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A lot of it is simple economics. The cost has exceeded the value in many people's eyes. There are "cheaper" substitute products to fill the void. For example, women can get tons of attention & validation and sex by hopping on the apps or IG. Dudes have OF, porn & video games to fill their void. Obviously, these are poor substitutes for real relationships, but the cost is next to nothing. Following simple economics, we have Simp Economics, but that's another story.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 07:34 PM
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True, but you have to have an LTR to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 07:03 AM
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It's not just above average men. Alot of men in general want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 10:47 PM
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Your premise is inaccurate. Once a man gets married or in an LTR, his SMV increases by 2-3 points. It's easy as heck to cheat when you're married.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 10:44 PM
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I think most women/feminist prefer nebulous definitions & standards. That way they can define whatever takes place however they want. It fits their solipsistic nature. What i think they're having a hard time with is seeing forward; understanding that actions have consequences. So if we break down the example of men making passes from this POV, it loks something like this. Women don't want certain guys making passes at them, therefore they classify making a pass as harassment, creepy, etc. What t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 11:25 AM
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I think it grows old really quick for a lot of them. You have to remember this is women we're talking about and they'll get a couple glasses of wine in them and walk and grab a dude's package. I remember one friend that would get propositioned a couple times a night brought his GF one time and he says sorry I'm with my GF, so this broad offers a threesome right in front of his GF. You know how women claim guys are or do this that or the other and they always exaggerate it??? That's because that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 02:31 AM
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Good answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 11:08 PM
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Rules for thee and not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 10:55 PM
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Ignore what they say. Pay attention to what they do. Informally poll couples you know and see how many started as friends. My guess is under 10%. Furthermore, just because I have romantic interest in somebody doesn't mean I don't see them as human beings. That's insane. When these same woman have romantic interest in guy, do they not see him as a human being? Get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 08:50 PM
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No doubt if they offered themselves as part of the deal, lots of these women would have taken that deal, which is exactly why Chads are often disgusted by women. None of us had any interest in going there in pursuit of 🐈🐈🐈
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 08:35 PM
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We tried everything. My Super Chad friend, there was nothing he could have done. Once a gal locked in on him, it was over. My Chad friends would try to deflect attention to us, but it was rarely successful. Most of my Chad friends were somewhere between indifferent to disgusted with most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 04:25 PM
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The mental load. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 11:29 AM
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Tried the wingman thing with these guys. The thing about being average around Chad is you literally become invisible. And around my Super Chad stripper friend, I would get treated even worse than invisible. For a group that claims they aren't into looks, watching how they operate around Chads up close and personal tells a whole other story.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 11:19 AM
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I have to say I was lucky to have a lot of friends who were good with the ladies and they'd try and help ne with ge ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 04:11 AM
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I remember a Chad friend of mine telling me the secret to women is "Kick them and they'll come crawling back like a dog". And I witnessed it time and time again, but it just didn't make sense, but it eventually sunk in. Just do the opposite of what "they" say and to puts you 80, 90, 100% on target.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 01:54 AM
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I was one who had to unlearn. I think that's why you see so many Gen X men in Red Pill/manosphere spaces. Gen X men got gaslite bad, and now that we have the interwebs, we don't want to see happen to future generations. Of course, feminist claim telling guys the truth is misogynyy because it doesn't paint women in a flattering light.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:23 PM
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Agreed. Ultimately, there is a lot of gaslighting of men and the Red Pill removes the confusion created by that gaslighting. Many (most?) women, feminists and male feminists prefer men believe what they are told vs what they observe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:16 PM
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Red Pill grew out of PUA, which was just OGs observing female behavior prior to the internet. RP was originally just to expose guys to the facts and let them decide how to proceed no longer under the influence of the blue pill. Then people invaded that space and used it to sell their multitude of narratives. Where Red Pill failed men is as content creators pointed out "flaws" women, women reacted by doubling and tripling down and now we have untenable dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:03 PM
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I've seen women proposition my attractive male friends within minutes of meeting them, so let's not pretend personality is some of prerequisite for either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:43 PM
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Had a buddy who was stripper. He couldn't be out at the clubs after 10-11pm or it was just a non stop parade of women grabbing him, touching him, etc. If guys did that to a woman at a club, a big guy who did steroids & spent lots of time in the gym would pay you a visit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 10:51 PM
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Can we apply this definition to both genders? I feared she'd attack my reputation online or in our friend group. I feared she'd kick me out and the lease is on her name. I feared my female boss could do x,y,z. I feared she'd leave and take the kids. In essence, and women seem to do this a lot, we've created a definition so devoid of concrete meaning, that anything can be defined as rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 10:32 PM
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I think he's entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 04:20 AM
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Because sheeple will follow the crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 04:17 AM
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Spamming cold approachs works just fine. The conversation rate is incredibly low, but still 1000s of percent better than dating apps. You don't have to particularly mentaly tough. With proper approachs you can avoid rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:42 AM
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I have no idea. I tend to believe there is no master plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:35 AM
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If he says nothing, then the societal norm won't change.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:43 PM
