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:O anon delivered! great clip, thanks so much!
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 08:56 PM
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would like a link to that. i have never heard this specific Patrice bite, but it sounds good
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 09:18 PM
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unfortunately they make us all look bad
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 06:08 PM
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I actually agree with you ionforge. I've been here for a while and those points you mentioned are exactly where I too draw the line and fail to understand the TRP extremity. There is actually a lot of benefit to sex before marriage. its incredibly important to discover if you're truly sexually compatible with somebody, because not everybody is. Thus, there are two sides to the partner count issue. The real issue is the emasculating institution of marriage. The smart woman gets married, but the s…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 06:07 PM
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oh shit the man himself. dude that fucking sucks not gonna lie. you REALLY have to make sure you're not on the hook for this woman.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 07:38 AM
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OMG NOOOOOOOOO
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 07:35 AM
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I wish I could pin this at the top. this and another long post here are the best responses so far.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 08:05 AM
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yeah, its utterly disgusting to try and use such a tragic event for one's special agenda. I know people that were there at the school, even one that was at the scene.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 07:57 AM
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his issues really were severe mental illnesses. I actually read his manefesto, and his issues went waaay deeper than women. his hatred of women and men that get women was just him projecting. the whole situation has so little to do with the manosphere, yet SJWs were quick to twist it into propaganda against it. for god sake, the kid was seeing something like 9 psychologists at one point.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 07:18 AM
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Anything else is just masturbation this brings totally new meaning to the term "circlejerk".
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 06:45 AM
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This is exactly what this thread is trying to say. You absolutely nailed it. I find it hard to argue with pretty much any of the points you say. upvoting for props and visibility. champ.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 06:39 AM
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Reading the comments here from people living in such countries, apparently the women are barely any different. we think it hasnt changed because buying/selling sex is still highly stigmatized and its not really readily available in general even if legal
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 06:28 AM
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I would like to know as well. I'm curious to learn more.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 06:25 AM
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Yes, most men appear to want more than mere sex. generally, at some point, meaningless is less desirable and other benefits of relationships are desired. For example, prostitutes aren;t really going to help you raise a child
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 06:24 AM
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Ah I misread your earlier post, missing the word "legal". I thought you claimed college girls were more infected than whores, not legal whores as you said. Yes, ideally, legal prostitution should require mandatory testing. but is the a reality in places where its already legalized?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 06:21 AM
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I really wish we could test this out in society. even where it is legal, shaming for prostitution is still huge and its very condemned. if it were somehow more commonplace, id expect to see some real social dynamic changes
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 06:09 AM
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Looks like a good movie. I won't watch it though because of time constraints, so mind telling me how it plays out? you can PM me if you dont want to spoil it for others
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 06:07 AM
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Oh wow people do such crazy things. Are these women actually delusional enough to believe its real? or are they mostly just playing along?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 05:58 AM
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I had a scare once as well, but luckily it all turned out fine. Herpes is incredibly common though, and I somehow doubt college chicks are infected at a higher % than prosties
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 05:55 AM
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Again, why is this more practical then just requiring condoms? And I agree that it'd be nice if paternity laws worked that way, but they don't and I doubt they ever will be because the gov doesn't want to support kids when they can simply force the man to pay.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 05:45 AM
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How could that possibly be enforced? Forcing people to take medications against their will because of their profession, versus requiring a condom?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 05:38 AM
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with one girl, casual sex only lasts for so long, brah. You have to have serious alpha plate-spinning skills to maintain a steady stream of commitment-and-investment-free sex at a rate of 2-3 times a day.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 05:33 AM
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tell me, how are you going to pay a prostitute to do points 1 and 5?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 05:30 AM
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What he said is what I've been trying to explain to you. Of course sex can be replaced by prostitutes, but there are obviously some things that you can't realistically pay for.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 05:28 AM
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Being an econ major I take pleasure in actually recognizing Coase and his ideas. I guess I did learn something after all! haha Yes, prostitution trying to somehow replace dating and relationship-based-sex would likely be inefficient, and obviously real relationships have more to offer than prostitutes can be expected to fulfill. The issue lies with, as you said, firms suffering losses if it becomes particularly weak. This is how so many relationships play out, with men getting screwed in the bet…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 05:23 AM
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I'm not certain where you are getting your ideas from. Are you under the impression that women can't offer anything besides sex, that men and women are incapable of mutual friendship and only look for men for money?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 05:05 AM
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Not every man wants an LTR, dude. Still, many do, and want more than just sex.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 04:58 AM
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condoms seem like an absolute must to me. Unfortunately, protection from paternity will never happen because governments don't want to be footing the bill for unwanted kids. The thinking runs parallel with arguments for things like why is paternity testing illegal in France unless the mother wants it.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 04:57 AM
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I'm in the same situation as you, and I have yet to find an infected chick. luck perhaps?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 04:54 AM
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I took a class on human sexuality and we also had a section on prostitution and even had activist panelists come in to talk about it. From what I gather, their interest in legalizing it has more to do with making it a safer profession that doesn't harm so many women. I actually agree taht nobody should care, I just am trying to acknowledge why people DO care. and figure out why. about the slut thing. you really can't take TRP and look at it as if it were a representative sample of all male think…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 04:52 AM
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oh tahts very interesting. I will check out the movie. So these women pay to do more with the men then just have sex? like do couple-y activities?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 04:31 AM
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This is pretty much what I've been thinking regarding many of the comments. its still very restricted both institutionally and socially. its very stigmatized (socially restrictions) which constrict the market for sex.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 04:07 AM
