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No, dumbfuck, it’s like saying “the people who are racist on 4chan are also the ones who constantly praise race mixing and celebrate immigration”. One can be easily pointed to, the other requires a far more complicated and less obvious linkage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 03:10 AM
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Those are multiple statements, there’s no reason to think that someone saying one of those things is also saying the others, at least not at any large scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 11:27 PM
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Do you have any source for these being the same women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:15 PM
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Lmao how do you think that 250k was accumulated? By many +1s.
/r/seduction13/11/25 04:22 AM
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Only if you prescribe to the worldview that everyone needs to sugarcoat everything, all humans/women are equal, etc. If you believe in harsh truths he didn’t necessarily say anything wrong or indecent, and the woman he’s talking about would probably benefit to take it to heart, but unfortunately no one is likely to tell her to her face and she won’t consider it until it’s too late. Calling someone a 7 isn’t an indecent statement. Explaining that not everyone is special enough to deserve top tier…
/r/seduction13/11/25 12:27 AM
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How is that possibly your interpretation of what he said?
/r/seduction12/11/25 07:41 PM
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Let me guess, you’re a woman? Because how could that possibly be your interpretation of OPs post unless you’re upset with modern dating rhetoric and want to downplay any fault of women? He gave literally no indication that he is attracted to this particular friend, he simply gave observations about her dating patterns and how it’s off putting. I completely see where he is coming from. Women now more than ever are sold luxurious lifestyles that only a fraction of a fraction can actually sustain. …
/r/seduction12/11/25 07:40 PM
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Yea lmao I’ve literally never seen anything even remotely resembling what that person is describing in any porn sites. Definitely getting curated results based on his cookies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 09:13 AM
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You’re misreading.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:39 AM
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“Don’t like them” is not the same as “doesn’t want to have sex”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:54 PM
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most women are not mature enough to be in a relationship That’s a seemingly wild and highly controversial statement, and I’ve never thought of it explicitly but I think you’re right. I’m not sure if it was always this way or it’s a result of women for the last 25 years being told they’re so special, don’t take shit, focus on your career etc and you can do everything a man can (thereby losing all of their inherent feminine traits), and most importantly having so many simps (because men have less …
/r/seduction11/10/25 10:10 PM
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RSD Anam?
/r/seduction11/10/25 09:51 PM
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How is a current gf an ex gf?
/r/seduction04/09/25 04:34 AM
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Bruh, stories cost nothing to look at. Viewing a story is not the same as her going out of her way to find your stories. For all you know she’s simply scrolling through all of her friends stories and yours end up showing up.
/r/seduction26/08/25 08:07 PM
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Nah this is still being needy. Better to let her view your stories. What’s the cost? Blocking her shows you’re too emotionally invested and it comes off as weird imo.
/r/seduction26/08/25 08:06 PM
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Unfortunately people in real life very much do think this way. But it’s potentially out of jealousy and being told to think that way rather than actually being against it or having a good reason to be against it. I’ve had several people in my life gossip about other guys saying things along the lines of “it’s gross his girlfriend is 7-10 years younger than him” (guys in the age range of 28-32), and I’m one of the only people making an argument to them that there’s nothing wrong with it. The vast…
/r/seduction23/08/25 09:22 PM
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Unfortunately women from the coasts are some of the worst women on Earth to date. Middle America is definitely better, but it’s obviously way harder to find someone drop dead gorgeous and intelligent outside of the coasts. People in both Cali and NYC for example are just so fixated on career, hierarchy, social perception, etc. NYC especially imo, the dating culture there actually makes me sick to my stomach. I say this as someone who makes a lot of money, is not short (6’0), very fit, etc. I hav…
/r/seduction10/07/25 07:19 PM
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The point about clothing is such a good one that I haven’t seen discussed before. Usually I’m pretty fashionable and I’m known as being “well dressed” but there have been times where I’m slightly fatter than usual so I’d rather just wear something much more casual/loose/etc. But in those periods of times I’ll end up having plans that basically require me to dress up and I will but I end up being so damn uncomfortable and feel like I’m hiding myself and just have a terrible time. Many of those ni…
/r/seduction01/06/25 06:09 PM
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Yea, dare I say that’s not even really catfishing? Her body wasn’t even shown. I just assume anyone with purely face pics is fat and I swipe left immediately, even if they have a semi pretty face.
