CinSity0 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Cincinnati area Seddit, join-up this summer		CinSity0	/r/seduction	01/06/12 03:48 PM
9	Stephen Colbert - pick up like a pro		CinSity0	/r/seduction	02/05/12 04:21 PM

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2	Q. What do you talk about in a loud night club? The kiss - well, there is only one stage to "go for a kiss" on the dance-floor, and that is if you struck out getting a natural kiss/make-out during your interaction and she is now leaving. This is not good, but can be salvageable. Ideally, the kiss will happen naturally if you are vibing or dancing. A couple tips take you closer - good kino, good eye locking, teasing with your face/lips - i.e. lock her eyes and pull her in close, then push her away and continue dancing/spin her (push/pull). If …	/r/seduction	06/12/13 08:07 PM
1	Recovering from coming on too strong? Text game for anything they rebuke. sometimes I do X, and it likely won't be the last	/r/seduction	26/11/13 02:20 AM
5	Q. What do you talk about in a loud night club? My wing and I call it "Yell Game" and you can really do some damage in loud venues if you are good at it. Obviously like anything else it takes practice - but here are some tips: 1. Overly assume attraction (by intensely scanning the dance floor or loud area) - any direct smile or eye contact and go 2. Bee-line for target and go hand on shoulder or waist while leaning into her ear with a basic line. i.e. - whats your name? Note: If a girl has her hair down over her ears its great. It kind of act…	/r/seduction	25/11/13 09:55 PM
2	[First FR] Met a HB9 at the beach, First ever K-Close/F-Close that night. Long. Coming from some experience - let me just say, once you think you've reached the top (and trust me, you haven't, I don't think anyone can) - you just start to go "sideways". Think of the phrase - an inch long but a mile deep. Once you go sideways at your plateau for awhile, you breakthrough and go higher again.	/r/seduction	16/07/13 11:03 PM
1	Naturals or "Pros" at pick-up, how often should I suspect to be "successful" when going out? Agree. Think of it this way. I'm out with a cool group of friends and were having fun. Does this girl I see at the bar spark my interest (i.e. hot, dressed sexy, etc)? Yes, then go approach as if "I'm having a great time and you look cool, lets have a great time together". Girls want to have a good time and in general, be taken on adventures that "just happen". They don't want to be "picked up" and they can sense when that is your motive.	/r/seduction	11/01/13 07:11 PM
1	Naturals or "Pros" at pick-up, how often should I suspect to be "successful" when going out? Typically the harder you try to close, the more you fail., and the more you harp on that failure until it becomes a vicious cycle. If you can truely put yourself into "i'm just having fun with my friends" mode when you go out, girls will flow to you.	/r/seduction	10/01/13 09:49 PM
0	I am Mark Manson: Former PUA Coach, Self Development blogger, Entrepreneur, AMA Mark, your blog is life changing. My friends and I thank you for that. My question is on the evolution of your sex life after sleeping with lots of girls. I realize that personally, and it sounds like for you too, a lot of the best sex is driven through emotion and deep connections with the girl, thats one thing. But there are some man-o-shpere bloggers that claim their sex-game is off the charts and are blowing the minds of girls the first time they bring them home. In your opinion, is this som…	/r/seduction	07/11/12 05:23 AM
1	You're Asian, I'm White shit test? Check out, the power in vulnerability. High level thinking. http://postmasculine.com/power-in-vulnerability	/r/seduction	06/10/12 01:06 AM
11	In about 3 and a half hours i'm rolling out to some bars by myself any advice? First things first. Make sure you actually go out. Pick a time and leave, no excuses. Or call a cab for further motivation - you already spent money, now you must stay out.	/r/seduction	06/10/12 01:01 AM
10	How do I stop being envious of better looking people? [Inner Game Help] http://postmasculine.com/the-ipanema-boardwalk Check that out for some high level thinking.	/r/seduction	04/10/12 11:49 PM
3	[QuickTip]When initiating kino avoid staring at the point of contact. Play it subtle by being focused elsewhere and let the physical interaction come of as something natural or unforced. Another good move, on 2-3-4 sets, is to Kino the girl you aren't directly talking at when you open. I.e. You come into a semi circle 3 set - left hand goes on left girls shoulder/hip while engaging middle or right girl. Left girl is essentially distracted by your words and assertiveness. Then when you ping back to left girl, shes comfortable. - Then the opposite, when move convo to left girl, kino other 2. Whole set is now open to more touching.	/r/seduction	04/10/12 11:32 PM
2	[FR] Age reveal blowing out sets... Whenever girls are older than you, they feel like that have the upper hand. Its a power move for them. Just flip it back on them, and tease that they're to old for you (while obviously staying interested/kino etc). Just don't insult their age. Usually not recoverable. Couple of gems: "To young? I'm not sure if you could keep up with me!?" (Challenge/they will qualify) "It's not about age, its about experience, and I'm a lot more experienced than you" - cause them to probe. Answers with redic/off…	/r/seduction	07/09/12 06:35 PM
1	Girls are so silly (and predictable) Emoticons, lol's, etc are not "beta". End of story. Feeling uncomfortable using them is.	/r/seduction	05/09/12 03:41 AM
2	Gents, women ARE NOT the root of all happiness. They ARE merely a perk that comes from leading a fulfilling, interesting life. Yes to everything about this post. "Women can sense when a man has an abundance mentality, happiness, confidence and passion" Thats the end game. Build this by building yourself. Women will follow.	/r/seduction	28/07/12 07:44 PM
1	What are some of the best readings out there on how to be a better person? "The Magic of Thinking Big". Life changing.	/r/seduction	09/07/12 07:40 PM
