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Lol
/r/seduction19/06/22 11:19 PM
5

Lol somebody’s been watching too many recovering simp YouTube videos
/r/seduction30/04/22 04:06 AM
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Yup
/r/seduction03/03/22 03:12 PM
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Yawn
/r/seduction29/11/21 09:49 AM
4

Lol no, this girl ghosting
/r/seduction29/11/21 09:20 AM
3

That’s assessing judgment, which of course is true. You can argue somebody’s judgement in thinking shes open to a commitment is in error while also stating to never manipulate or “play games”.
/r/seduction03/11/21 02:51 AM
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Dude you act like if he just plays it cool for 3 more months she’ll realize she wants him. This is so stupid. It’s like you’ve never been around a good woman if you believe this garbage
/r/seduction02/11/21 06:51 AM
1

Even more reason why OP made the right move.
/r/seduction02/11/21 06:48 AM
3

This is just manipulation personified. Never do it. If a guy wants a commitment, he should ask for it and accept whichever answer and whichever repercussions come from it (including possible end of a casual relationship).
/r/seduction02/11/21 06:47 AM
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This is silly
/r/seduction02/11/21 06:46 AM
8

You don’t want her for an LTR anyways.
/r/seduction02/11/21 06:44 AM
1

Attributing widespread irrationality to menstrual cycles is just nonsense.
/r/seduction02/11/21 06:43 AM
1

You’re correct. But that’s the way it is
/r/seduction02/11/21 06:42 AM
0

It’s effectively the same thing. Much of teen-on-teen sex is predatory. It’s not about age between of-age adults. It’s about intent, consent and behavior.
/r/seduction01/11/21 07:16 AM
1

18 = Pubescent age? Lol
/r/seduction01/11/21 07:15 AM
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Waiting for you to provide a single cogent defense of your assertion. (Just kidding, I know it isn’t coming).
/r/seduction01/11/21 05:08 AM
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I went to jr high with guys and girls that fucked at 13. Is it healthy? Probably not. But it’s not inherently predatory or immoral.
/r/seduction01/11/21 05:06 AM
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If you think an 18 y/o can consent to fuck, then the adult age of their partner is irrelevant
/r/seduction01/11/21 05:05 AM
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You’ve waived the white flag like 7 posts too late. I suggested you quit while you’re behind like 6 posts ago. You have nothing to defend your wild, inane conjecture and moral virtue signaling
/r/seduction01/11/21 04:50 AM
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You said 30 as an arbitrary cut off for “most of society”. Which is a nonsensical assertion to begin with.
/r/seduction01/11/21 04:49 AM
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You’re the quintessential white knight. No logic or moral coherence, just pure emotional conjecture.
/r/seduction01/11/21 04:42 AM
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You’re dense. I said you’re not entitled to make up your own definitions of words (“predatory”)
/r/seduction01/11/21 04:41 AM
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None of what you’re saying supports that it is inherently “predatory”. Stop while you’re behind
/r/seduction01/11/21 04:40 AM
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Right, so 29 and 11 months and 30 days is not-creepy … BUT one day later he’s a POS creep? Lmao, your own logic
/r/seduction01/11/21 04:39 AM
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They’re both adults. If they both consent, as gross as it is, ain’t nothing “predatory” about it.
/r/seduction01/11/21 04:27 AM
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Sadly, some teenage skanks with daddy issues would love to bone guys twice their age. Strange how you arbitrarily chose 30 as the cutoff between creepy/non-creepy. Try using logic and consistency in your moral declarations and stop blindly taking moral cues from the masses which infantilize all women, especially young ones.
/r/seduction01/11/21 04:26 AM
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You’re so triggered you’re not even following my point by conflating it with something else entirely. 18 y/o’s don’t stop being attractive because you’re “old”. I’m not saying it’s admirable to pursue an 18 y/o. But it’s not inherently “predatory” unless you are at liberty to making up definitions, which you are not. You’re also infantilizing 18 y/o girls. Stop doing that.
/r/seduction01/11/21 04:22 AM
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I take issue with the word “preying”. I mean it can be, but it isn’t inherently so.
/r/seduction01/11/21 04:14 AM
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“Preying” ? Just stop
/r/seduction01/11/21 03:52 AM
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It’s natural for a man of any age to be attracted to a pretty 18 year old. A 50 y/o pursuing an 18 y/o is another matter.
/r/seduction01/11/21 03:51 AM
1

It’s sad dudes need to ask Reddit for this stuff 🤦‍♂️
/r/seduction21/10/21 04:23 AM
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Or you can just be an actual savage and bounce out if she ain’t cool.
/r/seduction15/10/21 05:31 AM
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How long have you known this broad? Telling a guy she’s having a casual hook up with to not wear a rubber is alarming and not normal behavior. It’s one thing to let it happen, another thing to outright object
/r/seduction10/10/21 06:04 PM
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Ah bruh, big mistake. I know it’s tempting but you gotta go into it knowing what you won’t do.
/r/seduction10/10/21 06:03 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction06/10/21 02:24 PM
1

Nice job OP!
/r/seduction06/10/21 03:11 AM
1

What are you 0-10
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:45 PM
3

OP Trollolololololol
/r/seduction02/10/21 03:55 AM
0

Lol yup, they all thicc or milfy … most aren’t super cute but smash worthy for sure
/r/seduction27/09/21 04:49 AM
1

Please stop copying and pasting my posts
/r/seduction26/09/21 07:04 PM
1

You a sad man bro. Bragging about escort skanks on Reddit to strangers. Sad bro
/r/seduction26/09/21 07:00 PM
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Lmao god how insecure are you bruh
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:43 PM
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Nobody who talks like that is getting any play, let’s be real lol
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:29 PM
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“No cap”? Lmao
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:22 PM
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Yes, contrived “game” is so cringe bro
/r/seduction23/09/21 02:02 PM
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“Cap”? Lol who taught you to talk like that? The streets? Why wouldn’t you say “lie” lol
/r/seduction23/09/21 02:01 PM
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“Earning it through game” lol, come on bro. This sub is sometimes so cringe. No woman worth having responds to “game” in the sense that it’s used here.
/r/seduction23/09/21 05:31 AM
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You’re correct. She’s not interested. If she was she’s have responded no matter whether step 1 or Step 21
/r/seduction20/09/21 07:14 AM
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Advice should be evaluated on its merit, not the identity of the messenger. Also, the “game” is gay AF
/r/seduction19/09/21 01:43 AM
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I’m not a W, but why wouldn’t a woman’s perspective be relevant here. They are the SUBJECT.
/r/seduction18/09/21 11:40 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction18/09/21 03:40 PM
0

