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I read models by mark Manson and then 3% man by Corey Wayne. I realized inner game is more important that any PUA tactics. Learn to confidently be yourself. My advice to everyone is to figure out the type of man they want to be; then take active steps towards getting there. Understand you won’t pick up every girl, but the ones you pick up will like you for who you are.
/r/seduction14/12/21 01:53 PM
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Just move on to the next girl. You can’t force attraction. It’s either there or it isn’t and once it’s not there, you definitely cant reverse it. Honestly man, move away from the negs and other PUA tactics and go read 3% man by Corey Wayne and models by mark Manson. Read models first. Gettin girls is mostly about learning to confidently be yourself. The PUA stuff might work once you figure out your inner game. But truthfully, girls know about PUA tactics and don’t pay them much attention.
/r/seduction08/12/21 01:46 PM
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All you need to read are 1. 3% Man by Corey Wayne and 2. Models by Mark Manson. 95% of what seduction is figuring out how to confidently be yourself. Those two books will help You get there. Read them both multiple times.
/r/seduction07/12/21 11:10 PM
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Poor attempt at getting girls and you won’t attract anyone of value with this strategy. Trust me this isn’t the type of man you want to be.
/r/seduction07/12/21 01:55 AM
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First rule of fight club is don’t talk about right club
/r/seduction03/12/21 02:12 PM
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Your negative projection of women will only attract lesser quality women
/r/seduction03/12/21 01:27 PM
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I’ve heard of this place called Atalanta
/r/seduction03/12/21 12:24 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction17/10/21 02:42 PM
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I agree with this statement but cmon, this is what's getting upvoted? I miss posts that actually added real value, ie applicable lessons, not just bumper stickers.
/r/seduction22/09/21 11:37 PM
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🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction11/09/21 11:22 PM
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This post isn’t helpful to anyone
/r/seduction23/08/21 04:06 PM
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Lots of resources out there for you to use to improve yourself. I don’t want to be a dick, but whining here isn’t going to help you.
/r/seduction22/08/21 02:34 AM
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Outcome independent as they say
/r/seduction13/07/21 03:29 PM
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Get some hobbies. Focus on yourself. It’s easy to be happy and think everything is going your way when you have a full stable. But ultimate peace comes when you’re happy whether or not you have a full rotation or not. Girls will always ebb and flow, it shouldn’t affect your overall happiness. That’s not to say you’re never allowed to be sad or lonely; but, generally you should have activities that keep you and happy and preoccupied.
/r/seduction13/07/21 03:28 PM
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Great post
/r/seduction11/07/21 03:27 AM
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Great post, not a single rule I would discard. A small part of your introduction resonated with me, and I believe it can be the toughest sticking point to overcome for many people in this sub. It’s hard to face the music when you first realize you’ve been doing it all wrong. The first time you know you have in fact have been needy, outcome-dependent, too passive, or scared.... it hurts. I highly recommend to everyone who feels that way to confront the pain or embarrassment. Finding yourself and …
/r/seduction28/06/21 11:54 PM
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If it’s a girl you matched with online, then yea I don’t think a second message ever hurts. Just wait a few days before trying again. If she doesn’t reply then move on.
/r/seduction21/06/21 01:04 PM
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Wait. You can get the same feedback without being pushy. If you hear from her again, you know she’s interested and if not vice versa. If you wait a little bit there’s a chance she may start wondering what you’re up to and message you first. And if not you can try again in a week or so. Usually girls will make you a priority if they like you. So silence is an indication she’s not into you.
/r/seduction21/06/21 12:23 PM
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Either way....
/r/seduction20/06/21 01:23 PM
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Sounds like her opinion means a lot to you.... you literally asked her where you measure up
/r/seduction20/06/21 12:33 PM
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Feedback: your previous post was not that sick of a story. You should find validation from yourself. You should never ask a woman where you measure up against her previous partners. Ever. That shouldn’t matter if you’re a confident guy. It also sounds like your ex keeps you on a string for whenever she wants a cuddle buddy. Break it off with her and quit using her as a crutch. Go find the same confidence she gave you with the compliment by your own means. Don’t seek validation from her.
/r/seduction20/06/21 12:31 PM
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Also quit playing games
/r/seduction11/06/21 01:06 AM
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Intercourse yea?
/r/seduction11/06/21 01:06 AM
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To build on what u/SalesAficionado said, it seems like you have a lot going for you which is huge. Today take active strides towards improving your weight situation. Look up work out routines, gym membership, eating habits. You could work towards losing weight through cardio, a lean bulk (weight lifting) or a mix of the two. There are a million resources out there with workouts and diet plans for each. Remember that the workout means nothing if you don't eat properly. It will take a few weeks to…
/r/seduction11/05/21 04:56 PM
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r/sex
/r/seduction04/02/21 09:14 PM
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Keeping eye contact. Doesn’t matter if you’re giving a flirty line or just normally talking.
