Clingflimg Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	First approaches and what i learned	Field Report	Clingflimg	/r/seduction	24/02/20 05:59 PM

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1	How do you mentally prepare yourself for the day? Agreed - i lost my way bro- i did this for 2 years and was a beast - women were throwing themselves at me too.. feels like a long journey to get back there but can either talk or do.	/r/askTRP	04/12/20 07:14 PM
1	How do you mentally prepare yourself for the day? Was very similar to this and what i want to get back to when gyms open. 4:30 alarm and get shit done - such a great way to start the day	/r/askTRP	04/12/20 07:12 PM
2	Spending Time with GF I want to be more like this guy^	/r/askTRP	04/12/20 04:12 PM
2	Conclusion: I Approached One Girl Every Day For 7 Days - Day 7 7️⃣ - Final Day + Resumé - This Changed My Life So true. Numbers don't equal dates. The real challenge is making a connection on a dead stop in the street - its pretty fking hard to do and this is the skill you should be looking to build next as that translates to more (not just with the girl but you're social skills in general) than just having the guts to approach, compliment and get out of there with the number.	/r/seduction	03/03/20 04:36 PM
1	First approaches and what i learned Girl 7 Coffee shop. I was in a trendy coffee shop and 2 girls were walking past 'Excuse me - i know this is a bit random but your boots are suede and its raining heavy out there how do you keep them in such good condition as i just bought a pair and don't want to ruin them' She smiled and gave me some advice - showed me a product that she uses on her phone 'Thanks - where are you girls off to then as i'm heading out with some friends later and wondered if you would like to join us' 'Oh sorry - w…	/r/seduction	02/03/20 12:56 PM
1	First approaches and what i learned Girl 6. I was walking home and a girl was coming up some steps beside me. Again i used the 'i know this is random but i wanted to buy somebody a coffee so you can help me out' line but only after i'd say 'excuse me are you on your way home'. It flustered me as it sounded creepy to me. This time i got her name and wished her all the best. Girl 7. I was in the supermarket and i seen a very exotic looking girl. 'Excuse me, do you speak English?' 'Yes, a little' 'Are you Spanish?' 'No, Portuguese' '…	/r/seduction	27/02/20 05:40 PM
11	One Approach Every Day Challenge Day 4 4️⃣ Yes. Asking someone straight away to grab a coffee without any small-talk is unlikely to work. Imagine if a guy came up to you (even though you are male, i assume) and said 'hey man, you look like a decent guy - lets go grab a coffee'. Even if you were sure there was no sexual connotation involved here you'd almost certainly be suspect. Now if he came up and said something like 'excuse me, I'm new to the area here and was looking for your best recommendation for coffee around here where would yo…	/r/seduction	27/02/20 05:33 PM
1	First approaches and what i learned Girl 5 - Opinion I was shopping for shoes with a friend. He wandered off and i seen this young hot girl walking towards the same section 'Excuse me - listen i know you don't work here but come here for a second - i need a female opinion and you look like you know a bit about style' She followed 'Do you think these shoes look cheap?' She did that look as if 'this is bizarre - whats happening..' 'yeah, i think they do' 'hmmm me too - i would ask my friend but hes wandered off looking at other thin…	/r/seduction	26/02/20 02:18 PM
1	First approaches and what i learned Thanks for that response. I think ultimately it is finding the right mix of confidence and dominance whilst not going too far. I'm an older guy so the women i interact with perhaps perceive things a little different than say a girl of 18-25 would - hopefully that doesn't come across as patronizing to anyone older reading this!	/r/seduction	26/02/20 02:06 PM
1	First approaches and what i learned Yes - the aim is to progress it a bit further and get a number or a push things a bit further than just the comfort zone of knowing i’m leaving whilst things feel like they’re in my control. I need to step into the zone where rejection is possible as without that risk acceptance isnt possible either - if you know what i mean!	/r/seduction	25/02/20 03:53 PM
1	First approaches and what i learned Ok girl 4 we’ll call it. I was walking during lunch and missed a few girls flinging me eye contact and was heading back towards work and a woman was standing looking at holidays outside a travel shop. ‘Hi, do you speak English?’ ‘Yea’ ‘I’m hoping you can help me’ ‘I font know about that’ ‘Are you from around here?’ ‘Well i live here’ ‘Ok, well this is a bit weird but i have this thing going on where i but somebody a coffee. I was just in the coffee shop and there was nobody in the queue. So inst…	/r/seduction	25/02/20 03:00 PM
1	First approaches and what i learned Thanks for the feedback. So would you say the use of nice applies for cold stops too to initiate conversation? Yea the dominance of the statement rather than the question is something i agree on but of course getting the number is more about staying in there. Not a compliment and run. Thats where i’m at for now.	/r/seduction	25/02/20 02:54 PM
1	How do you keep the mystery alive? You do it by being a fcking mystery. 1. No social media. 2.Always busy but spontaneous contact to keep the wheels turning. 3. Be vague if she asks about your personal plans and things you got up to don’t detail your day. If you’re struggling with always being busy start finding hobbies and new things to do.	/r/seduction	29/12/19 10:14 PM
1	How frequent are your texts with a girl you're dating (but not exclusive with yet)? Amen and you have to find a balance. I’ve overdid it and under did it and its tricky to get right especially when they start chasing so often - its almost a red flag for me these days.	/r/seduction	29/12/19 10:09 PM
1	Tried to get rejected...did. Either that or another option is to excuse yourself and go close by to the bar / where ever is close and ask for a pen then return and write your number down for her..or even better pre prepare you number on the inside of a gum packet and return with it as if you’ve just written it ad hoc.. and say ‘heres my number -drop me a message during the week’. I’ve done this a few times and its got a good strike rate and sometimes they’ll just give you their number there and then too. The reason i think …	/r/seduction	29/12/19 10:04 PM
1	Texting Dont text anything. See her at the date - you need to appear as though you assume the dates on. If the details aren’t set ring her the day before and just say ‘what time are you free tomorrow’ then tell her the time and make an excuse to end the call and tell her you’ll see her tomorrow.	/r/seduction	29/12/19 09:54 PM