Some women do. Your anecdotes don’t disprove a rule. It’s also Ill-advised to advise everyone to do this.
/r/seduction18/09/21 03:39 PM
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Horrible advice. Most women don’t want to be approached. And the ones that do likely don’t want to be approached by YOU. Most will be polite about it. You also don’t want to approach IG type Thotianas
/r/seduction18/09/21 03:14 PM
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You’re delusional. With a certain type of woman, I would ask. I just don’t interact with that genre of female in the OLD space. I wouldn’t really want that either. I don’t want a potential psycho whore coming to my place. I want to feel her out for a few hours at least
/r/seduction17/09/21 07:33 AM
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I’ve talked with dozens of dates/gfs/friends about this. All of them to a man confirm what is patently obvious to everyone that is honest: asking a women to come straight over to your place is so cringe and obviously motivated; and all self respecting women vomit at the idea.
/r/seduction15/09/21 08:05 PM
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No self respecting woman is coming straight to a strangers house no matter how much they like you.
/r/seduction15/09/21 05:23 AM
10

This would eliminate simps forever
/r/seduction15/09/21 04:56 AM
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Only thots will go to your house first date though
/r/seduction15/09/21 04:56 AM
4

Banging co workers is awesome bro come on
/r/seduction15/09/21 04:55 AM
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Lol
/r/seduction14/09/21 02:08 PM
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Stop approaching women with the mindset of “game”. Cringe.
/r/seduction12/09/21 06:52 PM
0

Kay
/r/seduction11/09/21 06:03 PM
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Are they tryna fuck in a public bathroom with other dicks? Then yeah it’s gay
/r/seduction11/09/21 06:02 PM
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Yeah, guys who aren’t sexually aroused next to another dick are “projecting”. Smh
/r/seduction11/09/21 02:22 PM
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And guys who look at every interaction with the opposite sex as “game” is a d-bag. To both women and guys.
/r/seduction11/09/21 06:46 AM
1

It totally is. I laugh when dudes brag about double teaming some skank (yes she’s a skank by definition), it’s like they have no idea they are closet homos (not that there is anything wrong with that)
/r/seduction11/09/21 06:45 AM
0

Two dicks out in the same room is kinda gay
/r/seduction11/09/21 06:43 AM
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That goes without saying. The point is opportunities at a grocery store are gonna be next to nil Unless you hang out in the frozen aisle 40 hrs a week
/r/seduction11/09/21 12:47 AM
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Everyone? At a grocery store? Horrible advice bro. Most people are running errands and want to get in and out without some cringe dude hitting on them
/r/seduction11/09/21 12:41 AM
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96% of women 5 or above at grocery store don’t want to be hit on and/or are married or bf
/r/seduction11/09/21 12:41 AM
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High value means less than a 6 crazy too right?
/r/seduction11/09/21 12:39 AM
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What a loser bf
/r/seduction06/09/21 08:18 PM
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OP ain’t looking to wifey this broad up tho
/r/seduction06/09/21 08:16 PM
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It’s just a hook up. This girl ain’t gf material. She’s a smash and pass
/r/seduction06/09/21 08:16 PM
1

A train? Gross
/r/seduction06/09/21 08:15 PM
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Yes some girls behave that way with guys they have no intention of actually hooking up with. But often times they do.
/r/seduction06/09/21 08:14 PM
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Take her to pound town and then drop her like a bad habit
/r/seduction06/09/21 08:11 PM
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Cringe AF
/r/seduction05/09/21 06:39 AM
0

You’re talking about women who don’t know if the other guy is a LTR candidate. Most women know very soon (guys too). Nothing wreaks of immaturity and intimacy issues than men/women who like someone, want a LTR, but can’t handle being open about it
/r/seduction04/09/21 08:42 PM
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They weren’t looking for a LTR/deep connection then
/r/seduction04/09/21 07:03 PM
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Those girls are immature and lame then. But guys need to read the room. If she’s not the type to be attracted to a guy like that, and you’re already joking up, just let it ride…
/r/seduction04/09/21 06:23 PM
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It works if she sees you as a viable mate. It won’t if she doesn’t.
/r/seduction04/09/21 06:21 PM
2

Your attitude about how being short has hurt your dating prospects is more of a turn off to women than your actual height.
/r/seduction29/08/21 12:28 AM
1

Doesn’t really do much for me
/r/seduction28/08/21 01:24 AM
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At this point the threshold as to whether an advance from a man is benign or “misconduct” is whether she likes you
/r/seduction16/08/21 05:02 AM
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You need to approach meeting new people with the perspective “I hope I like her” rather than “I hope she likes me”. When you have the self confidence that you offer a lot of value to a partnership with women, you won’t take it personally or get down when some women choose not to value what you offer.
/r/seduction16/08/21 05:00 AM
2

What exactly is your argument to support this moral posturing about age difference? Saying they just shouldn’t go for it isn’t a very deep analysis. It’s not an analysis at all
/r/seduction15/08/21 08:53 PM
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It’s quite common. Women like older men and men like younger women.
/r/seduction15/08/21 08:38 PM
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It that maybe he’s attracted to younger girls vs his own age?
/r/seduction15/08/21 08:36 PM
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Why is 18 and 30 okay then ? Again, maybe he’s immature and she’s very mature, or some combination thereof.
/r/seduction15/08/21 08:35 PM
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Age ain’t nothing but a number (unless we talking children). I’ve met 16 year olds who have more maturity than a 28 year old. Common? No. But to pigeon hold a persons maturity is silly. When I was 19, I was more mature than 80% of mid 20s men
/r/seduction15/08/21 07:48 PM
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Did he say he wants to marry her? She’s hot, I’m sure the main feature of the attraction is smashing, not a genuine connection
/r/seduction15/08/21 07:46 PM
-1

Even if it were illegal, there’s nothing morally wrong with it
/r/seduction15/08/21 07:45 PM
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They’re wrong. You can’t “ignore” somebody into becoming attracted to you. A very small # of manipulative women will do this, but this does not generate attraction in overwhelming majority of people. The toxic “dating” advice ideologies continues spreading these lies that really just compound the prevalence of manipulative behavior in the sexual marketplace
/r/seduction08/08/21 12:57 AM
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Not having sex with them isn’t going to magically make them want to not ghost you and continue seeing you lmao
/r/seduction08/08/21 12:36 AM
1

