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Question for WomenCidCrisis/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 02:51 AM
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Gary Oldman could play a phenomenal pizza delivery driver.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:53 AM
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The Dudette abides.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:20 PM
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Yeah, you can say that. All I'm saying is that humans are social animals and the vast majority of us crave some level of social acceptance. It doesn't have to be literally the only thing. But obviously most normal people care about their personal relationships and how they're seen by others in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:03 PM
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I mean yeah, but there are definitely a lot of dudes who measure their self-worth by how many women they've fucked. It may not be the only factor, obviously. But it factors in. I mean even in general society we judge people on N counts. A dude who is a known player is often seen as more valuable and conversely the whole "lol virgin" concept exists as well. In most common social circumstances, how much and who you fuck is absolutely used as a form of social validation or credit, which most crave …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:02 PM
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I'm not red pill, but the funny thing is that red pill is primarily dudes just studying what asshole guys do that works in regards to pulling women. Unless they're super obvious about it, I don't see how you could tell the difference between a RP guy and a standard douchebag without looking at their browser history. Humans are observant. And when they see others behave a certain way and get what they want, it's not rocket science that they imitate these behaviors themselves. Shit, most animals a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:54 PM
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Does he tell you you're a pedant as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:13 AM
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Ooh SierraMistSoda is so fancy!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:16 AM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:14 AM
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Lol I was being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:33 AM
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Classic nice guy incel lulz.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:37 AM
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Makes sense. As a dude, we don't get compliments as much, but it's nice to hear. (Whether it be a flirty comment from someone you're attracted to, or the flip-side and all things inbetween.) Nice little ego boost pick me up. However, when you're being literally harassed by someone who has a significant physical power advantage over you? Yeah, things start getting dicey. And while, in theory this could happen to a guy, the vast vast majority of this scenario is generally going to be it to a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:47 AM
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No. I'm saying you can use condoms in that potential year interim for HIV to show up in tests if you want to be safe. Also I'd like a source for this data on all this about testing. It was to my understanding that they run you through the full gamut when they test you. I've done it several times. They even give you a little sheet showing the results. So I'm not sure where you're coming from with this "testing is unreliable" angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:30 PM
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Condoms exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:24 PM
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True to a degree, but also the forum you're on will decide who's responding and thus the answers you're going to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:14 PM
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There are obviously degrees. That's what I was referring to with the "bicycle" comment. More that the whole virginal purity obsession is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:11 PM
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It depends on the woman, I suppose. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:08 PM
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I addressed that. "This seems to me to be more of an online thing." *basically there is a highly vocal online crowd. But they don't represent most dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:57 AM
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It's not just him. Sometimes that chemistry is just electric, and if I liked you a lot before, and then we just had fantastic sex? My response is, "Holy fuck do not let this fish go." I know a lot of dudes on here are crazy obsessed with their women being virgins, but that always struck me as a self-confidence issue. As long as we don't have to worry about STDs being in the picture, (which are easily tested for) I really don't mind if you've fucked other people in the past. I have too. Who cares…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:34 AM
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You eat it a lot of mornings, it's relatively healthy, and it makes your "cheat days" when you have pizza so much better!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:46 PM
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Because I disagree that guys create a "secret transactional relationship?" I confess that I can't speak for literally all dudes, but certainly no guy I know pulls this shit that I know of. I could just be ignorant, sure. But it seems like a convenient excuse for women to just pull out of their pocket if they don't like a guy who happens to be nice. "Oh he's not nice, he's a just a Nice Guy..." (Whose crime is what again? He showed interest and was nice to you, and then you told him you weren't i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:48 AM
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It's almost like they do it because it works. While women keep telling other men to just be their genuine kind and respectful self. And then when men do that they call them "Nice Guys" and keep fucking assholes and bemoan, "Where have all the good men gone?" I mean, I think it's kind of obvious... I chose my flair for a reason. I don't like to believe chivalry is entirely dead, but TRP didn't just sprout from nothing either. It's an emotional soup we all find ourselves in. I find hardcore TRP an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:30 PM
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It's wild, right? Like why would any self-respecting person have sex with someone who treats them like garbage? Like not trying to dunk on anyone's fetish or anything. I just don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:39 AM
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So if a guy is kind to a girl he likes, he's an asshole until he professes his feelings? And once he does, he's a "Nice Guy TM" if she doesn't feel the same? Am I understanding correctly? *typo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:54 PM
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I mean, yes? The same reason why a lot of rom-coms have bumbling goofy "average guys" (read: not particularly attractive) winning the super gorgeous girlfriend in the end through the power of love and friendship. Regardless of our gender, the vast majority of us are closer to the median and of course people want to believe they deserve the perfect partner. That's the fantasy. What people do to achieve these "perfect" partners is more the question... But the desire and fantasy aspect of it isn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:50 AM
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Yes, this is operating under the assumption that the guy has made his feelings known.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:57 AM
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Lol I love how incel has just become a blanket term for, "I don't like this person." I guess it's not dissimilar from "Nice Guy." Way I see it, an incel is someone trying to get laid but is unsuccessful. They could be Jesus Christ on Earth or Hitler reincarnated. Their moral character does not matter. Or their opinion on a movie I like. Or their political views. Doesn't matter. On the flip side, a nice guy is just a guy who is nice. Lol if a friend of mine starts dating a guy and asks my opinion…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:44 AM
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Nah. As an idiot right wing conspiracy theorist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:50 AM
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Not at all. Just find it amusing how quickly you outed yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:49 AM
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Lol I love how you so quickly eliminated any and all sense of credibility you might have initially had.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:46 AM
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I mean that kind of goes into an entirely different thing where dudes get shamed for being virgins. (Like incel is amongst the most common of insults against a guy you don't like. Even when it doesn't make sense lol. Like Criston Cole if you watch HotD...) And it's strange because I remember losing mine was like the most amazing experience, and simultaneously was almost like disappointing. Like it's certainly good and I enjoy having it, but it gets overhyped. It's like bacon. And most dudes I've…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:11 AM
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I see you've met my mother. I am so sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 02:07 AM
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She could have said she loves guns and anime. That might have worked...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:10 PM
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You are something lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:09 PM
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Lol I got it. It's more the whole "last word" thing, which we both know is silly. There was a miscommunication. It's cool lol. *particularly you trying to start arguments where this is none. Let it go.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:36 PM
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I did. Obviously I meant like a definitive statement about men in general. It was unclear in your initial comment. Clarity could help your arguments in the future. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:58 PM
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That's fair enough I suppose. And no you did not, that was just the impression/implication I got even if you didn't state it directly. (The whole "it's creepy, sadistic, abusive, scary" thing sounded like a definite statement.) Anyway, cheers for the interesting discussion at least lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:11 PM
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Yes, the potential is there. I suppose that depends on how you view a red flag lol? It's certainly something to be aware of, absolutely. But there are a lot of guys with generally pure motives who may feel attracted to a girl who may be somewhat insecure. The perceived insecurity can trigger that societal male urge to protect or help women for example. The predators do exist, but that's not all guys. (I hope and believe it is not) I guess I'm just saying you're painting with a bit of a broad bru…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:06 PM
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Sure, and I kind of get it. But I'd argue it's very much a potential red flag. Yeah, there are absolutely horrible men who specifically target these types of women, but to automatically dismiss interest as creepy, scary, sadistic, abusive, etc, is a bit far I'd say. *which maybe that's not quite what you meant, in which case there was just a bit of a misunderstanding here. I do generally agree with your OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:52 PM
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Okay? Because "predators" go after these women, should we just assume that anyone who shows interest is also a predator? Do we not allow these women to date at all? Otherwise idk what exactly your point is. *Also lol I was not implying I am some dark enigma or something. Just referencing a stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:30 AM
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Lol you make it sound so weird, but yeah, the shy maybe a little awkward wallflower girl can be cute and intriguing. Absolutely common that a guy might want to pursue and find out who this chick is. It's almost a mystery! Whereas, yeah there is the tall, dark, enigma man who can be hot and attractive. But if they're giving off anxiety vibes that can be the death knell of that interest in seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:42 AM
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You underestimate how repulsive anxiety is to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:32 AM
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Lol I'm unsure if they were being sarcastic or not. Which I suppose says something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:11 AM
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And everyone is the hero of their own story. So men who have trouble dating become creeps, losers, and "Nice Guys," because it's the men who are obviously the problem. Cue misandry. Then on the flip side, you get men being put down by women, even when they think they're doing things right, so clearly the women are evil bitches and cunts. Cue misogyny. I feel like there is a severe lack of empathy on either side of the equation, and nobody really benefits from the arrangement. And it primarily re…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:47 AM
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Huh. Cool. Lol thank you for the honest reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:57 AM
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Not your friend. You were being an asshole for no reason and I called you on it. Lol get fucked. Guessing that's kinda difficult for you though. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:41 AM
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I'm telling you it is a significant difference. Yeah it's true that there are some women who just do not find the bald look attractive. But it's a similar thing with fat. Balding tends to imply you don't care about your appearance. And just aesthetically bald can look really good on a guy. And definitely better than balding in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:34 AM
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Bald is clean shaven. Balding is when you have hair but it's receding and/or have a bald spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:27 AM
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I think it really depends on the guy. But generally I'd say that's accurate. A bald guy has to put in effort to keep their head shaved. Shows that they care about their appearance. (And it can be incredibly hot if the guy is in shape as well.) Being fat just indicates laziness and gluttony. *Also bald is different from balding. If we're talking balding vs fat, yeah fat is usually gonna win there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:18 AM
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Sure. But would you find it a turn-off if you were dating him?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:13 AM
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I mean, if you look at the pic, it's pretty obvious he's bald. Also why would you even say this? What a fucking pathetic and shitty comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:10 AM
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Lol I fear to ask what subs those are. But yeah, reddit itself is a bizarre place. Much as I love to kill time on it...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:53 AM
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Lol I feel like we've been on different subs... It is true that there are decent people willing to talk in good faith on here as well tho. But I feel like they're the exceptions... Idk. It's a weird variety of folks. Some are cool. Some less so. But it's usually at least interesting for sure lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:46 AM
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They're literally not. But for serious? So you can talk shit and then it's over when you say so? Not how this works. You're pure emotion and near zero practical know-how. Little guy, you gotta get over yourself. Realize that there is a lot of life you've yet to experience. And also, get off this sub. Frankly I shouldn't be here either. It does no good for anybody. But certainly not for you. It is mostly toxic as all hell... So yeah, now the conversation is over bud. Wish you all the best and god…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:59 AM
