| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 38 | Phone Game --By Tyler Durden - Awesome info about flaking and persistence | CluckyMcNugget | /r/seduction | 14/10/13 08:13 PM | |
| 16 | MasterPUA's: Contact routine after awesome first dates? | CluckyMcNugget | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 03:26 PM | |
| 12 | [FR] Double booked | Field Report | CluckyMcNugget | /r/seduction | 09/10/13 05:02 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Girl 2 - Rough start | Field Report | CluckyMcNugget | /r/seduction | 10/10/13 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Stuck in my sticking points. | CluckyMcNugget | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 07:44 PM | |
| 1 | How to handle the other woman seeing you on a date? | CluckyMcNugget | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 05:22 PM | |
| 0 | Opinions and advice on dates with her friends? | CluckyMcNugget | /r/seduction | 30/10/13 05:24 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Strong Independent Bitch gets burnedSmart man - he's trying to get that 2 for $20. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/06/19 10:42 PM |
| 6 | cant find a man who meets her income requirements. Must make over $100k and under $300kLol, what an absolute crock of shit. Europe is a great place to live regardless of your 'effort'. Read a book sometime. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/04/19 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Anon feels betterReally more of a sabbatical, amirite? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/01/19 01:11 AM |
| 7 | She's starting her "virginity 2.0".Don't forget you have to pay for it for the rest of your natural life and if you ever get tired and want to ride something else it will cost half your stuff. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/06/18 04:17 PM |
| 1 | The first time I saw sexual subcommunication in text. Texts w/ inner breakdown, for purposes of discussingI think this is pretty useful - we should do more of this type of stuff. | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 04:40 PM |
| 1 | I Created This Massive Library of Dating and Self-Improvement Resources. What Links Are Still Missing?Not a fan of the fitness / weightlifting stuff. The FAQ from r/ fitness has much more concise, factually correct information with citations much of the time. | /r/seduction | 27/04/17 03:51 PM |
| 3 | What is the difference between persistence and neediness?I think this is perfect, but I never liked the phrase "outcome independence" - to me the connotation is similar to apathy which is not the correct frame of mind at all. If there is a way to better phrase, "always wanting and trying to win, but not being afraid to fail and accepting it when it happens." It's a game. I'm competitive. I like to win (sports, video games, etc.) and when I don't, I'm a bit upset for a few minutes, but that's about it. Losing a basketball game wouldn't send me into a t… | /r/seduction | 21/03/14 02:48 PM |
| 4 | What is the difference between persistence and neediness?Are you afraid to lose her? Needy. Afraid to be on your own? Afraid she might meet someone else? Needy. I wonder about those first two. I think they are simplifications. Being afraid of losing someone is a perfectly valid emotion. It's having that fear consume you that is where the neediness comes in. Instead, the non-needy will feel the fear, but accept it for what it is and not let it effect them. It reminds me of some people's definition of courage - It is not the lack of fear, because everyo… | /r/seduction | 21/03/14 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Opinions and advice on dates with her friends?We've made out lightly multiple times. I can't say friend-zone is impossible, but I think it's unlikely. | /r/seduction | 30/10/13 08:28 PM |
| 5 | Any Germans Here? A Guide to the SIGNIFICANT Differences between picking up in Germany and the USA (VIDEO)Yup! I miss Europe and Germany in particular. I fell in love with my only "10". Those were the days... | /r/seduction | 30/10/13 05:58 PM |
| 1 | I need to tell someone about this and I don't really have anyone close that would really understand. I feel as if you guys could related.The thing is, it wasn't a big deal to you until she called you on it and then you accepted her frame - it's all in your mind. People say "can't wait to see you" ALL the time without truly meaning it, so it's not that serious. Just stop saying it and move on. There is no need to pretend to be busy. | /r/seduction | 30/10/13 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Do you chase after a girl who keeps blowing you off?I've been having this same thing happen a LOT lately, sometimes even worse where the girl is not even responding. I think this is just another level of the game that needs to be pushed through. Whether she is flaking or not, if she is still communicating and setting up dates then you've got a shot. I think the absolute best course of action is persistence, but there is a big asterisk here - you have to be in the right frame of mind or it won't work and actually may hurt you a bit psychologically… | /r/seduction | 30/10/13 02:48 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys know when she's no longer worth pursuing?So I'm curious here - what if she avoids contact (texting, phone, face to face, etc.)