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I’m so sorry as this is so unfair to you. In the future, never stop working until he’s fully committed (you’re married with no prenup or a fair one) Move on and move forward. He honestly saved you a world of hurt after you birthed his children and significantly lowered your value.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/25 12:37 AM
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Never, ever, give a body count or discuss that.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/25 12:45 PM
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To be honest though, just like most men wouldn’t scream at their boss but they’ll scream at their parents or wife, people in general don’t feel comfortable being vulnerable in new relationships.
/r/askMRP04/08/24 04:58 AM
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This isn’t a good relationship or anything worth investing more years into. He’s not planning to marry you, is cheating, breaks up with you randomly (he likely started a fight over the ask for help so he wouldn’t have to follow through on the trip you’d planned. Your birthday isn’t about him so why would he want to invest in it?) Frankly it sounds like everything is about him and nothing is about you. You are in the best years of your life and if you choose to invest those into this man, that’s …
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/24 02:07 PM
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My husbands crazy about me, as others have echoed- that is SO important. Make sure your husband truly loves you and he’s the type of man who will continue to love you as you grow old. Never sign a prenup without your own attorney, or hopefully never. Make sure you are educated and/or have a skillset and you are employable. You are 19, continue your education and planning your future as if you dont plan to be a stay at home mom. Be smart. We have four kids and I’m a SAHM. We are happy, in love an…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/24 06:44 PM
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I am a SAHM, but I do check my kids backpacks every day before they go off to school and we do a checklist that I double check at night. Things have to run smoothly. I suppose since they’ve never really forgotten a water bottle they haven’t had that natural consequence, but I feel like since I’m able to do this and I have the time I’d like us all to start our day fully prepared.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/24 02:38 PM
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I notice my husband compliments me the most when I’m in a good mood and just happy. I could have no makeup on, joggers and a tank top and he’s all over me if I look at him and smile when he enters the room. Except if I have my hair in a mom bun. He absolutely hates mom buns. 😂 Thankfully, he loves claw clips.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/24 01:51 AM
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Girl, just say you’re not feeling it and it’s best to make clean breaks. Wish him luck, and block.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/24 11:41 PM
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About a 500,000
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/24 11:02 PM
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Thanks 😊 he’s honestly the best. My weight can shift and I can be in pajamas, he really doesn’t care. If my happiness shifts, if I become bitchy or complaining often… THAT is when I see a huge shift in my relationship. I still make an effort though with my appearance, but I don’t worry if I don’t have time to give it much some days. If a man loves you and really loves you, I think they understand we age too.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 06:27 PM
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People are out here married still doing the pencil test? 😂 I wouldn’t be able to even see the pencil and my husband still is all over me daily! I think for most husbands, they understand bodies change over time and confidence is the sexiest thing. If you own your changing body and still bring on the sexy, I think you’ll be just fine. Or, he can pay for some nips and tucks if you choose.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 04:54 PM
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You can completely re-work your self image moving forward though.. stop doing it, meet men and be more conservative while explaining you’ve changed from your past. Men can be very understanding, but if your still currently doing it not so much.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/24 02:00 PM
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I’m going to go with C, I would rather be dead or single forever then pick any of these dudes. Keep working on yourself and keep dating.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 03:01 AM
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It’s probably totally unlikely he can even donate and this argument is over nothing. I’m not sure why you didn’t allow this to play out before engaging. Your husband is HIGHLY emotional right now and needs to find peace and comfort in you. Be steady, make him a nice dinner and apologize. Allow him to find out he can’t donate all on his own. If he’s eligible and she’s actually healthy enough for a third transplant (unlikely) then you can have a more serious discussion.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/24 05:58 PM
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I would not be ok with this, I feel like he’s telling you his true beliefs and he’s watering them down. He’s admitted to hitting a woman, he believes it’s an appropriate measure of discipline and frankly I would be very turned off by all the other things he said too. This man’s not your husband and you’ve been dating him very briefly. I would be turned off and going back into the dating pool.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/24 04:37 PM
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It’s actually insane that a man is stating he knew his ex wife was cheating due to her “horse pussy” and now he’s going to accuse OP of cheating because of something that’s 100% scientifically disproven. OP, at different times of the month you are less/more open. Your vagina would not ever be stretched out due to cheating.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/24 07:34 PM
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You’re not “fat” at 176, even at 5’4. Plus, you just listed off a ton of things you can get better at. Schedule a makeup lesson at Ulta. Go get your hair done and have them show you how to style it. Take cooking classes, they even have great ones online you can follow along at home. Ask us or Reddit for style advice or where to shop. Hit the Gym! You’re still young, 26 you have tons of time tbh. Get on working on yourself. How can anyone invest in you if you don’t invest in you?
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/24 04:53 AM
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My LDR turned into a marriage. He had to move to Illinois and wasn’t thrilled to move here, but said he would live anywhere with me. If that’s not the energy there’s no point in being in a LDR.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/23 07:54 PM