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Lol. Dude, neither of those are exclusive!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:27 AM
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Can you read? I literally said she left me. I did love her and I was actually super torn up about it for a good minute. But life goes on, and yes, there have been girls since. Do I love her currently? No. I mean that was a while ago, but I don't like wish ill upon her either. We both got our own lives to deal with. (And we were both pretty damn immature lol...) This isn't a difficult concept, but the responses I'm getting from you are concerning... It's not all that hard to understand. I was jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:14 AM
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Uh, yeah. The relationship ended. I moved on. Is this really that difficult for you to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:17 AM
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Lol look at this dude acting like he knows my life. But I actually cared about her a lot. The relationship didn't work out. She left me and I'm honestly glad she did, because with wisdom and the time required, she was a nightmare and I got out the winner in that scenario. And I've been with several women since who I've also very much cared for. Some were better relationships than others, but we did have intimacy and past partners didn't play into that. I gotta tell you homie, being with one pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:12 AM
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I honestly recommend it. The kind of people this sub attracts are generally toxic. Either gender. For me, I've been here long enough and it's such a trainwreck that it's hard to look away. The drama becomes a sort of addiction... But I rarely exit a thread on here feeling better about life lol...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:31 AM
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Lol I mean, maybe? Does that have anything to do with their comment though?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:19 AM
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I mean, don't you though? I've had sex with multiple people. I also remember the intimacy of being with one. And those two situations are not exclusive anyway. Sex can still be intimate even if they're not the only person you've ever been with. What is this lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:06 AM
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Might not be, I haven't read the Quran. Regardless that shit does happen in Middle Eastern predominantly Muslim countries. So go off about evil Western porn that harms your delicate sensibilities, but don't act like the Middle East is somehow ethically superior to the West. You have no moral high ground to stand on homie. And this isn't an "East vs West" thing either. People are fucked up everywhere. Just saying I'll take the porn over that fucked up shit being normalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:09 AM
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I'll take all of that shit you listed over living in a society where we "honor kill" women for the crime of being raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:51 AM
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Idk man that sounds pretty gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:32 AM
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Didn't it kind of always though? Like yeah, it's become more mainstream but TRP always attracted sexually frustrated men who have "seen the light," (like that's literally the whole reason for the name...) and that light tends to be kinda misogynistic. (Women are children and the like...) Has it really changed in any significant way?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 11:14 PM
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Me neither. And I'm saying that doesn't happen with any real frequency lol. (Dick size anyway. Height is a bit more obvious)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:09 AM
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Are you a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:31 PM
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I mean, yeah. To an extent. But it's also not like a dude's dick is actually on display either. Guys can be sensitive about it, sure, but what I'm saying is it is a thing that rarely happens. Especially with how homophobic a lot of dudes are. If you're talking about another guy's dick, that means you're thinking about his dick, which is kinda gay. (I'm bi, so I don't care, but I understand other straight men do.)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:58 PM
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Lol you hear guys mocking dick? Why would a presumably straight dude know about another man's dick? *the only thing I can think of is if a guy is being a douche and radiating little dick energy someone might crack a joke like "Homie's probably got a tiny dick lol." And even that isn't like common... Straight men generally do not care about other men's dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:39 PM
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I mean, I'm not saying men never talk shit about women's appearances at all, and you are right that women are more physically objectified. Just that my experience with women was insane with the amount of cattiness. The dudes I've worked with generally just don't care. Maybe mention if a woman is particularly hot. But women are just brutal lol...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:21 PM
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Idk. I've worked with a lot of men and I've worked with a lot of women. Which group do you think talked more shit about the opposite sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 08:26 PM
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I bet a lot more people who have not had good experience with the opposite sex don't become mass shooters though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 08:14 PM
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I get where you're coming from, and honestly it's not an awful take on first glance. Desire for sex/relationship inspiring a desire for self-improvement. Sounds good. Ish. But a couple things. First, that self-improvement should really be done for the self. Becoming desirable is a side effect. But also that, frankly it's a tad condescending and insensitive coming from a woman. I saw in another comment you're in shape and that's great. But you don't have to be to easily find sex and relationships…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:40 AM
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Yeah, I don't care if you're both drunk, or how good the chemistry is, how long it's been since you had sex, etc., it is absolutely never okay for a girl to rape a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 09:27 AM
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Thank God for good old conservative values I guess. Hallelujah.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:47 PM
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And while, yes, you're probably fucked if you don't fight back. You're definitely fucked if you do. It's not right that women can get away with it, but smartest thing to do as a dude is deescalate and remove yourself from that nightmare situation asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:33 AM
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I love drinking me some meths.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:20 AM
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I'm a feminist in the traditional sense in that women deserve equal rights to men. Idk where that got lost exactly but I fit in with exactly neither side these days lol. I'm either a chauvinist ass or a feminazi bitch depending on who you talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:14 AM
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Nice! Glad to hear it. Even through all the craziness things turned out all right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:54 PM
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Lol that is good at least. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 12:57 PM
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Damn... If I said it was probably good you got out before, change that to a definite. I'm sorry you had to go through that. We all got problems. But that dude's wasn't yours to bear. Some guys absolutely suck. Not all. But some. And he's part of that. Again sorry you even had to go through that. That is fucking rough and you did the right thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 12:54 PM
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I totally believe your account. But how many women do you think he talked to before you? How afraid do you think he was that you would leave him for someone "better" if he didn't pull the shit he did? And for the record, yes I believe it's highly probable he was actually an asshole and you getting out when you did was a good thing. I can easily side with you. Fuck that guy. I'm mostly getting at an understanding point. Understand why he would behave the way he did. Idk your relationship. But shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 11:35 AM
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Man here. It matters very little. I've had some amazing sex with some crazy fucking women. I look at it like I got out easy and I never want to see them again. (And I'm grateful I don't have to...) If a girl wants to tell me I'm the best she's ever had, cool. It's a little bit of an ego boost and feels good to hear. It's also a pretty subjective and emotional thing. As long as we're both enjoying it in the moment and it feels like "making love" as opposed to simple fucking? (Though a more quick …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:00 AM
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True. And lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 11:15 AM
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Lol I think they were confused by your double negative. Sounds like most of us here understand what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 11:11 AM
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But what if the decent guy didn't disappear? And I say this as a dude who had an awful abusive stepdad (who I honestly wish disappeared sooner lol) but a decent stepmom who stuck around, did the best she could, and we get along quite well these days... I can kinda get both sides here. *Also the stepdad was "decent" initially...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 11:08 AM
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Is it? Also just wanted to say your flair is hilarious lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 11:04 AM
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To you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 10:02 AM
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To get Will Smith money? Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 06:37 AM
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Idk money is pretty fuckin dope.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:02 AM
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The funny thing is that a lot of us wouldn't have even known if he hadn't pulled that ridiculous stunt at the Oscar's. Like I didn't know his wife was fucking their son's friend. I didn't know she humiliated him the way she did with that entanglement bullshit, while he sits there trying to act like "Haha yeah lol this is cool, our crazy relationship right?" while his wife is literally saying she needed to fuck some younger guy to improve the relationship, and how much "healing him healed her." A…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:58 AM
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Sure, I'm just saying it's not like an exclusive thing to women. It can be a bummer for dudes too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:16 PM
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Right. I don't have friends who do that, (or again, if they do, it's not something I am at all aware of) nor do I or have I ever done anything like that. And I'm not antagonistic towards women. I haven't noticed a woman covering her drink around me specifically but I'm not against the practice and I actually have watched women's drinks myself. (Generally one of those things you just passively watch out for anyway)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:48 PM
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Yes. That's why I said, "As I am sure you're aware," right before the part you quoted... It should be obvious but if you hadn't noticed there are a lot of oblivious people on here... Idk why you seem to think that was some kind of dunk lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 06:27 PM
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Is it? None of my friends are rapists or stalkers as far as I know. And if any of them are, they certainly don't go around announcing it. "Bro, you know that bitch I've been stalking? Finally raped her!" I guess the thing is, I totally understand that there are men who do these things. It's horrible. And I would never attempt to delegitimize the emotional effects it has on women. But what am I supposed to do when it's not even in my sphere? Should the nonviolent men start roving around in packs …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 06:20 PM
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I honestly don't give a shit about n counts, personally. And I'd say generally it's not really anyone's business but your own. (Some do kiss and tell, and if you're sleeping around a lot in your direct social circle that's probably gonna get out...) You still gotta be careful with protection in regards to STDs or pregnancy, but that affects both genders as well. (Tho women do obviously bear the brunt of a pregnancy and let's assume the man isn't a deadbeat who would run, but that's beside the po…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:04 PM
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The projection is strong with this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:23 AM
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I very much agree. I feel like a major problem, at least on this sub, is it often seems like a gender warfare oppression Olympics thing. Men complaining about their struggles, women responding with their own struggles, and rather than try to actually understand the other sex, people are on this constant "Well actually, our side has it worse... how dare you complain?" cycle over and over again... People immediately get all bitter and shitty and defensive. Because that's super helpful. Kind of a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:17 AM
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Honestly it's pretty gay to even look at your own dick while fucking a woman. Cuck to the max. Real men just chug a beer while saluting the American flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:49 AM
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It's an interesting thing. I won't dispute that some women feel used after sex if her partner was just going for a lay. But I would also introduce that that's not a gender exclusive thing. It's not as commonly talked about, but it's not like dudes can't be into somebody, fuck, and have those warm feelies and genuinely desire something more. And that empty feeling of, oh I guess it was just sex... And I find it interesting because we don't really talk about it. Dudes want to fuck, they break wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:18 AM
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Lol I suppose that is one way to look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:46 AM
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I didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:37 AM
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Man, I remember when I was raped. Not the most awesome day, but what is a guy supposed to do? Call the police? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:10 AM
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That's cool. A friend of mine is into rock climbing and she seems to really enjoy it. And props on the volunteer work. That's near always a good thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:02 PM
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That's wild. I hadn't realized perms made a come back. I don't generally hang out with Zoomers much lol. What's funny is the other day I was thinking about the movie Due Date, where there is a running gag about Zach Galifinakis's character having a ridiculous perm. RDJ's character literally calls him out on it at one point. That was like 2010 though, so if middle parts can become cool, why not perms? Time makes fools of us all I suppose...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:55 PM
1

