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I'm of the mindset that a relationship should be decided on by the people in it. The expectations of society are a complete mess and contradictory more often than not. Men are definitely the ones taking all the heat for everything. The expectations are not consistent. We either have to strive for equality across genders or the feminist group needs to cease existing, because they offer no ideas on how to make things fair. They're only concerned about the issues that benefit them. I can't consider…
/r/MensRights27/07/26 09:00 PM
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Juggernautboy, I am glad you are no contact with her. She doesn't deserve to have any interaction with you. That sounds like a horrible thing to go through as a child. I'm sorry you had to endure such cruelty.
/r/MensRights26/07/26 01:26 AM
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The internet is full of bad advice and it's obviously biased towards Women.
/r/MensRights25/07/26 09:28 PM
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This is just my opinion, but I think a lot of the problem is these influencers. They are all about making money and content. None of them care about equality or men in general, until they need them. I think about horrible talk shows like The View. I can't imagine being a man and working on that set. They are just vile and disgusting humans. I'm embarrassed to be a woman when I hear the crap they say. That's how bad it is. I don't know how anyone can blindly believe anything these people say. I'v…
/r/MensRights22/07/26 10:18 PM
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I think the patriarchy excuse is so ridiculous. The only people who lack critical thinking skills are the extreme feminist who can only think about their own self interest.
/r/MensRights22/07/26 09:48 PM
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Thank you. If you can't deal with the possibility of having a son, you shouldn't have kids. Just stay single and spare the kids and the rest of the people who will be affected.
/r/MensRights22/07/26 09:28 PM
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Agreed. I can't impregnate myself. I've never understood the whole my body my choice when a part of another person is growing inside of my body.
/r/MensRights22/07/26 09:26 PM
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Exactly! If there are women who truly feel like that. They should just tie their tubes. It is truly horrifying to read that and worse is the comments I see on videos and posts like this. How can anyone support thinking like hers? 🥺
/r/MensRights22/07/26 09:23 PM
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SnowFire, I'm sorry you had such a horrible experience with your mom. I have shown my children unconditional love. Every single human being deserves to be loved unconditionally by their parents. Unfortunately, I know that's not always the case.
/r/MensRights22/07/26 09:20 PM
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You're right. I hope that someone intervenes in his life and shows him compassion and love.
/r/MensRights22/07/26 09:13 PM
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Djc_tech I'm sorry you did not have a loving mother, but I'm glad you went no contact with her. You don't need the toxicity in your life.
/r/MensRights22/07/26 09:11 PM
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That's very disheartening. I can't wrap my head around how sick a person must be to actually think that way. I feel very bad for the children who grow up hating themselves because of a vile and spiteful mother.
/r/MensRights22/07/26 03:30 AM
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That was one of the most disturbing things I've read in a long time. I felt so much empathy for that innocent unborn child. How could any mother feel like that? That literally crushed my soul. I don't know how anyone could be that hateful.
/r/MensRights22/07/26 02:21 AM
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My pleasure. I know it isn't easy for you because a lot of your friends are probably of a feminist mindset. Just remember that they are likely brainwashed by the environment they were raised around. The hardest thing in life is learning to love yourself. That goes for men or women regardless of anything else. Make sure you don't let their opinions to cloud your self image. 🫶
/r/MensRights21/07/26 08:52 PM
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100% been this way for too long!
/r/MensRights21/07/26 08:31 PM
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I'm a woman who has not bought into the bullshit they are trying to push. It's disturbing to me as a wife, mother, and frankly a human being that men are being treated so poorly. We cannot say we care about equality if it is only beneficial to us. That's why I avoid feminist circles. I don't want to listen to the arrogant views of people who refuse to look at facts and prefer to base their views on feelings. No, thanks.
/r/MensRights21/07/26 08:30 PM
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I'm a woman and can definitely confirm there is toxic femininity. The ones who are guilty of it aren't necessarily the definition of femininity, but they definitely like the sound of their own voices and have a serious self importance issue. We really need to shut down the nonsensical influencers who are speaking for all women, and against all men.
/r/MensRights21/07/26 08:21 PM
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You have nothing to be ashamed of. You've been talking to too many feminist. Half of which don't understand what men are facing in society. I'm a woman and a mother. You aren't the problem. I'd give you a big mom hug if I could.
/r/MensRights21/07/26 08:14 PM
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They automatically assume that children who are alone with a man are in danger. The stupidity is very real. They were standing there questioning who that man was, do the children look like they're uncomfortable with him. Should they call someone. It honestly made me so angry. I had to go to my daughters high school because she was spending "too much" time with her male teacher. They wanted to assure me that he was told explicitly that he was not to be alone with her. We sure as hell didn't compl…
/r/MensRights21/07/26 04:14 AM
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The double standards are disgusting. I don't understand why there is not more outage from mother's. I'm horrified by how many young boys are molested and groomed by women. Everyone is so concerned about men being the abusers. They've lost touch with reality.
/r/MensRights21/07/26 12:18 AM
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I've called women out who made snide comments about a man being alone with children. I think its ridiculous. I don't have patience for ignorance. Society is so ass backward. I applaud the men who go on about their business without letting these idiots ruin their day. You are better than me. I guess I can use my privilege as a woman to shame people who jump to outrageous conclusions. All the pearl clutching that women do when a man is in a public setting with children is just a shameful thing to …
/r/MensRights21/07/26 12:13 AM
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As a woman. I agree with you 💯. Men are far less likely to be vindictive or malicious as women are in my experience.
/r/MensRights20/07/26 07:44 PM
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Treat me the way I treat you. That's my honest opinion on it. I don't expect a man to open the door for me or give up their seat to me. When a man does I always say thank you. I open the door for men all the time. I'm also big on giving compliments when they are warranted. I can tell that you guys aren't used to receiving them.
/r/MensRights18/07/26 06:42 PM
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My pleasure! I believe in treating people the way you want to be treated. Old thinking by today's standards, but it has served me well. I don't bother speaking out on social media platforms because they control the narrative. Instead, I focus on talking with other women in person in small groups or one on one. The most surprising thing to me is that most women of various ages/backgrounds feel the exact same way. We've agreed that men have been put in a situation where you guys are damned if you …
/r/MensRights16/07/26 04:11 AM
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There are a lot of women who feel the same way as me. You don't see them commenting on social media because as you have all experienced, going against the hive only brings a headache. The feminist are loud and obnoxious, both in person but especially online. You can't argue with stupid. They just keep going in circles. Then they call you names and run right back to their favorite go to. Everything is wrong because of the patriarchy. 🙄
/r/MensRights16/07/26 04:01 AM
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That is your opinion and I'll respect it because you don't know me. I do sincerely hope you meet someone who will surprise you.
/r/MensRights15/07/26 02:51 AM
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I'm sorry that you work around such vile women. I think the body positivity only applying to women is more bull 💩. We should all be given the same courtesy and treated with kindness. Most of the larger guys I see are not overly fat. They are bigger guys in general. If I was your coworker, I would be quick to call them hurtful names. Then when they got upset about it, I would say that if it's okay for them to treat you that way. I just assumed it was okay to talk about anyone's body. I've been mo…
/r/MensRights15/07/26 02:30 AM
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My pleasure. My way of trying to make things better is to talk openly with women in social situations. It's pointless to try to get anyone to keep an open mind on the internet, but I have found a lot of women who were willing to hear the statistics and learn why it men are now the ones being oppressed and are facing a harsh situation with old values being mixed with modern culture. Everything is so contradictory when you talk to men and women about what roles they believe men & women should have…
/r/MensRights15/07/26 02:07 AM
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All the media, entertainment industry has pushed this crap for years. As a little girl all the movies and television shows portrayed boys as immature, irresponsible, badly behaved and shallow. Cartoon characters killed off all the fathers in the movies. With that narrative combined with news, it definitely portrayed boys/men as the problem with society. I caught on while I was still in grade school. I just wish that the rest of society could.
/r/MensRights14/07/26 02:42 AM
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I treat everyone with curtesy and respect. I do not expect anyone to open my door or pull out my chair. If they do then I show appreciation to them. I don't think men should be held to a different standard. In a perfect world people could be kind to everyone.
/r/MensRights13/07/26 11:34 PM
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I'm sorry that happened to you. Sadly, I see people pounce on men who ask for advice about relationships online all the time.
/r/MensRights13/07/26 05:19 AM
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I am a woman who is fed up with the feminist narrative. Anyone with common sense should be able to understand that men are facing inequalities in many areas of life. The same women who post drivel about being oppressed by men are commenting to other women how they should dump a man who doesn't pick up the check. 🤦‍♀️ I limit my social media time because it is a cesspool of misinformation. The privileged women bitching about their lives and how hard they have it, is too much. It is so frustrating…
/r/MensRights13/07/26 05:08 AM
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Those women lack the ability to use critical thinking skills. I've been called a traitor, pick me, not a girls, girl, you name it. Yet, they can never explain why they aren't bothered by the biases of the judicial system or why its okay for us to have women only gyms, but its wrong for men to. 🤷‍♀️ They can't think beyond their own selfishness. It's impossible for them to comprehend that men are suffering. My real life women friends are nothing like the feminist types we encounter online. Thankf…
/r/MensRights13/07/26 03:48 AM
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I've been aware of the inequalities between us for most of my life. I've always questioned everything and that's gotten me into trouble on many occasions. I don't know many women who agree with the current feminist movement. We've discussed it before and we all know that it's bull 💩. Equality isn't their goal.
/r/MensRights08/07/26 11:15 PM
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That's so dumb. If the women are in prison I'd say supply and demand has more to do with why they are hooking up with women. 🙄 These nut jobs never fail to come up with something that makes my eyes roll.
/r/MensRights08/07/26 08:55 PM
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Guess I should be ashamed. I watch it with my husband and by myself! 🤯 The whole shamimg men for watching porn is bull 💩. Women are the worst with the double standards. All the pearl clutching about it is ridiculous. It's healthier to be in a relationship with someone who knows what you like. It makes me sad that so many men have to hide their porn from their wives and girlfriends.
/r/MensRights08/07/26 02:52 AM
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I'm so sorry that your wife is being selfish. Sex is an important part of any relationship. Most men would have already found intimacy elsewhere. The fact that she's not willing to make any efforts to change your situation is heartbreaking. It is unfortunately something that happens in a lot of marriages. My sister has done the same thing to her husband. I told her not to complain about her marriage to me anymore. SHE is the problem. A spouse isn't going to want to do things for you when you wit…
/r/MensRights06/07/26 10:00 PM
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If people actually based things on facts versus feelings, we would be a lot better off. There are certain things that I am not physically capable of doing. I don't look at it as unfair. It's just reality. There's plenty of other options that are available for me. I couldn't live with myself if someone died because I couldn't do the job.
/r/MensRights02/07/26 03:40 AM
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I think it's ridiculous. The job should be open to whomever has the best qualifications. I wouldn't want to be hired because I am a woman. I also wouldn't want any company to lower the standards in order for me or another woman to get the job. I'm a 110 pounds. Nobody would want me to rescue them from a burning building. It's not personal. Everyone is so easily insulted, especially women. Any job that has a physical standard shouldn't change them for anyone.
/r/MensRights30/06/26 11:33 PM
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I come to this sub because I'm tired of listening to toxic feminist and being attacked. I also hope that I can learn from real men what issues they are facing so that I can advocate for men's rights in the real world. I would never show up to a place where it was exclusively a men's only establishment. Unfortunately, feminist have already taken those away from you and I find that completely wrong. It's one of many double standards that I can't sit back and pretend isn't happening.
/r/MensRights27/06/26 10:44 PM
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I'm a step mother. It wasn't an immediate unconditional love that I had after meeting my step child. It was a lot of hard work & compromise. That being said the love I have now is completely unconditional. I went on to have two more children with my husband. They aren't half siblings. They're just siblings. One thing that is a huge misconception is that mothers must always put their children first. If we're talking about tender age then it's going to be that way. At least in some regards. My hus…
/r/MensRights24/06/26 04:35 AM
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Sadly, I think we can expect a lot of angry boys to to grow up as angry men. It's difficult for them because they are not given the same treatment as girls in schools or by society. The sugar and spice thing is still the consensus on how little girls are. I was one and I raised two. They are not nice, they are manipulative and hide their bad behaviors better. I'm glad that you are defending your wife. I hope that he is able to appreciate you, and his mother as he grows up. Its a worth the time. …
/r/MensRights23/06/26 01:38 AM
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My pleasure. I love you too, and all human beings who are kind. I'm definitely not a bot. My bizarre typing should pass that test. 😆 I'm just one of many women who is tired of seeing men treated poorly. Feminist love to go back to the way women were mistreated. 🙄 There are so many holes in their theories. I'm sorry, but the double standards and the mind tricks that feminist use to make men villains is plain sickening.
/r/MensRights23/06/26 12:57 AM
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I think the problem is that we were told by the media and anyone else who was a voice of power. That men's rights groups were very anti-women. I was a lurker on this sub for the longest time because I was afraid of being somewhere I wasn't wanted. I have had very few occasions where someone on this sub was unkind. Everyone has been positive. I don't come here for validation or to get anything other than information about the issues you're facing as men. I care about the future for all of us. You…
/r/MensRights22/06/26 10:31 PM
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I agree with you about the shift. Feminist have been the loudest voices in the media and online, but they are starting to get mocked. People are asking questions. That's what brought me here. I was a happily married woman who had children and I was looking around me thinking WTF is happening. I'm sorry but it's pure madness to listen to self indulgent people cry for more when they have been given everything. Once my eyes were open. There was no going back.
/r/MensRights22/06/26 10:26 PM
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I don't think you're pessimistic, I do believe that we as women can learn that we've been taught a complete load of shit since early childhood. I don't think it will happen overnight, but I genuinely believe that the more women become aware of the inequalities that men face, the more that feminism will look like what it is pure insanity.
/r/MensRights22/06/26 10:20 PM
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I agree with you. Social media became so unbearable for me. I had to find outlets like this sub or others where I'm less likely to run into the drama or the feminist rantings. I enjoy talking to men and women who are willing to discuss things that are affecting society. I don't enjoy getting called names for being a decent human being who cares about men's rights. They are human rights. They have more empathy for an animal. That's strange coming from me because I prefer animals to people most da…
/r/MensRights22/06/26 10:15 PM
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Spreading awareness is the best thing we can do for men's rights. It's always uncomfortable to talk to men about the way they are treated. If I was a man talking to a woman I would be attacked for mansplaing. 😬 I haven't had a bad experience with anyone male/female. The only time things have gone badly is when I try to comment online. There are a lot of vile people behind their screens. I appreciate your kindness.
/r/MensRights21/06/26 10:44 PM
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The only thing I'm guilty of doing is making a post every year for my husband on father's day. He's not my father, but he is the man in my life and he deserves recognition for being a great husband and father. For any of the dad's on here that didn't get a card, post, phone call or any acknowledgement. Happy Fathers day to you ❤️!
/r/MensRights21/06/26 09:25 PM
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Speaking from my own experience as a woman, this is spot on. The majority of information given to us from childhood into adulthood is that we (girls/women) are the ones who have all the disadvantages. I've been aware of the inequalities between genders for a very long time. So, I spend a lot of time talking to women and men, dispelling the myths and misinformation that we've been told. I think it does at least make them curious about it and they will catch things that they hadn't before. Sadly, …
/r/MensRights21/06/26 09:20 PM
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My pleasure. I feel like the best thing I can do is to keep talking to people and debunking the feminist narrative. Sadly, it's not only women who consider themselves feminist. There are many men who believe that women are somehow being unfairly treated by society. The messages have been programmed by the media, educational institutions, it is literally everywhere. The good news is once you get people to think for themselves & start questioning what's going on they will be another voice for men'…
/r/MensRights21/06/26 03:30 AM
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Amen! Abuse is not exclusive to women. Sadly, its presented that way by society.
/r/MensRights12/06/26 10:19 PM
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My pleasure.
/r/MensRights12/06/26 10:17 PM
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Women as abusers are far more devious and use their emotions to manipulate the people around them. 😔
/r/MensRights12/06/26 10:09 PM
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I'm so sorry that your children are being abused. I pray that you are able to get help to remove them from the mother's care. She doesn't deserve to have children. Don't stop fighting for them. I know it's hard.
/r/MensRights12/06/26 10:06 PM
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Obviously, my experience will differ from yours as I'm a woman, but I have found that asking questions that you know how they'll answer is a good strategy for getting them to open their eyes. She's a mom of boys. Ask her how she feels about the current problems young men are facing because of feminism. Lack of resources for mental health, online attacks based on any allegations of wrong doing. Also ask her how she'd feel if her son was suddenly named in a paternity case. I still don't understand…
/r/MensRights07/06/26 07:57 PM
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I'm a woman who has told the men in my life that they are the ones who have it worse. Some of them knew and were just repeating what they've been told, but others seemed to honestly believe the feminist narrative. It was very shocking to me that they were supporting feminism. I understand supporting women/men, but feminism has done nothing to help men.
/r/MensRights04/06/26 03:28 AM
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I just posted about this very thing. I'm not a man, but your mental health and rights are important to me, and should be to everyone. God bless you. I hope you have a wonderful year!
/r/MensRights03/06/26 12:09 AM
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Happy Men's mental health awareness month to all the men in this sub and elsewhere. Please don't let the narrative of the feminist keep you from reaching out if you need anything. I appreciate you all. You don't have to be a man to care about men's rights. This is the message I have been spreading!
/r/MensRights03/06/26 12:07 AM
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The lack of resources or places for men to go to get away from abuse is pitiful. My husband and I both offer our friend's a safe place to come if they are in relationship with abuse. Especially, our male friends because they are so limited by where they can turn.
/r/MensRights30/05/26 07:53 PM
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Plenty of women like men who shave their heads. You don't want anyone who is shallow and only into looks. The vast majority of people will age and their looks will change. I wish it was more socially acceptable to give men compliments. It's not only women who need support.
/r/MensRights28/05/26 08:52 PM
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They get triggered easily by women when I've commented on my problems with feminism. 🤣
/r/MensRights27/05/26 11:25 PM
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I've already witnessed it before with my brother. My son is already viewed as threatening because he is tall and has facial hair. I'm proud that my daughter's aren't feminist and that they are aware of how men are treated. They have never expected any man to pay for dates or cover their expenses. I don't have to worry about them. My son is definitely going to have a harder time.
/r/MensRights26/05/26 01:18 AM
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I appreciate you coming from a place of wanting to understand. I'm not a man, but from my own experience and from what I've learned through research. Men are not afforded as many opportunities as women. Look at the statistics of college graduates. Women have surpassed men in higher learning. Also, men are judged harsher in criminal courts for the same offenses. Family courts are even worse. Men are not given the same custody considerations or child support as women. Men still pay more alimony th…
/r/MensRights26/05/26 12:43 AM
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My pleasure. It's always so nice to see other women on here supporting boys and men. I don't understand how anyone can be so detached from reality. I really think the more women who stand up against the feminist influences the better. Whether we talk to friends and family or casually talk to people about the inequalities between men and women, the better. We have to support men. It's the only way things will improve. You have definitely had similar experiences. Just keep at it. The internet is d…
/r/MensRights26/05/26 12:21 AM
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They believe feelings are more important than facts. That's part of what's wrong with society.
/r/MensRights26/05/26 12:12 AM
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I don't understand why anyone would be yelling, I hate articles that make it okay for women to treat their partner like that. Verbal abuse, mental abuse and physical abuse is not exclusive to women. I've known many male victims. Sadly, men don't have the resources that we do. It's just another double standard. If your partner is yelling at you or demeaning you. They are the problem!
/r/MensRights23/05/26 01:31 AM
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As another mother, I feel the same way. I actually noticed it when I was still a little girl, but society kept telling me that we were the ones being oppressed. I remember the lectures about the glass ceiling and how are gender kept us out of certain sectors of the workforce. The older I got the more obvious the inequalities between genders became to me. Feminism is not about equality for all. It's about picking and choosing what parts of equality is desired for women. I have two daughters and o…
/r/MensRights19/05/26 02:23 AM
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Not a man, but I've been awake for awhile. Feminism is full of double standards. It's wrong to cherry pick the parts of equality that we want and continue to expect men to be our providers and protectors. I can't support feminism because they don't want equality.
/r/MensRights17/05/26 04:15 AM
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Thank you, krackedy. I care about the men in my life and I care about all the ones I'll never know. IMy being a woman gives me privileges, and I try to use my voice in a positive way. It bothers me that mens lives aren't viewed as important as the lives of women and children. It's hurtful when I hear the press comment on how horrible it is when women or children are killed. If it hurts me, I can only imagine how men must feel.
