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Field ReportCoach-Red-Pill/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 11:31 AM
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Field ReportCoach-Red-Pill/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 03:50 PM
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Red Pill TheoryCoach-Red-Pill/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 03:58 PM
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Field ReportCoach-Red-Pill/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 09:02 PM
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Building PowerCoach-Red-Pill/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 11:33 AM
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Building PowerCoach-Red-Pill/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 08:15 PM
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CultureCoach-Red-Pill/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 09:56 AM
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Coach-Red-Pill/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/17 06:09 AM
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Coach-Red-Pill/r/askTRP26/06/17 02:33 PM
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Field ReportCoach-Red-Pill/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 07:43 PM
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“Trust but verify”: Always do a DNA, just to be 100% sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/17 08:49 AM
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Sure it does—it means she scraped out her womb, rather than carry his child.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/17 10:09 AM
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Sure it does—it means she scraped out her womb, rather than carry his child.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/17 10:08 AM
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A miscarriage is completely different from an abortion in terms of the relationship. Not to pry or be forward, but you and your wife both wanted this child—but in the OP's case, the OP's LTR doesn't want his child. Hence, the OP's LTR doesn't want him. A woman miscarrying is a tragedy. A woman aborting means she doesn't want the man's child.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/17 05:37 AM
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If your LTR is aborting your child, dump her and find someone else. Your current woman does not want to have your child. The reason could be anything—from not wanting to carry your seed, to being brainwashed by Left-wing bullshit—in the end, the specific reason does not matter: She does not want to carry your child. If a woman does not want to carry your child, then what exactly is the point of being with her?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/17 05:34 AM
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As I said elsewhere, I didn't have the resources at the time; and when a few years later I did, I consciously made the decision to move on and not let this shit pull me down.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/17 02:01 PM
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I can't speak of other Ivies. But at mine, in 1991, you were required to have a computer, in our case a Mac; and everyone—without exception—had an email account, using an email client that was absurdly easy and convenient to use. You don't believe me, hey, fine by me. Cheers. CRP
/r/TheRedPill02/07/17 02:00 PM
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Of course I will. They're too young now, but when they're older, I'll tell them—especially the hard-earned lessons from the episode.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/17 10:48 AM
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Like I wrote in the OP, at the time, I didn't have the resources. By the time I finally did—after I'd graduated—I had other things on my mind, other priorities in my life.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/17 10:47 AM
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It started with Title IX of the Education Amendments Act of 1972. Title IX states that, “No person in the United States shall, on the basis of sex, be excluded from participation in, be denied the benefits of, or be subjected to discrimination under any education program or activity receiving Federal financial assistance.” The spirit of this was to ensure that women had the same sports facilities as men. If any college or university discriminated against women, they would lose their Federal fund…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 09:50 PM
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We used Macs, not windows. As I recall, we were transitioning from System 6 to System 7. There wasn't a dial-in modem, we just plugged in to outlets in our dorm rooms. (I have no idea what “text-based VAX terminals” means, I'm not a computer person.) I am unclear as to why you would think I'm making up that part of my story.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 09:15 PM
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It was an Ivy League school with a strong computing department. We were all required to buy computers by that time.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 08:59 PM
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I live very well. Each year I age, I get more attractive to young women. Each year this woman ages, the more invisible she gets. That's revenge enough.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 03:55 PM
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What about a strategy of letting them convict you unjustly and then suing? Might be some easy money there? Lawsuits take years, and the outcome is uncertain.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 03:50 PM
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There are a lots of suits, often successful. But the problem is the victim mentality and the women-so-fragile narrative.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 03:48 PM
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It happens. Onward and upward, says I! Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 03:41 PM
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Videotaping a sexual encounter? I don't know, it varies by state. If it's illegal to videotape, ask yourself if the penalty for it is worse than the penalty over a false-rape charge.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 03:09 PM
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This shit has been around a lot longer than most of us realize because men tend to move on and don't dwell on stories of victimization. Exactly. I never thought of “getting back” at this woman, I was just interested in moving on.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 02:54 PM
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Now, reading your thread, I get the feeling that I dodged shitload of bullets on that one, including a false rape charge caused by bruised ego. Probably. If you see a girl waving a red flag, how many more red flags do you need before you avoid her? If you get the vibe that she's nuts, drop her--but get her to text you that all is good between you, so you have proof. (The best thing to do, which I'll write about later, is to always film any interaction at your place, especially while at college, …
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 01:17 PM
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Not at the time, I didn't have the resources then. Later, when I had the money to kick up a fuss, I realized it would be a waste of my time and energy.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 12:48 PM
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Thank you! And agree, unfortunately.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 12:07 PM
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Thank you. I don't know if Karma caught up with her—but I do know an old saying: The best revenge is living well.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 11:58 AM
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Most CEO's in publicly traded companies are true-blue betas. Sad but true.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 09:46 PM