A pity BJ?!
/r/seduction04/08/21 03:47 PM
3

I think casual and promiscuous sex for most *women* work against their objectives beyond the here-and-now, but they don't realize it until many years after they should because they're told profound BS by mass culture. And sometimes, it's too late by then. I don't think it's a problem for the men. Men racking up a body count isn't inherently unattractive to most mid-to-high value females seeking a LTR. But promiscuity is relevant to most mid-to-high value men in the context of seeking out a long-…
/r/seduction03/08/21 11:20 PM
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No, I actually lean towards keeping options open early on given the low rate of return on dates, similar to what you've been saying, but without the somewhat cynical, self-centered point of view that I characterize yours to be. Fixating on finding a spouse or LTR at every encounter is not good nor healthy in my view, but going out just to go out and not connect on any level with somebody seems like a poor allotment of time spent. And a strategy to get really bad results, too.
/r/seduction03/08/21 09:21 PM
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This is good and healthy, IMO. People who have somthing to offer know they are of value. They know. So there's no need to worry about whether they're going to like you, the hope should be that you like eachother and genuinely connect, as you noted. And to not take it personally if that doesn't come to fruition because, at bottom, you know you have value to offer others, you just have to (get lucky) and find them.
/r/seduction03/08/21 09:05 PM
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You basically said their interests and traits as a person don't matter to you until you smash. While I have empathy and understand this point of view, and don't see it as inherently malevolent or soulless, but it is concerning. For starters, that women will become intimate with men to basically strangers (given you know nothing about them, literally), and that a man would even find this a prudent way to spend time (taking girls out that you're ambivalent about).
/r/seduction03/08/21 09:03 PM
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I think you're perspective is basically correct here. Guys have gone to the opposite extreme. They claim to be fed up with the games of women and dating -- then compound that negative culture by engaging in those very games and upping the ante with some of their own.
/r/seduction03/08/21 09:00 PM
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"Nice guy" has a negative connation because it has two meanings in our culture: the literal meaning and the pejorative, condescending meaning. Most women, and all women worth pursuing, want and value the literal Nice Guy -- the guy that is generous, kind, courteous and respectful...because it is understood that those traits are not mutually exclusive to some of the other popular traits these women also value: assertiveness, strength of character, principled, competence, etc. Most women, at least…
/r/seduction03/08/21 08:57 PM
0

Always require she pay her portion if her behavior was unbecoming
/r/seduction03/08/21 03:25 AM
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Reflexively cold approaching tons of women is CRINGE and LOW VALUE. Even mildly intelligent women pick up on how insincere this is. So CRINGE BRO.
/r/seduction03/08/21 12:43 AM
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Reflexively cold approaching every vagina on a stick you see -- and cold approaching with no strategy other than "you got a bf?" lmao -- is so CRINGE and incredibly LOW VALUE behavior.
/r/seduction03/08/21 12:33 AM
1

That doesn't really align with the meaning of "aggressive". Escalation can be aggressive or subtle or meek, what appears to be the case is you escalated, she was torn about how far she wanted to go, but just acquiesced. Escalating and not getting any stop signs from her is not aggressive.
/r/seduction02/08/21 08:50 PM
1

Define “aggressive “ in this context
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:54 PM
5

Yes, she regrets her own choices, resents you for not saving her from a choice she’d later regret. This is what zero accountability looks like.
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:54 PM
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Some (damaged) girls love possessive guys…it’s like affirmation for them
/r/seduction02/08/21 04:32 PM
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Cold approaching every attractive woman you see is pretty lame. Stop doing it. Especially when you can’t find an avenue to naturally strike up conversation first
/r/seduction02/08/21 02:58 PM
1

God imagine being the guy that gets aggro anytime somebody is interested in their girl.
/r/seduction02/08/21 02:57 PM
0

That was original Just please stop sabotaging other people’s chances just because you’re not happy with yours.
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:33 AM
0

Stop giving away the fact that you get no pussy and say cringe stuff man
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:26 AM
1

“It feels good talking to you” Your stamp of approval is on this kind of simp language
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:19 AM
1

You just advised telling girls you wanna fuck is a good idea. You don’t spend much time with women if you think this. Cringe bro. If it lands, she belongs to the streets as do you
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:18 AM
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It landed well with her because she belongs to the streets. She’s searching for the love daddy never gave her
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:16 AM
1

Agreed
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:15 AM
0

If she’s not attracted, words don’t matter. Expressing sexual interest in her won’t matter.
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:13 AM
1

Naughty? No. Not until mutual sexual interest is established
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:11 AM
1

Be comfortable being a little bit disagreeable sometimes. Don’t always agree with her to appease her. Challenge her (tactfully). Demonstrate your have a point of view and aren’t just pandering to her
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:10 AM
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This could help or it could blow upon his face
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:09 AM
2

Lot of excuses. I think people like the idea of them being too busy and off their phone. If you’re interested in someone romantically, you’re not just like “saw that text, I’ll get to it when I get to it, maybe next week…I can’t wait to see them again!” Lol
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:01 AM
0

Not 24/7. Nobody I remotely care about doesn’t hear from me within 12-24 hours
/r/seduction02/08/21 05:58 AM
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“Busy” is just code for “i don’t value you enough to communicate in reasonable time frame”. If you’re interested in someone, or value the prospect of them being in your life, people make time. We do and will make time for what’s important to us.
/r/seduction02/08/21 05:56 AM
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Again, neither. Your assumptions, and dichotomous choices as a result if those false assumptions are just so lacking in perspective, so unnuanced, so rife with misery . Your disgruntlement oozes through your posts. You think most women are skanks. But you are complicit in this, then cry they’re all skanks. Good women don’t want you. You’re too preoccupied with sex ASAP
/r/seduction01/08/21 04:18 PM
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Strawman dude, come on. Nobody is trying to change the world here and you know it. You just can’t grapple with the arguments valid out. The whole world doesn’t align with your cynical absolutes
/r/seduction01/08/21 04:11 PM
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It shows how embittered you are bro . Like I said, you’re clearly very fulfilled by this current sexual marketplace cultural climate
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:53 PM
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I’m advocating just the opposite. DONT marry skanks. Marry or date GOOD women (who generally have legit barriers to entry for sex, and have positive feminine values). And I’m encouraging women to adopt that mentality so that they get what they want (meaningful healthy LTR with good men) rather than fuck boys like you (no offense) who don’t respect them. And if you’re a skank, you don’t deserve respect
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:50 PM
1

You ain’t fooling anybody bro
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:48 PM
1

You keep advocating for women to put out immediately even though it’s not respectable behavior. Then the loop continues, and you then complain they’re all skanks lol
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:46 PM
1

Exactly. And you sound like somebody totally happy and fulfilled by your experiences lol not
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:44 PM
1

But then you ridicule them for being that way. So hypocritical You don’t respect them because of it
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:26 PM
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Your points are affirming mine don’t you see? You see how worthless these promiscuous women who bring nothing of value except instant gratification (sex)
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:23 PM
1

Dude you’re on tinder too much. It’s a cesspool
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:22 PM
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You’re embittered from dating. I understand. But it’s made you irrational and cynical
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:18 PM
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I’m being a bit tongue and cheek here, relax, I understand where you’re coming from even though I disagree
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:17 PM
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Lol I honestly get the humor and find it funny. The good women tend to be taken. It’s a sellers market and good value driven women get swooped up usually
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:16 PM
1

That’s a personal decision the man has to make. She may not be. Many aren’t
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:15 PM
0

Not for a skank. A skank you blow her back out ASAP.
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:13 PM
1

Ooooh, flexing that tinder skanks will come over with no money spent…that’s why they’re called skanks and why “fuck boys” are recovering simps
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:12 PM
1

Right…and that’s the problem and why women are miserable
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:11 PM
1