/r/MensRights15/05/26 08:03 PM
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I have always been outspoken with my daughters and their friends about the fake information that they are getting online. I think more parents need to have conversations with their children. The victim mentality is not tolerated in our household. If you want something. Then you have to earn it. All of this baloney about women having it so rough. It is absolute garbage. If you aren't physically able to perform a job then you should not be given a pass on the standards set for the position. The se…
/r/MensRights15/05/26 07:42 PM
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Guys, several of these are good things to practice in any work place. My husband works in a predominantly male industry, but a woman was added to his department. He's a friendly guy who tries to make everyone around him feel welcome and at ease. So he shared with her that he is married and told her about our children. After working together for several months without issue. He complimented her on a haircut she got. It wasn't in a sexual way or anything that could be misconstrued as coming on to …
/r/MensRights15/05/26 07:06 PM
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That's why I'm here. I'm tired of being around morons who ignore the facts. False allegations ruin lives! The mental gymnastics that the media uses to explain it away is beyond my comprehension.
/r/MensRights02/05/26 10:30 PM
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My pleasure. I'm just treating people how I want to be treated. I don't go around punching people either, but the double standard always bothered me. Men should be able to report a woman who has hit them, and have it taken seriously. I've known men who were victims of domestic abuse. They felt like they had no support and that bothered me. I don't feel like it is okay for anyone to be victimized, but I know that as a woman I have access to help. Until feminism starts fighting for changes to the …
/r/MensRights02/05/26 10:20 PM
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I can say that I don't hear men saying horrible stuff all the time. That's what is coming out of the mouths of women. Men don't generally say something inappropriate in my company. Maybe I have just been incredibly lucky for almost 50 years, but I think the media is what fuels the war between genders. Feminist online are quick to call names and they don't care about facts. I treat other people the way I want to be treated, and I never throw a punch unless I'm prepared to take a punch myself. I'v…
/r/MensRights29/04/26 07:58 PM
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I think you are right. I'm a woman and I've witnessed the pettiness of women towards gay men. They actually call themselves allies, but they find it acceptable to treat people like accessories. I keep my circle small. I'd rather have people who want me to be happy and cheer me on. Anyone who takes pleasure in putting others down are not friends.
/r/MensRights28/04/26 08:51 PM
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Men are not the problem. All media, feminist, and their screwed up ideas are the problem!
/r/MensRights28/04/26 08:26 PM
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I can give you the opinion of a happily married woman who has a loving husband and three children. Two daughters and the youngest is our son who also happens to be autistic. The hardest thing as a parent is to realize that our children are their own person. We went through all of the growing pains of being a young family. Our daughters are adults now living on their own. Our son is 20, and you weren't kidding about those teen years. 🥴 The important thing isn't about what your wife's friends or f…
/r/MensRights25/04/26 02:28 AM
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Thank you Far-Walrus1570 I do not want to be lumped in with them! 🫶
/r/MensRights25/04/26 01:01 AM
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Hello, fellow non-feminist woman! I am always delighted to see other women here for reasons other than trolling. The majority of my female friends and relatives are like us. 🫶🙌
/r/MensRights25/04/26 12:59 AM
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Yes
/r/MensRights24/04/26 01:23 AM
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From the time I was a child I saw a difference in how I was treated versus my male classmates or even my own brother. Boys are ridiculed by educators and at least in my family, my father was much harder on my brother than he was on me or my sister. The older I got the more feminist influences were around me. I couldn't ask questions. They would spazz out and jump down my throat. Even when I had the evidence to support every single thing I said. As I started working, I saw more of the same thing.…
/r/MensRights23/04/26 10:02 PM
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I am a happily married woman, but yes, I am worried. These radical feminist are speaking over any of us who are trying to make a change. Not only do they speak over us, but they speak for us. I feel as a woman who believes in equality, that means in all ways. Not just the ones that benefit me. I'm disgusted by the idea that a man's life is any less valuable than that of a woman or child. Death is death. I'd be willing to discuss feminism if I saw them fighting for equal rights in the court syste…
/r/MensRights23/04/26 09:48 PM
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I would look into tradwives spaces. They seem more in line with the type of woman you are looking for.
/r/MensRights21/04/26 10:43 PM
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There is definitely a hive mentality online with women. It's like dominoes falling. If one woman is offended then they all pile on. I know it doesn't make it feel any better, but I think its worse online than in person. I guarantee you that some of them are bitching to their friends that they want to find a nice guy. 🙄 Problem with that is THEY would need to be nice if they expect to meet someone. Feminist have destroyed dating and now men are not comfortable with asking a woman out. They have t…
/r/MensRights21/04/26 07:40 PM
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Firstly, you have every right to feel whatever you are feeling. There are people who care, or have been through something similar. They are in the comment section. It's scary to lose your job and have to move in with your parents. Been there, but it is also a good time for you to focus on yourself. Comparison is the theif of joy. I found that out first hand. If you go down the rabbit hole and start dissecting your relationships with everyone in your life you are going to spin out and start isola…
/r/MensRights21/04/26 07:05 PM
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I'm in agreement, Mission_Paramount. If we can have women only gyms than you should be able to workout in an environment that is only for men. That would be the best option. Personally, I have my gym set up at home. I don't want anyone to see me working out. 😅
/r/MensRights21/04/26 06:35 PM
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My pleasure! It seems like a natural human emotion to feel empathy and compassion for anyone who has been abused in any way. I can't support feminism as they only support women as opposed to equality for all. I'm glad you feel comfortable in this space, and that my being here is not a deterrent for you to express yourself. I never want to make anyone feel uncomfortable by my presence. 😊
/r/MensRights21/04/26 06:22 PM
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I wish I could recommend a place for you. This sub doesn't seem to get a lot of trolls. I'm a woman, but I am here to support men's rights. I know men who have been victims of DV, SA, SB, and every other type of abuse at the hands of women. It's disturbing that these cases aren't taken seriously. I hope you find a safe place to talk about what you have been through.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 11:35 PM
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Hell, even being a woman doesn't make a difference when talking to them online. If anything they love to try and destroy my character immediately. They don't want facts, or meaningful conversation. They want me to agree with them, which will not happen. I understand my strengths and weaknesses. Thankfully, I don't get my feelings hurt by the hive on the internet. What I do find interesting is engaging in conversations with women in person. Usually, I can get them to understand why I don't align …
/r/MensRights19/04/26 11:45 PM
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I cannot begin to understand what you go through. I'd like you to know that women, like myself, appreciate your efforts to continue trying to do what is right. Especially, given the misandry and racism you face. It takes immense character to do the right thing when you have been harshly judged, criticized, and made to feel inferior. Men have every reason to mistrust us. The only voices you hear are the ones tearing you down and vilifying you. Many of us are realizing that feminism isn't what we …
/r/MensRights18/04/26 11:31 PM
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That's one of the reasons I prefer old tv series and movies. The toxic crap they have to add to all media/entertainment is ridiculous. As if life wasn't hard enough, especially for you guys. You can't even escape from it with a comedy series or movie. They have to make sure that men are portrayed as dogs. I'm not asking for everything to have a happy ending. It would be nice if they showed a more accurate representation of men and women.
/r/MensRights17/04/26 05:44 PM
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I think in my experience it has been 50/50 between my lesbian friends. Either they were very friendly and appreciative of men or they were man haters. I have never understood any of the hate. The reality as I see it, is we need each other. I don't know why so many women seem to think society would be better without men, but I have been quick to remind them of all the contributions that men have provided. Women aren't thinking logically. We should have equality for all, but we will never be equal…
/r/MensRights17/04/26 05:15 PM
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Honestly, it's my pleasure and more importantly it's the right thing to do. I'm definitely not one for holding my tongue.😆 If I hear a woman saying something insulting about men or a specific man in public. I can handle it face to face. Unfortunately the internet is full of high strung, keyboard warriors who don't have to face anyone when they spew horrible rhetoric or make disparaging comments. I've raised two daughter's who aren't afraid to speak out either. My son was raised to think for hims…
/r/MensRights07/04/26 06:45 AM
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I have spoken about this with many of my friends who are also women. The truth is the majority are aware of the inequalities between men and women. The other women are louder and emboldened by social media and news media. Look at all the propaganda online and in the mainstream media. I can't call myself a feminist because the ideals of the movement have become skewed to an attitude of us against them. Men are not my enemy. In fact without you we would be up shits creek. I'll stand with feminism …
/r/MensRights04/04/26 10:45 PM
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I have a problem with the way abortion is treated like a woman's choice. I'm sure to get bombarded by haters, but I can not impregnate myself. That requires a man, so it feels wrong to completely cut the man out of the decision.
/r/MensRights04/04/26 10:29 PM
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Prize_Boysenberry_60 there are a lot of women like myself who feel the same way. We just don't bother trying to speak out on social media. We get farther by talking to women one on one or in small groups. The loud mouths of the internet do not speak for the majority. In fact, I think that news media and social media are both spinning lies and trying to convince everyone that this is the way we all think. 🫂 Don't let them get to you. We're wide aware of their manipulations. Men are not the enemy.…
/r/MensRights04/04/26 10:16 PM
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I think it's ridiculous that we (women) can have all kinds of only women places, but heaven forbid men be given the same opportunity. It isn't right and it is just one more reason why I will never call myself a feminist.
/r/MensRights29/03/26 04:18 AM
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I can't say much other than I'm sorry you are living in an environment where you are treated poorly. It makes me angry that this kind of behavior is normalized and even celebrated in society. I treat people the way I want to be treated. Regardless of gender or anything else. We're living in strange times.
/r/MensRights28/03/26 10:58 PM
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I'm a woman who supports Men's rights. I believe in equality and the current feminist movement is not about that.
/r/MensRights28/03/26 05:46 AM
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I don't even have TikTok on any of my devices because of the stuff I've heard about. It's a bunch of rage bait for me. They love when a woman speaks out about their bullshit. They have a pile on mentality. There is no room for discussion. You either agree with them or you are the enemy.
/r/MensRights24/03/26 11:21 PM
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This is 💯 spot on. I don't understand why so many women are still supporting the current feminist movement. As a woman, I cannot agree with the direction they've taken. It isn't about equality, they want supremacy.
/r/MensRights24/03/26 10:39 PM
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As a woman who was taught all the lies about women being oppressed. I agree wholeheartedly. I started doing my own research into men's rights or lack thereof. It was a huge wake up call. I suspected a lot about the double standards in grade school, but the older I got the more I understood that men are given lose/lose options. It seems that women will say they want equality until it isn't in their favor. Personally, I don't try to speak for what a man should be, because I am not a man. Instead I…
/r/MensRights12/03/26 05:44 AM
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I don't need a day, but thank you. I just want men to be treated fairly. That was supposed to be the reason for feminism, equality. Somehow, the movement is completely unhinged today. It's incredibly frustrating to see and hear the lies that are taught to little children. I can still remember how badly my male classmates were treated by our teachers. It felt wrong then and it is still wrong. If I could understand that in grade school. I don't know why so many people don't get it.
/r/MensRights09/03/26 12:13 AM
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It isn't much, but I speak to women face to face and explain the facts vs the propaganda that they are so used to hearing. I've been able to get through to more women this way than by trying to over social media.
/r/MensRights07/03/26 10:01 PM
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It shouldn't be. It takes two to create a baby. A man should have every right to be present for any appointments or conversations regarding their baby.
/r/MensRights07/03/26 09:32 PM
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As an older woman, I agree wholeheartedly!
/r/MensRights07/03/26 12:47 AM
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I'm so sorry you've had that experience. I had three children. My last child in 2005. Through my pregnancies I had my husband beside me every step of the way. There's no way I would have allowed anyone to keep him out of the room. I didn't make the babies by myself. We were pregnant. Saying that was triggering for a lot of people. It was the truth, though. I carried the babies, but emotionally we were a team. We got a lot of shit for having my husband and other male friends/relatives at our baby…
/r/MensRights07/03/26 12:44 AM
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Thank you for saying what so many of us women feel. 👏👏🫶
/r/MensRights20/11/25 09:09 PM
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As a woman who does not believe in the feminist narrative. One of the first places I went to was a trad wife sub. It wasn't for me. I would like to see equality for men and women. Including the draft, family or criminal court cases. I want to see mens mental and physical health given the same attention as women's. There were things that I agreed with trad wives about. If my husband worked all day . I have no problem with fixing dinner and serving him. He has done the same for me many times. I'm …
/r/MensRights08/11/25 10:52 PM
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I'm in my 40s and I've always treated people the way I want to be treated. I have known that boys/men were being unfairly treated since grade school. I've never understood why. That's what brought me to this sub. I had searched for answers and I was not a trad wife. I believe in equality. Now that said, there are biological differences between men and women. I don't believe that women should complain about the money off shore drill workers make, when they aren't putting themselves in those men's…
/r/MensRights15/10/25 01:33 PM
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You are obviously a troll.
/r/MensRights15/10/25 04:16 AM
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Listen, I am not only neurodivergent and married to an autistic man, but I have a 19 year old son with autism. My dm is always open. If you ever just want to get things out. I promise you I won't judge. I wouldn't be on this sub if I did not see a major problem with the way men are treated.
/r/MensRights10/10/25 11:00 PM
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Good for you. 🙄 You obviously don't have anything to offer besides a quick bang. 👏
/r/MensRights10/10/25 10:30 PM
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As a neurodivergent woman married to an autistic man. I get it more than you would believe. I do care about you and everyone else who feels that way. You are worth loving. My husband is not the talkative type. Maybe that is what balances us out. I'm very outgoing and I tend to be very blunt with handing out compliments. I have always believed it is better to say it and face a little embarrassment once in awhile. But for the most part, I can tell that humans have been starving for a little acknow…
/r/MensRights10/10/25 10:25 PM
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There isn't much I can say except that you will meet someone when the time is right. You need to find confidence in who you are. Are there vapid, cruel women? Sure. However, I can speak as a woman who dated men based on their character and charm, rather than their height or physical appearance. When I met my husband we just started talking and we never wanted to stop. We've been married for 25 years this March. You don't want a woman who doesn't see you for all that you are. They will only crush…
/r/MensRights10/10/25 10:05 PM
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All I can tell you OP, is that it's not only men who have taken notice of the blatant disregard and mistreatment of men. As a woman the only thing I can tell you is that I'm actively talking to men and women and bringing awareness to the current narrative being spun about men. Woman are not sugar and spice and everything nice. They have been taught to be manipulative and vengeful. It's disgusting to witness, and I have taught my daughter's to treat men the same way they want to be treated. I've …
/r/MensRights10/10/25 08:34 PM
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I'm a woman, and I know plenty of women who sleep with men for superficial reasons. I had my share of one night stands before I got married. It had nothing to do with love and everything to do with having a good time. 🤷‍♀️
/r/MensRights05/10/25 09:42 PM
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Woman here also. I agree with you. My husband is not an atm. We figure out the bills together. I would never expect him to pay for everything.
/r/MensRights30/09/25 10:28 PM
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Good for you. Honestly, you should do what makes you happy. Not everyone needs to be in a relationship to be fulfilled. Look at all the people who are miserable and trying to find a way out of bad relationships/marriages. If you meet someone who is worth your time. You'll know it. Best wishes to you on whatever the future holds!
/r/MensRights11/09/25 10:37 PM
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It honestly makes me sad that society is like this now. I've seen what men are going through, so I can certainly understand why they would not want to deal with dating. I'm lucky because my husband and I met in the early 2000s. I agree with the people who say that relationships should happen organically, and I applaud those who are holding out for someone deserving of them. Dating apps sound atrocious and completely one-sided in many cases. Women often have ridiculously high standards without ha…
/r/MensRights05/09/25 11:27 PM
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It's sounds like you've really put in the work. I'm glad you have set limits, and you are saying no. I wish your wife was willing to do some work on herself. Marriage is hard, but if you want it to last, there has to be effort put into it by both people. I've been married for over 20 years. We've had our share of hard times, but I could never belittle my husband or say vicious things to him or about him. I know that whatever I am angry about will pass, but if I start throwing blame or saying har…
/r/MensRights09/08/25 02:22 AM
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I'm tired of all of the propaganda in the entertainment industry and the news channels. I'd rather watch old tv series or movies.
/r/MensRights09/08/25 12:18 AM
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That's the kind of cherry-picking b.s. that feminist pull. If she's an able bodied adult, she should have no problem standing on the metro. I've given up my seat to men, women, and children if they needed the seat. How very pernicious and entitled some women are. I'm so glad that you had at least one woman who showed you kindness. I wish that I could have been there to record it. I would have loved to ask her why she considered it sexist. 🙄
/r/MensRights08/08/25 12:49 AM
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💯! Back in my single lady days. I got wasted and woke up next to a man who I was sure I'd never seen before. He was a nice guy who just happened to be older than my dad. I chalked it up to a learning experience and made better choices after that night. The drinks were flowing, and the drunk goggles were goggling! 😂 It was nobody's fault. Unlike this chic, I accepted responsibility for my own actions. It was my fault for getting drunk and having sex with a stranger. It was not rape. The same thin…
/r/MensRights04/08/25 01:12 AM
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I avoid most social media platforms because of how toxic the women are. They don't want to know what the statistics are or the evidence that proves them wrong. The people watching are just commenting to egg them on. It's like a mob gathering with pitchforks and torches ready to hunt down and kill any dissenters. I'll continue to talk to women who are willing to listen. Those women on TikTok or feminists subs aren't worth the aggravation.
/r/MensRights02/08/25 02:44 AM
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I would advise you to ditch the bi$%h! I would never treat anyone like that, and I would not want to be friends with someone who does. You deserve better!
/r/MensRights02/08/25 02:29 AM
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Pure evil.
/r/MensRights02/08/25 01:39 AM
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Amen, sister! Thank you for being aware. The way men are treated is unacceptable. If I could afford to open a shelter for men who are trying to escape from domestic abuse, I would. Instead, I try to speak to women who are willing to listen and explain that we've been lied to by feminist. They don't want equality. They want everything!
/r/MensRights02/08/25 12:00 AM
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I'm a woman. There's no way I would speak about what a man thinks or wants. The gall of that professor, or really any woman, to speak for men. If a man did the same thing, they would lose their job. 🙄
/r/MensRights30/07/25 01:39 AM
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I don't know how to fix the problem, but I definitely don't want to contribute to it. It took years for my husband to feel comfortable showing vulnerability in front of me. I have known for most of my life that the standards were not the same, and even as a little girl. The narrative that was being told did not match the reality of life around me. I saw blatant favoritism by teachers towards female students. Boys were heavily criticized by adults if they didn't act in a specific manner. They wer…
/r/MensRights29/07/25 11:45 PM
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I can't stand to read the comments. It makes my blood boil. It's not productive to try and engage with them. I would rather concentrate my energy on talking to women in person about the way men are being treated. At least that way. I have a chance to explain my opinion on it and share the information that I've found to back up my claims. You never get past the mob mentality in groups like that.
/r/MensRights27/07/25 08:11 PM
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I appreciate that. I am optimistic about the future. I think as more women become aware of the inequalities and the lies we've been told. We will begin to see positive changes in how men are viewed and treated. The truth is that society has become obsessed with putting people into categories. Instead of looking at people as individuals who have feelings. They only see gender, race, political affiliation, and sexual orientation. If we are going to evolve together, then we need to stop labeling ea…
/r/MensRights27/07/25 08:07 PM
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That's a step in the right direction. I'd like to see people speak out about the videos circulating where women are attacking men and their vehicles. I don't find those funny at all. It bothers me that so many people think it's hilarious. 😌
/r/MensRights27/07/25 03:28 AM
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There are a lot of ignorant people who think they know everything about Autism. The stereotypes piss me off because they assume that all autistic men or women act a certain way. 🙄 I have seen my son suffer because of the stuff he reads online or sees in movies. Just like everyone else, he is trying to figure out who he is. It doesn't help that there are so many expectations placed on men. Women are really good at saying one thing and then expecting something else. They'll tell you they can do th…
/r/MensRights27/07/25 12:33 AM
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I agree with everything OP. 💯 I have tried to speak to all the women in my life about these things. Some were able to see the realities versus what we were taught as girls.There are a lot of women who have believed the feminist narrative. Once you can peel off the blinders, you can see the obvious agenda is not about equality. The cherry picking of issues that benefit women is so obvious, and when questioned about it, they always holler it's the patriarchy. They can't take responsibility for the…
/r/MensRights26/07/25 11:53 PM
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Total bull 💩. I don't know where they come up with this garbage. I have three children, all neurodivergent. Two girls and one boy. My son has a much harder time. They're so clueless. That's why I don't use TikTok.
/r/MensRights26/07/25 11:32 PM
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You are worthy of equal treatment. I don't understand why you are the one apologizing. If you are used to being belittled and put down. You can lose sight of who you are and start to believe it. Please don't do that. Get some help. You deserve a partner who will treat you with respect and kindness. It sounds like you are in a toxic relationship, and it's not going to get better if she's not willing to admit her wrongs and seek professional help.