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Too soon, keep him waiting longer and go back home or get a hotel room and meet up the next day. As everyone else has said, never sleep over unless you’re ready for sex. That should mean you both have committed to a monogamous relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/23 01:45 AM
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As the top commenter said, you can choose either path. For myself, I would risk it and move on after exhausting my options of trying to “spice it up”. Chemistry is too important to me. I need passion and chemistry. I need a husband who paws at me and looks at me like he wants to devour me. I put a load of effort into looking good and being a great wife, I need lust and passion. But, many people have that and nothing else. Many women leave good, stable men and find nothing ever even close to that…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 04:52 PM
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Frankly I would just do this as I check out as others have said. This isn’t a hill to die on.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 03:49 PM
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You need new friends and this is a ridiculous argument.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 12:53 PM
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Whatever the recipe, always hit it with a little lemon in the end! The acid gives an excellent depth of flavor to the broth.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/23 02:12 PM
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In my opinion, things only matter to men when they are framed incorrectly. Men arent that complex. If you’re a wholesome, caring, beauty queen- you will likely attract most men.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/23 09:11 PM
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I’m gathering from your GILF comment, that you two are older. If that’s the case, then the situation must be looked at quite differently then a young woman looking to marry. It’s difficult to give advice when you don’t answer the age question that’s been asked a few times. Based on your edit this situation is a bit bizarre. If you two were celibate, then it makes sense. Since you both have “amazing sex”, the entire thing just doesn’t make any sense to me. Why would he dump you bc he’s sexually a…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/23 07:04 PM
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That’s a turn off for me. I wanted something traditional, where my husband paid and I was able to be a SAHM. If that’s what you want, you should talk to him about it and see what he sees in his future marriage. Will he still expect 50/50?
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/23 11:24 PM
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Honest question, is this something you care about or something you care about because your husband cares about it? It’s ok to not be a virgin when you get married and it’s odd to still be concerned with this after motherhood and marriage. You need to find the root of it.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 02:14 AM
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I am a great mom and I keep our entire family running in the right direction smoothly. I monitor the ins and outs of our 4 kids, I’m an excellent cook, I love having sex with my husband. I’m up for it all the time and I’m absolutely his best friend. We really like each other. On top of great chemistry, that we continue to nurture with dates and yearly one on one vacations, overnights when possible and just hanging out together. We love to cook and are total foodies but really we can just get int…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/23 08:08 PM
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I don’t think this man was the man you thought he was and he would never be the guy you wanted him to be. Who wants a man who goes out with other women and when questioned about it just does it anyway? He dismissed you and your feelings, he’s trying to guilt you by telling you his family doesn’t like you, basically this guy seems to like making you feel bad.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 01:35 PM
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Why did you bring up Tarot and trauma by date 5? Too much too soon, too much disclosure. Ultimately you both are of different religious views, but I do believe you disclosed too soon. Also most HVM are not going to be into tarot, crystals and other “spiritual” things that are outside of the norm. These are not traditional values and they will take a specific man to embrace. Most guys will write you off as being weird if you mention that…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/23 06:10 PM
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I’m obsessed with my husband, I mean truly I think he’s the sexiest man alive. I just stare at him, all the time and admire him. I would say I thought he was handsome initially, but attraction built as I got to know him. It just kept building and building and as I got to know him he just kept getting hotter. Personality for me is so important. He was so secure, masculine but sensitive to my needs and he kissed me exactly how I like to be kissed. He’s extremely smart and attentive… sexy AF! It bu…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/23 12:43 PM
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It’s unattractive, it’s up to you if that’s something you can handle or not. Frankly, I need confidence, but perhaps it’s just early and he’s nervous.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/23 03:02 AM
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Cheating on your wife is different? LOL- this guys not being honest at all. So, if he can’t stay loyal to you when you’re at your best physical age, when things are fresh, sparkly and new, but he says he will be faithful once you’ve been together for forever, things are not fresh, you have a baby that’s taking all the attention, you’re physically aging…. He is a cheater. He will cheat more so when he’s married as marriage isn’t fun, sparkly and new. People age and get less attractive. You never,…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/23 03:22 PM
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What a weirdo! Block and move on, disregard anything he said.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/23 10:27 AM
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If your husband wants you to do that, then do it! So much is personal to every relationship. My husband loves it when I buy him clothes. He buys his own clothing too, but he finds it sweet and helpful. I don’t emasculate my husband and I respect him. I don’t treat him like a child and I honor him. I think after those things are in place, many of the practices are personal to each marriage and culture.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/23 06:13 PM
