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| 1 | Why do so few men have "rizz"?anxiety is the fear of the future. Well what if nearly every experience of my life has proven that there is legitimate reason to fear the future? social anxiety is the fear of negative judgement of others that MIGHT come or not come. This is a learned behaviour often the direct result of being tormented and excluded as an outsider in your formative years by your teenage peers that acted like sociopaths towards you. Difficult conditioning to break even a decade later also, people don’t judge you … | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 06:00 PM |
| 1 | I'm going broke wine n' dining American girls just to get ghosted. Want to go overseas.Stagflation is a bitch | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 11:15 PM |
| 50 | I don’t have my own place, how to get invited back to hers?What’s wrong with Doritos? | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 05:44 PM |
| 15 | Online dating is pretty brutal and insaneBecause online dating companies exist to make money above all else, lonely men seem to be pretty easy to exploit. It’s very simple the more users pair up the less users they have the less potential money they make | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 10:58 PM |
| 1 | On the rise of lonely single men25 isn’t old but isn’t it quite a bit old to have no experience in something most people especially most women start doing in their early teens? I can’t imagine no dating at dangerously close to 30 is helpful… | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 06:57 PM |
| 4 | Seduction is easier than people thinkPoint is for some it is nowhere near as effortless and simple as op makes it out to be. Laughably far from the truth in reality. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Getting laid as an introvert?r/wowthanksimcured | /r/seduction | 11/10/22 09:22 PM |
| 1 | I’m confident in myself and feel like a total package man — but my marketing sucks.The implication that you need to become the loud obnoxious party addicted frat bro in order to have dating success. That if you prefer a more reserved scene and vibe that you are a broken man that needs to “grow” into the frat bro. The commenter I originally replied to basically outright stated that extroverted party types are the only ones who can actually date and anyone outside that box won’t succeed and needs to change | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 06:39 PM |
| 1 | I’m confident in myself and feel like a total package man — but my marketing sucks.I won’t, wouldn’t be the real me anyway | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 06:34 PM |
| 0 | I’m confident in myself and feel like a total package man — but my marketing sucks.It’s not, however if I were to start going clubbing and partying every day trying to be the centre if attention and life of the party it would be fake af because that’s not who I am. None of that sounds fun to me. I would rather go for a midnight ride on my motorcycle or hang out with a couple close friends. I prefer a more low key chill environment to a loud bumping party where you can’t even talk over the music. So if I pretend to like the party scene just to find dates they will be disappoint… | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 06:32 PM |
| 1 | I’m confident in myself and feel like a total package man — but my marketing sucks.Listen man if growing out of your shyness made you totally love being out and social and increased your social stamina to superhuman levels, you were never introverted to begin with. It just seemed like it because anxiety is exhausting. Extroverted means social interaction gives you energy, introverted means it takes energy away. Nothing more. Everyone has a social battery, extroverts get on the charger by interaction, introverts get drained by the same thing and need some alone time to chill in… | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 05:31 PM |
| 1 | I’m confident in myself and feel like a total package man — but my marketing sucks.Getting exhausted after lots of social interaction instead of more energized isn’t some disability or disgusting defect like you suggest. Nor is it something you can just grow out of. Sure you can learn to excel at these interactions but it doesn’t change how tiring constantly doing that is. Introvert ≠ shy or socially anxious. It just means people are exhausting in large doses. Some people just aren’t the party at every opportunity type | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 05:16 PM |
| 0 | I’m confident in myself and feel like a total package man — but my marketing sucks.So become a fake person and wear a mask for the rest of your life, exhausting yourself to become the people person you need to be and never know peace again. The idea that you need to be the extroverted life of the party to succeed just might be a dealbreaker for me. I can’t just do that for life and keep up a will to live. A 24/7 fake personna is exhausting and pretty much every famous person who has done that for their success either ends up quitting or committing suicide. Doesn’t sound good l… | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 05:11 PM |