/r/MensRights26/07/25 11:11 PM
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You are setting yourself up for heartbreak. It takes two people to make a marriage work. You can't be the only one who puts in the work. She is abusing you, whether you have accepted it fully or not. You are a human being. No one has the right to put their hands on you. These kinds of situations can escalate, and instead of jail, you could end up dead. It hurts me to hear of men who are in relationships with abusive women. They seem to accept it as part of the package. You don't deserve to be tr…
/r/MensRights26/07/25 11:00 PM
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It sounds like your wife has some serious anger issues that she needs to be accountable for. I understand loving someone. I've been married for 25 years. Marriage is different sometimes, but I would never throw anything at my husband or call the police on him if I had pushed him to the point where he had to physically defend himself. A felony not only hurts you. It affects the entire family. Has she taken responsibility for her actions? It sounds like you are taking more responsibility for the p…
/r/MensRights26/07/25 03:18 AM
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The biggest steamrollers of conversation are women. I hate saying that because I am a woman, but I've witnessed it too many times to count. I'm in no way perfect, and I have done that before. I have learned that the best way to learn and understand another persons point of view is to shut up and listen. Once I did that, I was able to see all the lies I was told regarding feminism. It is not about equality. They have no problem taking the advantages given to them in education, the justice system,…
/r/MensRights24/07/25 09:12 PM
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Honestly, I don't read that kind of drivel. It's filled with bitter, vapid, ranting women. They ask for one thing and then complain no matter what a man does. I feel badly for normal men and women who are trying to date right now. All the b.s. online and in the entertainment industry are really confusing things that shouldn't be confusing. Be who you are. Don't take the bait. Be yourself!
/r/MensRights22/07/25 08:42 PM
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I don't blame men for not wanting to approach women. There are too many manipulative women. Feminist have shown their true colors. It's not about equality. It's about superiority. I feel for any man living in modern societies who have not already found a true partner to share their life with. The rules are constantly changing, and the mixed signals are a mind fu$%.
/r/MensRights20/07/25 07:15 PM
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Unfortunately, society has made this kind of behavior acceptable. The argument that it happens to women more is, in my opinion, another tactic that's used to portray women as the victim and men as the perpetrators. It completely negates the experience that a man had. If someone is telling me about something that happened to them, I listen to them explain their experience. I think people are too quick to make everything about themselves. Women are especially guilty of this. I can only imagine how…
/r/MensRights17/07/25 10:34 PM
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That's because feminist don't care about anyone other than themselves. 😌
/r/MensRights17/07/25 09:15 PM
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No. My brain is fine. I'm a human being who believes in equality.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 01:02 AM
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My pleasure. It speaks to her character that she would ask whether you would fight another man for her. I don't think people in general are looking for a fight. She doesn't sound like a rational person. It looks like you dodged a nightmare.
/r/MensRights10/07/25 01:34 PM
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I've heard this is especially true for online dating. It really kills me that women are like that. They want to cherry-pick what they consider to be masculine. What happened to getting to know someone? I feel like women placed an unrealistic expectation on men when, as you said. They aren't anything great.
/r/MensRights10/07/25 04:12 AM
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I completely agree with you. That's a great way to weed out the gold diggers!
/r/MensRights10/07/25 04:07 AM
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As someone who has a uterus, I get so tired of women screeching about how it's their body, their baby. I have never heard of anyone who impregnated themselves. It takes two to create a life. It is a disservice to children to be taught that their fathers are somehow lesser of a parent than the mother. Men are getting screwed out of the child rearing and being forced to pay the tab. Family courts are still favoring the mother. Even when the father is the better choice. The whole situation has made…
/r/MensRights08/07/25 08:58 PM
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I am a woman who does reciprocate that. I don't pretend to know what men are experiencing. I'm aware enough to notice that feminism isn't practicing what they used to preach. Equality should be available for everyone. Women shouldn't expect men to shoulder the financial burdens.
/r/MensRights08/07/25 08:37 PM
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I'm not a man, but I am a human being who sees that men are suffering. It is amazing to me that more women haven't noticed the inequalities that men face in society. They are ignored in education, mental health, physical health, and the judicial system. I've seen it and been aware of it my whole life. The supposed gender gap that feminist love to spout on about doesn't exist. You can't include wages that men make in industries that women aren't willing to work in. I'm hopeful when I see stuff li…
/r/MensRights04/07/25 05:48 PM
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Absolutely 💯! 👏
/r/MensRights30/06/25 09:20 PM
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As a neurodivergent woman, I completely agree. We do get away with more. I'm adhd and teachers and society as a whole treat me better than men who are neurodivergent. They either get annoyed with ND men or ignore them. I've read that women are better at masking, but again. I call bull 💩! It's wrong.
/r/MensRights30/06/25 07:37 PM
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My daughter's are both in their 20s now and in happy, healthy relationships with great young men. One is engaged, and the other one doesn't know it yet, but her boyfriend asked me to help him choose a ring to propose to her. They were raised to treat everyone the way they wanted to be treated. We told them that feminism is not about equality. Then, we provided them with evidence that much of what they were being taught at school, online, and by society were lies. We could only give them the info…
/r/MensRights29/06/25 10:23 PM
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I appreciate your insights. I will definitely do that. Thank you for being kind and giving me useful advice. I know there are women who refuse to listen, but I'll continue speaking to those who will. I don't think the majority of women understand misandry. I think they're misinformed. The propaganda is forced on kids at a young age. I've seen how it harms both boys and girls. They want boys to feel bad about themselves, and they want girls to see themselves as victims.
/r/MensRights29/06/25 09:55 PM
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I noticed the differences in the way that we were treated in elementary school. That was way back in the 1980s & early 90s. They were always very critical of the boys. I would say they were humiliating them on purpose. In an attempt to make them conform. I had adhd so I wasn't exactly favored by my teachers either, but I witnessed several things that by todays standards would qualify as abuse. They are never going to make boys and girls the same. Schools need to adapt the curriculum to the stude…
/r/MensRights28/06/25 06:14 PM
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Reading your comments brought me to tears. It's always the ones that sexualize everything that we need to keep an eye on. I am so sorry that happened to you. My husband has had the same reaction when he has been out in public with our daughters. Even now that they are young women. They still give him looks of disgust. Of course, they never do that when I'm with them. You are doing the best you can. The bond my husband has with our daughters is the most beautiful thing. Now that they are older. T…
/r/MensRights28/06/25 05:56 PM
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I can't stand their drivel. 🤯 My IQ was dropping the more comments I read. 🙄
/r/MensRights28/06/25 05:32 PM
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I'm here to see if anyone has any answers. 🤔 Personally, if a father shares custody, that should be the end of the support. Unless they had an agreement prior to marriage that he would support the wife in the event of divorce. I have seen that before. I feel like women should have to show proof of where the child support money is spent to ensure it is being spent solely for the child/children.
/r/MensRights28/06/25 05:28 PM
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As hard as it is in the US. I have heard a lot more about problems in the UK. I pray for things to change across the world. I worry more about my son and nephews than my daughters. Men are really vilified by society. 😔
/r/MensRights28/06/25 05:22 PM
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It makes me so sad for the young people who are growing up right now. I wouldn't be who I am if it weren't for a couple of male teachers that I had. They taught me so much and influenced me to push myself to do more because they believed in me. Nowadays, everything is sexualized. Especially when where men are involved with children. How sad is it that a man can't be out publicly with their children without getting looked at like they are a pervert. I've lost count of how many female teachers hav…
/r/MensRights27/06/25 08:18 PM
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I'm in the US. We have the same stuff on all those platforms. I should have included all media, entertainment, and news outlets. I guess that I've been blessed to be surrounded by people who don't buy into the false narratives being pushed. I talk to my friends men and women about this stuff all the time. I have been successful with talking to women about our privilege and how biased society is. Some of them were genuinely unaware of it. By talking about it and explaining the facts, instead of t…
/r/MensRights27/06/25 07:58 PM
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There's definitely a lot of stereotypes on the subject of men not wanting kids. It's not based on facts, in my opinion. My husband is equally loving and engaged with our children. The word assumption has ass in it for a reason. Their are a lot of dumb ass people who believe this is the way all men feel.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 07:30 PM
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I don't find it anything to make fun of. Loneliness hurts regardless of gender. My son is going through this right now. He's 19. He hasn't found a social group other than his online gaming friends. I can see how much it hurts him. I'm not sure how I can help him other than to listen when he wants to talk to me. I'm sorry that you feel unseen. I hate the way things have changed. It used to be much easier to meet people before everything went online. People don't feel comfortable with approaching …
/r/MensRights27/06/25 06:41 PM
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Most of this is just propaganda to perpetuate the lies. I don't hate men, and neither do any of my female friends. We know it's bull. We also know that speaking about it on social media is a quick ban or a pile on. Believe me. Normal people don't buy this crap.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 06:12 PM
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I get some of what you were going for. However, it feels overly simplified. I know men who are much better at nurturing and some women who are very competitive. I do think society has given a false narrative of what women are supposed to feel about men. We are constantly being told that we are oppressed, controlled, and abused by men. Smart women question these things instead of falling into perpetual victimhood. Men aren't the boogeyman, and women aren't sugar and spice and everything nice. A m…
/r/MensRights27/06/25 06:07 PM
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My pleasure. It's refreshing to be able to comment on this subject without being swarmed by angry women who accuse me of being a troll. Everyone makes mistakes. That's part of being human. Unfortunately, there is a lot of ignorance about men. Sadly, a lot of women who are teachers show their biases openly, and it goes unchecked. What a horrible teacher you had. You definitely should have snitched to your mom. I avoid confrontation whenever possible, but I can definitely stand up for anyone who i…
/r/MensRights27/06/25 12:57 AM
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I've had some luck with speaking to women, either one on one or in small groups. Most of them are good people who have been fed the narrative that men are bad, oppressors, abusive..etc. There's no getting through to women on social media. They just pile on. When I explain the clear evidence of misandry and how it's been accepted by society, a lot them were shocked. We were given false information since childhood, and that is how our opinions were formed. I caught on when I was still quite young,…
/r/MensRights26/06/25 12:12 AM
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I'm so sorry you've been dragged through this mess. The courts are ass backward. I commend you for being such a devoted dad. I know that's not much comfort, but children grow up. They see and understand more than we realize. My stepdaughter went through the same kind of situation. My husband and I refused to stoop to his ex-wife level. We never bad mouthed her to our daughter. I say "our" because she is mine too. I've been in her life since she was three years old. My point is that when she beca…
/r/MensRights25/06/25 11:23 PM
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What I meant by that is there are plenty of women who choose to have abortions without ever telling the man. You are familiar with "my body, my choice." While I'm the one who has to carry the baby and deliver it. It is my choice as a woman as to whether or not I share the information with the person I slept with or not. Some women wait years before they go to court for back child support. I didn't mean that we literally have all the power. I just meant in regards to what we decide to do.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 10:15 PM
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Wow! 18 years. That's so disappointing for you and your children. I'm so sorry. Anyone who mistreats their children deserves to be locked up. I believe in karma. She will get what she deserves. I also have known some excellent fathers who were able to get custody of their children. It's a disgrace that they had to spend so much time and money in order to prove what was blatantly apparent. Women are not the only ones capable of nurturing children. The courts act like it's innate to only women. I'…
/r/MensRights25/06/25 10:06 PM
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I agree wholeheartedly. We are privileged and have done nothing to deserve the pedestal we are put on. It is something that I recognized as a young child. My brother was treated harshly for his misbehavior, but I wasn't treated the same. He would get punished while I was given warnings. Then, I noticed that teachers would be incredibly cruel and cold to the boys in my classes. They would ignore them and spend their time praising the girls. Instead of coming up with alternative ways to teach youn…
/r/MensRights25/06/25 05:47 PM
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I wish that I could say you were wrong, but it does appear that a lot of women have gone crazy and they've somehow got the support of the family courts. Would it matter if the children say they want to be with you? I don't know how old they are, but I have heard it has changed the custody agreements for some men if the children are requesting to live with their father.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 05:06 PM
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How is the government having all your information and your partner knowing the paternity of the child the same?
/r/MensRights25/06/25 05:01 PM
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My pleasure. I've been a few of my male friends' wingwoman after they got divorced. It was hard for them to get back out there. It doesn't matter if you're 15 or 50. The fear of rejection is always a thing. If you are looking for something real, not based on superficial b.s. Be yourself and take a chance. If you get rejected. Count your blessings that she said no. She wasn't the one for you, and at least she didn't waste your time. Throw out a wide net, and then you'll be in control of who you c…
/r/MensRights25/06/25 05:00 PM
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It honestly doesn't. I was moved by your comment about if you had a child out in the world, you would want to care for it. That made me think of my nephew. I don't have the answers to make it equitable for both men and women, but right now, women have all the power. I understand it's my body, but I wasn't able to conceive the pregnancy by myself. I've never felt like it was right to take complete ownership over something that was created by two people. Sorry for speaking off topic.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 04:46 PM
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OP. I'm sorry you're going through such a hard time right now. You are not alone. I've been through depression and anxiety, and it is a very heavy burden. What you said in your post is accurate. I don't think we need to continue the tradition of circumcision. All of the reasons that were given as to why they circumcised baby boys have been debunked. I think it should be left up to the man to decide when he is older if he wants to get it done. The hard part of changing the tradition is that the f…
/r/MensRights25/06/25 04:31 PM
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My nephew had a girlfriend who got pregnant. She didn't want to keep the baby, so she decided to give it up for adoption. Which is fine if both parties agree, but she manipulated him into it. That changed him in ways that I couldn't begin to explain. They broke up shortly after she gave the baby up. She's out living her life, and he carries the weight of knowing he has a son out there who may never know he exists. He's since had a daughter, and he is an excellent father. However, the experience …
/r/MensRights25/06/25 03:57 PM
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I bet it is. Every man who has gone through divorce among my family and friends has been put through the ringer. The court system needs to be overhauled. Divorce should not make one person wealthy and automatically given custody for the children if it's been proven that the children are better off with their father. For all of the women who complain about being oppressed by men, they don't seem to speak about the unfair practices of alimony and child support. Even in cases where the father had 5…
/r/MensRights25/06/25 03:44 PM
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I told my son to figure out what he wanted from a partner and not to settle. I know it's rough for men to date these days. But, it's not impossible. Women are still intrigued by men who have confidence and who ask them out in person. That doesn't mean that everyone will accept the invitation, but if you don't ask, you'll never know. Also, it's important to feel out the woman you are dating. Is she materialistic, or does she appreciate your efforts? Personally, I enjoy the simple things that my h…
/r/MensRights25/06/25 03:33 PM
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Agreed. Why would you want their to be any doubts in your partners mind about the paternity? Just do the test and then enjoy your life together. My husband wasn't even the one who asked for it. I requested it. I wanted to put his mind at ease because we had a whirlwind relationship that resulted in a very quick and unexpected pregnancy. I've never regretted it. We've been together for 25 years. When you start a relationship by being honest and building trust. You will be much happier for it. My …
/r/MensRights25/06/25 02:41 PM
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My pleasure. If it's any consolation, the majority of women I have talked to agree that the attitude towards men is unacceptable. Unfortunately, it's the online community and the media that give hateful people a place to voice their garbage. I'm able to get through to women when we are in small groups. It's the hive mentality that causes so many problems. I still speak up online, but it usually results in my being banned. 🤭
/r/MensRights25/06/25 02:28 PM
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My pleasure. You are an amazing father for fighting for your daughter. I know it doesn't make it any easier, but she will grow up knowing how loved she is and how her dad tried so hard to give her the best life possible.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 04:22 AM
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Thanks. It's not common sense. Virgin brides are pretty uncommon, as are virgin grooms. I try to think about how I would feel in a man's position whenever any of the subjects of inequality come up. My husband is still trying to deprogram all the societal bullshit he's been force-fed all his life. It breaks my heart when I see men willing to give so much, without their sacrifices and hard work being recognized. Instead, they are treated like they're disposable. The world would crumble without men…
/r/MensRights25/06/25 04:20 AM
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If you have nothing to hide, why wouldn't you consent to the paternity test. 🤷‍♀️ My husband and I weren't married when we had our first child. I still had them do a paternity test. It was a way of ensuring that my husband was protected as was our child. These women kill me. That's why I don't do well on many social media platforms. I'm fish food. 🐟 The piranahas swarm on every comment I make. Even if there is evidence that they are wrong. Their feelings are more important than facts.
/r/MensRights25/06/25 01:53 AM
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I completely agree with you. That's why I am not a feminist. It is all about superiority. It's not about equality. Believe me, I have my eyes wide open, and I see the double standards.
/r/MensRights24/06/25 06:05 AM
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I don't have any answers for you. I'm a mother, and I don't understand why the court system favors the mother even when all evidence shows they are not the best parent. If feminist really care about equality, then why aren't they holding protests outside the family courts demanding equal rights in child custody cases or any other cases. It seems that equality only matters when it benefits them. I wish you and your daughter the best. I'm sorry you're going through this.
/r/MensRights24/06/25 01:39 AM
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From one mother to another, I wish that I had looked into it more before agreeing to have my son circumcised. I have to live with that regret. Like you, my spouse was in favor of circumcision. The pressure is intense when the doctors, family members, and even friends are recommending it. You are already doing a great job of gathering information and looking out for your son's wellbeing. We were young and easily influenced, and because my husband had been circumcised, I think that weighed heavily…
/r/MensRights17/06/25 08:23 PM
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My pleasure. I find it easier to explain it in a one on one conversation. When I try to explain it to a group, there's an immediate pile on. It's frustrating, but it's always worth a try. I've seen men who politely tried to speak up about the inequalities that they face. It's not a pretty sight. They are vicious.
/r/MensRights05/06/25 04:49 AM
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I have seen those also and find them disturbing. I'm a feminine woman, wife, mother, and I have been talked down to by feminist who felt like I needed to apologize for being myself. My husband is my best friend, and our relationship is built on mutual respect. We're going on almost 25 years together. I refuse to apologize for the way I live my life. Social media has fueled so much toxicity. It's all so ass backward and frankly scary that this is the message being sent to young men and women. I t…
/r/MensRights03/06/25 07:54 PM
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As a female. I agree 100% with you. We are privileged, and it's been that way for many years. I can't align myself with feminism because they perpetually spew lies and push a false narrative. My eyes are wide open, and I have exposed their bullshit to as many people as possible.
/r/MensRights13/05/25 06:43 PM
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I get why you feel this way. I can't speak for all women, but I appreciate and respect men. You have been treated horribly by society, and it would crumble without men.
/r/MensRights13/12/24 01:02 AM
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I'm a woman who believes that men should have spaces that are exclusively for men. I see women only spaces and places all the time. I've never understood why there's so much pushback from women when this subject is brought up. Why would anyone want to be somewhere that they're not wanted?? It annoys me. 😒
/r/MensRights12/12/24 11:28 PM
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I'm sorry that you were treated so cruelly. I know that does little to make you feel better, but there are people who care. I'm glad that you are starting to open up with therapy. I think the hardest thing to do is be comfortable with who we are. When people have picked you apart, it's hard to do. I hope you keep working on it. You deserve to be loved and happy.
/r/MensRights12/09/24 11:04 PM
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That's the way my husband is. He has been an amazing father, and our children are better for having him guide them. Our son is able to express his emotions with us, and we've taught our daughters to treat men with respect and not like they are ATM machines. The double standards in society need to be addressed. The best place for us to start was with our family. I agree that the cycle can be broken.
/r/MensRights12/09/24 10:47 PM
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I'm glad that men are supporting each other.
/r/MensRights12/09/24 10:30 PM
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That's my opinion also. My husband and I discussed this before our children were born. I think it's the best thing for the kids. We actually took turns at some point while our kids were still young. It gave us both an opportunity to bond with our children.
/r/MensRights09/09/24 10:28 PM
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Thank you for your service. ❤️ Boys are supposed to be wild and energetic. The fact that parents and schools are trying to change them is why we have so many problems today. We know that as adults , childhood is short. Why are we forcing little kids to act like adults? Discipline is necessary to keep them safe, but forcing boys to act like girls or vice versa is wrong. My dad was a hard ass on all of us. It didn't matter that I was a girl. I was punished the same way my brother was. It was the b…
/r/MensRights30/08/24 06:43 PM
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Agree, 💯 It is so sad that we've gotten to this point in society.
/r/MensRights28/08/24 10:02 PM
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This is my problem with the feminist narrative. They believe their feelings are more important than facts. The data doesn't seem to matter. It's an exhaustive conversation to try and have.
/r/MensRights26/08/24 07:59 PM
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Amen, Sister! I think the laws are seriously warped.