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Whatever helps you jerk off at night.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 08:59 AM
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If you make seven million dollars in one year you have fuck you money If you make seven million—and spend ten—you don't have fuck you money. In fact you're on your way to bankruptcy. Income only matters when compared and contrasted to expenditures.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 08:57 AM
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Maybe we are arguing definition here. I think we are. There is a difference in my mind between indeclinable obligations freely entered into—such as fatherhood, for instance—and being enslaved by a client, as I described.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 09:39 PM
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I disagree. You are certainly right that the value of a man depends on the people who depend on him—family, employees, etc. All these relationships are freely undertaken by a man, so he is certainly responsible to them. But then, he chose those obligations. Which is different. But to be enslaved by a client? No, that's slavery. Just my viewpoint, just my 2¢.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 09:37 PM
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Against it, no exceptions barring an ectopic pregnancy.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 08:51 PM
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homey-dude is alright. /amuzed Thanks! And drop by my YT channel whenever. CRP
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 08:21 PM
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You're at the perfect age to take a year off and travel. It did wonders for me, maybe it'll help you out. And a lost year in your early 20's means nothing in the overall scheme of your life. Don't jump into some job or degree program because you have to, but because you want to. And if you need a year to decide, take it, you'll be fine. Just my 2¢.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 08:18 PM
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Agree. I bet /u/Throwawaytodaytfp could tell someone to fuck off—but in such a way that they walk away with a smile! Cheers, /u/Throwawaytodaytfp, and thanks again for your pointers. CRP
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 08:13 PM
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/amuzed Good turn of phrase, that.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 08:04 PM
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You mentioned in one of your umpteen previous posts that you only date women under 25 - I'd seriously love to know what women under 25 are throwing themselves at you, because unless they're absolute stock wildebeests, I don't believe it for an instant. Ask /u/GayLubeOil if I'm lying. I spoke with him via Skype just a few days ago.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 08:01 PM
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Don't remember that, but it's pretty accurate, don't you think?
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 04:45 PM
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How often do you think would be advisable to post on this subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 04:36 PM
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Good to know. Thanks for the advice.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 04:31 PM
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Jesus . . .
/r/askTRP26/06/17 04:17 PM
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No idea why this is. But it is. Oddly enough, normal girls are rather afraid of horses, and avoid them if at all possible.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 02:16 PM
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Good to know, won't happen again. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 01:50 PM
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I pictured you as that laid back guy who didn't give a flying fuck about this wannabe alpha. I literally pictured you like that from the moment you wrote you just waited him out. That's not quite true: I very badly wanted to own the group, especially because from the moment I walked in, I fancied one of the girls. But I knew from the outset that if I butted heads with J. right out of the gate, I would lose. He was younger than me, bigger than me, better looking than me, more naturally charismati…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 01:28 PM
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Good insight, hadn't thought of it that way.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 01:13 PM
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And you are implying . . . what, exactly. See, if you're going to question the veracity of my story—which I don't mind, and which is indeed legitimate, seeing as anyone can make up whatever they want on Reddit—then you have to question something relevant and central to the story. But questioning the fact that I didn't pay attention to the name of the venue where it happened? That's just a passive-aggressive and ineffectual way of challenging the story. I don't mind the passive-aggressiveness—but…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 01:12 PM
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Passivity is weakness. Patience is strength. Cheers, CRP
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 12:32 PM
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lol . . . but absolutely goddamned right. Unfortunately.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 07:53 AM
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For you? Some combination of pink and neon. That should bring out your eyes.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 07:50 AM
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Actually I don't know the name of the pub—it's the one on Westbourne Grove and Queensway.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 07:28 AM
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I've seen plenty of J's and they universally rule by fear, not by admiration. Exactly. The more you clench your fist, the more water slips through your hand.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 07:24 AM
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Everything causes cancer—once you realize that, enjoy the things you like. Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 07:23 AM
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Wouldn't the alpha way be to just establish order in an amicable and reassuring way? For example in this case, this J. guy could have some acquaintances that could be to your benefit. Excellent point. The problem is, I didn't do anything—it was all in J.'s head. I let him be alpha, until I got bored and went out for a smoke. He followed, with the sole intention of “winning”. The lesson isn't to be like me—the lesson is to not be like J. Because J. had three allies—all of whom he lost because he …
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 07:17 AM
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politics is a subject filled with land mines hanging out htere too long will bite most of us in the ass. Absolutely agree. I love talking politics—and it took me until my early 30's to realize it's a conversation killer, like you point out. Also, most rational guys are on the Right—whereas most young women are on the Left. (They go Right after they've had kids.) So talking politics is an automatic way to alienate women, which is foolish.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 07:13 AM
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J.? Is that you? Fancy meeting up with you here.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 12:19 AM
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What say you guys? In most cases I would be all about dropping her ass, but this particular situation really confused me. You claim your username is “3nterprise”? More like “BitchBoyBluePillBeta”. Ditch the cheating bitch, and take a steel pad and scrub your soul for having even contemplated continuing with her.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 09:11 PM
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Good doggie. Wanna treat? Jump, doggie, jump . . .
