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I will never understand going out on a date with someone just for food. It’ll cost like $50 at most?? That’s not worth me wasting my time hanging out with someone i’m not interested in.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/24 05:41 PM
15

This is pretty much it. You’re creepy unless you’re attractive 🤷‍♂️.
/r/seduction17/02/24 01:08 PM
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I would say they would do it to get sex, but not attention.
/r/seduction20/10/22 02:07 AM
1

I don’t know about. I have better things to do then to string people along for my own enjoyment. If i’m talking to someone, it’s because I actually want to date them or at least hook up with them.
/r/seduction19/10/22 11:01 PM
2

Make some friends that would be down for that then.
/r/seduction16/09/22 11:58 PM
14

It's a lot easier to take risks and get rejected when you're by yourself. There's essential no consequences.
/r/seduction03/09/22 07:12 PM
39

Yeah, it could. If they ask just say why you’re by yourself, just say you wanted to get out of house and meet some people, or if you want to lie just say your friend bailed on you. I would try to go to an event tho. you’ll probably have an easier time connecting with people if you share that hobby or theme.
/r/seduction03/09/22 01:16 PM
85

Preferably go with a wing. I would avoid going with too many people. You end up just talking to them instead of meeting new people from my experience. Walk up to some girls and say "Hi, I noticed you guys from over there and I thought you guys seemed cool. What are guys you up to? That's pretty much my blueprint, and most the times I'm able to have smooth interaction with them.
/r/seduction03/09/22 12:41 PM
3

Sounds good man. Have you have any success with getting dates/lays from cold approach?
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:54 PM
1

Yeah, I also don't know a single person irl that has the guts to walk up to a girl and introduce themselves so I atleast have that to feed my ego lol
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:30 PM
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I appreciate some of you guys being positive and supportive. I'm still on this journey of trying to get better at this stuff. I think I had approached like 15 women this week, and I was starting to feel jaded. I don't think I'm out of shape or bad looking like someone in the comments said. In fact, when I look in the mirror, I like the way I look. It just feels like I have to be this emotionless sociopath in order for me keep my sanity.
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:05 PM
1

She didn’t call me trash, we had a pleasant flirty conversation. I was just generalizing from the things I see in social media.
/r/seduction28/08/22 12:16 PM
1

Yeah that’s exactly would happened. I wouldn’t have been bothered if she just texted “I’m going home.” It takes like 2 seconds.
/r/seduction28/08/22 12:14 PM
1

Approaching is about maximizing your opportunities. Trust me, there was plenty of time I’ve wanted to approach but didn’t find the right opportunity or was afraid of looking like a creep.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/22 04:53 AM
1

If a man is willing to approach you, he sure as hell would accept you approaching them. There’s less consequences for you to approach because men aren’t physically intimidated by women.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/22 04:51 AM
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This was IRL. I met her at an art gallery and we agreed to meet at a bar. It’s not hard to treat with someone with the bare minimum of respect. Women are so adamant about being respected, but are quick to shit on men and call them trash.
/r/seduction28/08/22 04:26 AM
5

Where did you go to approach that many girls?
/r/seduction26/08/22 01:12 AM
1

I did this approach the other day at a beer garden. Went up to a group of girls and said that my friend left earlier and I noticed them and they seemed cool. Then I said “What are you guys up to?” I gauge their level of interest and go from there.
/r/seduction22/08/22 11:57 PM
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Yeah, I’m incredibly jealous of this. It would save me so much time not having to go out and try to meet women that I could use on working on my business. I could just say fuck it and not do it, but I don’t want to get older, not have any dating experience, and be lonely the entire time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:04 PM
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It’s funny how we all have this fear that a girl is going to over react and try to embarrass you, or some stranger is going to over hear your approach and make fun of you, but it’s almost never happened in all of the hundreds of approaches that’s he’s recorded.
/r/seduction13/08/22 12:43 AM
2

You just have to meet more girls.
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:45 PM
2

Just find some bullshit question to ask her. If she’s interested, she’ll keep the convo going.
/r/seduction09/08/22 11:54 AM
3

I’m not a fan of this because sometimes girls will screenshot you and post it to just make them seem like their being thirsted after. Never happened to me but I don’t want to have that reputation lol
/r/seduction07/08/22 02:44 PM
2

Just use your intuition whether to be direct or to indirectly try to start a conversation. Not all girls are the same, and they often contradict each other. The only thing that is important is that you have a good intentions and that you are true to yourself. If you believe you’re a positive influence on people, then why wouldn’t you offer that to someone you’re interested in.
/r/seduction06/08/22 03:09 PM
3

Literally read a thread saying the exact opposite. That they don’t want to be called cute or commented on their appearance. Meanwhile I’ve had girls tell me that they like my boldness and have even gotten a gf after being direct and getting a girls number after class. Nowadays, I just go with my intuition and I feel genuinely feel like being direct, I will. I’ve gotten some brutal rejections for it, but it beats the hell out of feeling regret and loneliness.
/r/seduction06/08/22 03:00 PM
5