? I'm interested in at what point a reasonable person should say, "fuck it." Really curious here, because I hate being left with things unresolved, but pursuing hard never seems to work well for me. Edit: Let's assume there was some attraction at one point, maybe a seemingly good date - something more than just got the digits. | /r/seduction | 24/10/13 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Window of opportunity after getting her numberIf we are speaking in generalities then the window is never really closed, because you could ask her out whenever. Really what's happening though, is your probability of getting her out on a date / sex starts shrinking the second you leave her sight. Once you are gone, she is out of your sway of control and starts forgetting how she feels around you - remember that girls are emotional beings - and becomes receptive to other influences around her at the time. So, a video game analogy: ever played… | /r/seduction | 24/10/13 12:42 PM |
| 0 | Don't let the game define youWow. That was awesome. Well said. | /r/seduction | 12/10/13 04:31 PM |
| 6 | What exactly is nice-guy-interview-mode?Common examples of "interviewing": "What do you do?" "Where are you from?" "What school did/do you go to?" "What's your sign?" "Come here often?" Now imagine yourself, across the table from your date and you are machine-gunning these questions at her face. It's not fun or memorable and chances are EVERY single guy she talks to is doing it. Be different. | /r/seduction | 10/10/13 01:19 PM |
| 1 | MasterPUA's: Contact routine after awesome first dates?That's the wrong frame of mind. Hopefully, during a date you discuss fun things or places you'd both like to do/go, so it becomes natural to say, "Well let's do it together! Next Thursday!" High Fives You could also tell her about some cool thing you are doing and invite her along. It's coming from a frame of "we are fun people who do fun things and we might as well do them together." But, this doesn't always come up naturally, so sometimes you need to dig a little or having something prepared. … | /r/seduction | 09/10/13 11:31 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Double bookedI really cannot agree here. While I'm sure there are some sociopaths out there - in fact, I believe the FB that I got with after this is one - this girl is not it. Occam's Razor, man. She is just a college girl who likes to party and have fun. Obviously you weren't there and it sounds odd on its own, without context. But with context, she wants fuck me so good that I don't want to leave, which I am completely amenable to. It was light and fun and sexual. | /r/seduction | 09/10/13 10:54 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Double bookedYou had to F-close right there. I think you are probably right. One bad problem I have is that when I'm pretty sure I can get it, I stop stressing and I'll be like, "Meh, I'll get that tomorrow.", with %100 conviction. I'll even hear myself saying it and a little voice call "bullshit!!", but I don't listen. come home watch tv" is sometimes way relationship-ish for some girls. Ba-wha?? This is me inviting her over for sex in as thinly a veiled way as possible and we both know it. | /r/seduction | 09/10/13 10:44 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Double bookedMan, I would've loved to. I wasn't sure how likely it was though and I had something guaranteed from a FB that I REALLY like, so it was a no brainer. | /r/seduction | 09/10/13 10:40 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Double bookedAwesome, thanks for the review! You sent me something, which I think is important to touch on: Hopefully you can help me figure out what I'm doing wrong. You don't have to do anything wrong to get this response. You can do everything 100% right and still have flakey weird girls who don't make sense. You need to let go of this idea that you can control what a woman does. She has her own life, and her own issues. Stop trying to take credit for everything she does. Really, really good point. I do w… | /r/seduction | 09/10/13 10:36 PM |
| 1 | I have hit a (low) glass ceiling and need advice.I'm talking even techniques that get me away from the other side of the table and sitting close to her on her side instead That's half of your problem right there. Find a way to have her sitting next to you, not across a table. Sometimes, this can take a bit of pre-planning, but usually you can just sit at the bar. A common date I take girls on involves sitting at the bar for a drink then, "Hey, why don't we grab a drink at this cool spot I know down the street!" That spot has these great outdoo… | /r/seduction | 08/10/13 07:59 PM |
| 6 | Shit tested - What do?It seems like you're smack dab in the middle of the friendzone. That's just based on what you wrote above though. The references to aimless texting over weeks, the kiss on the cheek, and the fact that you didn't even realize it until after - all of that seems to point to your lack of leadership in the relationship. You were just floating along being a fun, nice guy and you landed where fun, nice guys land. You took it a step further and texted your insecurities to her and she shot you down. It's… | /r/seduction | 08/10/13 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Tips on texting girls when you have multiple conversation threads goingHere, have an upvote. | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 10:49 PM |
