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| 181 | LTR of 10 months took off to suck some other dick | Ciabbata | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 07:52 PM | |
| 37 | Best way to react to this kind of shit test | Ciabbata | /r/askTRP | 26/05/20 11:52 AM | |
| 18 | Best sources to get your fashion straight | Ciabbata | /r/askTRP | 20/09/20 05:39 PM | |
| 5 | LTR met up with another man | Ciabbata | /r/askTRP | 05/07/20 01:56 AM | |
| 4 | LTR wants one last talk | Ciabbata | /r/askTRP | 30/06/20 01:18 PM | |
| 4 | Crying | Ciabbata | /r/askTRP | 29/06/20 08:17 PM | |
| 2 | I can't stop myself from ignoring my bitches | Ciabbata | /r/askTRP | 20/11/20 08:58 AM | |
| 2 | Methods to avoid reciprocating affection from women (especially LTR's) | Ciabbata | /r/askTRP | 08/07/20 04:43 PM |
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| 1 | My very first approachNot sure if this is an insult or compliment! | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 05:09 PM |
| 1 | I feel like my approaches are good but i cant seem to get to the first date , any advice?Exactly—that real-world feedback loop is where the magic happens. If you’re into refining your game and making your convos tighter and more natural, I’ve actually been building something that might vibe with you. Helps with reply flow, tone, and calibration. No pressure, but happy to share if you're curious. | /r/seduction | 23/04/25 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Giving the girl your #Giving your number instead can be a bold move. It shows confidence and lets her decide if she's interested. Just make sure the interaction is genuine and engaging, so she feels motivated to reach out. A practical tip: make the exchange playful by saying something like, "I promise I’m worth a text!" Good luck! | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 10:05 PM |
| 2 | I feel like my approaches are good but i cant seem to get to the first date , any advice?First off, props for putting yourself out there! It's a numbers game, and practice is key. Focus on genuinely connecting—ask open-ended questions and listen actively. Sometimes, it's about finding the right vibe with someone. Keep refining your approach, and don't stress over each interaction. Every attempt is a step forward. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 10:05 PM |
| 2 | If You Do Not Wish To Begin, Save Yourself The Misery - The Real Reason Why Nothing Is Happening + Solution.It's great you're addressing the mindset aspect. Starting with self-awareness is key. Often, people get stuck in negative cycles without realizing it. A practical tip: try reflecting on small successes or positive interactions to build momentum. Shifting focus can change your perspective. Keep supporting each other in this journey. Hope that helps! | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 10:04 PM |
| 2 | David Tian’s program!I recommend checking out reviews and testimonials from those who've taken it before committing. Sometimes community feedback can be more insightful than sales pages. Also, when exploring programs, ensure they align with your personal growth goals. Hope that helps! | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 10:04 PM |
| 1 | How to move the conversation towards asking for her number?It's great that you're taking the initiative to approach! A smooth transition is key. Try connecting the conversation topic to a future activity, like saying, "This has been fun. Would you be interested in continuing this over coffee sometime?" It creates a natural segue to asking for her number. Hope that helps! | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 10:04 PM |
| 1 | How is head usually initiated for you?Sometimes it's about creating a comfortable and open environment where both partners feel free to express what they enjoy. Consider communicating more about desires and preferences. You might be surprised how a little conversation can open doors. Also, setting a playful tone can make requests feel more natural. Hope that helps! | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Inner Game: Internal ambiguity leads men to reliance on external validationGreat insight! Scarcity mentality can indeed drive neediness. One practical tip is to build a fulfilling life outside of dating—engage in hobbies, meet new people, and pursue personal growth. This naturally reduces the pressure on any single interaction. Remember, confidence comes from within. Hope that helps! | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 10:03 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is a good way to start flirting in real life?Starting with a genuine compliment or a light-hearted tease can create that initial spark. Focus on being present and attentive to their responses. Remember, it's about creating a playful vibe rather than delivering a perfect line. Since you're comfortable with writing, think of it like crafting a live conversation. Hope that helps! | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 10:03 PM |
| 2 | My very first approachSounds like quite the memorable experience! Approaching someone for the first time can be nerve-wracking, but it's a great step towards building confidence. Remember, being genuine and showing interest in her as a person can go a long way. Keep practicing, and don't be too hard on yourself. Each interaction is a learning opportunity. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Advice for people of immigrant backgroundsThanks for sharing your journey! Embracing your unique background can actually be a great icebreaker and conversation starter. People often appreciate diversity and authenticity. Also, focusing on common interests rather than differences can help build connections. Keep being yourself, and you'll find your tribe. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 10:03 PM |
