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Yeah okay no see that’s the thing it’s the original ‘I want to have sex with you’, that will freak someone out, but so will getting to know someone just to reveal your intention underneath it all was to have sex. There is definitely a middle ground to that, also wanting sex is not the same as wanting a relationship. It is not fair on anyone involved to build a bond on a false premise if the reality is one side just wants to get sex out of the encounter, of course that hurts and feels like betray…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/25 09:00 AM
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If you’d let me offer a counterpoint I can explain why they react so harshly, I’ve often seen women expressing wanting friends who are guys whilst being able to remain friends, they enter the friendship only expecting it to be a friendship and a lot of them then end up experiencing that they are not able to have a single male friend who doesn’t end up having a crush on them and they become frustrated because they felt like that friendship was built on an expectation for more. That being said, as…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/25 08:12 AM
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I’ll be saying both this month 🗣️🗣️
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/25 11:12 AM
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Abolition of roles primarily, bio essentialism has little standing and dividing labour based on it stops people from truly playing to their own strengths. Also gender is not biological, you are talking about sex if you are talking about biological, which also is not binary as it’s not just male and female (there are as many intersex people as ginger people ((from Anne Fausto-Sterling’s 2000 review)).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/25 08:02 AM
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Where in standing I see gender abolition as ideal but basically not possible
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/25 10:13 PM
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Non binary person here for attendance hellooo
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/25 02:41 PM
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Some of yall taking offense to trans women being mentioned in the movement as if trans women aren’t the most obvious and blatant example of how society views anything seen as masculine as inherently dangerous.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/25 10:12 PM
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A really great example of this is Mary Kay Letourneau, this a great point but I’m a guy haha
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/02/25 09:11 PM
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This is not rage bait look at the other posts
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/25 08:28 PM
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Nuh uh, I don’t have to have good grammar to make a point
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/24 06:16 AM
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Right??
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/12/24 08:15 PM
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Im going to be sick
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/24 09:50 PM
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Random contemporary example,Kevin AMF, a 16 year old boy doing a collab with Bbtrickz a 24 yr old girl where they rap about having sex???? Insane, music video and everything and even interviews where they get asked if they’re dating..like it’s normal??
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/24 09:41 PM
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THIS THIS THIS !!!!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/24 09:40 PM
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As someone who is currently studying crime at a level this is PERFECT thank you so much f or sharing <33
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/09/24 06:01 AM
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Some social medias are iffy about the talk of dark terms and I’m just used to typing it like that atp
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/09/24 02:24 PM
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I’m sorry but fraud being comparable to rape is an actually crazy sentence I fear. How about instead focusing on cases where men have been sexually assaulted by women in terms of comparison, ofc I’m not dumb enough to say the rates will be officially representative because the laws around r4pe as well as SA are made around the assumption of a male perpetrator always and therefore cases brought against women by men are never counted as criminal, but with the stories of those brave enough to come …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/09/24 02:06 PM
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This is horrible omg I hope he’s okay :(
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/24 02:15 PM
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THIS!!! When men display ‘feminine’ behaviour on their own terms and not in reponse to a woman, then it’s suddenly ‘you sure he’s not gay?’ Or ‘icky’ and it DRIVES ME UP THE WALL
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/24 02:03 AM
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That’s so horrible, you deserve so much better than that, I’m sorry you were accused of that. And god, with autism?? That’s so rough man the threshold for us can be a lot lower I can’t imagine disassociating whenever my emotions come up the way they do, I hope you’re able to find a place of comfort and safety one day where you’re able to get back in touch with your ability to cry, and I’m sorry this general society couldn’t provide that for you
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/24 01:03 PM
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This is actually very interesting do you know any sources on this I’d love to do a deep dive !
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/24 10:26 PM
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This is how I feel. This is EXACTLY how I feel
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/24 10:23 PM
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First of all I’d like to say that from the bottom of my heart I am so incredibly sorry you’ve been victimised and abused and given no support, if you ever want to talk about it please feel free to drop me a message, I was victimised by girls my age as a kid, I understand <3 No one should have to live in a world where they fear reporting their abuse would potentially portray them as an abuser. thank you so much for the sources and stats !! <3 Wishing you the best
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/24 07:59 AM
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Oh okay thanks !