/r/MensRights23/08/24 08:22 PM
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By today's standards, I was a horrible mother. I let my kids play in the dirt and run around outside like wild animals. I let them have Nerf gun wars. Hell, my husband and I played with them and had our own guns. We always had the neighborhood kids at our house. My husband would rough house with all of the kids, girls included. Can you imagine the horror?? It was a great time, though. If anyone started whining, they had to go sit down or go home. Clothes can be washed, but the memories are somet…
/r/MensRights23/08/24 12:16 AM
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I think it's awesome to be a SAHF. If a family can afford to live on one income, there are definitely lots of kids that would benefit from it.
/r/MensRights20/08/24 03:51 AM
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I think it's a great opportunity for you. Middle school is a difficult time for most young people. I would imagine that is especially true for boys. I'm sure they will be happy to have you with them.
/r/MensRights19/08/24 02:40 AM
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Absolutely! You either earned the position or you didn't. DEI = Didn't earn it!
/r/MensRights18/08/24 09:15 PM
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This was very good reading, and I couldn't have articulated it any better. We need men and women to work together to accomplish true change. It is okay to vent out frustrations, but it is also important to formulate a plan for how to fix the system. I have searched for local men's rights organizations to try and see if I could offer any support. Sadly, there were none. We need to establish places where we can meet and actually put in the work to make things change. In the meantime, I continue to…
/r/MensRights17/08/24 04:23 PM
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I think it's dependent on the statistical data that is used. There are some very high wage jobs that women are not applying for. That is our choice, so I don't see how those jobs should be factored into the wages between men & women. I would like to see people being hired because they have the experience or skills to do the job. I don't think they should lower the bar in order to make room for us. If we're going to apply for hard physical jobs, then we need to be able to carry our own share of t…
/r/MensRights16/08/24 06:52 PM
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The last thing I expect from this sub is validation. If anything, I have assumed it would be similar to when I go to subs where feminist are dominating the conversation. Thanks for being concerned about me, though. That's actually very sweet. I even upvoted your comment. I've been happily married for almost 24 years. He is the only person whose opinion about me matters! Have a great day!
/r/MensRights16/08/24 06:42 PM
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The media is pure propaganda. They don't share the stories about men who have been abused or sexually assaulted. They feed the hate mongers and fuel the feminist narrative. It is shameless. I am sorry that you are in such a bad situation.
/r/MensRights15/08/24 07:12 PM
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Stereotypes, in general, have screwed up our thinking about women and men. Some women are kind and nurturing, but others are mean spirited and vindictive. It's the same thing with the way society views what men are like. We are all individuals outside of our gender. We have to move away from the stereotypical viewpoints.
/r/MensRights15/08/24 06:07 PM
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This! I swear there are women who are so overdone. They look completely different without the makeup. Lol
/r/MensRights15/08/24 05:56 PM
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I'm so glad that I am not dating these days. It is getting ridiculous for people to meet organically. They are making the whole thing superficial. I think it's tacky.
/r/MensRights15/08/24 05:53 PM
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My experience with talking to women and getting through is to provide the data to back up what I tell them. It's kind of like we were brainwashed into believing we were unfairly being kept from attaining success in the workplace because of being female. Society has continued to spread the narrative that women are always the victims in domestic violence, sexual assault and other issues. I have to peel back the layers and explain that it is not women who are being denied anything. We are given mor…
/r/MensRights15/08/24 05:28 PM
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🫣 Disgusting. Total double standard!
/r/MensRights14/08/24 08:28 PM
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I can't imagine feeling that way about your own child. I feel sorry for that little baby boy. If that's how his mother feels, then he has a hard road ahead of him. I was ecstatic when I found out the gender of all of my children, especially my son, because he was my last.
/r/MensRights14/08/24 08:23 PM
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I appreciate your support. It is frustrating to engage on social media platforms because if you don't agree with the masses, you are attacked. You obviously know all about it. It only makes me angry and does nothing to help men. I'm a very level-headed person who does not enjoy engaging in keyboard wars with people who have the emotional intelligence of rocks. This sub is a breath of fresh air. Even though the subject matter is serious, it is nice to know that other people see it. I had seriousl…
/r/MensRights14/08/24 08:14 PM
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I have tried to comment on discussions online regarding men's lack of resources, judicial disparities, sexual/dv, and the other assbackwards shit the feminist are spinning. It doesn't do me any good. The internet is not a place where you can have honest discussions with women. It is something that I have more success with when I'm talking to them one on one or small groups. You all know how quickly they shut down anyone who disagrees with them online. No matter how many facts about the topic you…
/r/MensRights14/08/24 06:18 PM
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Thank you!
/r/MensRights14/08/24 05:56 PM
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This warms my heart, I know there's a lot of us who see it. It is the feminist who dominates social media. There's so much misinformation spread about what men's rights are about. Glad you are here!
/r/MensRights14/08/24 05:56 PM
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My pleasure. I never know whether to comment on stuff here. 😅 The last thing I want is to make anyone uncomfortable with my presence. I'm sure men are tired of women inserting themselves into everything. It is important to let you all know there are some of us out here who are aware of the struggles you face, though.
/r/MensRights14/08/24 05:50 PM
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Wow, that's a really great insult. 🤣 😂 I'm a happily married woman. Just because I don't agree with the feminist narrative, that is the shit you all come up with. Come back when you have an original thought....(Yawn).
/r/MensRights14/08/24 05:43 PM
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I can't speak for men, but as a woman, my eyes are wide open to the inequalities between us. The narrative being spun by the feminist is complete b.s. I do speak up about these issues. Putting it out on social media platforms does nothing but feed the trolls. It's better to talk to women about it one on one or in small groups. I don't expect any man to go out of his way for me or champion my rights. My rights aren't being threatened. I went searching for the truth and I found it. There's no goin…
/r/MensRights13/08/24 11:06 PM
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My opinion is that paternity testing should be automatically done. If you didn't cheat, then there isn't anything to worry about. It eliminates any doubts for both parents. There seem to be so many sensitive people who are threatened by the idea of having testing done. They are usually the same ones who don't want to sign prenuptial agreements. 🤔
/r/MensRights12/08/24 07:38 PM
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Anyone who speaks out against the feminist narrative is silenced, even if you are a woman. That's been my experience.
/r/MensRights10/08/24 02:17 AM
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A lot of men say they didn't call the cops on their significant other after they were physically assaulted because the woman didn't actually harm them. That has to change. If a woman puts her hands on you, report it immediately. I understand that women are given more resources and are seen as the victims most of the time, but it's important to have a record of these witches' patterns of abuse. Otherwise, it's perceived as retaliation when the cops have been called on the man. The double standard…
/r/MensRights10/08/24 01:48 AM
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That insult is trash, and so are the women who use it. 🙄 I see that all over the internet. They can't come up with any intelligent comments, so they resort to this same old line.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 11:38 PM
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Not this white woman, but I have to agree with you.
/r/MensRights07/08/24 01:29 AM
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This needs to happen more often. I've been able to get through to a lot of feminist. I've shared the information I've learned here and through my own research. It generally starts off with hostility, but once they understand that I am not just some woman looking to snag a man, they start to get it. It is an incredible feeling when you see the person recognize the truth. I have tried to have discussions online, but it rarely goes well. I usually get shut down and ganged up on. I'm really glad you…
/r/MensRights06/08/24 01:32 AM
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We are going to need all the luck we can get. It's been a shitshow. I am scared of what comes next.
/r/MensRights04/08/24 11:02 PM
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I agree wholeheartedly. I cringe every time I hear her talk. I may not love everything about Trump, but she is insufferable, and I can not imagine her leading our country. We are at a dangerous crossroad. Unfortunately, the media will only continue to spread propaganda to the masses. They are trying to convince us that she's done an incredible job as the VP.
/r/MensRights04/08/24 10:58 PM
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My heart goes out to you. It is a hard situation when you're responsible for your parents. It sucks that you can't get any support. Have you tried to record your mom's outbursts? I have no clue whether it would help, but I'm just trying to think of something. It's just sickening that people automatically assume the worst when you are only trying to find a job to support your parents. I'm sorry you are going through this. I hope things turn around.
/r/MensRights02/08/24 09:42 PM
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I would like to see this happen more. We asked for equality, so it is only fair.
/r/MensRights02/08/24 05:53 PM
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I can't speak for younger women as I am in my 40s. But, I have raised two daughters to treat men like they would want to be treated. They know that the system is set against men, and the only way to make change is to be the change. I feel like the world has gone mad. It's a confusing time to be alive.
/r/MensRights02/08/24 05:25 PM
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The sheer amount of hate and vitriol being spewed is enough to make me not want to go anywhere. I have never seen so many labels being thrown around in my life. We are all human beings. It costs absolutely nothing to be kind. But, I guess it's easier to stomp through life hating everyone based on their gender, political beliefs, sexual preference. What a waste of energy, in my opinion. Just imagine what the world could be like if we could all be decent towards one another.
/r/MensRights02/08/24 05:01 PM
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This kind of stuff makes my blood boil. In my lifetime, I have personally known several men who were molested as children by women. It has truly been astonishing, as some of them were not even aware that they had been molested or raped. The message is that if a woman wanted to mess around with them, then they should feel lucky. Even if they were children and their abuser was an adult. They are carrying around shame, trauma, and trying to find a path forward in a society that does nothing to help…
/r/MensRights30/07/24 12:30 AM
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I'm sorry that she uses something like that against you. I don't want to insult your wife, but her behavior speaks volumes about her character. You don't deserve to be treated like this.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 11:06 PM
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This might sound cheesy, but I care about how you feel. It is heartbreaking that you and so many other men have been through this.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 10:54 PM
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I am so sorry for your losses and for the cruel way you were treated. You were treated horribly by the people who should have supported you.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 10:52 PM
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People have no right to judge the grieving of someone else. I am glad you don't give a f@ck. You are better off not letting them get to you. I'm sorry for your loss nonetheless.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 10:41 PM
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I'm so sorry for the loss you experienced with the passing of your mother, but even more so that you had no one to comfort you. 💔 The way you were treated was wrong and very cruel. I can understand why men don't want to be vulnerable in front of women if that's the reaction they get. I consider myself very fortunate to have a husband and a son who feel comfortable to come to me when they're feeling emotional. Whether it's anger, sadness, depression, or something positive. I feel honored that the…
/r/MensRights11/07/24 10:36 PM
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You are probably right, sadly.
/r/MensRights27/06/24 02:18 PM
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It's definitely encouraged. The "believe all women" is giving them power to make false allegations. I doubt it will happen in my lifetime either. That just makes it harder to get along with the mindset of the people around me. I find myself sticking with a very small circle of friends.
/r/MensRights27/06/24 02:15 PM
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I'm sorry that happened to you. It's a disgrace that women are the only ones who are given a voice when it comes to DV.
/r/MensRights27/06/24 12:52 AM
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I think a woman who makes false allegations should be sentenced to jail time and should have to make a public apology for her crime. Lives are ruined by false allegations of sexual assault or rape. Even if the man is proven innocent, the allegations will be enough for them to be considered guilty by a large percentage of people.
/r/MensRights26/06/24 11:39 PM
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This, JACSliver! Everyone has been treated poorly at some point in their life. It does not give anyone the excuse to be an asshole. That is a choice.
/r/MensRights26/06/24 10:49 PM
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I completely agree with you. If someone kills them self, the last thing I am thinking about is that they should have been more considerate in the manner they used to commit suicide. I have lost friends to suicide and as you mentioned, we didn't sit around discussing a better way they could have killed themselves. We were too busy grieving the loss of our loved ones.
/r/MensRights20/06/24 08:01 AM
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I heard the same thing, and while it's good to know your surroundings, I think if you walk around looking like you don't belong or that you're afraid you probably draw more attention to yourself. I have always just used common sense in these situations. It hasn't failed me yet.🤞
/r/MensRights20/06/24 07:57 AM
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It is one thing to vent to your partner about the stresses of your daily life, but it is abuse that they are taking their frustration out on you. It is a toxic environment to live with someone like that, and it can cause anxiety and depression when you live with someone with an explosive temper. If she doesn't see her behavior as a problem, I am worried about how things will escalate. It might be best for you to plan an exit strategy from the relationship. I'm sorry you are going through this. I…
/r/MensRights20/06/24 07:51 AM
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I am definitely not a feminist, but I still paid for my own part of the expense or took turns. I saw that too many of my girlfriends used men to get a free night out, and they had no interest in the guys they dated. Taking turns paying the tab or planning the date showed the man that I was actually interested and invested in the relationship, or them as an individual. I had a job, why should he have to pay for everything?
/r/MensRights20/06/24 07:40 AM
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That speaks to the selfishness of some women.
/r/MensRights20/06/24 07:29 AM
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That is a fun way to date. It is more creative than the old standard. I liked planning stuff to do. Even if it was snacks and pizza at my apartment with a cheesy movie marathon. Lol
/r/MensRights20/06/24 07:28 AM
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It shouldn't be up to one person to pay and plan every activity/date. Splitting the expense makes both people invest in the date, and the men can get an idea of how interested a woman is based on the creativity of the dates she plans. It just made sense to me that way when I was dating. I taught my daughters and son the same thing. ETA: If more men were to require that dates be split financially, it would weed out the women who aren't really interested in them or are just looking for a free nigh…
/r/MensRights20/06/24 07:17 AM
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When I used to date, I always paid for my own, or if we dated regularly, we would take turns. I think it's ridiculous to expect the men to foot the bill for every date. I don't know how young men are dating now. It's damned if you do and damned if you don't.
/r/MensRights20/06/24 12:06 AM
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That's what I am always saying. For unknown reasons, there are some women who feel that their feelings are more important than facts.
/r/MensRights19/06/24 01:09 AM
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This argument is ridiculous. As far as propaganda goes, the feminist narrative only gives merit when it benefits them. Now, the method of suicide chosen is used as another put down on men. Feminist aren't happy until they suck all of the oxygen in the room. The permanent victim mentality is the problem.
/r/MensRights18/06/24 02:36 AM
1

I don't have any advice that's different from the others on here, but that is clearly disrespectful of her. I could understand if she wasn't aware that she was doing it. However, once you told her it bothered you, that should have been fixed right away.
/r/MensRights17/06/24 11:51 PM
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This is only my opinion, but it sounds like she needs professional help. She isn't able to regulate her emotions, and that is dangerous for you. If you suffer from anxiety & depression this is an especially bad situation for you to be in. Can you calmly discuss things with her after she blows up? Have you tried to explain how this makes you feel? I am really worried about what this relationship is doing to your health. It is absolutely a form of emotional abuse. You are living in an environment …
/r/MensRights17/06/24 11:09 PM
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Exactly! I know that I wouldn't be fit to work on an oil rig. I have hardly any upper body strength. I would never expect a company to hire me for a job that I can not physically do. That wouldn't be fair to the other people who would have to carry my share of the work. I don't believe in lowering or giving alternative standards to women. We are either capable or not. It makes no sense. Although, these days it is less facts and more feelings.
/r/MensRights17/06/24 10:54 PM
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Some of us do. 😃 If I am walking around after dark, I have my guard up towards anyone, not just men. I would hope that men would be the same way. It's okay to be aware of your surroundings, but if a woman is so afraid that someone is going to harm her, then she shouldn't be out.
/r/MensRights17/06/24 10:48 PM
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I know that it is a very difficult time to organically meet someone, but I have friends who have met that way. It is definitely not an easy thing to do. The thing that I have tried sharing with my male friends is that the feminist narrative does not speak for all or even most women. They are louder, and they get more media attention. So, it makes it seem like the majority of women are in agreement with the notion that men are dangerous or predators. That's a ridiculous notion. 🙄 As human beings,…
/r/MensRights17/06/24 10:41 PM
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This kind of stuff makes me so discouraged about the future. I am not worried that every man is going to attack me. For goodness sakes, I can't imagine how much imagination women who do must have. They have created this "us versus them" attitude. I'm more uncomfortable because of stuff like this. I am worried that I will make a man uncomfortable if I start a conversation with them or even make eye contact and smile. I am a very friendly person who has no vile intentions to make anyone uncomforta…
/r/MensRights17/06/24 05:57 PM
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Thank you. I appreciate your kindness.
/r/MensRights15/06/24 06:09 PM
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You are correct. 💯
/r/MensRights14/06/24 05:28 PM
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I'm sorry you're going through this. I have lost several friends because I don't buy into the feminist narrative. It hurts to hear people you know have good hearts talk about men like they're dirt. As a woman, I am expected to side with them. When I don't, people automatically link me to the far right. The truth is that I don't support hatred towards anyone. I believe we need each other to survive, so it doesn't make sense for us to fight against equality. Live and let live. I am not sure where …
/r/MensRights14/06/24 05:21 PM
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I wish that I had an answer for you. Sadly, I have had the same kind of argument with men and women. You can imagine the colorful words hurled at me when I speak out against the way men are treated by the family court system and the utter lack of reproductive rights given to men. The women tell me that I have internalized misogyny, blah blah, ..patriarchy. I expect it from them, but the men who argue with me make my head hurt. I'm not sure if they think I am trying to trick them or if they hones…
/r/MensRights13/06/24 09:07 PM
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100% agree with you.
/r/MensRights13/06/24 03:21 AM
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I support it.
/r/MensRights08/06/24 11:12 PM
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I feel like there are plenty of jobs that we are qualified to do as women. If there are women who want to pursue positions in physically demanding or male dominated fields, then they should be able to do the job at the same level as the men. I hear women bitching about the money men make on oil rigs, and have yet to meet any who have actually been interested in doing the job.
/r/MensRights08/06/24 11:08 PM
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My pleasure. I'm so glad you are in therapy. I learned a lot about myself when I started seeing a therapist. I think it's admirable that you want to work on yourself first. It's going to benefit you in so many ways. It is easy to close yourself off after you have been hurt, but I am so glad you are approaching your life differently. I wish you all the happiness and love you can handle. Please let us know how things are going. I read the posts here often, and you can message me directly if you ev…
/r/MensRights08/06/24 07:49 PM
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It's usually when you are comfortable with yourself that you meet someone. You have been through hell, and that is going to make it hard for you going forward. You have experienced enough to know what you don't want. So, if you meet someone who you are interested in, watch for red flags. I never thought I would find a partner, but I've been married for 23 years now. It just took finding the right person. I am sorry for all that you've endured.
/r/MensRights08/06/24 07:11 PM
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My opinion is that it is his body, so he can decide. I would have been upset if I were his wife because I never made reproductive decisions without including my husband. This raises questions as to how strong of a marriage they have. I think there's some underlying issues that they have going on.
/r/MensRights08/06/24 06:56 PM
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I am a woman who has a lot of empathy for men who have been abused by women, either physically or sexually. I think it's definitely harder for a man than it is for a woman. He has little to no resources, and he will be made to feel ashamed if he speaks out. I told my daughters never to raise their hand to anyone, including men, unless they are ready to take a hit back.
/r/MensRights08/06/24 06:41 PM
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That's always bothered me. It makes no sense to hire me to do a job that I am not physically able to do. I have heard of the different standards set for women in certain fields like firefighters. I weigh 115 lbs. The last person who should be carrying bodies out of a burning building is someone my size. It's absolutely detrimental that a person be physically fit enough to do the requirements of any job. We shouldn't take shortcuts or make allowances. Obviously, there are some women who are stron…
/r/MensRights08/06/24 06:27 PM
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I am so tired of all the identity b.s. I will call anyone by the name they introduce themselves as, but I can't keep up with the ever-changing rules of gender/sexual identity. I am more concerned about the amount of attention and funding that is spent everywhere, except for men's issues. There are so many advantages given to women (myself included). It is shameful, and it has bothered me for a long time. I am honestly touched by the kindness that's been shown towards me in this sub. Men have eve…
/r/MensRights08/06/24 06:04 PM
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This is exactly the problem. Depression is not exclusive to women. There should be more help available to men who are suffering instead of making them feel inferior. They say men don't ask for help. Gee, I wonder why? What a screwed up mess we're in!
/r/MensRights07/06/24 02:00 AM
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Thank you for the links. I will definitely check them out. I have to stop myself from going to the victim mentality quite often, but once I was aware of it, that was life changing. The old golden rule is the way I try to live my life.
/r/MensRights07/06/24 01:50 AM
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My pleasure. I have seen so many men get screwed over by the courts. It is truly disheartening to hear the stories that they've been through. Women get excused for shitty parenting, laziness, abuse, and neglect. They get compensated for doing nothing. 🙄
/r/MensRights07/06/24 01:41 AM
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Thank you, IceCorrect. I'm not sure where women who disagree with feminist should go. We aren't exactly welcomed in the other subs. I am not here to take anything away from men rights. I came here to learn how to help. Would the men here prefer us to be lurkers or leave? I genuinely do not want to make anyone uncomfortable because of my presence.