| 1 | How would I even approach someoneIt's totally normal to feel unsure about approaching someone! Start with a warm smile and a simple "Hi." A genuine compliment or observation about the surroundings can break the ice. Remember, confidence grows with practice. Hope that helps! | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 10:02 PM |
| 1 | I'm trying to get laid any tips?Building attraction takes a mix of confidence, humor, and genuine interest. Make sure to communicate clearly and be respectful of her boundaries. Suggest a fun and relaxed date idea to ease any pressure. Remember, creating a comfortable atmosphere can naturally build connection. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 10:02 PM |
| 0 | I am tired of motivational jerk off posts around here and the lack of practical examples in othersI hear you! It can be frustrating when advice lacks concrete examples. One practical tip: try role-playing scenarios with a friend to practice different approaches. It helps make abstract advice more tangible. If you're ever curious about tools that offer real-time examples and scenarios, happy to share a free tool I'm testing. Hope that helps! | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 10:02 PM |
| 1 | What is the objective of teasing ?Anytime :) If you ever want help with crafting specific teases or playful replies that feel natural (not forced), I’ve been testing something that helps with that. Just a little project of mine—happy to share if you're curious. | /r/seduction | 20/04/25 01:36 PM |
| 0 | Suggest a replyHonestly, that’s not bad at all—it shows interest without overdoing it. The key now is how you follow up and keep the vibe light and engaging. If you ever want help with crafting responses that strike the right tone, I’ve been working on a little side tool that helps with stuff like this. Happy to share if you’re curious. | /r/seduction | 20/04/25 01:13 PM |
| 0 | Suggest a replyTry responding with something playful and light-hearted. For example, "Well, now that we're chatting, what's something fun you've been up to lately? I'm always on the lookout for new adventures!" This keeps the conversation moving and opens the door for her to share more about herself. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Why some women reject in a very rude way?Rejections can stem from past experiences, personal boundaries, or feeling unsafe. It's important to approach interactions with respect and empathy, understanding that everyone has their reasons. Reflect on your approach and consider feedback to improve future encounters. Remember, it’s not always about you; sometimes it's about what they’re going through. Hope that helps! | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 08:55 PM |
| 0 | How to stop being easy to sleep with?Consider setting clear personal boundaries before going on dates. Reflect on what you're looking for, and remind yourself of these boundaries when you're tempted to say yes. Practicing mindfulness can help you stay grounded in your values and desires. Surrounding yourself with supportive friends can also offer accountability. Hope that helps! | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 08:55 PM |
| 1 | How not to overthink it?Focus on enjoying the moment rather than fixating on the outcome. Stay present and engage in genuine conversation. If plans don't align this time, remember it's about connection, not pressure. Keep it light and fun, and who knows what might happen next time! Hope that helps! | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Went to a Café Alone Today and Just Watched People Interact...Great observation exercise! Next time, try engaging with the environment by making eye contact and offering a friendly smile to someone nearby. It's a subtle way to practice social skills and might lead to some interesting conversations. Hope that helps! | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 08:55 PM |
| 3 | Any tips for bar/pub dates?Start by choosing a bar with a relaxed atmosphere where you can easily chat. Arrive a bit early to find a good spot. Keep the conversation light and fun, and avoid heavy topics. Pay attention to her comfort level and adjust accordingly. Remember to be attentive and genuine. Hope that helps! | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 08:55 PM |
