Cirmi Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
28	Friend zoned. Here's how I handled it.	Cirmi	/r/seduction	23/09/11 07:36 PM
2	Power of Touch: Subtle Gestures Can Boost Performance, Study Shows [Video]	Cirmi	/r/seduction	10/06/11 04:16 PM
1	We were a little bit too public and now she's uncomfortable. Seddit, your advice?	Cirmi	/r/seduction	10/10/11 12:02 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Magnetism, and other social questions. (Please Read!) A lot of great things have already been said here, but I'd like to still put this thread by TofuTofu here because most of it applies to what you're asking. I found this particular submission to be very helpful.	/r/seduction	05/11/11 04:32 PM
1	A good article on texting. "It works because people try to use your drunken state to pry the truth out of you," she says. "Little do they know I'm prying the truth out of them." Goddamn, I wish I hadn't fallen for this recently. Totally gave a great girl the wrong impression because I was trying to "take charge."	/r/seduction	02/11/11 06:38 PM
2	Seddit, how do I stop being an asshole? I would also like a link if you've got the time.	/r/seduction	01/11/11 05:32 AM
2	Eye Contact What helped for me was to pick an eye, any eye, to look into. For me it's the left one. I always look into their left eye, but they never notice. Works great.	/r/seduction	26/10/11 05:00 AM
2	If you are struggling with inner game, try not thinking about James Bond or molding yourself to some ideal and instead accept that people aren't perfect and try to love them (and yourself) anyway. This is part of the human experience - embrace it. Seduction and PUA aside, this line is great. Thanks	/r/seduction	21/10/11 06:47 PM
1	Any other PUA's keep a "diary" or log book about their experiences? I keep a journal that, although not exclusively used for PUA material, is a place where I can log my progress. It helps.	/r/seduction	20/10/11 04:19 PM
1	ON GIVING VALUE: Why you're not being invited out to do cool things pushing people out of their comfort zones Could you give any advice on this? I really try to get my friends to try new things but I always encounter resistance.	/r/seduction	18/10/11 02:53 AM
1	What Do You Guys Think of Flair? 1) I feel like it's pressuring me to provide "good" info, as opposed to just giving out advice and having a conversation. This is my biggest problem with flair.	/r/seduction	17/10/11 10:46 PM
2	Advice for a likely low-kino coffe date? (Will follow up with FR) I would really suggest you take her to a park and bring your own coffee or tea. Bonus points if this is already something you enjoy doing, because then she just happens to be "joining" you rather than "meeting" you. This way you're already out there having a good time. Doesn't that sound like a DHV? Besides, coffee shops are fucking boring. And public. EDIT: Scrubzor has a good point on having a follow-up activity planned. You can never be too prepared.	/r/seduction	12/10/11 06:07 AM
2	Real Love. How to Always be Happy. Love and Give. As a man who just returned from a year-long trip to India I say to you: thanks for sharing these.	/r/seduction	12/10/11 05:43 AM
2	Getting rid of the "us vs. them" mentality and why it's important for pickup Very well put. Thank you.	/r/seduction	07/10/11 03:11 PM
1	I've had a crush on a girl for two years now and finally went for the kiss close This is probably for the better. You'll no longer be stuck on the same person. Go out there and discover that there are thousands of women more deserving of your time than her.	/r/seduction	07/10/11 02:58 PM
3	Friend zoned. Here's how I handled it. Likewise...	/r/seduction	23/09/11 09:38 PM
2	Brilliant Opener!! Absolutely brilliant. Great follow-up as well. Good job.	/r/seduction	23/09/11 09:36 PM
0	Friend zoned. Here's how I handled it. I plan on it ;)	/r/seduction	23/09/11 09:30 PM
3	Friend zoned. Here's how I handled it. Great response man. I'll definitely be keeping this one in mind.	/r/seduction	23/09/11 09:02 PM
1	Just got rejected... but god damn if I didn't try! Great points. Comment saved.	/r/seduction	23/09/11 04:21 AM
1	Told a girl that I liked her. Is it beyond repair/not worth it? I found this really helpful. Thanks.	/r/seduction	20/09/11 03:55 AM
1	Power of Touch: Subtle Gestures Can Boost Performance, Study Shows [Video] I saw this after the NBA Finals game last night (go Mavs). This article may be largely about sports, but they go into a great deal of the role of touch everyday interactions. I felt like it reinforced the whole kino aspect of PUA really nicely. Sharing is caring. "touch instills trust, it contagiously spreads good-will" "touch can trigger the release of oxytocin in the brain, a chemical that induces trust" "the teams and the players that did the most touching did the most winning"	/r/seduction	10/06/11 04:31 PM
1	Tailoring texts to be intriguing - an article on flirty texts Also, here's the follow-up article Just used some of the stuff in here. Good link. ~Cirmi	/r/seduction	25/05/11 07:28 PM
2	[FR] - Helped an AFC K-close with just a few pointers Are you going to Braums with us? <It's Sher@mie:) >	/r/seduction	14/05/11 07:53 PM
11	[FR] - Helped an AFC K-close with just a few pointers You're a good man. ~Cirmi	/r/seduction	14/05/11 12:20 AM
1	How many Sedditors here are unemployed? Try sneaking in a flask. Prepare to be bounced if you get caught though. ~Cirmi	/r/seduction	10/05/11 07:36 PM
1	Sedditor Locator Anyone looking for a wingman in Dallas, message me.	/r/seduction	14/04/11 04:07 AM
1	[FR] Actress #-Closes Me, I Blow It... Did I fail a shit test? So I give this HB9 a "no way, you recognize that?" look (which in retrospect may come off too much like 'wow, I suddenly like you' - which is bad...). I don't know if I completely agree here. You can easily have that, "taken aback," look without coming off as desperate. If you seem surprised, try to turn it into a compliment of character. So I set out to entertain myself by passing the time till flight. We quickly got into conversation about hiking in the South Bay (where I live, and she lives i…	/r/seduction	08/01/11 03:12 PM