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I refuse to believe any average/moderately fit guy under 5’10 deserves a fat ugly woman
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:49 AM
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That doesn’t explain the increase and projected annual increases.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:16 AM
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Yes, it appears too much liberation is actually a bad thing for humans. We all need a purpose besides do “whatever we want”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:05 AM
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6 all day
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:26 AM
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Well, if that’s your opinion then nice talking to you. Obvious troll is obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:28 PM
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It’s about way more than sexual repression. Check out subreddits like r/pornfree and r/nofap
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:16 PM
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Nothing, thought you might have actual reasons for saying something so ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:12 PM
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Anything else to add?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:26 PM
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Possibly the worst comment of 2021
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:24 PM
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Honestly can’t speak for the older ones, but the younger guys that are blue collar and that have typical country boy interests mostly seem to have found a woman and have kids at a younger age than their urban counterparts. That’s not always without problems but they achieve the American dream much earlier. Getting married young sometimes can be a challenge though due to maturity issues and money but I think most work it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 10:53 AM
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The whole relationship I tried to never act like she’d get to me when she did act up. We had a couple arguments before that final meltdown too. I was falling in love with her truthfully and she had already said she was falling for me but I didn’t tell her that back because love to me is not just an emotional high and great emotional connection but a choice. The little things she did bothered me and gave me doubts so I couldn’t tell her that and honestly it was the right decision but I still thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:11 PM
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My ex of 3 months seemed like she would start stuff unnecessarily just to idk spice things up. It was annoying. Definitely what you call shit tests. She also had lots of past problems, never wanted to talk about her absent dad, was in abusive relationships, and I think was Bipolar in some ways. I’m not sure if I’m really adding anything to the conversation here but I’m also not one to just make decisions all the time and am happy go lucky. Our relationship ended when she had a meltdown after bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 09:30 PM
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At the end of the day we’re all addicted to something. Most of us are addicted to sugar for example. Peterson had some auto-immune disorder and his daughter did too. The fact that he made a mistake doesn’t invalidate everything he’s done.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 09:09 PM
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At least you acknowledge he’s smart unlike the other guy lol. It may be why I stopped reading but I’m also lazy so need to try again and see if I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 09:04 PM
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What is your point? Spit it out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:24 PM
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I’ve watched plenty and plenty more hours of Jordan Peterson videos and podcasts. He is no dummy. He gets a lot of influence from Jung and other psychologists and have no clue why you are saying he says the same things. If he’s getting kicked out of universities and being kept from speaking on certain shows he’s definitely NOT saying the same things lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:10 PM
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How are you going to call Jordan Peterson a whack hack? He’s like the modern day Aristotle or Plato, unless your thoughts literally don’t go past your skull you’d know he’s one of the smartest people alive that doesn’t just tell people the same old shit. And he’s helped probably 100’s of thousands of men or more be better people. It is interesting that women just flat out seem to prefer disagreeable men though. I hate conflicting with a partner. Although sometimes it’s necessary to see where you…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:05 PM
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I’ve seen some of your responses and I feel like you make effort to be honest with your opinions and are thoughtful so you’re welcome 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:47 AM
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Not sure if you are new but I like you. I like your honesty whether I agree with you or not at times. Keep doing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:45 AM
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Let me rephrase. The more I’m noticing a tattoo on a woman the less I’m noticing the beauty of a woman. It’s not about the quality of a tattoo looking good or bad, it’s how it disrupts the otherwise beautiful and smooth skin on a feminine beautiful woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 10:26 PM
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That’s extremely different and I wonder if it’s motivated by some past experiences of yours with men who were bigger than you. I’m not a license psychologist so idk! I’m 5’7.5 so I’m fine with your preference but it does make me curious as it’s a very rare preference. I also wish I could make other women not care about height like you haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:14 PM
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Even more interesting. There must be a reason why you are on the taller side of the average woman but don’t desire a tall guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:07 PM
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Definitely a woman with tattoos, particularly white women. And I’m white. They just look worse on lighter skin tones. Also it can say Things about how someone cares about trends instead of being their own person or is prone to impulsivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:49 PM
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Ahh so only chad is entitled too, and grow their soft harems.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:32 AM
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Some very small tattoos (only like one or two) are acceptable in tact places but overall I can’t stand them on women. I also think tattoos look far better on darker skin tones than lighter ones. So naturally tattoos on white women instantly are a turn off, and I’m white.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:57 AM
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I love older women but am almost positive it’s because of two things. 1) porn 2) more positive experiences with older women I was 23 and met a woman who was 34 and my more outgoing friend who usually gets the girls danced with this girl/woman first at the beach music festival. I danced with her after him and idk if she just liked the way I danced with her or what but when he tried to dance with her again later she wanted to dance with me instead. That would never happen with women 18-24 to me. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:47 AM
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Women with tattoos
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:08 PM
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Maybe if you travel across the world. After college is a different world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:41 AM
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Being a competent but cocky asshole can bed women, even women who say they don’t like arrogance, which is what a cocky asshole displays regardless of his competence. There’s fewer things more black pill than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:18 PM
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I think you are trying to say conservatives are sociopaths the way it sounds and I disagree. I think it takes more than voting to be a sociopath. I do think some democrats and republicans can be sociopaths at the top levels of congress.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:08 PM
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Not sure why I’m getting downvoted. If settling = anyone below the top 20% of men in looks and status then civilization won’t last as it is. Would like to know why that’s worthy of downvoting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:50 PM
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I hope for the sake of civilization that you are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 05:41 PM
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Black pilled af
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:46 PM
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Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:44 PM
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I just missed that. There were still goths in my senior year 2008 but I thought they were weird. I was raised ultra conservative too and was very naive about how the world was.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:27 PM
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This is fake af Unless you are a sexy white boy in Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:26 AM
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If she’s 46 she may actually have known less vain and shallow women. I think women have REALLY become vain, trite, and shallow with the advent of online dating and Instagram and such in the last generation. I’ve dated quite a few older women and I feel like they are far less shallow. I also know older women focus on more important things in a guy than younger women too, but I still feel like social media has severely warped young women’s brains and expectations. I’ve heard Instagram has actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:10 AM
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I was about to say the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:05 AM
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The wall is real and slowly closes in but I don’t doubt the women can’t find somebody. But that somebody is increasingly not the chad the older you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:02 AM
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To their detriment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 11:54 AM
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That is sad though.
/r/askTRP14/10/21 05:33 PM
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Attractive man without question. Crazy cause I feel like I’m decently attractive but not attractive enough!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 12:05 AM
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Once you get married to someone who makes as much as you do or close to it you’ll leave that job. Jordan Peterson frequently talks about female lawyers at high levels being an extremely rare thing due to not wanting the stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 12:03 AM
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This take completely ignores all the negative aspects of modern society. The answer perhaps is rejecting part of modernity and embracing tradition.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:38 PM
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Yeah the last fight I had with my ex I just lost all “positive feelings” towards her. That was insightful to me right now so thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 11:45 AM
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I didn’t really have any female friends when I was younger and based much of my worldview about women based on movies I think, where the girl wants a good guy who treats her right and yada yada yada. It also slipped my mind that a lot of those movies that me guy was rich and conventionally handsome. But anyways. I had a crush in high school that I was scared to death to talk to. I idealized her in crazy ways. Idk if it was true or not but one day I heard she had took some guy into the freezer at…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 01:33 AM
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I feel like people don’t understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 12:34 AM
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Imma do you a favor. Look up www.Prettyfedup.com. Google the website, don’t just click the link. Type prettyfedup in Reddit search first and then click the first post asking where to find it at, and use the archive search engine to find the page. The webmaster does a great job of explaining what “chemistry” is and a host of other subjects. And it’s a great way to pass time reading something interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:32 PM
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Saving that comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:14 PM
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This is what he’s testing for I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:01 PM
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Obviously there are exceptions but most of the selfies I see on Facebook for example are overwhelmingly women and those fancy travel pics and stuff, even moreso on dating apps. There are certainly men who do this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:59 PM
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You think I’m lying? I’m a straight guy. She’s pretty cute. Not dripping with sex appeal but she’s cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:58 PM
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Are you one of those people that think men and women are the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:56 PM
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Girl on the left is at least a 6.5 that with makeup and the right clothes can expand to 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:44 AM
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Lol unless I’m just horny af in the club then the right but most the time the girl on the left everyday at any time. Even in the club though if the girl on the left dresses up she’ll probably grab my eye. The girl on the right rarely track me down anyway. Also, I don’t go to the club lol. But you get my drift.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:15 AM
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This is very telling of how men and women view sexual attraction I think. It explains why women get turned on by men doing things and men only needing the physical looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:06 AM
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The fact that I’m easily influenced by your comment makes me think maybe they are the same. 😅 In any case, this is a good comparison I think. I don’t think she’s higher than him though. They are pretty much the same the more I think about it and revisiting the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:03 PM
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Makes you kind of wish you were more psychopathic when you put it that way lol. Wish I was less caring in those ways when it came to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:37 PM
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I’m sure that depends on a few factors, including what kind of psychopathy they have. But no doubt those dark triad dudes do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:34 PM
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I agree. She looks average. Difference is most guys on here would give her a chance. An equivalent average guy version would not get much of a chance. I’m a straight guy but I THINK the guy on the right is just barely above average so it’s close. The girl is decidedly average to me though, but certainly not bad and one I’d talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:45 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:05 PM
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I left the “girl on the right” for signs of what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:05 PM
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The women that do this and that are only fans are the first to say it’s for female empowerment but they are literally taking money from disabled/mentally handicapped/desperate/lonely/psychopathic men and are proud about it. It’s disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:37 PM
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I am 31 so if a guy is 21 they may feel differently about it but my perception is that they either are trying to neg you for not being trendy or because they wanted to profile-creep your pictures. Like I said though, that’s an instant turn on for me. Going against trendiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:34 AM
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A woman without an Instagram is a Diamond in the rough. Where can I meet these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:24 AM
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I had an ex who said I had a small penis after I started dating her friend... She had never even touched it other than through my pants once. She was just mad that I dated her friend and I’ve never had complaints about my penis, and even had a couple compliments! But when her friend that I started to date said that she said that but that “I don’t believe her” it really bothered me for a long time and it totally worked on me as I lost confidence and we stopped dating. I had another hang up (I hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:18 PM
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I think I agree with you, but before I do, what do you mean by 1st generation black folks?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:41 PM
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They do not push rap to the top of the charts that promotes positive themes though. It’s also possible that positive rap does’t get consumed as much as well. I can’t explain why. The same has happened to country music today. It’s getting worse and worse in the themes it pushes. You are correct about rock music and your point was probably more relevant in the late 80’s and 90’s periods. But sadly, rock is dead. Yes metal music is out there but it’s not mainstream at all, unlike rap music. While w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:31 PM
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They never want to talk about how Asians don’t have the problems blacks do and they try to sweep it under the rug by calling them the “model minority”. It has nothing to do with that. Asians that come to the US are (on average of course) studious, extremely motivated to find success, polite, and hard working. It has nothing to do with being a “model minority” and everything to do with what their culture values. Black culture still needs a lot of healing and detox. We see evidence of this all the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:52 PM
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Women will happily share a chad sexually. They know that super hot guy on tinder they have a one night stand with is doing the same with 5 other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:22 AM
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Hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:24 AM
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My ex frustrated me and I thought she was beautiful but her emotions and trauma I think had made her a person who needs a lot of work and after she hurt me a few times I had to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:55 PM
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I like your comment a lot and it makes sense. But it is hard. I definitely identify with the “something else” that I’ll feel like I’ll need even with having a great job. It definitely feels like it’s all contrived. I refuse to try to care about an “image” on Instagram to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:07 PM
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What? Maybe recognize status comes in different forms?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:23 AM
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How do you leave this matrix then?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:17 AM
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NOPE Probably like my ex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:04 PM
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Sounds like I want a (attractive) pick me, because I wouldn’t mistreat them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:24 PM
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Okay. Anything else to add?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 10:18 AM
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I think women are more likely to express empathy, but not empathy for men who struggle with the dating scene of today, which is increasing everyday. The more “powerful” women have become the less empathy they are showing to men. We’ve never seen a society ran by women to this degree in human history so this is going to be a wild ride. So far we have onlyfans women extracting money from mentally handicapped, lonely, socially inept, and weird guys online and over half of marriages falling into div…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:47 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:24 PM
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This is a sizable part of it, particularly for the black community imo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:53 PM
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I hate the truth behind your comment but I appreciate its honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:52 PM
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See these stories sound nice and good and all but it requires belief in evolution. It requires belief that all life came from a rock that had been rained on for billions of years until lightning struck it and created some kind of protein soup that eventually created a asexual (presumably) creature that crawled up on the surface and multiplied itself in an extremely hostile environment until asexual reproduction was no longer needed or harmful and started to create through sexual or asexual repro…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:42 PM
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I had a ex who liked or would just create drama. It didn’t affect me horribly but to be immune to it means you weren’t ever invested in her in the first place. I left her because of the shit she’d create.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:29 PM
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I didn’t stay with my ex because of the way she’d treat me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:26 PM
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For some, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:03 PM
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With Unconditional love of course
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:02 PM
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There’s no way a guy with any common sense would pick this. If they had to hit a button with a glass cover around it to start this life they may look at it long and hard on a bad day or flip the glass back and stare at it, but I don’t believe any man that can rub two neurons together would pick this. And if they did they would regret it almost immediately or after a week. Sex is a big deal to all of us men but it just makes the life you have better, it doesn’t make life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:59 PM
