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You deserve better
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/23 12:49 PM
1

Do volunteer work. Make friends. You can make a friend and happen to fall in love with their brother or cousin you met through them. Make a wide network of acquaintances and friends in general. The more people you know, the more people you get introduced to.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/23 06:46 AM
1

You don't need to go to the gym daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:40 PM
1

It starts off great because he was trying to woo you. Now that he's comfy, the real him comes out. When someone shows you who they really are, believe them.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 01:17 AM
15

Maybe you should be embarrassed your tolerating this kind of behavior
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 12:53 AM
2

Amish men wouldn't even have access to porn
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:18 AM
10

He knew that when he started dating you
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/22 06:46 PM
16

Sounds like you should've put your foot down on that one
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/22 03:36 AM
3

Feelings aren't facts
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 12:51 AM
4

Have you looked into developing a growth mindset?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:26 PM
1

Maybe you can do a flower swap with neighbors.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 03:21 PM
17

I've only been dating my boyfriend for the months and of his own accord made my birthday his pin and took the day off work to celebrate our 3 month anniversary which he brought up to me. If your fiancé isn't already doing these things for you now, he never will. If you stay with him it will be your fault for staying when you know this is who he is. He's not going to change
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/22 09:02 PM
2

Women do initiate interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:12 PM
2

Confidence in yourself and approach men first.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 01:59 PM
1

Its not a waste of time if you follow accounts that teach useful things like business or marketing.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 02:46 PM
1

You're gonna have more time to make better friends when you remove the low value ones
/r/askTRP24/04/20 11:35 PM
16

Offer to egg his car since he doesn't think it causes damage
/r/PussyPass25/10/17 05:18 AM
5

Act casual about it. I started hosting board game night once a month and I invite friends and new acquaintances
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 03:31 AM
2

"Hey do you wanna do X activity with me?"
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 01:16 AM
3

If she doesn't intrinsically value a clean home, she's gonna go right back to old ways real quick
/r/askTRP22/07/17 04:08 PM
2

Why can't he travel to your city!?
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/17 07:45 PM
2

You know what works better than tit-for-tat? Two tits for tat. Also, if you cheat on your loyal partner, it's not tit-for-tat since she didn't cheat first.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 10:48 PM
1

I think right now, try not discussing anything unless you specifically need her input or info from her. If you can find a trusted friend to discuss things with, even better.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/16 12:30 AM
1

is she a leech if he gets her to support him in college? he can dump her after he gets his degree
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 06:45 PM
1

Dark colored shirts/dresses with cardigans. Shaping undergarments to hold it in a bit while you work on losing it.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/16 07:38 AM
1

do you stick with keeping those things out of your diet or do you reduce them to maintain the effects?
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/16 07:32 AM
1

Can you hire a cleaning service or even a college student to take some of the load off your plate?
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/16 07:22 AM
1

Stop asking her for advice (if you have been) and stop talking about your plans with her.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/16 07:20 AM
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be kind to yourself in your head, and also think about "how can I improve/do this better next time. don't be harsh on yourself, but use it as motivation to make a plan to solve the problem (if there is one)
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 07:14 AM
1

Especially if he starts focusing on himself, she might be drawn back to him. Realizing he doesn't care if he loses her, and if he starts self-improving hard she'll realize she can't do better.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 05:23 AM
2

Honestly I think he should just quit and do what he's gonna do. The divorce card could be just a threat.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 06:40 PM
7

If he quits, and she divorces, he'll get alimony. Plus he could argue that he supported her through college when it goes to court.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 04:25 PM
12

Maturity, wisdom, increased emotional and academic intelligence, better understanding of what she wants and needs, better understanding how to make herself happy. More knowledgeable about the world and being a responsible adult. Can support and take care of herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 02:03 PM
4

Stop focusing all your attention on his. Do hobbies and hang with friends. Be cheerful on your own. When he comes around, be relaxed, happy, and friendly. If you let the situation bother you and cause you to lash out at him, you'll push him away.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/16 01:57 PM
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Romanticism hurt relationships. It's not that fulfilling 3,4,5 is bad for us, it's that expecting our significant other to fulfill us is bad for us.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 08:38 PM
1