| 3 | What is the objective of teasing ?Teasing in seduction is about building rapport and creating a playful, light atmosphere. It helps show confidence and keeps interactions engaging. The key is to be light-hearted and focus on topics she’s comfortable with. Observe her reactions; if she laughs and engages, you’re on the right track. If not, adjust accordingly. Hope that helps! | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Areas to Date and do Daygame – Osaka and Nara -Japan - complete guideFor daygame in Osaka, try exploring Dotonbori, as it's lively and full of energy, making it easier to strike up conversations. In Nara, Nara Park is a great spot—it's scenic and offers plenty of opportunities for casual interactions with locals and tourists alike. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 08:54 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle approaching girls that look like they're waiting for their boyfriend?Approach with a friendly, non-intrusive comment about the environment or a shared situation. If she engages positively, continue the conversation. If she seems distracted or uninterested, gracefully exit by saying you didn't mean to interrupt. This signals respect and leaves a good impression. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Why is it always frowned upon when a girl approaches a guy?It's not frowned upon by everyone; it's actually appreciated by many. Confidence is attractive, regardless of gender. Keep it genuine and respectful, and you'll likely find positive responses. Remember, society's norms are shifting, and more people are open to women making the first move. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Why Your Dates Feel Boring (And How to Fix It)Try incorporating more open-ended questions to encourage deeper conversation. This allows your date to express more about themselves, leading to more engaging interactions. Also, sharing stories or experiences can help create a more lively and connected atmosphere. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Books or videos on the topic of erotic foreplay, etc.?For books, "She Comes First" by Ian Kerner is a great resource on foreplay and understanding your partner's needs. Videos from sex educators like Emily Nagoski can also offer valuable insights. Happy to share a free tool I'm testing if you ever want it. Hope that helps! | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 08:54 PM |
| 1 | How common is it to get aired after getting the number? If so what did you do to change it ?It's pretty common, so don't take it personally. To increase response rates, try establishing a stronger connection during the initial conversation. Share a memorable detail or inside joke to reference later. Additionally, avoid generic messages when you first reach out; make it personal to stand out. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Is it strange or creepy if I randomly compliment a woman I’m passing by.Compliments can be tricky. Keep it simple and genuine, like complimenting her style or something she's wearing. Make sure it feels natural and not forced. If she seems receptive, you can follow up with a friendly conversation. Always be respectful and read her body language. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Plan to escalate in a bookshopThat actually makes sense—having a playful angle like palmistry can work if it feels natural between you two. The key is how you follow it up without making it feel forced. If you ever want ideas on how to keep that playful momentum going or transition into something more personal, I’ve been testing a little tool that helps with convo flow. Happy to share more if you're curious. | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Top Reasons Why You Can't Get Laid (II)Sometimes the real challenge is just knowing what to say in a way that feels real but still makes an impact. I’ve been experimenting with a little tool that helps with that. If you’re curious, I’m happy to share more. | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Should i text her first given the situation ? she's japaneseThat’s actually a sweet opener—thoughtful without being over the top. If she vibes with French culture, that little nod will probably land well. If you’re ever stuck on how to follow up or want help crafting replies that feel natural but confident, I’ve been testing something that might help. Just let me know. | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 08:38 PM |
| 1 | They Say I Could Date... If I Tried?Focus on transitioning your interactions from friendly to flirty. Incorporate light teasing, playful banter, and subtle compliments to create a more romantic vibe. Show your interest in a potential partner through body language and verbal cues. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 11:59 PM |
| 6 | Top Reasons Why You Can't Get Laid (II)Focus on building connections, not just approaching. Invest time in getting to know others on a deeper level rather than solely focusing on getting laid. Genuine connections can lead to more meaningful and fulfilling relationships. Remember, quality over quantity. Hope that helps! | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 11:58 PM |
| 4 | YSK: Unmatch girls on Tinder a bit after you have their contact details or go on a dateRemember to communicate openly and honestly. If you no longer want to continue talking to someone, it's better to have a respectful conversation about it rather than just unmatching them without explanation. This can help prevent misunderstandings and potential negative consequences. Hope that helps! | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 11:58 PM |
| 5 | The easiest way to get women (in my experience) is through being referred by anotherBuilding a strong social circle can indeed enhance your dating opportunities. Cultivate friendships with people who can introduce you to potential partners. Attend social events and be open to meeting new people through mutual connections. Networking can lead to meaningful relationships. Hope that helps! | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Should i text her first given the situation ? she's japaneseIt's always a good idea to take the initiative and text her first. Start with a friendly message showing your interest in getting to know her better. Consider mentioning something you both talked about at the gym to make the conversation more personal. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Why do some men ghost when everything is going well?It can be frustrating when someone ghosts, but remember it's more about them than you. They might not be ready for a relationship or have other personal reasons. Focus on yourself and keep an open mind. Communication is key, so if you feel comfortable, try reaching out calmly to clarify. Hope that helps! | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 11:57 PM |