| 2 | I’m confident in myself and feel like a total package man — but my marketing sucks.So basically you have to completely change who you are. Super | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 05:08 PM |
| -2 | she asked "do you date often" how to reply?Or I’d like to get past the first date and maybe get some experience so I don’t have to hide anymore. How the fuck could admitting your dating life has been nonexistent at dangerously close to 30 have a positive effect on your dating life????? Preselection bias is a very real thing. The only thing your date will think after such a confession is “hmm nobody else ever wanted him, what’s wrong with him? Maybe I should just bail and see someone who isn’t broken.” Most women don’t want to be with men… | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 03:09 PM |
| 0 | she asked "do you date often" how to reply?The alternative is to share that information and watch all the interest she had waft away and end up ghosted. The truth sets you free but sometimes that isn’t the objective. | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 03:02 PM |
| 2 | she asked "do you date often" how to reply?Not so, but admitting you don’t date much/haven’t dated past a certain age is in no way going to have a positive effect if said out loud | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 02:49 PM |
| 1 | she asked "do you date often" how to reply?Because the answer may not reflect attractively on you..? | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 02:47 PM |
| 2 | she asked "do you date often" how to reply?So lie through your teeth, got it | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 02:45 PM |
| 1 | How do I meet girls and make friends as a loner?New game plus but without any of the unlocks from beating the game the first time around… | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 09:22 PM |
| 5 | What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you?So the whole rich stay rich and the need experience to get a job/no job experience type of loops. Super… | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 02:02 AM |
| 1 | How do I turn a platonic conversation into a flirty one?Too bad a massive part of the earth is completely landlocked… | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do I only get hit up by monstrously fat chicks on dating sites? I'm a good looking, athletic dude.But the enjoyment part is important. If you don’t want to be there your mindset won’t be in the right place | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Why do I only get hit up by monstrously fat chicks on dating sites? I'm a good looking, athletic dude.And if you can’t dance and/or don’t enjoy the club atmosphere? | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 09:32 PM |
| 74 | Where do I meet women if I’m not into clubbing or dating apps?What car meets are you going to? 9/10 times they are some dudes gf who is there because of him | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 12:20 AM |
| 11 | For guys that hook up often, do you still watch porn?Do you mean moderation? Or does meditating actually help this problem? | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Pretty sure the male equivalent is “incel” | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 12:01 AM |
| 45 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Online dating isn’t fun and not everyone thrives in new social environments where they don’t know anyone and there is loud music blaring… | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Want to give dating apps a try. Looking for general advice and resources on setting up a profile and what to expectNo | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Nothing hurts more than clicking extremely well with a woman, but lacking dating skills to drive it in a sexual directionSo basically if you don’t know 100% what you are doing, learned back in your teens there is a 0% chance of success in dating | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Nothing hurts more than clicking extremely well with a woman, but lacking dating skills to drive it in a sexual directionToo bad that doesn’t come naturally for everyone and if it doesn’t you are treated like some kind of weirdo. Oh and nobody can help you learn. The learning method is basically tossing someone into a deep pool, they either learn to swim or drown | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Why can’t I even look women in the eyes?Speaking for myself here, I’ve never had the eye contact problem op has however I do have trouble understanding the “fake it” advice. My confidence is lacking because I have no idea what I’m doing when it comes to flirting and initiation. My confidence in things tends to be rooted in competence. How do I fake it when I’m clueless as to what I’m doing? | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | How can I avoid the time wasters more easily?Well single women existing isn’t a solution now is it? Let’s take my situation as an example. I live in a city of a million people. If we use the dating app statistics which tend to skew worse than irl meeting there are at least 10,000 single women in my city who would date me. However that is meaningless unless they know you exist. So a single women living her life in a rural farmhouse somewhere is not indicative of anything unless you can talk to her and arrange a date. If op is driving 3 hour… | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 12:12 AM |