Search for no makeup makeup.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/16 10:20 PM
1

You ask them to hang out outside of the study group.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 12:07 AM
1

Why not call one of your female friends? Chat on the phone or invite her over.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 08:02 PM
3

It sounds like he's controlling and unreasonably so. He needs to know where you are at all times? He gets to decide what you can do with your Friends or how late you should be out for class. You fear his reaction towards you regarding other people's behavior (texting you). You're becoming afraid to be around men. Eventually you won't be able to go do anything because there are guys almost everywhere. Be very very cautious/
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/16 11:26 AM
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Discipline is delayed gratification.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 05:54 AM
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I said overweight, not obese. In addition, they're not replacing anorexic models with obese ones.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/15 05:24 AM
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Being underweight is worse for one's health than being overweight. Women have died trying to stay thin enough to model. Is that the kind of society you want?
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 06:10 PM
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I'm guessing whatever her friends say should be irrelevant because they weren't there. They should get her phone records to see that she did get and answer a phone call during that time.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 06:42 PM
2

Normal compromise isn't a 'sacrifice'. Him DECIDING to surprise you is not a sacrifice. His view is that anything he does for you is a loss for him (yes that's what the word sacrifice means, a loss), and anything you do for him is expected. He acts selfish and gets away with it by acting like you should be grateful for any little amount of effort on his part. Relationships are a two way street yet he expects you stay in for him all the time, yet makes it a fucking huge deal that you want to go o…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/15 06:26 AM
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I don't think the relationship is going to work out. You're always doing what he wants to do, and he won't compromise for you. He'll compromise for his friends, but not you. His girlfriend. The person who should be high on his priority list. If you're unhappy now, have tried to fix the problem while he shrugs his shoulders. He clearly doesn't care. His actions prove that. Leave him and find someone who will put in as much effort as you into the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/15 10:33 PM
1

You are not losing your value. As long as you're a high-quality women (which you can work on), there will be men who will want to date you. The main thing holding you back is lack of quality men at your college and your shyness.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/15 10:19 PM
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I've been reading TRP for awhile. If I'm incorrect about the consensus, then please state where I am wrong. This is what I have read multiple times in various threads.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 09:48 PM
1

To be fair part of the reason is because one of the women was pregnant with his son. A (would-be) healthy baby among his sick offspring.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 09:32 PM
3

Alright, what is your opinion on the matter?
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 09:13 PM
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I never said men can't. I said this thread is faulting her for having a strategy, which is to not put out, when TRP says this is the best kind of women to date because low-N count. You don't have to date a women like this, but that doesn't make her strategy stupid.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 06:05 PM
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That's not what I'm saying at all. I'm saying that women are not wrong for withholding sex to see if a man wants her as a person. Men don't have to date a women who holds out, but neither strategy is wrong or bad.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 06:03 PM
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It's possible the true reason he left was because she wasn't worth the wait. Guys will put up with shitty women if they at least get sex. The answer is for her to improve herself and find a guy she adores and show him that she does and is worth waiting for.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 05:59 PM
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Let me know when you have an actual response to contribute.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 01:18 PM
-5

On TRP that is the common thoughts. Sluts are good for plates, virgins or low-N count (because "unicorns don't exist") are for marriage.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 12:36 PM
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So women are marriageable only if they're virgins, but you guys fucking bitch and dump women who hold out. Do you even understand the hypocrisy?
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 11:51 AM
4

Why doesn't he lock the door when he's not home? Also, he needs to instill discipline when they break rules.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/15 06:18 PM
8

Only because we're so used to makeup.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 04:54 PM
2

Why does she require a year-long contract? Your husband can't try out a few 'sessions' before such a huge commitment?
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/15 05:23 AM
1

Why would he want to debate things he doesn't believe in?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 10:18 PM
5

You insulted him, too. Doesn't that make your argument weak as well?
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 07:21 PM
2

I would never deal with them again. If they weren't family, would you be spending time with them?
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/15 03:42 AM
2

I don't know why your husband tolerates their blatant disrespect.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/15 03:03 AM
1

He ate off your three year old's plate? WTF?
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/15 02:24 AM
1