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I grew up thinking women were rational but feminine beings who only wanted a good loyal man who may not be rich or even popular to live the rest of their lives with. HA! yes most of my ideas came from Disney films and romcoms. How wrong I was. Especially in the days of Instagram and social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 11:37 PM
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You make a good point. I look forward to the rebuttals though. I still think women are attracted to things in men that aren’t necessarily conducive to long term success in as far as character assessment in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:33 PM
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Yes. I agree with most of us guys taking the blue pill but not what she said, more what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:05 AM
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Society does the same thing with government hand outs and such. Instead of fixing the problem they just throw money at it to keep the status quo, and keep people satisfied just enough to where it doesn’t rock the boat. It’ll come to a head one day. For example, people having multiple kids and letting the government provide for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:48 PM
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Guys will dominate trades for sure. Women seem to flow towards people oriented jobs and admin. I don’t think women make the best managers just because they are women though. Office cliques for example I think are mostly female issues. But I have a asshole guy manager as well who doesn’t consider any opinion but his own. There are positives and negatives to both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:44 PM
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Good post, I agree. I think OP hits on upbringing of men being important to counter what upbringing of many women are taught. Many girls (not all) are spoiled and coddled more than their brothers and this spills over into over-expectations for their future partners. I can’t imagine what it’s like to not have a good father to teach a girl what respect and love is though from a male perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:40 PM
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I will be teaching my son this except a little less extreme as far as saying only the top 20% of men getting lucky. I think social status is the #1 thing women are attracted too which is controllable but hard to change when you get settled in your ways. As for online dating though I’ll tell him it’s pretty grim unless you maximize your looks and image. I really don’t want my son to be absorbed into things like Instagram and trying to portray an image to pull women though because it just seems so…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:27 PM
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Well Islamic countries don’t progress so maybe a little more freedom for women is good. I think the Christian model had it perfect. Women were free but not free from consequences and social shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 02:55 PM
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Have my free award sir. Great post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 02:11 PM
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Even if I don’t like your answer I appreciate your honesty. Maybe clearly defining what you think is conventionally attractive would be the only thing I’d want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 02:08 PM
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I know a guy who did that. The girl he’s with probably either has no idea his sexual history or actually gets off on it knowing SHE has the the guy now. She was a pretty Christian girl too. Although she wanted to “sew her wild oats” with another friend of mine who was a social alpha and had some attractive physical features too. This was while she was married… I know hypocritical right? Got to watch those guy friends who are extremely charismatic and attractive sadly. My friend didn’t fuck her (…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 11:37 AM
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Fucked “better men” is what I’m thinking you meant. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 11:07 AM
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People are hating on you but I think I agree with what you are trying to say, which is that women have an easier time feeling okay about themselves relative to men because of the constant validation they get compared to the average man. The downside to this for them though is that they probably neglect their own flaws and deficiencies more often compared to men who have to know them intimately to improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 03:42 AM
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You sound more like a moderate than anything. Maybe slightly to the right. I mostly agree with you and I consider myself pretty right wing. I have mixed feelings on taxes and am not a big fan of environmentalism if it costs a ton. The green new deal for example kind of terrifies me. But I think many conservatives care for the earth, just are not extremely fond of legislating environmental laws, and especially funding environmental initiatives that China and India couldn’t care less about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 01:39 AM
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It’s the short term mating thing that “betas” are jealous of. No beta is happy with ending up in a relationship with a woman who’s been used by an alpha prior if they know about it…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 01:21 AM
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It makes it worse when they had kids with an obvious douchebag or a guy who obviously wouldn’t be a good father and the girl thought she could change him or that he’d mature because of her or having a kid blah blah blah. Then suddenly the single mom wants to date “good dudes” when that’s who they should have been paying attention to all along. I’ve experienced this firsthand with women who didn’t see me at all before having kids but after they try to hit me up. Please…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:21 AM
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I grew up with both my parents together my whole life and I don’t want to date a single mother unless it’s a last resort…I think you are maybe right about guys with bad stepfathers but I think most guys with married and committed biological parents that are together also would much rather not raise another man’s child.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:08 AM
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That’s the thing though, these women are not being sought out for relationships by most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:05 AM
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He said he lied by about half an inch lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 09:17 PM
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Who is the more romantic? The person who expects romance to exchange for sex or the person who actually creates romance? I’m not so sure the answer is so cut and dry my friend. Guarantee small efforts by women too can go a long way. Same as for guys naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 12:47 PM
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Even if that’s true I still have a point lol. Men have to create romance. Women are just receiving it. It’s also true that much of what “romance” is varies culturally. From lighthearted flirty things to outright financial transactions. Like for example, I had read that in the Philippines you have to practically give money to her family before she would consider dating you lol. Could be just a K1 Visa thing though. Yes I watched 90 day fiancé lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 12:39 PM
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When it first started I believe it was known to be for hookups as well. It certainly was counter culture at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 08:43 PM
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Women are definitely the lesser romantic sex. Men do all the courting for the most part, women just receive the romance. The guy is the one creating the romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 08:37 PM
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This topic should also include women seeking long term relationships (or even causal sex) not being as disgusted (on average) by hot attractive men having a lot of sex with different women vs men caring more about the sexual history of the woman they get with, sometimes even in casual sex. I feel there is a significant difference here too. Of course this doesn’t speak for every woman or every man but I feel like women are much less likely to care about man’s sexual past vs a man caring about a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 08:34 PM
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That’s the sense I’m getting Which essentially means everything I believe in was a lie growing up. Which is why I took the red pill. I don’t identify with all principles of TRP but the red pill classically meant coming to terms with uncomfortable truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:43 PM
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If you could get a job and keep it, you pretty much were guaranteed a woman and enough money to take care of the family on your own. I’m sure there were a few exceptions but they were not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:32 AM
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The more I talk about this the more I see that the old ways was more like socialism in terms of marriage, promoting equity. So I hope you are not a democrat lol. If the men were good men then the women would be happy. And HVM still be happy and get some of the benefits they have today I’m sure, just not their pick of every girl on tinder and a harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:29 AM
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I’m pretty sure we’re screwed. The more frustrated men there are in the world the more chances of crime, war, and a host of other bad things. And I say that as a man…lol. If we didn’t have all the distractions we do now (video games, porn, social media, etc) we probably would already be in apocalyptic times. That energy has to escape somewhere. All the distractions alleviate it some till the wee hours of the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 02:24 AM
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Not even that same dude. Women valuing the money a man is making versus society valuing the men as providers for their families. Not the same thing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 02:08 AM
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The whole point of the old ways was to give every man a woman to keep everyone happy. I think you are mistaken about everyone having a hard time “no matter what system we run”. If the purpose of a system is to partner up everyone, then it’s going to be a much easier time for the men you called out. Short and bald men can still be attractive. I understand you on the ugly/bald/fat front. My main point is that you really discount the old ways without seeing its merits.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 02:05 AM
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No I “accidentally” came upon it once but don’t like watching black dudes have sex with white women repeatedly in a tv series type of way. I also skipped to the sex lol. Interestingly the study you quoted says women pick based on race. So I’m assuming the women blacked appeals to is women who like black dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:44 PM
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Being physically what the women want is 80% of the battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:33 PM
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Blacked was created for women? Interesting…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:27 PM
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I think it shows both! Indecent men and women who vet a man for the wrong things. Like a 5’2 women only wanting a 6+ foot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:49 AM
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Interesting though isn’t it? I think this is why some women (who usually are poor) have 10+ kids…to maximize their ability to have their gene pool exist in spite of their socioeconomic/environmental pressures. Doesn’t make a lick of sense to anyone outside looking in, but to the mom it’s literally her body and brain doing the only thing it knows it can to continue her genes. This certainly would explain why our ancestors (that mated) had tons of kids in harder times. And to simply help out on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 04:51 AM
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I’m definitely not a chad so yeah. But I also don’t grovel either except online sometimes like most of us are on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 04:45 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 04:41 AM
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No that wasn’t obvious to me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 04:22 AM
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I think some of your answer is just shitty people enjoy being shitty to people for laughs and clout. You are talking about shitty women online who drag down men they deem as unattractive and/or easy to pick on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 04:20 AM
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If it makes you feel any better, I like older women. But mostly because it’s taboo for a young guy which makes it hotter sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 04:16 AM
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And that’s completely fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 04:14 AM
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I agree with this. But my point still stands I think. They are super selective for who they get in relationships with and get pregnant with, but not in the sense of for the kid’s long term development by having a good provider/father, but in the sense of having a offspring with the highest amount of physical attractiveness/utility. This is possibly exacerbated by having government provide for the kids they have with said alpha 6+ foot men, eliminating the need for a guy to provide that income wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 02:18 AM
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Strike a nerve? The epidemic of single moms happening is not a good sign is it not? This would seem to suggest the women are not picking decent men, does it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 01:54 AM
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Then why do they pick douche bags and have kids with them and then they leave? I think many of their “pickers” are off. The rates of single moms would seem to suggest this. If their is a selection for “good” partners it seems to lose out to the selection for the 6+ foot hunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 11:58 PM
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I’m not blue collar but they can make great money. I wish I had learned a trade instead of went to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:33 PM
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Was out at a bar outside and heard a overweight girl say to her friends that she could never date a blue collar worker
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 04:22 PM
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If you are not conventionally attractive, not extremely extraverted and don’t have a low score on neuroticism then blue pill advice won’t help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:48 PM
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My morals. And tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 09:32 PM
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I do think that the average red pill guy is probably more likely to have agreeable predispositions though. I think that’s a pretty interesting observation. Don’t know if it’s true but I can definitely see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 07:54 PM
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I think you are onto something here about agreeableness possibly being a common trait for aspiring red pill men, and that certainly applies to me. I think you miss the mark on blue pill people scoring low on agreeableness however. Blue pill people don’t think about the intricacies of attraction and all that. Some are not agreeable and some are. If they never really had bad luck and were attractive and had the right personality traits (often extraversion and low neuroticism, possibly high on open…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 06:36 PM
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No…she just doesn’t completely fit the mold. Red pill is made up of many different kinds of men. MGTOW, Tradcons, incels, aspiring pickup artists, shy/introverted guys, etc. All these groups have common agreement and curiosity about similar subjects but that doesn’t mean they are all assholes who want to spin plates and use women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 04:35 PM
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First off, don’t let any of these other debates and talking points affect your marriage if it’s going great. Please don’t. As for your question, it’s mostly a single guy’s dilemma and what we value in a partner for long term. So this also isn’t really an issue for you. Sounds like you were trying to console another woman’s concerns about body count and such. She probably will find somebody one day cause everyone wants somebody and women will always find somebody. It may not be her dream man phys…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 04:30 PM
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I was raised Christian and with my parents and grandparents on both sides married for their whole lives at young ages. I am 31, and am considered a millennial although I have little in common with them as far as social attitudes towards big issues, one being hookup culture and casual sex. I’m not fully red pill, mostly because I was raised with a conscious and Christian upbringing and I just can’t abandon that. Nor do l want to. I’ve always wanted one good woman (that I was attracted too ofcours…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:39 PM
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No it’s uniquely an Afghan problem. Or Middle East problem in particular. Women are literally property to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 02:26 AM
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It’s a foundational problem, meaning if you weren’t raised that way you’ll never understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 10:15 AM
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I’d love for others to chime in but this is how I see the past in terms of how relationships and families formed and why they persisted to where we now have the nuclear family standard but yet now it seems so unattainable for many due to different societal pressures and sexual selection pressures faced today.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:42 AM
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Submissiveness to one person. Not meekness to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:38 AM
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I’m sure also you will say that men cheated just as much or wherever. The Bible says for men to be faithful to their woman as well as another person already pointed out. Cheating probably was more prevalent in men (at least observable) during the 50’s and before because men had more freedom due to having reasons to leave the house and community, usually involving going to work. Women didn’t have to stay home but had little need to go outside their town most likely. Without making their own money…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:36 AM
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The argument in RP is that women are more likely to cheat due to hypergamy. This was controlled by submission and women relying on good men to provide in single income families. Neo-Liberal Capitalism changed things though after WWII when the men returned and women had all the jobs. Suddenly employers knew there were twice as many people out their to hire since women joined the workforce, and we slowly got to the point today where everything is expensive and we need both people working in order …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:24 AM
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You can’t argue with this person. She’s the same type of person who actually believes America wan’t founded on Christian principles, despite numerous amounts of evidence that it was. “In God we Trust” “One nation, under God” Holding up the Bible or putting your hand on it while saying you will be truthful in court And other things show this nation was founded on Christian principles predominantly, not wholly. Predominantly the key word. Even if some of the founders were allegedly atheists, most …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:19 AM
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Unless faithfulness denotes submission. Not submission of leadership, but submission of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 02:54 AM
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Wouldn’t this technically be true for men too? I don’t think you’re hitting on much here OP. I do think women need it less than men though, and that a lot more women use it for attention and affirmation than they do to seriously find someone. They probably also do it to meet a guy outside their social class.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 09:27 PM
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Under-rated comment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:08 PM
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I don’t don’t do this if that’s what you mean. I don’t fake frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:41 PM
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That’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:38 PM
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Frame for sure. Keeping up some kind of persona to keep a woman interested is lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:38 PM
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Taken the test at least 4 times and always get ISTJ. Male and 31. Not full on red pill but in between purple and red. Wish I could believe in blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:46 PM
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The only weirdos are people who shoot porn and the people who feverishly defend it. Most people who develop addictions to porn or watch it instead of pursuing real partners or having sex with their partner are victims of a socially acceptable drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:53 PM
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See you’re losing now cause you know it’s true. People are fucking weird man. And to act like porn isn’t affecting people and society in ways not perceived is ridiculous. I’ve never watched that shit but I know it’s out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:38 AM
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Do you think 2 or more depraved people can consent? Or does consent make something not depraved? You know people shit on stomachs for pleasure right? What or who is the animal in that scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:25 AM
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Everything has existed but not in the abundance it is now. You know that. Beastiality existed too before porn…doesn’t mean we should embrace it now does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:57 AM
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No that’s too logical. There are people who are emotionally invested in it. Like it would be a travesty if porn suddenly didn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:30 AM
