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| 3 | Are some men truly content with never finding love?Edit: I’m not asking if one can be happily single but if someone can really be fine with the prospect of never being in love and have it reciprocated, to never be in a relationship - ever Some people probably, but most people are just trying to make the best out of a bad situation in a sour grapes type reaction (which sounds like your friend). He clearly has some idea and desire regarding love or he wouldn't have bothered asking for help or used bumble etc. A lot of the modern world is trying to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Most marriages ending in divorce are happy until a sudden, abrupt event triggers the breakdown of the marriageThat's...not what I was saying either? I'm saying putting the emphasis on humans as novelty seeking obfuscates the degree of difference between people (due to personality/genetics/environment whatever) since some need very little ("boring") and some need a lot ("exciting"). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Most marriages ending in divorce are happy until a sudden, abrupt event triggers the breakdown of the marriageThe degree of novel stimulation necessary to be "happy" is incredibly diverse and dependent on personality types and to a degree societal expectations. Humans evolved to receive stimulation - it's what our brains reward us for. The word "stimulation" here is doing a lot of work here. One person might get enough stimulation out of doing crossword puzzles while another wants to skydive to get an adrenaline high. I'm not sure saying humans are especially evolved to seek "stimulation" over other ani… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Most guys aren't really trying that hardDo you have a decent social network? Then a "glow up" will help you substantially. Are you the bottom 50% of men who have small "loser" social networks? It will help you little. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Most guys aren't really trying that hardYes, they don't have to do those things to have options. They can do those things to have better options. A man has to do those things to have any options at all and even then it will be a far smaller set of options. Women and men should both work on self improvement for various reasons, including sexual-social options, but it isn't really the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 06:49 PM |
| 2 | is it important for men and women to share political beliefs while dating?Not in an absolute way, it's some mix of politics and personality types. A "laid back" Republican might get along with the average moderate liberal, at least in terms of politics, while someone else with the same beliefs who constantly brings up politics and pushes things might be incompatible with a much larger swathe of people. I've seen plenty of politically mixed couples do fine - it's only when one or the other partner gets really "into" their politics that it drives couples apart (Trump pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 11:09 PM |
| 15 | Men on here confuse assertiveness with being an assholeTLDR: You don’t have to be a raging misogynist to get women. Just because there’s an overlap between two doesn’t mean that those woman actively look for assholes. Don’t confuse confidence, self reliance and charm with being an asshole. Sure, you don't have to be an asshole or "bad boy" to get women. Decent looking nice guys with confidence can do great with (some) women. But I've seen way too many women make "excuses" (really just telling you to fuck off) for their boyfriends behavior, writing i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 06:43 PM |
| 8 | Men on here confuse assertiveness with being an assholeNo human should expect that someone will be nice to them because they are nice Practically maybe they shouldn't but that's actually a pretty reasonable expectation (being nice, not fucking them) in a civilized society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Which man would woman rather date? (look below)Depends on what you mean by "arthouse" - as a culture mostly yes, I know a few painters and photographers that call themselves conservatives though and I wouldn't say they're out of the ordinary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Which man would woman rather date? (look below)You can pass fitness tests while having a dad bod | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Which man would woman rather date? (look below)A fat person would rather date another fat person because they can sit around all day watching Netflix and eating cake without being judged. Maybe these fat people are on to something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 06:12 PM |
| 0 | Which man would woman rather date? (look below)Hoisted by my own retard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 06:11 PM |
| 5 | Which man would woman rather date? (look below)Conservatives similar to this exist 90% of conservatives are just liberals who are critical of the welfare state | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 06:09 PM |
| 4 | Which man would woman rather date? (look below)socially liberal and fiscally conservative. *dry heaving* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you grade the looks of someone of your own race harder than somone from a different one?You're free to think what you like. Brazilians are by far the most attractive. Turkish (MENA) people come into close second. I doubt you have actually lived around Brazilians. They mostly look the same as any other Latin American group. But if they do it for you then help yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 06:06 PM |