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without stats to back it up, this argument is just as likely to be pure ignorance than pure fact
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 04:01 AM
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Yeah I agree. There are more important things in my life currently than pussy, and even banging chicks from tinder isn't that great since it creates so much tension afterwards. the money you pay for sex is also money for her to just leave
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 03:56 AM
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female sex tourism huh? interesting. I've never heard about that. Do you mean females are actually soliciting and paying for sex from male prostitutes? or does the dynamic differ? I know in japan there is a growing industry of women's clubs where they essentially pay for attention and flirting from charming hot alpha guys with high SMV. There is no sex involved. they just get to feel like hot shit and get a big kick out of it, especially since they aren't giving the guys sex which makes them fee…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 03:51 AM
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That's fair. That's why I was hoping there would be some sort of empirical study on the subject. Our perceptions are shaped by our experiences (to a degree), so while I'm sure what you say is true, perhaps oz woman as a whole aren't quite as different as originally claimed? just food for thought. Though I am techinically very rp, i really get annoyed at this TRP sub for how bad it makes us look. I want arguments that can be used in PC contexts, and hold up when talking to people outside of TRP. …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 03:44 AM
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Lol no I'm not new or unfamiliar to TRP. I specifically avoided using the word "love" because i foresaw such a response. Of course affection is not lasting, nor is it unconditional. Still, people can genuinely enjoy each others company in relationships while they last. I was trying to explain how its not something one can realistically buy from a prostitute. Nobody feels good paying for friends, and the same goes for 'buying' a girlfriend. Nobody would really just lie to themselves like that.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 03:36 AM
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yeah thats how it is in canada. nobody, not even the lawmakers, fully understand how its supposed to work. just legalizing it would be so much safer for both parties.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 03:27 AM
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Not many men would, but it's nice to have the option. especially for those that don't have much of another chance.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 03:26 AM
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Off I shouldn't have taken that at face value, they probably are just the same as western women. Still, ROK is funny but that article is basically a bunch of assumptions based on little more than anecdotal evidence if any at all. try not to take stuff like that too seriously, anyone can claim anything on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 03:23 AM
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If I knew where to buy it, I probably would once a year or so. Unfortunately google isn't really helping me, and it's still very dangerous for both parties. not to mention STD risks
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 03:18 AM
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I wonder what the issue is. Lack of funding because nobody wants to be chastised for donating to something many people are morally against?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 03:17 AM
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We all like the ego boost. it's amazing, but sometime sex does more than just boost our egos. its therapeutic and triggers many chemicals that effect us psychologically
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 03:15 AM
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It is glorified masturbation for the most part, but there might be psychological benefits for those that don't share the alpha qualities necessary to easily attract a new mate of the old mate leaves or threatens to leave. Despite what people say, sex is a very power tool, and it's wielded by women
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 03:12 AM
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There might not be as much rampant beta-dom if these men were free to buy safe/clean sex, and weren't shunned because they chose to buy sex.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 03:07 AM
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I am aware about these facts. I agree man. There is no real good reason its illegal. its just a moral issue
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 03:06 AM
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I get taht, I just mean i think the pussy has been pedestalized too much. This might help it a bit
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 03:04 AM
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That's pretty much how I'd use it. I think a lot of men could benefit from opting out on occasion and getting a nice expensive prostie instead of jumping through insane loops over one girl. Sex can put things in perspective. Hopefully this can help him 'wake up' when he's getting to desperate and offering too much for his commitment. Yeah I can't imagine it somehow replacing sex or dating, as some have suggested. I didnt mean that, I meant it would help shift some priorities. yes the thing is de…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 03:02 AM
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Keep at it man. It's too risky otherwise. entrapment is a very real thing. so are accidents
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 02:55 AM
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Hmm. I wonder where the innate differences between women of different countries come from then.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 02:54 AM
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Many people want genuine affection from somebody else. I'm not sure you can pay somebody to genuinely feel certain way, such as genuinely enjoying his company and liking him for him and not his money
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 02:44 AM
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Interesting. Im curious why this is the case, with entitlement being so high, pussy being so powerful, and prostitution not balancing out anything. Maybe the problem roots more in the males enabling it. BP tells men to take these roles, and they suffer in silence
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 02:41 AM
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exactly. why not have the option?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 02:34 AM
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Are you making a joke about how "all men pay for sex even if its with listening to her and putting up with her shit"? I get the joke man, but im trying to debate using money when talking about paying for something. I'm pretty sure you can't pay a prostitute in "time and energy" the way you can pay a girlfriend in that form of payment. you can't pay a prostitute for genuine love, or for a long-term partner that truly desires you for you and not for your money.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 02:24 AM
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I think it is to be assumed that in a global legalization, it would be controlled for STDs. businesses known for being clean would survive, while dirty ones would face failure
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 12:34 AM
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That's the mentality they want men to have. I feel the same way in my core, but I don't know if it's really true. Makes me think of that South Park joke. Men pay for sex all the time, but not always with money. with commitment and putting up with her
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 12:32 AM
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Yeah what you said is what I have learned from posting this. It's strange though, i really wouldn't have expected there to be so little difference. Maybe it;s just because its shamed?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 11:56 PM
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its not man. I'm not sure what you're thinking, but like somebody else said in response to one of your comments, women DO contribute more than just sex to a relationship. sex is NOT the only reason people form relationships.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 11:53 PM
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No need. I understand it well, I'm just citing the double standard to illustrate my point
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 11:51 PM
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I've tried explaining this to the guy a few times. I'm not sure why it's not getting through. you nailed it omg yes it IS why the rest of reddit hates us. I hate us too sometimes because i just see the ridiculous shit perpetuated here. men who aren't done with the grieving process that comes from taking the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 11:49 PM
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Yeah, but for a woman commitment means investment of resources. you can't pay somebody to invest and commit resources to her. She is looking to GAIN money/resources, not lose it.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 11:46 PM