/r/seduction29/05/25 07:18 PM
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Meh, being a gentleman can still be a thing despite the bitterness towards modern dating in online discussions. I always pay even if I didn’t have a good time, and I think that’s a good standard for men to hold themselves to. I do think dealing with a catfish is a different story though but even then I’d be tempted to pay, or in reality I’d just leave the second I see her. That being said I also think there’s some nuance. I just assume someone is fat if they only have face pictures. It’s one thi…
/r/seduction29/05/25 07:17 PM
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Pretty much yea. People throw around this term but in all context I’ve seen it’s 99% rooted in monetary success (which can definitely be a reflection of one’s values, but a lossy reflection at best) rather than rooted in… actual values. Someone can be an absolute piece of shit and if they’re making a lot of money and in good shape the kind of women to use this term will still apply it to that man. It’s “value” in the sense of a stock be valuable, not the other meaning of value.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:44 PM
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Honestly maybe. Fitness alone could bring you up 3 points for sure, maybe 4. And in some people’s eyes maybe more. For example I personally have extremely high standards for face and personality but the second a girl is crazy fit with a bubble butt my standards for all of that drop immensely. Same goes for how women look at men. But even if to the average woman you being fit only increases you from a 2/10 to a 5/10, you can also increase from a 5/10 to a 6/10 by having great style, a 6/10 to a 7…
/r/seduction03/05/25 04:23 AM
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I think this thread just needs a more strict definition of “dating”. Dating to have sex? Dating for short term relationships? Dating to marry? Depending on which one it is it completely depends, and it also depends what kind of girls the guy likes. A good looking guy is going to have an easier time finding one night stands than you typical moderately rich but mediocre looking guy. But that good looking guy is also not going to be able to marry or date long term a beautiful woman who works as a s…
/r/seduction30/04/25 09:51 PM
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100% which is why I always encourage people to not ghost/be bitter/distance themselves after a girl rejects them/makes it clear they’re not into the guy. I get it can be difficult and you might be reminded of your feelings for that girl and be sad about it but beyond that there is literally no downside to staying friends with a girl. The only downside is emotions which you can and should learn to deal with, bury, ignore, or whatever other way of not letting them affect you. You’re a man. I so of…
/r/seduction18/04/25 06:43 PM
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That’s wildly untrue and I’m surprised this is the top comment. Even women who are highly successful still want someone to provide for them monetarily but also in other ways. Especially any woman this is highly feminine in nature.
/r/seduction02/04/25 06:44 PM
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Bro this is 100% a mindset that has been repeated so often by what I can only assume are white knights and fat girls who are jealous that guys have actually started believing it 😂 The gym is a great place to meet girls, especially if you’re into fit girls. Even living in a highly populated city, I still run into 10x more girls that are my type (super fit, fat asses) at the gym per hour than anywhere else. The caveat is that you need to be able to take a no or read body language and leave immedia…
/r/seduction02/04/25 06:41 PM
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Many tbh. Far and away the hottest girls I know don’t get approached even 1/5th as often as somewhat hot girls. And many guys I know who have no problem approaching girls are also hesitant to approach extremely hot women because the guys tell themselves they have no chance. I would bet money that 99% of 7-8s worldwide think more highly of themselves than 99% of 9-10s think of themselves. Edit: I’ve also been guilty of this in the past even if historically I pull way above my weight class. There’…
/r/seduction12/03/25 03:21 AM
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100% but it depends on location. In a city like New York 9s and 10s get approached all the time. In a smaller city they’re viewed as something special and people are afraid to approach them. This leads to a weird phenomenon I’ve noticed many times where genuine 9s and 10s view their looks more poorly than a typical 7 or 8. Their ego isn’t through the roof from being constantly hit on.
/r/seduction11/03/25 08:08 PM
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Why country code for Barcelona but state code for Miami?
/r/seduction06/03/25 07:39 PM
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You’d have to define model tier more specifically. Because there are girls in every small town and city that look way better than 95% of models, and their options are abhorrent. An actual model (not IG) in a big city like NYC though? Less likely, but absolutely still possible. Definitely 100x more difficult though, but the things you listed are just a few potential things any girl can be into. You could be broke and seemingly ugly but make a girl feel very good and make her laugh and that can be…
/r/seduction16/02/25 05:28 PM
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I agree. I personally don’t think this is something that people who just “don’t have” should give up on after a trial run. It’s too important. Many people seem to simply “have it” because their upbringing was more beneficial to being social, talking to women, being confident, etc. I had great parents in many ways but they definitely did not instill confidence in me from an early age, they instilled doubt even when I was performing very well in sports and school. That’s the kind of thing someone …
/r/seduction08/02/25 04:02 PM
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False. Have dated, slept with, and rejected several legit 10/10 women from the apps. The idea that they’re on the apps but then for some reason don’t date off of them is crazy.