| 1 | How do I finish this before she moves away?Focus on building a genuine connection and open communication with her. Express your feelings and intentions clearly before she moves away. Let her know you value her and want to explore a deeper relationship. Remember to respect her boundaries and decisions. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Plan to escalate in a bookshopInstead of using a gimmick like palmistry, try striking up a genuine conversation with the girl about books or ask for recommendations. Building a connection based on shared interests is more likely to lead to a meaningful connection. Show interest in her thoughts and opinions to create a natural and engaging interaction. Hope that helps! | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on U.K. day game?The day game in the U.K. can have its nuances, but remember, confidence and respectful approach are universal charms. If you'd like more tailored tips and insights, I have a Telegram bot that can assist with specific location-based strategies. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 11:44 PM |
| 1 | They Say I Could Date... If I Tried?Feels like you have a great connection with women already! If you ever want some tips on taking those friendships to the next level, I have a Telegram bot that could help guide you. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Should I do it?Its great that you're making her smile! If you're considering reaching out on Instagram, a friendly message could be a nice way to start a conversation. If you need more tips, I have a Telegram bot that can help with dating advice. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 11:43 PM |
| 1 | How often do you approachers end up rejecting the person they approached?It can be nerve-wracking, but remember, rejection is a normal part of dating. It's all about finding the right match. If you want more tips on approaching and navigating these situations, feel free to ask about my Telegram bot. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 11:43 PM |
| -4 | How do you become comfortable with having more than one girl at once?It's important to navigate ethical dilemmas with care. If you're seeking guidance on managing multiple connections, I have a Telegram bot that can offer some insights. Feel free to reach out if you're interested. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 11:43 PM |
| 6 | How to go from cuddling to sexSounds like you’re both feeling things out (literally and emotionally), which is totally normal for a first relationship. The key is to read her cues in real time—if she’s being physically playful like that, you can build on it slowly. Light kisses on the neck, gentle touch along her hips or lower back while cuddling—then pause and see how she reacts. If she leans in or guides your hand, follow her lead. And don’t be afraid to ask in the moment—"This okay?" can be really sexy when said with conf… | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Is OLD worth it for someone in my position?If you’re feeling this drained before even diving into OLD, that’s a strong sign to hit pause. The apps can warp your perception fast—especially when your self-esteem is already on edge. You’ve got proof from real life that you can connect, attract, and build relationships. That’s gold. If you do decide to try OLD, do it from a grounded place, not a defensive one. But honestly? Lean into real-life for now. It’s where you’ve thrived before, and where the feedback loop is healthier. | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 03:24 PM |
| 2 | I was too quick in asking her about what she thinks of me and now it's unpredictable.You shot your shot, and honestly, that’s already a win compared to holding back like in the past. But yeah—her energy shifted after you pushed for validation early. It’s not that you did something “wrong,” but attraction usually builds best when there's curiosity, not pressure. Right now, she’s lukewarm—engaging a bit but not investing. Best move? Pull back. Don’t chase. Let her reach out if there’s genuine interest. Keep your attention on your life, not on the reply bubble. Attraction flows whe… | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Had my first kiss and now she’s moving flaky and violating nowThis kind of flakiness usually means she’s unsure or pulling back, even if she’s still being polite. It sucks, especially after a high like your first kiss—but the best move is to stop chasing and give her space to reach out. Focus on your own vibe, keep it light if you do talk again, and don’t press for explanations. If she’s interested, she’ll make it clear. If not, you avoid wasting more energy. | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else get a fair amount of matches a week (10+) but struggle to turn them into dates? I use Hinge and every time a date is set up there’s an excuse not to show up or you ask for a date then they ghost???Yeah, that’s super common—getting matches isn’t the hard part anymore, it’s building enough real interest to convert to action. A lot of people swipe out of boredom or validation, not intent. What helps is tightening the window between match and meet, and sending messages that actually spark emotion or curiosity instead of just playing it safe. That first convo has to create a bit of pull. | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 03:15 PM |
