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Never. EVER. EVEREVEREVEREVEREVEREVEREVEREVEREVEREVEREVEREVEREVEREVEREVEREVEREVEREVEREVEREVEREVER AGAIN.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/22 07:59 PM
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You’re lucky. I’ve been married for 8 years. Bought a house for $400k. The house is now worth about $700k. I love my house, my neighborhood, and my neighbors. I really don’t want to live anywhere else. It’s perfect. Well, the housing market is insane, and my best financial bet is to keep the house, refinance, and buy my stbx out, because even after giving her half the equity, I’d still be paying less than if I bought another house worth living in. I get to cut my ex a check for $150k+ after she …
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/22 07:58 PM
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I knew when I had just moved her mom into our house after my wife’s father died. While the U-Haul (that I packed up myself and drove 20+ hours) was still sitting in front of our house, my dad was admitted to the hospital with an unknown heart condition. I told my wife that I need to go see my dad, and all she said is that I can’t because I “might get fired for missing too much work” (wasn’t going to happen). She also had no problem with me taking off work to move her mom or a separate trip to he…
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/22 03:52 PM
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Privacy?? I laughed out loud too😂 You best believe she was talking all kinds of shit about you to the APs…
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/22 12:11 PM
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My comment was all sarcasm. There’s no logical reason for someone to want to keep their wedding/engagement ring after filing for divorce- Besides greed, of course. Gotta charge that one to the game though.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/22 05:31 PM
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“iT wAs A GiFt!”🥴
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/22 03:01 PM
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I hope you sold it. Even if it was for $1.
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/22 03:01 PM
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That’s seriously fucked up.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/22 03:57 AM
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A new mountain bike. More specifically, a Transition Spire. I’d like to take weekend trips to different trails all over the country.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/22 02:02 PM
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I’ll put it this way… It’s hard to gross out a nurse. They deal with basically every bodily function on a daily basis, and no one is coming to a hospital because they’re doing great.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/22 06:35 PM
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Dude you sound depressed. How much does your marriage actually have to do with your depression? I ask, because the reality is, if your marriage is not the cause of your depression, you’re still going to be depressed after you’re divorced, only now you’ve broken up your family and financially set yourself back in a major way. Start by getting therapy either way. I have yet to see it hurt, only help. I’m including my own experience in that statement, as well as some other married guys I’ve talked …
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/22 04:05 PM
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Marrying a nurse is the equivalent to a woman marrying a professional athlete. Cheating just comes with the territory.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/22 12:32 AM
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Man I wish he was still here. We need him now more than ever.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/21 06:46 PM
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Bro WTF. You’re not dealing with an even REMOTELY rational person.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/21 07:44 PM
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This shit right here.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/21 04:00 PM
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Ahhh… The old “Spa Weekend… Alone” trick again huh? Sounds like she’s already found your replacement.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/21 03:57 PM
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I didn’t even finish reading this. She’s an abusive bum. Meet with a lawyer to get an accurate picture of what divorce will look like for you. So what if you have to pay her spousal support for a few years? Bro, you sound like you’re a total catch for most women, and she knows it. She does this to you because she’s insecure and probably has a Cluster-B personality disorder. Make an appointment with a lawyer NOW and start your exit plan. Start lifting weights. Get into a hobby you’d enjoy doing e…
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/21 01:34 AM
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“She admitted to checking me to "make sure I wasn't talking shit" about her.” …To whom? Internet strangers?
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/21 04:44 PM
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You need to remove her from your life. Your children need you and this “woman” is draining you. She’s a detriment to your ability to be a great father. Also, like others have said, she sounds textbook BPD. Read up on that shit. Good luck, Bro.