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I’m on my second marriage and I can tell you I’m so glad I had a chance for a do-over. If somethings terrible and you’ve tried to fix it, sometimes it’s best to leave that situation. My first husband was a terrible partner and treated me like garbage after we had children. I wasn’t going to stay for a lifetime of that. I resolved myself better single then dealing with someone like that. I was lucky enough to find my now husband who was a single father and everything I could have dreamed of. I’m …
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/23 02:26 PM
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Absolutely hard disagree with doing private things in front of my spouse. I’ve watched both sides of this as I have girlfriends who fart and burp in front of their spouses- needless to say MOST of them don’t have the most spectacular sex lives and marriages. Not to say you can’t, I’m just saying most men don’t like it and it takes a toll on the way your spouse views you. My husband doesn’t fart around me either, which I know that’s rare for a man but he’s just a clean, not gross dude. We don’t t…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/23 12:54 PM
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My husband made it clear in the early dating/courting phase that he was looking for me to stay home with the kids. He wanted to provide, he had worked hard on his education and career and he always financially took the lead. I highly recommend you bridge a path to this discussion as you want to make sure you want the same things. As for a prenup, I would wait for him to bring that up unless the woman is wanting it. Typically, women aren’t the ones initiating prenups unless they have money/career…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/23 08:33 AM
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This sounds more like a bdsm dynamic then a traditional marriage. He should hold you in high esteem and it sounds like he’s manipulating you. A man you truly want to submit to won’t need to demand it and have it broadcasted.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/23 01:38 AM
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Oh dear God I would hate dating a MRP or #redpill man. My husband doesn’t even know what that is. He does know, how to respect me, how to lead and how to make me feel secure in trusting him as the head of our household. I hate the MRP spaces. I think they are toxic and half the guys are jobless neckbeards or Andrew Tate worshipers just cosplaying.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/23 01:39 AM
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It’s basically our biggest belief here to run like hell from men like this. It almost always gets worse and worse, and you both are so very young so worse will be physical abuse. Run like hell from this man. You’ll fall in love more and with someone better. You do not need to settle. Be more selective next time and in the meantime work on yourself and do not rebound to the next man who’s interested. Be very selective. You have plenty of time.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/23 12:30 AM
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The thing is, It’s less about me actually wanting to leave and more so me forcing him into a loss immediately. I want to scare him and not react how he would expect. I want to wake him up. Even if your goal is making the marriage work, if you don’t want the cheating to continue the goal is to stop it. The best way, imo, is to just shock the shit out of them. If I were you, proof would be on the table when he got home from work and I would be gone. Phone off, ringer off, I would be gone for the n…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 01:48 PM
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I’m not on board with the traditional stance on this subject in this sub. I won’t allow cheating, I won’t just ignore it (Laura Doyle style) I would actually not react very much and I would quietly leave for the evening and lay the proof on the table. I’m not going to let him see me have a breakdown. It won’t matter to him if I do. What will matter, is if I pull the rug out from under him and just start heading towards divorce. I would say things like “clearly you’ve move on, so shall I, let’s g…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 01:23 PM
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Absolutely! My husband would have cut that off by the second attempt. Sure, one little moments normal but her partner should have stopped it and simply said “my girlfriend doesn’t speak the language so let’s switch back to English” or he could have translated for her like a gentleman. Trying to get the waitress fired is next level nuts.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/23 10:33 PM
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Yeah, that may have been slightly rude of her, but filing a formal complaint to management was a nuclear response to a very small situation. It likely makes you look insecure to your boyfriend and I would be careful with your jealousy and keeping your frame as a confident woman. Editing to say- OP I’m really not trying to be so hard on you. I want you to succeed in this relationship as you seem very into him. Next time, just tuck in tightly next to him on your way out and give the waitress a cut…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/23 08:05 PM
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I wouldn’t be ok planning a future with someone who only worked 2-3 days a week. That being said, you need to get a job quickly and support yourself. Don’t give him married life without being married. Get your mental health sorted and get back to work and save money. If he continues to only work twice a week, I would be out of there. He wants a SAHW eventually? He’s going to need to be ambitious and that’s not it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/23 09:30 PM
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I say late 20s, just because people grow so much in their early 20s and men aren’t mature enough for young women to see how they will actually grow up.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 06:20 PM
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I would talk about old school values, being traditional, dating for marriage, etc. most men who are looking for a traditional relationship will figure it out. You can also figure it out during the vetting process where you tactfully ask certain questions that should give you the answers you seek. My husband was fairly upfront that he didn’t want me to work and I wouldn’t need to.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 03:17 AM
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Yes, you are overthinking this and overreacting. As others have said, you will not have a husband who buys you gifts if this is your response. You sound like you have an idea of how things should be and if it doesn’t fall in exact line with that you’re unhappy. He bought you a necklace, but he gave it to you at the wrong time and unwrapped. He’s willing to get you the hotel room but he’s not doing it 100% independently and you have to guide him. He got you a hotel room for your wedding night, bu…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/23 02:44 PM