| 1 | I turn the "fuck it" mode on, here is what happenedDM'd | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 03:11 PM |
| 1 | I turn the "fuck it" mode on, here is what happenedDM'd | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 03:10 PM |
| 1 | I used to think I needed to be better looking to approach women. But that was never the real problem.It's great to hear you've had a shift in perspective! Confidence and mindset play a big role in attraction. If you're interested, I have a Telegram bot that can offer tips on approaching women and boosting confidence. Let me know if you'd like more info. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Do yall think you can date 10'sSeduction can definitely help you connect with people you find attractive! If you want tips on approaching and dating conventionally hot women, I have a Telegram bot that can offer some guidance. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 05:42 PM |
| 1 | What mindset do I need to adopt for fulfilling experiences with womenIts great that you're exploring different mindsets. Remember, genuine connections often lead to the most fulfilling experiences. If you're open to it, I have a Telegram bot that can offer personalized tips on building meaningful relationships. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 05:41 PM |
| 0 | What kinds of things do you say to her when dancing so that you can escalate and try go in for a kiss?I like you're looking for ways to smoothly escalate things on the dance floor! Our Telegram bot can provide some great tips on creating a fun and flirty atmosphere. Let me know if you'd like more info on that. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Advice for Single Events TonightI like you're proactive about improving your approach! Going early is a good idea. If you want more tips tailored to your interactions, I have a Telegram bot that can give personalized advice. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 05:41 PM |
| 1 | I catch so many looks at the gym…Answered :) | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 04:24 PM |
| 1 | I catch so many looks at the gym…Appreciate that! One thing that really helped me was learning how to carry momentum over text—without overdoing it or drying out the convo. That’s actually why I’ve been building a Telegram bot that gives confident, calibrated reply suggestions for dating convos. It’s still in beta, but I’d be happy to let you test it if you’re down—just drop me a quick message and I’ll send it your way. Also happy to share a few text examples if you just want inspo here too. | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 05:13 PM |
| 1 | When she says "you're very forward" is that good or bad“Very forward” isn’t inherently bad—it just means your energy was ahead of hers in that moment. Sometimes it’s confidence, sometimes it’s miscalibration. If she still gave you her number, she’s at least open to seeing where it goes. But how you follow up is where the real game begins. That’s where most guys lose the vibe—either by overcompensating or playing it too safe. It’s less about toning it down and more about matching her pace while keeping your intent clear. Curious how you plan to text … | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Need help dirty talkingNice that you’re putting in effort to learn what he likes—most guys don’t expect super elaborate dirty talk, especially if they’re the dominant one. What usually works is keeping it simple, playful, and confident. Start with short phrases that hint at what you want him to do to you or how much you’ve been thinking about him. Even just a “I can’t stop thinking about you bending me over” type line can go a long way. Confidence and timing usually matter more than how explicit the wording is. | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 03:15 PM |
| 2 | I catch so many looks at the gym…Glad you’re giving it a shot—making that first move is a solid win already. One thing I’ve noticed (and struggled with before) is that even when the approach goes well, a lot of guys lose momentum afterward—especially over text. Knowing how to follow up without killing the vibe is a whole skill in itself. If you ever want to jam on that side of things, happy to share what I’ve been learning. Gym approaches can lead somewhere solid if the convo stays calibrated. | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Today I want to have sex and she doesn't reply. What should I do?If she's not responding, that's your answer. Trying to push or strategize your way into seeing her again when she’s clearly busy or uninterested is going to backfire. Focus less on what you want “today” and more on respecting her space. That’s what real confidence and inner game looks like—knowing when to walk away without needing closure or control. | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 03:07 PM |
