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DiscussionCirclesquare1/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 05:38 PM
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Woman 1: 7/10 Woman 2: 7/10 Woman 3: 5/10 Woman 4: 7/10 Woman 5: 8/10 Woman 6: 4/10 Woman 7: 9/10 Woman 8: 5/10
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 10:22 PM
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But guess what. If you are an incel you can't bitch and moan and complain that the women that like you look like in the BuzzFeed article. Either you suck it up or improve yourself, the same thing they like to Chant to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 12:39 AM
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https://dailybruin.com/2014/06/09/senior-swimmer-not-a-fish-out-of-water-succeeds-at-ucla/ http://www.pocketfives.com/f13/when-you-see-491605/ Yep. That's what the girls I hung around looked like. I didn't go to sororities though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 09:57 PM
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I AM FROM LOS ANGELES. THE AVERAGE COLLEGE GIRL IS A STUDIOUS LITTLE CONSERVATIVE ASIAN GIRL OR A CHUBBY HISPANIC GIRL. THAT GIRL IS A MODEL.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 09:24 PM
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No. But you ask for a MODEL.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 09:18 PM
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No I am saving sex for marriage and it would make me respect him more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 09:08 PM
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TBH the girl in that picture looks better than Miranda Kerr. The girl in the picture is easily like a 8.5 or 9, and Miranda is like an 8. Now I know the girl is a 5 to you but to me she isn't. And I live in LA.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 02:27 AM
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Lol that's not an average girl. That's a model. Proof men's standards are excessively high. I am not talking about weight, just facial features.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 01:24 AM
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Based on looks, it depends on the age group. Where I work it's mostly older men, like over 40. So for work it would be 0 since they are too old. Then at church, it's mostly old men, too, with a few younger men. The younger men don't look so horrible that I wouldn't date them, but counting all the old men it's like 2% and the younger ones are are all married so it would go down to like 0 because I am staying away from married men. Now based on all men ages 22-34, which is my age group I would dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 03:16 PM
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Well let me put it this way: If you work 2 jobs just to BARELY survive and then are going to school part time at the same time, cooking a healthy wholsome meal isn't going to be your priority. In college, i didn't know many obese women. Now that I work, I do. And almost all of these women fit the same criteria: poor husband + kids + working full time (one or more jobs) + living in an area where you can't walk outside safely at night after dinner. Inb4 everyone gets all huffy. If your husband bar…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 06:07 AM
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I am a woman and while I never had/ would have a ONS or casual fling, I know most women over like 20 are not stupid enough to think a ONS will lead to a serious relationship. For validation and attention? Yes. But for love? No, not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 04:10 AM
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Lol I messaged you and got radio silence. Proves my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 11:40 PM
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Radio silence. I am not demanding at all. You are just bluffing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 06:22 PM
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So what are you saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 05:46 PM
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That's not helicopter parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 05:34 PM
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So the majority of men respond with happiness when their ONS gets pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 05:33 PM
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What is demanding? Tell me what is demanding? You never showed me in quotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 05:31 PM
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Plus he shouldn't grumble about paying her, HE cheated on her and left her for a young woman, and he didn't pay alimony. He should thank her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 05:28 PM
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I didn't say it is oppression. I am saying that I wouldn't take care of my elderly in laws unless I was married or planning marriage. I wouldn't do it for some guy who thinks of me as a plate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 05:26 PM
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I personally wouldn't let an 8 year old on the bus, too many weird crazies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 05:25 PM
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Most old women are happy. I don't know any miserable old women. Why would being a potential single mother be validating?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 05:25 PM
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You didn't address my point. You just said "classy". Why do you think I am asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 05:15 PM
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Driving your kid isn't helicopter parenting it's just parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 05:15 PM
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I am not a feminist. So.... And I know a lady who takes care of her ex husband's father. The guy has no one but her because the ex husband doesn't visit at all. If she didn't visit him he would die. And this is her ex husband. She didn't even go after him for alimony. And he pays for her to do it, but complains when he does. And she didn't even ask for alimony. Men do this crap to women all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 05:14 PM
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I sought clarification like 3 times and you just got defensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 05:12 PM
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But you literally never said that you would help until I pulled it out of you. And guess what, there are starving people in Africa? Am I going to say that women who work full time and commute and do all the housework and child rearing and everything else are not suffering? No. They are suffering. Maybe in parts of Africa they are suffering more but that is an entirely different issue. It's like the incel thing. Why don't you go on the incel subreddit and tell them that if they were in India they…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 05:11 PM
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I am not asexual. Omg what is it with you people thinking having no crippling sexual urges is equivalent to a sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 05:09 PM
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Because you never said you would until now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 05:09 PM
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Well by age 20 I was a college grad and was working full time with a 401k and savings account. Thanks to my mom pushing me and supporting me no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 05:08 PM
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I don't agree with Maslow. Love is a need but not sex. Somehow I have managed not to do anything sexual at all for over 20 years and I am ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 05:01 PM
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No, you just said sorry your mom drove you everywhere as if it was a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:59 PM