| 7 | Which man would woman rather date? (look below)Height, attractiveness, and income all correlate positively with being conservative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Which man would woman rather date? (look below)But...I'm reading this right now fuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Are looks really objective?BTW Jennifer Aniston is extremely plain. I don't find her that attractive but you're out of your mind if you think she's extremely plain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Are looks really objective?Game/personality is more important to gay men for a relationship. It's easier to get gay sex but for a lot of gay men, it's hard to find a relationship. Personality and value compatibility I can see, but game? Seems like that would be by far the easiest part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Are looks really objective?Attraction is more subjective than "beauty" - people usually thought of as 8 or 9's are beautiful but it's certainly possible to not be strongly attracted or even bored by them. I always thought a lot of model level women in the 90's were sort of boring and plasticy looking, they just didn't have sex appeal to me as a horny teen even though I could see they were beautiful. There's the aesthetics of the thing and then there's actual arousal. Conversely you also get people that aren't beautiful bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Just be nazi theoryNot where I'm at. I see white women with black guys who are short(ish), ugly, out of shape, dressed poorly etc. I'm sure the "Tyrone" stereotype does great with college chicks but I see very average black guys with UMC looking white girlfriends walking the street of my (Southern decently large) city everyday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 12:10 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou really have some issues with men older than college age huh? You should see a therapist for whatever trauma you had. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 12:07 AM |
| 3 | Hard truth: The reason you're single is not because you're ugly it's because you're mentally ill and shitty at hiding it.Alright, but what's the reason for womens fetishization of mental illness? Did they just get bored of labeling everyone with a personality they didn't like as ADHD or autistic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Fact checking FDSIt's far more likely that both forms of HIV were contracted through repeated exposure to SIV in the extremely unsanitary conditions of third world meat markets than multiple men were having sex with monkeys and chimps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 08:17 PM |
| -1 | Do women seriously think they are treated better in today’s society then patriarchal 1950s America?Harsh but if that's how you feel about them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Whats the best advice you can give to young men for todays world?Based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Whats the best advice you can give to young men for todays world?All good specific social advice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Whats the best advice you can give to young men for todays world?Unless you're specifically planning to work overseas or in an industry with a lot of overseas engagement I don't see how this is really supposed to help you much. There aren't going to be mobs of Westerners moving to China or India. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Whats the best advice you can give to young men for todays world?Modern culture is garbage that produces mentally unstable, depressed losers and you should try as much as possible to build a social circle that isn't too heavily "into" mainstream modern culture. Might not be that possible but the most important thing is to not internalize those values too much. If you don't find a long term partner in your early 20's, consider looking overseas for your ethnic origin match. You don't have to put up with women who treat you like shit and hate you and themselves.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 07:09 PM |
| 8 | Most men here find this average woman attractive and would date her, most women here do not find this average man attractive and would not date himEspecially after makeup/hair - she could easily be an 7 or 8 Not a chance in hell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Most men here find this average woman attractive and would date her, most women here do not find this average man attractive and would not date himBased | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Most men here find this average woman attractive and would date her, most women here do not find this average man attractive and would not date himKeep coping | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 07:02 PM |
| 0 | Most men here find this average woman attractive and would date her, most women here do not find this average man attractive and would not date himThey're both looksmatched 5's The girl can probably get 100+ matches in an hour on any OLD site, the guy will get 0. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 07:00 PM |
| -1 | Do women seriously think they are treated better in today’s society then patriarchal 1950s America?I got to fuck around, go to kink clubs, go to college, not get married, not have children, have multiple partners and be out about it. In the 1950's my particular career wouldn't have been available to women. Gross | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 06:55 PM |