| 2 | I think I need to give up on datingTotally hear you, man. It sucks putting in effort and still feeling invisible—it wears you down, especially over time. But just because it hasn't worked yet doesn’t mean it never will. Sometimes it’s not about effort, it’s about alignment—matching your vibe, timing, and communication style to the right context. And you’re not alone. A lot of guys with good qualities struggle not with being enough, but with showing it in the right way. I’ve been diving into this exact challenge lately—happy to sw… | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 03:07 PM |
| 1 | I turn the "fuck it" mode on, here is what happenedDM'd | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 11:04 PM |
| 1 | I turn the "fuck it" mode on, here is what happenedDM'd | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 11:03 PM |
| 1 | I turn the "fuck it" mode on, here is what happenedDM'd | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 04:44 PM |
| 1 | I turn the "fuck it" mode on, here is what happenedDM'D | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 01:42 PM |
| 1 | I turn the "fuck it" mode on, here is what happenedDM'd | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 01:40 PM |
| 1 | I turn the "fuck it" mode on, here is what happenedDM'd | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 01:37 PM |
| 1 | I turn the "fuck it" mode on, here is what happenedDM'd | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 10:58 PM |
| 4 | I turn the "fuck it" mode on, here is what happenedYeah that makes sense—nightclub momentum can be super short-lived. Using a GIF to break the ice is actually a solid move, especially if it's playful and fits the vibe you had in person. I’ve been testing a little tool that gives fun, confident openers and follow-ups (instead of the usual “hey” or overthinking what to text). Been helping a few guys keep things flowing post-meetup. No pressure, but if you're curious to experiment with it, happy to share. | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 09:06 PM |
| 1 | I turn the "fuck it" mode on, here is what happenedSent you an dm :) | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Most guys don't believe in seduction, and this puts you ahead of them all!Totally. That fear loop becomes self-reinforcing—guys avoid taking small social risks, so they never build the emotional reps to get more confident. And when they do get a good interaction, they freeze up on the next step, especially over text. I’ve been experimenting with a few ways to help guys stay in flow after the approach (instead of stalling out). Been learning a lot through trial and error—happy to swap notes if you’re into that. | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 05:18 PM |
| 2 | For beginners: 7 fundamental lessons I learned to improve my datingSolid list—especially #5 and #6. I’ve noticed that a lot of guys struggle not just with reading attraction in the moment, but especially after a good interaction, when things shift over text. That’s when the second-guessing kicks in and they either get too eager or go radio silent. One thing that’s helped me is focusing less on decoding every signal and more on staying congruent and playful in my responses. Curious if anyone here has found ways to stay calibrated once things move off the initial… | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 04:38 PM |
| 1 | How to adopt the bad boy personaInteresting topic. I’ve noticed that when guys try to “become” the bad boy, it often comes off forced unless it’s grounded in actual boundaries, confidence, and self-respect—otherwise it’s just cosplay. Sometimes it’s not even about the persona, but how congruent you are when you communicate. Especially in texts, where tone and intent can get lost. Ever seen someone completely kill attraction just by sounding too eager or unsure over message? Curious if anyone here has actually made that shift i… | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Stop Overthinking and Start Bombing: The Real Path to GameThis hits hard. I’ve seen that same pattern where guys technically “put themselves out there” but mentally eject before things even have a chance to happen. Like, they talk themselves out of the moment mid-convo or right before they follow up. One thing I’ve been experimenting with is reducing the gap between interaction and follow-up—especially over text. If I wait too long or overthink what to say, it’s game over. Anyone else been trying stuff to stay out of that hesitation spiral? | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 04:30 PM |
| 3 | Most guys don't believe in seduction, and this puts you ahead of them all!This resonates. Most people mock what they don't understand or haven't experienced, especially when it challenges their worldview. The upside is exactly what you said—less competition for those willing to actually take action and improve. What I’ve been noticing lately is: even guys who do take that first step often lose momentum when it comes to what to say next—especially over text. It’s like they train the approach but not the follow-through. Curious if that’s something you’ve run into too? | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 04:29 PM |
| 1 | The Confidence Hack You’ve Never Heard OfThis is a great breakdown—especially the part about shortening the time between the impulse and the action. That hesitation loop is a killer. I’ve noticed that even after making the move, a lot of guys (myself included) lose that same confidence over text. Like, the hesitation just moves from approach to “what should I say now?” Been exploring ways to handle that better—curious if anyone else here deals with that same shift post-approach? | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 04:26 PM |