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I think Ben Shapiro’s an idiot. That’s my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/23 10:23 PM
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Exactly this. RP to me means dating/charming men more like my grandmother’s generation and being a wife in a more traditional sense. I am a SAHM, I happily cook for my husband daily and try to look presentable most days. I actively flirt with him and try to keep his needs/desires on my radar at all times. I’m actually more of a left leaning person politically and would, in some ways, consider myself a feminist. Feminism to me means every woman gets a choice in how she lives her life. This is my …
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/23 06:20 PM
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The type of man I was interested in would ask me out and pay for the first date. I’ve never asked a man out, there’s nothing wrong with doing so but that’s not my type. My husband asked me out and paid for nearly everything, although I did offer and he did let me grab a few breakfast bills eventually :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/23 05:48 PM
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Not in any relationship that I want to be in! My husband doesn’t insult me and I would never speak to him that way. I think once you open that door of insulting one another, talking down to one another, screaming/yelling, etc… it’s increasingly harder to close it and just keeps going further and further. If we can’t respectfully argue, we wait until we can. Taking a cool off break is fundamental when things start to get heated. Being mature enough to shelf a topic until you both can navigate it …
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 02:44 PM
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Are you even a woman? You don’t sound like one, frankly. How could you actually feel this way if so? Women are raising the men that “run and build society”, we literally have the MOST important job. Beyond that, we have a much different role then men and that, to me, is what this sub is about. Understanding and going back to the realization that men and women are fundamentally different and our romantic roles are supposed to run parallel and compliment the other. We should all clearly be able to…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 02:31 PM
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I’m sure he will love the lunch! Men really love it when their partners cook and show love through actions like that. For my husband, no matter what I cook he always lights up and is so happy about it. He’s the same way when I’m smiling and happy, it’s the best thing to him just to see me happy. It sounds like you really have the desire to make this relationship work and you really care for him so allow him to do for you as you do for him. As well, this books great for men as far as the bedroom …
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 03:18 PM
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I was never able to fall into the trust/submissive place in a relationship until I found the right relationship. I always tried to lead as I thought I knew best. It took me finding someone I trust more then myself to relinquish that control. My husbands more intelligent then me, he holds his frame even when I may be having a moment of panic, he CALMLY leads our family even in moments of high stress, he’s allowed me to be a SAHM which is what I’ve always wanted to do. The man is a saint and he’s …
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 02:45 PM
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I say to people I imported my husband from the East Coast 😂 Basically, sometimes you have to open your dating pool perimeters to meet the right person for you. While I was not looking for the same things as you, I was raised very religious and attended a private Christian school and I can tell you almost of the women remained virgins and married young. They do exist. Same with the men.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 02:35 PM
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I think if you are dating women who are also religious and around your age you shouldn’t have a problem whatsoever. You will share the same values.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 10:03 AM
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Look don’t listen to anyone making up weird age rules. Sure, things are easier when you’re younger but 30 is still young. I met the love of my life on a second marriage. I was 34 when I met my now husband and divorced with two kids. I’m a stay at home mom, he owns a software business. I’m able to do whatever I want and raise our blended family of four kids. He’s obsessed with me and I him. We are incredibly in love and I think he’s the sexiest man on the planet. I realize I’m very lucky and bles…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 09:15 AM
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You are still incredibly young and have a great chance at starting over. Masculinity can be toxic when it’s being modeled by an idiot. Get some therapy before your next relationship, be choosier, pick better and in the meantime focus totally on yourself. Be the best version of you, be as gorgeous as you can be and get involved in hobbies. Put all that effort you put into that relationship into yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 08:15 PM
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There’s so much to unpack here in the comments, but I’m really just here to tell OP many of us here in RPW are not staunch conservatives who are anti abortion and feel you should marry at 18….
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/23 01:51 PM
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I love this thread and have so enjoyed reading the comments. Middle/Left leaning politically, both my husband and I. Second marriage for us both, blended family. I was raised religiously, he was not. Growing up I went to a Christian School, so I was very much raised to view men as the HOH. I tried to go against this theory for many years, basically my entire 20s and it was one terrible relationship after the next. I met my now husband in my only 30s and fell deeply in love. Beyond being crazy ab…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/23 12:40 PM
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Relax. You are 21. Don’t rush into marriage when your brains not even fully developed yet. I may get downvotes for this but seriously you are too young to get married to someone you’ve been dating less then a year and a half. Don’t pressure your partner and just be young for another year or two before thinking of this so much.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 07:46 PM
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This is a super simple, no fail recipe that he will love. French Dip Sandwiches made in crock pot, 10 minutes to prep in the morning and done by dinner! You really can’t mess this up and he will love it. https://www.foxvalleyfoodie.com/easy-crock-pot-french-dip-sandwiches/
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 01:00 PM