/r/MensRights07/06/24 01:12 AM
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Thank you, OP. We have to show that we're not all greedy, vindictive, manipulative, b@#hs. I think it's great that you are bringing awareness to the lack of men's rights and the disturbing narrative that men are the only aggressors. I have seen plenty of men go through hell. They are not given the same resources or voice that we have. I completely understand why there are men who don't trust us. Unfortunately, they have been mistreated by women for so long that they have a hard time believing us…
/r/MensRights07/06/24 12:38 AM
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I think you are safe from having any men approach you, Canada. You must be here trolling.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 11:56 PM
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When I read posts like this, I feel sick. I imagine what it would be like to try and work all day while knowing that my children are not being cared for. I can not imagine the stress this guy is under. He is obviously trying to juggle all of the needs of his family. There's all kinds of resources that she can get, but she has to be willing. She has the victim card. Meanwhile, he will burn himself out trying to do it all.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 09:43 PM
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I'm sorry about your friend. Mens' mental health is not taken seriously. It is shameful.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 09:21 PM
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This is accurate. Your question is one that I ask myself all the time. The victim mentality is fed to us from birth. It has taken me a long time to come to terms with the lies that I was taught to believe.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 08:14 PM
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My pleasure. The media is only dividing us and sowing hatred. It is so bad that I have to avoid a lot of spaces online. Otherwise, I would walk around, filled with anger and hatred. I refuse to give them the satisfaction. They are a joke, a cruel one at that!
/r/MensRights06/06/24 07:54 PM
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I am not alone in my thinking. The feminist are trying to speak for all of us. It isn't repulsive when I hear or see the statistics on men's mental health. It is a crisis, and it is not given the attention that it deserves. I am ashamed of the way men are treated by society, especially by women. I try to talk to women in person about these inequalities. It is far more effective than trying to fight the herd online.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 07:51 PM
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More propaganda from the feminist. 🥱
/r/MensRights05/06/24 10:25 PM
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What happened to you OP was wrong. She should have stopped when you said no. I hate that men are automatically seen as the perpetrators of sexual assault and rape. The fact that she laughs about it and doesn't see the problem with her behavior is appalling. I am so sorry. The feminist are loud and receive a lot of attention, but there are plenty of women like me who disagree with them. I respect everyone until they give me a reason not to. You have every reason to be fed up with the double stand…
/r/MensRights05/06/24 01:06 AM
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The reason why our marriage is successful is because of mutual respect and loyalty. I would never betray his confidence. It took me years to earn his trust and for him to feel comfortable being vulnerable with me. I don't take it lightly. It does make me sad that more people don't have the kind of relationship that we do.
/r/MensRights05/06/24 12:32 AM
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Sorry, you should not have to deal with trolls. Autoimmune conditions are a nightmare. We definitely do not give mens health enough attention. It is always about women and children. I am usually called a troll when I comment on how unfair it is.
/r/MensRights05/06/24 12:14 AM
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I wish that I knew. My husband is trying very hard to express his wants and needs for the first time at 50 years old. He has been programmed his whole life to work hard, take care of his family, and keep his feelings to himself. I have been married to him for 23 years. It has been a long, hard road to convince him that he matters. It breaks my heart that he tells me that I am the only one who cares. Men have been taught to hold their feelings inside, or worse than that, their feelings aren't imp…
/r/MensRights03/06/24 05:37 PM
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I agree with you. Men's mental health and happiness are not considered to be as important as women's. It is disgusting to watch the way it is portrayed in the media. Anytime a man tries to speak out about his experiences, there are 10 feminist who talk over him and belittle him.
/r/MensRights28/05/24 05:22 PM
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I am so sorry about your friend. I think it is good that you are spreading awareness about HPV. It might prevent others from having a similar outcome.
/r/MensRights28/05/24 04:54 PM
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This is not acceptable for anyone to do. It is a disgusting power play. I am so sorry you had to experience that. I'm glad that she wasn't trying to force you into impregnating her, but you should definitely get tested asap. It is your choice as to how you handle it. I personally wouldn't want to risk having future sexual encounters with someone who has such little respect for me. No matter what you decide, just know there's a lot of people who support you here.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 04:39 PM
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I know you are getting a lot of downvotes, but thank you. There are many of us women who are tired of the insanity that feminist are spewing. I believe that society benefits from masculinity and femininity. We are at our best when we are working together. There's so much propaganda being pushed on us through the media, educators, and government. I don't view men as enemies, and I certainly don't want them to see me that way. I'll take the downvotes. I'd rather be honest than popular. Lol
/r/MensRights23/05/24 09:33 PM
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There are women like myself who are willing to help. Feminist do not speak for all of us.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 10:15 PM
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I think the problems exist because they are expecting boys to act like girls. Sadly, I know that I was a pain in the ass in the classroom. I had ADHD and I was constantly talking during class. Boys were just restless, and at least in my opinion, they would question the teachers more. They dared to ask why we had to do certain assignments. They're a lot more inquisitive than girls. Even in grade school, it was apparent that the boys were treated differently. My guy friends were talked down to or …
/r/MensRights17/05/24 10:22 PM
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My reaction to domestic violence is the same regardless of the gender of the abuser. It is a very tough situation to navigate, and I can show kindness to the abused. It certainly isn't a movie. I grew up in a home of violence and alcoholism. I don't wish that on anyone. You don't have to be cruel or rude to get your point across. If you don't like what you're reading, keep scrolling instead of being an ass.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 12:59 AM
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I-Gilgamesh kick rocks! It seems you lack empathy, and we don't need your nasty attitude!
/r/MensRights13/05/24 10:28 PM
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My heart hurts for you. I understand that you want to keep your family together, but if your wife is not willing or able to stop drinking, it will get worse. I don't care what the authorities said. You are the victim of domestic violence. I have seen male friends and family members go through similar situations. I grew up with alcoholic parents, and the environment was very toxic and unstable. I don't wish that on you or your children. If your wife wants to make it work, then she has to stop dri…
/r/MensRights13/05/24 10:13 PM
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It definitely opened my eyes. Their magazine was rejected for bloodletting during sexual acts, sex acts with animals, and they had scenes of violent rape role play in their publications. All of those were against the law in the state. I saw some seriously sick stuff that would haunt me for years. I was young when I took that job. I walked away with a very broad knowledge of the different fetishes that American women and men have. There was a lot more information than I needed to know. 😆
/r/MensRights13/05/24 09:29 PM
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As a woman, I absolutely agree. Equal rights = equal responsibilities. It should be that way.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 08:17 PM
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I worked for a magazine distribution company that distributed all of the pornograghy magazines. I had to go through each page and make sure that the publications did not use any underage or illegal pictures. The company that was constantly being sent back for breaking the laws was completely run by women. I was only 20 years old at the time. I learned that we women could be just as perverse or sexual as men, and in some cases more so. 🤔
/r/MensRights03/05/24 04:31 PM
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I think they should just leave it where it belongs! 😏
/r/MensRights03/05/24 04:22 PM
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It's disgusting, but not surprising anymore. 😒 WTF is wrong with society!!
/r/MensRights03/05/24 12:02 AM
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This sounds like it came out of jealousy and anger. I know that it hurts when someone you love speaks to you that way, but I don't think that she meant it. I'm a woman who has been married for 23 years, and the hardest lesson in marriage was learning to communicate with my husband. Words can never be taken back. I had to find ways to cope with the day to day stress without taking my frustration out on my husband. It's hard when you have little ones. They are very adorable, but they will drive yo…
/r/MensRights24/04/24 01:50 AM
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This is just my opinion about information you find on posts online, but it is almost all bullshit. People can say just about any crazy thing, and there will be commenters who will adamantly agree with them. Every human being is looking for acceptance. Psychology has done studies, and people follow the same trends or mindsets in an effort to feel included or "normal," whatever that is. I love to observe those kinds of discussions. People will say things online that they would never say in real li…
/r/MensRights19/04/24 08:50 PM
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I can't even stand to listen to that trash show. I am not on TikTok either. Just more hate spewing b.s. I'm not sure there's anywhere that's safe to get away from this stuff. It makes me sad that my husband has accepted that this is just the way the world is. I don't think that's something that I can accept.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 08:25 PM
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There's nothing wrong with you not wanting a relationship. I think a lot of people are miserable because they're stuck in relationships. Mainly because it's expected of them. Enjoy your life however you choose.
/r/MensRights18/04/24 01:00 AM
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How very typical of a feminist. 🙄 They love to talk, but only to those who will agree with them. I hear blah..blah..blah blah blah. 😐
/r/MensRights17/04/24 08:11 PM
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No need to thank me. It is my pleasure!
/r/MensRights17/04/24 08:04 PM
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I can't speak on what a feminist would say. As a woman, the idea of life without men would be hell on earth. I believe that both genders compliment one another or we used to before the extreme feminist movement went off the rails. It seems that common sense is rare these days. I can't stand up with the feminist movement because they don't practice what they preach. If they really wanted equality, they would be holding protests outside of our judicial system. Women are given lesser punishments th…
/r/MensRights17/04/24 06:51 PM
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Feminist don't like facts. All they care about is their feelings. I have provided the data to back up my arguments for ways that men are the oppressed ones. They just call me names for being a woman who wants equality for men and women. Go figure.
/r/MensRights14/04/24 02:37 AM
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I've gotten that one a lot. They love to call me a traitor or tell me to get back in the kitchen. I have only been disrespected in the sub once, I have been called all kinds of nasty things for pointing out the inconsistency of the feminist movement. They don't like facts.
/r/MensRights14/04/24 02:24 AM
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I agree. Let the downvotes come for me, too!
/r/MensRights13/04/24 03:43 AM
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My pleasure. 😃
/r/MensRights11/04/24 07:23 PM
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I think it's definitely harder for a man to get a word in amongst a group of women. I also think that women tend to go along to get along with the majority. That's one of the biggest problems in society, in my opinion. Hard-core feminist are not open to having discussions unless you agree with them. It's the same with politics. The only way to learn is to open your mind/ears to different perspectives. I think it is probably easier to talk one on one for most people. It's not just a you thing. Lo…
/r/MensRights11/04/24 06:26 PM
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That makes me so sad. It always makes me smile when I see men out with their children, especially daughter's. When our children were growing up, I would take our son out for the day to spend one on one time with him, and my husband would take out our daughters. Our children are 18, 23,28 now, and they have fond memories of those times. It gave them a chance to bond with their dad. I'm sorry that happened to you.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 05:57 PM
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As a mother, my heart aches for you. I can't imagine how much it must have hurt you to be told such vile and cruel things. You deserved to be loved unconditionally. I have taken in my children's friends whose parents couldn't be bothered by raising them. I hope you find some peace. If you ever need to chat, please feel free to message me. There are so many wonderful men in this sub. If you're more comfortable chatting with a man, I know you can find plenty to help. ( Hugs)
/r/MensRights11/04/24 05:42 PM
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I have known many women like that. I thank God every day that I never turned out like them. The ignorance that I hear coming out of the mouths of some women makes me ashamed to be one.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 05:27 PM
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That's why I don't get on TikTok. I don't use Facebook anymore either. Its constant negativity and people trying to bait me into an argument. They don't like me because I don't agree with them and I am a woman. I have had luck talking to women in real life about my opinions, but the social media mob is out of control.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 05:20 PM
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Exactly. I had a great conversation last night with my husband about the whole toxic mansplaining b.s. It is something that irks me when my friends use that term. In all honesty, we (women) talk over men all the time, and most of us don't even realize it. I have had to really become aware of it and stop myself. Being able to listen to men without interrupting them has led to better relationships with the men in my life. I have encouraged my girlfriends to do the same thing. As far as the toxic m…
/r/MensRights11/04/24 04:30 PM
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That's what I was thinking.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 11:37 PM
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I'm sorry you are going through this right now. I don't know how long you were married but I am sure that you will be better off in the long run. She either doesn't know or doesn't care that she was mean/abusive. Either way, you don't want to spend your life with someone like that. You deserve better.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 11:21 PM
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I am.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 10:31 PM
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I get what you're saying. I have taught my son that no one has the right to put their hands on him without consent, including women. You absolutely have that right. I am not sure why you're getting downvoted for it.
/r/MensRights09/04/24 05:30 PM
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I have observed many instances in my life that boys or men were demonized. In school, I had ADHD and the teachers would tell me that boredom was my problem.They would compliment me on my intelligence and give me extra assignments to keep me occupied. Now, a boy in my class with the same problem was cruelly punished. He was made to sit alone in the back of the classroom, and he wasn't allowed to talk to anyone. Teachers treated us differently. He was told that he was bad. It happened repeatedly w…
/r/MensRights09/04/24 04:40 PM
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I am glad to offer you any reassurance that I can. Dating is not what it used to be. I do know that a lot of the women that I've talked to are of the same mindset. They believe that the days of feminist reaching for equality is over. There is definitely a double standard expected of men. The same women who scream that they don't need men are the first to report to their friends what they got some guy to buy them. I have cut ties with several women because of that kind of behavior. I just want me…
/r/MensRights09/04/24 03:08 PM
1

No problem. My thoughts on this are that I couldn't get pregnant alone. Therefore, I have enough respect to discuss our choices with the man. The double standards are so ingrained by society that many people don't know they exist.
/r/MensRights08/04/24 02:32 AM
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I have that with my husband. Our relationship isn't built on trying to change each other. I actually started noticing the extreme feminist culture, and that brought me here to understand the male experience. It opened my eyes. I believe in equality and thought that I had always been that way. Sadly, I am having to unpack years of ignorance and programming that I learned as a little girl. Ignorance does not equal mean innocence. I was given an unfair advantage because I am a woman. I do believe t…
/r/MensRights08/04/24 02:24 AM
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I agree with your comment 💯. It has frustrated me to no end. When I hear women complaining about "harassment," they have been subjected to it's the ugliest women. They'll swear up and down that they're tired of being objectified. I'm one of those women who will tell them that absolutely no one is trying to. The fact that they shaved their hair off, dyed it orange, and have 20 piercings on their face is likely the reason for the staring. You can imagine how popular I am. :) I feel sorry for futur…
/r/MensRights07/04/24 10:51 PM
1

My pleasure. I'm glad this exists because it is a nightmare online for anyone who doesn't agree with the masses. I don't mind debating with people, but sometimes it's nice to find people who are like-minded.
/r/MensRights05/04/24 08:16 PM
1

Blowing off steam is very important, and I know there aren't many places for men to do so. I am glad you're standing up for yourself, in spite of the way you were raised. You have already figured out how you should be treated. That is rare these days. I wish you only the best!
/r/MensRights05/04/24 08:11 PM
1

My pleasure. I'm trying to teach him to think for himself, but it's difficult when young men are getting so many mixed messages. I appreciate your kindness. My daughters are both grown now, and proudly, neither is a modern feminist. 😆
/r/MensRights05/04/24 07:59 PM
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There's no need to thank me. I'm sorry that things are so screwed up that men and women can't communicate in a meaningful way. Society has created monsters. I am used to getting ganged up on when I try to present facts to women about the lack of mens rights. They have been told that their feelings are more important than science or facts. I still try to get the word out. I don't believe that women are inherently bad/ hateful. We've just been programmed to believe a lot of lies. I think there's s…
/r/MensRights05/04/24 07:39 PM
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I have been in more heated discussions than you can imagine. I'm a woman who does speak up, and occasionally, I have even managed to get through to some people. I understand the reason for MGTOW. It is sad that it's come to that, but considering the cost to a man if a woman decides to be vindictive, it's certainly understandable. Women are hateful because they've been taught to be that way. Little girls are sugar and spice..blah..blah. It is disgusting, but the lives of women and children are pl…
/r/MensRights05/04/24 06:17 PM
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Shit like that blows my mind. I would never expect my husband to have sex with me if he wasn't into it. This kind of entitlement is what drives me insane with worry about the future for my son. I know that I can't understand what it is like to be a man, so I am not trying to piss anyone off by being here. I just struggle to find groups that don't rip me to shreds for not believing in the feminist hype. I support mens rights. It is not something that seems like a hard concept, and most of the men…
/r/MensRights02/04/24 09:21 PM
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Sadly, I have seen this over and over with friends and family members who got screwed over by the courts and greedy ass women. There are so many mixed messages being taught to boys and men. Women want to cherry-pick parts of traditional male/female roles in relationships/workplace, but they don't want to split the work 50/50. When I started dating my husband, we had long conversations about how we would divide finances, and we discussed if or how we wanted to raise children. It was a compromise …
/r/MensRights02/04/24 12:21 AM
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I am going to be coming from a different perspective as a woman, but I believe that anyone who does not want to be married or have children shouldn't. I am one of the women who roll my eyes every time I see stupid, over the top feminist bitching online or in RL. I think men are getting a raw deal, period. But, I have been happily married for 23 years to an amazing man. So, I still hold out hope that those who want to find love can and will. There are plenty of women who agree with me. Real equal…
/r/MensRights01/04/24 07:21 PM
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You are definitely not the bad guy. Unfortunately, you gave your heart to a selfish person who was not willing to put in the work or match your efforts in the relationship. I know that it hurts to let go of the expectations you had of your marriage. You will be able to spot the same selfishness in a prospective woman if you keep your eyes open. I am sorry you gave so much to someone who didn't deserve you. You don't have to close your heart to love, but I would definitely close the door to your …
/r/MensRights11/02/24 08:06 PM
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I am glad you had her in your life. I feel so blessed to have found my husband 23 years ago. 💓 The shit that single people are going through now is unbelievable. I can't imagine trying to navigate dating these days, especially for men. I feel like men are damned if they do and damned if they don't where dating is concerned. I am an optimistic person, and I have a hard time seeing how things are going to get better.
/r/MensRights13/07/23 04:42 PM
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My pleasure. I wish there was more I could offer than just words. I will never stop talking about the injustices men face because of situations just like yours. 🙏
/r/MensRights11/07/23 09:07 PM
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I don't have any answers for you, but I am so sorry you're going through this. I hate that some women use the kids as pawns to torment their ex. It is traumatizing for the child and their father. The system is completely screwed up. I have been saying this to anyone who would listen for many years. Apparently, because I am a woman, I am a traitor. 🙄 I'd rather be called a traitor than be a bitter heartless bitch. I honestly don't care about what they say. Situations like yours are absolutely hea…
/r/MensRights09/07/23 02:22 AM
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I am a woman and am the 1st to admit that I have it so much easier than men. I have been telling that to everyone for years. That is why I want no part of the feminist movement. They believe in equality only when it serves them. The rest of the time its all about how they have been victims of the patriarchal society...blah...blah...blah. It is utter bullshit. Just my opinion.
/r/MensRights03/07/23 03:37 PM
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We would get along great OP. 😀 It is nice to know other Women are calling people out. I have taken a lot of heat for being outspoken about the hypocrisy of feminists. They hate it when we use facts and make sense. That's usually when they start name-calling. Lol
/r/MensRights11/02/23 07:19 PM
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I think anyone who calls Men privileged in today's society is a moron. Raising a young Son today is depressing because I know what he is going to face.
/r/MensRights11/01/23 03:24 PM
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A good Woman won't try to keep you from having friendships. If anything, she will encourage you to spend time with your buddies. I've been married for 20 years and have an amazing marriage because I don't try to be the only person in his life that he can spend time with. We have a great time together, and we need time apart. Don't settle for anything less. I've watched so many of my Male friend's settle and now they're miserable.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 06:07 PM
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I am not a Man, but I think it's b.s. that there's been such a negative applied to Mens clubs or organizations. I have all kinds of options for Women only places to go. Just more toxic bullshit that feminist are peddling. I encourage my husband to spend time with his friend's solo. I know that he needs more than my company, or perspectives. We all need that. Why these nut jobs can't get that through their thick skulls I will never know. 😤
/r/MensRights31/10/22 05:57 PM
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Thank you. 😊
/r/MensRights03/08/22 04:10 AM
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My pleasure
/r/MensRights14/04/22 07:01 PM
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My pleasure.
/r/MensRights14/04/22 07:01 PM
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This isn't directly related to this post, but I'm so tired of the news media using Women and Children fleeing the Ukraine as there lead. While my heart goes out to all the victims of this war. I would like to hear them express concern over the Men who've been left behind to fight. How many of them have been killed, I haven't heard much about them. The horror & outrage has been placed on deaths of Women/children. Obviously, it's sad that they've been killed. I think it's disgusting though that th…
/r/MensRights14/04/22 05:28 PM
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This article is horse 💩. My husband has stuck by me for 20 years even though I have epilepsy. I've known plenty of selfish Women who left their husband's because they're narcissist. I've gotten to the point that I'm not interested in having new Women friends. I can't deal with the victim mentality that many of them have. I'm grateful that I have such a great Man. We're best friends and lover's. I definitely see Men as the ones getting the raw deal. Especially in our society today. Women act like…
/r/MensRights09/02/22 01:45 AM
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Thank you. I have tried to spread the truth to those Women who will listen. It is disgusting how far this crap goes. Many of the feminist claim to be advocating for equality. Obviously that's a lie or they would be holding up signs outside of the courts. Demanding an end to harsher sentencing, child custody and all the other inequalities in our systems. I've known for some time that it is crap. Women have places where it is Women only. If a Man does that he is a sexist pig. Bunch of 💩!