I don't disagree, but what cool hobbies do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 06:12 AM
5

Lol a perm? Are these time travelers from the 70s?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 06:10 AM
1

Replace men and women with black and white people respectively. It's almost like this shit is kind of ignorant and fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:52 AM
1

Insinuating that I'm childish is also insulting. You should work on yourself as well. And I don't disagree. To your last question, yes, obviously that reflects badly on them. But cheating is not the same as consensual sex within a relationship or between two single parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:33 PM
1

People can't change? (And it's not that I don't understand it. I just think the reasoning is faulty and kinda pathetic,)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:03 PM
6

Fuck. So much this. If I had a reward right now you would get it. Idk if I've seen a more succinct description of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:18 PM
1

Yeah. I noted that farther down. I haven't watched it, but even Henry Cavill was saying how fucked up and dehydrated he was for scenes in The Witcher. Definitely not a "natural" look.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 09:17 PM
1

Yeah, I suppose there would be some wiggle room there depending lol. Anyway, sorry didn't mean to like interrogate you. Was just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:56 PM
1

Okay. Why is 3 the magic number? What if you really liked a girl, got along well with her, and found out she had 4?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:09 PM
1

I mean, that's okay if you feel that way. Mainly just thought that analogy was odd. If being single works better for you, cool. But what does "like that" mean? Any woman who's not a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:04 PM
1

That's a bizarre way to interpret what I said but ok. *"I'm really insecure and the idea that my girl previously had sex with someone who's not me makes me feel inadequate and upset." That's what you sound like homie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:50 PM
2

Oh, absolutely. I do get what you're saying. For me personally, as a dude, there is a pretty significant difference between fucking someone you actually love and care about ("Making love," as they say lol) and a quick lay for the hell of it. But like I said, a person's past isn't something that bothers me. As long as when we're together, if it has that spark and they're feeling it similar to how I do, that's all I need. And yes, intimacy matters. If we're exclusive and we truly connect, then I e…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:28 PM
4

Lol I can't tell if you're being sarcastic, but that is a good mindset! If you focus on improving yourself primarily for you, you're in good shape. You'll gain more confidence, and that's super attractive to anyone, male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:37 AM
1

Good thing I don't plan on getting married then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:29 AM
0

I suppose. I'm not really the marriage type personally though. But if I were to commit to that extent, it would take a hell of a lot of trust. And if we have a good thing going, I'm not going to be worried, regardless of the person's past.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 09:01 AM
5

If you're fine with living on a diet of like 8000 calories of plain grilled chicken a day, working out like a goddamn machine, dehydrating the shit out of yourself, and possibly passing out occasionally, it's attainable. But even still, it's a maybe... Hugh Jackman of course isn't going to mention steroids in puff pieces with magazines, but even then, it's still apparently a pretty goddamn miserable experience. I'm not enough of an expert to claim it's absolutely impossible natty, but for most p…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:57 AM
2

Meanwhile they're like 5'4 and weigh 180 pounds lol...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:05 AM
10

Lol it's still good to stay in shape. Just know you're not gonna look like Wolverine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:02 AM
-1

Assuming both parties are clean STD-wise, why does it even matter? I mean women will still probably lie about it if asked anyway, but I've just always thought it was a silly hang up that stems from straight male insecurities more than anything all that rational. *typo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:11 AM
1

How fucking erudite is it to suggest that men and women respond differently to men than they do to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:28 AM
1

I don't entirely disagree with you. And yes, it does tend to come from men. But if you've ever stepped a foot into the FDS-sphere, they believe as much or more. And also yeah, a lot of dudes support men who are falsely accused, because it is genuinely a terrifying thing for men. It ruins lives. And they are men. Men obviously have a more natural affinity for other men, and women do for other women. It's not like a secret to figure out why. We tend to empathize with those we identify with. And I …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:05 AM
1

That's generally true. It's a tragedy that rape happens at all. My main point however was just that the numbers are somewhat unreliable, given that they're not accurate on account of society conditioning men to not report it. Like I get that it's difficult for women to report themselves, absolutely. Most people are aware of that. But many also just kinda assume men are fine with it because we're all just horndogs anyway, right? I imagine the truth lies somewhere in the middle. But yeah, it's a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:51 AM
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Some do. And yeah, it's totally toxic. It just sounds like you guys are trying to suggest that male rape victims "deserved it" because some other men act like it's an honor to be raped. What's next, are you going to critique their clothing? They totally asked for it, right? And you wonder why male rape victims don't usually report it...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:40 AM
1

As a non-conservative terpy type, (as in not conservative or red pill) why do you think they went that direction?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 10:59 AM
1

Reported sex offenders. I do agree that women and men are both human, absolutely. But come on. How often do you think men raped by women actually tell the police? *much less anyone...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 10:39 AM
1

How can we talk numbers if we don't actually know the numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 10:13 AM
4

Uh, what is your point? Would male on female rape be cool if most women hand-waved it away?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 10:07 AM
2

Yo, you got some links or examples? I consider myself fairly on the left, I do use YouTube, and I haven't seen any of this crazy man-hate. *I'm sure it occurs but I'm not thinking it's super mainstream by any means...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:14 AM
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I kinda get what they're saying. Honestly, on first read, I somewhat assumed you were right wing. The main issue if we're talking about US politics is the age-old adage, "Democrats fall in love, Republicans fall in line," and also that Democrats eat their own. Discourse is good, but not always helpful for the left... (In that it makes it harder to unite under common principles, whereas the right is pretty solidly committed to whatever they perceive as anti-left.) That said, I think your original…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:01 AM
1

Sounds like something a nazi communist would say...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 07:12 AM
2

Looks get you a foot in the door. Obviously it helps if you're good looking. OP is just saying it's not the only or most primary thing. Because it isn't. A good looking guy who has zero game tends to lose out to a bit less physically attractive but charming dude. OP didn't contradict themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 07:06 AM
2

Look at this professional smut over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 10:58 PM
1

Lol true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:14 AM
2

"My two absolute dealbreakers with men are being under 6 foot and and making under 6 figures and I know there are a lot of girls like me."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:11 AM
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I feel like this sub has a sort of negative feedback loop. If a guy and a girl are arguing about something, it doesn't take long for the shit slinging to start. The guy is always an angry incel and the woman is always an evil whore. Both parties know this will happen. So every dude is slaying pussy, regardless of it's true. And every woman is pure of heart and relatively chaste, regardless of if it's true. More shit is slung, people further entrench themselves. And on and on it goes. It's kinda …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:00 AM
1

Lol I'm having a real Poe's Law moment reading this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:00 AM
1

Okay. Which are the pure and ethical companies?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:59 PM
1

Damn. That's interesting. I wasn't aware of that. I guess better late than never in regards to getting their shit together?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:24 PM
1

If we're talking about something like pornhub I'd imagine the site pays for the porn and makes their money through the traffic and ad revenue that results. I'm kinda spitballing though, I don't like work for a free pornsite lol. Also a lot of the "free" pornsites have premium options that people do pay for. I'd guess most don't, but it's a similar thing to "whales" common in most every free service that also offer services you pay for. The ones who do pay pay a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:17 PM
1

Come on. We all know every woman loves getting cum all over her face. (Obvious /s lol...)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:08 PM
2

I'm sorry you got hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:33 PM
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Idk, I read it more as the idea of men being either Nice Guys(tm) or Fuckbois. It's always about sex with men. It's literally all they think about m i rite? We accept this. But it would be sexist as fuck to separate women into Chaste Angels and Dirty Sluts. I mean, it absolutely would be. But the comparison is what matters here. The idea that people in general can kinda suck is apparently an alien idea. Pick a side. Chauvanist or Feminist. And if you disagree with me on anything, you're clearly …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:48 AM
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Lol I didn't even know it got shutdown. Guess that explains it somewhat. *Quarantined apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:38 AM
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Everyone is just so pissy. All the damn time. I originally liked the idea as someone who doesn't fully identify as either pill, but it's mostly just shit slinging and ad hominem attacks. I've been considering just leaving the sub more than a few times, but idk. It's like a train wreck and it's hard to look away lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:17 AM
1

So. You're saying you can only talk to guys like humans if you think they're already with someone else. And it's men who can't imagine a conversation with a woman without sexual intent. But you won't talk to men normally unless you assume they're not trying to fuck you. Which is only taken guys in your view. Am I the only one who sees this as a kind of fucked attitude towards people? Yeah, some dudes most definitely suck, but you don't sound much better...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:30 AM
2

If only we had some kind of protection against these things...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:39 PM
2

All I know is that they may be entitled to compensation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:36 PM
2

I do understand what you're saying, but it's not like you have to be a "girlfriend." Partner, Other Half, Lover? (The last one does sound hilarious though. Like a soap opera.) Hell, in theory, you could still say wife/husband. Maybe not legally true, but true enough. And leading into the other thing I wanted to say, some people just aren't interested in marriage. It doesn't necessarily mean he "doesn't find you worthy enough." I know it's a bit more complicated than that, but just my couple cent…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:28 AM
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To your first point, true. (Sorry on mobile. Copy + pasting is kind of a pain.) Common does not equal good. Secondly, fuck. That is an article lol. I kinda skimmed it just now but I'll have to go back to it and actively read it in its entirety. Thanks for the link. I would disagree that sex shouldn't be a commodity though. If an adult person chooses to engage in sex on camera for money, that's their choice. I am aware that many are somewhat manipulated into doing so, (If you haven't seen Hot Gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:57 AM
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For sure, I am by no means saying porn addiction is not a problem. It is, and should be dealt with appropriately if your porn use is so severe that you literally can't stop. Like I said though, I don't think it is always a negative impact on a relationship. We each have our own opinions on that, and knowing you're religious certainly explains your position more clearly. And again, if you got a dude who shares your values and it works, cool. Just saying that porn use is pretty common among men, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:47 AM
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I don't think that's true. *the porn always being negative thing. (Also good for you, btw) But so do you just mean watching porn while single as a dealbreaker, or only if they continue to do so during the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:06 AM
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Huh. I guess I jumped to conclusions a bit. You're more informed than I thought and sounds like you got a relatively healthy sex life with your girl. But yeah, I agree dudes need to know this stuff. Because a fuckton of guys are completely clueless. (And as for needing or not needing the vibrator, I've never needed to use one to get her off in bed either, but it is something I've heard and read from several women's accounts. So, grain of salt I guess.) I take back the DJ Khaled comment lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:02 AM
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That's fair. I can see where you're coming from. (Though I would say no need to feel inadequate compared to a dildo lol. No dude can compete with that size wize and obviously women know that.)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:23 PM
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Sure. The vast majority of dudes watch porn at least occasionally though. You're kinda limiting your options there rather significantly if that's a deal breaker for you. Unless of course, like I said in another comment, if they develop an addiction or something otherwise that has a negative effect on the relationship. That's definitely an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:18 PM
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I mean, you're not necessarily there all the time. Like if you're out of town and she's alone and horny: vibrator. Anyway, while I get what you're saying it's also worth noting that some women literally can't orgasm from dick alone. (Or mouth for that matter. You kinda got that DJ Khaled vibe though so I'm guessing you don't do that.) It's not like a personal dig against you if a girl needs a toy to help her finish.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:14 PM
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Isn't it though? It's a fake recreation of the actual act of recreation. But the vast majority of men would be able to tell the difference. It isn't the same with this supposed Android toy. Men are dumb, but not that dumb lol. I see it as like a higher version of porn and/or any other sex toy. Does the trick when the genuine article isn't available. I can definitely see it being problematic in the same way porn can be though. When it gets to the point where they prefer the false reality, yeah th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:36 AM
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But an AI isn't a person either. Either way, I think I kinda get what you're aiming at. Close enough to a person to make you feel uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:12 AM
-1