Yeah it’s selfish when a girl won’t denigrate herself and put out for some clown show before he invests any QT lmao, come on bro, you’re not looking at this objectively
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:36 AM
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Lol no, it’s choices informed by positive values that correlate with their desired outcomes long term
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:28 AM
1

Agreed. And men should take necessary precautions to mitigate that incentive. Promiscuous sex leads to miserable women , undesirable women to the opppsite sex. We know this. Given what almost women want, being easy is counterproductive
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:24 AM
1

Women don’t fake interest to get sex from strange men like men do to women
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:22 AM
1

Men lie. Evaluating individuals is a difficult and tactical task. But yes can be done. Women are better off just being abstinent . See men’s head (and dicks) explode
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:15 AM
-1

My point was simple and explicitly, but the genuine “sex positive” apologists (who apparently have zero problem with their daughter and wives being ran through) couldn’t comprehend it. “They can do what they want!” Lmao
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:11 AM
1

No guy will pass on a girl they’re genuinely into for the long term because they have to wait for sex. It’s amazing the ability to turn women being more self interested self respected can be turned around as “lazy”.
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:08 AM
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No it’s not sex as a carrot, it’s to weed out guys who only want sex who will lie just to Smash but won’t wait around if she says it’s a no go from the start
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:05 AM
1

You’re making all sorts of incorrect assumptions. It’s not manipulative at all if you’re being transparent about it. I’m not surprised why guys whose primary objective is to smash as soon as possible has a problem with women raising the barrier to entry. It will result in tons of frustrated incels No man genuinely interested in pursuing LTR and that connects with said woman will give a shit
/r/seduction01/08/21 07:49 AM
0

The longer and greater the barrier to entry, less men will be willing to manipulate their way to the finish like. Women have to be guarded like this precisely because too many men are manipulative and disingenuous
/r/seduction01/08/21 07:30 AM
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Yes, the point of holding out is self respect and weeding out guys who aren’t genuinely interested in a LTR. Manipulation? Lol. So delaying instant gratification is manipulation? Think of all the scenarios where we want to do something but think better of it out of a greater goal.
/r/seduction01/08/21 07:17 AM
0

Wow consent is important, how profound! You’re making patently obvious statements bro
/r/seduction01/08/21 06:54 AM
-1

Why don’t you state the sky is blue then? Because that’s as obvious as the observation and point you made : “people can have sex if they want” How is this axiom relevant to my point
/r/seduction01/08/21 06:50 AM
1

Dude nobody is claiming some authority should force women or men to not have sex . I’m saying it’s not sometimes advisable, nor are you entitled to have those choices be free from criticism
/r/seduction01/08/21 06:41 AM
0

You made the same strawman — again. Nobody is saying they can’t do anything
/r/seduction01/08/21 06:36 AM
0

I wasn’t responding to the OP. I was responding to a commenter.
/r/seduction01/08/21 06:35 AM
-11

Please don’t have children! They will be single mothers and fathers for sure with that value system Nobody here is claiming anybody should be forced to do or not do anything. It’s a strawman argument
/r/seduction01/08/21 06:05 AM
1

No it’s not good for you bro, it’s feminine passive aggressive language. Epic simping
/r/seduction01/08/21 06:01 AM
1

Love the passive aggressive text “looks like you’re not interested or attracted to me” lmao simp city
/r/seduction01/08/21 05:57 AM
1

No, I don’t. I just wanted to unveil the truth about these kind of dudes.
/r/seduction01/08/21 05:48 AM
2

Dude look at your posts. Nobody — neither men nor women — cares about whether they have your respect
/r/seduction01/08/21 05:46 AM
0

Uh yes high value men don’t marry girls who will get smashed first date by men that use her
/r/seduction01/08/21 05:44 AM
3

You’re crazy
/r/seduction01/08/21 05:42 AM
-1

Sounds like the typical fuck boi — these guys are former simps, got hurt, and now have done a 180 and loathe all women and try to quell the pain by manipulating them. Truth is , you’re still a simp
/r/seduction01/08/21 05:41 AM
1

She played you for the desperate maniacal simp that you are lol.
/r/seduction01/08/21 05:40 AM
0

No wonder broads are so guarded these days. ^
/r/seduction01/08/21 05:39 AM
0

You pay for it. Whether as a John or as a simp picking up tabs
/r/seduction01/08/21 05:38 AM
2

If your only objective is to smash, you shouldn’t be dating, you should be a John. In other words, a loser. Paying for dates as barter for sex is low key simp behavior.
/r/seduction01/08/21 05:36 AM
6

As a dude with a high sex drive I totally disagree, despite it being against my own interest. Women who have self respect and want deeper, more meaningful relationships, need to have higher barriers to entry. It weeds out men who arent interested in the type of relationships she is.
/r/seduction01/08/21 05:35 AM
-1

Not the point bro lol. The quality of the experience is irrelevant
/r/seduction01/08/21 05:32 AM
-17

Terrible advice. What if a woman “wants” to have sex at first sight, just hop on a dude at first sight? You gonna just be like “live and let live” ! To your daughter?
/r/seduction01/08/21 05:31 AM
1

That’s definitely the case for many. For others, they’re hopelessly desperate that they have control over her attraction to them
/r/seduction31/07/21 09:04 PM
15

Why is it so hard for men to understand a non reply/ignore is in fact an answer. It’s that they don’t want to hear from you. They don’t value you. I that rude to do that after a year of communicating? Sure. But it is in fact a clear message. When this happens don’t keep following up. Move on.
/r/seduction31/07/21 07:39 AM
1

This is far less predominant as you and many others claim. The guy that can’t handle platonic relationships with women are insecure AF. They’re too insecure about being around a woman that doesn’t want them
/r/seduction31/07/21 07:16 AM
-3

Stop projecting. All you can do here is strawmanning. Asking for consent is like asking for permission to eat the ice cre when it was handed to you. It makes you look like a tool. It’s not about rejection. When they’ve got their hand in your dick, it ain’t rejection. You know if she wants it before it gets near sexual imtercourse. SIMPING is not good for your health. Women who give it away with no barrier to entry belong to the streets. Not my opinion. Women that love sex but respect themselves …
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:30 AM
-3

“Scared”? This is you strawmanning an argument.
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:21 AM
2

Awful platitudes bro
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:20 AM
-4

This is just wrong. Sexual escalation is mostly non verbal . Consent is physical. Asking is such a beta move
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:16 AM
1

True or not, that doesn’t matter. What matters is it’s bad advice. Lol his bio will never work. True blue moon occurs be that some insecure broad was attracted to that kind of “honesty” lmao
/r/seduction31/07/21 05:28 AM
1

100% facts she’s not a 10/10, but that’s beside the point
/r/seduction31/07/21 05:24 AM
2

she’s lost, and so are you. She thinks being a slut is going to help her gain respect, love and affection. It just amplifies instant short term gratification, and obscures her issues and delays dealing with them. Sad.
/r/seduction31/07/21 05:24 AM
1

LoL yes. Video evidence of no crime is better than no video evidence to defend against false allegation
/r/seduction26/07/21 07:37 AM
1