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I would just move on. Also, just being honest, I wouldn’t date a bartender if I was looking for something long term. Along with that his texts are bland and he doesn’t seem to be actively pursuing you.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/22 03:15 AM
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Only insecure men obsess over body counts. If he was even questioning you on yours, he was questioning you regardless. Frankly I would have never answered him and if he obsessed from that point I would have left him. Sure, you shouldn’t have lied, but why would he find it appropriate to ask? Black pill is next level nuts and borderline incel neckbeard niahlist.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/22 11:07 PM
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I offer, but if he accepts I won’t date him again. I wanted a man who took charge and showed interest right away. I’m worth it and I want him to acknowledge he’s interested enough to take me out properly. By the second or third date I’ll press to pay, especially for a breakfast or coffee date. I want him to know he’s valued as well. But no, I firmly believe he should pay for the first date.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/22 01:03 AM
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There’s just always so much to do. I have four kids. I’m never bored, however, being a SAHM allows me to work at my own pace when they are in school. With four kids though someone’s always got an appointment, practice or they’re sick. I do not feel isolated but my husband is also home a lot and we genuinely love spending time together.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/22 12:33 PM
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Girl, he’s sleeping elsewhere or he’s asexual/gay. You’re spending everyday together and you’re not his girlfriend nor are you sleeping together? Sounds like a beard.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/22 03:29 AM
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This is abuse. Honestly, it’s abuse. It sounds like he’s trying to make you leave honestly.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/22 01:30 AM
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I have four children and only one of those is a boy. My boy is my absolute baby. He gets his guidance from his stepfather mostly and they do tons of things together. You don’t need to teach him to be a man. Just love him and always be his soft spot to fall. His momma should always be that. ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/22 10:40 PM
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Girl, hard truths coming here- You need to learn to edit yourself. You went on and on both to him and in your narrative above. Self control is super important. Begging for sex is about the least attractive thing you can do. It’s desperate, it’s emasculating and it’s annoying. You need to work this out and not do that again. You sound extremely insecure and unhinged. You may need to talk to someone to figure this out but it will ruin your marriage if you do not get ahold of yourself. Your husband…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/22 01:12 AM
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Join places where you will be around others in an environment where you get to know people first. Church involvement is great, clubs, groups, book clubs, etc. Finding shared interests and building friendships in person first would be beneficial for you. If there’s ways to meet others with disabilities then that’s a great way too.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/22 12:37 PM
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He removes all his clothing while you are making out? Honestly that’s just weird. He’s also not respecting boundaries. He’s showing a serious lack of discipline and self control and to me that would be a huge turnoff. My husband basically had me begging for sex with his restraint. We have a very healthy sex life and he’s never had to beg for it as he knows how to make me beg for it. That’s the dynamic I desire.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/22 04:51 PM
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You’re having plenty of sex. Your questioning the quality of sex and my suggestion is just to continue to keep things sexy. You may not be into everything he is, but you can rev up the things you ARE into. Sexy lingerie, be surprising and taking him off guard, cooking in lingerie, etc. There’s plenty you can do that’s still within the realm of “vanilla”. A good man and a HVM who loves you will not cheat on you, because he loves you and values you. You’re satisfying your husband plenty. Don’t wor…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 12:13 AM
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My spouse doesn’t even feel the need to use social media. I do, so I’m able to keep him updated on family stuff that way. I find it super hot that he doesn’t use it at all. He’s honestly just unconcerned with much outside of his family and close friends who he doesn’t need to follow online. That’s awesome. I would absolutely not be cool with him following any women he doesn’t know. He would feel the same about me doing that and we respect one another. Plus, it’s embarrassing that others can see …
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/22 09:58 PM
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He’s in college and if you don’t know that he’s ever worked he likely doesn’t have much money. I would find this unacceptable outside of this situation. If you see he spends loads of money elsewhere though, I would have serious issues with that. I wanted a provider and I’m not okay with the modernized view of splitting the bill. It’s just not what I was looking for as I am much more old fashioned. (Not saying it’s wrong to have that style of relationship, it’s just not what most of us here were …
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/22 02:06 AM
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I would suspect there would be some large families in this community as well. We have four kids, I realize to some that’s a lot and to others not so much. I love our family of six though! It’s fun.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/22 01:41 PM
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Yes, I would explain to him that he seems to “one up”, embellish and flat out lie as stories didn’t match up. He will likely either ignore you from embassment or lie more, but I would give him the feedback since he asked.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 02:53 PM
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This would be my exit. It’s showing you who he is and you cannot trust your partner if they are this way. You’ll never fully trust him and that’s absolutely fundamental to a successful relationship. I can’t even stand men who exaggerate, a man’s word should be his word and it should be absolutely solid. If he’s like this to you, he’s like this with other men as well and they will not respect him. It’s still early, move on. That’s my advice. Trust is my #1.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/22 07:15 PM
9