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So what would you do if your wife worked a low paying job but still had the same hours as you? Would you even help on the housework at all? I never heard you say you would pull your weight in the home. Even when I brought up that you didn't say it, you still didn't say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:58 PM
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Sex isn't a need. Food and water and survival are needs. Poor men get welfare too. I worked with the homeless before, they get social security and health insurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:56 PM
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Yeah because I wouldn't want to work 40 hours a week, with 1 hour for lunch and 1 hour for commuting (so 50 hours a week) and do all the housework and do all the cleaning and cooking and errands and everything and undo the public school system and not get fat and look cute and young every day and not even have my husband offer to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:55 PM
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Where is your attempt to debate? You just say they are lazy like 50 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:53 PM
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But why would you compare the two?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:53 PM
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"Yep and those are usually low paying intern-tier jobs not held in high regard either. Thing is my mum all did this too and also had an actual job. That's where I'm coming from. She did take a few years off when I was first born, I'm not saying looking after a baby is easy. But once the kids are old enough to go to school there is no reason to stay at home."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:51 PM
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Well there, it proves my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:50 PM
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So you agree that I am right and they don't do nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:49 PM
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Well sorry to hear your mom was too busy working and cleaning and cooking and making sure you survive to be wth you, and all you do is say it's easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:49 PM
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Show me, in quotes what is demanding. Are you saying I should take care of your aging parents when you don't even view me as a serious life partner? Why would I do that? Do you expect your plates to change grandma's diaper and hold her hand when she realizes for the thousandth time that her mom is dead? Tell me what is demanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:48 PM
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Yes they do deserve half the assets. Half the stuff earned after marriage. If they buy a house together, that house is half hers. The same applies to SAHD's and dual income homes. And once again, you say they do not work. That they just do laundry on the weekend. I feel sorry for your future wife (or long term partner), you will just dump everything on her and call her lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:46 PM
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You didn't address my point in the comment. By default you agree. You are dodging the question because it's true. Capitalizing the word "AND" is not anger, it's to emphasize a point. And my point is proven. You expect your wife to do everything. Make a high income (as evidenced by the intern comment), cook, clean, raise the kids well, run errands, manage the finances, etc. You don't even say "oh we will split up the work, I'll help" because it doesn't even occur to you. You view a wife as a work…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:44 PM
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So why do you complain? And women are not complaining. You are saying SAHM's do nothing and are lazy. I am saying they are not. And I prefer to buy my groceries IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:41 PM
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So you think being a SAHM is equivalent to being a sugar baby? Basically it is using a man for money?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:40 PM
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No, it's just proof of what the general consensus is. Men don't like SAHM's. They think they do nothing all day and are lazy gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:40 PM
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So your wife not only needs to work, but have a high paying professional job. This is what I mean when I say men care about how much money a woman makes, despite TRP saying otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:39 PM
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It's not a Hollywood stereotype. Hollywood hates SAHM's and hates families.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:38 PM
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Why would you leave your kid out on their own? Even at 16, my mom drove me places and she knew what I was doing. One could argue that teenagers need a mom the most since there is a lot of temptation to do drugs and drink. My coworkers are working women, and one has a son that is hipsterish and smokes weed every day. She doesn't have time to be chasing him and lecturing him so she just says "as long as he doesn't do it around me or in the house, it's ok". Which isn't what I would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:37 PM
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So basically, like the modern man, you expect your wife to work full time AND do the cooking AND do the cleaning AND train the kids because the public school system is crap AND manage finances AND go grocery shopping AND do all the other errands. Because your mom suffered and exhausted herself for you, all women should suffer and exhaust themselves. Good job, you're a feminist and you don't even know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:34 PM
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Well my mom did it. But you think she just watches TV all day so whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:31 PM
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It's more expensive and you can't pick out the quality of your produce. And I thought you complained last comment about how you have to go grocery shopping? Since you are doing it online, why are you complaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:30 PM
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No one is saying you should get paid for it. They are saying that SAHM's legitimately work. Of course, you complain about shopping and cleaning, but if you married a SAHM she would do it all for you and after work you would just come home, eat, and then do whatever you want to instead of worrying about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:29 PM
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It's not easy. Most men think they are gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:26 PM
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I am saving everything for marriage, but if I wasn't at least waiting for a serious relationship, I would at least wait for a few dates. Why? Because why would I want to get intimate with a stranger? Even if the stranger looks like a model, I wouldn't want to be intimate with a guy unless I know he is at least a decent person who likes me and is compatible with me. It's not even about image it's just making sure you are with someone decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 03:50 PM
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You get someone who will help take care of your elderly parents. I wouldn't take care of a boyfriend's parents if he didn't want to marry me. Taking care of the elderly is hard and depressing work, and I would only do it for family, not some guy who is scared I'll take a few hundred dollars a month from him if he cheats on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 03:46 PM
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See, this is what I mean when I say SAHM's are discriminated against. Proof right here. My mom is a SAHM and works hard. She wakes up early and makes raw fruit and vegetable juice for the family, goes for a walk, does chores like laundry, vacuuming, mopping, cleaning the toilets, etc. She makes me and my dad healthy lunches for work most days of the week. Twice a week, she does the family errands. I had driven along with her several times, and it takes a while. She goes to wal mart, Costco, Whol…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 03:45 PM