| 1 | How can I avoid the time wasters more easily?Depending on where you are there may not even be one residence per square mile. Farmland is mostly acres and acres of plants with one house on it, that house likely has an older married couple in it | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 11:30 PM |
| 1 | How can I avoid the time wasters more easily?How many single women you think there are in rural America bro? | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 10:56 PM |
| 8 | Any guys who get zero matches but have success in real life?OnLine Dating | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 06:23 PM |
| 4 | The Discourse around men's height is inaccurate and social media is preying upon your insecuritiesAnecdotal evidence is nothing more than evidence of an anecdote but the only one of my friends who is married is 5’6”. The rest of us are either perpetually single or bouncing in and out of relationships. Being short doesn’t disqualify one from dating | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 08:50 PM |
| 1 | recommendations for hobbies that can be done from home and make you a more attractive well-rounded person for dating?Not necessarily. I love airsoft but toy gun fights ain’t gonna land me a date imao | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 01:28 AM |
| 2 | A constant theme I've noticed among my female friends who use dating appsIt’s also used in dating apps to maximize profits. Elo score too low? Your profile is hidden till you pay up | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | A constant theme I've noticed among my female friends who use dating appsIt’s also used in dating apps to maximize profits. Elo score too low? Your profile is hidden till you pay up | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 07:25 PM |
| 3 | This sub is delusional.Man covid fucked over so many. I still am far from where I was before covid socially and that wasn’t even where I wanted to be | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Do girls like virgin boys?Seriously tho. If someone is a virgin at 25 there were 2 years there that were more or less a complete waste. At that point they should be seen as a 23 year old which somehow sounds a little better | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 07:48 PM |
| 4 | Which of your hobbies has introduced you to the most friends?Lots of good people in the motorsport world in my experience. A negligible amount of single women but nonetheless a lot of people who would lend you the shirt off their back their tools and their time to help fix your shit in time for the race regardless of weather they actually know you or not | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | I'd like everyone's opinion on a few matters.Too bad nearly every tasty food is nearly poisonous for you and most uber heathy food is cardboard like. It’s a problem especially when food is one of the pleasures nearly every person in the developed world can get on command. I have trouble cutting out good food since when I do life becomes a joyless pleasureless shade of dull grey. Any tips on eating better that aren’t oral masochism? Bonus points for some foods that are good without refrigeration or heating as I don’t have any access to refr… | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Where to socialize and meet woman?How much older? | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 08:56 AM |
| 2 | Life is easier after stopping trying to dateWhen you hit the mid 20’s with never any partner and everyone you know has one it’s impossible to wonder if you missed the boat especially now that you are old enough that inexperience is weird at best and unacceptable at worst | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 06:38 PM |
| 1 | As a nerd how does one go about "Just be yourself" ?You say that but I can’t help but feel those locations have 999 men for every woman and that woman is more than likely already taken | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 05:55 AM |
| 3 | This is NOT an incel sub, and some people on here need reminding of that. You have control over your own dating success if you improve & approach.Those of us who just got to this point 5ish years ago are kind of in a wasteland. It was hella hard before the pandemic but seemed doable with the right luck. The right party or new person entering your group or even a dumb luck chance encounter and you could be set. Now what the fuck can even be done? Some countries (like mine) are still half closed and masking and everyone is super apprehensive to strangers and nobody wants interaction it seems. Staying physically apart with 90% of the face co… | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 10:12 AM |