Okay, so you are saying you disagree with vibrators and dildos as well then, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:08 AM
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I mean, but what are your opinions on maturbation and your run of the mill sex toys? Or porn and the like? Are those deal breakers? Are those red flags? Is it still a red flag if most everyone does it? That just kinda sounds like a regular flag. I agree with you in that you can't really replace sex with an actual flesh-and-blood person who also wants to have sex with you. That is special. But where is the line drawn on how people get their rocks off in the absence of that somebody? I find it an …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:58 AM
2

Seriously what the hell lol. This other person sounds like one of the most unhappy trolls. It's possible to disagree with someone arguing in good faith without being so crappy. Damn lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:47 AM
1

Do you care if she's thinking of another guy when she uses it though?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:38 AM
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Lol do you feel the same way about vibrators or any other kind of toy?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:43 AM
1

Lol I feel like that every time I browse this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:50 PM
2

Damn, I'm sorry to hear that. I can relate to so much of that, down to the cheating toxic exes... They haven't all been like that, but it's been enough for me to be super cautious about catching feelings now. Just being a bit guarded, you know? Anyway, hope things go well for you with this other girl. Maybe something happens, maybe not. Being open to new relationships of course isn't a bad thing. Just make sure to take care of yourself man. That's always important.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:38 PM
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Thanks for the response. To be clear, I don't think all women are evil, I never antagonized the girl in question, (lost touch, probably for the better, and never cared to try and reconnect) or women in general. I mean, I was bitter when it happened, but I just kinda stopped talking to her... Not out of hatred or anything, and I hope she was and is happy. And yeah, she's free to fuck and date whoever she wants. Like yes, it sucked to see a girl I cared about with someone else, but what twisted th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:46 AM
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I responded to another of your comments in more detail. It's anecdotal and it happened a while ago, but it did happen. (Granted, this was years ago. Still, certainly was the last of a good several hard slaps in the face about the reality and true nature of how people are.) I won't deny that there are dudes who use the "friendzone" as a sort of excuse or weapon to satisfy their own ego. Sure. But yeah, in an ideal world, men and women are upfront and honest about their feelings, and nobody has to…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:08 AM
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So how about this scenario? A guy and a girl become friends. The girl initiated the friendship. They hang out all the time, text each other all the time, and are even a bit flirty on both sides. After a few months, the guy texts her honestly and upfront asking if this is just a friendship or is it potentially moving towards something more serious, and the guy says that while he felt it was likely obvious to her that he was interested by this point, he wanted to know if it was mutual. He says tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:10 AM
1

Fun fact, you can. Just sayin.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:52 PM
1

Matadors tend to be male. I imagine any women engaged in the sport are probably pretty top class. Survivorship bias likely playing a role.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:04 PM
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Heroin Chic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:56 AM
1

I do too in regards to Adam Driver. I was once told I look somewhat like him and I took it as a compliment haha... I don't care if it was a covert dig, I still think that dude is hot lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:50 AM
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Okay, I know you're all excited you get to use the n-word over there but calm down man. Also I don't think you understand what projection is lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:06 PM
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No worries, I do the ninja edit thing all the time lol. Was just trying to clear up the confusion there. Anyway, yeah, I would tend to agree with you. Sort of similar to cheating in a sense. Not a cool thing to do. I'm hoping you're also consistent in that women shouldn't pull this type of shit either. ("Orbiters" and the like.) More tangentially related and not necessarily about sex specifically, but still. Leading people on in general is a pretty shitty thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:12 AM
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I've literally never heard that. Back to Parler with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:33 AM
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Oh, I initially asked before that edit. I just meant like why's it bad? If I'm understanding you correctly now though, are you referring to like cases of rape? Obviously, I'm against that. But disregarding rape, I just don't see a problem with consenting adults having as much or as little sex as they want. (Cheating is also pretty fucked up though.) You only got one life as far as I know. If you want to sleep around, why not? Just be responsible and protect yourself and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:02 AM
6

This sure is an interesting exercise in sophistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:05 PM
1

Well, at least you're consistent. Though I am curious as to what makes you say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:56 PM
1

I mean, is it bad when men do it? *Also I don't have a horse in this race btw. I really do not care much about N count. Let the people fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:54 PM
1

Haha I believe you. Just kidding around lol. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:15 PM
3

Lol true. That is why I "identify" as Purple as well. I think there is some degree of rationality to Red Pill stuff. I also think they go too far in some positions, such as you mentioned... (And I'm a romantic at heart lol) Men and women are more similar than they are different in my experience. Yes, there are obviously biological differences and learned social behaviors that place somewhat of a wall between us. But if you keep your mind open, I think it's plain to see. We're all just human afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:13 PM
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You totally fucked. /jk lol... =P
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:04 PM
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You're good man. Same. I won't say I've never gotten intimate with girl friends. Sometimes the emotions get complicated, but as we've matured we've been able to see it for what it was. We've had fun, but it doesn't have to be a serious thing. And we can still go back to being friends. Given that sexual or romantic inclinations weren't the impetus of our friendship to begin with. I don't think that's an indication of low libido lol. Sexual thoughts are natural and sometimes stuff happens, but gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:54 PM
1

Disagree. Married women can have male friends. I find it absurd to suggest otherwise. Edit: I don't mind being downvoted, but if you want to actually respond and illuminate why you disagree, I'm all ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:37 PM
0

I will do what I must...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:36 PM
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Eh yo! Bi dude with a trans sibling here as well lol. I also definitely find gender relations fascinating. Just wanted to say great thread man. Interesting topic and I love seeing different people's perspectives. Right on. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:35 PM
2

"A sandwich just tastes better when you know someone else hasn't fucked it."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 09:54 AM
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Fair. Also I wasn't originally trying to imply the vast majority of women have rape fantasies. Just that it's not uncommon. And that a woman who has had the fantasy generally does not actually want to be raped. Similarly, a man who has had the fantasy of a "Hate fuck" doesn't reflect the reality, and is not cause for alarm. *And apologies for my brusqueness in that last response. Was a bit cranky this morning lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:07 PM
2

On mobile and having issues linking but look it up on Google. Like the first hits will tell you as many as 60% have had them before. Come the fuck on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 05:37 PM
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I think it is worth noting that, for the vast majority of men, it is purely fantasy. Kind of like women and rape fantasies. It doesn't mean that you actually would or would even want to do it for real. Yes. Some men are rapists. Those guys are monsters. But the idea of a hate fuck is more passing fancy than anything to freak out about for most people. "I don't like that person, but damn they are hot," is pretty much the gist of it. *typo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:34 AM
0

I'm gonna say yes then. I like most accents anyway haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:33 AM
1

Is it a sexy accent?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:22 AM
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This is blatantly untrue. Yes, a lot of dudes' standards are lower compared to most women. However, men can absolutely find a woman they may not have been interested in initially more attractive by virtue of their personality. There is more nuance here than you're giving credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:11 AM
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That’s an inaccurate comparison though. All things being equal, most men will take the sane reserved hot woman over the crazy abusive one. It is not the same if you flip the genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:37 AM
2

That was an interesting segue into a political/corporate bootlicking thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:32 AM
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Yeah lol. I mean, it does happen, but if as a grown ass man you are like regularly getting into serious physical altercations with people, that is a problem and is not the standard male experience... (obviously not counting if you’re like a bouncer or something, or otherwise can be expected to do so as part of your job)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 08:34 PM
1

Well I can tell you that attitude isn’t exactly charming and certainly won’t win you any friends. And if I know anything about women, it’s that they abhor the whole self pity thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:33 PM
1

Maybe you’re just an asshole, idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:29 PM
0

I’m not saying women are perfect and of course they can be as bad as men, but what you describe doesn’t sound normal at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:15 PM
1

I’m 1/4 Irish, 1/4 Scottish, 1/2 Native American, and 100% Kobe Beef.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:56 PM
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I’m gonna go out on a limb and say that this situation sounds like an extreme outlier... Most women do not do that generally. Like I don’t care how unattractive you are, you may get treated a little worse, (like a reverse halo effect) but the shit you describe is not at all normal... *It is also possible you are being grossly over sensitive and finding slights that aren’t actually there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:52 PM
2

Hm. Sorry. Hope nobody tells you about climate change I guess...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:32 AM
1

Lol now it just feels like you’re fucking with me. You’re not like obligated to browse the sub. If it’s upsetting to you, you can, you know, just not do that...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:21 AM
1

I’m shaming women for slut shaming women. It’s different lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:10 AM
1

Yeah. It’s a debate sub. It’s going to attract people with strong positions on either side.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:09 AM
1

I got that. It was a metaphor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:07 AM
1