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There are many forms of addiction. It’s not just thoughts. There’s a reason anal and bondage and choking isn’t taboo anymore. Probably many other things can be said too, like people developing all kinds of fetishes or changing their sexuality because of being addicted to porn but I’ll leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:29 AM
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People get very defensive sometimes when someone advocates for it being harmful and needing to be banned, which to me is a curiosity. I personally wished I had never watched porn cause it has without a doubt affected my sex life for the worse. Check out subreddits like pornfree and nofap for more stories and to see other people who have real problems with this as it affects their lives now. I predict this problem only increase as no one seems interested in doing anything about it, coupled with h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:14 PM
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Maybe for some people. Abundant dick is more of a concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 09:49 PM
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I broke up with a girl after a month because she only worked part time at staples like 2 days a week. We didn’t want kids. At least then lol. I just want her to work at something, don’t have to make bank
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 12:46 AM
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Well I’m just under 5’8 and make less than 50k so that eliminates over half my choices online alone. Also tough because I’m not the most social person and I’m not extraverted, never have been. I don’t really like to drink either every weekend. All these things limit my choices. I fully understand being more social
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:37 PM
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I used to believe all those things listed about women. And a lot of this I still do, but the blue pill doesn’t help me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 03:55 PM
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I wish I could be blue pill. I grew up that way. It got shattered the more I understood women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 03:21 PM
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But all us men want someone. Well, at least most of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:46 PM
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I wish I didn’t care but it sucks so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:36 PM
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Yea well wish there were more that weren’t. I don’t think it’s conducive to a good partner if they are this way cause eventually you’re going to get bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 11:02 PM
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I apologize. Just my knee jerk reaction. Just typed immediately what I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 04:22 PM
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I feel like most women are “high sensation seeking”. Certainly not all but most, especially in their 20’s and likely their early 30’s too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 10:25 AM
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I haven’t heavily followed red pill posts (I’m not even a member) but when I first listened to coach red pill’s videos I binged almost all of them cause I do think they are valuable. Mostly getting a perspective on how women view different types of guys, particularly naive guys like me for most of my life who just was clueless on what women like and respond to positively. I honestly still got more room to grow on that. But blue pill “teachings” could never give me the hard truths that red pill c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:45 PM
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I absolutely agree. I wish social media and dating apps had never been invented. MySpace I think was okay and maybe Facebook at the beginnings but I think we all are far too indirectly obsessed with everyone else and what they think of something or how their life looks or superficial qualities like height and whether a girl is slightly overweight and etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 09:16 PM
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Your welcome. I wrote a lot so felt like I should stop, but while I don’t really follow red pill all that much but I agree with most of its points. I used to watch Coach Red Pill videos on YouTube and still do occasionally. When I first saw them 2 years ago I binged most of them cause it resonated a lot with me cause I’m introverted and don’t have a job that pays 50k or more and I don’t have a ton of fun friends to go out with. I have a couple other insecurities as well, one which is being I’m l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 09:01 PM
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My mom will always be important to me! Maybe not to the larger society but she’s done so much for me in my life and my family in general. My dad would be a wreck without her. She enhances his life in every way and all of ours. I wish he would do a little more to help her with dishes and stuff. He does things, but maybe just a little more would go a long way. And maybe he does when I’m not around now. She cooks almost every day Monday-Thursday except on the weekend when they go out to eat. I hope…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 07:56 PM
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The sexual marketplace is out of wack majorly. Until it is fixed there will never be a solution. Promiscuity and hypergamy are your problems, not single people who can’t find a partner because of outlandish standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:07 PM
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I feel like you are autistic and high. At least that’s what I imagine when I read this post. Most asexual people (particularly men cause women can get it whenever they want usually) you are talking about want relationships and children. They turn to solitary pursuits because women either reject them or select other men. Online dating is now a meat market and women with abundant resources in a 1st world country (most women) especially in America are selecting men based on superficial qualities li…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 11:51 AM
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I guess technically you are right but most guys don’t think like that. A woman in her 30’s with kids that’s attractive wouldn’t be considered a milf to most guys I would wager, unless that guy was like 10 years younger. Otherwise it’s just an attractive woman with kids that just happens to be older than you. Some would say a puma.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 06:54 PM
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Lol are you trolling? I can’t tell. I’m not 100% on board with women hitting the wall at 30+ but I do believe there is some truth to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 06:46 PM
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Yea I’m getting at the weird age where many of my peers that are women are milfs now I forget. I’m 31. When I think of a milf I think of someone between ages 40-65 that are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 06:28 PM
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Lol was porn a big deal in the 70’s and 80’s? I’m sure if it was it’s an ever bigger deal now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 06:18 PM
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I know. I try to be porn free but I would try to find older women who actually were real looking when I looked at porn, not the fake ones. Like amateur older women porn but high quality. The more realistic and unscripted it was the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 06:09 PM
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This may would be more of an issue in a sexual marketplace that is regulated like the days of the 50’s and before. But in this extremely deregulated sexual marketplace this issue is by far one of the least of concerns people should/can have. But interesting never-the-less.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 05:35 PM
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With the advent/popularity of milf porn I’d say you are wrong lol. Maybe not attracted to them for long term relationships if the guy is younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 05:29 PM
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“There was still a lot of suffering in these societies, a lot of exclusion, poverty, homophobia, tyranny, social shaming of anyone who did not fit in” I feel like most of what you just listed besides homophobia is not unique and still goes on right now in different capacities lol. Side note: Women entering the workforce reduced wages for the working class because suddenly the whole population is hirable, not half. There’s more I’d like to write and will do more if I get a reply but I’m about to …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 02:28 PM
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I live in America as a guy and feel the same way. My family is super traditional and I was raised to value these types of things vs materialism and even status.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:38 PM
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What is that from? Curious my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 03:27 PM
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So what do you do? Just wait till someone sits beside you that’s hopefully a girl or?
/r/MGTOW224/07/21 06:40 PM
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What kind of bars do you go to? Crowded city bars or like rural country bars?
/r/MGTOW224/07/21 06:28 PM
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Guarantees a PU? Pick up?
/r/MGTOW224/07/21 06:23 PM
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That’s not the way I understand redpill. I’m sure some do though. I thought redpill was to be interesting or give off an interesting vibe and lift weights and to basically give women the feels based on improving their physicality and personality and also teaching men about shit tests and other odd behaviors women do like getting approval from her friends about him and teaching guys about how women vet men or about their red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:22 PM
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No, he aligns with establishment republicans like Mitt Romney and John McCain, the old guard. When libertarians talk about two wings of the same bird that’s who they are talking about. They try to lump Trump in with that but they know better deep down, or they’ll just write him off as crazy. Just remember the vaccine was rushed, India and China will never give a flying F about no climate pact, and you trust your government way too much when they have been proven to have lied so many times on num…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:46 AM
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I mean I agree with that too. I think women are more “open” to swallowing whatever society deems “normal” or even more so, what society deems is “right”. Going against the grain is not natural to the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 12:53 AM
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I don’t understand why women are so interested in showing off their boyfriend to their friends. It’s like we’re pets or something and the taller we are the cuter we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 12:01 AM
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When people say “punching nazis”, I have no idea who they are talking about. It’s a tactic they use to do an “us vs them” dynamic on people they disagree with. Communism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:50 PM
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This is true. I’m conservative and believe many women who are only casually liberal are only that way because the herd is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:48 PM
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Actually I think I agree with you, just not the part about being less open minded. Women score higher on “openess” than men. Other than the “biologically less open minded” part, I agree with everything else you said. It’s part of the reason we cannot secure our country’s borders.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:57 PM
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Oh for sure. In the past women were ostracized for cheating, and even men too. Maybe not to the same degree but it happened. People knew their neighbors and knew more about each other compared to now. There were actual communities. It happens a little in suburbs now but people don’t interact like they used too, so less of people’s business is public now. So people don’t get ostracized for being promiscuous. But this is also to do with our culture too, which shifts everyday closer to a matriarchy…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:32 PM
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Oh yea that’s another point I was going to make. Birth control and a more liberal society has shown us the true nature of unrestrained female sexuality. I get your point about evolution overtime (if we really came from apes and pre-historic humans) but the advent of birth control and a less conservative society coupled with abundant resources is a new thing altogether and makes the patterns of mate selection in the past irrelevant in the times we live in now to a degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:19 PM
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I think guys are extremely talkative and flirtatious are “feminine” and they usually are wildly successful with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:02 PM
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Women may eventually pick a decent man to have a family with whether by choice or by force, but it definitely doesn’t mean they didn’t pursue and get railed by the 6’3 chad or Tyrone in college or at the club just because of their physical features. And possibly and many instances several times over depending on the woman. The major difference is that way less men can pull this kind of sexual success off (women of almost any level of attractiveness can get laid by men above their league) and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:59 PM
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I think people who chadfish would disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:50 PM
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I get what you are trying to say, and am grateful I was raised to pursue more “noble” pursuits than slaying pussy at a young age. I am glad I haven’t really had any pregnancy scares or had a lot of drama with women. But I wish I had more sex than what I have, and had more relationships. I’m 31 and wish this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:03 PM
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It seems as though my post has been quickly took down for whatever reason but I appreciate everyone’s responses. I really wanted to know people’s thoughts on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:52 PM
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That’s a great and honest answer. Thanks for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:50 PM
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This isn’t about sex though lmao. I already know tall guys get sex easier for their height alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:49 PM
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Then I appreciate your answer 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:45 PM
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But you have to admit height is a big part of what makes a stereotypically attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:43 PM
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Yes. The question is asking do men who are relationship minded and are 6 foot plus worry that a woman only selected them based on their height vs other qualities. Believe it or not, in college a friend of a friend who was a football player and seemingly very attractive to women based on his looks alone actually complained to my friend about women in clubs and stuff only wanting to date him because of his physical gifts. Besides being just big in general in a “fit” sense of the word, he was like …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:33 PM
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Well, thanks for your answer. That’s what I’m trying to see. I guess you don’t think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:25 PM
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I would imagine so. If height is truly selected for over any other trait then taller guys get more opportunities with more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:23 PM
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I’m not sure what you are trying to say here. I think you are saying tall men aren’t worried about it which is fine if that’s your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:22 PM
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I’m not asking that though. I know everyone has concerns over whether they are picked for the right reasons at some point….well actually I’m not even sure about that. What I’m asking pertains to whether attractive men (especially in regards to height since it seems to be the number one thing women are attracted too) have specific concerns over whether the woman picked them just for their height to date for whatever reason. Whether that reason is to brag to her friends about his height or that sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:21 PM
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We all know the military spending is way too much here in the US. But it doesn’t mean it’s a sign of patriarchy. I think that’s a stretch. If men weren’t around women would fight each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:36 PM
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Men work more overtime and more dangerous jobs due to many factors. This is why they get paid more and are the top earners on the extremes of the bell curve. But women are out earning a lot of men now based on higher scores in Big 5 traits like agreeableness and openess, which helps them in university settings. And women often don’t date someone down or even equal. It’s going to be an issue. Especially when guys in the trades can make good or even great money but women won’t consider them due to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:38 PM
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Men didn’t necessarily value war although they acknowledge its heroes and the ones who sacrificed their lives for their country and clan and such. Men valued resources and comfort. They didn’t want to see their families starve because there was nothing to eat or live in fear because enemies were around. Were women resources? Probably most the time in the past. If you had women you can have children and pass on your bloodline and women are great to have by your side if they are loyal. Women give …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:28 PM
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Then it’s strange you are on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:21 PM
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I’m just saying you stated a clear opinion. Maybe it does or doesn’t to you but if a woman is 5’1 and only wants men 6 foot plus then it’s strange and should make you question if she’s actually attracted to things that matter about you and not just your height or other superficial features.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:01 PM
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Thank you :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:59 AM
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Thank you for writing that, and it confirms my point! How important is what you just said though in the grand scheme of things? Not important at all? It’s a cultural issue, largely adopted by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:45 AM
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Slightly but yes. 5’7 is like the beginning of “short” for a guy in the US. I’m pretty much 5’7. There are several men shorter than me but over half of guys are taller than me at least by a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:40 AM
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Great observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:24 AM
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It’s good to identify reasons why wouldn’t you think? Don’t you want to know if it’s biological or more cultural? That’s why we are all here is it not? To debate and examine?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:23 AM
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If you are 5’3 or less this doesn’t make sense however. Something else is going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:21 AM
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Actually it probably does. You can say whatever you want to and so can others.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:19 AM
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Purple pill debate has certainly opened my eyes to this aspect of dating. Women’s friends and trying to one up or impress their friends with their partner based on height and sometimes other things instead of just liking the guy for whatever reason they initially like him for. It’s retarded and I think men differ on this greatly. Looking back on the few relationships I have had, girls will outright ask their friends in front of me what they think of me or make a comment saying “you upgraded” or …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:18 AM
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Why do people use this argument? That men create or created culture so they can’t complain or criticize it? This kind of argument discourages debate and ignores how men allowed women to make the culture different into what is ultimately a matriarchal dating field now with the exception of chads. It’s just a stupid argument and doesn’t say anything constructive. It’s like when you say this you acknowledge that women really are inferior because men created culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:11 AM
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Your post lacks perspective. It’s like you think everyone should just “figure it out” with vastly different upbringings and backgrounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:37 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:39 AM
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I’m confused. A mid 60k salary at 33 and you are complaining???? I make right at 40k at 31. Or maybe it’s the miserable part that makes you sad? Sounds like NOW is your chance! But I sympathize some. I could probably get (hopefully) a 50k or more job right now or soon if I really tried but I think It’d make me miserable too so I haven’t jumped. 12 hour night shifts in a production environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:36 AM
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Man I went to my buddy’s wedding and nearly all the women were wearing crazy tall high heels and were taller than me and I’m 5’7.5 maybe 5’8 with the shoes I was wearing. There were literally maybe 2 girls I was interested in because they were shorter than me. If they were wearing heels though they’d be taller too. It’s a mess man. Just sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:19 AM
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“Just have more confidence bro” lol Need more details than that!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:26 PM
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A society blatantly promoting sexual immorality is a society that will fall. Yes this goes for men too, but women are the ones that get chased so it is different. The dynamic is different. I kind of identify as Red Pill but I don’t ascribe to PUAs or spinning plates and shit. I think Red Pill identifies the problems of modern dating though and what it takes to get something out of it even if it’s small. Onlyfans women takes advantage of young men and probably teenage dudes, and guys with mental …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:25 PM
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THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:20 PM
2

