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If you’re not married, and you’re living according to her finances (i.e. she can afford half the rent while also being able to pay for other necessities, some wants and is able to save some money each month etc.) it is reasonable to split 50/50. But if the higher earning partner expects a shared standard of living that matches THEIR wages (i.e. luxury housing, fancy food etc) then that partner should pay more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:25 AM
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I’d hardly call genitals incapable of reproduction ”fully functional” is all :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 11:24 PM
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Not far enough to let a ftm individual produce sperm
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 11:02 PM
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For me personally, attraction is not separated into ”physical attraction” and not physical attraction. There is just attraction period. For this attraction to exist a man needs to meet a baseline level of looks, AND have a certain personality type. The attraction ”grows” when a man (who meets the baseline looks threshold) and I get to know each other and he displays the personality type that I find attractive. Before that happens, there is no attraction. If someone asks, I can tell them whether …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:44 PM
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How so? I was simply calling out someone who was arguing in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 06:23 PM
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Why do you presume to know my feelings better than I do? Calling everyone who has a different experience than yours a liar makes all debates pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:01 AM
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I’m denying it. Other women on that other thread also said that attraction grows for them, while some said it doesn’t. It almost as though women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:24 PM
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A muscular man is ideal to me, I find them very attractive. <image> In the above picture the 10-12% is the most attractive to me. I love big arms, pecs and a muscular back. Abs are nice too but not as important. I would probably not date a bodybuilder as that is a huge commitment in every aspect of your life and isn’t really comparable to an avid but otherwise normal gym guy. Guys on steroids are a no for me, too many risks and adverse effects. A natural who has been in the gym for a couple of y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:00 AM
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Not because he was handsome no, but because he was attractive in other ways. He was 6’2, in STEM, wanted a traditional marriage in the future, plus we shared some interests and he was a fellow virgin. He ended up treating me pretty badly and I stuck around longer than I should have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 02:22 PM
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⁠Would you date a man who uses marijuana at least once a month? No ⁠Would you date a man who considers himself to be a devout christian? Maybe ⁠Would you date a man who dislikes physical exercise? No ⁠Would you date a man who doesn't believe that gay marriage should be legal? No ⁠Would you date a man who believes that abortion should be illegal? No ⁠Would you date a man who watches porn at least 3x a week? No ⁠Would you date a man who lives 1000 miles away? Maybe ⁠Would you date a man who's curr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:50 AM
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Woman. 21 contacts. 18 people on a discord server, the same 18 people on snapchat, 2 people on SMS, 3 people on whatsapp(for work). So 41 if you count the doubles, 23 if you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:21 AM
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Junko Furuta was tortured for 40 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:30 AM
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How interesting, most men of PPD seem to find stereotypically feminine hobbies (e.g. cooking, baking, knitting, sowing etc.) attractive, but you are different. Thanks for your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:14 PM
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What constitutes an interesting hobby?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:58 PM
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Children, companionship, emotional intimacy, stability, emotional support, sex, social benefits, financial benefits, shared goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:20 AM
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Nope, they did not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:10 AM
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Yes, at least one of the guys my friend’s had a crush on was autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:37 AM
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Oops, how embarassing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:48 PM
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Oh is that what it means? I just thought it meant an ugly face, I’m not a native english speaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:41 PM
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I’m 99% sure she’s on the autism spectrum. She’s awkward and insensitive, incapable of reading a room. She’s caring in her own way though. Painfully insecure. I’ve known her since we were kids and so we get along and I like her well enough but she struggles to make new friends. She’s not necessarily dumb but she’s lazy. Honestly her crushes don’t have much in common except that they tend to be pretty confident and tall. Other than that they’ve varied a lot in terms of body shape, hair colour, pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:02 PM
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I’m not. Ideally my future partner would be within 2 years of my age, but 5 years max.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:28 AM
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That is a truly sad way to view relationships and a surefire path to misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:44 PM
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You speak about sex as though it is a chore, something a woman gives a man rather than an expression of mutual passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:43 PM
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I don’t really like the implications of your phrasing but I do agree that it is unreasonable to use a fight that happened a week ago as a reason for not wanting to be intimate, it just doesn’t seem plausible and so in such a case it’s better to come clean about the real reason. But that is assuming that this hypothetical couple actually made up quickly and they were both happy or at least ok with the resolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:00 PM
