Classic-Village-2946 Archive

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1	I just don’t like anyone anymore… I struggled too. My divorce was final weeks before COVID quarantine and I just got used to being alone & in my own head most of the time. Went through a period of destructive behaviors with the free time and loneliness. Couldn’t find much joy in many “hobbies”. Like they say, connection is still important and over time talking to friends & family (and therapists) helps; and keep trying new things until you find joy again. Though, it sounds like you’re talking mostly about dating - at least you’r…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/04/26 05:30 AM
1	Made myself small for her I think it depends on the woman… my ex was avoidant-leaning, was maybe chronically ambivalent and had a limited capacity for sustained closeness. If I stopped being the nice guy and stopped trying to lead connection it might have bought me some time, but doesn’t necessarily mean she would have eventually leaned in either. I think in that case it just lingers as a casual / low-pressure connection that hits a ceiling and never becomes a full relationship.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/04/26 05:16 AM