I do half the time
/r/MGTOW214/07/21 03:48 PM
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I’m speaking from experience. I’ve done the same thing AceOfBkacks has done and it HAS affected me and probably a million others. Abstaining from both porn AND masturbation helps me. It’s complicated but you can’t invalidate what people have been through. There are weird immature people in no fap and the same is in here. They exist in every group.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:37 PM
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It’s very strange that this hasn’t affected you. It really must not hit everybody the same but if you go on nofap or pornfree you’ll see droves of men suffering from doing what you are doing. There’s probably some other factors that affect this. Maybe you have had more actual sex than the average porn addict or you don’t edge yourself. But a ton of men who have used porn since they were 13 and haven’t quit doing it have major problems, especially when trying to quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:29 PM
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How old are you now and how often do you watch it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:00 PM
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Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction is real so hopefully you are just masturbating and not to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:28 PM
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Dude you are thinking way too hard about this. Especially if you are 6 ft 2. Work on your appearance and confidence/openess to new experiences and you’ll be fine. I wish I was 25 and still in college. I’m 31 now and you see life differently after college.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:33 AM
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I wish my ex did this. She wasn’t ready when we met and self sabotaged herself. It sucked cause i did love her but glad I didn’t tell her ultimately cause it just would have bit me in the ass later.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:15 AM
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I am not an overly competitive person myself and I empathize with this. The only reason I want more is because just being a good person who works full time and can support himself isn’t good enough anymore, especially if you are not tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:42 PM
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All women or just the type of women that join FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 12:48 AM
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Or delusional lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 12:18 AM
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If you make good money you should be able to afford a good active lifestyle. Unless you are working 65+ hours a week and are dead tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:08 PM
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It’s just when you say put in the work I guess I’m asking for more details.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:20 PM
2

