP men for gaming the system that Feminism createdWith multiple people on rotation, yes. It's also a good way to spread disease. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Feminists are just mad at TRP men for gaming the system that Feminism createdNot all attractive men have women on rotation. Attractive people can be, and frequently are, moral people. Either way I doubt anyone really cares who other people sleep with. I got mine and that's all I care about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 07:42 PM |
| 1 | You can't complain about being lonely while failing to form/maintain social bonds.I talked to my husband for the first time through Facebook after we'd both been to the same concert. Probably would never have crossed paths otherwise. Social media is how most couples meet nowadays so you might as well use it as a tool. It's never going away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 11:30 PM |
| 0 | You can't complain about being lonely while failing to form/maintain social bonds.If you want a partner, or friends, a baby daddy, someone to engage with you whatever weird fetish or fringe political beliefs you may have, you have to look on social media to find the like-minded people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Dont expect women to fix men’s issues when they dont like women’s solutions.Men don't vent their problems to women. It's inappropriate. Go to the bar and talk sht with your buddies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 05:20 PM |
| 0 | Dont expect women to fix men’s issues when they dont like women’s solutions.When has anyone said that feminism is also for men? Whoever is saying that needs to STFU. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 05:18 PM |
| -2 | You can't complain about being lonely while failing to form/maintain social bonds.Even pimply faced gamer dudes can and do get girlfriends. It doesn't matter what you look like or even your personality, some girl will like you. If guys are single it's because they want to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 05:09 PM |
| 6 | You can't complain about being lonely while failing to form/maintain social bonds.Yeah, conservative boys and girls tend to get married young, like right out of highschool or college. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 05:06 PM |
| 1 | There are lots of women who will counterintuitively RAISE their standards in the face of nonsuccess in datingTo me it's to my detriment to have junk in my life that I don't want. I'd rather have no purse for awhile and work hard until I could snag the one I do want. I think a lot of women think this way, unless they're desperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 11:52 PM |
| 1 | There are lots of women who will counterintuitively RAISE their standards in the face of nonsuccess in datingWhy is it to their detriment? A purse isn't a need. Personally I would work hard and hold out for the exact purse I wanted rather than settle for one I don't like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 10:01 PM |
| 2 | There are lots of women who will counterintuitively RAISE their standards in the face of nonsuccess in datingI have no idea. I've never done that. But I suspect it's to attract customers, if you know what I mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 09:59 PM |
| 1 | There are lots of women who will counterintuitively RAISE their standards in the face of nonsuccess in datingWhat's wrong with that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 09:57 PM |
| 2 | There are lots of women who will counterintuitively RAISE their standards in the face of nonsuccess in datingExactly. Just like everyone does. Knowing that there are a million horny dudes that would sleep with you if you asked them isn't validating though. And it doesn't alleviate feelings of isolation and loneliness. If anything it makes them worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 09:55 PM |
| 13 | There are lots of women who will counterintuitively RAISE their standards in the face of nonsuccess in datingWomen don't get validation through sex like men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 07:55 PM |
| 5 | There are lots of women who will counterintuitively RAISE their standards in the face of nonsuccess in datingLow standards are what get you used. Bums are users. If a man isn't willing to invest in you it's clear that he's just there to use. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Why don't men just hang out with each other more to solve the "male loneliness epidemic"?Nah that's silly. It used to be common for war buddies are closer to each other than to their wives. Sisters or brothers probably have the closest bonds of all. A heterosexual relationship is more like a business transaction than anything. Sure it's nice if there are butterflies at the beginning but that wears off. Men today just don't want to be close to anyone. They expect some random unrelated women to come and save them from their own heads. It's just not reasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Why don't men just hang out with each other more to solve the "male loneliness epidemic"?They miss their mommies and fewer and fewer modern women are willing to fill that role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 05:44 PM |
| 2 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsYeah I don't get it, but good for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 01:43 AM |
| 5 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsNothing is trivial. If it's important to the individual, it's important. Most of this is basic adult stuff and proof of character and responsibility. Especially the has kids part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 01:42 AM |
| 8 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsThose are all pretty big deal breakers in dating for everyone or at least they should be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Friendzone complaints mainly come from guys who dont value friendships.Women don't also give and give to their friends? Yes we do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 09:58 PM |