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So you think a SAHM is a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 04:33 PM
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So you put sex above your family? Sex above your kids? Think about what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 05:21 AM
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Initially, but after a few weeks to months, it goes away b
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 02:10 AM
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Why? Because I say sex isn't a physical need? Why does that bother you so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 01:20 AM
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No it's not. Just because sex is needed for a happy ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP does not mean it is needed to survive and be happy overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 01:08 AM
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Sex isn't a need. It's needed to reproduce but not to survive. It's not even needed for happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 12:48 AM
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I want them but not to the extent that people post about on here. I don't have a crippling or overwhelming desire. I just know it is what I want one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 12:26 AM
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Nope. But just like when someone eats a diet of junk food, their cravings adapt to want junk food. Someone who eats healthy will crave healthier foods. pornography is the same. If you watch it, you will crave it. If you stop, you will have a period of transition then stop having cravings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 12:09 AM
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If you stop watching porn and mastrubating your crippling urges will go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 11:48 PM
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Somehow I have survived without any sex whatsoever and am a KHV and I do not feel emotionally unfulfilled. But if my parents stopped loving me and I had absolutely no friends then I would feel unfulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 10:53 PM
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Maslow was wrong. Sex is not needed. Love is needed, but you can get love from church, friends, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 10:25 PM
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I want a captain first mate dynamic. But the thing is, the man should put his wife and kids' needs above his own. He is the leader, but he doesn't come first. For example, if his wife has cancer, he makes the sacrifices to ensure she gets the right care and is safe and comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 02:14 AM
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So why would a parent be bad at homeschooling? The environment is even better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 03:15 PM
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This is so dumb. Of course if you are eating so many fruits and vegetables with carotene that your skin tone gives off a glow, you are going to be healthier overall. 12 weeks of supplements is not equivalent to a lifetime of good habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 02:14 PM
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http://www.pilgrimhallmuseum.org/pdf/Books_for_Colonial_Children.pdf Kids were reading the Bible, Fox's book of martyrs, and the Catechism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 01:59 PM
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In the time of the American Revolution, kids were homeschooled. A 5th grader had a more advanced reading level than most college graduates today.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 01:48 PM
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How does this explain why most public schools are crap, except for in wealthy communities? Why are many private schools superior to public? Why are so many parents eager to spend $10, $15, $20k a year on private school so that their kid can stay out of the local public school system?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 01:47 PM
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I guess not being one paycheck away from homelessness is lavish to you. Hmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 01:40 PM
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I'm on route to getting a PhD. And most teachers do not have "teaching degrees" they have a bachelor's degree in something and a teaching credential. For example, a math teacher usually has a math degree and teaching credential. I had a math teacher with a bachelor's in nursing who got burned out with nursing and took a teaching credential course and became a teacher. The education to become a school teacher, especially at the elementary level, isn't some mysterious force that only few can achie…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 06:05 AM
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Proof that the stay at home mom is extremely frowned upon, right here. I only want kids if I can work part-time and spend time staying at home with them and homeschool them up until maybe 12 or so. I am not going to dump my kids into the hands of daycares and schools while I go out and work just to prove a point to my husband/ kids. My mom stayed at home full-time since I was 7 and it is a position of honor. She had a high paying career and gave it up because she wanted me to be raised the way s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 04:54 AM
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No, you're basically saying "the people who are barely above your definition of poverty are not poor"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 04:06 AM
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And you think that the people barely above that are well-off or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 03:42 AM
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living below the poverty line is not the only definition of poor. Poor is living paycheck to paycheck and not being able to put away 10% of your salary into savings (at minimum). Poor is when rent eats up over half of your take-home income. Most people are poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 02:50 AM
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Maybe because bad personality traits don't show up right away and men, like the men on here, told her she was too picky when she noticed red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 12:21 AM
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No, we shouldn't encourage women to become single moms. The thing is, many women don't have a choice. Their husbands abuse them. Their husbands flake out on the kid and her. The husband goes out to get a pack of cigarettes and never comes back. The husband finds a newer, better model. Maybe husbands should be encouraged not to leave their wives and kids over a midlife crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 09:22 PM
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Most women are not making a lot of money by camming. The only ones that do are 10/10 modelesque women. But yet, you still expect the woman to cam. I am sure you could make a few dollars here and there cammikng, so why aren't you doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 07:33 PM
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I am in my early 20's, and after graduating high school, the guy had to be on some kind of stable career path. And that hasn't changed. You don't need to be rich. Just make a decent income. $40k plus. I make significantly more than $40k so I am not asking for a lot. More if you want kids, though. AND men may "love" just cause (aka casual sex) but in terms of marriage, men do look for a woman with some kind of stable income. Maybe you don't expect your wife to be rich, but I am sure if she said "…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 07:04 PM
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And what is stopping you from chasing your dreams and continuing now?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 06:43 PM