| -1 | Do women seriously think they are treated better in today’s society then patriarchal 1950s America?Hitting and abusing women was never socially acceptable, it might be ignored depending on the severity and context, but men could and were beaten themselves up the point of even being lynched, usually by other groups of local men, for domestic abuse. Revisionist history is when you ignore the actual social dynamics and realities in which pre modern people lived. Men and women both had social norms they were obligated to follow, one of the most universal (at least in Western Europe...) was that y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Women’s high standards are a net positiveNope. Marriage rates and fertility is in a cliff dive and gen Z is only accelerating the trend. "It will all work out in the end" is the type of attitude that led to society becoming so socially fucked up in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Women’s high standards are a net positiveWomen having standards are great and necessary for a healthy society. Modern womens standards are uh, not great though. Don't conflate criticism of womens standards with saying they shouldn't have any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 06:47 PM |
| 5 | Congratulations women of ppd, you've forced me to use finasteride and risk having limp dick and titties just for hairThe likelihood of significant effects from finasteride are exaggerated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 06:36 PM |
| 0 | Do you think you grade the looks of someone of your own race harder than somone from a different one?I'm more aware of what constitutes attractive looks for my own (white) race. It's harder to rate other races in the 4-7 zone, the top and the bottom are fairly easy to call for any race though. Then again I think whites are simply more attractive on average than any others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Do you see the attack on white men getting worse as western societies gain more immigrants and white people are having fewer children?Jealous of? Sure, maybe some are. But let's be real, you're a "conservative" who would probably be disgusted by your own grandparents views. What makes you a conservative? Supporting low taxes? Being pro life? How much time do you spend criticizing white women for fucking and dating men who probably hate white mens guts? Have families that are nothing like their own? Support AA and other initiatives that discriminate against white children so their own mixed kids can get ahead? Probably none rig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 06:25 PM |
| 0 | Do you see the attack on white men getting worse as western societies gain more immigrants and white people are having fewer children?No. My grandpa was alive when there were black and white segregated fountains. He’s in his eighties. That history is not as far away as you think it is. Alright, fair enough. Also this isn’t new. People used to be targeted for being communists, black, partially black, Native American, German, Irish, Japanese, I can go on forever. This is really an American tradition. “That isn't freedom.” Really. You think? That’s what everyone but white men have been saying since forever. And white men were lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Fact checking FDSIt was probably from hunting/eating them actually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Do males know how unattractive they are?Cope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 03:06 PM |
| 6 | Girl on the left cooks, cleans, loves and respects you and is loyal...girl on right fucks your brains out daily but can't cook or clean and is a huge cheating risk, who you choosing?Also for the incels who want to call women who are 7/10- 8/10 “average”, the woman on the left is what an average looking woman truly looks like cope she's below average | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Racial Preferences in DatingI'm not sure how that makes what I said wrong? Asian Americans are the most urbanized demographic group, a third of them are in California cities and the rest are mainly concentrated in New York, Chicago, and a few other Southern and Midwestern cities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Racial Preferences in DatingLiberal metros are the only places that have significant Asian American populations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 02:03 PM |
| 1 | There's hope guys!Half of these are looks matched | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Childfree people is cope. They are just childless nihilist hedonist.I don't think they're coping. They're just parasites and proud of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Which would you prefer ?!??At least it's one of the few jobs where you can have some sort of justification for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Anyone that made a temp account for Purge WeekMy main account was suspended the 1st day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Purge week is the only week we can discuss dating and raceThe STD data is from the CDC which you can find in 5 seconds of googling and it's bizarre you don't think health institutions would want to study and record that. Of course, plenty of you will lap it up. Confirmation bias does that. You're just really stupid lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Why the popular belief that “we grow conservative as we age” might be true but not for the reason we think.Sure. The vast majority of "conservatives" are just liberals from 10 or 20 years ago. Trump was a Democrat in the 90's. That's what makes the vast majority of them worthless trash - they have no real ideals or understanding of what ideological "conservatism" is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Please Lilly stop. They're already dead.lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 02:15 AM |