This would be my exit. It’s showing you who he is and you cannot trust your partner if they are this way. You’ll never fully trust him and that’s absolutely fundamental to a successful relationship. I can’t even stand men who exaggerate, a man’s word should be his word and it should be absolutely solid. If he’s like this to you, he’s like this with other men as well and they will not respect him. It’s still early, move on. That’s my advice. Trust is my #1.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/22 07:14 PM
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You are burned out and losing yourselves. Schedule date time and the best thing would be a long weekend or vacation just the two of you. Even if you could do an overnight at a hotel and make dinner reservations. Talk to him about your wishes for this and see what his thoughts are.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/22 03:49 PM
1

I’ve noticed many varieties of women commenting here. For me, this is about the lifestyle I chose and wanted. I’m a SAHM and I love taking care of my husband and family. I love that he takes care of things that I have no interest in and that he encourages me to do whatever makes me happy. I love being able to trust someone more then myself and I’ve found so much peace in my life. I also don’t fit the stereotypical mold. I’m a democrat, I’m very pro-woman and I’m divorced and remarried. I had a t…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/22 03:40 PM
4

The only opinion that matters here is your husbands. Finding a man who will be on board with no kids and you staying home may not be super easy but there’s a match for everyone out there.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/22 01:34 PM
4

It’s important not to brush off red flags honestly. I’ve never felt like my husbands not the one. Sure, we can get annoyed with one another but I’m 6 years in and he still melts me when his eyes focus on me a certain way. He also can annoy the hell out of me but that’s when I take a trip to the grocery store or something 😂. It’s rare but we are human. 99% of the time, he makes me extremely happy. What needs to be there to work? Respect most of all. You need to respect the person you marry and tr…
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/22 12:45 PM
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It’s hard for me to focus on just one thing as I respect my husband immensely. I’m able to be a SAHM, he’s already set aside all of our kids college tuition, he works smart and hard but continued his education and built his own company. Now he’s able to be around us so much and he even cooks once or twice a week to give me a break. He eats everything I cook, tells me I’m gorgeous daily and due to all this our intimacy levels are very high. I love the man he is and I’m incredibly blessed. ❤️ I’m …
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/22 03:37 PM
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No honestly I think you’re totally right to think that. I would not be interested in this relationship as it just began and he already doesn’t have time. Two weeks of no contact can be explained by the camping I suppose, but then to immediately cancel and follow that up with “I’m busy with work for two months now.” No way. You deserve more effort then that. We don’t need to blindly trust men we just met. Especially when they seem to be unavailable and low effort off the bat. I would not have acc…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/22 01:17 PM
2