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yep this exactly is why they hate the idea and want to fight it. its the same vein as how its women that say "slut" more so than men. men dont really care that much (unless he's looking for wifey) and may even like it (higher chances of getting laid with minimal investment!). women HATE things and other women that devalue the pussy, becuase its their power.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 11:41 PM
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Yeah ive had bjs like that as well. its really just that not everybody can come from oral. happens to plenty of women, men can have the same problem but its just rarely talked about. Idk what to tell you, man. just remember you're playing with fire. try thinner condoms i guess.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 11:38 PM
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you misunderstood. I meant if prostitutes could provide commitment and companionship and the other things you get from a relationship besides sex. if women could buy THOSE things, then they'd pay for it. not sex
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 11:35 PM
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yeah that's how I expected it to play out for the most part. But even giving men the legal option to get safe/clean sex would help so many men stand up for themselves in relationships, even if its in secret. Sex is so therapeutic. I wish it were legal here because I really could use it on occasion to get it out of my system.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 11:33 PM
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yeah it upsets the balance of power. sex is one of the main motivators for productivity, and lowering its value hurts the economy. people work hard and spend even harder just for a taste.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 11:20 PM
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That sounds amazing. maybe the women cant use it as leverage because the men can get it elsewhere?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 11:18 PM
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companionship? there is more to relationships than just sex. i believe i answered this in another reply to you a minute ago
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 11:16 PM
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well, many men want more than just sex. casual sex is awesome, but many also want companionship and LTRs. Prostitution can't really provide that, and if it could, women would get male prostitutes all the time. legalizing prostitution is about removing the gf/wife monopoly over sex (unless that man is super alpha and can just get laid the moment she threatens him with no sex)
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 11:15 PM
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I want some sort of procedure like this ASAP. That's big on my list of priorities
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 11:12 PM
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You're not alone man. women often are just bad at bjs because they dont think it requires effort. they assume that we should come in 30seconds from a bj. With the condom issue, it's psychological. you think its gonna be lame so your body reacts accordingly. also, try kegels if you're having erectile issues man.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 11:10 PM
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to be fair most chicks suck at giving head. Contrary to popular belief, 30 seconds of sucking isnt going to do the job. I require 5-10 minutes of a bj before i can finish. girls are allowed to take 20 minutes to cum, but if i last over 2 minutes then somehow I'm the asshole?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 11:07 PM
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Yeah that's what my original post is about. sex is a NEED that men have, and it's awful that we give gfs/wives the power to monopolize it and then control us using it.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 11:05 PM
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yeah that price is totally fine. every once in a while I'd definitely pay that to get it out of my system and loosen any vaginal shackles. yeah its the social repercussions that hurts it. still, the man could benefit from having the option to get it without his friends knowing. if he could be sure it was safe and legal, maybe some BP men would be empowered to leave shitty relationships
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 11:04 PM
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yes STD testing should be the norm. Lol man i dont care about using a condom if im getting laid. It just beats whacking off no contest. I know that when I'm long into an LTR, then birth control and no condom becomes more pleasurable an idea, but still it's not good to put your future in the hands of a woman like that. I personally know a guy taht got fucked over by a women trying to fuck him over by getting pregnant. even if you wear a condom you;re not safe. the guy i knew caught the chick empt…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 10:49 PM
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Well seeing that women desire "commitment" the same way men desire sex, it might be a little hard to put into practice since commitment isnt easily commodified the way sex can be. I heard that in japan they have those women's clubs where male hosts are payed to flirt with the women but dont have sex with them. I saw it in some documentary about how fucked up japanese sex culture is at the moment. But that's not likely to become some huge thing in the west, because it's not like prostitution can …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 10:42 PM
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right? that's exactly how I would use it. women have the occasional "spa/pampering" day, why can't I have my day to relax? I think it would be good for my mental health
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 10:37 PM
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Yeah the STD thing causes problems. I get that 150 is a lot, but I don' think it's too bad for special occasions. If the price came down to like 60-75 for sex, and 30-40 for a bj, I think it'd more interesting :)
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 10:30 PM
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Seriously? how can men be so stupid! I would gladly buy premium sex a couple times a year just to get the urge out of my system. I feel it's the pent up desperation that hurts so man men, and this might give them a way out. Is the legalized sex trade just too expensive?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 10:26 PM
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Do you have any idea how it has played out in term of relationship dynamics? This is what I'm curious about
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 10:18 PM
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I learned in my Sexual psychology class from some guest panelists on prostitution education that the street price for a blowjob is like $20. $150 isn't TOO bad, but it's not good enough to be a regular thing. I would pay that a couple times per year to get it out of my system
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 10:18 PM
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hahah i can imagine. I really wish it was legal in abundance here in the US and Canada. it would be like a therapeutic activity
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 10:15 PM
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This could very well happen. I really think it depends on how big the commercial sex market becomes. if it were readily available, it would have a much bigger effect than just operating in the shadows. basically, if it were big enough to not have extreme social repercussions, it might play out rather well for men. If we had sex traditions like taking one's son to a whore house on his 18th birthday and stuff, I definitely think we'd see a decrease in orbiting WKs hoping for a boob grab and doing …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 10:14 PM
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I wonder if it really has no effect or what the issue is. If it was commercially available enough, there must be some effect on relationship dynamics.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 10:07 PM
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it's legal outside of vegas, but the prostitutes come into vegas because thats where all of the business is.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 10:05 PM
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Okay I forgot about Germany. So how does this play out? I would love some insight from somebody with experience on the subject
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 10:03 PM
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I get that. Obviously the "girlfriend experience" can't replace having a real girlfriend, but I just think it would diminish the power imbalance that exists in so many couples. A man can't just cut off resources the same way a woman can cut off sex. A ton of men would be able to leave shit relationships more easily in my opinion. I myself have dated a crazy for way too just because of sex, and I know many guys are all too eager to do the same. So many men will get into a relationship or not want…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 10:02 PM
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Can you imagine the shitstorm women would stir up if safe prostitution became legal? Being able to buy sex? the power and value of the vagina would plummet! we would be free!
