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It’s for men to become women and get into femdom fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:56 PM
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Men liked the fappening because of what it’s called. They spanked it to these women and moved on. But women like to humiliate, mock, shame men sexually. That’s what’s happening here. You decide which is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:31 PM
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Women calling us inherent deviants is projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:37 PM
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Women feel so entitled to men because in evolution men were a survival utility for women. That’s why women snicker and sneer at single, celibate men. You aren’t doing your evolutionary part. I say too bad. Kiss my Ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:06 PM
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It’s what the data says. Women are happier single. And like I said they can go to a sperm bank. So why are men supposed to chase women again?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:47 PM
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Tldr
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:27 PM
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Women can go to a sperm clinic to have kids. Or get pregnant in a hook up. This is a question about a relationship with women. Apparently relationships are net losses for women because women are happier single and childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:16 PM
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I think I know more than enough about female sexuality having been in relationships with women for over a decade in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:12 PM
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Just give it up dude. I took up yoga. Got better at guitar. I go to bars on Saturday nights for Karaoke and beers. You can leave a free and happy life as a bachelor. You will get rich much faster as a bachelor. Despite the resentful taunts from women, there are no down sides to being a single man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:34 PM
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I think it’s sad because it’s not the society I remember from the 90’s where almost everyone was partnered with children. And I naively thought the future wouldn’t change and that growing up would always mean eventually a partner and children. As a boy I predicted by my 30’s I would have my own home and children. Why wouldn’t I? And trying to fit into a society where that is now unlikely and maybe even irresponsible is a tough pill to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:29 PM
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Men aren’t struggling because of being average or below average. We’re struggling because society has nothing good for us to do and women hate us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:09 PM
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You can be an above average guy six feet tall handsome and still struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:05 PM
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This is a forum about modern dating, it’s not a dating site. I’m so tired of this condescending idea that men have to be partnered to have value.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 12:55 PM
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No I never dated after my divorce. I was with the same woman since 2015. Things were different then. If women are happier single it’s insulting to expect men to chase. It’s ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:16 AM
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I think over half of young men don’t date. Over half would be widespread. Technically I’m older than these guys. It’s 63% of men under 30 not dating. But I’m 36 not dating, my buddy is 36 and not dating. So guys in their 30’s have dropped out too. I think disrespect has a lot to do with it. And expectations. Women are happier without men and don’t need men for finances so we’re left with the expectation we pursue when we have so much less to offer. It’s not a good deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:59 AM
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You don’t believe men have left the dating market? I personally have been single since august. I don’t get the “what are we” conversation because I don’t have sex either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:47 AM
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You must know some men in real life who have withdrawn from dating and sex. It’s a widespread phenomenon. I do think women use men for sex, constantly. Men are just too stupid to realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:34 AM
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I haven’t dated after my divorce but it sounds like women today think men are only good for sex. Me Too said all these terrible things about how we were all rapist predators and women were like “if that’s how subhuman men are, I will just use them for sex.” That’s what it seems like. I’ve known women who think this way. I’ve dated some of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:01 AM
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And how do you suppose I would rebuild my poor confidence? I think I get plenty of interest from women at the bars I go to. I’m just not chasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 10:55 PM
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Oh hell no. I’m definitely not looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 10:14 PM
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Based on my experience I think it’s true that men are more emotionally monogamous, consider that we have more to lose when a relationship ends. My last relationship ended in August and I still have no shot at another. That means no more sex, no more companionship. So naturally with more to lose we get more attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:44 PM
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I don’t think male force is tenable if we want to prove why we’re needed in a good society. Really it would prove the liberals point, that masculinity needs to be muzzled and suppressed. I’m a peaceful man who would only use force in defense. We need to stick to that standard no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:35 PM
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I feel that. I don’t know why it’s so hard for parents to understand. They don’t understand men are coming from a position of cultural powerlessness and the only way we can maintain our dignity and not get eaten alive in relationships is to stay single. It’s sad but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:43 PM
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I dunno man I’ve cursed out my folks before. When they just don’t understand why we aren’t all making babies like its morning in America or some shit. These people milked when milking was good now turn around and tell us we suck. I don’t think so. Not even my folks can pull that shit with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:36 PM
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If my parents shamed me for being single I’d be pretty pissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:07 PM
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Teasing me for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:50 PM
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Why do you appreciate the silence? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:26 PM
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Oh ok. Even so. I ended a toxic marriage with a violent alcoholic woman who slept with a huge knife next to the bed and I’m kind of triggered by this story.