| 2 | MasterPUA's: Contact routine after awesome first dates?Good point. Superficial conversation + kissing at the end = maybe they're getting the clear hint you're just after sex, and not actually interested in them. You might be on to something there. In fact, this is kind of been my nagging suspicion. Isn't that what we want to do though - if we are looking for sex, that is? Which I am. Is this an issue other PUA'ers are experiencing? sounds like 4 chicks you want to bone but aren't that great overall I definitely want to bone them. How can I get to kn… | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 10:21 PM |
| 16 | What do you do when a girl says asks you to entertain her?I wanted to respond, because this seems a bit harsh. I agree, it's a bit shit-testy, but you have to take into account two things (and I don't know the background here. I'm thinking OP is lost in Friendzone already): 1) Again, I'm not sure, but it sounds like these chicks are writing him out of the blue with this. To me, ANY time a girl hits you up out of the blue, regardless of what the fuck she actually says, she is lonely and thinking of you. That's big. 2) One of the greatest "instigators" o… | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 06:23 PM |
| 23 | What do you do when a girl says asks you to entertain her?I try to twist everything I can and make it sexual. So, you could use it as an in to invite her over - "Why don't you come over? I can think of something very entertaining we could do." If she tries to test you, "You perv, I'm not going to have sex with you!" Just play it off like she misunderstood. "Sex?! Get your mind out of the gutter, woman! I was talking about Parcheesi!" Joke around a bit and escalate again later. | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 03:57 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Another frustrating night, but I'm improving.Where is the field report? This felt like a really long introduction that just ended. | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Would anyone be interested in a online seduction ebook colleciton?Great idea, but I can't get in...did someone change the password? | /r/seduction | 24/05/13 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Drag Net vs. Spear FishingWell, the whole point of going "after the 10% of 1000" is so that your skills are razor sharp when you need them for the 1. | /r/seduction | 14/05/13 12:13 AM |
| 3 | life after seduction: what problems have you encountered?Seems like this got wayyyy off topic. I'll play - what problems have I encountered after learning about seduction? I'm an analytical person and learning about social psychology has made me analyze every single human interaction I have even more so. I'm constantly trying to read body language and look for 'tells' of frame of mind. | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Mixed signals from HB9-What's the next move?You can thank me after you smash! Until then, I'm just another wannabe on a message board handing out bad advice. If she brings it up, I'd say flip the script on her somehow - revisionist history, ie. she was all over you and you did all that you could to keep her at bay. Make it fun. Mess with her a bit, but don't explain yourself. It's just another shit test. Or if you don't feel comfortable with that, do what Vin DiCarlo says and just shrug. "The technique is: 1. She tests you with a challeng… | /r/seduction | 10/05/13 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Mixed signals from HB9-What's the next move?Hmm, maybe I'm in the minority here, but my attitude is perserverance. I feel like it's all too common to get the same advice in the community, no matter the situation: 1) Ignore her / give it up / etc. 2) Meet other women. If you are on this board and you are, you are probably doing your damnedest to satisfy the second criteria, so it kind of goes without saying. As for the first one, it sounds like a run of the mill, rather lame dinner date. As you said you didn't escalate enough and avoided s… | /r/seduction | 08/05/13 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Above The Game Part 6: Logistics (getting the number, texting, setting up dates, etc.)We're not worthy | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Laughing at your own jokesHmm, according to what I read about vibing and humor - the general rule is to NOT laugh first at your own jokes. It probably depends on your personality though, because althought most comedians don't do it, some like Jackie Martling do incessantly. | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 05:38 PM |
| 1 | I need help from you guys to start all over againJust ridiculous. I'm an American who has lived in Europe multiple times and found day game much easier there. "The grass is always greener..." | /r/seduction | 05/05/13 07:06 PM |
| 3 | When does all this start being fun?I had to jump in on this one. I was in the exact same place as you, last fall. Going out had lost all enjoyment and I basically stopped going out for most of the winter. Fast forward to March and I got drug out by a good friend of mine who is ALWAYS out doing something. We went to our usual spot and I had my usual, shitty time. The worst / best part about it is my friend is an unbelieveable approacher - absolutely fearless. So, I'm stuck in my head watching my friend do what I should be doing. T… | /r/seduction | 05/05/13 05:47 PM |
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