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 09:36 PM
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Men are biologically programmed to prefer sex with as little strings attached as possible. It's our evolutionarily developed sexual strategy, no different than womens' preferred strategy of mating with a men of the best genetics and securing resources from a men, regardless of whether or not these two are from the same man. ALL men prefer casual sex, it's an evolved psychological mechanism present unanimously. This article is utterly preposterous. it is merely chickbait pandering with little gra…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 09:32 PM
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Begging, pushing, pestering, they're all pretty similar depending on how one chooses to define the terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 11:19 PM
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The girlfriend experience probably roots in men having a desire for companionship. When men are young, they report low interest in committed relationships, but as they get older it goes higher and higher. the men that frequent prostitutes are likely to be older and have the money to pay for it. Captain save a hoe lmao Yeah the misconception that being nicer to chicks makes you more attractive to them is ridiculous. Hence, white knights. the friendzone is something a guy does to himself. the whit…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 06:32 PM
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Lol okay this is the second time somebody assumed i was being sarcastic today. To be clear, I wasn't being sarcastic. I really do study evo psych, and really did read that data. lol i guess i need to start proof reading for sarcasm. _^ I guess it came off sarcastic when I sort of just conceded (redditors are not really known for easily conceding anything lol). I just didn't really look at it in a broad sense like you did. I do agree with this generalization: The idea that your so desirable a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 09:06 AM
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PS. is you're username a Noisia reference?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 08:20 AM
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not sarcasm. lol it actually is pretty funny if it were sarcastic, but its not. I really am currently studying evolutionary psych and did read about this in a textbook. My point was just that it's unusual for ~20 year differences to be a long-run mating choice. Yes it happens, but you can't really argue that its more of the exception than a norm. Statistically, those relationships just rarely form life-long partnerships. http://www1.appstate.edu/~kms/classes/psy2664/buunk2001.pdf It's not text d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 08:16 AM
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Fair point. This has clear scientific support. I just learned about this in my evolutionary psychology textbook. no RP or BP biases exist in that context.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 07:23 AM
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Begging is not how an real alpha male gets sex. That sounds much more likely to be the case with a beta male trying to get laid. Begging is not attractive, thus it is bound to be an ineffective way to try to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 04:54 AM
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It is not condoned to do anything, such as taking off clothing, without consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 03:33 AM
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I'm asking, why would a woman start to take off her clothes if all is happening is kissing and it's clear that kissing is as far as it would go?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 03:18 AM
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If she was clear about just wanting to kiss, why would clothes start coming off?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 02:41 AM
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If she had been clear about it, why would he go for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 02:04 AM
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If that was said from the start, why would there be any confusion about where the night was heading?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 12:47 AM
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Shouldn't a person be straight up with his or her intentions?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 10:07 PM
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I lol'd. up'd
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 10:03 PM
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I never said take anything at face value. I said communicate, as in talk about why willing and consensual intent changed abruptly to non-intent in the "last minute".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 09:50 PM
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And when that is the case, then..?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 09:34 PM
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Randomly Because it's super random for partners to talk about feelings. She isn't being made to do anything she doesn't want to do. He is not forcing anything. If she doesn't want sex, she doesn't have sex. If she wants to have sex, she is free to indulge.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 09:08 PM
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secret vasectomy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 06:58 PM
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This was my point exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 06:34 PM
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how could they justify something so horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 06:33 PM
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Yeah I've noticed that mostly when it comes to networking, it's super important to have some accreditation so you have credibility and have worth to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 05:45 PM
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Well if they were adaptive, then why would people be incredibly miserable and backwards? Would they not adapt and move out of a state of untreated depression?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 05:42 PM
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I just hope they don't outlaw it in the states.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 05:40 PM
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lol classy. What'd he even say?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 05:39 PM
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everybody that disagrees with me is a troll obviously. Despite being RP myself, I really disagree with that "traditionalist" stand many of them believe in. I don't want traditionalism, i want equality. real equality. the kind where neither sides can play a victim card.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 05:35 PM
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This is sort of true. It sort of works in our favor to have a ton of beta BPs out there. The alpha male will have more crops to reap
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 05:30 PM
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I'm a music producer. Been doing it for a long time and have gotten pretty good at it. still, I am struggling with the business side of music. Branding my stuff and myself, shameless self-promotion, hardcore networking, that kind of stuff. Those things just don't come naturally to me way the actual music does, especially networking. I just have a moral block when it comes to making friends with people solely for their connections. I'm also fearful of failure, so I procrastinate making music. Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 05:24 PM
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That sounds like a great idea. I live in SoCal, so maybe I'll bump into you one day. The money is huge in the area, but be prepared for an extremely tough and cut-throat business (from what I've heard). Good luck man, its gonna be a hell of a ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 05:08 PM
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Haha nice I'll remember your offer! I'm 21 and still figuring life out, so its always nice to find good people out there. If your lazy is still most people's motivated, i can't even imagine what your motivated must be like. Becoming a billionaire with a b is a pretty serious task, any ideas of how you plan to make that happen? Entrepreneur?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 05:02 PM
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His "involvement" was a few posts on one site somewhere. What a huge connection. His views are way more extreme than anything I have ever seen on the manosphere. so some people don't like women. some women don't like men too. One side can't suddenly act superior
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 04:57 PM
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Good for you, man. The path to success is a rocky one. Persistence and a willingness to out-work everybody are essential. Optimism is great, as it can inspire confidence in one's work, but never forget that work ethic is what makes all the difference. I know I can be successful in passion if I get more disciplined with it. I'm trying to overcome an internet addiction which I use to procrastinate doing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 04:47 PM
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This whole Rodgers things is so ridiculous. I actually read his manifesto, he never went on TRP, nor really much any other PUA sites. He went online looking for answers aout how to pick up women. It's insanely obvious that he in no way connected to TRP nor any other PUA site, and he clearly was severely mentally ill. The connection to TRP is as just as flawed as saying "driving black BMWs leads to shooting people at Isla Vista." I'm pretty sure rodgers talk is banned because of this retarded log…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 04:40 PM
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Of course there is more to life, hence why I'm pretty much just MGTOW and focus on other things than women. Actually saves a lot of headaches, and I really don't want my only contribution to the world is having a kid like 99% of everybody. That's the laziest most uncreative way ever to make one's mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 04:30 PM