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/24 07:56 AM
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I immediately then said that those statistics would be skewed did I not ???💀
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/24 07:55 AM
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Ofc! The textbooks I’ve been working on are form screenshots, so much of our learning has been moved onto computes but I know my teachers will have physical copies and names let me ask them :)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/24 07:54 AM
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I’d say socialised rather than inherently but this falls under the sex role theory!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/24 06:27 AM
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Although this is generalised, I do see the point and it is true, women expect men to fight for them, this includes providing even under criminal circumstances. Also the idea that women know they are physically weaker and therefore have to be more creative with their crimes, if their crimes do need violence, they probably won’t carry out said violence themselves and therefore they don’t get dealt the sentence of a violent crime since they don’t physically commit said violent crimes. From a sociol…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/24 04:42 PM
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But I didn’t pretend, I acknowledged that the statistics wouldn’t be representative because of our society :(
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/24 04:24 PM
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Thank you for your time!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/24 04:12 PM
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That’s where I’d point out fraud and white collar crime tho
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/24 03:52 PM
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Do you know where I could find a source for the first point? I’d like to include it in my notes !
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/24 03:51 PM
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Date up?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/24 03:49 PM
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That’s what my textbook says! And the chivalry thesis works on the basis that men in CJS are more lenient with women. A.k.a, chivalry. So the ‘more women in CJS’ point devalues that specific thesis. That thesis was never about misandry, that would be a different point, and one I would be interested in, do you have any suggestions about where I could look?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/24 03:48 PM
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I’m quoting from textbooks, the biological theories are outdated because they point to testosterone as a main initiative to commit crime, except it’s not because of the reasons I stated in the original post. I’d also disagree with the second point, purely because it seems like there’s more male geniuses because men were given access to education earlier than women. I’m sure these biological factors play a part, they must do from an evolutionary stand point, but we choose as a society which trait…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/24 03:46 PM
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That’s a helpful insite thank you, haven’t heard of the breadwinner theory but I’ll take a deep dive thank you! If you find any resources for the chivalry thesis please let me know too, all the textbooks I’ve been given so far have had more evidence against the thesis than for it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/24 03:40 PM
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I like this point thanks for sharing !
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/24 03:39 PM
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So your saying that when women do do crime, they get a man to be the scapegoat?/gen
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/24 03:38 PM
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Women can’t get cant get charged with rape ??? Wow, surely they can get charged with SA tho. Comparison of those statistic would apply right? But then again men are less likely to be believed as victims, and women aren’t thought ‘capable’ of committing that abuse so I’m sure the statistics are shitty regardless
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/24 03:37 PM
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The homeless point is brilliant I’ll include it in my notes thank you! And you’re correct, men being more at risk of addiction would also contribute to higher crime, I can’t include the sentencing statistics because it kind of falls apart when seriousness of crime is taken into account + women facing more serious sentences than men for more menial crimes. But please let me know if you find anything else :)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/24 03:35 PM
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If I had a nickel for every time a woman has made a song literally shaming men for ‘finishing fast’, having a small penis, being emotional or not earning a lot of money, I would be a hella rich person. The amount of women, feminists included that make fun of men for showing a shred of ‘feminine behaviour’ makes me so mad
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/24 01:53 PM
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As long as people still have decency and the sense to question their beliefs and what’s popular, there is hope- From someone who used to think it was okay to joke about generalising men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/06/24 12:14 PM
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I see this all the time it’s super infuriating, some of them even seem to take offense to dating a bi man and also make fun of men for displaying ‘masculine traits’, and being queer doesn’t fall under this expectation so they mistreat men for it or it’s always a punchline, drives me up the wall
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/24 10:03 PM
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I ended up on Men’s rights Reddit cause I was looking into Amy Winehouse’s abuse of her ex husband (I thought it was rlly weird that ppl have been skipping over it) And when I did I ended up asking the community if MRM and feminism could ever coexist, cause I’d always assumed the dismantling of the patriarchy would benefit men too. Without ever realising that all this time that feminism claims to allow men the space to talk about their own issues, when it doesn’t. Feminism will actively make fun…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/24 07:18 PM
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As someone who’s being won over by the internet, please don’t give up. If people hadn’t taken the time to give me sources rather than yell at me that they’re right I wouldn’t be on this sub now, curious to find out more. I know it’s a tough effort, but it does reach people!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/24 08:23 AM
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No nooo sorry, rephrase, what’s the alternative? Many ppl I know identify with feminism simply cause we see it as a way of women finding equality, not realising it’s oppressive traits, so how do we move forward?