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 08:39 PM
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Smart of you to calm down, beta-v. You sounded unhinged in your previous post. But now, all calm and reasonable? Good doggie . . .
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 08:25 PM
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Wow! This is one angry dude! What's the matter, /u/batavianguy? Mommy didn't breast-feed you enough? Or is it that the wifey won't blow you anymore. Please tell us, we're all curious.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 08:14 PM
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I've read this post before—it's not new.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 07:44 PM
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Dude that is so fucking weird. No it's not weird. Great minds think alike, my brother. Cheers, CRP
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 05:51 PM
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Thank you! Vry nice of you to say!
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 04:44 PM
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Thanks! Very kind of you to say!
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 04:43 PM
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I'll pick it up. Actually saw it today at Waterstone's. Bought (and am reading) Douglas Murray's “The Strange Death of Europe”—fascinating book.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 04:42 PM
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Agree. An yes, I think the European Union is one giant HR department masquerading as a government! Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 10:53 AM
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Actually, that saying is very true!
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 09:10 AM
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Very true. Hadn't thought of dancing.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 12:15 AM
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i'm not here to bash/judge anyone's dating prerogatives, [. . .] but [. . .] Right away, sounds suspicious. i will say that the older dudes who hit on us when we're in our early twenties and at the apex of our hotness are kind of a joke. The phrase “the apex of our hotness” makes me pretty sure this is a guy who’s sock-puppetting. A 28-y.o. woman would never describe herself this way—and never admit that her peak attractiveness is in the past. when macho alpha 50 y/o comes over and tries to woo …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 07:52 AM
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On this issue, don't make decision you can't reverse. If you're hell bent on getting a vasectomy, then freeze some of you sperm while you're at it. A vasectomy can be reversed, but you may be rendered sterile anyway. Another commenter said that having kids was more work and responsibility than its worth. I disagree, but I can see where he's coming from.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 05:54 PM
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Do you have any tips on your approach Be Zen. Be outcome-indifferent.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 07:33 AM
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I should have invested in bitcoin back in 2009. Fuck me. Regrets do nothing except make you bitter. Forget about what you did or did not do in the past—just move forward.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 07:32 AM
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I'm glad it did, that was the whole idea. CRP
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 05:06 PM
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I have a 19 y.o. in my rotation. So why would I want another one? Especially as you don't sound particularly unusual or interesting. Or is there something about you that I'm missing.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 04:19 PM
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Completely agree with /u/SovereignSoul76's comment.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 04:01 PM
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Not on my shoes, please, they're blue suede.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 03:49 PM
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Well, use this imbecile professor to your advantage!!! Didn't do your problem set on time? “Oh, it's that Trump did X—I would have finished the set if it weren't for Trump!” Grade changed from “Incomplete” to “Complete”. Got a 72% on a midterm? “Oh, it's that Trump did Y—I would have done better if it weren't for Trump!” Get grade changed from 72% to 92%. See, you can fight the prof—and you'll lose. Or you can use the prof—and you'll win. Pick your battles, son. And know when to use your enemies…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 12:48 PM
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I liked your comment, and couldn't agree more with your points. CRP
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 12:45 PM
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What do you care, if someone's giving you shit. If they're giving you shit, it's because they're envious, or don't have the balls to do what you are doing. Capisce?