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So if a husband and wife go on a date, say to a restaurant for example and they’re having fun, flirting with each other, eating good food etc., they get home and they’ve had a very nice evening together and are both in the mood so they have sex. Is the wife ”rewarding” the husband for ”good behavior”? Is she manipulating him? Or is she simply horny because she’s happy and in a good mood and not stressed and very in love with her husband? And now consider the inverse of that situation: a husband …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:30 PM
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I don’t understand this whole ”withholding intimacy” and using it as a reward/punishment. What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:21 AM
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Engineers(except SWE), physicists, mathematicians, firefighters, police officers, carpenters, construction workers, military. I find these attracte, though I would probably decline to date a police officer, firefighter or contruction worker for practical reasons unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:44 AM
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Who said he has to have already finished college? I’m in my first year right now, I’m mostly looking for someone in the same situation. Drugs are not very common where I’m from, at least not among normal college students. And yes, he’s got to want marriage and children, that doesn’t mean we would be getting married the second we met, we’d probably date for 2-4 years before getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:29 PM
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And why not? Which of these traits are incompatible with atheism/agnosticism?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:25 AM
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Traits such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:20 AM
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Sure, if I don’t have to sleep with him and our children are conceived via IVF. If not, then no. I’m strictly monogamous, I will not sleep with a man who is simultaneously sleeping with other women. Also, he can not be ”everything I want” and a cheater, those are mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:20 AM
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These are my non-negotiables when it comes to dating, my preferences are a bit more strict than this but these are requirements. Mutual attraction, affection and respect. No more than 5 years older than me, i.e. <= 25. No more than 5 prior partners. No engagement in casual sex, e.g. ONS, FWB, prostitution. Not addicted to porn. Minimum 175 cm tall. Not obese. Has never taken drugs and does not drink excessive amounts of alcohol, does not smoke cigarettes. Is doing something with his life, could …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:25 AM
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No. Absolute max is 5 if he is otherwise perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:14 AM
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This is exactly how I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:26 AM
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Exactly! ASSUMED innocent, not PROVEN innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:56 PM
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Because lack of evidence doesn’t prove something 100% did NOT happen? Are you dumb? Do you think that courts are infallible magical systems that are ALWAYS able to convict someone who has committed heinous crimes? No, sometimes guilty people slip through the cracks, therefore being acquitted does not mean someone is truly innocent. For him to be PROVEN innocent, a court would have to determine, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that there is a 0% chance he committed the crimes he has been accused of, …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:34 PM
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But the government and the judicial system are treating him as though he is innocent, aka he is not going to jail nor does he have a mark on his record. What more do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 07:57 AM
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No. I don’t want to deal with ex-wife/baby mama drama. I want to have my own children and I want those children to grow up without the complications a ’blended family’ would bring.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:16 AM
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He hasn’t been proven innocent though? ’Not proven guilty’ != ’proven innocent’ because there is an assumption of innocence until proven guilty. For him to be proven innocent his accuser would need to be proven guilty of making a false accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:55 AM
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I’m twenty. Ideally I’d like to be married by 25 at the latest, and I’d like to start having children soon after. I think I’d probably need to be in a relationship with a man for at least 2-3 years before I felt comfortable marrying him, so I’d need to have found him by the time I’m 22/23 at the latest, but of course if I met him earlier and therefore we were able to get married earlier that would be great. If I could be done with being pregnant before 30 that would be brilliant, but it does not…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:05 PM
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No. I really want to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:49 AM
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Absolutely not. I do not want to be subservient to my husband, nor do I want to share.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:12 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:00 AM
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I think you replied to the wrong comment mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:33 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:01 PM
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I would never have sex with a man who had a vasectomy. I would only have sex with a man I’m in a relationship with, and because I’m dating to marry (and I most definitely want children) I would not entertain the idea of a relationship with a man who has had a vasectomy, it would just be a waste of time to date a man like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:55 AM
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Yes that is definitely a deal breaker, I would never date a man who has kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:43 PM
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20 here, my acceptable range is 20-25 but i prefer 20-22.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:14 PM
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I don’t enjoy that sort of thing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:44 PM