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I HAVE AN IDEA Julian why don't you drop out of the rat race and take the brave plunge and become a camBOY? I am sure you are not too ugly and fat and if you are, just not eating like a pig and working out for 30 minutes a day will put you at the threshold. I am sure that you can find a sugar daddy to support you and you don't even have to commute.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 06:35 PM
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And you never answered my question. "Why not" is not an answer. What if she doesn't want to be a cam girl? And it looks like, from your little essay, you can't wrap your mind around the idea that a girl wouldn't want to sell her body online for money and would rather be poor. Don't complain about how a woman should just cam instead of working a minimum wage job when you're too lazy to get off your ass and do something besides minimum wage due to "passion" and "working for the man". If you can't …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 06:27 PM
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looks at username onclejulian Oh I know you, you're a troll, and if you're not you are just very stupid I am not going to continue this conversation anymore kthxbai
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 06:23 PM
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What if she doesn't want to be a cam girl? I would be so pissed if my partner wanted me to cam. You don't expect your girlfriend/wife to flash her body around just so she can make money, so much for being a guy who doesn't care about money lol. And this girl I knew in high school became a successful cam girl and it's not easy to make a high salary unless you look like a model and somehow monopolize the market. For every girl making a good living off of camming, there are a ton of random girls wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 05:59 PM
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Because why should she work hard and pull a good income while you lounge around making minimum wage? What would you do if she quit her $70k a year job and wanted to live off welfare for a while or just work retail? Would you be willing to scrape by and barely survive living paycheck to paycheck because you can't mooch off of her anymore? You want your wife to work, then you better work too or else you are using her for her money. 5'10 is not short, go outside instead of brainwashing yourself. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 05:03 PM
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Men are upset because they are the worker bees. They do the jobs that need to get done and that women don't want to do. Women claim to want equality but only fight for access to nice cushy office jobs, then celebrate themselves that they are able to do things that men have been thanklessly doing for years. Men are not the worker bees anymore. It's not the 1950's. Look up "stay at home mom" on Reddit and you will see the most upvoted comments are comments about how men don't want to be the breadw…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 04:06 PM
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WTF who is actually going to call the police on a dad sitting in the car with his kid? I sat in the car with my dad when I was a kid plenty of times and no one called the police, ever. And the law to not inform dad about pregnancy is not because of wanting money and divorce, but it's because the guy may beat the woman up for getting pregnant or wanting an abortion. I do think it's a shifty thing to not tell your husband that you are pregnant and getting an abortion, but I also am not in an abusi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 03:57 PM
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Men do it too. You want a man with a stable job: "you're a gold digger" You want a man who is taller than you: "you're a superficial bitch" (even though half of all women are 5'4 and below and just want the guy to be like one or two inches taller) You want to marry when you are over 25: "you just want to ride the cock carousel" You want to get married: "you just want to take his money" You want a guy who doesn't drink or smoke weed: "lol good luck finding anyone"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 03:49 PM
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I am a nurse and there is a running joke about how nurses tend to end up with engineers. I know so many nurse engineer couples. Nursing and engineering have similar pay at the bachelor's level, although in some circumstances an engineer can make more (and in some the nurse makes more) and are considered respectable professions. I think engineers being losers is an untrue meme. That said, I once took a computer game class and omg that was like being on 4chan in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/17 01:41 AM
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I am in my early 20's in the USA and I would be disgusted by a man in his 30's saying he only wants a woman under 27. What's wrong with women who are around your age?! You're bitter about them aging? Then stop aging yourself. Men can pretend that they age like wine, but once a man is over 34, it's pretty much downhill from there, and that's if he took care of himself in his 20's, I would say that they generally start to go down looks wise at age 30. That's the age they start getting pudgy and lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/17 01:21 AM
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It's not the milk. It's that if someone asks you for help in a marriage, and you are reasonably able to help, then you help, regardless of what your ego says.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 09:02 PM
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If I liked a guy and said to him "can you get me some milk at the store" and he refused, or if we were married and he refused to change diapers, it would put a HUGE burden on the marriage and I would resent him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 08:07 PM
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Was getting milk for the family and changing diapers being a plow horse? What specifically was a plow horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 07:57 PM
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So why can't the school teacher date a woman who is also a teacher or the 5'9 guy pursue a 5'8 woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 07:45 PM
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Why is he into a 7 year old???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 07:35 PM
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Well keep her away from the 14 year olds that's gross af
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 06:49 PM
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Wtf why does your 7 year old have orbiters of all ages?? What ages are you talking about?? That's pretty weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 03:06 AM
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For men, doing a relationship properly is never getting married and having weird sex daily, even if the sexual acts hurt the lady, then leaving her when she gets too old.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 11:09 PM
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Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 05:50 AM
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Southern California. And no, it's not. But how many men would happily move if you say "you're too poor for us to stay here"?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 04:47 AM
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Living with 10 people in a house is not mundane
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 04:26 AM
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Now you're just trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 04:09 AM
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And where I live $30k is a family that rents a room in a house of 10 other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 03:54 AM
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-_- I don't like designer clothing. I just don't want to live paycheck to paycheck.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 03:53 AM
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I see I see. I am pro women and pro men and traditional