| 0 | Friendzone complaints mainly come from guys who dont value friendships.Goodbye already. Go on now. Ge'it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Why is Pregnancy Talked About Like It Should Be A Punishment for Women Who Had Sex?It's odd to me because these guys want sex usually. Shaming, threatening and scaring women about sex isn't the way to get them in the mood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 09:57 PM |
| 0 | Why is Pregnancy Talked About Like It Should Be A Punishment for Women Who Had Sex?Of course it's not. All you guys have to do is pull out and you're good. Women have to track their ovulations and it's a hassle that's not even accurate a lot of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 09:56 PM |
| 9 | Why is Pregnancy Talked About Like It Should Be A Punishment for Women Who Had Sex?You can't kill it once it's born. That would be murder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 09:53 PM |
| 3 | The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation.Men need to stop thinking like this. Nobody is manipulating you. You're not that important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 05:32 PM |
| 4 | Being unable to hold a conversation on a date is not a gendered issue. It’s an effort issue.Who says it's a gendered issue. Both genders are so boring LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 10:40 PM |
| 2 | A man has been dating a woman for years before telling her he's into crossdressing. What are your thoughts?Hey how's it goin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 10:28 PM |
| 1 | A man has been dating a woman for years before telling her he's into crossdressing. What are your thoughts?If they're men's pants and she wears men's underwear too, yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You ThinkWhat's up with all the guys here demanding empathy for men's issues and whatnot? That might be the segment of the male population that OP is referring to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You ThinkAnd some men just need fishing, and a chair. That's it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You ThinkI agree and as a woman it's obnoxious. The only woman who's job it is to validate a man is his mother. The world doesn't exist to validate anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 06:10 PM |
| -3 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is self inflictedIt's not a personal attack it's the universal "you". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 08:58 PM |
| -6 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is self inflictedYou don't listen though. If you did then you'd have a girlfriend because you met her in person and listened to what she had to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 08:51 PM |
| 1 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is self inflictedWhenever I go to any sort of activity or social function it's 80-100% female. All the guys are with their partners, usually looking miserable and not interacting with anybody. Even sports games are getting like this. It's just odd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 08:45 PM |
| 5 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is self inflictedIf people saying things on Reddit stop you from living your life in the real world, I don't think you can be helped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 08:44 PM |
| 1 | What is something in a woman’s control that makes her higher value to you?Not if you're there to make money from showing your body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 05:46 PM |
| 0 | What is something in a woman’s control that makes her higher value to you?Ah. We're talking about different species of nerds I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 02:30 AM |
| 0 | What is something in a woman’s control that makes her higher value to you?Yeah on Twitch streams maybe but that doesn't count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 02:18 AM |
| -1 | What is something in a woman’s control that makes her higher value to you?Um no. Before I explain it, are you an adult? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Women Don’t Like Dating Apps for Only One ReasonWhen men say stuff like this I can't help but wonder if they have transexual fantasies. Biological women DO NOT think like this, at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 01:40 AM |
| 0 | What is something in a woman’s control that makes her higher value to you?They have no problems getting dates though for some reason. Maybe you ruin dating for yourself lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 01:36 AM |
| -3 | What is something in a woman’s control that makes her higher value to you?Fit and nerd do not come in the same package my good sir LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 01:34 AM |
| 1 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menYou typed all that for no reason because I don't care. Women don't want random men bothering them in public. There's no discussion to be had about it. Either learn the time and place to approach or deal with rejection however cruel and hostile it may be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Women do actually hate the idea of sex robots despite saying otherwise.Tiktok is the app where kids were eating the Tide pods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 03:01 PM |
| 1 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menEverything online and especially Tiktok is tainted. Jersey Shore is scripted television too. And the antics of drunk kids at the club aren't exactly representative of how society works, thank God. But you were almost on to something for a second. Women want attention from the men THEY DESIRE. Not men in general. These are specific individual men at any given time and place. A lot of times women aren't interested in any of the men around and would prefer that they just act pleasant. And it's not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 02:26 PM |
| 1 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menDude, what did I JUST get done saying about Tiktok and rage content? You have never seen any of this happen in real life and I will bet money on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 12:59 AM |