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The Simp Industrial Complex = all the simps that bail out 304s, all the offy doffys, the guys with OF subscriptions, all the guys in the friendzone, pay pigs, the guys that shower women with attention and validation despite never getting anything in return, all the Blue Pilled Beta Simps, the male "feminist allies" and on and on and on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:41 PM
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The Simp Industrial Complex is real and destroying dating and everything down stream of that, including families and eventually society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:27 AM
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Maybe you're right about sociopaths, as "they" say women are attracted to criminals. One does what works and stops doing the things that don't work. Should I have showered my wife in attention and drove her away? Lord forbid I be called a narcissist, socipath, abusive, etc for doing what is necessary to have success in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:11 PM
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I'm not exceptionally handsome. Hell, I was bald by my mid 20s, yet ~80-90% of women I dated or approached, pursued when I became disinterested. I've been asked "aren't you gonna kiss me (or ask for my # or ask for second date) numerous times and I can guarantee it isn't because I'm exceptionally good looking. I wouldn't be married if women don't pursue when you act aloof. This dynamic is exactly why guys are able to maintain rosters. That said, obviously male attractivness & women's willingness…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 04:46 PM
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Not in the imagination. I learned to date from PUA and I could see the switch go on in most women when I became aloof. My generation had to date IRL. I've witnessed how hard you ladies pursue a guy who dismissed you, especially if he's tall dark and handsome. Why women continue to expect dudes to ignore decades of observed phenomenon is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 04:11 PM
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Yet being aloof is such an effective dating tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 12:20 PM
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I have female friends who I developed feeling for and weren't reciprocated. We're still great friends and I no longer have any feelings for them. Where it's not a good idea to keep the friendship is you're not able to put your feelings aside. Or some women will leverage the imbalance to "use" the guy. I suppose it goes the other way sometimes too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:33 PM
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Because that is their particular concern, maybe they're experiencing challenges in the dating market. This may sound bonkers but is it possible that different people have different concerns or prioritize the affects of population collapse differently. For example, I'm married and therefore my sex life is unaffected by low birth rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:28 PM
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The issue with birth rates goes way beyond men's desire to be with the fairer sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:41 PM
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No debate necessary, title says it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:20 PM
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If truthful reveals any vulnerability, then avoid that truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 12:46 PM
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Men wearing wigs, fake up and heels is the solution to this problem. Or...... this may sound a little radical, but what if women stopped doing that stuff. BTW, ladies, the face tune filters make you look ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 10:06 AM
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Correcting my typo. My mom is the only one who loves for me fur who I am. Didn't try? I've asked hundreds perhaps a thousand women. I've been married for 15 years. I tried my ass off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:18 PM
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I also used PUA as a foundation. I had no interest in racking up bodies. But once I became PUA aware and I could see women fall into their programming, there is little doubt moderately attractive male could wreck havoc using these tactics and strategies. One issue is how do measure your success in dating and bodies is an easy metric to track.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:05 PM
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Why would (for example) burying you emotions attract toxic people? Men have been burying their emotions for eons. Why would I pretend women give 2 poos about "who I am", when the only woman in my life for who I am is my mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:57 PM
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Yeah, I forgot to drink the incels are scourge of the world Kool aid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:50 PM
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I don't know about that. Once I read PUA books you can pretty much apply the tactics and women respond almost universally.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:12 AM
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Well said. And alot of the gurus put themselves in a niche in an attempt to create a working business model (ie the looks maxxers) and in turn that distorts the narratives out there and makes it easy for the world to dismiss all the good advice because guys like Clavicular & Tate are living caricatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:09 AM
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I disagree. Most of the fishermen I knew where knee deep in the game and gave great advice. Unfortunately, there is an insane amount of misinformation being pushed making it easy to misinterprete and ignore the excellent advice these fishermen shared.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:02 AM
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That's an odd thing to say about Red Pill communities since their are many female influencers in that space and they're friends with the men in that space.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:57 AM
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Agreed. If I kept listening to what the ladies I knew kept saying I'd still be single and missed out on so much in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:54 AM
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I did consider that. Then I watched women who doled out the friends first advice do the exact opposite over and over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:50 AM
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Actions speak louder than words. The fact that a group of people have convinced another group that acknowledging and acting on this truth is gaslighting on a insane level.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:42 AM
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Don't be the nice guy, be controlling, objectify women, bury your emotions, remember women don't love you for who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:38 AM
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Married 15 years with 2 kids. Huge improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:34 AM
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I wouldn't pay alot of attention to women's dating advice. When I started reversing all the advice women dispensed, my dating live improved drastically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:06 AM
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I don't know if can be done. 60-65% of women seem determined to destroy Western Civilization and ~30% of men arejoining them. How do you save a society that has so many "enemies" within? The only way i can see that we could change direction woukd be an extremely fascist gov't, which in tyrn would just be a different way of destroying Western Civilization.
/r/MensRights04/03/26 03:16 AM
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Seems to be a pattern i the mensrights sub reddit today.
/r/MensRights04/03/26 03:07 AM
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The patient was there for drugs. You can't make this up.
/r/MensRights04/03/26 03:06 AM
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He would have been found guilty on their words alone. Good on him for protecting himself.
/r/MensRights03/03/26 12:51 AM
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