I know. And women help perpetuate it even more than men do. Doesn’t make them right though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:07 AM
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Lol I mean, if it’s a teddy bear that isn’t hurting anyone. Who cares? Also probably worth noting that this sub is not really representative of most men. (And women for that matter.) There are still plenty of dudes who want the “traditional family unit.” Just less of them here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:05 AM
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Again, I agree that people should be clear in their intentions. And I see what you’re saying. Sure, sex can be just awesome and passionate and fucking incredible with a person you truly love. But casual sex is cool too. It’s a different thing, but hey, you get your rocks off, and I don’t feel it devalues sex as a whole. You may feel otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:01 AM
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Yes and no. Yes people have a tendency to suck, (and in the literal sense as well, god bless them for it) and yeah people can be disrespectful. I still don’t agree that the act of sex is a bad thing; something to look down upon. Some men and many women may think so. That’s unfortunate. But hey, we only got one life to live. That just seems like such small potatoes to me. If a romantic partner does wrong by you, yeah that sucks, but pick yourself up, there are more. And why even waste your time c…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 12:35 AM
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You are correct. It’s not like women don’t pull that shit too though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 12:14 AM
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I am not surprised. Women are well known for their cattyness in that sense. It’s sexist as shit lol, but you are doing it to yourselves. Damn I’m on mobile so I don’t have the link on hand, but if you’ve seen Mean Girls, Tina Fey has a fantastic speech near the end. The final point being essentially that you slut shame and disrespect each other, so how do you expect men to feel different. You’re setting the discourse. I probably butchered that, but it is a great scene. (Also that movie is fuckin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 12:11 AM
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It depends on the person and the circumstance. But I generally aim to please. But the decision to be or not to be exclusive should be made apparent imo. As long as both parties are on the same page it’s fine. Just don’t say you want to be an exclusive thing and then cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 12:05 AM
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I’m sorry that happened to you. And you’re entitled to those beliefs. But other people are also allowed to challenge them. It’s subjective and rather hateful in your case.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 11:57 PM
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Well yeah, assuming it was established that you’re exclusive, that would be a dick move on his part.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 11:54 PM
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Ok. And just because you were raised to believe that, you’ve never questioned it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 11:52 PM
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I mean, throughout history people have warred, raped, murdered, and pillaged. Those things aren’t cool just because they used to be (and still are to an extent) common place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 11:51 PM
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I never said I didn’t. The burden of proof is on you lol. You’re the one making the claim...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 11:49 PM
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You can respect yourself and still choose to engage in recreational sex. There is nothing wrong with that. Also I love this all or nothing thing you got going. Any woman who has sex out of wedlock is apparently an absolute slut who puts out for literally anyone lol. Nothing sexist or fucked up here...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 11:46 PM
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I mean there are dudes that still do that. Chivalry isn’t entirely dead. And I don’t understand the question. How does a woman’s sexual history have any relevance to the respect they’re owed?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 11:45 PM
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I disagree wholeheartedly. If a person of either gender wants to have sex, that’s their choice and it doesn’t negatively reflect upon them. Obviously should be done with care, some form of protection should be used, etc. Sex in and of itself has zero moral value. It’s just sex. And there is no objective reasoning for slut shaming that I am aware of. Just kind of makes you come across a bitch, frankly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 11:41 PM
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I was able to deduce that. Just funny that you’re like “well not to get religious or anything” and then all but quote Christian doctrine directly. Also the irony of you calling me a douche. Coming from a woman who openly and unabashedly slut shames (like seriously what the fuck lol?), that is rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 11:07 PM
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God you are ignorant. And oblivious. And willfully so. It’s okay to not know something. But you have access to the internet at the bare minimum. And you are presumably an adult person. I shouldn’t have to spoon feed you. Come on lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 10:49 PM
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And I wonder why you deliberately chose 2000 years ago... Probably a coincidence I suppose. Because Hammurabi totally didn’t establish a code of law like 2000 years before that or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:52 PM
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Lol are you seriously trying to say we were more civilized 2000 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:16 PM
2