/r/seduction06/02/25 03:41 AM
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Cope
/r/seduction06/02/25 03:39 AM
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Completely delusional take. Maybe in a select few cities like London and NYC that’s true, but there are plenty of legit 10/10 women on apps in cities across the world including large cities like Toronto that maybe don’t have as transactional of a culture as NYC. There are countless beautiful women in every place on Earth, and many of them just simply don’t have the mindset of “I’m gonna go to this high end club and meet a rich guy”, they actually were not raised that way and it doesn’t even cros…
/r/seduction06/02/25 03:38 AM
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Yea it’s not even remotely true even without leaving your own country. For example I as a white man can pull Indian, Middle Eastern, and Asian girls wayyy easier than white girls while living in Canada.
/r/seduction29/01/25 02:55 AM
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Good points in general OP. I think any genuinely decent man should go through the morphing of their outlook into “win win” at some point in their life. For me it originated based on rejection. I was madly in love with a girl who genuinely showed no interest in me at all. Sometimes I’d get in a thought loop of “I’m gonna make her regret it” (via just having such a good life, making her jealous of other girls, etc, not anything violent or like that) and then I realized eventually that’s just pathe…
/r/seduction26/01/25 09:42 PM
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Great insight. Although I will say sometimes those negative thoughts about other guys approaching girls are warranted, you just have to make sure you don’t apply that logic even subconsciously to yourself. For example the age old statement of “don’t approach girls at the gym, they’re there to workout”. People repeat this all the time and 99% of people online agree with that statement. But the reason they’re stating it is because of bad prior experiences as women in the gym, or like you said watc…
/r/seduction26/01/25 09:34 PM
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Yea. I mean it’s Reddit what do you expect. The average person here is a genuine dweeb with no game. There is basically no upside to blocking a girl if she’s rejected you. Literally the only upside is that your feelings will no longer surge/be hurt when you see her post again. And to that I say “be a man, get over it”. Learning to tame these feelings is an extremely valuable lesson that most people never force themselves to learn. I went through the same thing several times when I was younger an…
/r/seduction25/01/25 02:24 AM
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oneitis?
/r/seduction24/01/25 06:52 PM
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100%. And guys mostly do this to make themselves feel like they’re in some sort of control, which at that point they’re not. They’re doing it out of rejection. So control your emotions and move on. Like you said there’s a possibility the girl regains interest or at the very least you gain other benefits like her connecting you with her friends. I’ve actually ended up having things with multiple girls who I was introduced to by the friend that I was initially interested in. Just don’t be a weirdo…
/r/seduction24/01/25 06:39 PM
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There’s been a few times recently where I got someone’s number and realized I would’ve been better off getting their IG. At the bare minimum it shows you what they’re doing and gives you potential things to talk about. It also gives you an opportunity to show yourself/your life off. None of that is really possible with text unless it’s explicitly asked for or you want to just talk about yourself unprompted.
/r/seduction24/01/25 05:31 PM
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I somewhat agree on not doing it at your regular gym but as a counterpoint who really gives a fuck if you get that rep? As long as you’re not creepy about it (which to clarify, most guys absolutely are, hence “approaching girls at the gym” getting a terrible rep), what’s the actual loss? A girl tells her friends you approached her? Your guy friends hear about it? Literally who cares. As long as you’re not being weird and you can take no for an answer none of it matters. If you’re concerned about…
/r/seduction13/01/25 06:50 PM
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Nice elaboration on your point 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:40 AM
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I did, I think you need to work on your reading comprehension or clear your brain. Of course people want to be debt free. The point is that good looking women can easily be driving a nice car that is far more comfortable, and have nice clothes, things given to them, etc by simply putting themselves out there. None of that requires them to make payments, not sure how you came to that conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:34 AM
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FWIW based on your post history none of what I said is relevant to you at all. I know having high value men approach you would be absolutely foreign to you. I was talking about highly feminine, beautiful, fit girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:32 AM
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What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:30 AM
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Don’t worry you aren’t the type of person I’m talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:13 AM
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You’re not wrong, especially because men nowadays have such low standards. There are literally millions of guys who make 6 figures at least per year who would basically throw themselves at the most mid woman if given the chance. What boggles my mind far more is when I’ll see a girl who is genuinely beautiful and fit (like 8.5/10 and above) who is driving around a beater car or clearly not able to afford nice things. To me this just screams not putting themselves out enough. I’ve seen actual godd…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:13 PM
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Even your third option kinda screams desperation imo. If a girl wants you she will accept the first offer, and in the rare case she is really against what you offered she will definitely accept the second offer. If you have to resort to 3rd and 4ths she is absolutely not into you and you should cut your losses and save your pride.
