Classic_Writer8573 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-2	Favorite responses when a girl says she had a dream about you? The spell is working!	/r/seduction	25/09/24 06:11 AM
1	Is it normal to approach women at shopping malls, stores and the street? I wouldn't walk up and act like it's a pick up, but maybe just casually converse, be interesting and ask for her number at the end like it's not something you usually do, but is spontaneous.	/r/seduction	08/09/24 08:03 PM
34	Average looking men - What is your medthod of getting laid on a night out?? Maneuver for a threesome if possible. I usually prefer the less pretty ones, as I find them more likely to be kinky.	/r/seduction	01/09/24 07:05 AM
2	If she asks to bring her friend should I not go? Ask if she's trying to set up a threesome. Treat it as such. You never know....	/r/seduction	28/08/24 04:46 PM
23	Guys who kiss/get laid on first dates, how do you physicaly escalate? I always kiss on the first date. If she doesn't, I assume she doesn't like me.	/r/seduction	08/06/24 02:39 AM
1	Clubs are the worst place to start conversations. I'm sorry I always had my best luck at the late night restaurants women stopped at after clubbing.	/r/seduction	23/05/24 06:19 PM
2	Did you ever cold approach at business place like hospital? Not a hospital, but jury duty is easy pickings. Gotta do it when everyone is in that big room waiting to be called. Everyone's bored so approaches are almost welcome. And if you're not hitting it off, just get up when the next group is called and sit somewhere else and try again. You've often got hours.	/r/seduction	21/05/24 03:28 PM
107	Barely acknowledged me at the club but F*cked me the same night Drugs hadn't kicked in yet?	/r/seduction	20/05/24 02:16 AM
16	Out with a chick, go take a piss or buy a drink/leave her alone for a couple secs, another guy comes over to try and pick her up, this always feels like a lose-lose, is there a winning move? details below He meant as in frame control, to manage the narrative.	/r/seduction	18/05/24 01:13 AM
21	Listen boys, it's going to be rough for a while. It'll hurt and embarras you and you will want to give up Gotta desensitize yourself to fears of rejection.	/r/seduction	12/05/24 01:40 PM
0	Why she kissed me but refused to give me number? She's got a boyfriend, but was tipsy and went for it.	/r/seduction	10/05/24 07:07 PM
0	How many guys here actually approach? I talk to everyone... I don't necessarily think of this as approaching, but probably others would. I'm married and have absolutely zero intent other than just a few minutes of chit chat. When I was single, I used to approach, but it was much the same way. I'd just get into conversations with people. Big difference then was that, if after a few minutes, I wanted to continue the conversation, I'd invite them to something either that day or within the next few days. It's helpful to always know a fe…	/r/seduction	06/05/24 11:42 PM
0	I don’t get this cuck stuff I think they're trying to maintain the attachment to someone most of us would leave. They can either hate them or create the cuckold narrative. At least they're still part of the story?	/r/seduction	03/05/24 04:04 PM
3	I don’t get this cuck stuff I think a lot of guys who have been cheated on, but choose to stay in the relationship develop these fantasies to cope with the trauma.	/r/seduction	03/05/24 03:13 PM
0	What does “approaching” women mean to you? I think of it as just starting a conversation, not necessarily as goal directed as asking for a number because after talking with her, I might not be interested. Actually, at this point, I'm married and definitely not interested, but it doesn't mean I don't occasionally approach someone to chat if the mood strikes me. The part that makes approaches nerve racking is the fear of rejection. You gotta remember that you're also qualifying them. You're not in love. It's not gonna break your heart if s…	/r/seduction	01/05/24 12:48 AM
22	Today I approached a group of girls I ran into during my walk. First time I do something like this in my life. You did good! I'd suggest getting into the habit of talking to everyone, not just women or those you're attracted to. If it's a habit, you won't think twice or be nervous. Personally, I tend to start with casual remarks about something observable, usually funny. If conversation comes easy, build on it, then steer it to some activity or event you can invite her to. Weekly magazines or local sites are great at keeping you up to date with things to do. If she seems resistant to conversation, there …	/r/seduction	21/04/24 03:46 PM
0	At what point do you know you just failed and it's time to give up Get off the apps.	/r/seduction	08/04/24 01:26 AM
2	25 yo in need of help with middle aged women For cougars, a younger man represents a fantasy that is empowering to them. You're not trying to marry these women. You're giving them an outlet to explore the fantasy of younger man they can corrupt. The trick is to play into this and provide the validation they crave that they still got it.	/r/seduction	06/04/24 03:21 PM
2	25 yo in need of help with middle aged women Be friendly and flirty, but let them seduce you.	/r/seduction	06/04/24 11:50 AM
4	How to make her your girlfriend? My wife spent the night on our first date. The next day, I told her I was interested enough that I wanted to see where we might go before scheduling any other date with someone else, but no pressure since I was just getting back into dating after years in a relationship and she was only the first date I'd been on in the two weeks I'd been single again. She was thrilled and told me how crappy dating was and that if it hadn't gone well with me, she had intended to take a break from the whole scene…	/r/seduction	01/04/24 12:31 AM
46	Where to meet singles if you don’t go to bars and clubs? When I was single, I had a couple strategies. First, check your local weekly for a calendar of events and go to something new each day you can. Talk to everyone. Next, look for reoccurring activities (classes work well for this) where you'll get to know the group better over time. Last, instead of hitting bars and clubs, frequent late night restaurants where people go after the clubs get out. Be bold and look for women who might not be ready to call it a night. You'll have more success with smal…	/r/seduction	31/03/24 01:47 AM
2	How many of you eventually settled down and got married after being in the game? I settled down at 38 after an amazing ride. Ultimately, I started craving stability. You don't play the game this long without getting attached to various degrees. I thought I had met my soulmate, but it didn't work out and I was crushed. I thought I'd just get over it, but it really messed me up and this lasted years. I didn't want to date anymore. I literally married the next woman I went on a date with.	/r/seduction	28/03/24 02:49 AM
7	Question for the people that are good at getting hook ups. Do your hook ups just happening or do plan to get a hook up at all cost when going out? When I was single, I was always on and they just seemed to happen. I never went out looking, per se, but was super extraverted, talked to everyone and was very good at recognizing opportunities.	/r/seduction	14/03/24 05:55 PM
62	What do you do the next day after a one night stand? I call and let them know I had a great time. I never want anyone feeling used and always try being nice.	/r/seduction	11/03/24 07:17 PM
12	How to talk with women? I was like this as a teenager, but was committed to overcoming it. I practiced talking to three new people each day in the beginning, not just women, anyone. I eventually expanded this into a habit of just sort of thinking out loud, but in a making conversation way, with anyone who happened to be around. I still got jitters when approaching someone with the intent of asking them out, but it became super comfortable to put myself in places where there were women and just maintain my habit of talk…	/r/seduction	10/03/24 11:26 PM
1	How do you approach women in clubs? When I was single, I preferred places I could talk. You can dance with them or start up conversation outside. You can also meet them at nearby late night restaurants after the clubs close.	/r/seduction	03/03/24 03:15 PM
1	What is the best summer job to become more social? Work in the tourism industry	/r/seduction	01/03/24 12:18 AM
1	Am I coming off as desperate if I invite girls back to my dorm after hanging out with them once? All depends how you ask. Definitely don't beg.	/r/seduction	26/02/24 09:36 PM
5	Is most of dating dynamics about who is the most “parent”? Who can appear as the most high status individual? Is there no equal relationship? Everyone wants the person they feel is just out of their league...	/r/seduction	19/02/24 10:36 PM