Reddit
/r/seduction10/08/22 02:38 PM
2

When you get out of the shower dry your pots and then spray them with a water/vinegar mix. Let that dry and then apply deodorant. It will help keep you smelling good much longer as kills off any remaining bacteria before applying deodorant. It works. Look into different natural foaming cleansers. Shower daily.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/22 06:16 PM
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It’s pretty weird you immediately justify your race. Being Asian is awesome. There’s no need to say “BUT not the nerdy kind”. It’s bleeding insecurity and honestly racist. Edit- anyone can be racist. Even against their own race…. just look at Candace Owens.
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:21 PM
13

I’m a feminist woman in a traditional relationship. I’m very traditional and respect my husband incredibly because HE DESERVES THAT. (I wouldn’t if he didn’t deserve it. He doesn’t automatically deserve respect. He’s not entitled to it. He has EARNED it.) I see so many women here worshipping men who definitely don’t deserve it. I chose this lifestyle and I chose a man who can support me emotionally, physically and in very way. He leads our marriage and I respect him. I trust him more then I trus…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/22 09:52 PM
1

Ok so abortion wtf?????
/r/MGTOW217/06/21 02:52 AM
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I mean, why assume it was intentional? They were playing with their child, she doesn’t mention any argument before that and we are assuming she intended to hurt him? Just saying, that seems like quite a jump to assume she’s abusive. Accidents happen for both men and women.
/r/MensRights02/06/21 02:37 PM
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Honestly I would not stay home until I had kids, regardless of the financial situation. If my spouse made more then enough money I would do charity work. You need something to keep you busy and without children, I personally wouldn’t be able to do enough things at home to occupy my time. When you do have children you’ll have more then enough to do but I would be extremely bored just sitting in my clean home all day prior to that. I’m a SAHM now, with four kids at home though.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/20 05:17 PM
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One kiss, ugh. I wouldn’t want to know if it was a drunken stupid moment. My partner would ABSOLUTELY want to know though. However we are two different people in this regard and neither of us would ever cheat. I would rather stay blissfully ignorant if it was a drunk kiss as it probably meant nothing. Sex or affairs yes- absolutely. I would want to know even 30 years later. It would crash everything I believe in down to the ground but I would want to know and so would he. Good discussion!!
/r/RedPillWives01/12/20 04:50 PM
10