/r/MensRights01/02/24 04:12 PM
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I’m a good looking guy who avoids women maybe we can trade places. Like that movie. Trading places.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:08 PM
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I enjoy the disappointment because a few glances from a woman shouldn’t mean I drop everything i’m doing and be expected to chase, then all obligation and expectation is on me, like I should be so lucky to be given this opportunity just because of a few shared glances, when at the same time you don’t need men for anything. I don’t have a good place to take a woman for romance any way. I just think I’m devalued when I’m expected to chase for just sex. I’m not doing it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:02 PM
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It’s not like I’m dying. I’m not going anywhere. Just not dating. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:39 PM
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It was a problem for me personally. I’ve always hung out in bars and I shouldn’t have let women be so bold with me when I was 23. But it’s not so much a problem now, maybe I’m losing my sex appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:35 PM
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I’ve kind of accepted mass social instability is coming. But I live in a rich suburb in Ron Desantis’ Florida so I think I’ll be alright. That’s privilege for you. But no I think men and women want different things. What we’re really doing is letting evolution take control and in evolution women are the selectors.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:32 PM
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If single, childless women are happiest can women leave us alone and stop asking for sex and relationships? I’m personally very happy as a bachelor. I feel like a kid again. And frankly I don’t want to live as long as my grandparents did on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:16 PM
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I’m not complaining about anything. I’m good. I think it’s sad for American society. I remember the 90’s when most adults were partnered with children. But the culture changes and it is what it is. I’m cursed with a good memory.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:00 PM
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That’s fine. Men don’t need to follow your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:51 PM
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That’s because I’m the fuckin man. No I’m kidding that’s because when I finished my bachelors I just stayed in college in hiding from the 2011 job market.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:40 PM
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Tldr Depression rates among women are very high I think because men do no longer pursue women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:36 PM
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Well I’m in a minority then because historically I earned a masters degree in 2014.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:35 PM
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I already have, my last relationship ended last summer. I know I won’t be missed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:34 PM
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Is this a sub on dating? I thought it was the Pill debate, which is really a socio cultural debate about the state of modern dating. Some women have wronged me but that’s not why I’m a bachelor. I just can’t see what women add to my life in a relationship. It’s a hassle. A waste of time and energy. Arguments happen, that’s the worst. I got into a bad argument with my ex wife right on the sunset strip. She was an alcoholic and hasn’t had a drink and she’s screaming and I can hear her voice bounci…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:11 PM
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I know, and I’m criticizing women’s behavior that is beyond the reach of public policy. You can’t make people behave at a bar that’s for damn sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:05 PM
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I don’t feel invisible to women but I’m not any more optimistic. When I go out I get a good amount of attention from women. But I don’t see what they can offer my life. After my divorce and living with my parents means I can’t get intimate, so why bother? I don’t think I’ll date ever as long as I live with my parents. And it’s so clearly women want to be chased in the worst way. It’s stupid. You said you want equality but you still want to play Tom and Jerry games at the bar. At the end of the n…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:03 PM
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Better by what standard? This particular strain of capitalism feminism celebrates participating in is as toxic as Marx would have predicted. We can clearly see a history of public policy designed by corporate lobbyists that have economically emasculated America’s men. Our way back to dignity is discovering ourselves as bachelors.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:56 PM
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Boys and men are doing nothing wrong in my opinion. We simply don’t need relationships with women when we get nothing out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:24 PM
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I think would be war between genders. I don’t treat women like I used to. I used to chase, I used to date, I used to have sex, I used to praise, and now I enjoy snubbing interested women in public. I enjoy the depressed look when they realize i’m walking away instead of approaching. So something is definitely going on. In 2010 I was a stud chasing women like no tomorrow. So the culture causes me to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:21 PM
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I tried apps because I’m human. I wanted to be a father. But I’ve since deleted them and I might end up adopting instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:18 PM
