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That is a fair assumption. I see self-identified alphas as more of users and players and have less to offer in a LTR, so I’m harsher and colder to them than with other guys. And yeah, this guy fits the bill. I think the only reason I reconsidered him is because he act out a more feminine, vulnerable role (i.e being heartbroken over a hookup). And knowing I fell for a more feminine guy, he was using that against me. Betas (or at least the ones I go for) don’t give me an easy time, and they certai…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 06:30 PM
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Ok, if there’s a different definition of alphas/betas it would be good for me to know. Maybe I do have a misperception of alphas? So maybe I should give a different label to guys like him and dismiss that instead of dismissing alphas. I agree with you that he’s not genuine about his intentions, and will definitely next him.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 04:02 PM
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What do you mean by threatened? I didn’t take him seriously, and was dismissive towards him because he was sexually aggressive and had the associated traits.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 01:13 PM
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Well, I’m going by the definition in this post by u/loneliness-inc. So an “alpha” is a guy who’s sexually aggressive and successful about it, and has the associated traits (aggressive, confident, brash,etc). Which he was with me and a lot of other girls. I don’t buy into the idea that alphas are more successful, better leaders, higher status, or inherently better. I’ve seen guys on both ends of the spectrum with great careers, are popular, and make great team leaders depending on the skillset th…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 12:52 PM
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Thank you for this response. It really gave me a lot more to think about. I guess I just assumed that lust is less meaningful than security , and that a “safe” man would be better for me. But there are definitely seemingly safe men who are selfish about sex. And, I don’t know if alpha has anything to do with it, guys like my date who use sex for intimacy and bonding. And I like what you said about absolute security.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 05:40 AM
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I perversely wish you are right, so I can be right and not worry about hurting someone who might have been good for me. Here’s the text I got after apologizing to him over phone the day after. Thoughts? My inner cynic is saying this is emotional manipulation, but maybe he’s really upset. I think it was very unfair for you to drop me like a sack of potatoes even after I acted like a true gentleman. I'm still contemplating whether we can work out. But you really hurt me bad. Your prejudices ruined…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 04:38 AM
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Deniere Danse- Indilia It's another French song, and the English translations are pretty deep. I also love the raw vulnerability and expressiveness in the music video.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/18 10:42 PM
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That is an interesting point, that women can't provide the emotional support men need without ruining the relationship dynamic. So would that mean men only seek nurturing and empathetic women for their children's sake?
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/18 10:28 PM
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Totally agree that the problem is when masks end up consuming people’s identities. Since you have guy friends, I definitely recommend that you read the book. It portrays these aspects of male behavior from an extreme point-of-view because of the authors’ personal issues. But the insights apply to a surprising amount of guys I know, and the book provides advice for both men and women to deal with those masks. It also helped me be more sympathetic with guys, while not mistaking the masks for who t…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/18 03:59 PM
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The book description above is meant to reflect the author’s perspective, and I do agree with you that he dodged the bullet by placing the blame on society and avoid scrutinizing the role of women’s preferences. But the prominent ideas of masculinity is a complete misunderstanding, by women, of what they want in a relationship. Women admire a man who can control their emotions during a crisis, but they complain when men are emotionally unavailable. Yet a lot of them pursue detached men, mistaking…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/18 02:36 PM
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Love that quote from Peterson. It's why the reformed bad guy is a very popular trope with women.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/18 03:53 AM
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This is the first book I've read that openly addressed men's issues without going the MGTOW or RP route. It really helped me understand in a concrete way why men in my life act and think the way they do. For instance, I've had trouble understanding why men value women's femininity that much and why acting feminine had an impact on the men around me. But if societal expectations deprive men of emotional connection to the extent discussed in the book, it makes sense that they would end up dependin…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/18 03:45 AM
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Personally, I find it easier to get attention from higher league guys in person than on dating apps. I think it’s because I’m not photogenic, don’t know how to improve my selfies, and I don’t know how to show off my body in pics without looking slutty. Also, dating profiles kind of pushes you to market yourself as a particular type. As a CS major and book worm, I ended up pigeonholing myself as a nerd type so mostly nerd types message me back. But in real life, I can connect with people who are …
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/18 06:13 PM
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I went through the same thing in high school. Sure, people said I was "nice" and "sweet" "good girl" in my high school years, and that makes me the conservative ideal. Actually, I was too self-centered and too much of a coward to go out, connect with my peers, and have an interaction beyond superficial politeness. Maybe some of the girls not like me were party bimbos. But a lot of the other girls are social and outgoing, without being slutty or hot. They are the ones in meaningful relationships …
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/18 12:41 AM
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Just sitting down and listing things I'm genuinely grateful for has been pretty helpful for me. It also depends on what you're complaining about. If you're complaining about other people, then there might be an issue of having higher standards for other people than you would for yourself. Here's an example: when I felt disappointed that guys don't approach me confidently, I tried approaching them confidently and realized how incredibly hard it is. By doing the things you might complain of other …
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/18 05:48 PM
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I'm trying to understand why the consensus of this thread seems to be that I'm "stringing" this guy along for being friends with him when he has a girlfriend and his interest in me seems more sexual than romantic. From what I understand, a guy's sexual feelings can involve multiple women without him feeling emotionally invested in any of them. So I don't expect him to feel the same way towards me for long, nor that it'll lead to resentment. But please let me know if I got anything wrong about th…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/18 07:40 PM
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Well, he is a part of my research team which is why I couldn’t break contact in the first place. So what tactic should I use?
