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| 2 | Texting her 2 weeks after first date? Bad to wait? | Cloud9Now | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 08:54 AM |
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| 4 | When she comes back after ghostingInstead of trying to psychologically "punish" her, why not just indicate to her how unaffected you are? I know you probably want to get some sort of leverage and regain your status of importance to her, but you gotta let that go for now. It's not as productive as you would think. It's important to look ahead, she wants to meet you next weekend right? Forget today, focus on next weekend. In the meantime portray yourself as high value with options. Also, if this is the only girl you're talking to … | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 01:38 AM |
| 2 | How do you personally justify allowing girls back into your life who previously ghosted you?It’s much easier to next someone once they reach out to you after ghosting you, but at the end of the day you appear as a salty dude who takes shit too seriously. I have the same personality as you as in if I get disrespected I feel like I have to disrespect the person twice as much to get even. It’s worked for me, but it has also worked against me. If someone shit talks me, I will shit talk them, as a way of demanding respect. I will not tolerate shit from people. There comes a time where you j… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 05:42 AM |
| 3 | I'm afraid of successAfraid of success. Interesting. The only time I could hear someone say this is if they are truly not ready for success. Maybe some of these girls are out of your league for now. For example, if a super attractive dude who is able to attract babes effortlessly, but has nothing going on for himself, he might feel unworthy of dating such high caliber girls and escalating further. If the dude has nothing to offer, no car, no job, while they are completely opposite of that, it might be unusual to kee… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Texting her 2 weeks after first date? Bad to wait?It's not about me trying to play games, I fucking hate that shit. All i'm saying is that there is no opportunity for us to hang out for the next 2 weeks because we both have exams and i'm not going to drag this girl out during this time period. I'm trying to avoid casually texting her, as I use the phone only for setting dates. If there were no exams coming up, I would already attempt making plans with her. The only issue I have is: should I text now and make plans for after she is done exams (1… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Texting her 2 weeks after first date? Bad to wait?Well said, I was attempting to put it all together in a similar way but you elaborated it here. I guess this is a bit of a unique situation, where there is a mandatory 2 week+ gap of not being able to set a definite date, so a small "Hey how you doing" in-between isn't really a regrettable mistake; Especially since I know this girl had a high level of interest during the date. Additionally, if I remember correctly, the past 2 weeks of talking we have talked 1 time / week maximum, so this is not … | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Texting her 2 weeks after first date? Bad to wait?Well said, I was attempting to put it all together in a similar way but you elaborated it here. I guess this is a bit of a unique situation, where there is a mandatory 2 week+ gap of not being able to set a definite date, so a small "Hey how you doing" in-between isn't really a regrettable mistake; Especially since I know this girl had a high level of interest during the date. Additionally, if I remember correctly, the past 2 weeks of talking we have talked 1 time / week maximum, so this is not … | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 09:43 AM |
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