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Perhaps you're right. I just recently read in a textbook where it talked about reasons why 50 year olds don't normally land 20 year olds, so I was repeating what I've been taught. You and I appear to agree fundamentally on most things, we were just coming at this narrow topic from different research backgrounds. The real point of this comment chain is that women typically date men about 2-3 years older than themselves, a statistical truth that has evolutionary basis. It works out both for men an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 04:27 PM
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That's what I'm in shock about. Is this real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 04:11 PM
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Share if you know. know any off the top of your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 04:10 PM
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I get that, I'm just saying it would be nice to have another sub along side it that is basically TRP without all of the ridiculousness
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 04:09 PM
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the simple solution is to stop That's what I said they do. As I said, they do stop and just start communicating with her about the situation. Hence having " consensual sex the way the rest of the human population normally does."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 04:07 PM
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Okay, let's pretend I did literally mean "this girl is trouble" and wasn't just using a short way of say "at the moment, interactions with this girl may lead to trouble since explicit consent is not clear". if that were what I meant, what's your point? the "anti slut defense" is just one of many different reasons to refuse sex. Indeed, it IS possible that for this to be the reason one decides against sex. What I said was that people who practice PUA train to recognize when this is the case, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 09:13 AM
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Yeah, I just wish there was a subreddit of TRP called like "/sensibleredpill" or something that distilled the points of TRP without the anger, hatred, bitterness, or accusatory attacks. I think there are other websites like that, but I haven't really looked. /lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 08:44 AM
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Yes I was going to write that she has to prove herself trustworthy often more than once, but you beat me to it. That's awesome taht you're parents have kept it together for so long! it's actually kind of rare. given the 50-66% divorce rate, plus the millions that choose misery instead of a divorce, true successful marriages are pretty rare. my grandparents are soon celebrating 60 years, but my parents separated at about 20 years. People change a lot in 10 years, so its hard to know if itll come …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 08:36 AM
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Men have been shamed for this forever. it's only in the last half a century that it's gotten really bad as men have become sort of demonized for their sex drives
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 08:27 AM
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but don't make it seem like your some morally superior person for being rude to me. werd. Happens way too often
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 08:09 AM
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You said everything I wanted to say. we are conditioned to believe the works one way, while in reality it doesn't. THATS what the nice blokes are mad about
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 07:51 AM
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Thanks, you seem like a sensible guy as well. Yeah, I get what you're saying. It's not like I'm incapable of trusting women, it's just that I'm really cautious and captious about the women I choose to trust. Also, this really only applies to sex/love/relationships where she could ruin my life if I were wreckless, rather than in general. If a man were able to ruin my life as easily as a woman could, I'd be the same way with him. I treat everybody the same for the most part, but only women are abl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 07:41 AM
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nice attempt to twist my words. I meant that by trying to sleep with somebody that doesn't want to sleep with me, I'd be looking for trouble. that means: consent is not clear and explicit? don't touch her. Did you just purposely miss my point? I'm not judging anybody for deciding to or not have sex. I clearly stated that this LMR discussion doesn't apply to myself. I never make moves without clear and sober consent. Slut-shaming is instilled in our society, and even though tides are shifting, pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 07:24 AM
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Evolutionary psychology is what I meant. What you're referring to is called an Evolved Psychological Mechanism. The whole field is essentially about how our cognitive development is rooted in evolution, including functions of the prefrontal cortex (higher cognition). http://evopsychproj.blogspot.ca/2011/05/evolved-psychological-mechanisms.html
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 06:50 AM
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That's great, man. Glad there are calm collected people in this world. I'm pretty calm myself, but I'm far from perfect. I've found my passion in life, and that pretty much keeps me happy. I probably wouldn't be a part of the TRP community were it not for one experience I had when I was little. Basically, I know somebody that got really screwed over by this chick that he caught emptying out a condom out inside herself and got pregnant. Really ruined this guys life. it was this huge mess and now …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 06:43 AM
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lol that's a funny thought, but no I don't. I'm not one of those people that fantasizes about having some sort of supreme power. Not at all. Sorry to get your hopes up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 06:25 AM
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a list?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 01:40 AM
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I like that TRP provides men with a safe outlet for expressing their outrage against the women in their lives. It's just not PC so it gets singled out and attacked, while #KillAllMen publically on twitter doesn't have nearly the same consequences. I definitely fall into more of a MGTOW category. I love women, I respect women, but I will not put myself in a situation where I risk her taking advantage of me. no marriage, secret vasectomy, clear and provable consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 01:39 AM
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Agree to disagree I guess. I would love to see a social experiment though. Too bad it's ridiculously unethical lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 01:35 AM
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That's fair. Everybody has their own viewpoints, and I respect that. I honestly wasn't trying to convert you, I just want to do my part in correcting the wide misconceptions of TRP. I don't even agree to much with much of what is said by the members, as I don't relate to the accusatory claims, bitterness, and traditionalism held by many. I just tolerate that stuff because I know those bitter people are just newer members that are jsut waking up and just seeing how their lives were lies. Contrary…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 01:32 AM
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I'll humor you even though you seem to underestimating how drastically his view of the child might change. He may still care about the child's well-being, but that doesn't mean he won't be more than happy to drop it off at the real father's house, possibly demand compensation, and dip from a family of illegitimate children, cheating/lying spouses, and wasted years. He might still love the child, the way a teacher loves his or her schoolchildren. He cares for their health, safety, and well-being,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 01:23 AM
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Male asks: "how can man make women do something she doesn't want to do?" Every hack-y SJW responds: "RAPE OBVIOUSLY! ALL MEN ARE RAPISTS! #KILLALLMEN" That's why i said that. I will sort of agree with you on the Last Minute Resistance stuff. I never really encountered much of that myself. I personally feel that it's more like a red flag that lets you know that this probably won't end well. I see it as a sign that this girl is trouble and to get the fuck out of there before you get some false acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 01:17 AM
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SJWs are the worst man. here is a demonstration of how TRP relates to feminism http://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/27in09/understanding_the_red_pill_how_it_relates_to/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 12:59 AM
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Introduction to TRP http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/12v1hf/almost_a_hundred_subscribers_welcome_newcomers/ bonus post about how TRP is like feminism http://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/27in09/understanding_the_red_pill_how_it_relates_to/ Added Edit: oh and to be fair, the introduction talks a lot about game, but as TRP has grown, it has become more than about just game. man are using it for LTRs, or just becoming MGTOWs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 12:54 AM
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I mentioned rape becuase that's the hack-y bit everybody always uses when talking about TRP. But it's not even just about TRP. whenever the word "exploit" or is used in a context about women, rape is always the assumption people jump to. How does somebody use a woman's weakness to get with them? I'm assuming you're talking about "negging" or whatever that is. I'm not into PUA or using TRP to try and sleep with many women, so I don;t really understand "negging" nor how it works. I honestly can't …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 12:51 AM