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 03:52 AM
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Yes it is. But in our religious writings it says that if a man cannot support a family then he should not get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 02:50 AM
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That doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 02:05 AM
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I'm not going to be the breadwinner. If I have to be the breadwinner, I won't have kids. And a full time nail artist makes the same as a full time security guard.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 02:05 AM
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That's not "my problem" it's the COL in Southern California. If he wants to be a security guard for life, he can move and I'll come. But my mom is coming, too. And my religion is patriarchal but guess what? A man has to be worthy to be a patriarch and most men are not. You have to not drink, nor do drugs (weed is a drug), not smoke, not have anger problems, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 02:03 AM
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600-800 for a mortgage Lol Lol Lol More like 2000-3000
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 08:06 PM
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I'm not Muslim.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 08:06 PM
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You can just shave it, you don't need to subject yourself to torture.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 06:12 AM
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Lol I am middle eastern and they have been treating women like absolute shit for thousands of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 03:32 AM
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I am a kissless virgin and very religious and saving everything for marriage, yuppie is like the opposite of what I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 03:32 AM
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They grew up in a different time when such jobs paid decently. now days they wouldn't make enough to raise a family thanks to crippling inflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 03:31 AM
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I am not Mormon but I am religious Most homeschool kids I know ended up much more academically and socially advanced than their public school counterparts. I know one lady whose daughter is 14, getting straight A's in community college and taking AP classes through her online homeschool course. I also know another guy who graduated high school at 16 and is now at a respectable law school and another guy who graduated a year early at like 17 and got a music bachelor's degree in only 2 years and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 03:07 AM
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Lol I'm not marrying down precisely because I don't want a man to make me pay alimony or lose my assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 03:04 AM
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So a fat and ugly woman should marry a man who abuses her simply because she is fat and ugly? What if I told you she can just marry a fellow fat ugly man who holds doors for her and treats her well?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 02:19 AM
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Was the cheesecake lavish?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 02:17 AM
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Quietly? They should yell at their kids and wife and assert their dominance! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 02:16 AM
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Show me specifically in the video what indicated potential sugar baby behavior? Was it the cheesecake?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 02:15 AM
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Finally, i worked hard to get a good degree and am in school part time and planning to either get promoted where I work (to make $80-100k), relocate to get a higher position (make like $60-80k in areas where the COL is lower) or get a higher degree (to make $80-120k). If you want to sponge off my hard work, you need to work hard yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 02:11 AM
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If putting a lot of thought in who you marry is pathetic to you, then you're stupid. The person you marry can ruin your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 02:09 AM
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And the reason why your friends got by was because of one word: welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 02:09 AM
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And if you want a woman to pull her weight with a high paying job, you need to have a high paying job yourself. You want a woman who makes a lot of money? Then make a lot of money yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 02:08 AM
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If I can't work part time and homeschool the kids, then no kids for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 02:07 AM
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So what exactly was sugar baby about it? Was it holding the door open or getting her a slice of cheesecake? Do you get resentful if you get your girlfriend/wife a slice of cheesecake? Do you get angry about holding the door open?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 12:49 AM
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What specifically did the man do which was damaging? Was it holding the door open or getting her a slice of cheesecake?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 12:46 AM
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No. It's not sexist. I think this is excellent. Fathers set an example for their daughters and what sort of man he is is who she will select to marry. He is teaching his daughter "don't marry an abusive and bitter person". No. A man should treat his woman well. He isn't doing anything lavish, of course in this day and age men consider holding doors open for women to be "lavish" and taking your girlfriend or wife to Applebee's for cheesecake "beta" but it is not. Sadly, it is too high. Many men, …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 12:45 AM
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Yeah considering the crap I've seen here, if I ever have a daughter I would rather her marry an excellent man who treats her well or just be alone. I don't want her to end up with someone who bitterly resents her and hates her and thinks paying $5 for a coffee date is the equivalent of being a sugar daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 12:37 AM
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Plus if he is so loving, what's stopping him from going to school so that his family doesn't grow up in the 'hood?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 10:51 PM
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Plus $100K a year net is like blue collar in my area (e.g. A contractor and secretary). $150k is middle middle class (2 established nurses). Maybe 40-60 of your income will go to taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 10:49 PM
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I am not directing it to you in particular just proving my point because the general consensus on a lot of forums and on here is that everyone who has a hard time finding a job after graduation has a hard time solely because they didn't have a stem major.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 10:45 PM
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In order to afford a family, we would need a net income of a little over $100k a year. Since I make $66k, he needs to make $40k minimum, which is not spoiled. Oh but to you it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 10:41 PM
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Pampering is not even the word, survive comfortably in a non ghetto area. If we have children, a security guard would not make enough money to rent a two-bedroom, which runs easily over $2200 in non ghetto area. With 2 equal incomes (mine + his), yes, we can rent a two bedroom and we would be able to afford daycare and we would have to live frugally in order to have substantial savings. Since I make a decent income, if I married a security guard, I would make enough to cover rent and stuff but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 10:40 PM