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School/college/friend-group parties - this is a great opportunity to meet someone organically and develop a rapport over time before you actually start dating, which is my preference. Library/volunteer activities/hobby/gym - same as above except most people don’t go to these specifically to pick someone up and you don’t have the same obligation of showing up everyday like school and you don’t have the social cred as you would get while in a group of friends. Concert/theatre/museum/art gallery - …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:50 AM
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Oh give me a break. You can NOT find any even remotely reputable magazine/newspaper/website that would house such people. I never said that reputable sources host these people, because the ramblings of redpillers aren’t fit for polite society, but they do exist, they have platforms, and many people read their articles. Ever heard of ROK? On that site existed(still exists if you use wayback machine) an article with the title ”Women should be property”, it has hundreds of comments and the site has…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:08 PM
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I’m talking more about the men who brag about pumping and dumping, the men who write articles arguing that women should be property, the ones who condone violence, rape, cheating etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 10:18 AM
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I don’t dislike men on principle but reading red pill stuff has definitely made me less trusting of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:00 AM
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2/5 ”Down to earth”. 16.2% probability a guy meets my standards. It’s flawed though since it’s using american statistics, if it used statistics from my own country the probability of a guy meeting my standards would be higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:38 PM
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On average the 18-21yo woman usually gets with men 5+ years older than her As an actual 20 yo, that is not what I see. All the girls I went to high school and further education with are with guys their own age (within 2 yrs). Literally no one I know are dating a guy more than 2-3yrs older than them, and it’s not like these girls are shut-ins like me, they’re normal young women. Then again it might be different in america.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:19 AM
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You’ve convinced me, this is the fairest solution to both sexes. Not to the child of course, but no financial abortion suggestion ever is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:20 PM
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Yes? Most of my standards (see my comment on the dealbreakers/what makes a man undateable-post) are based on what I do/am myself, and most of my dealbreakers are qualities that are diametrically opposed to mine. If you scroll further back in my comment history you’ll see I am a virgin and want another virgin, and that I don’t have a wealth or income standard, because I don’t make much money myself. Demanding a rich man while I am a full-time student waitressing part time would be hypocrisy, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:38 AM
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So a girl is ruined after she is no longer a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:21 AM
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I’ve heard enough locker room talk to think otherwise. The vast sea of redpillers and incels who want a virgin say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:21 AM
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Personality: Cruelty, misogyny, incapable of managing his emotions(especially anger), arrogance, mean/rude, no manners, dishonest, manipulative, low empathy, philistine, stupid, pushover/doormat, naive, cheater, rapist. Looks: Shorter than me, significant disfigurement, obesity, bad hygiene. Career: Criminal, pilot/truck driver/anything that will have him away from home for significant amounts of time (especially overnights), professional athlete/actor/artist/anything that will get him women tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:37 PM
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It’s 0, and if a guy were to ask me early on I would lie and say I had a couple of boyfriends, and probably dump him afterwards. I’m not interested in dating a guy who is only with me so he can ”pop my cherry” or whatever. If we had been dating a bit longer and I felt like it could last and I might soon be comfortable having sex with him and I felt that he would not fetishise me for it then I would be truthful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:23 PM
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Yes me too. I have read so much hateful stuff about women online, there’s just so many of these redpillers/incels/tate stans, there’s no way I haven’t met at least one, but how can I know who it is? It’s so ubiquitous now that even men who appear normal and well adjused hold these views.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:11 PM
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One of the biggest predictors of children pursuing higher education is having educated parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:29 AM
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Yes that is a dealbreaker (for me personally). If the sex is casual that is a dealbreaker because I don’t do casual and I want someone with similar values. The only way it wouldn’t be casual is if they’re in a relationship with the one they’re sleeping with, but then why are they talking to me? Are they cheating? That’s a dealbreaker, I despise cheaters. Are they polyamorous/have an open relationship? That’s also a dealbreaker, I am strictly monogamous and want a partner who is the same. There’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 08:30 PM
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Tom.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:17 PM
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I’ve never experienced attraction at first sight, but with a guy I have a crush on I just want to be in his presence, orbit him like he’s the sun. When I’m around him I just feel warm and content inside, not necessarily in a sexual way, I just feel at peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 10:11 PM
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Cheating is cheating, and I would end the relatinship either way, BUT cheating on me with a man suggests my husband may never have had the capability to love or desire me in the first place (because he’s gay) and he may even have used me to appear straight, which would make our whole relationship a lie, whereas cheating with a woman may be the result of falling out of love or a momentary lapse of judgement, which would not sting quite as much as the first. Both scenarios are still unacceptable t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 10:02 PM