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Actually, TRP has divided outlooks, some of which are even acknowledged and outlined in other side bar posts. It's ridiculous to try and dismiss TRP with an "AMALT" argument and accredit feminism with a "NAWALT" argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 12:43 AM
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I am in shock. What the hell..?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 12:35 AM
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normal, healthy people (OP excluded) don't just stop loving a child they've been raising as their own youd be surprised. Evolutionarily, this is like one of the worst things that can happen to a man. I'd definitely put my money on it resulting in a shitstorm a majority of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 12:23 AM
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That's what people like to think, but the reality is that when applied properly, it works very well. Read the introduction on TRP, it explains it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 12:08 AM
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Well, to be fair, reverse the genders and you have tumblr. /r/TumblrInAction
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 12:05 AM
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So being the kind of man that women want to be with and/or sleep with is wrong? I'm not sure how a man could make a women do something she didn't want to do? And before you even say it, obviously TRP doesn't advocate any violence
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/14 12:02 AM
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BP people hate it when TRP works
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/14 11:59 PM
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Should advertising be illegal?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/14 11:58 PM
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How exactly would one exploit a women? And don't say rape because obviously TRP does not actually advocate ANY violence against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/14 11:56 PM
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I wish more men realized this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/14 11:37 PM
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I'm gonna have to agree with you. Unless there was some sort of unusual contextual circumstance, like a confessions game, I doubt it could realistically have helped. That said, women are attracted to men that are attractive to other women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/14 11:35 PM
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It's not really his problem. Unless he like blackmailed her, the blame falls entirely on the cheating spouse. He made no vows. He just got it where there was some to get
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/14 11:26 PM
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I know, I agree. I was merely trying to make the point that equality can never be achieved until victim cards stop being played
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/14 11:21 PM
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If we defined the feminist movement by the women publicly tweeting "#KillAllMen" stuff, it would just as easily discardable as you're trying to make TRP out to be. read the introduction. TRP is not about hate. Some members just post accusatory crap, which is no different than women do in the feminist movement. http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/12v1hf/almost_a_hundred_subscribers_welcome_newcomers/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/14 11:18 PM
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In attraction, yes. But in real life mating strategy, no. Incompatibility can lead to infidelity or abandonment because the people don't have a real connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/14 11:14 PM
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True, but there are a few conflicting mentalities within TRP, as explained in the "directions of this sub 2014" links in the sidebar. there's the plate spinners, the MGTOWs (myself), and one other one i cant rememebr at the moment.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 09:16 PM
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Chapters 4 & 5: Long-Term mating strategies of men & women Basically, men pick women as closest to peak fertility as possible given their constrained options. Women pick men slightly older who have more access to resources and higher social status. it's all in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/14 07:48 PM
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Alfred McAlpha
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 07:19 PM
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Ralphie McAlpha
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 07:19 PM
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fair point. I'll definitely check with a trainer before doing anything too crazy. What kind of martial arts do you do?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 07:12 PM
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Women prefer older men. that's actually an evolutionary fact. older men have, on average, more status, more access to resources, and more societal value. This usually falls within less than 10 years older, but occasionally a 20 year old can like a 50 year old as long as he has extremely high status/wealth/value. I actually just studies this phenomenon recently so if you're interested about the age preferences I can send you some data/links/information
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/14 06:16 AM
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I know what you mean. that asshole-ish behavior is not even common. I just mentioned it as a sort of disclaimer so i dont sound too biased. On the purple pill, i try to be a little more bipartisan than when I'm on the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/14 06:12 AM
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Yeah. it's really not something that's some radical shift. generally the man just starts evening the playing field and taking less crap from the girl. trying to cure 'nice guy syndrome' can cause some strife because the girl can lose some of her power dynamic footholding. It's an easy change for the man either though, and he can end up being unnecessarily asshole-ish in the time before he has fully adapted into the new mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/14 04:56 AM
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no they don't lol. hence why TRP has so many bitter men. the real RPers that actually embody TRP don't participate in the radical topics. They can sometimes be found in the comments giving level headed corrective advice, but usually they stay away from the more hate-filled posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/14 04:49 AM
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Exactly. This is how most relationships work. Men have been told to act a certain way in marriage, and it almost never works out in the way he'd hoped. it ends up with the man walking on egg shells around his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/14 04:45 AM
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You're right actually. What I should have said was "hence why media can be so effective in progressivism. It can help shed light on things and whip up support, but this can turn out to be a good or bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/14 04:29 AM
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Well it works both ways. previous to the internet, it was near-impossible to get exposed to something different than what one grew up with. hence why media is so important in progressivism
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/14 03:36 AM
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Well, to be fair, women WERE actually oppressed at one point in time. We have since corrected this, yet they're not quite ready to relinquish victim status. and lmao yes fannie feminist noticed taht he changed colognes after he found a newer, higher-paying job. He never noticed how blue her eyes were until she took off her glasses in the meeting. Why are we fighting again..?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/14 03:35 AM
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i highly doubt that, man. can you be more specific and define 'old man'?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/14 03:30 AM
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well, that's a special circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/14 11:12 PM
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Oh rock climbing is a great idea, man. As far as I know, It doesn't stress your knee joints too much, as you will just fall (and hopefully be saved by a rope) and bounce back. It's definitely not boring. sword fighting might be good. I've done some Pa-Kua a long time ago, and but I eventually stopped for some reason. To strengthen my knee, I need to get back to squatting. I stopped after injuring my back a few months ago, but I need to get back on it.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 11:10 PM
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exactly. women and men are equal but different
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/14 11:05 PM
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Yeah internet TV is what I meant. I'm terrible at wasting time on netflix (or on TRP lololol). I've been wondering about taking up a martial art, but I have a knee that I dislocated like 8 times (im 21), and I've developed like a psychological fear of it popping out again. I'm worried about all of the jerking, twisting, and landing in awkward poses that comes with martial arts. do you think there is one that should look at that might be safer?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 06:55 PM
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That's a pretty good link. thanks man. Everybody wants to think we hate women, but that's not what TRP is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/14 06:51 PM
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no its not just red plll, these studies come out of real evolutionary psychology textbooks. Red pill definitely is not trying to tell 50 year old men to go out an hit on 20 year olds. that wont work unless you have celebrity status
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/14 06:46 PM
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Accountabilibuddy
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 11:32 AM
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Mine is TV addiction...