/r/MensRights04/12/21 12:26 AM
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Woman here.👋 I agree with your valid concerns. I'm raising a young Man (15 yr old.) I have had to talk to him about the unfair treatment he receives at school, and also about the importance of safety around girls/Women. That's a hard thing to do. I've already raised two daughter's. They have been shown the evidence of the biases towards Boys/Men in all that you listed above. Many of us Women do see you & here you all and we stand with you. Equality is why you are here.
/r/MensRights03/12/21 11:01 PM
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They are complete morons. Always whining that their own shitty behavior is all due to the patriarchy. 😒
/r/MensRights09/11/21 01:22 AM
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Signed along with a comment supporting Men and their rights to speak freely, just as Women are given. Feminist have blatantly tried to silence Men. They have denied the fact that Men are victims of both sexual assault, domestic violence. For f!#k sakes, give Men the same respect as Women. 😤
/r/MensRights09/11/21 01:14 AM
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I'm no therapist, but I am a Woman and your traumas should absolutely be valid. I cannot imagine not having resentments after your experiences. I hate that Men are not given the same consideration as Women when it comes to sexual/physical/emotional abuses. There is such a need for Male therapist, and also domestic violence shelters. That is one of many things that disgust me about the feminist movement. You can not claim to be for equality, and then silence Men who have suffered abuses at the ha…
/r/MensRights05/11/21 02:24 AM
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Sadly, I've noticed the few & far behind also. I do believe there are more & more Women beginning to see the true intentions of the Feminist movement. As they do I suspect that may be a huge turning point for Mens Rights. I will continue to try to reach out to those who are willing to listen.
/r/MensRights01/11/21 07:34 AM
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I'm a Woman and it saddens me to say you are right. I have had to work on changing the behaviors that were taught to me by other Women. I am proud to say that I no longer have a problem with integrity, accountability, and believe a job should be earned based on skill level. I also feel that if education or professions the bar should not be lowered to accommodate Women. We should either be able to carry our part of the work, or choose another proffesion. Our Male co-workers should not have to wor…
/r/MensRights01/11/21 01:30 AM
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Couldn't agree more. It may be my body, but I did not impregnate myself. I think Men should absolutely be included on the decision of their prospective child and how it will impact them. It is completely up to the Woman on whether she aborts the fetus, or demands child support for 18+ year's.
/r/MensRights01/11/21 01:19 AM
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Such injustice in the court system, both in family & criminal cases. If feminist Women truly wanted equality than they wouldn't be so eager to play the victim or use their gender to receive special treatment.
/r/MensRights01/11/21 01:12 AM
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I can't say that I was ever a feminist because I have questioned their methods for many years. The original feminists were at least civil. The waves of feminism has become more & more about destroying Men, and trying to force them out of all career/family and spread lies about every man being a sexual predator to Women. Every shitty thing they do is always blamed on Men. I agreed with the sufferage Women, and parts of the Women's rights for equality movement of the 70's' and 80's' after that it …
/r/MensRights01/11/21 12:42 AM
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Culture is very strange indeed. I have never seen feminists demanding equality in our justice system, or mental health. Where are all of the shelters for Men who are fleeing domestic violence. Feminist are not concerned with Men's Right's. They only want equality when it benefits them.
/r/MensRights06/10/21 10:21 PM
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That's something I should have looked into. I have several Women friends that agree that the feminist movement is about anything but equality. They are happy to keep crying that they're victims. Meanwhile Men are the ones being mistreated in too many ways to count.
/r/MensRights06/10/21 05:35 PM
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I've been on this Sub for quite awhile. I have not posted here though. I wasn't sure how much to type. My apologies. I will make sure to add more informative information and a proper title. Thank you.
/r/MensRights06/10/21 05:30 PM
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That's disgusting. Can you imagine the outrage if something similar was expected of Women? It's a bunch of crap.
/r/MensRights06/10/21 05:27 PM
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You're right. I wasn't sure about how much to type. I'm new to posting anything. I usually only read the articles that are shared by others. My apologies. I will be more informative in future posts. Thank you for letting me know about it.
/r/MensRights06/10/21 05:25 PM
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My pleasure. You shared some great insights. That's what it should be like.
/r/MensRights30/09/21 04:29 PM
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My pleasure! 💞
/r/MensRights26/09/21 05:45 PM
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So nice to see others who feel that way. I never intend to get divorced either. 😁
/r/MensRights26/09/21 03:55 PM
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I agree with everything you mentioned. I would only add even if you don't think a Woman you marry would ever take your money it is still worth it if you want insurance on it. As a Woman I have seen many Women take as much as possible. Even when they were the ones that wanted the divorce. Now this is only my opinion. Which doesn't count for much since I was married without a prenup. I married young and didn't think about it then. My husband had to take it on faith that I would never do that to hi…
/r/MensRights26/09/21 02:47 PM
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Yep, and sadly you never here feminists who "claim" to be about equality have never mentioned a word about the bias issues in divorce, child custody, or even criminal sentencing. Seems that equality only matters when it benefits them. Bunch of hypocrites, peddling shit!
/r/MensRights26/09/21 02:38 PM
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I worked for a magazine distribution company, and part of my job was to check each all of the fetish/porn magazines. The worst violations were by one that was started by and run by Women.
/r/AntiFeminists25/09/21 05:05 PM
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It was such a proud moment when my daughter told her Principal that it was ridiculous. 👏
/r/MensRights25/09/21 04:56 PM
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It's not just you. I have witnessed this many times in both public schools and colleges. Apparently, teachers and administration are okay with these double standards. Personally, I find it harmful to boys & young Men. Not to mention giving Girls/young Women to feel superiority and view their Male classmates in a negative light. Which is also harmful to the development of Male/Female interactions in adulthood.
/r/MensRights25/09/21 04:50 PM
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I've mostly received a warm welcome on this sub, but a few Men have felt that I am intruding by being here, or being involved with Men's Right's. That is something that I do not want anyone here to feel. Many Men haven't had good experiences with Women, so I do not want them to be uncomfortable because of me. Thank you for accepting my being here.
/r/MensRights25/09/21 04:43 PM
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You're right. I let my frustration get to me. The double standard shit I see everyday is infuriating. The legal system is a shit show, and I am definitely disgusted by the fact that nothing is being done. I really hope to see things change in my lifetime.
/r/MensRights25/09/21 12:35 AM
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My pleasure. I appreciate your insights, and what you've expressed makes sense. I will definitely be more mindful of the words I choose. It's better not to fuel the victim mentality with my apology. I think the best thing for equal rights is for Men & Women to work together to achieve them. Regardless of gender there's plenty of inequalities to address. Thank you for reminding me that feminism is not only Women driven. It's a pleasure to learn & grow from exchanging viewpoints.
/r/MensRights25/09/21 12:25 AM
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Thank you very much. I've definitely found that all the stories spread about the Men's Rights movement are lies. I've been treated kindly, and have not seen any Women haters here. MGTOW have every reason & right to choose that for themselves. They are not hateful towards Women. You are correct about the feminists. They attack anyone who does not agree with them. It is insane to watch them blame their own shitty behaviors on Men. They have no personal accountability, or responsibility.
/r/MensRights25/09/21 12:09 AM
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Thank you for that. I really appreciate it. 😊
/r/MensRights24/09/21 11:55 PM
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Damn, and I thought shit was crazy in the U.S. This stuff is insane. I'm tired of seeing girls get away with everything, including murder.
/r/MensRights24/09/21 08:09 PM
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I've listened to and participated in debates on this subject and other's with Feminist. No matter the statistics, or proof that Men are being screwed over in many situations. They always circle back to it being because of the "patriarchy." That's their standard go to for everything. I finally started to talk to Women that hadn't completely gone to the feminist movement. It has been a lot more encouraging to share the inconsistency of what feminist claim to be about to Women who actually respect …
/r/MensRights24/09/21 08:00 PM
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The more I have learned from Men's Right's, the more I am disgusted by my own gender. The feminist are raving lunatics. It is sad that instead of equality it is double standards. They say equality, until it doesn't serve them. I might have been sucked into their movement had they demanded that Men have equal rights in child custody, alimony, criminal sentencing, domestic violence along with a ton more issues. Instead they treat Men like they're disposable. Men deserve so much more respect and eq…
/r/MensRights24/09/21 07:38 PM
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I'm a Woman and I have never felt it was right for Men to be judged for being emotional. My very masculine husband, and Men I dated before him have cried for various reasons. It is absolutely disgusting that Men are taught, or expected to hold back their emotions. Crying is not a sign of weakness. It is a normal way of releasing pain both physical/emotional. It actually strengthened my relationships because we both could be vulnerable & trust that we would find comfort from each other in moments…
/r/MensRights21/09/21 02:56 AM
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I'm a Woman and we haven't been treated as property in my 44 year's of experience. The current wave of feminist constantly bitch about how oppressed Women are. Spend a little time on this sub, and read up on Men's Rights. They are only asking for equality. That should align with feminism goals, but they're too busy trying to accuse Men of being everything that is wrong with the world. The idea of equality terrifies feminist. They like the child custody disparities, as well as situations where Me…
/r/MensRights03/09/21 09:42 PM
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I think the same thing when I see the lies they spread. We're not opressed. We have pushed Men out of plenty of places. Which is absolute b.s. It is ridiculous the double standards that take place.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 05:08 PM
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My pleasure!
/r/MensRights09/08/21 12:22 PM
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The feminist aren't about equality. It's just about mind games and achieving superiority. That is their mission, and sadly they are gaining momentum.
/r/AntiFeminists09/08/21 03:45 AM
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If you find yourself feeling overwhelmed you can message me. I will do my best to reassure you. I'm not a nut job. I'm just sensitive to seeing anyone in your position. I found a truly wonderful husband, and he is my peace. Have hope!
/r/MensRights09/08/21 03:33 AM
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She definitely needs help. She would have to seek out a psychiatrist.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 03:29 AM
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I'm praying that you keep thinking about your self and your baby. You deserve to find peace.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 03:25 AM
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I'm glad she wasn't physically abusive. I hope she gets some help, but she has to want it. If there ever was a good reason it would be after you leave. I've had experience with trying to sacrifice my own happiness, only to be miserable. I grew up with an abusive Father & found myself in some bad relationships. I've wondered if the trauma somehow has made our expectations in choosing people to be too low.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 03:22 AM
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My pleasure. Cruelty to animals is a huge red flag. I really hope you find peace. When you commented about how she would get better and then regress, I knew that you wouldn't be happy. That's a minefield that never stops.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 03:10 AM
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I'm glad you have a plan. Someone had mentioned keeping a log on everything which will give you huge benefits. It's obvious that you are not happy, and you deserve to be in a safe place free from her anger tantrums. I know it will be hard to walk away, but she's not going to change. I wish you happiness & a loving home with your baby.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 03:02 AM
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My husband uses his pc games to unwind. Actually, we used to play WOW together. Now I get on my phone, or watch him play and we talk about thing's happening in the World and the insanity taking place all around us. I'm happy to see his shoulders relax, and know that he is finding an outlet for stress.
/r/AntiFeminists09/08/21 02:17 AM
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I will miss this sub if they shut it down. You all have taught me so much about just how bad it is for Men. I've known feminist were out of control a long time, but seeing the many ways they are tearing down Men has been very eye opening. From reading the articles posted here, and reading comments from a Man's perspective. It has made me want to keep talking about Men's Right's to Women who haven't been sucked into the lies that the feminist movement is peddling. So, if they do ban this group. I…
/r/MensRights09/08/21 02:08 AM
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There are Women that are sick of feminist abusing Men. They spread their nasty message on any sub, or social media platform. I am tired of their tired narratives. They aren't for equality at all.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 01:57 AM
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Obviously, she isn't stable mentally. Has she ever been diagnosed with anything? Is what I was asking.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 01:45 AM
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This sounds horrible. Is she mentally unstable? Can you adopt her other children? I hope you don't mind the questions. I'm just trying to see what options you may have if it gets to be any worse.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 01:40 AM
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We are growing in numbers. Women are getting fed up with the Man bashing. It's a crock of shit they make up. They are liars who want to take over, and make Men do the heavy lifting with no recognition given for their sacrifice. There isn't anything you can say about feminist Women that I won't agree with you on. They are relentless in their false "equality" position. Statistics prove that, but they won't shut up long enough to discuss it.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 01:07 AM
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She sounds like a psychopath. Some Women are obsessed with breaking a Man's spirit. I wish they had visible physical signs that they're wackjobs. It would make life so much easier for Men. Sorry yesterday was rough.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 12:58 AM
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I'm sorry you had a bad day. I hope tomorrow is a better one for you.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 12:53 AM
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I don't know why they allow it, but I am so glad to have this sub to come to. I'm an anti-feminist Woman, and you all have made me feel so welcome compared with even the most simple pages. I get so tired of being hen pecked for engaging in conversations about the disgusting way in which Women hate on Men. I'm not willing to bow down and agree with them, so I usually pop over to this group to collect myself and learn more about Men's Right's. I'm not trying to take anything from the Male perspect…
/r/MensRights09/08/21 12:51 AM
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Thank you. I kinda went on a rant. I'm glad I didn't offend you. :)
/r/MensRights08/08/21 03:42 PM
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Thank you. I supported my husband when we first started living together. I wasn't out for his money. Which was a good thing because at that time he was paying 2k a month in childs support, and paying off his ex-wives debts that she ran up when they were married. That was almost 20 year's ago. I've never regretted my decision. We've been married 20 year's, and I love him and his daughter. We added some siblings for her, and she even moved in with us when she was little. Women that only look at th…
/r/MensRights08/08/21 03:40 PM
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I am so sorry if I shared too much. Even in spite of Jenny's treatment of Forrest, it was actually a very good movie. Tom Hanks did an incredible job with playing Forrest. I truly hope I didn't spoil it for you.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 03:31 PM
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Exactly. I'm not in competition with Men. I agree about being complimentary. I think that's part of the reason for the high divorce rates. If we could share ideas stop arguing about who is superior, and listen to both points of view we might actually get somewhere. Unfortunately, the feminists aren't much for listening.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 12:55 AM
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I wasn't offended by the film. However, people were bitching about it, but look at how many Harley Quinn Halloween costumes were sold after the first film. I saw little girls 4-8 year's old walking around in these costumes. Apparently, no one bats an eye over little girl's dressing provocatively. My parent's would have never let me dress like that. Feminists say one thing, but allow this shit and were wearing the costumes themselves. My Male friend's who have little girls would not go for that b…
/r/MensRights08/08/21 12:46 AM
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Thank you for sharing the link. I'm looking forward to reading the book.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 11:40 PM
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I loved the film, minus the Jenny relationship. He had such a loving and trusting spirit. She did him dirty. He wasn't an intellectual Man, but he managed to do some incredible things throughout the movie. She was nice to him when they were kids. My thoughts are she was a follower. She was always looking for some random guy to glob onto. Finally ended up living in the fast lane of sex & drugs. I always thought she died of Aids. Forrest was a do the right thing kind of Man. Jenny waited until she…
/r/MensRights07/08/21 11:28 PM
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Anytime, but it is I that is thankful. Men have had to endure such malicious double standards, and even neglect. I will continue to spread the word. I'm in a rural part of Kansas, I wish we had a local Men's Right's group. I'm thankful for this sub. It will break my heart if they ban it like the other's.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 08:10 PM
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I saw a YouTube video quite awhile ago, and it made me look into Men's Right's. I had heard all the crap about it being a bunch of Woman haters, but I read information and that was not the case. Even before the video, I saw there was a bias against Men. All the way back in grade school I remember the teacher's treated Boys differently. They acted like teaching them was a waste of time. It bothered me even then. I'm a nurturing type of person. So seeing anyone being mistreated really gets to me. …
/r/MensRights07/08/21 07:56 PM
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I think that's one of the things that really made me start looking into Men's Right's. The legal system favors Women in all areas. Society has definitely bought into the propaganda.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 07:23 PM
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Anytime. Hugs right back. :)
/r/MensRights07/08/21 06:05 PM
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I appreciate that. We are like minded. I hope you have a great day also!
/r/MensRights07/08/21 05:55 PM
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Add that to the list of manipulative things that Women get away with. It's such a messed up place that we live in. Double standards are alive and well.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 05:51 PM
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My pleasure. This sub has been a nice escape from the whining feminist.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 05:14 PM
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Absolutely. Sex happens between the two people. Why do they feel entitled to not only keep the child if the relationship doesn't work out. They want the Man to pay child support, with no guarantee that it goes towards the kid's care. Double standards are what they're all about.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 04:31 PM
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Yeah, nothing gets them going then to let them talk and then break out evidence that shows they're full of 💩. How dare we be honest? 😁
/r/MensRights07/08/21 01:27 PM
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I've heard so many Women say the same line about feminist only want equality. I think a lot of Women need to open their eye's because the feminist movement these day's is not looking for equality. It's more like World domination. Anytime there is a problem in the World they blame Men. All the stuff Women say about needing a big penis is ridiculous. Unless they have had some kind of freak accident involving their vagina, any size is enough for the depth of a normal vagina. That irks me almost as …
/r/MensRights07/08/21 01:25 PM
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Damn, that's scary. I'm sure they would love to shoot me. I've caught some verbal attacks for sure. They consider me a traitor because I refuse to agree with them, and I am a Woman. They hate it when I bring up the fact that Men are the ones being oppressed. That really gets them frothing at the mouth. 😂
/r/MensRights07/08/21 12:44 PM
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You are right. The whining & screeching is like a badly behaved toddler throwing a fit.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 12:33 PM
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They are nauseating. The victim mentality is over the top. I've yet to hear any of them silenced. Usually, they're talking over everyone.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 12:24 PM
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I definitely believe in equal right's, but it needs to actually be equal for both Men & Women. The current feminist movement is not about equality. At least in my opinion. As far as the word bitch, when directing it at yourself seems stupid for them to be triggered by. I've said things like I'm that bitch who... It is just a word.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 02:07 AM
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If you are happy that's all that matters. That's why I sought out a safe place to discuss my disgust with feminist. They are forever bitching about everything, and feel that they are experts on Men's motives. Heaven forbid they work on themselves. I've always been attracted to older Men. The first thing a feminist told me was that's gross, and that I had Daddy issues. No, I just like what I like. In my experience I have an easier time relating to older Men. Girl, I think it's great. You've obvio…
/r/MensRights07/08/21 01:51 AM
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My pleasure. Honestly, everyone on here has been surprisingly welcoming. I am just so tired of the Men bashing on the other subs. Being a Woman against the feminist movement doesn't make me likeable there for some reason. 😂
/r/MensRights06/08/21 08:02 PM
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I always dated much older Men before I married. My ex was 41 when I turned 21. We were very compatible for several year's, and we're still close friends now. My husband is 6 year's older. I don't care if younger Women are in relationships with older Men, or the reverse. Who gives a shit. As long as both are consenting adults people need to get over it and worry about their own relationships.
/r/MensRights06/08/21 07:24 PM
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Morning after regret is now considered rape by Women. 😒 Women used to take accountability for their decisions. Not anymore apparently. College was a blast when I was going. Bunch of virtue signaling madness now.
/r/MensRights06/08/21 04:29 PM
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I'm a married lady now, but in my single days I had sex a few times when I was drunk. I never blamed anyone but myself for those decisions. These rape accusations Women use now are ridiculous. I could see if they were drugged, but if a Woman chooses to drink excessively in a social environment than she should be accountable for her own bad decisions. No one is forced to go to a bar, party, or anywhere else, and drink. Stay home and knit in the safety of your home if you are worried. Morning afte…
/r/MensRights06/08/21 04:24 PM
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Probably not, but I sure would like to see that happen though. So much for equality. The feminist can say that all they want, but until they stop playing the victim card we will never be equals. I'm not sorry that I'm a Woman, but hate that by gender I am associated with these vapid bitches.
/r/MensRights06/08/21 02:45 PM
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You're right. I don't disagree with anything you wrote. Especially, on the need for Boys to be taught by Men. Female teacher's often praise girls, and ignore boys. That combined with Women raising their Son's with no male role models is definitely one of the biggest contributors to the problems Men face today. Women have pushed their way into every Male dominated space. Meanwhile, it is fine for Women to have spaces that exclude Men, Women only gyms is one example. It's all double standards. Wha…
/r/MensRights06/08/21 02:14 PM
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Agree with your comment, and truthfully I feel bad for Men with bigger than average sizes. It's not like they can go any deeper, and orally unless they meet a pornstar the average Woman will not be able to really accommodate 8+ in their mouth very far. Although, I love listening to pillow princesses brag about how they can deep throat their 9-12 inch Man. Okay, Becky you sword swallower! 😂 Before I married I never chose a person based on penis size, but I know that I felt more able to satisfy an…
/r/MensRights05/08/21 09:19 PM
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Just as Men were taught to behave in a certain way since early childhood, so were Women. That stuff is so ingrained into our mind's that it's hard to learn to change ourselves. What I was told vs the truth is what brought me to this sub, and other resources online. The media & educational systems are still telling us & future generations that Women aren't given opportunities, or our the victims in everything. I live in a rural part of the Midwest where most Men believe in the ideals of what they…
/r/MensRights05/08/21 08:47 PM
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You are doing what works best for you by not dating. There's nothing wrong with that. You are protecting yourself. If people don't like it they can suck it up. It's your body, and your life!