| 53 | How introverts flirt?Only if they actually come to you. If they don’t you’ll be alone forever | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 08:38 PM |
| 2 | pickup lines for girls with masks onNot everywhere is free for all murica. Many countries still require masks for business entry. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 03:29 AM |
| 0 | I lost 40 pounds, got interesting Hobbys butMalls hold some potential and I will be going to a post secondary school in the foreseeable future so that might just have some opportunity. For a number of reasons I am looking forward to school. However for now between mandatory mask mandates and social distancing rules the vibe is weird and everyone is kind of on edge. Unfortunately my country isn’t as open as the USA. I hope this will pass this coming year so I can enjoy some normalcy. That would make all of this easier. The waiting game on … | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 07:32 AM |
| 1 | I lost 40 pounds, got interesting Hobbys butThat’s fine and definitely part of the process but in order to succeed you need to be able to enjoy yourself. If nightclubs are necessary to succeed (they aren’t, people get together without them) than I just won’t be able to make it work. I have never been able to dance you can’t talk in a club so dancing is literally necessary. Not to mention by the time I cab there pay cover buy a couple drinks and cab home I’m out $100 before paying the coach. That’s not sustainable long term especially if I… | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 06:39 AM |
| 1 | I lost 40 pounds, got interesting Hobbys butIf I want questionable advice there’s plenty of that for free. If I’m bringing in a professional they at least need to provide me something of value. Or else what am I paying for? Their company? I have friends I can chill with for free. And since there’s really only word of mouth for confirming if they are worth my time I’m still not convinced especially considering in my relatively small city I doubt theres too many people offering this service | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 06:17 AM |
| 1 | I lost 40 pounds, got interesting Hobbys butGo for it | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 06:03 AM |
| 1 | I lost 40 pounds, got interesting Hobbys butThe other problem I’m having is finding a venue where I can really shine. The typical places (bars, clubs) don’t really match well with my vibe, not the venue’s fault just a basic incompatibility. So far I haven’t found a place where a) I’m fully comfortable being myself even to complete strangers that b) actually has single women around to talk to. On top of that so long as mask mandates continue to prevail in my area I won’t be going anywhere to try to figure game out. This is difficult enough… | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 05:42 AM |
| 1 | I lost 40 pounds, got interesting Hobbys butAnd this saturation of complete scumbags is what gives me such a strong objection to paying any of them even a dollar of my hard earned money. Why should I pay some dick hole who isn’t even capable of providing results and is just being a manipulative prick? Especially when there’s so many of them. Since this isn’t a service most people need it’s not like there’s a red seal certificate in coaching dating. A psychology degree would be a step above the marketing dicks but just because someone was … | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 05:11 AM |
| 1 | I lost 40 pounds, got interesting Hobbys butI do believe people are capable of learning a great many things this included however without help to get started it sometimes feels impossible. Your backstory sounds extremely similar to mine but without the autism diagnosis. Now I have seen a few of my friends successfully flirt however their style of it seems to match their personality and since I’m very different from them I doubt their methods will work for me. It will feel and come off as fake and that can’t work well. Sure there is generi… | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 04:41 AM |
| 2 | I lost 40 pounds, got interesting Hobbys butAnd what do you do when you don’t know how to do something that comes naturally to most people? Not like there’s anyone who can teach you or any decent guides consider this is one of those things that is highly individualized. “Coaches” are nothing more than snake oil salesman and scam artists so what’s a guy to do? Keep trying bullshit until you randomly get the right combination by pure luck and hope to repeat what you did? | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 04:10 AM |
| 3 | How to Take Better Tinder PhotosNot to mention a DLSR is like $1000 for a basic one. A friend of mine is a pro photographer and his setup is like 10 times that | /r/seduction | 16/11/21 02:59 AM |
| 0 | I hooked up with a girl who has a boyfriend, he wants to fightBecause of this bullshit, there’s a non zero chance that the guy is smart. In fact it’s likely he isn’t. Case in point… | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?Canadian here, shits fucked over here too especially with covid ruining social events | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 03:26 PM |