That is all not true.
/r/seduction26/07/21 07:09 AM
-1

Pretty much this. I’ve had 4 women casually bring up they were assaulted/raped. I’d put my 401k up to bet they in fact were not.
/r/seduction26/07/21 05:45 AM
0

Ones home is the safest place to protect against potential false accusations. Hidden cameras
/r/seduction26/07/21 05:42 AM
2

It was an observation. Obviously if nobody you’re after wants you equally, then it goes without saying
/r/seduction25/07/21 07:57 PM
1

The men they want often don’t want them
/r/seduction25/07/21 05:38 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction25/07/21 05:37 PM
2

Blow jobs are a really submissive and sexual act. It is not reciprocal, just like eating a girl out. It comes with the territory when you’re given out BJs to guys who haven’t earned it. You’re an object. Getting deep throated and spanked aren’t outrageous. What’s demeaning to the woman is is the act of giving head before you’re really know each other. You guys don’t have true intimacy and trust established, hence you’re not on the same page when it comes to sexual acts.
/r/seduction25/07/21 06:23 AM
2

Most likely is her feelings, priorities, etc fluctuate day to day, hour to hour, so she knows it’s fleeting and so doesn’t really commit strongly to anything. It’s whatever is convenient at the time and how she feels. We call this immaturity.
/r/seduction25/07/21 03:31 AM
2

Same logic can be applied to sex. I say where do you want me to cum, girl might say “not inside me”. Perfectly reasonable and common response.
/r/seduction25/07/21 02:36 AM
2

Fair, and you may be right. DTF is certainly one of the possible meanings of “not looking for anything serious “ and then engaging in a bunch of pre-fuck type kissing
/r/seduction25/07/21 01:23 AM
1

Lot of woman overly apologize. Could be nervousness, self consciousness, or always feeling guilt if not meeting her own expectations or what she things others expect of her
/r/seduction25/07/21 01:21 AM
1

Probably interested in somebody else. Even if not, her interest in you is clearly waning. So reciprocate — pursue other people, don’t overly try and engage with someone who has in many respects checked out. You get what you give. You could just say “hey I’ve noticed your interest is waning, I’m gonna sign off, if you rekindle your interest hit me up”
/r/seduction25/07/21 01:18 AM
1

“Isn’t looking for anything serious” has a lot of meanings. It’s most common is they don’t see you as relationship worthy
/r/seduction25/07/21 01:16 AM
1

I agree that’s what his focus should be, but it seems like her interest in him is passive/convenience. She may or may not be down to get smashed, but her communication isn’t aligning with that. The communication and sexual nature of it should be ramping up approaching 3rd date after make out sessions the first two. She seems like what many girls are which is having no clue what they actually want, impulsive, passive. She’s not dating material (at least with OP) so yeah don’t mess around anymore,…
/r/seduction25/07/21 01:14 AM
8

“Non-binary” = crazy “Asexual” = not fit for dating/relationships
/r/seduction25/07/21 01:04 AM
0

Why did a girl you’re seeing not want to hang out at your flat
/r/seduction24/07/21 10:48 PM
2

I think it’s obvious enough where he doesn’t have to ask. We already know.
/r/seduction24/07/21 10:45 PM
2

You need to know more about her first. Ask her questions.
/r/seduction24/07/21 10:44 PM
8

Huh? Sex with coworkers is a natural thing and that’s why it’s so common. You’re with them 40 hrs week. Bone away…
/r/seduction24/07/21 10:43 PM
5

You can help her. Just don’t be a simp about it
/r/seduction24/07/21 10:41 PM
17

Huh?
/r/seduction24/07/21 10:40 PM
9

“Non binary” and “asexual” = pass. That’s your answer
/r/seduction24/07/21 10:37 PM
2

It’s porn that taps into the dominant strain in a mans brain. Completely exaggerated by porn where women aren’t human, they are cum buckets to be exploited and demeaned.
/r/seduction24/07/21 10:35 PM
2

You shouldn’t really want or let him or anybody do it ever. You’ll always be that girl. Like getting trained on. You’ll always be that person. No man in the history of earth has asked a woman he respects to let him cum on her face
/r/seduction24/07/21 10:32 PM
-5

Every dude knows this though, except for the OP I guess. But also, only simps nut from a BJ, especially before smashing .
/r/seduction24/07/21 10:30 PM
0

Dude she said not my face, a perfectly rational answer to the question. I read her post to you as she didn’t want him to think she’s the type of girl who lets guys first time cum on her face, another perfectly reasonable (and desirable) response. Let’s face it, if a girl takes it in the face, she belongs to the streets. No self respecting man of any value will love her. No man that respects his girl would even ask. to cum on her face. Actually, no self respecting man finds that hot.
/r/seduction24/07/21 10:28 PM
1

Trollololol OP?
/r/seduction24/07/21 10:24 PM
-1

Only simps bust from a BJ anyways. Drop this loser.
/r/seduction24/07/21 10:23 PM
1

I agree, but this isn’t merely a case of a favor for friends. It doesn’t appear they are that type of friend where asking a favor is par for the course. It’s obvious in the OP and in her long winded thank yous
/r/seduction24/07/21 09:35 PM
2

No work involved. She’s either interested and her request was a haphazard, passive way of initiating communication and interaction with him, or she’s not and all she wants is a favor. It’s out of his hands. It’s up to him to execute and take it to next level if she is interested, but her attraction to him is not UP TO HIM at this point.
/r/seduction24/07/21 06:23 PM
2

The “come hang out with me” needs to be left out. Any auto zone will install battery at purchase
/r/seduction24/07/21 05:59 PM
2

Yeah if she’s genuinely interested, this won’t be the last they communicate. Simps can’t help themselves though. They think they can contrive their way into a woman’s affection with niceness and favors unreciprocated
/r/seduction24/07/21 05:59 PM
2

“Opportunity “ in a real sense implies she contacted him because she actually is interested in him romantically. In that case of course, but that’s not very likely. And the suggestions in this thread are to hang the favor over her head as a quid pro quo of sorts. This is full simp. No self respecting man who is remotely desirable is doing this shit. This is how creepy dweebs try to get attention. Hey if I’m just super nice and cater to her every whim, she’ll forget that she doesn’t desire me (a …
/r/seduction24/07/21 05:53 PM
1

Most women don’t take advantage of simps in this egregious manner. Simply asking is pretty bold. Like she can get it done faster going to a jiffy lube at 8am. $70 done. She’s either broke or straight up malevolent or both
/r/seduction24/07/21 05:50 PM
1

Exactly. It’s definition of SIMPING
/r/seduction24/07/21 04:54 PM
5

Strange. Oil changes are so convenient to have done at any oil change place. And cheap.
/r/seduction24/07/21 04:53 PM
1

Anniston circa 1995/96 = perfection girl next door hot/cute wifey look
/r/seduction24/07/21 04:52 PM
1