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/21 07:58 AM
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“Not worrying about how someone else's mood of the day is going to affect my life” BRUH. I’m still on the fence, and this is without a doubt, the hardest part of my situation. I never know what I’m going to get from day-to-day, hour-to-hour, minute-to-minute. I’m just drained.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/21 03:20 AM
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I believe marriage could be worth getting into again, but I’m not willing to take that chance. Fool me once…
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/21 04:19 PM
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Go Giants!😂
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/21 07:57 PM
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My wife asked me a hypothetical question yesterday that she saw on instagram: “If I went missing for 5 years, and miraculously returned, would you leave your NEW WIFE for me?” Me: “New WiFe??”🤣 I tried, but I couldn’t contain my laughter😂
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/21 06:05 PM
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There’s probably another guy. She may not be fucking him, but she’s got somebody in mind. They don’t just leave for no reason. Regardless, she’s checked out. She’s done. She doesn’t want you anymore, and the reason doesn’t matter. You shouldn’t try to be with someone who doesn’t want you. Rip that band-aid off and get on with your life. …and thank the good Lord you don’t have kids with her.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/21 04:57 PM
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Idk what your situation is, but weed works a lot better. ESPECIALLY in the gym.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/21 04:19 PM
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That’s exactly why I got out. I never wanted to deploy ever again after my first child was born. Now my wife makes me so miserable, I have to decide how important seeing my kids every day is. I can’t leave, but I can’t stay.
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/21 03:14 AM
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“Biggest problem with most women, (in my opinion) is that they don't know how to make themselves happy. (When in a relationship)” This.
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/21 01:44 PM
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I think she was just trying to fuck with you. This sounds like mind games for sure.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/21 04:55 PM
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That would be EPIC😂
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/21 06:37 PM
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I just took a peek in that sub and OH MY GOD these women are delusional and self-centered. Not one sentence or phrase that wasn’t completely self-centered. Nothing about caring for another human being. Just hatred for men. They all sound like sociopaths.
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/21 06:34 PM
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I got a vasectomy because I have two kids, and I don’t want three😂
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/21 04:10 PM
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I’m married w/ two kids, and let me tell you- If I end up divorced, I’m never getting married again. I don’t see any benefits in it for me.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/21 04:07 PM
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Listen to this man, OP.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/21 03:56 PM
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Serious Question: Now that she’s moved out, what do you miss about her? Why the fuck is she working part-time when you have no kids? I can see right through her from all the way over here. She sounds like a leech. The kind of person who does whatever it takes to get what they want, so long as they don’t have to get it for themselves. That requires actual hard work and sacrifice. She doesn’t seem cut out for that. You have no kids and no shared assets with this person. You’re not even 30 and you …
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/21 03:52 PM
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Oh things with her replacement didn’t pan out the way she’d hoped, and now she’s trying to fall back on Plan B. You’re her Plan B. Don’t be Plan B. She doesn’t love you, OP. You’re just a placeholder until she finds someone else. You seem to understand that from your actions/mindset, so stay the course Bro. You’re doing the right thing.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/21 01:38 PM
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Stoicism in a nutshell.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/21 01:18 PM
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He never does. That’s why he’s home to fuck your wife while you’re deployed😂
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/21 12:01 PM
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Are you serious!? You expect her to just get over you fucking her best friend and trying to fuck her sister!? What would you do if the tables were turned? I know I’d kick your snake ass to the curb. Let her go. You don’t deserve her and she doesn’t deserve what you put her through.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/21 01:30 PM
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Definitely manipulation. Stay the course. Take care of yourself, Brother.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/21 12:56 PM
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Sorry, Bud. I tend to side with your wife on this one. She had a serious health problems issue related to pregnancy, and your answer is “I don’t care. Have more babies because the pope says so?” The moment my wife didn’t give a shit about my health, I’d be out too. I wish you both success in your pursuit of happiness.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/21 11:38 PM
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“A lot like when a Navy ship goes into an active conflict zone and a bunch of the female sailors suddenly get pregnant and have to be sent home.” I’ve seen some divisions absolutely decimated by this. You’d think I’d have learned something from it.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/21 09:16 PM
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DSO changed my life. You’re either going to wake your wife the fuck up, or you’re going to realize she’s not good enough for you. If you follow DSO’s advice, you’ll be better off either way.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/21 03:15 AM
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Be careful. The prettiest women there are men. I wish I was joking😂
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/21 03:50 PM
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Yeah get the FZ-09 for sure. The extra displacement makes a difference. Plus, the bike is more forgiving than a supersport, so you’ll find that the power isn’t overwhelming like the difference between a 600RR and a 1000RR. I rode the 07 and 09 on the track once at a Yamaha demo day, and boy those FZs are fun!
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/21 03:45 PM
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She bargained for another month in the affair as a condition for reconciliation? Does that sound rational to you? Does that sound like someone who cares about anyone besides themselves? Do what you need to do bro.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/21 04:06 PM
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