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Then I had a very equitable divorce and I’m enjoying not approaching which is also equitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:15 PM
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War also means a state of conflict, competition, and hostility between groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:14 PM
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It seems that way because feminism makes women hypocritical. They want equality but complain men don’t chase. One minute we’re toxic masculinity they next minute they whine we don’t chase. I’ve seen women do this at bars. They look at you, make you sure notice, then act like you’re supposed to chase like I’m the coyote abs she’s the road runner or some shit. It’s dumb. Yet they claim they want equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:13 PM
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The gender war just manifests differently in the real world. Women are passive aggressive toward men and men avoid and ignore women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:10 PM
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It’s not equality if girls pass boys out in education and home ownership. In equality 50% of divorced would be initiated by men. I initiated my divorce so I’m working hard for equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:08 PM
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I noticed my behavior changed since Me Too. Just last weekend trying to get by a woman in a cramped bar I said excuse me and rather than touch her in any way I got awkwardly caught on her back back, and meanwhile my hands are like in prayer pointing forward and visible so everyone can see I’m not touching her in any way. I’d rather be embarrassingly caught on her backpack than be accused of harassment. Also, women give invites in bars with eye contact games. I ignore those games too and women of…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:04 PM
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What makes you think a single man must find a woman or wants to find a woman, when women believe they are worth infinite effort but offer nothing in return? I’m a bachelor by choice. I ignore women at bars all the time. Especially the women who try to get noticed by me. I ignored all my matches in dating apps then deleted the apps. Men don’t need women anymore. And vice versa. Women said they could do it all themselves. So what’s the problem? Many people are choosing to be single today. There’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 11:58 AM
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That’s a fantasy. No woman is worth all the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:48 AM
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Sure men like consistent sex but it’s not always an option. And even in relationships you might not get consistent sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 07:55 PM
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Who cares? What is a woman’s approval worth?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 06:43 PM
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No I got drunk.
/r/MensRights31/01/24 11:42 AM
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I’m a man and I don’t value any of these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:10 AM
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I just hung out last weekend. I drank 7 Irish beers. It was great.
/r/MensRights31/01/24 02:21 AM
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No, you talked about men wanting to have sex as a bad thing. I disagree and think our sexuality should be seen in a positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:43 AM
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Sure why not.
/r/MensRights31/01/24 12:55 AM
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I’m sad for the husband. Never get married. This could be you.
/r/MensRights30/01/24 11:29 PM
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My response has been what is our purpose in life as men? They never have an answer.
/r/MensRights30/01/24 11:26 PM
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That’s probably not the only reason feminists are feminists. But if given power most humans will use it. Women or men. The problem is the dating market removes all power from men so it’s not fun or worth it to participate.
/r/MensRights30/01/24 09:32 PM
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In some sense all relationships are a competition for power. She wants to make sure you won’t leave. My ex wife pulled power moves on me after the wedding and I divorced her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:38 PM
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A number of things are going on. One, things always look worse on Reddit. Two, too much unbridled neoliberal capitalism since Reagan. Led to the GFC. Fucked up housing and working class jobs for men. Three, women have been angry with men for a long time, over patriarchy, rape culture, etc, and are now able to take their anger out on us. Four, this is all going on with the backdrop of an unaccountable oligarchy and a runaway climate crisis. So this is a deeply traumatized society and the genders …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:36 PM
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But not as exaggerated as the number of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:28 PM
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As a man I never thought I had out of control standards. In fact I’ve often been accused of being able to do better - including by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:19 PM
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Why is men wanting to have sex icky but women wanting sex is beautiful and empowering?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:47 PM
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I don’t approach anymore because I don’t want that to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:46 PM
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