/r/seduction26/12/20 07:32 AM
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Yea I think you’re talking about the same thing here. You are right though. It’s about coming off as confident and approachable. The general advice to put on a smile exists because 1) it’s disarming and 2) if you’re actually nervous you can hide behind the smile/good attitude.
/r/seduction20/12/20 03:16 PM
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100000%
/r/seduction11/12/20 07:51 PM
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My favorite thing you said was that he was alpha but without knowing it. People get the wrong idea about the word alpha. Alpha doesn’t mean you’re the toughest guy who can yell the loudest. Usually people who are truly alpha are not trying to be. Being alpha doesn’t even matter. Every man should take a hard look at themselves. I like to say “Confront the Gap”. Really wrestle with what is keeping you from being confident. And eliminate those things or learn to not be bothered by them. Decide what…
/r/seduction11/12/20 03:54 PM
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Key word need. All the behaviors you have described in your post and comments exhibit neediness which is the number one reason girls will run in the opposite direction of you.
/r/seduction27/11/20 07:33 AM
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Being a gentleman and an alpha can go hand in hand. I would even go as far to say that girls want the gentleman alpha. Being alpha is about doing what you want because you want to. In this example you should offer to get her ice cream because you know it’s the right thing to do and you want to do it.... and you’re going to get ice cream for yourself either way whether she wants one or not. Anytime you are offering to do something for someone else, just offer in a matter-of-fact/confident way and…
/r/seduction16/11/20 03:10 PM
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These lessons are best applied to your next target because it’s extremely difficult to change a girls mind about this. The reason is because to show her you’re not needy would require you not texting her. Every time you text her it’s probably going to come off needy. So it’s super tough to recover from this once her mind is made up. You’re best bet is not contacting her ever and hoping you run into her one day. Or may she’ll reach back out. But contacting her first at this point is useless and c…
/r/seduction15/11/20 07:53 PM
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Idk man girls are really good at sniffing out needy behavior and it only takes one instance of coming on too strong to turn her off.
/r/seduction14/11/20 02:50 PM
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This response is confirming my original thought about your post. From your post I gathered that you were scaring this girl off by triple texting her, masking your intentions in “nice guy” behavior and claiming you were following up because you care about her. Then she responds by asking you to give her space. This is a pattern as old as time. I would recommend starting to work on your inner game. You should read No More Mr. Nice Guy or Model if you are interested in personal growth and building …
/r/seduction14/11/20 01:21 PM
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You’re straight up wrong here
/r/seduction13/11/20 11:18 PM
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At this point I think your failing to read between the lines and holding onto technicalities
/r/seduction13/11/20 10:58 PM
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I hear you bro. What I am trying to say is that it’s really tough to recover from this position without seeming more needy because at this point any contact you initiate will annoy her since she already asked you to stop contacting her.
/r/seduction13/11/20 08:46 PM
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It does sound like she liked you. It now sounds like she does not.
/r/seduction13/11/20 07:19 PM
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This is definitely a situation where you move on. Girls begin to send signals that they are either not interested or want more space. In this case you violated her signals by triple texting and outlining your reasoning in an excuse you that are worried about her. So after the signals, she then came out and said she wasn’t interested. Once girls do this it’s basically over. You came on too strong. The best you can do is learn from this and don’t do it to other girls. It’s okay to initiate text co…
/r/seduction13/11/20 06:48 PM
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You attract the energy you put out
/r/seduction12/11/20 02:17 PM
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I think you should prioritize your inner game development over outer game at the moment. From the results you listed it sounds like you are probably exhibiting needy behavior that is driving girls away. I would search this sub for more information on building attraction through confidence. Many people have suggested books like No More Mr. nice Guy or Models to begin your personal development. The games and tactics won’t work if you haven’t figured out who you are. Then you can truly attract some…
/r/seduction12/11/20 12:57 AM
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You may be right but I think OP makes a good point. If you are naturally funny it may help you, but it will work against you if you are trying too hard to be funny and it’s obvious. This is part of a bigger point that OP is trying to make: having confidence and being yourself is an attractive quality (if not the most) in itself. When you try to be funny and it comes off as try-hard or unnatural, people pick up on it. And high quality girls will view anyone who is trying hard/not being yourself a…
/r/seduction11/11/20 07:29 PM
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Exactly and to build on what you said... This is why approaching is considered a numbers game. You could have a “perfect” approach but there are still factors out of your control that could end up with getting denied. As long as you’re being respectful and not creepy, no shame in getting denied. I’m sure you know this just adding this in for other readers.