These are not “small infractions” and that’s what you need to accept. It was super wrong and invasive of you to snoop, yes! However, he’s actively hiding spending one on one time with another woman, he was ABSOLUTELY feeling her out to see if she was interested in him and she probably was not and for him to even joke about scouting for nudes is disgusting and an automatic deal breaker. Strippers for me are also a deal breaker but that depends on the boundaries for each individual relationship. I…
/r/RedPillWives28/11/20 12:40 AM
10

I have literally never dated anyone who did this. I don’t think most men do this in front of their partner. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 04:14 AM
3

Not everyone. I have many friends from doctors to office workers who are in their late 30s and early 40s who decided to not get married unless they met someone they just can’t live without. They are very happy and indulge in loads of activities and trips.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/20 11:00 PM
1

What a tough situation you are in! I’m curious, are your parents paying for medical school? If so won’t they still be able to manipulate and control you financially? If your car is in their name you need to consider what to do with that as well. I know culturally some of these horrible norms can exist, however, you need to cut ties with your parents. Your father is abusive. Full stop. He’s abusing you. If your boyfriend does NEED to move for this opportunity you need to encourage him to do so. I…
/r/RedPillWives20/11/20 09:38 PM
3

Honestly if I was your boyfriend I would be so over this relationship at this point due to your parents (not your fault). It would be either you cut ties with your parents or I would be out. You should have called the police on your father and I’m so incredibly sorry this happened. You don’t deserve this but if you want any part of your life to be your decision and you want to stop the abuse you need to find a way out. If you need women’s centers for abuse and housing please PM me where you live…
/r/RedPillWives20/11/20 08:51 PM
2

Did you ever video call with this man? Don’t blame yourself, it seems he’s either met someone else or possibly wasn’t who he says he was... Move on and cut ties, you will find someone who doesn’t waver and a wavering man is not the man for you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/20 09:20 PM
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As do I, honestly my brother is married to one of them. He’s 37, she is 34 and they have one child who’s 3. Their house is a disaster, she runs around and shops constantly but barely cooks dinners. She doesn’t clean and she travels 4-5 times a year to spend weekends with her friends. He’s depressed and while much of this is his own fault, I really feel bad for him. She absolutely doormats him and he needs to stand up and assert himself. He has an excellent career and she legitimately does nothin…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/20 07:29 PM
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I’m not sure what you mean but I believe everyone who gives that should receive that. If she only has eyes for him, he should only have eyes for her. That’s what she deserves, is to be given what she herself gives in a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/20 07:48 PM
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You’re not first in this situation and he will drop you for her in a second. Keep in mind she probably doesn’t actually want him, if she gets him she will dump him and then it will be “a huge mistake” and he will come crawling back. Go find someone who only sees you. You deserve that.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/20 01:59 PM
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Maybe don’t generalize and be a jerk. Women can go their own way too. There’s many great men in this world like the man above and there are many great women too. https://youtu.be/N9it5sVNVkY
/r/MGTOW229/07/20 02:44 AM
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Honestly, try to find both. Make your own money, find your own success before you get into a relationship. Then find someone who is hard working and smart when you do settle down. If I have to choose between the two above options, which I would prefer not to, I would hands down choose someone for love and someone who feeds your mind and you have great chemistry with. For me, I can’t have great chemistry with someone who isn’t a hard worker. Money doesn’t matter so much as the hard working part. …
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/20 09:33 PM
2

Best advice, when it comes time for clean up get in that kitchen and help. Don’t ask, just do it and jump right in. Also bring a dish or desert and a bottle of wine. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/19 01:17 PM
3

Found the guy who sent the text.
/r/seduction30/09/19 04:45 PM
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Keanu found the love of his life and had a child with her. Both the child and his love died. It’s tragic but also an incredible story of love. Him going his own way is in the purest form.
/r/MGTOW18/04/19 10:23 PM
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If that’s what you actually think you’re dating the wrong woman. Edit- zero fucks about down votes with this. Just because some women are bitches and some men are assholes doesn’t mean they all are. It’s so narrow minded to classify an entire gender and ridiculously stupid as obviously not every woman is evil like some on this page make it out to be. It’s great to decide to be single if you’d like, to be exactly who you want to be and be free. What’s not great is when you turn bitter, resentful …
/r/MGTOW13/03/19 02:41 PM
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