I still don't see criticism of me in there
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 06:51 PM
1

you're gonna have to be more specific
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 05:31 PM
1

You're not here to speak the truth, only to speak about shortcomings that may be present in some individuals. I agree with that. I don't see how being up for a debate is 'not taking criticism'. Nothing said here is a direct criticism of me, only brushing off my ideas as 'woman ego-filled nonsense'. If standing up for one's ideas is wrong, I don't want to be right.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 03:45 PM
1

I do think there are men who find examples of a few shitty women and use that as evidence that all women are shitty. What, other than ego, makes someone put down an entire population of people based on the few they happen to meet in their area? It's confirmation bias and it's a logical fallacy. it's "the tendency to search for, interpret, favor, and recall information in a way that confirms one's beliefs or hypotheses while giving disproportionately less attention to information that contradicts…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 01:58 AM
1

Men also have a group bias. Men also rationalize their behavior. Do you really think men are somehow immune to things like confirmation bias? It's not that "women are shitty", it's that people are shitty. That includes people of both gender. You can point out only the shitty women; that doesn't make it a woman thing
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 01:41 AM
1

I'm in another comment thread on RP where I'm told nothing I say is valid because I'm a woman. My gender was assumed, not stated by me there.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 10:44 PM
1

So the opinions and observations of ego-invested men is valid enough to spread as true, but a woman's is automatically invalid. At least you admit that you're not based on science nor fact.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 10:31 PM
1

Lol. "How dare women have opinions that might challenge us". Can't handle it, RP?
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 02:26 AM
1

Just because OP says it's unbalanced doesn't make it so. I fail to see how OP has proven solid reasoning.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 07:32 PM
5

So either women are dumb or they're try-hard?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 04:44 PM
3

There are women with little intellectual curiosity and men with little intellectual curiosity. Likewise there are both men and women who are intellectually curious.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 04:42 PM
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I pointed out that not all women are ignorant and go to college because they're sheep. They also get pressured or forced by parents. Being 18 and told your whole life you need a degree to make a living, makes you susceptible to feeling like you have to go. Additionally, many jobs are becoming part-time. My friend has a degree, works in his field, and they won't give him full-time hours.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 04:22 AM
2

I'm not in a college program, I have loans, I'm 23, if I were independent would I even have this problem?! If I knew of a job that required no education and gave full-time hours I would take it.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 03:56 AM
1

Do people socialize at the gym? The one I just started at doesn't seem social.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 03:43 AM
0

How/where do I find one that is looking for those things? Do I go out and broaden my social networks? Talk to strangers? How do I not be too forward?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 01:45 AM
0

How do I go from no skills and no degree to a full-time job that I can live off of?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 01:16 AM
-6

I'm a woman who doesn't want to continue going to college and it's my father who is forcing me to.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 12:59 AM
-6

I agree. And not all of them crave validation.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 03:28 AM
2

Education is s temporary time-suck. Having to work two jobs because you can't make a living is WAY worse and takes up more of your time.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 02:12 AM
1

You don't need to be able to draw for graphic design.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 05:28 PM
6

I had a boyfriend in highschool I helped do this, and he looked great. Would recommend.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 01:46 AM
2

It's called he's buying your frienship
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 10:32 PM
6

Were they virgins when the relationship ended?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 06:54 PM
1

Maybe self-discipline. Practice closing tabs and walking away. Meditate. Spend your free-time not at the computer and use dead-lines at work for motivation to stay focused.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 09:17 AM
3

Get rid of your computer
/r/askTRP17/07/15 10:32 PM
1

My father had custody, and my mom had visitation. I still ended up fucked up. The same abusive behaviors that drove her away, were used on my brother and I.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 06:14 PM
2

It sounds like you have low self esteem. Work on feeling good about yourself and liking yourself so you don't feel threatened by perceived slights.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/14 02:30 PM
1

Substitute happiness with value and I 100% agree
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 09:29 PM
4

You still can. Work during the weekends.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 04:59 PM
9

It's easy to be hypergamous. It's hard to be alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/14 07:28 PM
21

As a female, that's kind of how I took it.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 06:12 PM
0

Lack of a non-consent is not consent. Not saying 'No' doesn't mean 'Yes'.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/13 09:41 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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