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 10:50 AM
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Getting laid is sweet and I'm sure finding love is even better lol no. no its not. rest of post is spot on tho bro
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 10:46 AM
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This is exactly right. Men wield commitment, women wield sex. A women's sex will always have at least SOME level of value, while male commitment can be worth absolutely nothing or even be so low it's essentially negative. However, a man's commitment has the potential to vastly exceed the value of any woman's sex. Being male is a genetic risk. You can be either wildly successful or a total failure. Women will always be able to find a mate, no matter how low her value. Men cannot
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 10:38 AM
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sploosh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/14 09:40 AM
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yeah straight outta the book. David Deangelo days. If you're in good shape it makes this a really great way to approach and come off as confident and frame the relationship sexually. avoids the friendzoen
/r/seduction07/06/14 09:30 AM
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How romantic batts eyelashes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/14 09:26 AM
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Best piece of advice about text game I ever got was that there is no text game. Texting is a tool you use merely to coordinate a meet up. If she doesn't respond tonight, just call her the next day. Not many people have the balls to call these days, so you'll come off strong. Keep it short. try to open with a joke, and then make plans to meet up as soon as possible. don't linger
/r/seduction07/06/14 09:25 AM
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blows a kiss
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/14 09:08 AM
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hahaha still, the romance languages are quite seductive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/14 09:07 AM
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German is a very ugly language, but so is chinese and japanese. very strange inflections and syllables
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/14 08:51 AM
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I'm going to have to make some food right now. Just reading about the 4x4 made my stomach audibly growl
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/14 08:50 AM
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TRP blaming other is the bitter backlash that JerkFaceMcGonigal mentioned. Most of the nasty and inflammatory stuff on TRP is spewed from newer members that barely have delved into what TRP really is about. It's supposed to show you reality and put your next moves entirely on your own shoulders. TRP gives these people a safe place to rant and vent, which is way better than if they were to express it to other people in person or on facebook.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/14 08:49 AM
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This. I wish I had a gold to give you. TRP is about seeing how the world really works and adapting to be successful in it. Its unconventional, but the conventions are fairy tales
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/14 08:41 AM
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I'm RP myself, but sometimes people TRP make odd statements like the one you pointed out. Women cant love? that's ridiculous. Men and women in a relationship often aren't perfectly alined in their "love"s towards each other, and it may or may not be a hinderance, but of course they're both capable of love. People often confuse being opportunistic with being malicious. both men and women are opportunistic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/14 08:36 AM
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Chinese is a great idea. lmao about the neckbeard japanese thing, you might be right xD . Perhaps German? they're one of the most stable economies at the moment as the rest of the EU and NATO dig themselves into hole. but yeah, Chinese man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/14 08:29 AM
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Honestly, I LOVE In-n-Out burgers. they're definitely the ones that come to mind. But if i'm making one myself, Grass fed grass finished beef, caramelized onions, avocado, and the regular toppings. A good bun is a must
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/14 08:27 AM
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Men desire women closest to peak fertility, regardless of his own age. But, the women he chooses to actually are not the same women he fantasizes about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/14 08:24 AM
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Actually, as somebody studying human sexuality, this is accurate of the age men find most attractive. BUT, this age is merely what the men FANTASIZE about, NOT what they actually go for. Men date women closer to their own age because of 1. limited options (only the super high status/wealthy older males are able to attract a 20 year old), 2. compatibility (a 50 year old man won't liekly have anything in common with a 23 year old girl), and 3. Risk of abandonment. These are facts and I will cite i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/14 08:20 AM
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It's not really fair to say it's a shit test. All that can be deduced is that she did him a favor by letting him know to let her talk to a therapist instead of trying to date her. She may very well be a sweet girl, but right now she needs to talk to a qualified professional before seeking relationships
/r/askTRP06/06/14 11:25 PM
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New Victorian Era exactly
/r/askTRP06/06/14 11:22 PM
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All men are literally hitler. #yesallwoman get raped everyday. #killallmen in infancy before they can grow up and look at a woman's boobs in public
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 08:33 PM
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It's all encompassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 08:32 PM
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lol my thoughts exactly. "This mister didn't have sex until he was 14 years old because he was circumcised as an infant" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 08:06 PM
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NAWALT! oh wait
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 08:05 PM
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Go to the wikipedia page and go down to the "Sexual selection" section.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 08:01 PM
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lol I feel you on the snarkiness as well Analogies aside, the 'double standard' regards the upset over men getting praised and women getting shamed over doing the same thing. But the different responses are perfectly reasonable given the different roles of males and females in childrearing. The consequences of the higher-investing sex (human females) is greater than for the lower-investing sex (human males), thus it is genetically in the woman's interest to be selective and value her sexuality m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 07:58 PM
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we need to change from the US marriage model to the Scandinavian model of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 07:40 PM
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The only real solution is a dissolution of the US marital system. they have to change to the Scandinavian model for marriage. it's a real life, WORKING model
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 07:39 PM
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Exactly. Women can't really win in the eyes of everybody. I could never, ever, force that on a woman. I could get a vasectomy and then my partner could tell everybody I'm sterile and then they wouldnt judge her for not having kids. we're then free to be a power couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 07:35 PM
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This. this 1000x over again. WTF is wrong with everybody. Stay. The. Fuck. Away. From. Marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 07:31 PM
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Apparently a good accountant and lawyer can help non-married couples get similar tax breaks and privileges to a marriage. And I overheard it in a bar, so it must be true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 07:30 PM
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Both sides of this little debate are so grey. This "traditionalist" stream that runs through many RPers' ideologies can be sort of backwards, but try to remove that from TRP and see what you get. Realistically, marriage just isn't a level playing field for men, and thus it's necessary to take extreme preventative measures, or to just avoid it all together. This obsession with having a submissive housewife grosses me out a bit. I could never be with a woman that's not independent and high value, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 07:28 PM
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NUH UH! My gold digging whore gf loves me for ME. if the math were adjusted, me being 21, my gold diggin whore would be like ?8? years old?? lol bish be hittin me up for ice cream money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 07:16 PM
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Truth. I have plenty of personal example where I 100% was in, but chose not to, and am glad because of it. Even examples where i was literally tip at the entrance, but decided against it. I can't count them as notches, but it's like buffer room. makes ya feel good mang
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 07:13 PM
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I'll have to google it later, because I don't get what the metaphor is. but yeah, i see you're point. these analogies are stupid, but my original post wasn't focused on that analogy. I'm not sure if you intentionally chose to focus on the wrong part or not. But it's cool, I actually like it because so many other people ended up repeating the same arguments. it's nice to get onto a different topic. You don't seem to be RP, is that true? I would love to meet level headed people from the other rise…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 06:55 PM
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I know lol. I guess I'm just a humanitarian ;)
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 06:48 PM
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It's utterly presumptious to think "I AM the best"; you aren't George Clooney or Bill Clinton I genuinely lol'd ;D . of course I'm not the best in THAT way, I just was using it as a blanket statement to say that I put the responsibility to be satisfying fully upon myself. if her ex-bf is more attractive than you and has a 12.5 inch penis, buy a toy. make your tongue vibrate of something. get creative
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 06:47 PM
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It's definitely more PC than /r/TheRedPill . I don't have an example on top of my head, but as the original post stated, it's infused with some PC
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 06:41 PM
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Okay, I'm open to new thought. Please explain how I'm wrong? I honestly would love some perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 06:36 PM
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much original doge new such 9gag
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 06:33 PM
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you have no way of knowing who you're going to be married to 10 years down the road. marriage before age 30 should be illegal. it'd save people so much trouble. I can't even describe the shock I regularly go through reading posts in /r/relationships like "Me[21M] and my gf[19F] want to find a cheap but pretty ring for our wedding next month!" and everybody circlejerks all over the keyboard instead of IP tracking them to go stop such a huge mistake.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 06:32 PM
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Okay, that's perfectly rational. All of these statistic have swayed me to make sure I pick a girl with a low partner count and just be wary of high counts in general. The next part, though, is that I've seen this low-count-preference argument extend to men scrutinizing women for experimenting with sex acts rather than just numbers. Things like "she's had a devils's three-way? Insta-dump bro" and other explorations of kinkier, non-missionary sex. Why should I give a shit if in college freshman ye…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 06:26 PM
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I see the point you're trying to make, but it's more of a generalization. There are tons of reasons it might not have worked out. she might even have dumped him. Maybe he was an alcoholic. maybe they separated for university after high school. maybe she has such a magical vagina that her ex died of a brain aneurysm upon orgasm. I've always wished there was a good way to contact somebody's ex(s) and ask them about a girl. of course they would only say bad things, but that'd be the point. I'd want…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 09:31 AM
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yes, obviously once the numbers hit 60 that's clearly deep into an area reserved for therapy not an LTR. but what about just a few?
