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Cloud_Riverdale/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/17 03:15 AM
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At least you didn't get banned! I'd be curious to question if the man has Low T, or how bad his porn problem is. There's not enough information to go on, it could also be an affair.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/19 06:20 AM
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I don't know your situation at all, but if he's staying at home while you're working... I get it that you're tired and frankly, not that attracted to him. However, the thing about male desire... Is that it Never. Ever. Turns. Off. (or if it does, it means the man is very unhealthy.) I have sex nearly every day and that is not always enough. Will he read a book like Sex God Method by Daniel Rose? Or Married Man's Sex Life by Athol Kay? You can torrent these books before buying them.
/r/RedPillWives11/02/19 06:13 AM
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Oh honey... Seriously, saying "no" to sex and now you're actually surprised things are bad? Dang... At the same time, having him "ask" for sex is not redpill or how human sexuality actually works. Women don't like to be asked, they want to be romanced or flirted with a bit. I get that he might need to work on his game and learn how to flirt better. AT the moment, you have to negotiate some new rules around sex with him, like "if you ask I won't say no, barring exceptional circumstances like I'm …
/r/RedPillWives11/02/19 01:18 AM
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He feels really, really rejected by you. Even if it's just the hormones and not you intentionally. From the "For her eyes only" they're emphatic (and correct) that for men, Sex is Love. No sex means he doesn't feel loved. At a more primitive level, it makes men innately insecure if they're not making love to you regularly. Their monkey brain says "if I'm not doing her, some other chode must be making regular deposits... She must be getting it somewhere else." Or it can be "I must be unworthy of …
/r/RedPillWives11/02/19 12:56 AM
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So much this!!
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/19 02:42 AM
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What a rough set of life experiences. I feel for you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/19 12:38 AM
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In addition, you may have to say, "I've already apologized for that and won't again. That said, I see how my tone would make you feel judged and unsafe." But at the same time, it sounds like you two haven't shared all of your dating history with each other and it's a sore point. So you reopened the wound by likely using bad/accusatory tone with her.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/19 04:46 AM
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Once a woman feels judged, she will not feel safe with you at all. That's a hard hole to crawl back out of. It sounds like you're not providing enough comfort, empathy and a safe space for her. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iH6xVRjBYm4 It also sounds like you haven't gotten very far if you think "Game" is your problem. Athol Kay has an excellent video series, I suggest you start watching it.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/19 04:44 AM
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Have you ever actually fully apologized to her for calling her a slut?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/19 04:38 AM
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Do any of his friends have children? Is this based on a dislike of other people's children? Plenty of men aren't big on other people's kids, but love their own.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 10:41 PM
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I suggest reading some Jordan Peterson on how to be more assertive and disagreeable. It will be good for you. There's being polite/submissive and then there's being a doormat.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/18 02:30 AM
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Um, I'm going to chime in and say the vibrator has made it hard (hehe) for you to orgasm to regular sex. Quite using it, it is literally numbing your vagina.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/18 04:18 PM
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It sounds like there is something else going on here that you're not willing to admit to yourself yet.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/18 04:17 PM
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For Women Only https://www.amazon.com/Women-Only-Revised-Updated-About/dp/1601424442 Great book on understanding not just men, but the distribution of how men might think on a given subject.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/18 10:42 PM
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It doesn't hurt to find out if his porn use has increased. Most guys will lie about it rather than tell the truth, IMO. However, it does sound like he'd really like to spend time with you at the gym, which will help you look better. I'd go with him.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/18 03:31 AM
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We've talked about it since I made this post. She really, really gets it now if she didn't before. Even though we have sex all the time, one day I finally just said to her, "You know, just because we have sex all the time doesn't mean I enjoy it much." I added something else to the end, but can't recall it exactly. Before, I kept saying I needed more from her, whether energy, playfulness, touching me more, talking to me in bed, to be etc. It didn't get very far. Since then? It's been quite surpr…
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/18 03:06 AM
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Sad but true. My wife and I recently got some books that purple pill "For His Eyes Only, For Her Eyes Only" by Shaunti Feldman and her husband. As well as reading Laura Doyle's books. They talk about husbands as these great, amazing guys that just LOVE their wives. Who just wish to please them SO much. I hate to say it... I don't. My wife is 250 lbs. 170 when we married, and genuinely big boned. She had a flat stomach and no rolls back then. Now? hahahahhahahahha oh god why am I crying? I read t…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 05:12 AM
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You get a red pill life coach who by now has seen hundreds of clients. He has excellent abilities for identifying what is going wrong in your life. He identifies issues you don't even know you're having. You can honestly tell him "My wife is fat and I have huge attraction problems" and he will say "That is a real problem". I tried telling that to my blue pill therapist, (a dude) who just thought I was an asshole. Or for good luck, trying telling anyone in the general population your wife is a fa…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/17 04:12 AM
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Dude, I strongly suggest hiring Athol Kay. I believe he is one of the only red pill life coaches you can find. You need serious, serious help. Have you even read his book "Married Man's Sex Life"? Because it sounds like you are afraid of talking to her about it, or don't know how to delicately bring up her weight. Others have brought your clear lack of leadership. I used his services for a full in 2013/14. He really made a HUGE difference and helped turn my life around. atholkay.com I also know …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/17 06:20 AM
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They also ban men. Hmm.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/17 03:47 AM
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It's also possible to dive too deep into the TRP. I think it's time to shutoff the internet, and join some local clubs and meet real people again to restore some limited (not naive) faith in humanity.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 04:32 AM
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