| 4 | Understanding Infinite Abundance Of WomenOr underage or over 1000 miles from your location… | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 04:19 PM |
| 4 | The cold approach method is unhealthy, and frankly a cringeworthy attempt at picking up women (or men)these apps are a business and it doesn’t benefit the company to pair people up. That actively eliminates the customer base. Better we all get hooked on the sea of choices or look for scraps when the come seldom as it happens. That way the customer base has a continuous reason to keep wasting their money away on “gold” and other “boosts.” If it’s not actually getting you dates it’s worth considering that it really wasn’t designed to especially if it’s owned by the Match Group (the parent corporat… | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 06:36 PM |
| 1 | What are some good social activities or hobbies to meet new people?What is extreme fishing? | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 03:55 PM |
| 3 | I (23M) feel weird going to bars or places alone and trying to cold approachSo without online (which honestly is only the illusion of an option anyway and no cold approaching what’s even left? | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Your clothes play a huge role in seducing women!I’ve been thinking about dressing like that for a long time. I’ve only done it a few times but the results are always lots of compliments. Might have to go shopping | /r/seduction | 24/06/21 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Do you use dating apps? If so, how do you not allow them to crush your self esteem and drive you insane?The source of your frustration is the entire reason I wrote off any possibility of paying them. Sure paying them will get me more matches but I know the system is designed to keep users in a goldilocks zone where they get enough success to see what looks like real results but not enough to actually get the user a genuinely good chance at date much less a relationship thus retaining a paying customer. This has always been their ultimate goal (and remember the same parent company basically has a m… | /r/seduction | 23/06/21 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Do you use dating apps? If so, how do you not allow them to crush your self esteem and drive you insane?I’d consider myself a good looking guy, just had a tough time making a good profile however in the past I at least got some matches. Enough to tell me that if I stepped up my profile and text game it might have worked. Until a few years ago. Then what bits of success I saw vanished. Of course the app works for some people. There needs to be a minimum users having success, if they didn’t it would be an actual felony grade scam. However they are trying their hardest to make that number as low as p… | /r/seduction | 23/06/21 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Do you use dating apps? If so, how do you not allow them to crush your self esteem and drive you insane?No it’s a goddamn racketeering scheme designed to dupe lonely men out of their money with less than no promises for results. Just look into how their algorithms work and you’ll see just how dehumanizing it really is. Honestly if their servers burned to the ground the world would be better off. I hope every single executive working for whoever owns these fraudulent “companies” get fired during an extremely bitter divorce and get to learn first hand how awful their work really is | /r/seduction | 22/06/21 06:11 PM |
| 1 | To bother with pubs and clubs if I don’t naturally enjoy them?Now there’s some actually useful advice. My lack of rhythm kind of eliminates dancing, too awkward however that still leaves me with some thoughts on some actual actions I can take. I always thought that getting into an activity only to meet women is a more inauthentic and desperate behaviour but the way you describe it is actually quite a bit more healthy. Different perspectives like this are why I even bother with any advice subs. Making character assumptions about my character from one text b… | /r/seduction | 10/06/21 09:03 PM |
| 2 | To bother with pubs and clubs if I don’t naturally enjoy them?You dont need to be a sarcastic prick. Some people just have stereotypically male interests. I also only have so much time and money to spend on activities that don’t get me paid. So instead of being a snippy little fuck why don’t you toss a suggestion out here or just not fucking bother saying anything at all? Either be helpful or fuck off! | /r/seduction | 10/06/21 08:10 PM |
