Cidaghast Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Should you avoid calling attractive women cute? I think it’s more men are aware that you’re not really gonna get anywhere by saying “hi, how was your day” and you may not get much farther with “oh is that your dog” So we have to like ramp it up to the most quirky thing possible to get attention. It’s like those birds with a really big loud obnoxious feathers.	/r/seduction	20/09/25 04:37 AM
14	How do yall keep the convo going when the vibe is fun but you still run out of things to say? I want other people to chime in and give me some better solutions but the best I can think of is “ha well I have to get going but it was really nice chatting. We should do this again” and I ask for their contact info	/r/seduction	06/07/25 10:35 PM
12	First date ideas other than drinks? I’d hope she was blasting, she’s at a gun range	/r/seduction	26/06/25 12:53 AM
29	First date ideas other than drinks? Gun range in the first date is kinda wild BUT yeah if she’s down….	/r/seduction	25/06/25 10:22 PM
1	How do I change my beliefs? So I don’t like it when people just look me in the eye and say go to therapy because there’s a good chance that if you’re already that big on self improvement, you’re already in therapy. But I will say very specifically the thing you were talking about is EMDR that tries to take negative beliefs that you already think about yourself and reduce the impact of them and hopefully replace them with a positive belief.	/r/seduction	22/06/25 11:18 PM
1	Be flaky to avoid flakes? Counterpoint if you have a date on Friday and the date on Saturday and go to both of them and neither of them like then you’ve gone on two dates instead of one	/r/seduction	06/06/25 01:10 AM
0	Is there any point in approaching women until I've lost weight? I’m gonna keep it up with you. It doesn’t really matter. I mean statistically it helps, but it’s not like you’re holding off on talking to the women and you’re telling them stay right there. I’ll be right back when I’m skinny. Some of them might be in a fat guys and you being fat should not mean that you can’t be loved right now, so go ahead and shoot your shot and keep doing that when you lose that weight.	/r/seduction	01/06/25 06:01 AM
2	Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house? So I would imagine it’s at least on the menu. Like sex isn’t ever a promise but in my brain I’m imagining it’s a good day to bring a condom and take a good shower before this date. So if it’s not on the table, I think it’s totally cool and frankly a mark of a lot of respect to just be like “hey I don’t wanna give you the wrong idea. I’ll be direct with you. I am not ready for sex yet, but I still really like if you came over.” Assuming this person likes you for more than just wanting to bang I t…	/r/seduction	28/04/25 02:09 AM