/r/seduction29/10/20 03:18 PM
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Get their number. Try not to say “can I get your number” but after you build some rapport say something like “how can we do this again” or “I’ve got to go but we should continue this conversation” and if you’ve built attraction from her she’ll give you her number. Giving a girl your number is low risk low reward for you. High value girls do not want a guy not willing to take risks. Plus the girl will only text you if you’ve built a ton of attraction in your approach. But at that point you might …
/r/seduction29/10/20 02:43 PM
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Brother does that seem accurate to you? People meet every day. Perhaps you’ve been told that by someone not interested in you. Women want a man who knows what he wants. And I dont mean that in a sexual or romantic way. Women want someone who is sure of himself and knows where he is going. But it’s all about the energy you put out. And you can’t put out good energy until you know what type of person you want to be.
/r/seduction22/10/20 07:08 PM
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Hey man I mean this from the best place I can. From your post it seems that there are external factors (things out of your control) that are causing you to get upset or to not be happy. Money doesn’t guarantee happiness. Spend some of your alone time identifying what type of man you want to be, and then spend time actively working towards that goal. That goal can change/grow as you do. Focus on improving yourself and genuinely doing things you want to do. I promise good things will come from tha…
/r/seduction22/10/20 07:04 PM
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Yea work on yourself. Who you are as a person.
/r/seduction22/10/20 04:32 PM
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You have the right mindset
/r/seduction22/10/20 01:33 PM
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The “poor me” attitude has never gotten anyone laid
/r/seduction14/10/20 05:50 PM
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Walk in with a smile and be social with as many people as you can
/r/seduction01/10/20 01:25 PM
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When you do the second date doesn’t matter that much. But I always try to follow up the first date with something along the lines of “I had a great time let’s do this again” type text. Keep that flow of those texts conversational/flirty and then throw out a second date idea, time and place and see what she says. I usually like to do the second date on a Sunday and do something outdoors (frisbee at the park/ lunch on a patio/ coffee on a patio) or the same time of the week as the first date becau…
/r/seduction18/09/20 03:05 PM
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Pm me
/r/seduction12/09/20 01:51 AM
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What specifically are you struggling with
/r/seduction11/09/20 10:58 PM
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The first link shows that all the girls you want to talk to are rooting for you to succeed. They want to be approached. The second link should give you some tips on building confidence and how you should present yourself. You should search for posts in this sub about confidence. And search for posts in this sub about building attraction (rather than seduction). You have to be confident in yourself and value yourself highly (without being arrogant) and you will attract a high quality girl. Start …
/r/seduction10/09/20 02:36 PM
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When you text her, send a few short texts. One teasing her and another asking an engaging question. See if her responses are equal in length and substance as yours. You eventually need to set up a second date. So try to do that soon. I would also recommend only replying 1-2 times per day, but when you do send a message make sure there’s a lot of dust Ange and she knows you’re putting effort into the text. The only time to text more is when she has accepted plans and you are determining details.
/r/seduction04/09/20 01:29 PM
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This is great advice. One thing I have noticed is some girls rarely start the conversation and like to be chased. At least at the onset (first 2-3 weeks). So don’t use this as the only odometer of interest. It’s okay for you to start most conversations but gauge their responses. This is more specific to text and setting up dates. Are their communications at least equivalent or longer than yours? Are they giving thoughtful responses and asking you questions too? Do they acknowledge or flirt back …
/r/seduction03/09/20 06:02 PM
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The mental/inner aspect is definitely something you have to work at. Is kind of like working out... it takes time to strengthen your muscles. Inner game is just another muscle we have to work at improving.
/r/seduction30/08/20 02:10 AM
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Focus on building attraction rather than seduction or pick up techniques. The basics like eye contact, sprinkling in flirting to a normal conversation, etc go a long way. Building attraction has a lot to do with how you value yourself and making sure a girl knows you think you are high value. I would search this subs for posts on building attraction.
/r/seduction30/08/20 01:19 AM
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Don’t smoke
/r/seduction23/08/20 04:39 PM
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This is more about inner game. You need to get comfortable with yourself. Then understand that sometimes awkward situations happen. You’ll gel with some people and you won’t with others.
/r/seduction22/08/20 03:14 PM
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Need banter to reference on dates / in texts. Do future you a favor and start creating inside jokes/things to reference back to from the beginning
/r/seduction19/08/20 02:06 AM
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Seduce her into leaving
/r/seduction12/08/20 10:56 PM
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Probably not man. On to the next
/r/seduction11/08/20 09:45 PM
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