/r/MensRights05/08/21 12:27 AM
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I hear Women calling themselves, and other Women sluts far more than Men.
/r/MensRights05/08/21 12:11 AM
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You said it perfectly. They all think that they're a catch, but if anything they are ones who need to check themselves in a mirror & look at their soul while they're at it. There's quite a few Women who think the way I do. They just don't bother coming to social media sites because there's always trolls from the feminist movement that attack them. I'm listening to the Men in this group, and using the information to talk to Women about how the narrative we have been told is wrong. Men are being o…
/r/MensRights05/08/21 12:06 AM
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It makes me genuinely sad that many Men are so insecure about their penis size because of the nasty comments they have heard from Women. I've explained that those Women are vapid, bitches who will complain about Men, but not recognize their multitude of flaws in themselves. The vagina is only so deep. These Women talking about 9-12 inches are morons. Men who are average size have it best. I won't explain in any detail because I do not want to offend anyone.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 11:57 PM
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I get it. It's your preference. You have every right to choose who you date or, have sex with. I can tell you Women have a laundry list of preferences. Most of which would fall under body shaming if a Man did the same.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 11:48 PM
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Agreed. Women make long lists of what they consider attractive, and nobody has a problem with them saying tall, athletic, financially well off, and blah blah. A Man says I prefer petite Women who take care of their bodies and keep their bodies lean are immediately attacked. Man/Woman preference is just that a personal preference that we shouldn't have to defend. As a Woman I have heard Women complain about Men who are overweight, too skinny, bald, not bald. Another thing I noticed over the year'…
/r/MensRights04/08/21 11:31 PM
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If you are in disagreement with Men's rights, and their choice of discussions there are many other groups on Reddit. It seems that you want to argue and create drama here that is not wanted or needed. You feel that Women are the victim's, and in some cases that may be, but there's plenty of abuses that Men have had to endure. Only in the case of a Man who has been assaulted they have no shelters to go to, and society still judges Men who come forward. You could learn a lot from this sub if you s…
/r/MensRights04/08/21 11:08 PM
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Why come here to troll a Men's right's group? They are not Women haters. They have every right to discuss their opinions, and experiences as Men. I'm a Woman by the way, and I have been treated with nothing but respect from this sub. They aren't saying Women shouldn't have right's. They are simply advocating for equal right's. If you don't understand that concept than you are in the wrong place. Look at the conversations being discussed here vs the feminist subs. There's no hate here. If that is…
/r/MensRights04/08/21 02:38 PM
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Unfortunately. My experiences and probably yours were so different when we were dating. It is scary to put yourself out there, but now it's dangerous. As you pointed out. Men haven't been treated well by Women, or the legal system. I'm worried about the future generations. I raised my two daughter's to stand on their own merits, and not take advantage of Men. My Son is aware of the double standards, and I hope he's able to navigate relationships with Women. All I can do is prepare them. They hav…
/r/MensRights04/08/21 01:34 PM
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When Men have been treated like dirt they tend to prefer trying online dating, but in my opinion that comes with a lot of problems. I wish I had answers for Men, but a lot of these Women are just toxic as hell.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 01:28 PM
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I saw the posts about that and I am disgusted by it. Freedom of speech should apply to everyone. Whether or not another group agrees or not. It's blatant censorship. Men should have a space to go for support and to discuss their own experiences. Not everything is about Women, and that is why the feminist have a fit. They want to keep spinning the victimhood narrative. It's not about equality. They're complaining about not having the same advantages, which is total b.s.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 01:24 PM
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Congratulations on 44 year's. It's definitely not easy anymore. The way things are today the idea of meeting someone of quality is difficult. I met my husband at work. Presently, that could be considered sexual harassment. Meeting over the Internet is impersonal. Behind a keyboard a Woman can tell you exactly what you want to hear, and then rip you to shreds in person. The Men that choose to stay away from Women have that right. I can understand their perspective. I just want Men to know that th…
/r/MensRights04/08/21 12:59 PM
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Feminist Women might be miserable, but there are many like myself who are happily married, and don't feel the need to be jealous of other Women. I've been married 20 years, and we have sex regularly. The rare time that I am not in the mood, I give him a blow job. It's about being in a partners. The feminist movement is using any excuse to hate Men and they see themselves as victims. I do not think my vagina all that I am good for. I'm an intelligent Woman who believes that in marriage, sex is es…
/r/MensRights04/08/21 02:43 AM
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Just another put down in their list.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 01:28 AM
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I hate to see the group being censored, and I hope they don't come after this group. If anyone can find a back-up place that we can go if this sub disappears, it is time to figure it out. I have no issue with MGTOW. I appreciate you all allowing me to be here. However, if any group wants to be Men only I can understand & respect that. Women have mistreated Men, so I understand Men who choose to stay to themselves. With all of the false allegations, and other atrocities that Women have done I wou…
/r/MensRights04/08/21 12:05 AM
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I've seen plenty of Women make multiple advances towards Men who have politely turned them down. They usually talk shit about the Men afterwards saying something along the lines of something must be wrong with him if they turned them down. It's disgusting to witness, and since I'm a Woman who believes in Men's right's it makes me angry. I've ended friendships because I tried to point out the double standards. Guess, I need to keep my phone ready and record these Women in action. Although, we all…
/r/MensRights01/08/21 07:04 PM
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Good point. Children haven't had the life experience that adults do. It's sad that a Man's life is viewed as lesser than a Woman's.
/r/MensRights31/07/21 07:25 PM
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I still have a lot of work to do to bring awareness to Men's right's, but thank you very much!
/r/MensRights31/07/21 04:44 PM
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I think they are all Men hating shrews. They only care about equality when it serves them. There's actually a lot of us who think Feminist are full of 💩 & double standards. 😁
/r/MensRights31/07/21 04:43 PM
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I'm a Woman and I see this b.s. too. A Woman, or child dying should not be seen as more tragic than a Man. All were humans, and all meant everything to someone. This world is so screwed up. I'm embarrassed by the way Men are treated.
/r/MensRights31/07/21 04:08 PM
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It is my pleasure.
/r/MensRights27/07/21 04:56 AM
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I have spoken out, and have tried to dispel the false narrative that the feminist have pushed. Men have become treated as disposable, are not getting basic human right's. I'm a loud mouth. I have taken a lot of heat for going against the feminist, but miraculously I have gotten several Women to see the inequalities Men face & the double standards. I will continue to help in any way possible.
/r/MensRights26/07/21 11:33 PM
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I may be a Woman but I would march for Men's right's if it's allowed. I'm disgusted by the attack against Men. It has been going on far too long, and it just keeps getting worse.
/r/MensRights26/07/21 06:08 PM
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It really disgusts me that this isn't happening in all states. Men are victims of domestic violence, and they should have a safe place to go. Instead they are shamed into taking the abuse. There is such a screwed up mindset about it. Women are always seen as the victims. I'm not a Woman who agrees with this, but I have met plenty of Women who are manipulative, petty, vengeful and physically abusive POS. There is so much privilege given to us that it is entirely possible for Women to assault Men …
/r/MensRights25/07/21 12:22 AM
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I'm a Woman, and I was not bothered by uncircumcised penis vs circumcised. It is not a deal breaker when you find the right person. If you care/love someone, and they lose interest because you're not circumcised that seems like a very shallow Women. If a Man told me I need to get triple G implants, I would tell him to piss off. I've had male friend's that are circumcised during early childhood or infancy, and they feel like it was wrong for their parent's to decide it for them. At least try to t…
/r/MensRights20/07/21 01:28 AM
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This kind of stuff makes me sick to my stomach. I have a Son who is 15. I would end up in prison if anyone ever raped him. The nerve of people who do not see this boy as a victim.
/r/MensRights18/07/21 12:45 AM
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My pleasure. Hopefully, more Women will see the hypocrisy themselves. The feminist movement is toxic.
/r/MensRights17/07/21 11:33 PM
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It's absolutely disgusting. Especially considering that Women have bitched about Men judging their bodies. Men are called out for even having a physical preference for Women they date. Yet, Women can make a long check list of things they want/expect from Men. As a Woman, I do not think it is okay. It's just more of the feminist double standards, and it just keeps getting worse.
/r/MensRights17/07/21 10:05 PM
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Their version of "equality". The feminist movement cherry picks what parts of equality they want, and the rest they ignore because it doesn't benefit them. I'm a Woman, but these feminazis are some selfish, greedy bitches. I've met many Women that have screwed over Men in child custody cases, and they were shitty Moms who spent the money more on themselves than their children. I think the child's best interests should be more important than Man/Woman. It definitely should not automatically entit…
/r/MensRights17/07/21 12:00 AM
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I'm a Woman, and I find it ridiculous that Men should have to pay a Woman when they are taking care of the child in a manner that the Mother is not. You should have been awarded full custody, with her having visitation. She sounds like the type of Woman who wants a free ride, and isn't willing to put in the effort to better herself. With all the propaganda the feminist movement puts out about equal rights, you never hear any mention of the inequalities in child custody cases, or demanding the en…
/r/MensRights16/07/21 11:38 PM
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I'm a Woman, and for what it's worth I believe the majority of Men have it harder in life. The feminist of today are cherry picking what they want. They are not demanding equality in the areas that don't benefit them. They don't want to have the responsibility of paying alimony/child support. They aren't demanding that court's award Men custody when it is in the best interest of the child, and have no problem with the lighter sentences that are given for committing the same crimes that Men, and …
/r/MensRights16/07/21 09:36 PM
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I hate that Men have had to learn to live with being treated so cruelly. As a Woman, I am embarrassed by the behavior of the current feminist movement. I hope thing's change. I have tried to spread awareness about the need for Men's right's. I'm so sorry that you've been made to feel like the world doesn't care about you. You deserve more than that.
/r/MensRights16/07/21 09:07 PM
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Unfortunately, there are ridiculous double standards, and false narratives regarding abuse towards Men. I'm horrified by the abuse some Men suffer. The fact that their calls for help are dismissed is truly disgusting. The lack of shelters, arrest of abusers who are female, and the dismissive attitudes being shown towards Men's right's is wrong. I'm a Woman, but I would never turn away a victim of abuse. Male or Female.
/r/MensRights16/07/21 08:58 PM
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Exactly!! 👆
/r/MensRights09/07/21 03:00 PM
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Me too. That was one of the most disgusting things, I have ever heard. It was so disrespectful to all of the Men who have served, and lost their lives or quality of life. That comment further proved to me that Men are treated as disposable.
/r/MensRights09/07/21 12:10 AM
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I've been on this sub for awhile, and as a Woman that comments on things I have only had one guy treat me like shit. I blocked him and got on with my day. I get the anger that Men have. It's understandable, but Women who support Men's right's are not the enemy. The majority of Men here are not Woman haters. They are just tired of being treated as less than, and disposable. I have felt very welcome here. I appreciate the opportunity to learn about the issues Men are facing, and sadly my opinions …
/r/MensRights09/07/21 12:01 AM
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The way some Women treat Men has really made it hard to be a Woman who disagrees with their bullshit. Thankfully, I have been married to an amazing Man for 20 year's. I've had feminist tell me I spoil my husband by fixing him a plate, or cleaning up our home. I have argued that we spoil each other. I don't understand why Men are so attacked. I have had to prepare my Son for the crap that he will encounter. The angry, ball busting Women who will judge him and treat him like shit. There is so many…
/r/MensRights04/07/21 08:48 PM
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The way some Women treat Men has really made it hard to be a Woman who disagrees with their bullshit. Thankfully, I have been married to an amazing Man for 20 year's. I've had feminist tell me I spoil my husband by fixing him a plate, or cleaning up our home. I have argued that we spoil each other. I don't understand why Men are so attacked. I have had to prepare my Son for the crap that he will encounter. The angry, ball busting Women who will judge him and treat him like shit. There is so many…
/r/MensRights04/07/21 08:47 PM
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You are absolutely correct. I gave you my measly silver because your post resonated with me. I'm a Woman by the way, but I see the complete double standards Men are up against. Men are seen as disposable. It's absolute bullshit. I do not understand the feminist movement. At least not as it currently operates. Equality should mean just that, but the problem is that modern feminist want the best of both worlds. Why aren't we fighting for equality where child custody is concerned? Why aren't we dem…
/r/MensRights20/06/21 05:58 PM
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I agree with dating apps being shallow. Spend the extra time to find your partner. I promise you it's worth it. Things have definitely changed, but I hope love and happiness finds you!
/r/MensRights19/06/21 11:50 AM
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You did not disrespect me. I cannot change the mind of a feminist any more than I can change yours. You have every right to feel the way you do. I haven't had the same experiences that you have. I'm still going to remain optimistic that things can change though. Best wishes, Ken. :)
/r/MensRights23/05/21 11:57 AM
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My support for your right's doesn't stem from anything other than equality should apply to everyone. Feminists have gone way beyond wanting equality. It has become about superiority, and wanting special treatment.
/r/MensRights22/05/21 11:38 PM
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I'm a non feminist Woman, and I am 100% in support of Men's rights. There's an obscene amount of hatred being spewed at Men. I am not the only Woman who feels this way. You just don't hear our voices because the media platforms are overrun by crazy "woke" feminist.
/r/MensRights22/05/21 09:44 PM
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First, she's a dumbass who believes it's okay to risk an innocent Man's life over false accusations. yawn They have completely pushed the narrative that only Women are raped/abused. They won't even consider the facts that Men can be victim's too. If any of these morons actually looked at the statistics, they would see that Women are not oppressed in America. We have the higher amount of college admissions & degrees. We are holding plenty of powerful positions career wise, and if anyone is being …
/r/MensRights21/05/21 01:52 AM
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Pretty sad that attention whores go to such lengths.
/r/MensRights16/05/21 08:18 PM
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The using video to record people is an invasion of privacy. Seeing people pull out their phones when someone drops to the floor and is having a heart attack, or seizure is disgusting. That's what our society has become. I'm so sorry those little snots did that to you. They are all looking to get attention on tiktok or the other social media platforms. I'm a Woman, but I worry about the way Men are being treated. There's nothing equal about feminist. They openly target Men, and encourage hatred.
/r/MensRights16/05/21 06:44 PM
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Kindness costs nothing, and yet it is shared rarely.
/r/MensRights16/05/21 06:32 PM
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I'm tired of hearing that shit too. Especially, when Women who look like trolls are the ones calling a Man creepy. I've told some of my girl friend's that said that crap that not every Man that walks by wants to get into your pants, or even notice you. Just because you're not attracted to someone does not give anyone the right to be cruel. If someone smiles at me, I smile right back. It's not creepy at all.
/r/MensRights16/05/21 06:25 PM
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It's a human emotional release. Crying should not be only for Women. Stuffing down emotions will only come out in other ways like anger, or overly risky behavior.
/r/MensRights16/05/21 06:11 PM
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I like the way you think. :)
/r/MensRights11/05/21 09:55 PM
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I agree about the expectations. Live and let live. I'm more frustrated with the current hatred against Men, and the silencing of differing opinions.
/r/MensRights11/05/21 08:11 PM
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Hypocrisy runs deep among the feminist movement and in politics also. They've supported Women who falsely accused a Man of rape. Even after the Man was found innocent. You cannot make sense of the insanity they support. As a Woman, I find their movement a disgraceful one. I don't want to live in a world without masculinity in Men, or no femininity in Women. It's our unique differences that should complement each other. There is far too much hatred being spread around under the guise of social ju…
/r/MensRights11/05/21 02:36 PM
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How anyone can believe that this is alright, is beyond my thinking. An abuse report shouldn't require a female victim in order to be taken seriously, or checked out. I think it's pretty obvious who the nut jobs are in this. What scares the hell out of me is that they are the ones with all the power. I wish that equality was still the desired objective. To all the Men who read my comment, there are a lot of Women who believe in Men's Right's. We just don't have the platforms. I still speak my min…
/r/MensRights09/05/21 05:40 PM
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Hi fellow Female. We are definitely out here. Although, the media will never admit we exist. I have the same fears for my Son. We live in a backwards society that denies statistics and blindly follow a false belief that Men are the root of all evil. It is disgusting, watching the truth being manipulated and twisted day after day.
/r/MensRights08/05/21 08:02 PM
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I can definitely treat Men with respect & equality, I agree that more than what I can do is needed, but if I can get through to other Women maybe it can start the conversation.
/r/MensRights30/04/21 08:27 PM
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What really confuses me about the young Women in the dating scene is that a Man casually asking you for a date is scary, or creepy. Meanwhile, picking up a stranger on Tender or other hookup sites is totally safe. I'm so glad I started dating in the late 90's, early 2000's. Met my husband at work, and been married for 20 years. This swipe left/right generation is completely foreign in it's thinking. Don't get me wrong, I know my parents felt the same way. I just can't see growing up during the a…
/r/MensRights29/04/21 11:24 PM
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Sadly, these problems seem eerily similar to those happening in the U.S. I cannot begin to imagine how Men feel. You have so many expectations placed on Boys/Men. Just from my own observations it is confusing. Society wants Men to be providers & protectors, but they shouldn't compete with Women in the workplace, and should read our minds on how we want to be protected, or when we want to be asked out. The lists of expectations is mind blowing, and really there is no pleasing anyone. Men are told…
/r/MensRights29/04/21 05:08 PM
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Scrizzlyes, that's exactly the way I see it. Feelings are not facts. Women & Men need each other. I hope more people figure this out before we destroy civilization.
/r/MensRights29/04/21 04:00 PM
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Thanks for understanding. The more information I can learn about Men's issues, I can use it to educate other Women.
/r/MensRights29/04/21 03:51 PM
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Really? I'm not a Woman because I do not believe all Men are evil, or predators. I'm not only a Woman. I'm also a Mother, and it's apparent yours did a shit job teaching you manners. No, I am not pro rape/abuse. I am a believer in evidence vs accusations. There are horrible Men/Women in this world, but I won't condemn either sex. Obviously, you are the fake troll. I won't even pretend to know what you are. I'm guessing a normal human being isn't the right answer. Must suck to be so hateful all t…
/r/MensRights29/04/21 03:45 PM
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Great. I'm definitely not a fan of the current magazines. This sounds like a nice change. Thanks!
/r/MensRights29/04/21 03:29 PM
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All I can do now is educate young couple's/Mother's on their right to say no, and explain the accurate definition of circumcision. Plus, the lasting effects of them.
/r/MensRights29/04/21 12:12 AM
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Awesome tip. Thanks for sharing!
/r/MensRights29/04/21 12:07 AM
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Bunch of shit. I identify as a feminine Woman, not a feminist. I'll speak up for Women's/Men's equal rights til they bury me.
/r/MensRights29/04/21 12:06 AM
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I can only speak on my own experience back when I was a young Mom. After my Son was born the doctor explained it as a necessary procedure, and went on & on about the benefits. She also told me about some cases that sounded down right terrifying. I had no clue about what circumcision really was. My husband like his Father had been circumcised, so we went with the doctors recommendation. That was many year's ago, but I will carry the guilt of our decision for the rest of my life. Sadly, I am posit…
/r/MensRights28/04/21 10:32 PM
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I wouldn't want to hear those subreddits bitching & moaning anyways. Bring on the ban. It's been my pleasure to be here, and I am learning a lot!
/r/MensRights28/04/21 10:16 PM
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I would have felt the same way.
/r/MensRights28/04/21 09:13 PM
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I care enough for the Men in my life, and the ones being treated so poorly.
/r/MensRights28/04/21 09:11 PM
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The same people who advocate for circumcision, are up in arms about female genital mutilation. Double standards are everywhere.
/r/MensRights28/04/21 09:00 PM
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Nice to know there are more people aware of the feminist fraud movement.
/r/MensRights28/04/21 08:57 PM
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I primarily use the duckduckgo for their privacy features, but even there I had a hard time not being steered to the opposite information I was looking for. I've gotten some great information from reaching out on this post. Google is the worst search engine if you want non-biased sources.
/r/MensRights28/04/21 08:56 PM
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I wish I could disagree with you, but unfortunately that is the truth. That is why I am not feminist!