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 09:09 AM
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BEING A MOTHER IS THE MOST DIFFICULT JOB ON THE PLANET
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 08:55 AM
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This. they need more focus, and a more clear and distinct set of goals, but ultimately they are on the right path. You have to give them credit for trying to fight such an utterly mine-filled and uphill battle
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 08:49 AM
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There will always be a need for a politically correct version of TRP ideology because its the only thing that can stand up in public debate. If MRA is able to conjure up valid arguments that don't violate political correctness, it could actually reach into mainstream media and beyond circlejerking
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 08:47 AM
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Honestly, expatriating is probably the only option for a well-off man that got spermjacked or something. there is no way the legal system will EVER be reformed to give men more right to opt OUT of paying for their child, because ultimately the government wants YOU to pay for your mistake rather than the gov itself having to cover some costs.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 08:44 AM
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bachelor tax that scared the S*** out of me... that would be awful...
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 08:40 AM
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Are you looking for someone to buy you breakfast, or something else? enjoyed that, gave me a huge smile :)
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 08:33 AM
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It is not the number, it is why is the number that high? great point, my man.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 08:20 AM
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marriage is 100% impossible. run. Run. RUN
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 08:17 AM
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condom, secret vasectomy, no marriage. these should be serious considerations of any RP man. Though, that's just my opinion
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 08:16 AM
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LTRs are saved for unicorns. tell me when you find one
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 07:18 AM
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Thank you! this is exactly what I was looking for!
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 07:17 AM
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Perfect! thank you this was exactly what I was looking for! I wanted a statistical argument, and i got one
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 07:17 AM
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Given that I'm 21, dating 19-21 year olds is perfect!
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 07:15 AM
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of course we're different. I never said, not even implied taht we weren't. I was asking for the research study facts on the issue. you failed to provide substance nor did you even answer the right question. YOU shut the fuck up you neckbeard
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 07:13 AM
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Lol level 2 MGTOW FTW right there
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 07:10 AM
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While I obviously agree at this type of statement when taken at face value (nobody wants a girl that ACTUALLY has fucked a ton of guys at the same party in a night), it's just a hyperbolization. No girl would actually ever do that (don't get cheeky with some far fetched example), what would be considered a realistic threshold of sexual experience that would classify a girl negatively. And don't jsut say "OBVIOUSLY ONLY A VIRGIN IS OKAY" becuase fucking virgins SUCKS. they're so... needy... you k…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 07:06 AM
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As an earlier post noted, apparently yes there is a similar (albeit significantly lessened) effect as a man's number rises. I highly doubt the effect is as extreme in the 0 - 2 range, but I dont have statistics in front of me. However, I DID study human sexuality and it's women that struggle with LTRs sexually more so than men. they both peak in the honeymoon phase and decline slowly (passion fades), but a man eventually hits a low, but steady level of satisfaction. Basically, he is still happy …
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 06:55 AM
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Yes, a girl that knows what you like can be like a drug, but realize that that's part of your downfall into the dreaded one-itis (BUM BUM BUMMMMM) True, some girls have high expectations that just climb ever higher each time you meet a standard. The only way to combat this is to frame yourself and your relationship in a way in which you retain a position of power where she can't get too comfy nor push you too hard for fear of your ability to bail. For many women, she kind of has to be the chaser…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 06:30 AM
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I understand the concern about her getting bored and wanting to hop back on the cock carousal. If she has a high partner count, it's liekly her friends also share similar stats+behaviors. so she might be more enticed by the idea of drunkenly squawking in a club, sopping up free 'ladies night' shots from the belly button of another chick, and leaving with the hot bartender to a chorus of "YOU GO GURL" from a gaggle of slgihtly thinner women. lol Still, if she is satisfied with you (more tahn just…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 05:12 AM
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yep.. some people didn't seem to realize that...
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 04:48 AM
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I am a firm Redpiller and I agree whole-heartedly on almost everything it tries (though poorly tbh) to advocate based on the fundamentals of TRP, but for the life of me i cannot seem to understand this issue they have with a woman's partner #. I just don't get it. While the fundamental ideologies of TRP are very realistic (for the most part), I simply cannot find an explanation for this # thing. The men's side of it makes perfect sense. the master key analogy perfectly describes the "slut vs stu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 04:19 AM
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there are 3 branches of government (US). Legistlative, Executive, and Judicial.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:17 PM
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"Don't teach cats not to barf on the carpet, teach owners not to put a carpet where I always barf." LMAO
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 04:38 PM
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