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Well both of our points prove that simply having a STEM degree is pointless and people tend to blame college major alone when in reality we do have a saturated and competitive job market.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 10:31 PM
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Well we wouldn't be able to afford kids, that's for sure, and I feel like it would cause resentment if I pushed them to go to school and pursue a career that can support a family with. I do not feel comfortable at all being the breadwinner for a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 07:34 PM
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Are you saying I should have dated the security guard or medical assistant guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 07:27 PM
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What are you implying with this question? I am not married yet, but I would rather stay single than ruin my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 07:26 PM
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Tl dr: only marry a man making $100k + to prevent this from happening to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 05:46 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 04:34 PM
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Well I know engineering grads who took several months to a year to get a good engineering job My friend graduated 3 months ago with a master's in chemical engineering and is still looking. My other friend had a master's in biomedical engineering and it took her 6-8 months to get a job in her field. Another girl I know got a degree in civil engineering and spent a year searching only to end up working as a graphic designer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 04:33 PM
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I am a nurse but it's not unheard of to take 6-12 months to find a hospital nursing job. In fact, that's the standard. For nursing and engineering, unless you're willing to relocate to rural parts of America. I have a friend who took 14 months to get a hospital job, and now she makes more than me. It took me about 2 years to find the job I have now, but I was working crappy nursing jobs and spent some time unemployed. It's not the end of the world, it's the new standard which sucks but it is wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 04:30 PM
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You can put a queen bed and change the decor in your childhood room I am saving sex for marriage so presumably we would move out first
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 04:26 PM
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I think it depends on what his career path is and his age. I come from a conservative background. I don't date a guy unless I see myself potentially marrying him. And that means that I date very infrequently, but when I do, I take it seriously. I am in my early 20's, work full time in a "middle class" job, and am college educated. I don't want to date (and eventually marry) someone who is not on a path to financial stability and success. No, he doesn't need to be RICH, but he needs to bring in e…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 04:23 PM
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No not for me. I guess because I live at home, but unless a guy is making 6-figures, I anticipate that he would be staying home with his family to save money to buy a house. I am doing that and I don't know how I would be able to save up even for a down payment without living with my parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 04:10 PM
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Why do you call her a bimbo if she managed to like Quasimodo?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 04:08 PM
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Aka: I win, we all descended from Adam and Eve.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 03:05 AM
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So you are too lazy to cite the study and expect me to google it? I am not. Either you prove your point or you don't, it's not my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 02:56 AM
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What study? The study people use to say we all descended from Adam and Eve? You not citing an actual study isn't good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 02:53 AM
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That's bullshit. Specificy the chromosome.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 08:50 PM
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What is it with the RP belief that all women cheat??? Men are the ones who cheat. Look at famous people, such as tony Toutouni. He cheats on his wife all the time, and says women who don't want their husbands to cheat are bitches who keep men on a tight leash. Look at the youtuber Onision, he convinced his wife to have a threesome relationship with another woman. And he's been married like 3 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 03:44 PM
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Honestly who gives a shit about variety?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 03:36 PM
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yeah I will PM you!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 06:29 PM
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Aw thank you but I am not good at it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 03:52 AM
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Now you're just hamstring I mean hamstering
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 03:52 AM
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Because if a woman holds a controversial POV, men shun her for marriage. Source: me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 02:31 AM
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I am very religious and I hold down my convictions firmly and SO MANY MEN tell me I am too religious and too convicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 02:30 AM
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What is the man if they adopt each other's traits? Alpha or beta?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 02:29 AM
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And I have a collection of clothes and failed DIY's like watching fashion/ craft tutorials and visiting Pinterest and attempting to craft Do these count as hobbies to men? No. They don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 02:28 AM
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No, not really, I like Robin Williams, I am sure he played a bad guy in a movie before.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 05:47 AM
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Because $4200 after taxes is a lot, and $4200 before is not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 04:34 PM
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10 dates is nothing, I am waiting until marriage. 10 dates is like bare minimum if I wasn't religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 04:29 AM
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Don't bother talking to me because I am not sexually attracted to virgins regardless of how hot you might be, lol. What a shame. I was really hoping to attract you. Thanks for the tip.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 04:26 AM
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Is that $4200 before or after taxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 04:25 AM
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Where do I meet them?? I'm a nurse, it's all nice solid "beta women"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 04:23 AM
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WHERE DO YOU FIND THESE? I AM LOOKING. I AM A VIRGIN LIKE OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 04:21 AM
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OMG I hope I don't know who you are -_- you sound like my friend, that would be awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 10:48 PM
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Why would I not have sex with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 10:11 PM