Oh damn. Do I see a romantic comedy brewing here?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:00 PM
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Maybe I’m just hungry, but part of me is like, “Yeah, I’d probably blow that dude just for that breakfast.” That shit sounds delicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 08:57 PM
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I don’t think you’re being dishonest. I believe that you believe what you are saying. But you gotta see how assuming all men without amazing perfect relationships are bad, women who have sex outside of relationships are bad (aka slut shaming), men who sleep with women outside of relationships are bad (fuckboi shaming? Idk), and that good people match up 100% of the time, are all pretty flawed and problematic beliefs right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 08:49 PM
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Come on. Every dude knows it’s only gay if the balls touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:40 AM
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But what if it was Ryan Reynolds? Guy is 43, but good lord is he handsome. Would you turn him down on account of "creepiness?" *Also not available. Him and Blake Lively seem to have a good thing. But for the sake of argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 06:26 PM
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Lol I don't even want kids, but it wouldn't be an instant disqualifier for me. I mean, it's not ideal, but if I really liked the girl, I'd at least give it a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:39 PM
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I'm just trying to picture a dick as thick as a coke can. That is like a natural wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 09:08 AM
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Literally? Lol were you fucking the Hulk?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 09:03 AM
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It is somewhat frustrating, sure. Be nice to be able to be fully emotional or "real" with a woman without having to lose "frame" as RP'ers would put it. But I also understand there are simple realities of human relations. Like I said I don't cry much honestly. So not a huge deal to me personally. But eh, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 07:39 AM
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No reason to hate women. They can't help what they are, any more than men can. I don't think women are any less well meaning in general than men are. There are just some things instinctual to the sexes. (Primarily speaking.) It's not bad or good. Not worthy of hate. It just is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 07:02 AM
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This entire thread has made this pretty clear. (Obvious, but still) Some are offering circumstances where it's okay, rules, etc. But honestly just don't cry in front of a woman you're in any way romantically involved. Sometimes dudes gotta cry, (I rarely do, mostly movies and music if I'm really drunk lol) that's ok. Just don't do it in front of women. If you really can't hold it in, remove yourself from the situation, get it out, and get on with your day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 03:04 AM
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I mean the first part is kinda true. Most people fuck up at least a little in their late teens to early 20's. Whether or not that's "okay" Is a matter of opinion, which vary widely. Idk what else there is to say on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 12:57 PM
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Your frontal lobe (responsible for decision making processes and perception of consequence) doesn't finish developing until age 25 for most. Yes you can be responsible at 18. I never said you couldn't. You asked a question and I gave a plausible answer dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 11:58 AM
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Well, they are young, assuming 18-ish, so it's not unexpected they'd make bad decisions. As an 18 year old dude I made dumbass choices. So I don't entirely blame them. If you saw Hot Girls Wanted, I think it's clear they glamorize the life they'll have, and in many cases make it hard to back out. So, it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 11:52 AM
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I'm going to guess it's the people making and profiting from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 11:44 AM
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Don't think it won't happen to you. My best friend said "Hey Jon, screw you."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 08:13 PM
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In what way is not having kids selfish? You didn't really explain that. I see having more means for myself in addition to not adding to overpopulation as both beIng positive, non selfish things. It's not like I'm taking a life from a kid who hasn't been conceived yet. My initial point bringing up selfishness was your emphasis on having kids so that they can take care of you when you're older. Forcing life upon someone for your own gain. Sounds like a crappy thing to do. And while it may be stati…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 09:13 PM
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Given the fucked up state of the world, it's not a given that your kid will have a good life and be happy. (Especially with climate change, we've got some troubling times around the corner...) There's nothing selfless about getting pregnant, so acting like your some kind of hero by procreating is laughable. Not to mention, no matter how good your parenting is, there's always a chance your kid will end being a murderer later in life. Or a rapist or a pedophile. All kinds of evil. So bringing anot…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 07:40 PM
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Lol, I feel bad for your kids. But it's cute that you feel the need to play God and wrest consciousness from the ether so that you got someone to take care of you in your old age. (And spoiler alert: there's a good chance they will not. Especially given how selfish you apparently are.)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 12:30 PM
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Unless you consider any sexual reference as "a dick joke," we really don't. I guess most of us got that shit out of our systems when we were kids/teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 07:47 PM
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True. But it was a loaded question so answering at all still plays into their hand. Not that it really matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 07:42 PM
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Schumer has her moments, but she also steals material (There's a bit she stole from Zach Galifianakis on youtube and it's literally word for word. The gall. And her delivery is so awful lol) so I don't really count her. And while I disagree women are inherently unfunny, I'm also really struggling to think of a good female stand up comic. And I watch a lot of stand up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 07:39 PM
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Lol whoooosh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 07:26 PM
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Lol Hatsune Miku. I too love anime vocaloid chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 09:01 PM
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I believe your anecdote, but that dude is an extreme outlier. So many guys would be tripping over each other for a girl like that. One guy with insane standards does not invalidate the rest of the more reasonable types.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 11:13 PM
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When you got dudes like Henry Caville somewhat concerned about pursuing women on account of potentially being accused of something, you know there's an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:37 AM
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My favorite is the Aziz Ansari one where the girl literally blew him twice in the same night after dinner and still later tried to claim he forced himself on her. *I encourage anyone to read the actual article from the woman herself. It reads more like disappointment that Aziz wasn't how she imagined him and then she regretted doing anything with him. (Which never progressed beyond oral) But all it takes is the accusation to fuck up a dude's reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 02:58 AM
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That's either an impressive nose or some smelly ass dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 10:52 PM
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Damn, I watched that doc a while ago and fucking knew that dude was guilty! His whole demeanor just felt way too casual and like dudebro-ish for a guy "wrongfully" convicted of his ex's murder. And given the whole doc is from the family's perspective and the friend trying to help them. (Who from what I'm reading now has lied and misrepresented info apparently) Like I didn't know, but just had that hunch of "Oh he totally fucking did it." Interesting to learn I was right on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:05 PM
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Luck is a purely human construct. I mean, sometimes we're fortunate, sometimes we aren't. If you want to call that luck, sure. But the idea of some mystical force controlling your luck is a bit silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:39 AM
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Lol Jason Statham is like 5'9.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 10:40 PM
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Right. If you wanna talk more mainstream culture, sure. But in regards to the sub, manosphere stuff does come with the territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 11:25 AM
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I mean, I agree with you that it is rather comical, but those two situations also aren't contradictory with the statement of the OP. Yes, woman are fucking a lot more now. (Or at least don't feel as shamed for it.) Good for them. But if we're talking about hypergamy, it's that a majority of women are fucking a lot more with a minority of men. 80/20 rule and all that. So the dudes getting the shit end of the stick are kind of unhappy. I try not to take sides, really. (I am a guy though, so I obvi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 11:16 AM
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Hey I had a pretty good run going in my youth where I was miserable and still managed to fuck. (Often above my self-perceived SMV weightclass.) Happy and confident is one way to go about it. And is probably the healthier way, frankly. But the whole dark triad thing exists for a reason. If you're attractive enough the moodiness can work to your advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:40 AM
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I would probably be more irritated with traffic. I don't believe in destiny though so that's a difficult scenario to picture exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:57 AM
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I got pretty irritated the other day when I was driving and caught like every red light on my way to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:18 PM
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To be real, there's a degree of overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:17 PM
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It's subjective! Fuck those people that I maybe dislike! I don't need to understand what I'm saying, just that they're the enemy and they suck lol XD!!! So Sad!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:32 AM
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God the ending of that show was bad. Diana Rigg was great, but overall the wound still feels fresh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:26 AM
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I think it's difficult to judge either as a collective.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:39 AM
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And many men see women as humans, without daughters. I don't understand it either. But given that women more likely than not go for the men who treat them as less than so, you can see how we got to this arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:31 AM
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I mean, the ones that you fuck, would you really know the difference? Kinda silly to get pissy at dudes who try to play the game you set the rules for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:15 AM
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Lol it was a joke on their part but I wouldn't doubt it. My manager is cheating on her husband (father of her children) with a crazy chauvanist homeless druggy gutter rat who threatened to smash in her and her kids' faces at one point. One example, yeah. But this same manager has preached to me how women really do just want a good man. Her husband seems like a good dude. I have more examples, but I don't feel like elaborating. I'm not RP, but I think the whole "what they do, not what they say," …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 04:09 AM
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Or you do, and then she ends up fucking half the neighborhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 10:46 PM
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If an attractive girl can make you cum with a handjob in under a minute, you may have some premature ejaculation issues. I don't care how hot the girl is, that is insanely fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 04:19 PM
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I mean, it's not impossible. I just find it amusing that you apparently came incredibly quickly for no one to notice, and then had to walk around with a load of cum in your pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:14 PM
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Okay, so you're saying that a girl jerked you off all the way to completion in the middle of a crowded dance floor? And what, you just jizzed in your pants?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 01:14 PM
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Fair enough. You also seem to be a much more frequent poster here than I am, from a quick glance at your history there. Guess that's what happens when I butt into conversations I really had no business in. Just made a gut response. You make a good argument on getting some use out of the whole MBTI thing though. I suppose I learned something at least, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 11:58 AM
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Poe's Law. And this was the second post of yours I saw in this same thread referencing Myers-Briggs. And you used a different one in the other post. First one I figured, yeah, maybe they're joking. By the second, it seemed like you were seriously part of that goofy cult. It was not at all clear that you were joking, if that's the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 10:40 AM
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Jesus, knock it off with the Myers-Briggs shit. You might as well reference their Zodiac sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 10:28 AM
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Alright, alright, alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 09:55 PM
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Well yeah, if she's actively pushing these men away, it's not surprising she hasn't had a boyfriend. Or maybe she just doesn't want one. If ONS's and FWB's are all she wants then let her. The "Cock Carousel," as it were.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 01:50 AM
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It's actually "whether." Anyway I didn't know that. But now you know the proper way to spell it. Glad to have helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 02:44 AM
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weither lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 01:26 AM
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Male BPD here. It's not particularly fun and not something I really try to broadcast to people IRL. And definitely not some badge of honor that makes you interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 07:43 PM
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God, having played in a band for years this resonates with me. Have literally had gigs where we were required to promote and post on FB and Instagram a minimum amount as part of the contract. Utterly absurd. That should be your fucking job!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 03:52 AM
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So like reddit for sea lions?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 05:43 AM
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Most people listen to rap for the rhythm and energy and sounds and the delivery, not the words meanings. I have heard this ad nauseum and honestly think it's bullshit. I'm sure you like the beat. But what if the song was about beating the shit out of a child and then brutally raping and murdering them? Would you still be like "Yeah but the beat is so sick mayne..." Of course not. You accept the misogynistic lyrics because on some level you find them acceptable, or even appealing. But if anyone q…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 07:21 AM
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and a piece of tomato that looks like it came from an abused childhood. That was my favorite part lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 08:40 AM
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and a piece of tomato that looks like it came from an abused childhood. That was my favorite part lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 08:40 AM
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But if you smell bad, dress like a toddler, act superior about your perceived intelligence but have nothing to talk about besides video games, and can’t relax and be fun and flirt, it’s game over. Uh, obviously? Nice Strawman you built there though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 10:24 PM
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Lol I appreciate your candor and honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 10:44 AM
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I mean not really. If you're in like abject poverty, sure. But if you can afford a tv and a phone, you can afford a $300 console. (And that's if you're buying it new.)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 10:19 PM
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Somehow I'm thinking that wouldn't work, but that is a funny strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 10:09 PM
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It would be nice if they wouldn't pretend it exists then. Once when I was much younger and totally sprung on this chick, I was given the "I don't want to date anyone right now but maybe one day we will. :)" answer. Me, being young and stupid, took it at face value. I guess in RP terms I was a "beta orbiter." Of course she started dating some other guy not too much later. All heart broken. But yeah, I know better now, but still, be nice if women would be more upfront about that kind of thing, imo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 09:51 PM
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Have you ever drove over the speed limit? By definition you are criminal scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 12:26 AM
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Call it what you will. I just thought it was funny and kind of ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 10:42 PM
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Doesn't change the fact that you're bragging about "stealing" your current bf. I'm sure all these other girls you're trashing also had a first. (Whatever the rationalization may have been)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 04:37 AM
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I legitimately have no idea what you're trying to say here. The joke was that you bragged about how you "poached" (or saved, whatever) your current bf from his super evil mega bitch gf, and then immediately talked shit on other women who do the same thing. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 02:12 AM
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I have only ever broken up one relationship, as I stole my boyfriend right now from his crazy, abusive, manipulative ex. Yeah, you go gurl! However, most women I know who make a habit of this kind of behavior usually get toddler syndrome. Have you ever seen a child take a toy from another child, not because they want it, but because they don't want the other child to play with it? It's like that, except you're the toy. And when she gets bored she'll chuck you right back in the toy box. Yeah, fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 12:34 AM
