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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Just because a man looks good on paper doesn't mean he is HVI'm sorry you had to go through this experience, but we both woke up to this reality and can operate better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 08:34 PM |
| 30 | Just because a man looks good on paper doesn't mean he is HVThe harems of PickMes or Naive-Bordeline-Stupid Girls. 🙄 As long as they're around, these men will continously have a supply of ass to just swap out when they need. Even if they have an SO, they'll be dating their SO privately but still responding to DMs and sending them out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 03:05 PM |
| 28 | Just because a man looks good on paper doesn't mean he is HVRight?! And when you talk about their truth, people have the gall to project everything onto you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 03:03 PM |
| 30 | Just because a man looks good on paper doesn't mean he is HVTHIS. Some of these men think they get access to things automatically and passes on other shitty behavior because they aren't doing obviously shitty things like hit their partners, say misgynistic things, or outwardly discriminate against women in the workplace. This one dude I dated seemed perfect, but I realized he was almost too sexually forward way too fast. Even with his text messages and stuff. He expected me to just lower my guard because he's supposedly "a great guy on paper". Turns out … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 02:30 PM |
| 39 | Bolivian woman found her man's car outside a motel, she proceeded to unleash some rage and publicly shame him.The worst part is that she is yelling because she bought him that car and brought him into HER house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 05:27 PM |
| 21 | Share your Red Flags on men who view women as disposable objectsI don't think she's even playing the same game we are. She's a victim under my perception. Jay Z had no business chasing that teenage girl down, but she's lliving under a business partnership now. I honestly don't believe those two love each other, but at least she's getting things she wants out of it and thriving. I think her true love is the relationship she has with her kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 02:53 PM |
| 109 | Share your Red Flags on men who view women as disposable objectsCasual sex has been deeply traumatic for me. I don't know why we gaslight sensitive women into being sexually open to things that just don't make them feel comfortable. I have autism, so giving people access to my body and the reactions sex triggers for me is so complicated. I hate the feeling of having been taken advantage of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 08:46 PM |
| 60 | Share your Red Flags on men who view women as disposable objectsThe same thing happened to me! But had the audacity to ask: "Is it a lot of blood?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 08:18 PM |
| 7 | The "bed nest" post that was mentioned in the podcastThis post haunts me. What a fucking nightmare | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 04:58 PM |
| 8 | anyone else think sza’s lowkey a pick-me chick?I feel this, but she says has actually talked about this in interviews and how her 20s were so dumb for her. She has this phrase that really stuck with me from a Genius interview which was: "I used to believe [dudes] liked me just cause they said so." Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kr5V6muCJR8 She used to be a Pick Me but is now processing and learning how to jump out of that mentality.Thats why she calls herself out on "Shirt" with the damn, bitch you like 30 line. The whole tone of th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 01:49 PM |
| 15 | We're like a small city!I love this dea. I would totally jump on board, BUT who is up for a get away vacation to start off and start properly planning? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:58 PM |
| 8 | I begged my N-ex to make me a love note (as I would do it often for him) .. I made him a personalized comic book of our life and this is what I got in return. LMAO.Can't y'all just picture him scurrying to do this 5 minutes before he leaves the house? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 02:35 PM |
| 67 | As soon as i saw this , i thought about this group ! ✨I am using this exact script next time. Thank you for posting this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 10:11 PM |
| 3 | When I finished my thesis and was handing it in, I also posted DOB, length (in pages) and weight to my Facebook timeline, intendedly making it sound like I just gave birth to a baby.This really lit a fire under me to tend to that poor and abandonded document. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:52 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InHow do y'all handle breaking up with someone that didn't really commit a big offense, but you're not feeling it? He's been sweet and fun, but I feel no sexual/physical attraction to him anymore. I don't want to string him along. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 06:10 PM |
| 12 | don’t let a man drag you downJust remember that you are your own best investment. You spend the most time with yourself. Why wait to actually do everything you want to do? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 05:57 PM |
| 7 | How do we slow down our own sexual impulses?This comment, everyone. This comment deserves all the awards and medals. You're out here speaking truth so many of us don't realize. The feeling of disposability is definitely something I'm going to have tattoed on my hands to remind me 24/7 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 07:27 PM |
| 37 | standards check: career / education levelThe PhD/MBA assholes are some huge low-key LVMs. They can hide it so well, but then execute maximum damage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 03:41 PM |
| 9 | How do we slow down our own sexual impulses?The psychological toll really does weigh heavy. I don't know how guys can just brush off manipulating people emotionally for sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 03:39 PM |
| 7 | *MBTI TYPES IS NOT AN EXCUSE FOR LOW VALUE BEHAVIOR* Has anyone else noticed an influx of men who label themselves “INTJ” absolutely shitty, and leave you with a funny feeling?I swear, there is some alignment magic with FDS. I just had this issue with a weird ass, playing-hard-to-get nerd. I can't believe a man is taking himself seriously if he -at age 30- is living in a studio apartment the size of my room with no living room furniture and a "kitchen" the size of of a desk. I'm sure you're a smart data scientist, mister... but do you have more of a personality past liking to bike, saying you're nerdy, and acting like you're a musical genius despite not knowing anythi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 03:11 PM |
| 9 | Being a HVM on the surface tends to hide sleazy, narcisstic behaviourNumbers don't lie! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 08:49 AM |
| 24 | Being a HVM on the surface tends to hide sleazy, narcisstic behaviourVetting is so important. Quarantine dating sucks though because everyone just wants to take you back to their place to watch Netflix | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 07:26 AM |
| 13 | Being a HVM on the surface tends to hide sleazy, narcisstic behaviourYou're so right. I think I just got caught up quickly because I knew him in a way that his reputation for being "the perfect guy" preceded him, but damn. Did I just lose all respect for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 07:25 AM |
| 12 | Wait until relationship for sex, but what about before then?WHY AREN'T THERE ANY COMMENTS? THIS IS SO IMPORTANT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 07:06 AM |
| 3 | Online dating be like...😂This is calling the world out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 08:12 PM |
| 4 | When LVM apologize, they do it for THEMSELVES. This isn't about YOUR feelings, it's just for their own satisfaction. Don't fall for this shit.What ticked me off so much was that I didn't even have to accept the apology. This wasn't about me feeling better or making sure I wasn't in a bad place. This was purely to let himself know that he's "not a bad guy" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:49 PM |
| 3 | When LVM apologize, they do it for THEMSELVES. This isn't about YOUR feelings, it's just for their own satisfaction. Don't fall for this shit.I wish I knew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:47 PM |
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