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/18 05:06 PM
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Nope
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/18 04:46 AM
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Being stylish is all about knowing what suites you and makes you look unique. Here's an outline of how I got better style: Figure out my body type (e.g ruler, hourglass, apple, etc.). The profile for your type will tell you what cut (shape of the garment) flatters you. Figure out my face shape (oval, square, round, etc.) The profile for your type tells you what hair, makeup, jewlery, and glasses flatter you. Figure out my "season" from seasonal color analysis (e.g deep autumn, bright spring, etc…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/18 03:53 AM
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If you're feeling bold, I think it would be a good idea to ask tell your boyfriend to introduce you to this girl. For one thing, it projects confidence and self-assurance in your own worth. Your boyfriend would either admire it or be freaked out by it. Either way, it will signal to him that he can't be disrespectful towards you without you standing up for yourself. Another reason for getting to know the girl, is that it'll lessen the probability that the she will encourage him. If she sees you a…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/18 02:43 AM
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Totally recommend joining ballet classes. It’s very good for building lean, long muscles on your legs while improving your flexibility and balance. Also, it’s very fun, challenging, and gives you a lot more body awareness. I’ve found that ballet gave me a lot more confidence in how I move my body, and I learned how to project grace. I even got compliments when I practice at the gym. If you do ballet with good form, it is surprisingly strenuous. A ballet session can leave my legs more sore than a…
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/18 08:10 PM
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Do you have a supportive group behind you? A friend or family member who know you well enough could give you just the assurance you need, and it’s much more appropriate to share these issues with that person than with a guy who already decided he doesn’t want to deal with it. This advice comes from my own experience with being ghosted. The guy had been repeatedly glancing at me during class, so I suspected he’s interested in me. I freaked out about approaching him. Then, I stupidly asked to be f…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/18 05:04 AM
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As a student at a typical co-ed college, I would say that my (platonic) interactions with male classmates and professors have been invaluable. The difference from high school is that, for the most part, you’re dealing with more mature and career minded guys who treat you like a colleague, especially when you’re working on projects important to your careers. That’s important to me because it dispels a one dimensional view of men that I see in women who mostly stay in a circle of female friends. I…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/18 03:51 AM
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I’m vegetarian, trying to be vegan. On this issue, I have issues with connecting with my family over meals and fashion, while making the ethical choice. Hope I don’t have to deal with this if I find a partner.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/18 01:11 AM
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Youtube videos are the way to go. You'll find a lot of channels by smart, feminine, beauty savvy, yet career driven women. You can customize what content you get by choosing your subscriptions. Here's my subscription list: Skincare: Lian Yoo, Dr. Dray Fashion: Justine LeConte Beauty: Aly Art All of these channels are neutral to feminism. Some may bring it up occasionally for social commentary, but they don't dwell on their opinions.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/18 03:22 PM
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If you're having trouble keeping yourself motivated, here's one trick that worked for me as a fairly young person. Since taking the red pill, I've found that my biggest motivator for working harder and being a better person was not to help myself, society, or some abstract ideal. It was to help my hypothetical/future children. It might be part of biology, because just imagining how doing the right thing would make me a better mother actually makes me more excited to do things I have trouble comm…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/18 01:46 AM
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