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I have never met a pro choice virgin We are definitely out here. I figure anti-choice virgins are more likely to be virgins because they’re religious, so they’re gonna be loud and proud about both their virginity and how much they hate abortion, whereas a pro-choice virgin is less likely to be religious and probably does not see her virginity as something to be revered and therefore does not advertise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:57 PM
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Diskrimineringslagen has been in effect since 2008.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:45 AM
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You just told me you know nothing about Sweden and get all your supposed knowledge about Scandinavia from far-right rage-bait, because affirmative action policies like quotas are illegal in Sweden.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:43 AM
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You are being disingenuous, making it out to be happenstance that women choose not to enter certain fields rather than a consequence of discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 02:38 AM
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The point of my original comment was that I AM pursuing a career that is extremely male-dominated, and that if I were male pursuing that career would be easier, so no, if I were a man I would not avoid the fields you mentioned simply because they might be female-dominated, because I’m not avoiding male-dominated fields now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 02:13 AM
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Yes, in a heartbeat. I would no longer be ridiculed because my interests, hobbies and my chosen education and future career path were not ”meant” for members of my sex, I would have a chance at a romantic relationship since men are valued for other things in addition to looks, and my father might actually love me. I would no longer feel extreme anxiety to settle down relatively early to have the best chance of having healthy children, I could calmly focus on my education and career in my twentie…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:46 AM
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No. My hard limit is five years my senior, but ideally my future husband would not be more than 2 years older than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:01 PM
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I want shared language and culture. The nordic countries are similar in some ways but very different in others. I might date a finnish man though, but he’d have to speak swedish well and be willing to live here. I’m not willing to move to another country myself. I wish to live and raise my future children here. There are approximately 230 000 sweden-born men in the age range I am looking for, I don’t see why I would need to look outside the country to find a husband, my standards are surely not …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:33 PM
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Body count. How many people you’ve slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:52 PM
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19F. N=0. Height: >174cm, <2m. Income: Don’t care. Race: Don’t care but nationality should be Swedish. Body type: I like both muscular and buff as well as lean or skinny. Not obese, other than that some fluff is fine too but not my favorite. House: Don’t care. Kids: No prior kids. I’d like to have 1-4 eventually. Added because they’re important to me: N-count: 0-3. (0 preferred) Age: <24
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:16 PM
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19F, straight. 0 ncount. IMO overall: 0-3 is low, 4-6 is medium, 7-9 is high, double digits is extremely high. However I personally wouldn’t want to date someone with more than 3 bodies, and would prefer a fellow virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:15 PM
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In my country if a man is found to not be the father of a child presumed to be his all his legal ties with the child will be cut. Therefore he can not be forced to pay child support for that child any more than a stranger on the street could be. There is no amount of time which can negate this. I believe this is how it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:45 AM
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I don’t like rings, I’m not much for jewelry in general and I think rings in particular are uncomfortable so I wouldn’t want to have an engagement ring, plus it would feel like a waste of money to spend on something I wouldn’t even enjoy. I would like to have some symbol of my marriage though so I’d like to have wedding bands(even though I don’t like rings, I feel like I could tolerate just one), imo they should be simple, durable, as comfortable as possible and matching.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:25 AM
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As previously stated, it is not common for parents to have sole custody, over 90% of children have parents with shared custody. Also, if you are unable to pay the full amount of ”underhåll” because you have a low income, you will be freed of the duty to pay either partially or fully, depending on just how low your income is. Also, riksnormen 2022 for a child that would be entitled to 2223kr in underhåll is 4040kr which is approx. half, it’s only fair that the cost of raising a child is divided f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:29 AM
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Child support amounts are laughable in Sweden, the most a person can be made to pay in ”underhåll” per month is 2223kr, and that is only for some children, for others it is even less. Anything beyond that is entirely voluntary. Also once again, underhåll is only required if a child spends more time at one parents house than the other ones. So you can entirely circumvent any need to pay underhåll by having your children live 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:16 AM
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Nope, ”underhåll” is the swedish version of child support, paid by one parent to the other for the costs of upkeep of their mutual child when that child spends more time with one parent than the other. Spousal support, which is what alimony colloquially refers to, is unheard of in Sweden. Also, over 90% of children in Sweden have parents with shared custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:52 PM
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Are you in Norway or Denmark? Because there is no such thing as alimony in Sweden, also courts overwhelmingly favour shared custody in Sweden, so much so that even fathers who are abusive are allowed to keep custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:41 PM
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