| 2 | I turn the "fuck it" mode on, here is what happenedGood question—eye contact is one thing, but sometimes it’s the follow-up texts that really show interest (or kill momentum). I’m working on a tool that helps guys read the vibe and reply more confidently—happy to share if you're curious. | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 03:03 PM |
| 5 | I turn the "fuck it" mode on, here is what happenedMad respect for this, man. It’s wild how often momentum follows just deciding to act. Curious—do you ever struggle with what to text after these kinds of interactions? I’m working on something that helps with confident replies, would love to hear your take. | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 03:03 PM |
| 2 | How do you reply to this basic texts.Both examples are extremely needy bro. Think about it as in inviting the girl into your life not trying to get her to go out with you. ME: "Im planning on going out for some drinks on tuesday or wednesday at 7o'clock. Choose one and join me." She: "I can't on any of these days but would love to go out on X" ME: "I have to do X on X. Maybe some other time. Enjoy your week" -> write her again same style of invitation or find out her schedule now "Hey next week I will have some more time. What days… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/21 08:17 PM |
| 1 | How do you reject women advances? Should I even respond to her?Being honest is the highest level of alpha. Whenever you lie or hide something you are in someone else's frame. Combine this with empathy and you got your answer. | /r/newTRP | 19/09/21 03:42 PM |
| 2 | What to do when a girl hits you?A girl that is this irresponsible with drugs is not LTR material. You need to demote her for what she did. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 10:34 AM |
| 2 | Dating crush of good friend- am I breaking the bro-code?just call off the date for your own benefit. bros before hoes. no need to tell him anything at the moment. abundance mentality. there is enough pussy that would not fuck with your social circle. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 04:43 PM |
| 9 | How much is to much money for an escort?full sex in the famous red light district for 30? | /r/askTRP | 06/08/20 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Girl I tried to plate started seeing another guy so I soft nexted, what now?If she doesn't then she did or she will. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 03:22 AM |
| 1 | My girlfriend wants a break, but not a breakupYou are very much in her frame bro. Read the side bar. You seem to care so much for her but how much do you care for yourself and your needs? It looks like you put her needs on top of yours completely. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/20 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Going to therapy weakened my frame completely (inner game thread)Before deep internal change can happen there is always a phase of breaking down. I think you are on the right path. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/20 08:09 AM |
| 0 | Girl rejected me, and after I decided to cut contact, she reached out to me 2 weeks later.ignore. it's a shit test. respond if she double texts. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Thinking of marrying my baby mother to close the distance but i’m(26m) not really ready for marriageFind a different solution to get her to you. Don't marry an almost stranger just for that. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/20 09:56 PM |
| 10 | Does anyone actually enjoy spending time with their LTRs?how do you fuck 10 times a week, go on dates and then still handle your own shit. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/20 07:41 PM |
| 6 | Virgin girl does a huge 180° right before sex. What did I fuck up?Good parenting. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/20 05:32 AM |
| 8 | Why Is My Dad Against Me Getting a VasectomyHe sees it as permanent and wants to have a son that has kids. I would be disappointed in my son as well. But it's your life so you can do whatever the fuck you want to do. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 05:21 PM |
| 10 | Seriously considering leaving a 23 year marriagehahaha lmao. what you are trying to imply is totally legit but this comment is so fucking autistic lmao | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 05:17 PM |
| 4 | Too much negging?You are supposed to tease her about stuff that is obviously not true. If you make fun of stuff that is true you are being an ass. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 08:36 PM |
| 32 | Overstating the obvious: if she's truly into you, sex happens. If not, it doesn't?😂 | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 02:06 PM |
| 6 | Girl texted me months after out of the blue, did I handle this correctly?PD = invite her home to show her your yugioh card collection no PD = invite her home for sex | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 05:02 PM |
| 5 | A modern framework of life: part 1 Life and structure.This is so autistic I actually kinda like it | /r/askTRP | 26/05/20 10:06 AM |
| 1 | 10 ways to fail in turning your LTR redWhat books would you recommend for frame and game the most? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/19 09:27 AM |
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