“Hey, still want to grab that drink?” Just don’t appear butthurt. But also don’t get upset if she doesn’t respond. You want to get in the mindset of a person that has abundance.
/r/seduction06/08/22 02:43 PM
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Unless you’re really not interested in this check, text her to confirm. Women don’t get emotional invested as easily as men do because of all the options they have.
/r/seduction06/08/22 02:32 PM
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You’re going to judge for approaching, and you’re going to be judged for being incel. There’s no winning with them. Also, they don’t all think the same. On a similar thread, one girl complained about it while another said that’s how she met her husband.
/r/seduction06/08/22 02:29 PM
2

Coffee Shops, Parks, Art Galleries, Bars Your approaches are going to be bad at first, but trust me, you’ll get better if you keep trying
/r/seduction01/08/22 11:05 PM
1

That’s a fair point.
/r/seduction30/07/22 07:44 PM
5

Thank you for your insight.
/r/seduction30/07/22 02:11 PM
5

Good start OP. I think for the food festival, you should try asking any girl you like if they're food is good and try have 10 min conversation to build rapport. Then you can tell them you're interested and ask for their socials/number or even insta date and invite them for a drink at a nearby bar. I think direct has it's place, but you're also forcing them to make an assesment of you within seconds of meeting you. If you give them some time to warm up to you, and you show you're at least sociall…
/r/seduction25/07/22 07:27 PM
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I feel that. Next time you see a pretty lady. Tell her “Hi, I noticed you and I couldn’t help but want to come say hi.” “What are you up to?” Approaching gets a lot easier the more you do it. Trust me.
/r/seduction15/06/22 12:28 AM
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Lil ol dang ol
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:35 AM
1

Let’s be real. You’ll probably never see her again. So you have 2 options. Take action or don’t. Besides what’s the worst that can happen. People slide into each other’s dms all the time.
/r/seduction21/05/22 07:02 PM
1

Rent is more expensive lol, that's a terrible idea.
/r/seduction14/05/22 12:24 PM
1

Text her. Banter a bit. Ask if you can call her. And then ask her out. Maybe for drinks?
/r/seduction13/05/22 11:09 AM
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I live alone and a majority of my money goes into my bills/mortgage.
/r/seduction13/05/22 09:51 AM
1

Yeah good point
/r/seduction16/04/22 10:44 PM
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Try this and see for yourself. “Is there a coffee shop by here?” “Yes. There’s one just…” “I’m just kidding. I noticed you from back there and I couldn’t help but want to come talk to you.” You absolutely can approach women in public. Just have some self awareness and don’t persist if they don’t give you the time of day.
/r/seduction16/04/22 09:43 PM
1

Tell her that library’s close but ask her if she’s down to hang and grab some coffee/boba. I would avoiding texting her that quote unless you gave her a call and said it in a playful mood or in person.
/r/seduction16/04/22 09:39 PM
1

Damn, I need to give hiking a shot.
/r/seduction04/04/22 07:31 PM
1

Ok, I think I’ll take a day off to do some DG this week. I’ll definitely make a field report if I get enough approaches.
/r/seduction01/04/22 11:31 PM
1

Do you go on weekends or only weekdays? I’ve been thinking of hitting up a campus to go DG, but I only have weekends off and I’m not sure if they’ll but much people there.
/r/seduction01/04/22 10:13 PM
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I thought this was a seduction subreddit.
/r/seduction28/03/22 02:15 PM
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Reminds me of a golden retreiver haha
/r/seduction27/03/22 12:06 PM
3

You completely did a 180 in the convo and it seemed pretty jarring to her. I would try talking in more statements, to get her to ask you questions. It's a psychological thing. The more questions she asks you, the more interested she'll be,
/r/seduction27/03/22 01:32 AM
1

Do it. Gotta date before from that. And it’s easier then walking around the city approaching.
/r/seduction26/03/22 08:47 PM
2

Don’t lie. Just say you needed to get out of the house. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/seduction17/03/22 11:58 PM
4

Just go out to where you think you would find women. Malls, events, yoga, coffee shops. Practice approaching and you'll eventually get better. After that, you'll have an easier time in clubs or bar environments.
/r/seduction13/03/22 02:55 PM
10

People be hating man. I’m proud of you!
/r/seduction10/02/22 01:37 PM
2

Yeah man don't wait till you've "leveled up". I've spent the last couple years trying to do that but it hasn't gotten me that much closer to the dating life I went. I'm personally just going to start taking action and approaching. There's plenty of people that aren't successful but have great dating lives.
/r/seduction08/02/22 11:19 AM
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Yeah I definitely want to have that social freedom. I think i’m just going to drop this bullshit creepy guy excuse. I know I’m being genuine. I’m just going to be true to myself and say hi to whoever I like.
/r/seduction07/02/22 12:29 AM
4

You’re right. I’m not really doing anything wrong and I feel like I have a lot to offer a girl. If girls tell me to fuck off, then I’ll just move on, they don’t owe me anything.
/r/seduction06/02/22 06:44 PM
2

What some good places to go that worked well for you?
/r/seduction13/01/22 07:28 PM
1

Damn, save some for the rest of us!
/r/seduction13/10/21 09:03 PM
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Dude, dodging peoples calls and texts is something you obviously have to do on purpose. I hate when people don't take responsibility for their actions and blame it on "adhd".
/r/seduction03/10/21 03:29 PM
2

Pm me too pls
/r/seduction04/08/21 08:06 PM
1

Not focusing on what to say next but rather focus on listening.
/r/seduction20/04/21 11:10 PM
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