| 5 | Summary of every debate on purplepilldebateGeneralizations are useful and necessary for looking at anything beyond individual experience. People just super defensive about it if they happen to be in that group even if it's not true for them personally. It's worse with women since men generally have no problem admitting they're pieces of shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 02:14 AM |
| 4 | Just be nazi theoryI don't know that it's really an issue, tons of men will fuck women regardless of political or moral values and it's right to criticize them for it. It's perfectly fine to criticize group behavior, even if you're part of that group and don't personally do XYZ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 02:09 AM |
| 2 | CMV: White men are not oppressed.Depends on what you mean by "oppressed". Denigrated in their own countries, hated by large portions of their own women, locked out of jobs for having the wrong color skin, colonized by people who hate them? Sure. Are the cops going to beat you because you have white skin? No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Men who at one point didn’t have any female friends, how has making female friends changed your perspective or anything else for you?It didn't change anything. I was aware there were shitty women (the majority) and good women beforehand and it's the same thing I believe now. The real difference between men and women friends is women are more active in wanting to do things besides hit bars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 10:09 PM |
| 7 | Just be nazi theoryIt's mostly Indian and Asian dudes posting this crap. Meanwhile the average suburban white girl gets off dating dudes that would slit her parents throat and march in BLM protests while cheering for her brother overdosing on fentanyl so there's one less privileged white guy in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Just be nazi theoryHalf of my country considers the other half Nazis already. Idk why we don't just embrace it. After all, real National Socialism has never been tried before. I'm pretty sure most Nazi fans do consider Germany and maybe Italy as "real" national socialists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 09:35 PM |
| 0 | Just be nazi theoryIt's like people posting this shit have never met a modern liberal white woman (or seen how some conservative women behave when they can get away with it) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 09:32 PM |
| 18 | Just be nazi theoryNot all I don't fuck women with the "wrong" political beliefs or actions even in a fuck and forget scenario. Plenty of men will though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Are the harmful effects of the Sexual Revolution only showing up now?Reduced economic opportunity (less able to afford independent lifestyle/children), reduced social networks (less opportunity to meet people organically and locally), less healthy (obesity rates, mental illness, drug abuse), technological social substitution/parasocialism (videogames, streaming media, social media) and so on all play a part in worsening social-sexual outcomes without directly falling under the purview of the pills (i.e. looks vs personality arguments or whatever) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 09:28 PM |
| 6 | Reminder to women: You will only ever have as much power as men choose to give youDepends on if they love the Taliban enough to join it, in which case it will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Do you see the attack on white men getting worse as western societies gain more immigrants and white people are having fewer children?White men have only experienced a fraction of the abuse every other group of people on Earth has experienced for a fraction of the time and already you're falling apart Every group of men can really only experience or answer for their own generation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Do you see the attack on white men getting worse as western societies gain more immigrants and white people are having fewer children?As a conservative young white woman I absolutelly despise white incels who cry about their victim complex and bully non-white people, especially men, who they are secretly jealous of. lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Do you see the attack on white men getting worse as western societies gain more immigrants and white people are having fewer children?We are at a time when everyone can vocalize their opinions, not just white men. Everyone living in the West has had that freedom for as long as everyone here has been alive. The only thing that's changed is that now you can be fired, black listed, beaten in public, and spit on for saying the "wrong" things out loud. That isn't freedom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 08:05 PM |
| 4 | Marriageable men do care about N-countBeing the most successful group does not imply that someone within that group is a good marriage candidate. Mostly it just demonstrates how awful the average is in other groups. A person who prioritizes their career and over marriage or having kids until they hit late 20's or 30's is a worse partner in the context of someone prioritizing marriage during their 20's (or someone in their 30's seeking 20 something interested in marriage) regardless of income/education. It's very much a question of c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 02:24 PM |