Do NOT do what some are suggesting which is using the favor to barter for attention/date. If she’s in to you and asking you for help was her way to signal interest, she will signal in the way she thanks you. Don’t ask her out, just be a cool about it, let her know what cost of battery is before purchase. If she’s in to you, even when you part ways, it won’t be the last you hear from her. Keep communication lines open if need be.
/r/seduction24/07/21 04:51 PM
2

Dude, get a grip. You’re still SIMPING but don’t realize it.
/r/seduction24/07/21 04:46 PM
2

Lol
/r/seduction24/07/21 04:46 PM
3

No it’s not. This girl doesn’t want attention or to socialize with this guy romantically. She’s using him
/r/seduction24/07/21 04:44 PM
7

No , date opportunity needs to be voluntary or dude is a simp. Going around doing favors for women as barter for attention is so simp and cringe bro
/r/seduction24/07/21 04:44 PM
2

Manipulating a favor for contrived attention is full SIMP
/r/seduction24/07/21 04:42 PM
10

This
/r/seduction24/07/21 04:41 PM
6

Sex in the car? Are you guys in HS or live with your parents?
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:51 AM
1

Lol
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:50 AM
-1

The main issue is this guy doesn’t have the assertiveness or the sense to answer this question for himself. This girl put out and set the scene for putting out without going out. You deserve what you tolerate. But for almost we know she’s perfectly content in this exchange so far
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:47 AM
1

Why don’t you ask her if she needs/wants anything?
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:45 AM
0

Riiiiiiiiight…good one
/r/seduction27/06/21 04:53 PM
3

They’ll find out before long you’re a tool that approaches women for sport
/r/seduction27/06/21 04:10 AM
1

I’d rather chop off my dick than be THAT guy, and behave like OP, or have that general essence about me. The world laughs at guys like that, including high value women and men
/r/seduction23/06/21 07:23 AM
0

Wtf does that even mean? “Abundant lifestyle”. Nobody that commands respect from his peers talks like that
/r/seduction23/06/21 07:19 AM
3

For thinking no-shame cringe behavior is "cool" or in in some way reflects positively on him. Definition of a tool bag. This loser and all other pick up artists are why women have to be so guarded in interactions with guys
/r/seduction22/06/21 07:57 PM
11

D-Bag alert....
/r/seduction22/06/21 06:14 PM
2

Conversation should demonstrate engaged interest first before suggesting date
/r/seduction20/06/21 08:41 AM
12

I think you’re misusing the word cuck here
/r/seduction20/06/21 08:39 AM
2

They’re not playing hard to get. They just don’t like you
/r/seduction01/06/21 07:45 AM
2

Uh, it sounds like he DOES want it, so much so that his commitment to being a certain kind of guy is wavering
/r/seduction16/05/21 12:10 AM
2

Easy going, not excessively passive.
/r/seduction24/04/21 11:50 PM
2

Elaborate “low self esteem”
/r/seduction24/04/21 11:47 PM
6

100%...just avoid living like a degenerate so a woman that intends to bang you won’t keep their pants on upon seeing how you live
/r/seduction10/04/21 07:59 PM
4

Not about what impresses, but what avoids a turn off (dirty, clutter) But for both sexes, have some diverse drinking options
/r/seduction10/04/21 06:12 PM
1

A good looking guy only needs more than looks with woman who aren't the hyper attractive type generally.
/r/seduction07/04/21 09:41 PM
1

OP's dilemma and perspective is I think common. I can relate a little bit. It's more common than the commenters think. Some guys don't like putting up with the typical female persona. And some guys will settle to avoid solitude and it often blows up eventually.
/r/seduction07/04/21 09:39 PM
1

Fair enough. Going the gentleman route is never a bad move.
/r/seduction07/04/21 06:41 PM
1

girl usually needs to get worked up first...she'll be more open to give a BJ once she's resigned to having sex...which will stem from playing with her vag
/r/seduction07/04/21 06:41 PM
1

Yea if you can find a way to tell a girl she’s very attractive in a setting and context that will be perceived as genuine and without ulterior motive, it’s a great move. You got to feel it, it’s gonna be highly intuitive Do not express it as formally as your example. It’s got to be more natural. Need to be able to express it in just a few short sentences.
/r/seduction07/04/21 05:36 AM
1

No raincoat, raw all day lol Jk Agreed, best play is usually to behave as if needing to fuck is non existent in your head
/r/seduction07/04/21 05:19 AM
5

No no no, you don’t put her hand on your junk. Amateur hour. It’s what a desperate virgin does. A boss puts their own hand down her pants. Gotta focus on turning her on to progress the encounter. Never finger banged a broad that didn’t want the D after
/r/seduction07/04/21 05:18 AM
4

Cringe advice
/r/seduction07/04/21 05:16 AM
2

Why tell her that as you’re getting busy lol
/r/seduction07/04/21 05:16 AM
3

Lol
/r/seduction07/04/21 05:15 AM
2

Good advice dude
/r/seduction07/04/21 05:15 AM
4

Yeah he should stop calling it that lol
/r/seduction07/04/21 05:14 AM
2

Jerking off a lot can have negative consequences bro
/r/seduction07/04/21 05:10 AM
0

It’s a recreational drug. It’s not bad for 20 yr olds. He may not need it. But it’s virtually a guarantee mitigator against malfunction due to anxiety or any psychological issues
/r/seduction07/04/21 05:07 AM
-19

Were you just too tired from making out to stick your hand down her pants ... amateur hour! I would have wanted to nap 2 hours after a smoke
/r/seduction07/04/21 05:05 AM
-23

EDIT: after alll that you didn’t even finger bang her? Weak bro!
/r/seduction07/04/21 05:04 AM
112

Wake n’ bake date? Damn bro she work graveyard
/r/seduction07/04/21 01:26 AM
141

Please tell me you’re not going straight to getting high in the car then making a move to smash? She’ll be more receptive buttering her up for a couple hours doing something together
/r/seduction07/04/21 01:14 AM
29

Dude should take her out for a while first no?
/r/seduction07/04/21 01:13 AM
2

Don’t jerk off often, yes
/r/seduction07/04/21 01:12 AM
7

little bit on the neck, behind ears, and wrists. Maybe a dab on your shirt
/r/seduction07/04/21 12:50 AM
43

Don't force it. Let it happen. If she's open to it tonight, it will happen naturally. Hopefully you have a place to go other than your car that has a bed, a TV and privacy.
/r/seduction07/04/21 12:48 AM
60

Not realistic when you're a virgin and don't know the girl that well. It's like asking somebody who doesn't play basketball to stay calm when sent out to the FT line in a tight game with thousands of people watching. He should jerk off, take a Cialis or something -- he's gonna smoke weed, that should calm him down. The pill will help overcome the nerves so he can perform.
/r/seduction07/04/21 12:47 AM
-9

Take a viagra but jerk off before the date. You'll thank me later
/r/seduction07/04/21 12:45 AM
1