/r/MensRights26/05/24 08:09 PM
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Although it does set my defenses of I can understand why I’m not being welcomed with open arms, but at the end of the day comments with genuine responses helped me much more than those who just wanted to be mean and that’s worth noting. I’ve always just accepted toxic masculinity as being a thing because I’ve seen it affect those around me, small example being: my brother being told he needs to man up by my dad. So to be honest I can’t see how that side of it wrong, but the resources will be hel…
/r/MensRights26/05/24 09:06 AM
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Yeah I agree with you I’m seeing it a lot now, I’ve often heard feminists tell men that it’s not fair to bring up male statistics in response to female statistics and that men can find spaces to do this and feminism would support them in doing so. And yet I’ve only seen this in theory and never in practice it’s like going ‘don’t bring your cake to this party because we’re all eating this one, if you have your own party we will eat your cake’ except they never show up to the party and never want …
/r/MensRights26/05/24 08:57 AM
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That would be true if we didn’t see this largely affecting men more than it does women, women are encouraged to be open with one another and fight against people telling them to stop being emotional, men are expected to suck it up and reflect this on to each other
/r/MensRights26/05/24 08:53 AM
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I’ll be questioning them soon too so wish me luck, I’ll let y’all know how it goes
/r/MensRights26/05/24 08:08 AM
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…feeling very called out as someone who never read the dissertations, damn. I only know what I know from my perception of the world around me as well as being online and the people I’ve been around, I though u knew what feminism was and apparently I do not, I’ve been given advice about where to look for information, thanks for the reply 🫶
/r/MensRights26/05/24 07:34 AM
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Thank you so much!
/r/MensRights26/05/24 07:31 AM
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This abt sums up my personality I would say yeah
/r/MensRights26/05/24 07:29 AM
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Toxic Masculinity can hurt men, the type of masculinity that shuns being emotional, or liking feminine things. Anyway, yes I’m seeing that men are shunned by feminism and you’re right to be upset with me for calling that a feeling, feminism does not do enough to actually stand up for men, they just say they are and sweep men’s issues under the rug, I’ve been given suggestions by other comments as to where to start doing more research and that’ll be helpful. This comment? Not so helpful, but I ju…
/r/MensRights26/05/24 07:28 AM
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Thank you for this comment, there so much here I hadn’t heard about it and it breaks my heart in two, especially as someone who is from the Uk this is so sad and I’m shocked I didn’t know this by myself, and that it doesn’t seemed to have gain much online traction. Thanks for the suggestions about what subs to join I definitely will, you’re correct about leading by example and I’ve been looking to do some volunteering for a while and didn’t even know this type of work was available. Feminism can…
/r/MensRights26/05/24 07:22 AM
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Hey don’t be sarcastic with me I wasn’t trying to be rude :( This is genuinely a good idea I have questions for people in that sub now too, some of these responses have been rlly insightful!
/r/MensRights26/05/24 07:13 AM
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Replying to this comment as a general response: There are many different types of comments in reply to this, majority of them disagreeing with me which is fine, thanks for taking the time to explain. The main feedback I seem to see is that feminism fails to hold the women who are misandrist accountable. True. I wish more people would, I wish women would turn to one another and ask them why they are choosing to be hateful. I’ve seen comments that also say the patriarchy doesn’t harm men, but I’ve…
/r/MensRights26/05/24 07:10 AM
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