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Salt and/or a multivitamin. I tend to go with the second. You can do a "pure" fast with just water. But cramps from lack of sodium can become an issue. I didn't get them when I was younger, but yeah. It's a thing. Idk how many calories exactly are in a multivitamin but it's not significant anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 01:00 AM
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Fucking so much this. As someone who often practices Intermittent Fasting, and who occasionally straight up water fasts for up to three weeks, it's not that goddamn hard. Yeah, you're hungry at first, but that's because you're so used to, both socially and biologically, constantly stuffing your face. You will not fucking starve if you don't eat every 3 goddamn hours. Not eating just requires you not to fucking eat. Keeping a steady workout regiment requires an active commitment to staying in sha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 07:04 PM
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Don’t get pregnant if you can’t afford the possibility of having a kid. See how this sounds fucked up when the shoe is on the other foot? (Unless you're already pro-life, in which case I imagine it's delightful either way)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 09:34 AM
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No and no. But while most any president gets a reality check when they enter office, to act like the Trump situation is standard or equivalent is idiotic. A bunch of fucktards voted an absolute moron into office. But whatever, he hates brown people so his base loves him despite his incompetence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 04:41 AM
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I think the main thing here is that this is anecdotal. That's awesome if you have a boss that is cool about it and/or the laws where you live allow you to make that situation work. But that is obviously not the case for every woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 04:24 AM
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Can Gamma be the Hulk?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 06:27 PM
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Probably worth mentioning that the kind of guy who turns to the RP has probably been "settling" for most of his life. If they're going to all the trouble of learning the philosophy, getting in shape, etc, might as well shoot for the Stacy types who never would have given them the time of day before. Regardless, there will always be those folks who feel the need to solely punch above their weight class. Hot women, hot men, ugly men, ugly women. They come in all kinds.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 08:49 AM
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Coke is fun, but that's an expensive habit. Alcoholism is pretty affordable if you mainly stick to bottom shelf liquor.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 08:31 PM
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I'm an alcoholic and I wish I could someday be as drunk and temporarily happy as you. (Not even throwing shade, I'm just legit jealous)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 03:15 AM
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I think your last point is key. Internet arguments between people entrenched in their beliefs almost never end with one side conceding. However, there is value in it to lurkers and others reading who may be on the fence. I don't post too often, but I do find the debate and discussion on PPD to be generally interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 06:10 PM
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I think it's absolutely possible. Sure, there's generally a correlation, but you can fall for a girl you weren't initially super sprung over physically. I mean, there's probably a minimum level of basic attractiveness necessary there. But it can and does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 11:05 PM
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I don't necessarily disagree with any of that. My main point was that "RP theory isn't based on legitimate observations of human nature," simply isn't true. It's just a philosophy for successfully attracting women developed by men, primarily because the advice women give is often useless, if not actively detrimental. And men buy into it because it works. Not on every woman, but enough of them. *And note that I'm specifically talking about the practical application. Not the whole "women are liter…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 04:53 AM
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To sum it up, RP theory isn't based on legitimate observations of human nature. It's just a desperate attempt to come up with "scientific" explanations for their insecurities. It's not? Then why does it work? I won't argue that there are likely a lot of insecure men who use RP tactics, but that's not really surprising. Insecure men are viewed as less attractive by women. Some men are naturally more "Alpha," and are pretty much RP by nature. The ones who aren't have to learn it in order to be mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 12:38 AM
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toxic vehicularity Lol nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 06:32 PM
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Sure, and in this analogy, you'd also be shaming the Honda Civics that don't understand why the customers keep passing them over for Hummers. (This apparently takes place in a Cars Pixar universe or something, but you get the idea.)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 12:01 AM
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I mean, those are substantially older songs though. I can almost guarantee they would not have the same pop appeal if they were released today.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 03:50 AM
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Lets be real, a hopeless actual incel won't improve as much as people say just from a haircut... Wasn't suggesting that. You consider it, but that's not how sexual attractiveness works. It is based of biological indicators that drive certain responses in the brain. Oh, look. We've got a smartass. I'm aware things like tits and ass ratio have a general biological correlation as far as things we tend to find sexually attractive. Does not change the fact that when it comes to personal dating, perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 07:10 AM
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Sure, there are objective qualities to attractiveness. But I've always considered the whole /10 system to be a personal thing. The same way as with reviews of things like movies, videogames, and music. People like what they like. Also, while models are generally hot, I don't think they're the most attractive people period. (Not a major fan of the whole tall skinny alien look) Even amongst models there are different preferences. What people look for in a runway model vs a Playboy model are very d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 06:21 AM
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As much as the ratings sub gives 8s and 9s like candy, those are for models. It's almost like they're subjective opinions or something. But okay. I guess you're the expert or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 05:00 AM
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A 9 wouldn’t date an ugly-ass old man billionaire. Were you born yesterday? This absolutely happens. I'm sure they're likely banging other guys on the side, but old rich guys with young hot gf's is fairly common.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 04:33 AM
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I guess if you want to put it that way. That's more subjective though. And I don't think most women think that way in concrete terms when it comes to dating. They may know that they shouldn't have that cake because it's more calories than they need, but it's no big deal to treat themselves for whatever the reason may be. Women who date assholes rationalize their behavior and don't literally think "I'm dating a piece of shit, but fuck it. He kind of treats me like crap and that turns me on for so…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 01:39 PM
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It's not the same because most people know that shitty foods and alcohol are bad for you. And it's not hypocritical or unhelpful to define what a healthy diet is even if you don't strictly follow one yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 01:28 PM
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I agree with your central premise. Women often aren't completely honest about the things they actually want when it comes to dating. (Sometimes unknowingly so, but still) The dieting part was kind of nonsensical though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 01:21 PM
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It really is a great film, actually. Lol, in my original post I almost went on this extended dissection of the movie and how it relates to a lot of the concepts discussed here on this forum, but figured that might be a bit much. (And also spoilery to people who maybe hadn't seen it.) I think the character Joseph-Gordon Levitt plays is pretty relatable to how most guys have felt at some point or another, and Zooey Deschanel's role is likely reminiscent of girls we've had or chased after. It is fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 01:46 AM
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After letting him go down on her, blowing him, going to the bathroom, then blowing him again? And the fact that she had the gall to publish it is the fucked up part. Shitty or awkward sexual experiences happen. No need to try and publically destroy a man's reputation over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 12:40 PM
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While I do agree that men can and do enjoy romance in film in the broader sense, 500 Days of Summer was kind of an anomaly that seemingly marketed itself as your standard rom-com fare (with maybe a hint of drama), but then totally subverted the genre in a way that resonated with a lot of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 10:32 AM
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Well, for me, it's not quite a fetish, I'd say. There are plenty of super attractive women of all kinds of heights. I just notice that, for whatever reason, shorter girls would appear to be my "type," physically speaking. But yeah, petite chicks are cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 08:28 AM
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Right? Anyway, that's nice to hear. Honestly, I was probably over-thinking it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 06:17 AM
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Right, no that's what I was saying. I made no mention other than the fact that she was short. The 5 foot co-worker I mentioned in the original post was there, and we both were on the same page. Just noticing how tiny this chick was lol. But yeah, I would have no reason to bring her up unless she came into the store again or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 05:42 AM
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I mean, why not? People think things. Again, the consensus seems to be that most don't really care either way, but I still felt it was a valid question.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 03:44 AM
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Well that's fucked and I can definitely see how that might taint one's perspective... I actually like smaller breasts, but flat vs small is a significant difference. It comes down to proportions, I think. As long as she's got a woman's body, albeit maybe a comparatively smaller woman, and is of age, I can dig it. At the end of the day, if you're in a happy and healthy relationship, it shouldn't really matter what other people think, but eh, I was still curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 03:40 AM
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Idk. Figured it didn't hurt to ask. And I am getting a lot of "Don't care" responses in this thread, so I guess you've got a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 03:26 AM
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I have met a few guys who are kinda gross about it, comparing grown women to children, talking about how they could easily overpower her in a predatory way, etc. Right, and that's definitely creepy as fuck. For me, I can say that, as a man who is not particularly large or buff, shorter women can be more fun in the bedroom. I definitely feel more masculine by comparison, and it's nice when the girl is easy to lift lol. But yeah, I certainly do not see them as children, and the only sexual dominat…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 03:23 AM
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Lol sweet. I genuinely appreciate that "anonymous redditor." Glad I clarified.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 04:26 AM
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I said mostly for a reason, bud. If I said bi with a strong preference for women would that make you feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 03:12 AM
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Well if he was like serious incel before, I don't think the magical island would make a difference anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 05:11 AM
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Idk. To my knowledge, women are more likely to have bisexual tendencies than men. And if your only options for sex are a dude you find unattractive and a woman you find absolutely gorgeous... I think it's a semi-interesting thought experiment. I mean, shit. I'm a mostly straight dude, but if the situation was flipped and it was me, Ryan Reynolds, and some hideous wildebeest woman... Idk. I'd probably end up fucking Ryan Reynolds at some point. (Assuming he was down, anyway) Just being real.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 05:07 AM
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When I get to know the person inside, they become more beautiful, if that makes sense. It does, and it's not exclusively a female thing. Physical appearance does matter, absolutely. But I do find women who strike me as intelligent, charming, or otherwise more appealing on the personality front more attractive in general. And particularly when it comes to LTR's, I'd much prefer a solid 8 that I got along very well with over a 10 whose personality is complete shit. Physical appearance, while impor…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 11:19 AM
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Right? She's still damn stunning.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 11:04 AM
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Then I guess you succeeded? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 10:44 AM
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That's why you can't expect to ever even know such a thing ; you're a Reddit poster so I'm sure you barely have the attention span to read my comment and try to understand it I mean, I agree with your post for the most part, but isn't this kind of a silly thing to say? You're trashing on reddit posters... on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 08:08 AM
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I get what you're saying, and I'm not disagreeing by any means. Just saying it's not as cut-and-dry as I think a lot of incels see it. There are limits lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 09:25 AM
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I think it's somewhat of a sliding scale here. You have to be pretty damn hot to get away with being extremely awkward as a guy. And I'm fairly certain there's a point where no amount of attractiveness will save you. Chicks would still recognize the guy being hot, but too weird. I recall seeing a video on here of this one dude, pretty classically attractive face, and he was in pretty good physical shape. But as soon as he opens his mouth and starts complaining about how women don't like him, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 08:43 AM
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I agree. I think the general sentiment is often said by guys on the more cynical side, and/or ones who have been hurt. So there is definitely some unnecessary venom that leads to this kind of statement. "Women can't love the way men do," is a gross oversimplification. Not entirely untrue, but there's a bit more nuance to it than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 02:00 PM
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I would say yes and no. Men generally don't have as many options as women do, and thus are more susceptible to the whole "One-itis" thing. And speaking of, I don't think that's solely motivated by fear. More naturally Blue-leaning men can and do genuinely love their SO. Women who aren't in that situation are more likely to see men as replaceable. It's not that they "can't love" per se, they just have more options to love, and move on easier because they know there's tons more dudes for them out …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 08:14 AM
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This is curious. I didn't know that this was a thing. I realize that a toy can do things I literally cannot do. Plus, it's a toy. A sex toy, but it's still a toy. The idea of feeling inadequate next to a toy seems silly to me. However, I do feel like if we put the shoe on the other foot here, I don't know if I would feel too comfortable with my SO getting fucked by a Brad Pitt-bot. Assuming it is realistic. (Think Westworld, if you've seen it.) On the one hand, sure you can look at it as the nex…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 01:21 PM
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Yeah. These are the same women who find it hilarious that a man got his dick cut off by an angry girlfriend. Yet somehow slicing off a woman's breast would be absolutely met with outrage by these same people. And rape, for that matter, given the topic of the thread. This is actually a Bill Burr bit, but the point is that they're both horrific crimes. But for whatever reason, a lot of people (read: women) just don't take it seriously when it's woman-on-man violence. It's comical to them... The do…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 08:03 AM
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Her vagina also isn't a commodity that she loses in the exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 11:23 AM
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Well, to state the obvious here, because other people may not get laid as easily as you too. Extreme example: But compare the typical Neckbeard stereotype. Overweight, unfashionable, dorky, and generally unattractive in how he presents himself. Even if he is genuinely a nice dude, that guy is not likely to have much success with women. That same guy goes Full RP? (Physically and mentally) Of course he's going to have more success with women. Whether or not you like the existence of TRP, it's not…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 11:19 AM
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The average woman is just as lonely as the guy. Having an unending list of guys trying to fuck you is not the same thing. You really don't see how this is a bit of a false equivalency? Not to invalidate your experience, but you're complaining that too many men want to fuck you. Whereas there are dudes that struggle just to date. (And attractive ones, too!) The idea of women just desperate to fuck you is a male wet-dream. (For the most part, anyway) If you're lonely, it's self-imposed. I know you…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:36 AM
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Too true lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 04:11 AM
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Well my original response was prompted by your "the system isn't designed to protect the accused" comment. That's just blatantly false. Then you responded saying you meant "emotionally," so, ok, sure. And then I just clarified that men are wrongfully accused and it is harmful, which you agreed to. Then you accused me of having no empathy for actual rape victims, which again, is absolutely not the case. And now I think we're on the same page pretty much? (Or should be, anyway...) (Also, I'm not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 12:27 AM
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Well yeah, I didn't think anyone was suggesting that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 12:03 AM