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Also the other day I saw a guy selling produce at the farmer's market who was SO HOT and looked like a model. At the same time, I am talking to an average/ below average guy who is balding. The model looking guy is hot to look at, but the average/ below average guy is someone I can relate to and who I can talk to and feel comfortable around. Mr model probably has like 1,000 women who like him. Meanwhile mr average probably has just me. I want mr average.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 07:53 PM
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I don't want someone hideous, but average looking or plain is fine. I mean, I liked gordo from Lizzie McGuire. I have a type, which is geeky and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 07:51 PM
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What if I told you I want a less attractive man so that i don't have to worry as much about him cheating on me? Then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 05:32 PM
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Confidence? I know tons of non abusive men who are confident. Would you want to be treated by a non confident doctor? Would you want surgery from a surgeon whose hands shake? Would you want a lawyer who thinks you will lose? A pilot who is afraid?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 03:56 PM
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Tell me, what specifically do they say or do in the 10-15 minute conversation that is a screaming red flag for abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 03:00 PM
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Fuck off laughing at a woman for being beaten, that's gross. You're supposed to serve and protect people. What if the guy was a nice guy at first then showed his true colors??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 02:11 AM
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Why would you call your own husband a lardass pussybitch??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 08:38 PM
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ITT: the majority of men are just insulting women, even their own wives ("insufferable bitch") with a few genuine compliments thrown into the mix. I would love to be a submissive and domestic wife but not for someone who calls me a bitch and is weird and rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 05:52 PM
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Backhanded compliments. See, I want to be a loving and submissive wife but not to anyone from TRP, as they are always weird and defensive about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 05:49 PM
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I wish I had a husband who called me an insufferable bitch 25% of the time, it makes me feel tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 05:46 PM
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In the US, nursing pays $60-80k (more in Northern California/ NYC) and teachers make like $40-70k (idk if they make more in NorCal or NYC).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 06:25 AM
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I am scared too, because believe it or not being out of the job market for years can ruin your life. I want to work part time to keep my foot in the doors de contribute income but I also am open to not having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 08:30 PM
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I don't have a husband, but this is what I look for: Able to lead a family with the same values as me: This means being the same religion as me, wanting to raise kids a certain way, etc. Able and willing to provide for a family financially. (If we have kids) No, he doesn't need to be rich. But if I have kids, I want to be able to work part time and homeschool them. If it's not possible, then I don't want kids. If he is unwilling, then I don't want to marry him. Intimacy, love, and affection Obvi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 03:56 PM
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The same way most women are not gold diggers, but just want a man who is able to support a family without giant financial stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 03:02 PM
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Her money is nice, and the lifestyle that comes with that is awesome, but I would be a whore for exploiting her. I really like being filthy rich, so I would endure an ugly cunt, but I won't get hard/love her for that. "HER used as the object of a verb or preposition to refer to a female person or animal previously mentioned or easily identified.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 06:06 AM
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If your comment wasn't directed at me, then why did you reply to me in particular??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 03:59 AM
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It was implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 03:58 AM
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What do I care about casual sex when I want to get married??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 03:09 AM
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It's not the single mom part. It's the millions of dollars part. They SAY they don't care about how much money she makes, etc. but in reality, it's very important to men, almost moreso for men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 01:41 AM
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Because men have very very high standards in terms of looks. You have to look like a porn star or Kim karashian or Gigi Hadid or Miranda Kerr or else you are trash to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 01:40 AM
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Omg she isn't an ugly count. She isn't a model but she isn't ugly, good grief why do men have such insanely high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 11:38 PM
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Yes, I completely agree. Men here are in denial, but a woman's status matters. Maybe he would have married her if she was a doctor and not a world-renowned author, but he definitely wouldn't marry her as a broke single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 08:10 PM
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I don't go out of my way to find less attractive men who will appreciate me more, but I am much more comfortable with a less attractive guy than a stunningly handsome guy. I feel like I can be myself and flirt comfortably with a less attractive man. Women are not like men who just want the hottest they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 03:14 PM
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If you want your wife to work full-time, you better be cooking and cleaning regularly (as a shared household duty).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 03:02 PM
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Yeah but it's not wealthy enough that I would gold dig for it. $54,000 for a family of 5 is just barely surviving IMHO, and is definitely poor in my area (Southern California coast). The fact that 50% of families make less demonstrated that most Americans are poor. I personally would not have a child unless our combined income is at least $100k before taxes and even then I would insist that we live with my parents to save money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 03:59 PM
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Ssh don't say that on Reddit because men get deeply offended and call you entitled and spoiled.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 03:22 PM
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I don't understand this "earning respect" concept. Are you just mean to people until they earn your respect? Like you don't give basic kindness?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 04:59 PM
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Out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 06:40 PM
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Out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 06:40 PM
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But you should say "I am going out, I'll be back soon, I need some alone time" so she doesn't sit there and and wonder why you haven't come home yet or why you suddenly disappeared from the house without an announcement. And if you are going out to see your female friend, your spouse should know because friends of the opposite sex are a touchy subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 06:30 PM