1	Seddit, we need to talk about FRs the fact that this has 21 downvotes/94 up currently, should show us what we're dealing with. /sigh	/r/seduction	05/07/12 11:58 PM
1	[FR] I got a blowjob. classic	/r/seduction	25/06/12 09:00 PM
3	Is there a guide anywhere on going out sober? It does get easier over-time. Truth. 6 months ago, I couldn't fathom going out and hitting on girls without being drunk. That's how it worked since I was 21, until my 25th B-day in January of 2012. Then I learned about seddit, getting in state, winning at life, etc...and now I cant imagine being drunk and trying to talk to girls. It just wouldn't work in my new reality. I still drink when I go out, but 2-3 over the entire night max. Don't think you have to go cold turkey.	/r/seduction	18/06/12 06:02 PM
1	[FR] Girl Sunning in Park, Lying on Her Stomach bringing sex into the convo asap is key, and should be practiced IMO	/r/seduction	11/06/12 08:21 PM
1	Cincinnati area Seddit, join-up this summer 25. In general, I think finding a "balance" is all mental. You can have success at any bar here (I know...) as long as you believe you can. Getting out of your head about the "scene" just takes practice and positive reinforcement. So yah, lots of times, for no reason, I feel out of place in OTR because I don't have tattoos or listen lots of indie rock. My dance skills are crap, but I still hit the dance floor at multiple bars Mt. Adams really fuckin hard. Just have to stay positive. Girls are ju…	/r/seduction	01/06/12 06:17 PM
1	Bars or clubs: Which are better for gaining confidence and learning? Both are great. You just have to have the right mindset below... Girls go out to bars clubs to interact with and talk to guys. 90%+ of guys out at bars/cubs either don't talk to ANY girls or if they do, only talk AT girls. (look around and track some guys throughout the night if you need that for a confidence boost) Typically any genuine situational convo starter (delivered with good energy) or "Hi" gets girls to light up and smile. Take it from there. Build momentum for your next sets.	/r/seduction	01/06/12 03:29 PM
3	Grocery store [FR], with # close! Sounds really good man. Awkward ends to convos or situations are never bad, especially if your can make fun of them later. Also a good learning/reference experience for future closes.	/r/seduction	24/04/12 07:58 PM
1	State. YES. to everything about your post. I've recently just entered into a "higher state" as I would deem it. Women can feel me enter the room and turn around almost like clockwork. Top ways to enter: • Workout before you go out. • Pre-going out playlist, not to long. 10-15 songs • Read my top 10 list multiple times, or start creating your own. top10 • Have 1 or 2 drinks (I find once im in state I no longer need to drink) • Open one set for momentum (This is from RSD and its H	/r/seduction	10/04/12 04:05 PM
1	F-close, thanks to two old trusty techniques Your first few sentences should be a sticky; for the mere fact of how true they are and how eloquently they are written. A perfect summation of how reading and practice should intertwine when you are in state.	/r/seduction	10/04/12 03:49 PM
5	Dance with her. Asking to dance is by far the best and easiest opener. See below for a variation from last weekend (F-close/K-closes, multiple #'s) and my cannot fail, if you own it get her to dance floor responses. "You're so close to the dance floor! but not dancing! Let's fix this. (Grab and go, gotta own it) Open with something about her/group looking fun/not fun... Tease, so if you don't want to have fun/dance you must not be a good dancer huh? She says yes I am. U answer directly with “Then show me”. (gra…	/r/seduction	03/04/12 01:33 PM
3	[FR] - first attempt at going out solo, great night, GO OUT SOLO On shaking hands - I've been working on going to almost purely high fives, and then for the hand lock. Girls will follow almost 100% of the time. Hold high five an extra second while you make amazing over the top eye contact, then spread your fingers, lock, smile, release as your hands fall back to place. Gold.	/r/seduction	19/03/12 12:52 AM
2	Perpetually out of state. Lacking motivation to practice my game. How do you get motivated? You've put yourself into a made-up Catch 22. You say "there should be this huge payoff from all this effort, but I'm not seeing it." Yet you are not going out to practice/use all of the effort you put in. If you keep to yourself that's one thing, but obviously you're going to have to talk to girls to attract them. Which you say are are good at.... Bottom line is you must find a way to interact with the girls you want. If its not a bars/clubs, brainstorm a typical day of the girl you desire and m…	/r/seduction	21/02/12 09:20 PM
2	Is there such a thing as work game? Personal experience. Don't do it. Inevitably they have hot friends and will reward you. Quick anecdote - I thought the, we're young, let's have fun vibe was mutual with my co-worker (also a really large company), so we shacked a couple of nights and lots of heavy stuff, but no sex. Turns out she really liked me in the BF type of way and it all went downhill from there. Unless you want to marry this girl. Don't do it. TL;DR - don't shit where you eat	/r/seduction	13/02/12 10:38 PM
1	What's your way of building momentum or getting into state? Go to the gym or workout before you go out at night. Gets endorphin's flowing - you feel big - you accomplish something for yourself. Make a good playlist, listen to it on LOUD. Get amp'd. Read a list of motivational quotes or blurbs from Seddit that you have captured. (I use Google Docs and have a running top 10 list that I update if I find something better). Pre-game with 1 drink. That gets me in flow/state like no other every time. Another pro-tip is if your going out solo or anything, set fi…	/r/seduction	10/02/12 04:45 PM
2	Ultimate Peacocking Item... glow sticks. 2 max. the wrist kind. girls love glowy shit.	/r/seduction	20/01/12 04:10 AM
5	Is friendship with a girls possible? relevant	/r/seduction	20/01/12 03:59 AM