/r/seduction27/12/24 09:38 PM
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What is fresh and fit?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:13 PM
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“Being offered” is too true. If a girl approaches you it’s a slam dunk like you’re an absolute idiot if you want to smash/date and don’t end up managing it. It’s not remotely the same dynamic as a guy approaching. I’ve had guy friends talk to me about girls approaching them who they’re into and like pussyfooting with progressing things and I have to drill it into their brains that they have every green light to be as forward as they want.
/r/seduction20/12/24 06:46 PM
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I don’t think “wait till they’re out of your standouts” is a thing. They’ll just periodically come back, never go to normal feed.
/r/seduction21/11/24 10:05 PM
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This is 100% true and likely the reason this idea was perpetuated is because of creepy dudes who have no social awareness as well as ugly girls who get no play. Everyone has seen the fat friend who comes up to stop a guy from talking to her girlfriend even when the girlfriend is digging it. It’s cliche at this point but totally a thing, there are even countless examples of actual videos of exactly this happening on TikTok. It’s jealous veiled by “protection”. I’ve said the same thing you’re sayi…
/r/seduction12/11/24 07:15 AM
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Why don’t you like JD Vance?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:56 AM
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Maybe you don’t but many people do. Theres a reason Instagram is referred to as “the biggest dating app”. I’ve made 2 girlfriends and several fwbs/one night stands through IG. Why is this hard to believe for you? You pretty much have the strongest social proof available out of any app, ie if your profile is well thought out you have a large quantity of things that are important to you and show you/your lifestyle off. Arguably more importantly depending on if you’re msging someone with mutuals or…
/r/seduction06/10/24 05:43 PM
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A wet dream is out of your control lmfao is your position that you have zero control over watching porn??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:51 PM
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No, that’s simply your stance on it. Some people rightfully believe getting off to another person is cheating whether it’s in video or in person. Surprised you can’t comprehend that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:22 PM
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Yea lmao. “This is something they can’t even help doing”…. Maybe OP just hasn’t been around any half decent women. Any woman who even slightly values loyalty let alone values the man they’re with will not do this in a million years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:42 AM
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I’ve had 2 girls now assume this about me when the reality is I have plenty of options and when I date someone I prefer to just assume they’re my soulmate and the best person in the world, I just find it makes better relationships. But the 2 people who misinterpreted this as desperation were very rattled when we ended things and I was going on dates within days and not calling or texting them trying to fix things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:52 AM
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Yes lol. What you’re describing isn’t even ghosting, that’s just choosing to stop talking to someone the normal way. Theres a reason ghosting is a term in the first place and it’s not because people think once you talk to someone once you have to talk to them forever.
/r/seduction11/04/24 05:16 AM
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Yea I commented elsewhere in the thread that I’m curious about his location. DJs are not viewed anything like the way he’s describing where I’m from. I made the same point that it’s different if you’re highly successful with a huge following but at that point you’re more of an artist than a mere DJ usually. DJs are typically viewed the same way anyone else with a low paying job is here, or viewed as someone who doesn’t have their shit together and is way too obsessed about the party/club scene/h…
/r/seduction08/04/24 09:45 PM
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Where are you located roughly? Just wondering if this is heavily location dependent. Because where I’m from DJs are not viewed more highly than literally any random person unless that DJ is highly established/more of an artist than simply someone playing/mixing music. If anything it’s kind of frowned upon the same way people get annoyed when someone plays a guitar at a party.
/r/seduction08/04/24 09:42 PM
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Yea it’s always kinda grossed me out how much girls glorify ghosting. I’ve never ghosted someone ever and never would. It takes absolutely no effort to give a simple message explaining why you’re not feeling it. No need for further explanation beyond that.
/r/seduction06/04/24 05:06 PM
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Yea what does that mean?
/r/seduction25/03/24 12:54 AM
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Believe it or not, not everyone is a piece of shit like you.