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You can relax and do whatever comes to your head, but you should tell your spouse "I need some alone time, I'll be back in a few hours, I may go to the mall or something". I don't understand what is so bad about that. I would say that to my spouse so he knows I am not just vanishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 06:28 PM
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ok. I guess you come home to an empty house and don't wonder where your wife is, because that would be entitled. Then when she doesn't come home until 10 pm you don't care one bit, because you adhere to the Stoicism and TRP memes. You don't ask or anything. And I guess you sometimes just don't come home until 11 pm and get extremely outraged if your wife wonders where you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 06:02 PM
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Is saying "I am going to the mall" or "I am going for a walk" a time schedule or movements? Why is this information so important for you to withhold and keep secret from your spouse? Wouldn't you want your spouse to have an idea of where you are? Why wouldn't you share that with your spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 05:56 PM
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Did I say I need to know exactly what you are doing? No. I just need an idea of where you're going and with who. Do I need to know what store you are going to specifically? No (even though I just naturally share this information...) Do I want to know if you are going out with your female friend? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 05:12 PM
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Did I say I need to know exactly what you are doing? No. I just need an idea of where you're going and with who. Do I need to know what store you are going to specifically? No (even though I just naturally share this information...) Do I want to know if you are going out with your female friend? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 05:12 PM
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No it is not. Most people I know in married relationships share where they are going when they leave the house and let one another know when they are running late. It would be jealous and insecure if one spouse kept checking and not believing the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 04:58 PM
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I think that when you are late, you shouldn't tell anyone. Let him worry and wonder if you got in a car accident. That way you keep mystery!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 04:56 PM
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Ok maybe you like to be "mysterious" and leave the house without saying where you are going and why, and maybe your wife likes that "mystery", but I don't. What I will do for my partner, and what I expect in return is: If you're going to be home more than 15-20 minutes later from your usual time coming home from work, then call or text. If you are going out and I am at home say "I am going to the store/ park/ for a walk/ library/ pool/ to see my friend/ etc." so that I have an idea of what you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 04:00 PM
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Women would have the option to stay at home with their kids without being put down or ruining their lives in the process. Kids would mainly be homeschooled until age 10 to 12. Everyone would learn sewing, cooking, how to build a house from scratch, farming, and other life survival skills starting from early childhood onward. Men would not have to work crazy hours to support their family. Life would be cheaper and happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 03:19 PM
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Just like all the FA women who are told that their standards are too high and got their page shut down.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 03:16 PM
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Multiple people have said they consider just grunting "out" to be disrespectful, but you insist that it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 02:59 PM
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"I'm going out drinking with friends" is different from "out" and then not returning until late at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 02:57 PM
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It's not about trust, it's about being nice and considerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 02:56 PM
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Yeah, but if a man disrespects his mom, you know he will disrespect his wife as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 02:54 PM
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It's disrespectful to not say an easy answer like "out to see my friend joe" or "to the store" and "I'll be home late tonight".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 01:57 PM
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This is such a dumb answer. Don't tell me that when your mom asks you where you are going, you sarcastically say "out." and purposefully withhold 2-3 seconds of basic information.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 01:55 PM
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This is dumb. I would expect my husband to be annoyed if I said "out." tersely every time he asks me where I am going, and I fully expect him to be displeased if I used a male stripper.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 01:53 PM
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If I were to tell my mom "out" when she said "where are you going?" And just left the house, she would freak out because she is worried about me and loves me. But somehow that isn't good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 07:06 AM
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Well don't be sarcastic and try to imply that you are cheating on me on a regular basis in some attempt to manipulate me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 06:37 AM
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Lol if my husband said he was going to be back in an hour and when I say "where?" and he said "out" and just left, I would change the locks to the house while he is gone. It's not mysterious. It breeds distrust. All you need to do is say "out for some alone time driving around" or "I need some downtime alone, I'll be at the park reading" Then I would say "ok he needs his alone time" and as long as you aren't gone for hours and hours, I would be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 05:45 AM
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How did your wife get another job afterwards? How did she explain quitting? Also, losing 100 lbs in 4 months is literally 25 lbs a month. I am an RN, and I have learned that anything more than maybe 5-6 lbs a month can be dangerous. Ideal weight loss rate is 1 lb a week or 4 lbs a month. Maybe her weight came back because she didn't lose it slow and steady and instead did a crash diet and messed up her metabolism? A lot of women crash diet, lose tons of weight (like 20 lbs in a month), then rapi…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/16 11:41 PM
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If your wife quit her job, how did she make money to support herself and not become homeless?
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/16 04:27 PM
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That's so sad that you cheated on your ex wife multiple times and didn't even care. What is it with Jewish men lacking respect for their own women, damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 10:30 PM
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This is so true. I asked on here and on ask men does salary matter and I got a resounding YES. Whereas when you look at the archives of ask women and other pages you hear that as long as he can support himself it is ok. Also, think about the scene of Hannibal lector where he puts down the lady's shoes and bag. Like who gives a damn if your bag is from wal mart? Men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 06:08 PM
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