Clearly_Ryan Archive

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7	My brother in laws divorce settlement Martial communism hits the nail on the head. There are no other means of legal theft under capitalism besides divorce settlements. Literally you are protected, as a man, by every avenue of theft in our current system with multiple options for retaliation or recourse... except for divorce. In a divorce you legally get raked over hot coals for years until you bleed out most of your assets. You legally have no say in what you worked for, how hard you worked for it, and the amount you contributed to…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/24 10:14 AM
14	My brother in laws divorce settlement The state doesn't care. It is a mechanism to put the welfare responsibility onto the man so that the state treasury isn't drained covering all the recently divorced single moms flooding the streets every year. It is designed this way by law makers because someone has to feed and house the unemployed women, and it isn't going to be your governor's office.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/24 04:56 AM
3	My brother in laws divorce settlement A man worth a hundred million dollars in my state married a small town clerk. He got a prenup written, recorded, signed and stamped with both party's approval. Multiple lawyers and former judges reviewed it and ensured it was bullet-proof. 6 years later in a divorce it was thrown out by a female judge and the man had to hire the best law firm in the country to fight for the 50 million dollars he was about to lose. Barely won in the appeals court after years of fighting. The prenup is not a guara…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/24 04:53 AM
3	My brother in laws divorce settlement In Massachusetts here. Man, this state will absolutely kill you in the courts. My father had to move from MA to NY when the relationship got bad with his 3rd wife because he didn't want to deal with the communal property clause here. Brother got married here too and is now thinking of moving out because... again the wife he married a year ago became batsh_t crazy sleeping with other men, spending all his money, asking to move to Japan, and not having a kid with him. She is entitled to more than …	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/24 04:44 AM
12	My brother in laws divorce settlement My brother just married an Asian teacher and he is working in the trades. Immediately after the ring gets put on, she quits her job to be a stay at home mom with her two kids (not biologically his). Then she moves back home to Korea to be with her family while bringing her two kids. My brother has been sending her monthly payments of 2 grand to cover their living expenses. Overhead last week that she slept with some guy for cash because she ran out of money. My brother said they'll work through …	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/24 04:22 AM
18	My brother in laws divorce settlement Where was that book recommended on this sub on how divorce settlements are a tool used by states to opt out of welfare responsibilities for divorced women? Like, the states just push that cost onto men because, if they were on the hook, the cost would be enormous? Someone please link the book.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/24 04:16 AM
1	42 M less than a month divorced Commit to the bit bro. As long as you take care of your health and finances, there's nothing you're doing wrong. It's already evident that a married life tethered to one partner is not your thing. Settle your relationship and move on - you shouldn't have to change yourself for anyone. Source: Dude who also sleeps around and has no ragrets.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/12/24 08:23 AM
11	Divorce and splitting up assets - this sucks. Christ, reading this sub is a constant reminder why I am never getting married again. I did it once and thank god I did not have any assets or equity to my name (broke college student right before my first job). It is like modern society took the whole "raking a body over coals" from medieval times and thought "hmm how can we do this in our legal system?"	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/24 08:49 AM
26	Cold approach Good job. Boldness is key.	/r/seduction	12/03/22 11:48 AM
1	How to improve general confidence? Saved. These replies are great.	/r/seduction	11/03/22 04:23 PM
2	What are some places that are meant for hooking up? Tha nks	/r/seduction	27/02/22 11:20 PM
1	Women dont want to BE your life, they want to be IN your life The game is you.	/r/seduction	20/02/22 08:14 AM
4	Going clubbing alone after casual sex Nice	/r/seduction	12/02/22 08:50 PM
1	You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sex I had to walk. She said I failed certain tests she gave me and I wasn't showing enough affection for her. Therefore, I didn't deserve to be anything more than a friend - I was all talk and little action. We had a long conversation on what I could do better for future dates and she gave me helpful advice. Overall, I'm glad I at least made an attempt to move forward and learned a lot.	/r/seduction	11/02/22 07:40 AM
1	You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sex Replied above.	/r/seduction	08/02/22 10:41 AM
3	You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sex Maybe my delivery wasn't that great, but I told her I wanted to move forward with our relationship to something deeper. I'm seeking dates, sex, and romance as I have feelings for you. Said I have to consider other options if she won't escalate the relationship. Told her I know what I'm worth and have to look out after myself, it is my responsibility as a guy. Lastly, mentioned that sex was something we could enjoy and connect with emotionally. Our conversations have been flat lately even though …	/r/seduction	08/02/22 10:41 AM
13	How to determine if a girl is the right person to marry? This is my guy	/r/seduction	06/02/22 10:41 PM