| 2 | To bother with pubs and clubs if I don’t naturally enjoy them?Which is great unless your hobbies don’t have a large female following | /r/seduction | 10/06/21 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Going out with the sole intention of meeting women sets a baseline for needy, validation-seeking behavior. When out, do your own thing, and flirt if you encounter someone who interests youThis makes tons of sense. Unfortunately I have not yet found an environment where I can thrive that also happens to actually have women there. It’s crappy when you work in the trades and have stereotypically male interests | /r/seduction | 03/06/21 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Women will respect your courageThank god someone else said it! I’ve always maintained that clubs are trash for meeting people and only work if you genuinely really enjoy clubbing. However given my situation it just makes me sound bitter when I say it lol. Unfortunately thanks to this whole ride we went on last year with shutdowns my social muscle has some dangerous atrophy going on. It’ll take a lot of work to get where I even was let alone need to be at to get things figured. But it seems to be the only viable way for me to … | /r/seduction | 26/04/21 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Women will respect your courageIntrovert is just the word I use to describe the fact that people fucking exhaust me especially random strangers. I can’t see any reality where getting super social with tons of people won’t suck all the energy out of my body. That said I can still do it for a few hours at a time. I’ve tried clubs but I’m not a dancer and the noise is too much not that any clubs are open. Unfortunately Canada is still locked down so I’ll have to try your advice about public approach and bars when/if the governme… | /r/seduction | 26/04/21 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Women will respect your courageWhat advice would you have for a guy who works for a small family business in the energy industry (so less than no women there) and also has either solo or male dominated hobbies like you. I don’t really have any dating experience to speak of but some successes in the past (been kissed, had that phase between approaching and dating properly (ngl got that far entirely by accident and circumstance, nothing I actively did gave me success I just kind of stumbled into successes here) but never actual… | /r/seduction | 26/04/21 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approach seen differently today?What advice would you have for those of us who have a strong sense of self and confidence at least in their appearance and personality but need to develop social skills and build the specific skills for (and build confidence in specifically a dating context, knowing I’d be am awesome catch for someone and having a job and hobbies doesn’t change the fact that I don’t really know what I’m doing in the dating world) dating that a platonic friendship even with a woman can’t quite teach you? | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 03:17 AM |
| 0 | Is it still possible to learn to cold approach during the pandemic?Yeah not in every country. I probably won’t have mine till years end being under 30. Under 65 still aren’t getting theirs unless you have other conditions. | /r/seduction | 12/04/21 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, when visiting a man's home for the first time what impresses the most?My biggest problem with those plugin is some asshat decided they must have a sensor activated night light. Like fucks sakes I’m not 7 and still afraid of the dark. I’m 24 and need near complete darkness (or total exhaustion) to even think about sleep. I haven’t found a plug-in I can have in my room because of this dealbreaker they all seem to include | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 07:57 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, when visiting a man's home for the first time what impresses the most?Personally I wish candles lasted longer. I have 9 setup around my living room around the entertainment setup. I’d light them every night if they lasted more than 6 hours before burning out | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 07:46 PM |
| 2 | The game is simple.. try to get rejectedIt’s a significant obstacle for those of us who need to brush up our social and body language skills. You’re removing some rather significant feedback. Not everyone just “gets” people naturally | /r/seduction | 25/03/21 05:27 PM |
| 1 | How do you cultivate an abundance mindset?I don’t think I’m that fargone. I haven’t had that many opportunities but despite that I still managed to get some attention and affection. I know I’m attractive I just don’t get out a lot. My friends don’t know many single people I work for a small business with only 4 people and bars and clubs aren’t where I socially thrive. If I actually manage to meet enough women I’m certain I’ll find one I like that reciprocates that but I’m kind of stuck. There’s plenty of women out there for me but if I’… | /r/seduction | 16/03/21 09:12 PM |
| 4 | How do you cultivate an abundance mindset?That’s really hard advice for guys who actually have trouble finding girls even before the pandemic. | /r/seduction | 16/03/21 06:33 PM |