/r/MensRights28/04/21 08:50 PM
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It's shameful what's happening right now to Men. I will never understand the position you're in, but I will do my best to keep speaking out. I'm raising a teenage boy, and I hate that he, along with all Men are seen as predators, or toxic. It's bullshit. Women are trying way too hard to play victim to Men. The truth is they revel in their victimhood.
/r/MensRights28/04/21 08:44 PM
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I can understand Men being leary of talking, or giving advice to a Woman. Just what I've seen Men are baited into conversation, and then attacked mercilessly no matter what they believe. Hell, even as a Woman I am an enemy among the feminist of today. Because they're not interested in equality between Men/Women. They want to achieve total superiority over everything. Men are damned if they do, and damned if they don't.
/r/MensRights28/04/21 08:26 PM
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Thanks for the information. You've got my support. I find it impossible to stay quiet while Men are unfairly targeted, so I will speak out.
/r/MensRights28/04/21 08:12 PM
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Amazing. You've saved me so much time searching through garbage sites. Thanks so much!
/r/MensRights28/04/21 08:08 PM
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Thank you. I've been silenced, or called names for believing in equality that includes Men. I can't even imagine the kind of bullshit you guys put up with.
/r/MensRights28/04/21 08:06 PM
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I agree. I've tried multiple search engines, and it's all the same narrative being pushed.
/r/MensRights28/04/21 08:02 PM
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Once I started reading more than mainstream news, I saw for myself how one sided the victimhood is.
/r/MensRights28/04/21 08:00 PM
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I'm not the owner, but it has insprired me to continue speaking out against the double standards taking place in the United States. Neither Men/Women should be given a superior position in society because of their gender, race, etc..
/r/MensRights28/04/21 07:59 PM
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My pleasure. I've become used to the verbal sparring, but really I would like to see equality, actually exist for all.
/r/MensRights28/04/21 07:51 PM
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Already happened. Feelings have replaced actual facts and statistics. I'm used to being misunderstood in both Male/Female media groups. I just believe in being a decent human being. Apparently, there are sides that people are expected to take.
/r/MensRights28/04/21 07:48 PM
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It is crazy. Everything that I tried to find supporting the Men's rights movement using Google & DuckDGo, all sent me crap links about the need for more Women's rights, articles about how Men are toxic, or harmful. The victimhood I've seen both online/off make it hard to find the good in anyone anymore. I understand why Men are pissed off. Your not given a voice.
/r/MensRights28/04/21 03:21 PM
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Wow. This was not the article I thought I had posted. I will immediately delete this. This link is pure trash. My apologies for it ending up on here.
/r/MensRights28/04/21 01:22 PM
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Exactly. I had shitty abusive parent's, but I have no desire to repeat their patterns. If anything, I am very empathetic to other's. Oh, and I'm a Woman who believes in Men's Rights. Regardless of what the current feminist movement thinks.
/r/MensRights24/04/21 06:04 PM
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I'm a feminine Woman, not a feminist. At least not the feminist movement right now. I respect a couple who both choose careers. I also respect a their choice to be a stay at home parent, not necessarily the Mother. I believe toxic masculinity is a buzz word used against Men. While Masculine Women are celebrated. Men have to be both depending on who they interact with. I do not want to emulate a 1950's housewife. I am intelligent, capable, and believe in working with the opposite sex to improve t…
/r/MensRights23/04/21 01:17 PM
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Since Men have had to pay alimony all these year's, it seems only right for Women to do the same. The feminists have been bitching about equality. Lol
/r/MensRights17/04/21 06:42 PM
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Exactly. They only want equality, when it benefits them. Otherwise they want special treatment, but not only do they hate masculinity they also hate feminine Women who disagree with them.
/r/MensRights14/04/21 08:35 PM
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Excellent explanations. The current attitudes, and ideals of the feminist movement are ridiculous. I'm a Woman, and I am tired of their bullshit. They aren't willing to stop hiding behind their gender to try experimental drugs, or vaccines. Yet they happily push Men to do it, and then bitch constantly about the unfairness and lack of trust they have in meds/vaccines. Only Women are able to pick and choose when they want equality. "Oh, protect me" one minute, and the next "how dare you." Men are …
/r/MensRights14/04/21 05:31 PM
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It's damn disgusting that Women like this one are trying to ruin a Mans life over an accusation. The word assault is thrown around way too much these day's.
/r/MensRights12/04/21 04:34 PM
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I agree. I'm a feminine Woman, and make no apologies for it. Just as masculine Men shouldn't have to. Each sex has strengths and weaknesses, but if we are actually able to work together without the toxic feminazi's demeaning Men, we would achieve balance. I don't have the strength physically, and emotionally for certain job's. That doesn't mean I'm not able to contribute, it just means I know my own limits. I respect the hell out of Men. Y'all are getting screwed over.
/r/MensRights12/04/21 04:28 PM
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I think you explained things very eloquently. The current media, and Man bashing is breaking the spirits of a lot of Men. I'm a Woman, and I hate all the stupid rhetoric.
/r/MensRights12/04/21 02:12 AM
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Anytime. 😊
/r/MensRights12/04/21 01:47 AM
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My pleasure. Online dating sucks, and Men get screwed over a lot on those sites. It's all so fake, and it puts so much pressure on everyone to be perfect. I think it also lowers our confidence to talk to the opposite sex in real life. Dating is a mind fuck, that's why I encourage Men to be themselves, and stop buying into the myths of perfection. You might not be the first person a Woman looks at, but give her and yourself a chance and she might decide you are exactly what she is looking for.
/r/MensRights12/04/21 01:46 AM
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Thank you, we all get triggered sometimes. I am sorry for my reaction. I hope you have a good day also. :)
/r/MensRights12/04/21 01:37 AM
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Thank you. That's worth a lot. =)
/r/MensRights12/04/21 01:27 AM
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I know it is harder for Men for virtually everything. That is what brought me here. It is wrong that so many double standards exist. Women are judged also though. Look at all the comments about getting a fat chick, because they are low hanging fruit. Things like that have left plenty of Women with image issues. I know how lucky I am to be a Woman, of average weight/height as an adult. That wasn't always the case though. Men can be sexy without being hard bodies with perfect looks, there are Wome…
/r/MensRights12/04/21 01:25 AM
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I'm trying to fight the feminazi's. They hate me almost as much as they hate Men. I won't shut up about their double standards. That's the least I can do!
/r/MensRights11/04/21 08:56 PM
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I feel the same way. Yeah, the peeing in a bottle is a mystery. Then again if you can, why not. Lol The media is so twisted. They love sowing division, and giving feminist a platform to spew their hateful rhetoric. I personally would not want to live in a world without Men. Lol
/r/MensRights11/04/21 08:52 PM
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Some of us are trying to keep this crap from happening. Thankfully, I am married to a great husband. Unfortunately, I know how high the risks are. I worry about him, and all Men these day's. It's absolutely disgusting the shit these bitches are doing.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 07:51 PM
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My pleasure. I'm not just saying it to be kind. I really mean it. :)
/r/MensRights11/04/21 07:43 PM
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Absolutely, some of these guys think I am gaslighting them. When I am completely serious. I think they're being way too hard on themselves. The current bullshit with feminazi's has really taken it's toll. That's why I found this place. I want to advocate for Men's Rights, and the best way to figure out how is to listen to Men. Reading the stuff posted here has made me think. It has also given me the strength to speak up. Even when I am cussed out.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 07:42 PM
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I'm so glad you found your guy. Enjoy getting to know him. The beginning is fun, and the anxiety will pass. Sounds like you're on the right track. Cuddling a big guy is the best.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 07:33 PM
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They are so used to manipulating their boyfriend, that it definitely takes them off guard. Lol
/r/MensRights11/04/21 07:26 PM
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Ice queens are the type of Women who don't care enough to take any hints. They're too busy adoring themselves to consider anyone else. In a group of female friends, there's usually at least one. Your co-worker sounds polar opposite to her friend. I wish I could tell you why they are friends. Maybe when they're alone she acts differently, or maybe it's a friendship of convenience. If you get the opportunity to get spend time with your co-worker. You might want to plan a night in advance, that doe…
/r/MensRights11/04/21 07:23 PM
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Hey Dickhead. Maybe you've had some bad experiences, but I commented based on my experience as a Woman, and from the many female friend's I know. Stay bitter, that's a sure way to ward off Women. I'm not going to change my opinion on this subject, and I'm not going to apologize for it. Either ignore my comments, or block me.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 07:11 PM
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I am not lying. It is my opinion, based on my experiences. My looks depends on the person looking at me, but I am not unattractive. I'm not gaslighting anybody, but based on your attitude it wouldn't matter how you look, I would find you unattractive. So, sorry you are so angry. Block me, or STFU.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 07:04 PM
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You would be surprised. There's Men who love curvy Women, I married one. 🌹
/r/MensRights11/04/21 05:02 PM
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A lot of Women say that crap, and the majority of them are full of shit. We look back on old boyfriends with rose colored glasses. The truth is these great guys that did everything right, and were so attractive, were actually assholes. If anyone had someone that great, they wouldn't be out looking for a Man. So either they are liars, or losers who couldn't keep Prince Charming. As soon as any Woman starts talking about this incredible Man they dated, ask her why she's not with him. The look on t…
/r/MensRights11/04/21 04:58 PM
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I believe you think this, but I am a Woman who has dated Men of every size, bald, hairy and by most of the ridiculous standards unattractive. You would be surprised by how some Women that fall in love do so, because they see something other's don't. Confidence, intelligence, kindness, humorous, these are thing many Women are attracted to. I'm sure you're much more attractive than you give yourself credit for. That goes for most Men. Some Women are beautiful on the outside, and total ice queens o…
/r/MensRights11/04/21 04:51 PM
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There are many Men who've been raped or molested by Women. Your voices shouldn't have been silenced. Men are not given any respect, or opportunities to join the conversation. The me too movement could have been much more powerful had it been open to anyone who had been sexually assaulted/raped. Instead, it morphed into a bunch of attention seeking celebrities, and Women on social media bashing Men. I fear for my 15 year old Son, my Husband, and all Men living during these times. The narrative be…
/r/MensRights09/04/21 11:45 AM
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For what it's worth, I agree with you. I've been married to my husband for 20 year's. We've made decisions together. I chose to stay at home and raise our children. We have a great system in place. He doesn't disrespect my position, and I respect his. I know how much he sacrifices for his family. I'm considered pathetic by today's standards. Women look at me with contempt, or pity. Yes, I cook, clean, and have raised 3 children. They've never come home to an empty house/dirty house, or have miss…
/r/MensRights07/04/21 03:24 PM
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I went to college in the late 90's in California, and did not see this kind of bullshit. I went back to college to finish my degree in 2017, and the whole system was slanted against Men. The superiority that I witnessed young ladies & grown Professors exhibit, made me ashamed to be a female. Especially, when my second college was in a podunk town in Kansas. I found myself at the losing end while trying to defend my Male classmates. A Woman defending a Man in college had the feminazi's out for my…
/r/MensRights07/04/21 03:02 PM
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Absolutely. I have a Son and 2 daughters. All of which, I have told abuse/sexual abuse/rape is WRONG regardless of gender. My friend found out later in his life that the things that were done to him, left him with a lot of damage. I wanted to get ahead of that with my own children. The numbers would go up exponentially if Men were given the same amount of support as Women.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 11:43 AM
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Fellow Woman here. If you do start a group, I'm ready to join. I've watched the double standards for year's. It's disgusting, and absolutely wrong. I've taken lots of crap for openly advocating for the rights of Men online and in real life. There has to be more we can do.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 03:36 AM
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My pleasure. I appreciate your explanation. I may use that for the future. =)
/r/MensRights07/04/21 03:28 AM
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My closest Male friend was molested, and eventually raped by one of his Mom's female friend's. It wasn't until he told me about it that he realized it was WRONG. It wasn't until, I (Woman) condemned the actions as rape. Men are absolutely expected to accept shit like that. All of the female teacher's, or pretty much any Woman whose forced herself on a Boy/Man is considered "lucky" those crocodile tears their abusers shed in the courtroom, easily gives them a slap on the wrist sentence. Meanwhile…
/r/MensRights07/04/21 02:08 AM
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I feel bad for him. He has not progressed through his teenage thoughts on love, acceptance or self-worth. The formative year's can be tormenting. Sometimes, the expectations of parents, or peers/bullies can be powerful. Feminism/ society, say sensitivity in a Man is a good quality, but than turn on that when a Man expresses emotions. Unfortunately, when you close yourself off to other's the unconditional love you seek, will never happen. You have to love yourself before you can love anyone else.…
/r/MensRights07/04/21 01:42 AM
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I like your Wife. Lol
/r/MensRights06/04/21 09:43 PM
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As a wife to a Scottish Man & Son, I would be compelled to speak out if any Woman were to pull that shit. Basic manners should apply to everyone. I'm tired of the assumptions that Men like the attention. It's sexual harassment, and in some cases assault. It is disgusting and unacceptable. Since my Husband cannot speak out without consequences, I will happily inform Women of their unwanted, and sexist behavior.
/r/MensRights06/04/21 09:27 PM
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Sadly, you are right. What a fucked up society we live in!
/r/MensRights06/04/21 09:10 PM
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You shouldn't have to live with that. It's just another double standard, that pisses a lot of us out. I'm a grown ass Woman, but if anyone were to do that to my Husband, or Son I would be enraged. I'm sorry you've had to deal with that.
/r/MensRights06/04/21 09:06 PM
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I fear for the future of Men. My husband works his ass off, and sometimes I can see the worry on his face when he has to work closely with Women he doesn't know. I do my best to assure that he knows I'm behind him. Between the constant onslaught of victomhood, and the racial division I cannot do enough. However, I let him know everyday that I stand with him. He has my full support.
/r/MensRights05/04/21 01:10 AM
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Fu$k*d up behavior like she pulled should cost her more than 3 months. If it had been a reversed situation everyone would be outraged, and the Man would be vilified. The more shit I read on cases like this, the more obvious it is of the dangers Men are facing.
/r/MensRights02/04/21 04:47 PM
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As long as a Man, or Woman is respectful when explaining anything, I don't see what the problem is. Everyone, especially Women are so sensitive, always looking for a reason to be offended. If we analyze every syllable spoken to us, eventually we will begin to imagine all kinds of things to be insulted about. As a female I have a soft voice. So, when I speak no one questions my tone. Men, try to explain things simple, and complete sentences. When talking to Women, in my own experiences they are t…
/r/MensRights30/03/21 12:12 PM
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I shave or wax, first for my own comfort. Additionally, as a courtesy for my husband. He enjoys DT, BJs so he trims or shaves for me, and it improves the experience for both of us. The Women playing double standards need to STFU!
/r/MensRights29/03/21 10:58 PM
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Sadly, I've known Women (not my friends) who regretted sleeping with someone and called it rape. Whether because they had gotten wasted(by choice), or were embarrassed that the guy might tell other people. Men are considered quilty before they even have an opportunity to prove their innocence. In many cases it is a He said/She said, and the Man is unfairly convicted. Even in cases where a Man does prove his innocence, his reputation never recovers. I also believe false allegations of rape, or as…
/r/MensRights29/03/21 02:09 PM
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So, they really believe the curfew will stop the criminals. Good luck with that. More punishing the majority for the actions of a few. It's outrageous. As if dating wasn't hard enough with today's standards. Even asking a Woman on a date can be described as sexual intimidation. Makes me thankful that I married 20 year's ago.
/r/MensRights28/03/21 10:22 PM
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It's absolutely asinine that these ramblings garnered attention. All forms of media, journalism and even small publications are devoid of responsible reporting. There's so much bias, and these frauds are all ranting about anti-bullying & equality. What a crock! This Woman is a product of such screwed up thinking. She was indoctrinated by the education system, and fed lies by the media. The feelings over fact ideas are being legitimized by many schools/Universities. I've got a daughter in college…
/r/MensRights28/03/21 04:05 PM
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As a fellow Woman who shares your opinions it is so nice to read your post. I've been attacked on every media platform for not supporting the hate towards Men. There isn't equality anymore now it's about feminist superiority, and shaming all Men. They are literally blamed for everything. I love the Men in my life, and I am raising a young Man who is already facing the cruel attitudes directed at him. I hope things change, but it is important that we show support for Men.
/r/MensRights24/03/21 03:54 PM
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Correct. However I was focused on the cases where a Woman made the sole choice to carry a child, and then seek financial support and sole custody from a Male sex partner. I believe that Men should have a say. The current attitudes are completely unfair to Men.
/r/MensRights17/03/21 02:09 AM
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It's not corny at all. I think finding people of the opposite sex, or even those who share are opinions is comforting. It lets us know we aren't alone in our feelings. You're welcome. I truly enjoy finding a safe place to engage with other's about these topics. Most social media outlets only leave me feeling miserable. I get pounced on. It's rather disappointing to constantly face hate. Your reply means a lot. 🙏😊
/r/MensRights16/03/21 09:21 PM
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Thanks for your input. I'm open to suggestions. Especially by Men.
/r/MensRights16/03/21 07:26 PM
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While I understand your experiences were traumatic, and you're right to protect yourself from potential abusers, I'm a Mother of a teenage young Man. I am trying to raise him in the midst of all this, and even though much of what you stated is true I still try to remain hopeful for the future.
/r/MensRights16/03/21 06:56 PM
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Double standard rears it's ugly head once again. I'm so disgusted by this crap. It's becoming increasingly hard to be an "anti-woke" Woman. To any Man reading this comment, just know not all Women are the same. Many of us are also tired of the double standards. We cannot get pregnant without a Man, and we damn sure should not be able to hold all the cards.
/r/MensRights16/03/21 02:30 PM
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Exactly. Not all Women are psycho feminist. In fact, there's a surprising number of us that are just as disgusted by this attack on Men, and all things masculine. I've spoken out about the absurdity happening in our country. Hell, all around the World. Unfortunately, we are enemies in both camps. Trust me, I would love to rewind back to a time where standards were standards. All of this crap of blurring the gender lines and ignoring biology is just plain stupid. Equality, does not mean changing …
/r/MensRights16/03/21 02:17 PM
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They should prosecute the Woman, and make her responsible for him financially. It's such bullshit.
/r/MensRights16/03/21 12:53 AM
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Thank you. I'm a Woman, and while I completely understand the frustrations with these "feminist" psychos, we are not all the same. I'm a feminine Woman. I do not compare, or compete with Men. We are different. Each sex should complement the other. We should have the right to work, vote, and be respected. We should not have the right to call masculinity "toxic" or try to feminize all Men. We also should not be doing any job that we're not able to obtain without lowering the standards. I find it a…
/r/MensRights16/03/21 12:11 AM
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As a Woman I am so sorry that these idiots did that to you. There is no excuse for their behavior, and the current feminist movement is full of Women claiming to be victims. Meanwhile, they are the ones who are circling Men like sharks. It's disgusting, but hold your head up high had I been there I would have stuck up for you. I'm sure other's found their pathetic attack to be just as ridiculous as I do.
/r/MensRights15/03/21 12:49 AM
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Sadly, the feminist of today are not about equality. It is trying to rid the world of masculinity, and superiority. I say this as a Woman. I do not understand how arguments about gender identity has undermined and ignored biology. Men are different than Women, thankfully. We need both sexes. We should complement each other, and balance things out. I've told my friends that if certain jobs have to offer allowances in order for a Woman to pass the physical requirements, they should not get the job…
/r/MensRights11/03/21 07:54 PM
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I agree. Hopefully more will start waking up. Men are very much needed. All of this feminization of Men is causing confusion about gender roles. Men are considered toxic if they are masculine. More problems are happening because of the absence of fathers in our households. I am not against Women being able to work, or pursue their goals but regardless of what some may say, our biology is not the same. Women offer things that Men cannot, and likewise Men are able to do things that Women are not. …
/r/MensRights11/03/21 01:50 PM
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I'm a Woman and think all of this 3rd wave feminism is 💩. I'm all for equality. Unfortunately it's no longer about that. Instead, Men are under attack.
/r/MensRights10/03/21 06:05 PM
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I've always found that showing respect, and praising my Man for the things he does for me gives him the confidence and desire to complete chores. A little empathy goes a long way.
/r/MensRights01/03/21 01:30 AM
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As a Woman, I am tired of the hateful Men bashing that's taken over social media. We strong Men to raise their Son's, and the very ideals they're spreading is harmful to young Men & Boys. All they have to do is watch the nightly news, or follow media trends. We need equal rights for everyone. Unfortunately, there are some people trying to feminize Men. Those who resist are labeled as having toxic masculinity, misogyny, homophobia, and are blamed for any & all problems in America. As you can imag…
/r/MensRights23/02/21 02:20 PM
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Some of us do. I've been disgusted, discrimination against Men is wrong. They say that they want equality, but it's obvious that they want to make Men inferior.
/r/MensRights22/02/21 01:45 AM
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