/r/seduction25/03/24 12:54 AM
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Lmao think whatever you want to make yourself feel better but this is just a fact. Unless you’re extremely lucky genetically and you’re very on top of your health and fitness you will/do look far worse than you did at age 20, and for men that is not nearly as pronounced.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:47 AM
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Yea this post is nonsensical. For every age 40+ woman who is good looking in the eyes of the majority of people, there are probably 10+ males who meet the same criteria. Ask any bisexual person and they will confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:06 AM
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You’re a loser lmao you’re obviously trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:04 AM
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Yea I said similarly in my comment. For a fuck buddy or a super casual relationship sure go for it. But people saying “don’t see why something can’t change and people don’t deserve a second chance”, etc, I think that’s showing a complete lack of experience and lack of self respect. If someone is actually into you enough for a serious relationship you’ll both make it work the first time around. Almost no circumstances would warrant them tapering away or losing contact if they’re actually really i…
/r/seduction09/02/24 11:07 PM
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Depends what you’re hoping for. If you want a casual relationship or fuck buddy sure. But if someone lost interest or faded off in the past and your goal is a serious relationship I think it’s a terrible idea to give them another chance and I bet you’d be hard pressed to find a healthy long term relationship or marriage that arose after that sequence of events. If someone is seriously into you they will make it work with you. No amount of being busy, short of literally have to go overseas for mi…
/r/seduction09/02/24 10:58 PM
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Sounds like maybe you weren’t very thoughtful as a young person, but that’s not always the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:00 AM
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Yea I mean I’m not disagreeing I generally see that too but I’m just saying people shouldn’t assume the worst. There are plenty of 18, 20, 22 year olds who are far more put together than 99% of people at any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:56 AM
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I personally tend to date people my age but this argument never made sense to me. At 18 I was far more level headed than the vast majority of 30, 40, and 50 year olds I’d interact with. At age 22 this was even more apparent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:40 AM
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Lol you definitely don’t know what “fuckboi” means. It never meant someone who gets a lot of play lmao. It’s not a connotation, it’s the meaning. It’s not a good thing.
/r/seduction31/01/24 08:21 PM
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I agree with everything you said but as cliche as it is there is serious truth to the fact that women age much more poorly than men, and I’ve personally witnessed several very good looking women sort of kick the can down the road in terms of finding a spouse because they’re used to constant attention and ease of finding sexual partners, but then their 30s to mid 30s hit and it’s a bit of a shock how much less attention they get. For every age 40+ “milf” that lets say 75% of guys under age 30 wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 09:21 PM
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Slightly related that’s why I personally do care and ask about body count fairly early on. It’s very easy to bang 50 guys in your 20s and then your 30s hit and all of a sudden panic sets in as you realize your biological clock is ticking and now you’re claiming to be a homebody. I’ve had a couple girls get mad when I ask (95% don’t get mad) but that’s okay because anyone getting mad at it is guaranteed to have either crazy far left feminist outlooks on life or just has a super high body count so…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 09:13 PM
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Bro even if you use a log scale this is verifiable by 9th grade level math. Youre delusional or live in a tiny town.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:35 PM
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I didn’t word it dumb (irony in your wording there btw) you just lack reading comprehension. And there are a massive amount of 9/10 or higher women. Supermodels are like 9.7/10 or higher. Millions of people between 9-9.7. Also a girl with an amazing body and slightly worse face than a super model is just as hot to most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:17 PM
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And yes you’re right I should’ve been more specific though. Low achieving blue collar guys that I know for a fact make less than $80k a year because I know them personally. Ofc blue collar people can make boatloads. I respect them more than most white collar people because that’s my upbringing and I know what kinda work it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:09 PM
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9/10 or higher lol, is this your first time ever reading the 10 scale?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:08 PM
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Yea that’s the sad truth. She doesn’t look like a young 38 year old. You could tell me she is 45 and I’d believe you. Stacked with her personality it just doesn’t make sense. Very few super successful guys (which is what she’s going for) are going to just settle with someone like this unless they click extremely well. Successful guys date younger girls or at least girls who are outright beautiful, not just passable. They also don’t care about their partners success and it can even be a turnoff i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:29 PM
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Whaaaat how has no one called this out? Women date down like 10x more often than men dating down. The amount of times I’ve seen or known a 9/10+ girl with a solid career dating a random 5’7” blue collar worker with no hair and a gut is mind blowing. It’s so noticeable. Very rarely do you see a super manly guy with money dating some fat chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:22 PM
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cries in making $300k a year as a fairly average 20 something year old software engineer with 1/4 of the work per week required by an absolute top tier .1% 40 year old with 15 years of experience in any other engineering field
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:39 PM
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The average software engineer makes 2-4x more than any “classical” engineer though 🤷‍♂️ In my experience there are a lot of go getters in any engineering field but the reality is that software engineers are extremely hard working, diligent, and thoughtful at 10x the rate of any other engineering field.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:35 PM
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Yes and you could outsource the year of jail to gofundme as well right? Almost like you ignored that part.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/07/20 02:48 PM
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