Interesting. I've had a direct correlation with how (and how often) I whack it. I've been told it's mental too, but anytime I talk to men directly about it, their experience is how they train their dick. Often my first time with a girl I'd struggle, and by 2nd and 3rd time I was bringing heat, so it made sense to me that it was mental during 1st time with a girl even though I didn't necessarily feel nervous, but I was aware that I wanted to make a good impression. But beyond that, particularly w…
/r/seduction06/04/21 09:22 PM
1

Women are generally not going to volunteer constructive criticism to a man about sex, they are generally too agreeable and passive.
/r/seduction06/04/21 09:21 PM
1

Going down only is effective if she enjoys it (and with you). Otherwise you score no points by "giving".
/r/seduction06/04/21 09:19 PM
-1

Ehhh, I think most girls prefer fingers and D over mouth. And many others are too self conscious to allow themselves to enjoy it.
/r/seduction06/04/21 09:18 PM
1

What research? They're likely not jerking off at all, and not cumming is likely jerking off to much, or not jerking off properly (strategically and with a purpose)
/r/seduction06/04/21 09:16 PM
2

Yes foreplay prior is key for sure. Would never deny that. Coconut oil rub downs tend to produce positive results in that regard
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:46 PM
1

Lol how novel...
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:07 PM
0

Take a cialis or something
/r/seduction06/04/21 02:14 PM
1

I think pre mature ejac is largely physical, just like not being able to cum. It’s how you train your dick.
/r/seduction06/04/21 02:12 PM
1

Female sexual prime is like 32-40. They’re over the fairytale too
/r/seduction06/04/21 05:15 AM
1

Jerking off lol
/r/seduction06/04/21 05:13 AM
27

Ask her what she wants. But generally they like to be smashed into the new millennium
/r/seduction06/04/21 05:13 AM
1

You can’t make sense of her conflicting moral positions, because they’re grounded in nothing and everything
/r/seduction06/04/21 05:10 AM
1

He caught you in another bullshit lie in an attempt to prop up a poor moral absolute
/r/seduction06/04/21 05:09 AM
1

Come on Aristotle what’s the moral verdict!
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:23 AM
1

Is dude half an animal or what lmao. Come on Aristotle! You laid down the gauntlet — own it!
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:20 AM
1

If dude enters a girl at 11:58pm and turns 18 at midnight, is he half an animal? Lmao
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:20 AM
1

Ad hominem bereft of argument = stupid
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:19 AM
1

Give up, your moral posturing and its lack of coherence was exposed and you’ve got nowhere to run Small chance is irrelevant, it illuminates the larger point — which is your logic is grounded in straight nonsense lmao By your logic, 1 minute can and is the moral difference between depravity
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:16 AM
1

Yeah, totally insecure to call out a morally incompetent virtue signaler
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:15 AM
1

TRY HARDER lmao
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:15 AM
1

Have you figured out what an analogy is yet? Lol What about pedophile? Lmao
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:14 AM
1

Right 1 minutes they’re 17, 1 minute later clock hits midnight...they’re 18...hopefully they’re not fucking at midnight or else yummypeas will indict you for depraviry! Lmao
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:13 AM
1

You’re not making any sense. One post it’s legal statute, next post it’s “laws don’t matter” lmao
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:12 AM
1

Yummypeas: 17 yrs old having sex who cares..1 minute later at 18, he’s an animal!
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:11 AM
1

Again, by your illogic, 1 minute is the difference between depraved and non depraved
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:10 AM
1

But you’re taking cues from (some) legal statutes
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:10 AM
1

Not at all. You’re deflecting from being exposed that your original position has no moral grounding, which is why you can only respond with ad hominems
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:09 AM
1

Again, in some states 18/16 is okay? You say what? Lol
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:08 AM
1

That’s a legal perspective, not a moral perspective. You have no moral perspective— you are just regurgitating learned / legal statutes and inferring absolute moral imperatives from them
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:07 AM
1

These analogies are exposing your stupidity (they’re not analogies, they’re hypotheticals)
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:06 AM
1

I’d have to laugh too to save face while
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:05 AM
1

But legislatures can change laws. You seem to draw line strictly based on where a legislature may be at any given time. In some states 18/16 is legal. So you say what? Lol
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:05 AM
1

It’s continuing because you’re digging your heels into the ground despite tying yourselves in logical knots
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:04 AM
1

What if I’m 17 and bone a 16 year old? Animal? What If state legislature makes age 16, is 18 year old still animal?
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:02 AM
1

I’m using middle school English for you, but apparently that’s too “big”. You’re getting owned. This is what happens when you virtue signal out of ignorance
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:01 AM
1

Is an 18 year old depraved for boning a 16 year old? I WANT TO LEARN THE RULES
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:00 AM
1

You’re getting owned. You have no insistence on logical or moral consistency...you’re just regurgitating learned opinions and moral posturing
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:58 AM
1

But I thought you said 5 yrs younger Is Ok? Again, more reading and thinking critically, less posting
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:57 AM
1

Waive the white flag bro
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:57 AM
1

Well what if I’m 21? Or 24? What are the parameters between depraved and saintly
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:56 AM
1

That you view them as “big words” speaks volumes...
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:55 AM
1

What if I’m 18 yrs old, am I still an animal lol. Can I date 5 yrs younger, tell me the rules
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:53 AM
1

Anything to deflect from how objectively inconsistent and hypocritical your conflicting positions on the matter are...
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:53 AM
1

Read more, post less
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:52 AM
1

Please google “pedophile” . You are ignorant and dumb
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:51 AM
1

If the legal statute was 14, you’d be taking your cues off that rather than thinking critically for yourself
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:50 AM
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They’re children, apparently they can’t decide what they want or don’t want anyways. You’ll tie yourselves in knots trying to justify learned (and wrong) opinions from others
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:49 AM
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Please think about moral dilemmas more critically rather than regurgitate learned opinions . Now a 17 year old is a “child”? Spare me It’s creeps like this that won’t distinguish between pre pubescent children (molestation) and post pubescent teenagers (rape by statute)
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:46 AM
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Doesn’t your outrage hinge on whether I’m 18 yrs and 1 day or over, or under 18? That’s the difference between depravity and righteousness right?
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:44 AM
1

So if you have sex with an 18 yr and 1 day, you’re fine, but if you bang a dick hungry 17 yr and 364 days old right before her birthday, you’re a predator? LMAO please think HARDER. Please think for yourself. Please read a book on “arguments” and “moral reasoning 101”
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:31 AM
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It’s that you’re going there specifically to pick up girls. I support you, it’s just not something I’d want to admit about myself. I don’t find it admirable
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:25 AM
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I thought some states it was 16, most 18, guess not
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:17 AM
2