So working 65+ hours a week to be a top earner?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 05:58 PM
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So to be a wanted man, you have to make more money than 60-70% of other men, more than 80% preferably? Is this why guys work 65+ hours a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 05:56 PM
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You are an anomaly. Unless you are just tall. Seems to be the minimum requirement for heightists. Maybe you are the only guy where you are working or there aren’t many guys there. Maybe you have certain social traits that are attractive. Despite being boring you are extremely confident for whatever reason or maybe you are a narcissist or good at flattering women in a non-creepy way. Cause I’m the same as you and women don’t hit on me. I am also not tall at about 5’8.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 05:12 PM
3

Oh my god that’s terrible. Sorry to hear this.
/r/MGTOW208/07/21 03:14 AM
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Lol he probably has no clue
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 03:17 AM
3

Porn, video games, and social media. For women I’m not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:30 PM
3

A “relationship” without monogamous commitment (especially due to one party not wanting the commitment) I would consider casual sex, as a guy. I’m sure people open to polyamory feel differently but they are in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:48 PM
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Holy Shit Batman
/r/MGTOW202/07/21 12:27 AM
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How many of these men you know on THAT level to be even talking about their sex lives like that to you, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 12:19 AM
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Maybe it was the sexual goals of women (that drove them to abstain from the 1950’s sex lives and marriages) that were finally given the chance to fully express themselves due to WWII significantly changing the job market. The push to go back never materialized or failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:19 PM
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Not at all man. Really though. You think most men were loving and committed partners then? Maybe so. Maybe the trade off is men suffering at work to provide and women not being able to fully use their sexual goals, which is I suppose, using all her eggs(????) up on multiple HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:15 PM
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Interesting. So it’s fair for the women that got cheated on or abused? Or would you try to refute this and say this was only a very small minority of women? ———————————————————————————— The actual truth for why women are working now is the advent of neo-liberal capitalism after WWII, and not because women as a collective decided one day that they’d rather work than be housewives. This is the best that I can tell or the conclusions I have come up with personally thus far, based on observing the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:50 PM
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Possibly so. I would personally love to know the statistics on say, how many men on average by age 30 have dated at least 5 people, or have been in X amount of committed long term relationships. Long-term relationships would probably have a cut off of at least 3 months possibly? Or is it actually serious till 6 months? I think the committal to the relationship and the desire to see it last is more important than the time, If that makes sense. Anyway, then we can add other factors on top of X amo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:46 PM
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This is sort of where I’m getting too honestly and I hate that. But I know what I deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:59 PM
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Bruh she wasn’t being snide to you and actually brought up some good points. I generally agree with you but she brought up good points, or at least points that deserve some explaining. She also brought up a good point about women (the employees in her scenario relating to the recent past where men worked and women were homemakers) not being happy with their situation and deciding to abandon it. I happen to think women would be happier (on average) with a more stress free existence and keeping up…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:51 PM
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If I buy a house or build one and then marry and get a pre-nup saying that I get to keep my house, will it be honored? Just curious, cause in the future I don’t want the house I’ll be building on family land to go to an ex-wife if it were to happen.
/r/MGTOW228/06/21 04:32 AM
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But women like confident men who make all the decisions. That is game in a way. We could turn off women who want this. That’s where fake it till you make it comes into play. And then the woman finds out she does actually like the guy past superficial BS and the flirty stage.
/r/seduction27/06/21 01:30 PM
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Looks like you play a lot of video games based on your Reddit profile. Hopefully you spent time doing things with her too. Still sorry for you man. All we can do is improve our selves and say “fuck it” to the rest. If you were not great to her then you know that. If she was not great to you, then you know that too. Such little information to draw from on your post as to why this happened.
/r/MGTOW226/06/21 07:22 PM
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You in college or something?
/r/seduction26/06/21 07:05 PM
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Yea but…it’s a big deal what I’m saying. Watching porn at all to get off is not natural. That’s all I’m saying. And your brain doesn’t understand that with all the novelty you get from watching it for potentially hours. Yes him doing it 7 times a day is overboard, but also doing it for longer than 5 minutes once a day is too.
/r/seduction26/06/21 05:40 PM
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I think much of us men wouldn’t be who we are or who we aren’t today professionally and personality wise if we didn’t try to better ourselves to have opportunities with women. It’s not the only reason we try to better ourselves cause we all want more money and better lives but getting a good woman or women is a great motivator for many.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:38 PM
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This is hilarious in a good way. Only I would advocate for more than one day to be this way. Maybe not once a week but…I enjoyed reading your post. Women are not attracted to that stuff you do once a month but we have to relax sometimes. Y’all definitely have an interesting relationship! What does “her day” look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:32 PM
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Would rather have a down to earth average girl that I’m physically attracted to than a bombshell who is conceited or plays games.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:27 PM
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My grandmas and mom would say stuff like that to me. That a girl would be so lucky to have me. And I do think that’s true. Unfortunately they don’t flock to me because I’m 5’7.5 and more introverted so they never find out if they would be lucky or not. As guys we have to chase and go get them. We are not valued for existing like women are (except from our families if we have good ones, including your grandmas and mom) so we have to literally increase our worth to be attractive to females unless …
/r/seduction26/06/21 12:13 PM
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It’s not weird for a girl to not have sex till like 5-6 dates in or maybe a little more. It’s definitely on the upper end and would be hard to sustain that as a guy… but as long as she’s not talking to other men then I don’t see why it’s a problem. Of course the girl not talking to other men would be the problem with this though. If she is then that discounts everything I said. I think my ex and I had at least 4 meetings before we finally had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:51 PM
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Why are you fixated on comparing the effects of orgasm from sex vs masturbating to porn? Surely you know one is far more natural compared to the other. I’m not saying masturbation is unnatural per say, but I am saying it is not healthy doing it to porn. I already replied extensively on that above so respond there if you want.
/r/seduction25/06/21 10:51 PM
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“An excess or addiction to regular sex and masturbation would both lead to lower libido and energy levels?” Absolutely…? But if someone is having sex 5-7 times a day then at least it’s with a real person hopefully. That would have its own problems like STDs for example compared to jacking off by yourself in your room to porn but….my point really isn’t about orgasm making you lethargic. Once again, it’s moreso the side effect of using porn to masturbate to everyday for the aforementioned reasons …
/r/seduction25/06/21 10:47 PM
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Well they do have sex addiction groups too so maybe. But the main problem is being attracted to pixels on the screen vs a real breathing woman in bed with you. You’d never think it would be a problem till it first happens.
/r/seduction25/06/21 09:45 PM
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Let us know how it goes and please stop jacking off (to porn especially) cause it can trap you bro. Real talk. God bless.
/r/seduction25/06/21 09:21 PM
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This. Listen to this man.
/r/seduction25/06/21 09:20 PM
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Fapping (especially to porn) overtime can definitely affect your libido and your whole general energy level. I fear you are underplaying this. I know firsthand about that. And I’m 31. Trust me, fapping to porn is not healthy for your brain. Yea you may learn a few moves but if you PMO due to boredom or to relieve stress or to cope with something and it becomes a habit you can develop an addiction that will affect you for years if you are not careful.
/r/seduction25/06/21 09:19 PM
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A woman who’s slept with a lot of guys in relationships is fine. A woman who slept with a lot of hot guys at parties based on superficial reasons and drinking is not attractive and makes me question what sex means to them. I’m a guy but every woman I’ve slept with I intended for it to be a FWB thing or at least someone I could see from time to time if I wasn’t dating anyone. Some of these panned out to be one night stands but at least in my mind I’m not into doing it once with someone and never …
/r/seduction25/06/21 04:51 PM
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Agreed. We really have multiple selfs. We have to try to present our “best self” in different situations. Who we are when we go to a job interview is a lot different than who we are on a date, or around family, or by ourselves, or around friends.
/r/seduction24/06/21 05:09 PM
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That’s why if I get in a relationship I tell my partner to delete all their dating apps and I do the same. Whether they do so or not I can never fully know. Snapchat technically can be a dating app too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:36 AM
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I’ve been contemplating doing this for a while. I like to dance but never done salsa. Was always interested. And…I have a thing for latina women lol
/r/seduction22/06/21 11:21 PM
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1) excessive tattoos or big tattoos 2) no boobs 3) too much makeup (poorly drawn on eyebrows) 4) really bad teeth, like meth teeth (teeth don’t have to be 100% straight, mine ain’t 100%, I never had braces either) 5) I’m personally not into women taller than me. Same height is okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:11 PM
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No you fool. It’s not the economic side of hypergamy at all. It’s simply of elimination any and all doubt of a secondary desire for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:06 AM
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Dude this is the most autistic version of the truth but you fucking did it! If evolution is true, women finally maximized their lizard brain’s desires! You did it kid!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:05 AM
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Your coming into this at an angle and I’m not sure what/why that is.
/r/seduction21/06/21 09:37 PM
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Depends on your goals. For any woman of substance your goal is a bad one. Now if we’re talking about early 20’s in college then yea that’s different.
/r/seduction21/06/21 09:26 PM
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I feel like dating as a hobby would be exhausting and expensive as well. Also kind of weird IMO. Regardless, really solid tips here!
/r/seduction21/06/21 09:12 PM
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I was friends with a “natural” like that. He wasn’t quite a Chad but he just naturally is in tune with women and giving people a good time. He also had really light green eyes. In college he did close to those numbers. Probably been with 100 women he thinks. I never wanted to sleep with THAT many women because that kind of chasing sounds exhausting. I think him having adhd actually helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:25 PM
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So depressing man. But I have to keep going.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:13 PM
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So top 20% of men are having sex with 50-60% of women huh. That’s not too far off
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:56 AM
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That sounds like a job that is actually affecting the man’s health then and isn’t really the fault of anyone else connected to his life. No job is worth your happiness if it affects you at the level to where you don’t want to associate with loved ones for long periods of time.
/r/MGTOW221/06/21 03:18 AM
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I’m almost 100% certain that women are more turned on mentally than anything else. It’s her perception of you that ultimately matters. Everything else definitely helps and may give a leg up at first but the mental aspect certainly matters the most if you can tap it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:14 AM
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Even if true at one time it’s certainly not the case now. You don’t have to like statistics but you should at least respect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:11 AM
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Yea I’d agree. Even if you need to tell them many times. One of the greatest things about women is their caretaker instincts and it’s great to have a woman to look out for you in that way in a relationship. We all want that.
/r/MGTOW220/06/21 03:45 AM
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Honestly man not speaking to your wife after an hour and a half when coming through the door is pretty awful. I know what this forum is and I like a lot of stuff on here so I’ll just leave it at that.
/r/MGTOW220/06/21 03:43 AM
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To get men with zero problems. Probably because the women there have too many themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 11:37 PM
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Bro I feel you. I’m 5’7.5 (usually 5’8 cause I wear boots) and I’ve had a couple experiences like this. How short are you? I also know this is a bigger deal than it’s made out to be. I also am not the most charismatic guy for various reasons so I know it’s not all in being a shorter guy but that initial attraction helps a lot with women, and it’s just more rare for us to receive that sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:41 PM
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I feel like this topic also missed one key thing, which is the amount of porn consumption and porn addiction for men and how that affects men, and women in a much smaller number. Porn and masturbating to it makes you extremely complacent with your situation when you are finished. It’s also (i’d say) the most powerful (and dangerous most self harming) coping mechanism compared to most other coping mechanism mentioned above (with the exception of meth and heroine and hard stuff like that) because …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:30 PM
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Wow really? I’m sure you could work on a couple things and your attitude towards going out and it would be a better experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:11 PM
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And there is NOTHING wrong with that man. I paid off my college debt, bought an older used mid size truck first (in cash) and then a nice new car (pre-owned but basically new) and paid it off and have a great amount of savings by staying at home. I probably missed out on some fun things, and felt awkward trying to have casual sex during that time cause I can’t take them home, but it was well worth it. I have enough money now to put a decent down payment on a house whenever I’m ready and have no …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 09:59 PM
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I’m a guy and at least in my case I agree with OP. I make just a little bit less than $40,000 a year and the cost of living is increasing where I live. Many northern women are moving here and women are getting degrees and making bigger money because of it. I feel invisible in some ways due to my job. On bumble I pretty much never get matches because I got my job title listed first and women are pretty judgmental of what guys do for a living. My other dating profiles I don’t do amazing but I get …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:56 PM
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Especially these days, I think men have more pressure now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:42 PM
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I disagree with that. I feel like men are far more into tangible things than women. Women are way more about experiences in my eyes than guys. Guys are naturally more into tangible THINGS like expensive toys and owning things and gadgets and women often have pictures of them traveling everywhere on dating profiles and going different places and taking pictures of it for the Instagram and such… I don’t think you could be more wrong about men vs women on who likes “tangible things” better and scie…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:24 PM
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Haha I know
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 12:48 AM
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“It would be different if you were always someone who required commitment and bonding before having sex.” Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 08:43 PM
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This is a great way of putting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 02:32 PM
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Lol that’s not my point. My point is that women don’t generally marry men who make less than them, and men that make that amount of money below age 40 probably are not looking for a relationship and/or will be pathologically dedicated to their career.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 12:40 AM
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I think the guy should “ask” the girl but not actually ASK the girl if you know what I’m saying. Like yea; phrase it as a question but in a ultimate confident organic way. For me though I’ve never asked.
/r/seduction11/06/21 04:18 PM
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Lucky man!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:40 AM
1

Hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:36 AM
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Wow you must be bad at finding things you like
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:33 AM
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That’s kind of sad to read. Don’t know what religion you are referencing and why you feel this way but I feel sad that you abandoned that large part of your childhood. Just know college professors don’t know everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:30 AM
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Or maybe they were too damaged to know how too, or act in ways that weren’t negative or self-harming. My ex was a very damaged and conflicted girl lol. I knew she genuinely liked/loved me but she kept getting in her own damn way. I had to end it because the tragedy was outweighing the glory.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:25 AM
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I know. It’s just how naive I was about the world and promiscuity and women in general growing up even through high school. I grew up thinking everyone grew up similar to how I was and HAH not even close. I was ill equipped for the harsh truths of the world and how things actually are. I was (and still am in some ways) a hopeless romantic and would think everything would work out and I’d find a great woman to be with who grew up similar that I found attractive and her the same in me. I’m 31 and …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:21 AM
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I agree with that. Exception is when working on the relationship costs your overall well-being.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:20 AM
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I would absolutely trade the women I slept with in the past for a woman who had also never slept with a guy provided I knew it would work out. But I was raised pretty Christian. This is what I dreamed about a lot of my childhood lol. I know it’s pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:07 AM
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Could be. I’m not certain. I guess it depends if the women being surveyed for happiness were in college or not. College is an incredible high and an incredible low for a lot of people lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:34 AM
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I think one of the simplest guesses is that more women are going to college than men, and in college you go to school and you drink. But also lack of “suitable” options in men could make them unhappy, but that’s their own damn fault in general for only wanting the top 20% or less of men on dating apps for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:28 AM
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I would certainly hope not. Because if a self-respecting guy even got a whiff of that they will leave. Women who would do that can go to hell. That’s goes for guys who would do that in the opposite case, though a guy withholding sex from a woman and sleeping with other women to gauge interest does’t seem likely or common.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:00 AM
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It’s hard to believe a woman who makes as much as you and is as successful as you claim to be willing to date someone making $50,000 a year or less. Maybe if he was physically everything you want. And marry a man and commit your life to man like that I think would be even less likely. But I also don’t know you. I just know women in general are extremely selective on things like this. Unless you met the guy in person and he was just incredibly charismatic to you and decently attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:55 PM
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And I have to disagree with that respectfully. There’s a reason men on average are more muscular and athletic and bigger compared to women. We were designed to be such a way. Women are also on average more nurturing and agreeable (and more neurotic curiously) than men, which makes sense why they would birth children and typically care more about family and social people oriented topics and careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:51 PM
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Guess my point is if you want to be happy you might need to lower your standards just slightly on how much a guy makes. A lot of women struggle with that. You never said explicitly that you wouldn’t date a guy who made significantly less than you but I bet you would struggle to if they didn’t make at least $100,000 or more. You’re weeding out a lot of men. Idk. Good luck to you. I know if I worked 70-80 hours a week to make over $100,000 a year I’d be worn the hell out and probably would be more…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:46 PM
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I do agree with you in saying a guy not wanting to in general be friendly to his woman’s family and doing things for them from time to time is lazy and probably not a great partner. Almost along the same lines as a date not treating the waiter/waitress well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:36 PM
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I know it wasn’t your point but just felt it was relevant. You can find the guy you want in that regard but he’s probably making a LOT less than you. Not saying it’s impossible to find but a guy making as much money as you and wanting to be married in 2021 is probably going to be rare, especially at age 30. Maybe at 40 or older.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:34 PM
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Woah woah woah you are taking this out of context; I’m just telling you how it is. Society is not made for men any longer. But I can say if it wasn’t for men you wouldn’t have a society that caters to you. Men built all societies. Women don’t kill the Wooly mammoths (or at least as successfully) or fight wars in enough quantities or effectiveness to matter. Now government provides for women’s offspring. If all welfare was stripped and consequences had to be paid, women would choose much differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:20 PM
2

See I would be someone who would be good to your family or any girl I dates’ families. Problem is right now I make $39000 a year right now so I’m invisible if a woman see’s my job title first on a dating profile. You want the best of both worlds and I bet that’s extremely hard to find when you make 200k a year. A guy who made that kind of money would make a woman his homemaker or marry someone making less than $30,000 a year or working part time, but a woman making 200k wouldn’t usually consider…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:01 PM
6

Another Reddit user on here brought up a post on FDS about making a man they are interested in having a relationship with wait for sex for 3 months while seeing a man that is hot but is bad for a relationship for sex only at least until they secure the relationship with the high relationship value man. Ofcourse this is only one post on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:51 PM
3

If society was built for men (thanks to men being physically stronger and less agreeable and needing to kill the wooly mammoth), it definitely is not any longer. We are now living in a society that is prosperous and decadent because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:42 PM
2

I would consider myself redpilled but I’ve never seen much there about negging. I have seen it mentioned very rarely but it’s not something I’m interested in. I feel like negging is for truly bitter guys. A notable exception would be nice guys (guys who are a little naive about respect) who don’t know how or when not to put up with a person’s (in this case, women’s) shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:35 PM
0

Picking a man for just his resources and genetics is good? I thought other things were supposed to matter more?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:14 PM
2

I like to think I’m a 7 or a 6 at worst but my first problem is my height (I’m 5’7.5) I wear boots often because it’s the only acceptable height booster I can wear honestly (lol) and because I like them. I think my face is pretty decent but about 3-4 years ago I had a weird depigmentation of a decent size on my forehead that I think was stress related but I have no way to know. It actually turns the nearest part of my eyebrow white but I am able to color it brown to match my other eyebrow thankf…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:24 AM
1

I’m 29 in legs and I’m 5’7.5 haha My grandpa was probably 5’10-11 with 29 legs though Your torso must be longer Why we got to have short legs? Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:08 AM
7

Your height is not a problem lol. I would kill to be 6’0. No guy shorter than 5’10 will empathize with you feeling like you are not tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:05 AM
3

I think Asian women do well too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:03 AM
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I think by not “hitting on her” you drastically up’d your chances that one day where you might hit on her. Actually I think you could pull it off in the future if you keep being friendly and casually see if she wants to get a shake or something after working out one day and just keep the focus light and fun. Eventually, you’ll both get to where you’ll wonder why your doing this and hopefully y’all can start actually dating. The foundation would be strong at that point and you might actually set …
/r/seduction08/06/21 11:54 PM
2

Bet she was something else…
/r/seduction08/06/21 11:50 PM
3

Just wanted to give you a “lmao” at the term “incel dream” lol. But for real, society is collapsing and you should see that. Or…you might be the type that celebrates that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:40 PM
2

I can confirm as a guy who has struggled with attracting women that I was brought up on a lot of these movies and it definitely didn’t set me up well for the things women seem to truly want. Yea they want “nice” guys but it’s hardly the most important thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:20 PM
3

$800 a month would be like 2/5 of my money I take home a month lol Way too much
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:19 AM
1

More conservative? Guess I need to look for foreign women then.
/r/seduction05/06/21 12:05 PM
1

I know some weird older guys who were hitting on 17 year olds and slightly above. They were out of high school though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 11:32 AM
2

Oh okay. Well, if the kid is yours then financially supporting the child makes SOME sense. Your comment implied that the kid was not yours based on the original story, where the child was the other guy’s kid.
/r/MGTOW204/06/21 01:37 AM
-1

Canceling cheaters is always a good thing, man or woman.
/r/MGTOW204/06/21 01:31 AM
1

Was the kid biologically yours? If not, how can they make you pay for it?
/r/MGTOW204/06/21 01:30 AM
3

That’s pretty fucked up honestly and idk if I’d be able to forgive that. Either dump her or use her for sex till you find someone better. Unless you see her being genuine for a good period of time and feel like you can trust her again but it’s honestly a red flag. Why do women do this shit. Maybe she was insecure about something and blurted that out. You’ll have to be the judge of that.
/r/seduction03/06/21 03:09 AM
5

Idk it’s pretty fucked up
/r/seduction03/06/21 03:06 AM
4

I agree with this. Sadly.
/r/seduction03/06/21 03:05 AM
49

You’re a Diamond in the rough.
/r/seduction03/06/21 03:03 AM
0

Please. Trump got the most “people of color” votes of any Republican president. Once again, Hispanics really resonate with his anti-socialist policies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 11:53 AM
1