| 0 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menYes and it's obnoxious and stressful. That's why they are glad when it stops. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 06:49 PM |
| 1 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menSpeaking from experience or what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 10:39 AM |
| 2 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menThe average marriage for women age is between 25-30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 10:33 AM |
| 0 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menWomen hook up with Chads (and in general) as tryouts for marriage. Try before you buy as they say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 10:32 AM |
| -7 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menOh trust me, it's unwanted period, and post menopausal women are quick to tell you how much more relaxed their lives are without men hounding them. Ask them and see for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 10:31 AM |
| 1 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyIf you actually took the time to get to know them you'd find a lot more. These women have interests you probably don't know about or would write off immediately. And who are you talking about, your ex girlfriend? That's a lot of specifics. Just a note, you're coming across like an arrogant rich kid (paying 1000's for people's trips, etc.) Tattoos and playing guitar are not special or interesting, at all. They are downright basic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 10:19 AM |
| 0 | The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”.Serial abusers are smart and manipulative as well as toxic. The forever alone guys are dumb and socially obtuse, as well as toxic. Doesn't work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 02:21 AM |
| 3 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guySee that doesn't work though. There's this thing called "agency". Do men have it? If not, maybe they shouldn't have rights then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 02:16 AM |
| 4 | The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”.I've only ever heard incels say that. What they are really saying is "pick me". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 01:12 AM |
| 1 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyYep. Arrested development. Grody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:25 AM |
| 1 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyNo, people make a conscious choice that commit crimes. It's not their mommy's fault. Quit blaming women for men's behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:12 AM |
| 1 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyWell those men are degenerates. 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:11 AM |
| 1 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyLust is really meaningless and women figure this out by about age 22. Catch up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 11:26 PM |
| 1 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyHow many kids have you given birth to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 11:24 PM |
| 0 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyNot in marriage. Women marry for love. These degenerate goofballs marry for lust. It it wasn't about sex they wouldn't be whining about their wives not being hot anymore after having children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 11:22 PM |
| 1 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyBecause it's his fault she got fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 11:11 PM |
| 1 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyIf your spouse becomes an unemployed shut in the correct response is to help them, not manipulate and cheat on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 11:10 PM |
| 0 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyWomen don't do that though. Men do. These specific men do. And it's projection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 11:06 PM |
| 1 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyBeing self-absorbed is very boring indeed. Guitars and art don't make up for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 11:03 PM |
| 1 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyPeople can sleep with or settle for whoever they want and there's nothing wrong with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 10:59 PM |
| 5 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyWho is responsible for men being criminals: those individual men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 10:56 PM |
| 1 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to FearA healthy male mindset meets challenges. That's literally what testosterone does for you guys. It's your gift so use it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 04:55 PM |
| 1 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to FearCan I go golfing with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 03:27 PM |
| 3 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to FearThe disadvantaged men already are dropping out. But guess what. They're not the average. Average people are still dating, falling in love, getting married and starting families just as they always have. What we are seeing today is better selective pressure. Not every loser gets to mate. That's a good thing. And yes you absolutely are a loser if you're single under 99% of circumstances and yes society should continue to stigmatize it, not foster it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 03:23 PM |
| 1 | The lack of shame is causing a destruction of the traditional dating structure and people have no idea how to move forwardI would almost disagree with this because cheaters, liars and scumbag have existed for millions of years and these people truly have no shame. Like literally shaming doesn't work on them. But our culture is openly encouraging the behavior nowadays and it's a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 02:59 PM |
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