| 5 | Marriageable men do care about N-countDoctors are about 0.3% of the population and get a huge amount of status from their profession which does actually require an extended period of schooling. They are not the norm or what you should base average on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 02:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women’s physical attractiveness comes mostly from makeup and their bodyweight, men’s physical attractiveness comes mostly from their geneticsIt's primarily derived from primary and secondary sex characteristics i.e. tits, ass, pussy. Being too fat or skinny tends to reduce their value but mostly they will remain sought after just for having them. An exceptional face or body will lift a woman above average but most women will be fine with an average looking face as long as their body isn't dire. For men I think you're more or less correct although primary sex characteristic, penis size, has some influence as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 05:06 AM |
| 2 | When does height start working against you?After about 6'3 or 6'4 it largely depends on your frame. A guy with a proportionate frame/build can look great at 6'7+ or he can look like a scarecrow. It's relatively rare that a guy will be both exceptionally tall and proportionate. But the status of being that tall is enough for most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 04:56 AM |
| 1 | CMV: RP men are in denial about the reality of older bachelorsThe effects of lifetime of trivial relationships and a consumerist lifestyle is generally loneliness and misery regardless of gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Do most women these days want to get married?The average woman (and man) wants to live an extended childhood where they have 0 responsibility besides eking out whatever hedonistic consumerist pleasure they can get. They will grow old, infertile, with no family or children to support or socialize with them while their friends drift away into family life or die off. Then they will be 40 or 50 something wondering why they are so lonely. Whoops! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 04:50 AM |
| 1 | 2 or 3 men per girl needs to become the standard accepted relationship in societyYou need to visit a minecraft server my man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 04:47 AM |
| 1 | 2 or 3 men per girl needs to become the standard accepted relationship in societyThe result of muslim men literally raping hundreds of white children was a coverup by the police and mild disquiet among the white lower class. They will accept their replacement as long as the TV keeps them entertained. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 04:46 AM |
| 2 | 2 or 3 men per girl needs to become the standard accepted relationship in societyEurope is not like the USA. I hate to tell you this but after hundreds of years of being a highly mixed society different races in the US still have major problems with each other. It's not ever going to get better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 04:43 AM |
| 5 | Marriageable men do care about N-countAre we talking about caring about your partners n count or what people in society are doing in general? Those are two different questions and I feel it's quite normal to be concerned about the former. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Are people who subscribe to social dominance theories more likely to be low status? And if so is this a result of them being low status and therefore finding them, or finding them and becoming lower status?Yes, generally men who are marginalized/losers in a given system tend to analyze and formalize those systems to try and understand them and modern society itself has formalized and systematized almost every aspect of society. This is true in politics and relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Are people who subscribe to social dominance theories more likely to be low status? And if so is this a result of them being low status and therefore finding them, or finding them and becoming lower status?Women can get relationships and sex relatively easily so the competition pressure is much smaller compared to men - to the extent they do compete it's for highly attractive men. Average men generally compete to get sex or relationships at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 04:23 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Women’s physical attractiveness comes mostly from makeup and their bodyweight, men’s physical attractiveness comes mostly from their geneticsWomen without makeup are, still, infinitely more attractive than the average dude. Very subjective. To me the average woman without makeup is not especially alluring in looks. If one were to judge solely on facial appearance I would say women have a slight advantage in "cuteness" at best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Marriageable men do care about N-countIt's common enough that it's been a popular culture (sitcoms, movies) trope for decades. While people rarely straightforwardly talk about it most people have some level of concern/interest in their partners past and n count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 04:11 AM |
| 21 | Marriageable men do care about N-countThe richest men in the US are nerds who mostly had long term relationships and I assume are relatively low N count with some exceptions. There's no moral pattern here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 04:08 AM |
| 16 | Marriageable men do care about N-countIf you're looking for marriage the behavior of the average modern person is profoundly dysfunctional. They are unable to even reproduce society they are so infertile, delayed in development, and unable to remain committed over a long period of time if they even bother in the first place. Don't try to dispense advice with some reality check about about how Joe or Jane retard is fucking around while working on some nebulous career or education - those people are losers in the marriage game and sho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 04:03 AM |
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