If a 17 year old consents to sex with a guy over 18, legally and culturally she’s declared a victim and the other partner is deemed a MONSTER. Bullshit.
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:13 AM
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Blaming teen? For what? I’m criticizing yours and cultures moral inconsistency and arbitrary markers of moral behavior. It’s bizarre you accused me of blaming an imaginary teen for imaginary behavior
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:09 AM
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Using an outlier to prop up a bad argument. 16 year olds should be responsible for their bodies too. Govt draws an arbitrary line at 18 and a stupid populace mindlessly takes its moral cues from that magic marker. 17 yr and 360 days has sex — MORAL OUTRAGE 18 yr and 1 day has sex — NOBODY CARES 17 yr and 360 days has sex with 17 yr old — NOBODY CARES 17/18 yr and 1 day has sex with 40 yr old — MORAL OUTRAGE
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:05 AM
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Uh no, you’re infantilizing college kids because presumably it’s a girl Would it be preying if a 40 yr old cougar was picking up college men? College students are adults, they are required to be responsible and culpable for their choices
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:00 AM
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“Preying” on young adults? Give me a break
/r/seduction06/04/21 02:57 AM
1

Age ain’t nothin but a #. 33 with 18 isn’t unethical, though picking them up on campus when you have no other reason to be there comes off creepy. But game on bro.
/r/seduction06/04/21 02:56 AM
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No less or more than in other places I suppose
/r/seduction06/04/21 01:23 AM
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Well I mean if she initiates re-engagement, then you reevaluate. But the point is he needs to NOT contact her, she's been quite clear. There's zero evidence she will re-engage with him unprompted. Sometimes you're right that it's really tough to tell when reading these stories, but this one is about as slam dunk as it gets.
/r/seduction05/04/21 11:48 PM
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She doesn’t like him at all. That’s the problem. She is too agreeable a person to tell him to completely fuck off. OPs behavior has been cringe
/r/seduction05/04/21 04:25 AM
3

Whole Foods Trader Joe’s
/r/seduction05/04/21 03:49 AM
2

Asians that are full not mixed, or mixed that still take on the oriental aesthetic. There are asians who are ethnically ambiguous
/r/seduction01/04/21 05:10 PM
1

Go with it
/r/seduction01/04/21 05:56 AM
12

What a c*nt. Good move
/r/seduction01/04/21 05:54 AM
2

It’s been made more of a game by technology. You guys make it seem like this is all biology . It’s a new phenomenon in society
/r/seduction01/04/21 05:53 AM
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It’s not biological. It’s social adaptation. 500 years ago women didn’t get to reject men — men took what they wanted. Women were not always the gatekeepers of sex, that’s a relatively recent development
/r/seduction01/04/21 05:52 AM
1

Girl may just like the validation of sociolinguistic with guys she knows likes her
/r/seduction01/04/21 05:50 AM
9

You don’t want to seriously date the woman that hangs at the finish line. Bang her if it’s convenient, but never be that guy for her
/r/seduction01/04/21 05:49 AM
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Why does it bother you when her friends suggest you ask her out
/r/seduction01/04/21 05:47 AM
2

No they key is to divvy your attention when it’s reciprocated
/r/seduction01/04/21 05:46 AM
16

She’s the type where alpha guys pick up on it and will use her because they ain’t the type that value good men nor can they spot them
/r/seduction01/04/21 05:44 AM
2

Not being a guy who can handle making plans (and decisions) is not the guy you want to present yourself as. Don't leave it up to her -- invite her to do something specific. Drinks after work seems like a low-pressure money move. Doesn't mean she's in to you if she says yes, but if she does she'll say yes or counter with a better time for her rather than after work to hang out. Even if you totally misread her and she has no intention of hanging out with you or liking you, saying no to after work …
/r/seduction01/04/21 05:33 AM
11

Ethnic Asians have it the worst on dating apps. All you can do is be the best version of yourself, and let the chips fall where they may
/r/seduction01/04/21 05:30 AM
1

Could be. The fact that she mentioned it is suggestive though. Or just suggestive she expects lame behavior from guys that are attracted to het
/r/seduction01/04/21 02:43 AM
3

Correct
/r/seduction01/04/21 02:40 AM
10

Thatta boy, you’re a high value dude that cool ass down to earth women value
/r/seduction01/04/21 02:40 AM
25

This is not from novels, this is socially learned. Attractive women know they’re attractive. Pretty satisfying not to fawn over a girl who expects (and wants) to be fawned over by you
/r/seduction01/04/21 02:37 AM
14

Mmm, only a small set of hyper attractive self involved women do this
/r/seduction01/04/21 02:36 AM
3

True, good observation
/r/seduction01/04/21 02:36 AM
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OP thinks and operates like me. And he’s right — nothing you can do, and you don’t want to fall into the trap of playing that game...once you find out that’s how they operate, there should only be one goal: convenient smash, or let it be
/r/seduction01/04/21 02:36 AM
5

A genuine comment may likely be inferred as something else depending on context and rapport.
/r/seduction30/03/21 03:36 PM
3

Never effusively appraise their physical attractiveness early on, mainly because it’s likely to be inferred as being grounded in disingenuousness and an ulterior motive
/r/seduction30/03/21 03:35 PM
1

Accurate observation here. A minority of women with positive upbringings will find themselves with loser guys, but it’s typically out of a cognitive dissonance
/r/seduction26/03/21 06:17 PM
1

Not sure why you feel like you have to make a sexual pass at her to sustain the courtship Yes — no need to harp on her bad texting, if you get serious, that time will come. Yes, may as well see her again if she confirms your text.
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:29 AM
2

Maybe she is that rare breed that doesn’t care for texting even guys they like. I’ve met them before, but they’re rare Every female is a nurse these days
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:26 AM
2

Was she drunk the first date
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:24 AM
2

You haven’t decided where yet? Amateur! Yes pick a different place. Totally forgot you met already and had a good time. If true, her behavior since is really weird
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:23 AM
4

What? That’s called justice. What’s infantile is the notion that the cosmo keeps a tally of rights and wrongs and always evens the score lmao
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:21 AM
2

It’s not a bad look to just be like “we still on for 7pm?”. Leave it at that. You may see a side of her that would surprise all of us.
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:19 AM
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Complete bullshit. When I hear an adult emphatically promote the existence of karma, all they’re doing is broadcasting that they have a low IQ and think like a child. 9/10 of these clowns will also often cite their horoscope
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:18 AM
2

May as well go on the date to see what’s what...but certainly not promising...it’s easy for a girl to respond with short texts rarely and then finally say yes to a social gathering. It probably just beat her no-plans evening of Netflix at home. Don’t care what kind of woman they are, if they have genuine “burning” interest, they’ll find time to text/communicate. Ain’t no girl with enthusiastic interest in a guy go 24 hours without texting...unless they’re playing games
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:16 AM
1

Cringe bro, stop doing that
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:11 AM
2

The conscious attempt to impress girls is for SIMPS
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:11 AM
1

Every guy with high EI and secure with themselves knows this. You impress by not pandering, being principled and assertive and genuinely interested in sharing yourself and inquiry in to her, and behaving truly as if boning isn’t on your radar. The more you act as if you have no ulterior sexual motive, the quicker the panties drop
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:10 AM
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