Bruh, the democrats said we have a trucker shortage after Biden killed the pipleline and ruined people’s careers. If you disagree with tradition and conservative values (which I bet is the main issue you have with republicans) then fine but these socialism-lite policies they want to enact are not something to look forward too. It’s funny how Florida went red because Cubans and many other Hispanic populations know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:33 AM
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No. Biden is the reason our gas prices are going up right now. And our debt will increase as he attempts to forgive everyone’s loans by $10-15k.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:23 AM
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The fact that you don’t get tired of the first woman is a big deal I think. But I think you should put her on the back burner and forget about her and go with the younger girl since she is way more into you and because she sounds more feminine. Completely forget about past girl and focus on the younger girl. If it ever ends, then if you want too, hit the other girl back up. But completely cut her off while dating the younger girl and don’t think about her as a backup ever. The age difference in …
/r/seduction01/06/21 02:44 AM
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Ofcourse you can. Like for example, statistically women are more likely to score higher on agreeableness and neuroticism than men. Or men work longer hours on average than women which accounts for a lot of the gender pay gap theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 05:42 AM
6

I think this is leaning towards the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 05:33 AM
14

I hate comments like these. Whether you like it or not; there are patterns to people and groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 05:30 AM
3

What do you do?
/r/MGTOW221/05/21 11:39 PM
1

Ah an acceleration at I see...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 10:52 PM
5

Poor people are still going to have kids and lots of them. Be better if more financially secure people had kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 09:49 PM
1

The guy below you already typed the comment you needed to read. I’m serious, look at yourbrainrebalanced. Every guy on there is suffering immensely because of porn addiction and subsequent erectile dysfunction.
/r/seduction17/05/21 10:13 PM
-1

Exactly He doesn’t get it
/r/seduction17/05/21 10:12 PM
-2

Alright well sounds like you got it all figured out I don’t know who runs that site but I know firsthand what porn can do to your brain and attraction to women real time in front of you. I personally recommend to leave it alone and pour your energy into something more productive cause it will rob you.
/r/seduction17/05/21 09:56 PM
-1

Don’t matter if the information is true. I don’t go on there much but yourbrainrebalanced will show you what a porn addiction can really do to men.
/r/seduction17/05/21 06:52 PM
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Yourbrainrebalanced.com Yourbrainonporn.com And well, my life experience determines this is true. Lifting weights is helping a lot towards a better mood and I think helping my dopamine levels get back.
/r/seduction17/05/21 04:54 PM
6

I feel like I agree with this as a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 01:28 PM
0

I think I’m red pill but I also want a relationship with a good woman....who hasn’t slept with several chads on the shallowest of standards, or a woman who only wants a serious relationship in her 30’s whose already been discarded by all the chads or worse, has kids with one or more chads and NOW wants a serious relationship. HA
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 04:15 AM
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If a woman has sex during relationships with other men it’s completely different than a woman sleeping around with multiple men just because they are chads and hoping they’ll open a relationship to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 08:12 PM
2

No it’s about women not being moral mystical creatures and that they pursue fleeting casual sex as well. Many women put on a big front that they are “good” but in actuality many of them are sexually open. And the more partners a woman has the more likely she is to cheat and divorce someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 01:36 PM
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I am Christian and was raised to really respect everybody and I didn’t really come to terms with the more carnal and darker desires of people, and in particular, women. I had a crush in high school that I was scared to talk to, but I thought she was the most beautiful creature in the world. It’s hilarious cause now she’s not even that great lol. But anyway, I found out by someone else she had took a guy in the back of a cici’s pizza freezer room or something and had sex with him. For some reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 09:34 PM
1

Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 09:29 PM
2

What’s funny is that I’m most attracted to white, latina, and Asian women so the possibility of aging skin doesn’t really matter to me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 03:46 PM
1

In the Big 5 personality traits women tend to score higher on agreeableness and openess. I think this has a lot to do with women being liberal and swallowing up higher or “higher” education. Absolutely not downplaying the many smart women out there but I think this explains a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 12:42 AM
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If you are a DJ and party for a living and all that then your life is a ton different then most of ours. Definitely easier to go from girl to girl doing something like you are doing. Not that your advice is bad but most guys don’t have some kind of crazy profession like this...not to mention the personality or desire to want to emulate a Jersey shore jock...
/r/seduction12/05/21 10:07 PM
5

White women and I’d say Hispanic women age the worse. Asian women seem to age the least in my opinion and I suppose black women in the middle. BUT I think diet and fitness can have a lot to do with this. There are many very beautiful older white women and very old looking asian women out there, as well as beautiful older latinas and ugly older black women lol. But pattern wise I’d say Asians in general age the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 09:48 PM
2

A society/group/individual obsessed with expressing or exploring its sexuality is a society/group/individual that is wasting its potential to do far greater things. Forget the moral aspect of it which doesn’t hold weight anymore sadly. These kind of thought processes are but one of MANY things killing us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:12 AM
2

I don’t like your answer (cause our society is doomed because of this thought process) but I appreciate your honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 03:36 AM
2

Definitely extraverted, definitely high on openess.
/r/seduction12/05/21 01:05 AM
1

Thanks a lot man! No that about covers it! Lol
/r/seduction12/05/21 12:53 AM
13

If nothing else I enjoyed reading that lol
/r/seduction11/05/21 11:54 PM
4

Don’t change, seriously. Some guy is going to appreciate the hell out of you
/r/seduction11/05/21 11:49 PM
1

Oh my bad you said ex husband haha. Well, whoever gets you next!
/r/seduction11/05/21 11:45 PM
1

I’ve had sex with 12 if I remember correctly and I’m 31. I wasn’t really cool in college and very introverted. Wish I could have went back now haha. But after college I got more confident and sure of myself although I’m not some alpha now. Most of these women are older than me (cause I’m really attracted to older women. Some I’ve met online, others by chance playing music in bars. Counting oral it increases some to probably 16-18 and handsy stuff a little more.
/r/seduction11/05/21 11:44 PM
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Can’t relate lol
/r/seduction11/05/21 11:34 PM
1

Are you a chad? We’re a lot of these women not really attractive? What is your strategy? Lol You must get bored easy. I think only a certain personality type can go through that many in such a short time.
/r/seduction11/05/21 11:32 PM
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What a lucky man.
/r/seduction11/05/21 11:28 PM
9

Good god, 10-11 is damn good. How do these interactions happen on tinder? Like how long before you ask for their number? And be honest, were some not that hot? Just asking. You might be a chad as well. Certainly being in college is helpful. I’m not jealous but I am curious your tactics haha.
/r/seduction11/05/21 11:28 PM
6

What does NRE mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 02:25 AM
2

I’m a guy and I mostly agree with you. Us normal guys need to just get out of the house. Do meetups.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:12 PM
2

Lol My thoughts exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 03:20 AM
13

I share this concern as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 01:43 AM
2

How can one afford kids and a house and a car and....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:42 AM
13

That’s a little depressing to hear but sadly not surprising. I thought my ex was hot but that didn’t stop me from getting tired of her shit and not continuing the relationshit. From being on this Reddit though apparently lots of guys don’t leave a relationshit just because of sex though. I just knew if I didn’t leave the relationship I couldn’t respect myself anymore. This must mean that the other guys who don’t leave must not respect themselves which is crazy to me. And this was only after 3 mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:16 AM
3

I agree with that haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:09 AM
5

Probably because those rich people got everything they wanted in life and realized it doesn’t satisfy in the end. There’s more to life than material possessions, and even experiences. That Anthony Bourdein (spell check) guy that traveled the world on tv and ate all these different foods and met all these different people and experienced all these cultures (and probably slept with a lot of women) killed himself as well a few years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:04 PM
3

Hahaha this is true
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:56 PM
8

Yea this is stupid. Not agreeing to be hazed because you respect yourself and see through the bullshit doesn’t make you a pussy and also shows your not desperate for attention and approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 10:21 PM
5

Yea never say that. Always guess 7 years younger when they ask than you think they are too lol.
/r/seduction29/04/21 06:09 PM
2

Sure wish I could find her
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:03 PM
1

I agree with you trust me, but 90% of people are not going to wait that long...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:40 PM
1

Well I meant two complete dates lol. On the third date hopefully you’d know enough to discern if they are serious or not. I mean it sounds like waiting till the third date before sex is a rarity these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:48 PM
2

I wouldn’t disagree with anything your saying there. If your in university then it will probably be harder to find the relationship type than if you were meeting guys outside university. If you aren’t in university then I’d encourage you to find someone older or at a church or maybe some kind of mutual activity where rapport can be built. Maybe someone at the gym or a meet up or something like that. You’ll definitely have to vet them and make them wait some for sex. You know, like a few dates. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:49 AM
2

You are a desirable woman with these traits. Unless you’re not very attractive...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:16 AM
1

You know it’s not just women wanting stable finances...maybe a guy who makes 50k plus, preferably 100k plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:14 PM
2

At least you are in the same ball park as your husband in earning potential, so that’s okay. It’s great that you did date the other guy though. I’m not saying women can’t find these men, obviously they can. But to have a relationship with them is a whole other ball game, especially if all she has to offer is sex and a low paying job. Women (especially younger women) are seeking qualities in men that are not conducive to their long term happiness. Yes a loyal committed partner who makes 100K plus…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 04:07 PM
2

6 foot 6 figures Read that again lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:43 AM
1

I should say “some of your standards are too high”. Everyone should have standards. But 6 foot, 6 figures is not a good standard to find someone for a relationship, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:55 AM
2

Tattoos and piercings give the illusion of edginess at the very least which is why women seem to like them, on average I believe. I can’t stand them on a woman though. Not to derail the subject. I like your answer, thanks.
/r/seduction28/04/21 01:17 AM
2

lol that sounds like too much going on, almost contradictory.
/r/seduction28/04/21 01:13 AM
3

That’s not the conclusion I came too but that is probably the result of the actions carried out.
/r/seduction28/04/21 01:03 AM
1

Hmmm ok. That’s one interesting angle.
/r/seduction28/04/21 12:59 AM
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How does one gain edginess? Genuinely asking. I ask because I think that’s part of my problem. But I have no interest in getting tattoos, piercings, and don’t drink that often more than socially. I know being a little pushy is part of being more edgy I think but what else? I’m not a risk taker so I know that’s part of it too. I don’t want to become edgy and lose who I really am or be fake.
/r/seduction28/04/21 12:14 AM
1

And this friend in particular was (like I mentioned) a anomaly as far as his approach to life and people and his energy levels. It paid off for him in dividends. Lower energy chads had less success than him. So indeed your amount of extraversion, energy levels, and your ability to be funny and not worry what others think is invaluable when it comes to most women I think. He did pretty decent on tinder I think too though. But like I said, his light green eyes are very rare. Lol, sucks, but I can’…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 11:07 PM
0

If the woman has had several relationships (I’m talking over a couple months at least...the longer relationship the better) and it didn’t work out but she had sex then obviously that’s a lot better than a woman having casual sex because she can and it’s easy (as a woman) or getting plowed in college by frat bros. Preferably a woman with 5 or less men would be great. At 30 years old if she’s been with 10 that’s acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 10:43 PM
3

Yea man, good luck with that. I feel you, but that is a truly rare Diamond in 2021 if they are 20 in college or 25 and didn’t go to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 10:36 PM
4