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I think this idea of "protecting someone's emotions" in a courtroom is unnecessary to begin with. The law is the law. Bringing emotions into it goes against the idea of due process. That's why jurors are supposed to make judgements based on evidence and not their feelings. Obviously, you're not allowed to badger or verbally harass a victim/witness, but you shouldn't have to tiptoe around shit for fear of offending them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 05:10 PM
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Yeah, the accused wasn't supposedly raped. Do you have no empathy for victims of rape? Of course, I do. Do you have no empathy for men wrongly accused of a heinous crime? Come on. Women should not be allowed to just accuse men of rape and get away with it. That's a problem that need to be addressed. Not going to get into how to solve the problem , just stating it's a problem that we should not ignore. I agree. I think people are stupid for assuming anything. Stupid or not, it is a social consequ…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 04:35 PM
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Okay. That wasn't entirely clear in your post, but alright. Though I do find the double-standard there rather odd. (The "victim" deserves protection from "emotional fallout," but the accused doesn't?) Point is that, subsequent libel suit or not, it still does significant damage to a man's reputation just being accused. Whereas women can generally accuse any number of men scot-free. Though, I imagine if they made a habit of it, people might catch on and start to see through it. Then again, maybe …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 03:15 PM
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but the system isn't designed to protect the accused lol, um what? Innocent until proven guilty? The system is supposed to protect the accused. Unless you can prove it beyond a reasonable doubt, the accused isn't to be judged guilty. Unfortunately, simply being accused is enough to cause serious social repercussions for the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 08:07 AM
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But can he see why The Undertaker threw Mankind off Hell in a Cell in 1998?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 06:59 AM
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I imagine because many men would take being told they probably have low testosterone as an insult, when it's actually a legitimate medical condition that can be treated. Thus, "no offense but..." It's not a bad thing to look into.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 06:18 PM
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But at work? A gamer is more likely to play video games at work than someone who doesn't game? No? Never said that. Why do people have casual sex? Why do people have extramarital sex? Because they're sexually attracted to the other person for one. What was the point you were making? Because this: You can fuck a new guy every weekend while single, but then be completely loyal in a relationship. And one can be absolutely chaste outside of a relationship, yet a complete tramp while in one. They're …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 08:49 AM
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Casual sex is associated with general promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 08:33 AM
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You are pretending that context does not influence and shape behaviour. Not at all. I never claimed that the likelihood is the same just that it's more likely. And yes, I would agree with both of those example scenarios. A gamer is more likely to play videogames than a non-gamer, regardless of employment status. Someone who uses drugs is more likely to do so than someone who does not, regardless of military status. Would their behavior change? Most likely, but that wasn't the point I was making.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 08:29 AM
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Can you show me some evidence for your position that women who have casual sex have a lower threshold for having sex that is not anecdotal? Nope. Just basic logic that someone who is more likely to have sex while single is more likely to have sex while not single. On the basis that they are more likely to have sex. I'm not blowing up, lol. The fact that you think I'm angry is hilarious. But absolutely you were specifically talking about me -- go back and read your first post. Okay, looking back,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 08:15 AM
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Affairs are not casual flings. People who are cheating and people who have casual flings have entirely different mindsets. One is about pleasure, the other is about dissatisfaction on some level. Cool. I never claimed any of that. This is not true. I have sex outside of relationships. This does not mean that I necessarily have a lower ''threshold'' on the circumstances in which I would have sex. There are girls who will get into relationships with anyone who asks them to be in one -- this is not…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 08:05 AM
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Wtf. Are you actually suggesting that people who have casual sex, on average, are having more sex than people in relationships? You misunderstand. I should have clarified that I meant moreso in terms of partners, and general likelihood to have sex in any given circumstance. Not specifically the number of times someone has sex. Answer the question. I am more likely to ''engage in sex''. Okay, sure. Why am I not just engaging in sex with my partner? Why am I going out and cheating? I don't know ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 07:53 AM
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I am not. I think it is very illogical, that's all. If you say so. This is not true. I had more sex when I was in a relationship than I did before I started having casual sex. I was just as likely to engage in sex at both times. Your anecdotal experience does not disprove anything. Why does it follow that this sex, which you are more likely to have, will not be with your partner? Because sex is sex. Someone who engages in casual sex is generally more likely to engage in sex, whether or not they'…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 07:40 AM
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I think you're taking this personally. Why? Okay, let's make it simpler: Someone who engages in casual sex is more likely to engage in sex period than someone who does not. Assuming the former has casual sex and intimate sex, such as in a relationship. If you are one to engage in casual sex, you're more likely to have sex in general. So it follows that you are more likely to have sex while in a relationship as well. Also, not referring to "emotional affairs" particularly when I say cheating. Str…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 07:30 AM
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Because someone who engages in casual sex outside of a relationship is more likely to engage in it while in one. Best indicator of future behavior is past behavior. I'm not sure what part of this is confusing. And again, not saying that casual sex = cheater. Just that they're more likely to than someone who doesn't have casual sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 07:20 AM
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Not saying that it's an absolute (fact that you will cheat if you frequently engage in casual sex), just that it's more likely (that you will be unfaithful in a relationship). Clearer?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 07:02 AM
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The fact that I enjoy casual sex does not mean that I am prone to cheating. No, but I would say that enjoying the former makes you more likely to commit the latter, to play Devil's Advocate here. Not saying that it's an absolute, just that it's more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 06:28 AM
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You disagree with me, so you're overanalyzing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 06:45 AM
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Same boat here. Low self-esteem is killer. Especially when combined with Depression and Anxiety. I'm somewhat attractive, dress well, and can be rather charming in the right circumstances. But there's always that fear with a girl that she'll see right through me and realize I'm nothing. A slew of bad relationships followed by a slew of failed "courtships," if you will, doesn't help either...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 03:50 PM
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I know I said that was the last I'll say, but because I like closure and ending on a positive note: I think it's possible but rare. That's where our disagreement is. Possible but rare. Sure. I can agree with you there. I think people should be able to screen for sluttiness/craziness/whatever the fuck they want to. If people's values and lifestyles are incompatible, they're incompatible. Also agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 08:38 PM
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My brother is autistic, and I can confirm. His mannerisms are almost exactly the same. Also: Good lord is that video cringe-y. I almost want to save it as reference for every dumbass redditor that thinks that being attractive is all it takes to get dates. I'm a straight guy, but I would say that dude is pretty hot by all conventional standards. It's just not worth much if you don't have the social skills when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 03:48 PM
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That's probably true for some, but I think a craving for affection is a fairly normal human drive. When deprived of it, I don't think it's unusual for a person to feel lonely. And receiving literally zero romantic intimacy with another your entire life has got to do a number on your psyche.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 02:56 PM
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These people are not clinically crazy, tho. So idk why you referred to people who are clinically crazy being ''more impulsive'' if you were just talking about garden-variety crazy. Here's a quote from you that indicates you weren't using it in a non-clinical sense: If we're going clinical, women with mental illness generally tend to be more impulsive, which can lead to promiscuity. I don't get what's complicated about that. The women men refer to as crazy are just emotional people, tbh. They're …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 08:53 AM
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This is getting absurd. Okay. I literally just said the same thing again and explained how you might have misinterpreted me b/c you scanned too quickly. No, you literally didn't. I understood it the second time. Not the third time where you went into more detail than was necessary. People who regular have panic attacks or agoraphobics are usually referred to as ''crazy'' as well. So are people who've attempted suicide or who cut themselves. Low-key depressives might be able to get away with it, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 08:36 AM
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"I orgasm like a man'' doesn't = ''I like orgasms''. I'm not sure how you got there, tbh. Did you misread? Because what I wrote is p. obvious, but I can see the misunderstanding if you inserted an extra ''like'' and turned my statement into ''I like orgasms like a man''. Or "I like sex and orgasms like a man'' -- the plural really changes the meaning of the sentence, there. I was using orgasm as a verb. No, I got it now. The first time was unclear. It is in plainer sight, however, than n-count. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 08:18 AM
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I'm not talking about ''liking'' orgasms, obviously. Well it clearly wasn't obvious, or else you wouldn't have had to clarify. I think you missed the point of this thread. I'm not denying that the correlation is there/for the purposes of this thread that's irrelevant. I'm asking about why anyone would bother to use a hidden piece of information to work out a piece of information that's generally in plain sight. Crazy is harder to hide than n-count. That's it. For the correct use of obviously: Ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 07:31 AM
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Yes. Every slut was a virgin once. Obviously. The point I'm making is that you identify yourself as being "crazy," which can really mean a large number of things anyway, and you happen to have a high n-count. Correlation may not necessarily equal causation, but the correlation is there. The fact that you were a virgin at one point is entirely moot. And yes, we all like sex and orgasms. That's not a feature unique to you, or men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 05:08 PM
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But it's 30+ now... Are you seeing the irony here? There is a correlation between "crazy" and high n-count. You may not have had it at the time, but you're clearly pre-disposed to it. It's not a bad thing or a good thing. It just is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 04:31 PM
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Thank you! I only wish and hope that more women feel this way. Niceness shouldn't be a negative quality, and I really dislike this idea I see everywhere from women that "Nice guys" are always of the pathetic type. I just genuinely enjoy being nice to people lol. I think that's how everyone should be. I especially like being nice (or funny, or charming, etc...) to a girl I'm interested in, but I in no way think that means she owes me anything. Any guy can, and should, be nice. It just takes more …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 12:57 PM
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Not to mention, my life would a bit more complicated if I just stopped talking to roughly 50% of the people I deal with in my life. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 12:49 PM
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lol well that's just ridiculous. It is rather comical if he literally mentioned his being nice as like a qualifying factor, as if he's like trying to guilt you... I had heard there are actually guys that think like this, (i.e. being nice earns them a relationship, as opposed to just being nice because it's right; the relationship being secondary.) but to hear of one actually verbalizing it like this is astounding lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 12:48 PM
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They need to go back to their homes on Whore Island.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 04:45 AM
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You're reading what you want or expect to hear and not what I'm actually writing. First off, I already said that looks are not the only or even main thing I'm interested in when it comes to a woman I would want to have a relationship with. And yes, I am aware that confident doesn't have to be "loud." In fact, I originally put "Confident" in quotes to get that point across. Doesn't have to be, but can be. And Confident can mean strong-willed can mean stubborn, which is not something most guys wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 08:21 AM
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I disagree. I understand that you might feel that way, but it's not the reality of the situation. I personally don't expect a woman to lower her standards for me, and I think a guy who does is kind of ridiculous, or at least misled. The things we want are different. Sex being one of them. Unless you're like a total player, most guys are down to have sex with a woman who's at least moderately attractive. Woman are more choosy, simply because they can be. They're the commodity. (To reduce it to si…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 03:20 AM
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They can. But if that same guy instead had severe anxiety, for example, most women wouldn't even consider him. Basically, personality matters a lot more to women than it does to men. A guy can become interested in a girl solely due to her looks, and that may lead to a relationship, even if her actual personality ends up being less than stellar. Women are extremely good at sniffing out insecurities, and if they detect it on a guy, he's out of the running immediately, handsome or not. (Unless it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 03:07 AM
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You initial comment implied that attractive men have the same options an attractive woman has. That is simply not the case. Sure, attractiveness helps for both genders, but attractive men do not draw in women effortlessly the same way an attractive woman does. That was all I was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 03:01 AM
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Not really. All I'm saying is that you can be a pretty atrocious person in every sense of the word and there are more than a few dudes who would tolerate it if A) you are hot and B) putting out. If that is really so unbelievable to you, you seem to have a very fundamental misunderstanding of men...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 08:31 AM
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An attractive woman can have an absolutely shit personality, but if she's hot, there are a ton of guys willing to put up with it. The opposite is not true for a man. A woman can get remarkably far just on her looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 06:55 AM
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Yeah, because that's historically proven to be an effective tactic. And approach anxiety is nerve-wracking as it is for just casual stuff; walking up to a chick and just being like "Hey, you wanna fuck?" You'd have to be an idiot to think any self-respecting woman would say yes to that. And the man then looks like a creep when she declines him. It's fairly obvious why guys don't approach so bluntly...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 06:08 AM
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Lol, since we're on the topic, what the hell is a fuckboy? Can I be one? That sounds like a cool gig.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 06:01 AM
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Sorry, but I gotta call BS on this one. The idea that a man's attractiveness carries the same weight that it does on a woman is just ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 05:58 AM
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It's not exactly the same though. Most women tend to have the luxury of choice in a way most men don't. But yeah, you do learn. A lack of confidence is a deal-breaker for a good majority of women, and there isn't really much you can do if you don't have it, other than try to build it. Which as I already said can be quite difficult. I don't hate all women for it. I just have a better understanding of what they tend to value in a guy than I did 10 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 05:52 AM
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I can personally attest that it's not all guys. I would be lying if I said there isn't a selfish element to wanting to be with someone. I think that much is obvious. (For either gender) But the most hurtful "losses" I've suffered were when I did truly care for the girl. Ideally, you want to be in a relationship where you both care about/love each other relatively equally. Unfortunately, that situation is rather rare. It's easy to become jaded about the whole thing and just stop caring. Why put y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 04:54 AM
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Sure, and I did make the point to put "asshole" in quotes. And to mention they don't necessarily have to be a jerk. And yeah, I do think the pedestal is an issue for a lot of guys. It just sucks being the guy scorned, whether the other guy is an asshole or not. And it cuts a bit deeper when they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 04:34 AM
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Well, if everyone followed it, it wouldn't be an issue. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 04:19 AM
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While I do think he exaggerates and is going pretty heavy on the hyperbole, along with some crude language... There is some validity there. Girls consistently go for the confident jocky type over the genuinely sweet (not in that fawning sense) guy who is a bit more humble 9 times out 10, assuming looks are similar. Hell, the second guy could be the more physically attractive one and confidence still wins out most always. The guy doesn't have to be a total asshole, no, but he can be, and he'll st…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 04:13 AM
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Hey, I fucking love my Honda. She's my old Black Beauty. "Queen Latifa", I like to call her. Plus, a Lambo would totally get stolen or otherwise vandalized in my neighborhood. Either way, I prefer my Honda to having no car at all. We are talking about cars, right?
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