| 2 | What is stopping you from cold approaching?The pandemic isn’t rampaging my area like others but still has shut down more or less everything I’m interested in. Mask mandates mean I can’t see her face and for someone who already had issues reading people this is a nonstarter. Alright there’s my pandemic excuses out on the table. Now the full time issues. All of my genuine interests are either solo activities or male dominated. No pickings there unless I get lotto winner lucky. Outside of that I don’t know where to meet women. Bars and club… | /r/seduction | 03/12/20 03:47 PM |
| 1 | How important is it to be able to defend yourself and your partner under the threat of violence?Visit r/ccw if you’re genuinely interested. Lots of good information over there | /r/seduction | 03/12/20 01:36 AM |
| 1 | The best thing's in life are free.Last I checked most hobbies are far from free | /r/seduction | 23/11/20 05:27 AM |
| 2 | Date ideas during upcoming winter (due to COVID)?Works unless you live in a place that gets down to -30℃ | /r/seduction | 26/10/20 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Is daygame a waste of time? (400+ approaches and 1 date)Ugh making this a lifestyle sounds completely exhausting. As someone who doesn’t really like bars or nightclubs and isn’t really a people person I just want to find someone who I like (and likes me obviously) and be done with it. If making “game” a full time commitment for years on end is what it takes to get with a girl I might have to reconsider if this is worth it | /r/seduction | 12/10/20 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Be confident and you'll attract womenGood bot | /r/seduction | 24/08/20 07:06 PM |
| 1 | An old but relevant article highlighting the dangers girls have to face when rejecting a guy. It's important to be considerate. This is one reason why 1) You're given a wrong number by them and 2) Ignored over text on the follow up from a receptive Cold Approach.Wow that’s horrible. You people deserve better. Healthcare is great but ultimately useless without security. A free hospital won’t do you any good if you’re destined for the morgue. I hope your politicians get their shit together. Unfortunately that will likely require their loved ones to suffer like this before they see a need for toothy legislation as politicians are usually just selfish assholes looking for a bribe kickback in most countries on either side of the floor Edit: alternatively if … | /r/seduction | 07/08/20 09:13 AM |
| 1 | An old but relevant article highlighting the dangers girls have to face when rejecting a guy. It's important to be considerate. This is one reason why 1) You're given a wrong number by them and 2) Ignored over text on the follow up from a receptive Cold Approach.Wow so according to your government if you’re threatened you should just fucking let them rape an murder you . That’s a super attitude, let me just remove Australia from my bucket list... | /r/seduction | 07/08/20 08:35 AM |
| 4 | An old but relevant article highlighting the dangers girls have to face when rejecting a guy. It's important to be considerate. This is one reason why 1) You're given a wrong number by them and 2) Ignored over text on the follow up from a receptive Cold Approach.Shitty. So just like Canada the Australian government gives criminals more rights than the innocent. How disappointing. Everyone should be allowed the right to self defence which should include some sort of weapon (not necessarily firearms) to level the playing field | /r/seduction | 07/08/20 08:33 AM |
| 6 | Best Place to Find Women??Cries in landlocked prairies | /r/seduction | 19/07/20 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Does height matter?Dude of all my friends the only one who is married with kids is 5’6” just find a short girl that’s what he did | /r/seduction | 11/07/20 07:52 PM |
| 1 | You know what’s attractive? Knowing your own worthIn theory I know what value I bring to the table (it’s quite a lot too) but conquering insecurity and behaving with confidence in practice isn’t as easy as pushing through the last couple reps of a set when you’re already shaking. It’s actually much harder especially when you have no real world experience proving you can succeed or any idea how to do anything that works. Figuring this out post school is rather unforgiving which also doesn’t help. | /r/seduction | 06/07/20 06:07 PM |
| 5 | You know what’s attractive? Knowing your own worthThank you. This whole post comes across as kind of r/wowthanksimcured | /r/seduction | 04/07/20 07:06 PM |
| 31 | Guys Who Made A Significant Change In Their Social/Dating Life, What Were The Main Changes You Made?Out of curiosity what are your hobbies? | /r/seduction | 02/05/20 09:18 PM |
| 1 | People aged 18-25, where are you having sex? You don't even own a house.I thought 25 was the youngest you could rent a car. If not that’s pretty fucked that you can qualify for classic car insurance (a special type of coverage with different plates and lower cost) but not rent a shitty econobox | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 10:59 PM |
| 1 | 23 year old virgin looking for changeNot op but what would be your advice on not meeting women? Also not talking since that seems like a similar sticking point | /r/seduction | 29/04/20 01:12 AM |
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