I feel like I’m a 7. Or an 8 on a good day. But I’m also 5’7-5’8. I have begun to lift weights last week cause I know that will only help. But I am pretty proportionate and decent looking I think. My current problem honestly is moreso me not having a lot of friends to go out with anymore. Most are married, engaged, or in serious relationships, or just not the going out type. My opportunities are low. I’ve done a couple meetups for volleyball and am about to do a more social one soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 10:26 PM
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I think what most mean is that they want you to mentally understand how hard it is for the average man to get a woman when all the average women (and above) only want the top echelon of men. Even better would be to call out other women when they make nasty comments about these issues or even tell other women that “maybe, just maybe your standards are a little too high if you want a good relationship”.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:52 PM
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I mean, I will say I want a woman I’m attracted to physically though. But I am not a fat guy and I want a girl not fat either. Just average but prettier than me. Women are supposed to be the fairer sex so I don’t feel like this is a problem. I know I can’t get 10’s unless they are drunk, or even 9’s. But 7’s and 8’s I should have a decent chance. But they flock to chads lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:49 PM
2

I have a friend who got all the women all the time in my friend group. The rest of us struggled. He had really unique light green eyes, about 5’10 so not 6 foot, but he was extremely charismatic, funny and flirtatious/outgoing (moreso than any other guy I’ve ever met) and it got tiring seeing that when I know I’m a good guy who has a lot to offer a woman but don’t get the same attention. I was lifting weights and got some more attention at the time but the comparison to him was negligible. But m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:46 PM
7

I’m a guy with good morals. They definitely don’t turn on women and I definitely would be happy with one good woman I’m attracted too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:09 PM
1

I have a buddy who claims to had casual sex with 100 women at least. He’s got light green eyes and is like 5’10 but his personality is very outgoing and charismatic and he’s very funny and charming. He was of course in a frat in college. I’ve never met someone else with a crazy outgoing personality quite like his. He can probably talk about any woman into getting with him if they are even the slightest amount open to him. Am I jealous? Yes, cause I’m not like that at all. But honestly I don’t ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 05:57 AM
2

So then you also agree that having casual sex with a attractive man is also dehumanizing yourself right? And also agree that if you’re having casual sex with said man, that other women probably are too?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 05:26 AM
2

I’m just saying when a woman agrees to fuck a chad and hope for the best she’s dehumanizing herself as well. It’s just crazy that so many women are okay with sharing the top 15-20% of men just for the “chance” they’ll end up being selected.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 05:21 AM
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The guys not getting one offs don’t feel any better about not getting them because they are better in relationships if they can’t get in a relationship to start with though...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 05:18 AM
3

Is it sad though? Women dehumanize themselves on Only Fans for money now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 05:15 AM
3

54 year old caregiver?
/r/seduction24/04/21 01:53 AM
4

To try to base anything in normal life from celebrity life is faulty.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 08:04 PM
6

DiCaprio is a celebrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 05:39 PM
2

Not all men are good at or want casual sex believe it or not. Sugar babies require money. Guys need women and women need men, but we fool ourselves thinking we need to be independent and tough. Domestic comfort is because men value stability in a relationship. I don’t think a lot of young women do...until they are married, have kids, or are dependent on the man financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 03:19 AM
0

This post had me confused from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 03:17 AM
2

Guys need/want 3 things from women, and 3 things only. 1) SEX 2) Domestic Comfort 3) Companionship Women only need 1.5 things now until they mature enough to want a family or when their priorities stabilize after having kids 1) sex 1.5) protection (Protection is only .5 because law and order protects us all in modern day society. Women don’t REALLY need protection that much anymore, especially with big daddy government)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 11:49 PM
3

In the old days families could be supported on one income. Most likely the men worked and the woman stayed at home and made it a pleasant place to live and raise children in. But wars happened and while men were away women came into the workforce. Businesses saw what was happening as the men returned, and now there was a surplus of workers. Women’s rights movements meant that women planned to stay and now with this surplus of workers the pay rate could go down. Fast forward to now, and even deca…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 10:53 PM
1

What is an LVM....low value men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 05:07 PM
1

I think he wants to see sexual hypergamy being talked about in a negative light in the media and it’s problems. Not necessarily just talking about what women prefer or think they prefer and everyone laughing and saying that it’s cool and not saying that at least some of the preferences are unrealistic or pretentious. Currently the only places you can find the even discussed in media is YouTube videos by different people or a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 04:48 PM
1

I feel like you’ll see examples in American media of the second example you said (men feeling like he’s not good enough based on certain traits), but the first I don’t think you will as far as it being that specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 04:38 PM
1

Are you dating a foreign woman? And if so, do you enjoy it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 09:55 PM
3

Wow what a ho
/r/seduction20/04/21 08:29 PM
4

Great mindset! I agree 100%
/r/seduction19/04/21 03:25 PM
5

If you are that good with women why are you on here?
/r/seduction19/04/21 03:24 PM
44

You are basing far too much on a celebrity’s love life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 03:39 PM
7

When did the topic become about woman beaters? A subset of the population? I guess a lot of women are interested in those types though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 03:11 PM
1

You have no idea how porn can affect your mind and dopamine receptors and it shows. Masturbation by itself is moderately okay but porn is ravaging a lot of guys libido and it’s only increasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 02:00 PM
2

What kind of sex therapy does a woman need in terms of undesirability? I mean, perhaps very ugly or disabled women...maybe...but maybe not mentally disabled....that’s just weird. Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 01:50 PM
6

Women definitely take for granted their sexual selection and how hard it is for men, which can take up a lot of a guy’s mental energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 01:40 PM
7

What an accurate statement lol. That’s the blunt truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 01:36 PM
2

That Reddit is toxic as hell when I viewed it the other day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 01:35 PM
5

Luckily weight is something a woman can control. A guy cannot control his height, and it’s not socially acceptable as a straight man to wear any height boosters other than shoes with high soles. A better comparison would probably be boob size. And even that can be faked now with money. For me personally I need at least some boobs to grab to be happy. I’m sure many guys don’t care. EDIT: boobs can also be faked in appearance with push up bras or in looser clothing lol. Actually many things women …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 01:18 PM
1

That’s what I feel like. But I’m also not a woman so I don’t know. What I do know is that if a woman is saying she’s fiercely independent and don’t need a man and yet is on a dating site then it’s pretty contradictory or an oxy moron!
/r/seduction12/04/21 02:11 PM
1

Similar but different in results. The men you talk about have far less suitors and options, because they are men. Unless they are stereotypical chads. But if they were they wouldn’t take the defeatist mindset like that and limit their own options. I think women (especially attractive women) use this “hard” front for a different purpose. The guy is definitely using it as a coping mechanism and is easy to see through. The attractive woman I don’t see why they would adopt this front unless it was t…
/r/seduction12/04/21 04:01 AM
3

Women are staunchly independent beings and never need a man...until they get one. I don’t understand the big front myself. Part of me thinks it’s to weed off “weak” men.
/r/seduction11/04/21 08:46 PM
2

Why do you sleep with someone in 24 hours time? Just never a good idea.
/r/seduction07/04/21 04:50 AM
2

I think the quantity of porn consumed is a higher predictor of erectile dysfunction than the type. I would agree that outlandish alien or cartoon porn would speed up the damage but you can watch just milf porn or pov porn for years and fuck your head up.
/r/seduction06/04/21 09:16 PM
2

Maybe it was the ocean or maybe it was the bojangles, but one girl I was with had a real bad smell down there when she normally didn’t that one day and I had to stop oral.
/r/seduction06/04/21 09:12 PM
1

Y’all should seek sex therapy
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:50 PM
6

Porn causes erectile dysfunction these days
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:41 PM
2

Or after they’ve been in the ocean...lol
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:36 PM
12

I feel like women of any type would like the features you describe...so I think you just like older women. I kind of feel the same way though. I’m seem to connect easier with them than I do girls my own age. Maturity is a big factor to me and a genuine nature.
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:03 AM
1

This girl is 14 lol. Sex at that age will warp your reality I fear. Glad someone else is referring her to a more relevant page.
/r/seduction06/04/21 02:06 AM
1

Kino-escalation is like light physical touches that convey your interest or (in the reverse) hers. If these touches are reciprocated or visibly welcomed by her then it’s a great sign of attraction.
/r/seduction05/04/21 02:21 AM
2

I mean that as being open to others with your personality and self. Giving your “best self” to other people without worrying about a return. Trying to be selfless for a change and indirectly benefiting from it.
/r/seduction05/04/21 12:21 AM
2

You got to work on yourself my man. Do meetups to take the edge off and possibly make friends. I joined a volleyball group and yesterday was my second time playing. Maybe I can make a friend or two out there. It’s easier making friends when you see young too. I’m 31 now and there’s just less opportunities now to make new ones. So take advantage of the time you have now and give yourself to others and make friends while you can, even if you’re introverted cause you can get yourself in a rut. The …
/r/seduction04/04/21 11:51 PM
7

Great job dude. Sounds like you are really handling this well. Just keep doing what you’re doing and don’t ever be the more emotional one. At sometime you might need to show her more emotion if y’all get serious but never more than she gives, cause she’s the “feminine energy”.
/r/seduction04/04/21 11:40 PM
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Press X for DOUBT
/r/seduction04/04/21 08:48 PM
8

That’s great though. Imagine kissing and not getting a boner or a half assed one.
/r/seduction03/04/21 05:24 PM
2

A lot of guys rely on it though and use it as stress relief and get reliant on it. You never know you’re hooked on it till you try to quit.
/r/seduction03/04/21 04:04 PM
7

Good list. Especially #4. People just don’t know what it does or will do to you.
/r/seduction03/04/21 01:59 PM
6

I notice the same.
/r/seduction31/03/21 05:02 PM
1

Please explain then. That’s the vibe I get from women who use it as a way to communicate with the opposite sex.
/r/seduction28/03/21 11:15 PM
1

Your post reminds me of my ex. I liked her a lot but she caused a big scene one night around my friends and it nearly broke us up then. She drank a couple drinks which she was a lightweight and just went off about my ex at the time and other information that isn’t really relevant. Later one night she went crazy on me after hanging out with her friends at a bar and she came over drunk and completely lost her shit on me. I know drinking was an issue there and some of her past trauma. I’m thinking …
/r/seduction28/03/21 08:23 PM
2

THIS
/r/seduction28/03/21 08:11 PM
1

Being an alpha chad isn’t realistic for everyone. Sorry if you can’t empathize with that. Some people were born genetically gifted and have never had problems socializing or feeling bad about themselves about something they can’t help. Sounds like you can’t relate which is great for you but realize a lot of people have not been that lucky.
/r/seduction28/03/21 08:08 PM
0

Ok never heard some one call it a proposal before lol
/r/seduction28/03/21 07:49 PM
2

Marriage already? Wow If I had done that with my ex (we only lasted 3 months) it probably would have ended up a disaster! She also wasn’t trying to further herself like your girl though.
/r/seduction28/03/21 07:40 PM
4

I can’t with this new generation. Getting Snapchat’s instead of numbers and being their “follower”. Just sounds awful. And I’m only 31!
/r/seduction28/03/21 06:35 PM
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