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 12:40 PM
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You're right. I never go to clubs, discos, or bars, because you're right, I would be completely out of place. Also, those places are the worst places to meet women you want to see twice.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 12:36 PM
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Poor bastard. /head shake Look, what you crave is essentially being passive and submissive. Your sexual proclivities demand you be passive and submissive. Whereas those who are red pilled are often as not young men who have been conditioned to be passive and submissive—but yet want to be dominant and aggressive. Hence these young men are here, learning how to be dominant and aggressive. So frankly I don't see any way to reconcile your needs with the goals or TRP. This is just my opinion. Best of…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 10:02 AM
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Do red pill concepts still apply in your case? Of course they do. But it gets subtler, far less blatant. A little goes a lot farther, as it were.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 11:56 PM
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Wow. Bitter much? Wait, are you one of those post-Wall women I discuss here? I bet you are, aren't you . . .
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 11:21 PM
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It's like they literally hit a wall. lol. Yes, it does seem like that, doesn't it?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 10:49 PM
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Awww!!! My feewings are huwt!!!
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 10:22 PM
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So in your opinion, who corresponds to which of your categories.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 10:15 PM
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Please expand and elaborate. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 10:11 PM
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I answered it by sending you to this video of mine, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uMnmJlFxxZQ, where I answered most of the questions you posed. Best, CRP
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 10:08 PM
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Because it's amusing. Because I like to see their reactions.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 10:06 PM
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Thanks for the comment. I discuss almost all the points you raised in this video, “The Days Are Long, But The Decades Are Short” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uMnmJlFxxZQ Hope it helps. CRP
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 10:04 PM
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Yes. Couldn't have said it better.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 09:30 PM
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to think i was having second thoughts on bangin an 18 year old a couple weeks ago OK, you are the one who needs to go see a shrink! Fuck that, if you're passing on trim, we gotta stick you in the funny farm right away!!!! Cheers, CRP
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 09:29 PM
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Thank you. That's very kind of you to say, and it's greatly appreciated. My goal—sincerely—is to help younger guys figure shit out. Because this shit is easy to figure out, so long as you look at it right. Best, CRP
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 09:26 PM
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So they assume that women are these magic little prizes that some fairy comes and sprinkles on certain chosen men? That's the most objectifying, agency-denying thing I've ever heard! Yeah, isn't it? Talk about putting women down!
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 08:32 PM
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Who needs looks or money, if they got game.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 07:28 PM
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And btw, you all think I should change my handle to Mr. Patriarchy? /amused
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 07:25 PM
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What is your secret? The right foot powder, and regular bowel movements. /smirk Cheers, and thank you for the very kind words. Best, CRP
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 07:24 PM
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Thanks! Much appreciated, hope you enjoy the content.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 07:23 PM
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Do calculus on your future objectives: Break those big goals into small, discrete units, and try to accomplish them. Focus on the little increments, the small-delta. Each little increment is easy to complete, and as you complete each, you soon find yourself getting to where you want to be.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 07:04 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5tEELgWBfKbA9fVPRzBzPQ
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 07:02 PM
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Everywhere. Always be willing to approach any woman, any time, any where. And don't always approach hotties. Sometimes I talk to decidedly older ladies (in their 60's or 70's), just to pass the time. Talking to strangers keeps you sharp. Also, I'm very, self-consciously zen, detached from any outcome. That helps a lot.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 06:21 PM
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Go to my YT channel and check out my videos. You'll be able to tell if I'm full of shit or not.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 06:19 PM
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The weak protests from the beta male amount to the following: "It's not fair...you're not following the rules like we do!" lol, absolutely right. Here's to the rule-breakers.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 06:17 PM
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It's not lifting 2,000 lbs., it's not making $100 billion—it's all about self-respect, and confidence, a confidence that can only be achieved by way of real accomplishments. You get that real, hard-earned confidence—the confidence that is a product of real success, such as (for instance) building a small business from nothing into a 20-person company—and the girls come your way if you want. They can smell that hard-earned confidence. Just my 2¢.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 06:02 PM
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I realized that when something good happens to you, a true friend will be happy for you and those feelings of happiness will overcome other feelings of jealousy or discomfort that they might have. Absolutely right. I suspect that at bottom, blue-pilled collectivists are at bottom burning with envy, and nothing more.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 05:57 PM
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Reading your post only made me more determined to stick up my two middle fingers in the face of our modern day feminist society. Good!! Keep those middle-fingers up and aimed right at their angry faces, while you keep a big fat smirk on yours. Best, and I'm glad this is keeping your spirits up, CRP
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 05:56 PM
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The way you talk and present yourself radiates a great deal of confidence What can I say, I'm a really good actor. Fake it 'til you make it! /amuzed. Thanks for the kind words. Best, CRP
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 05:53 PM
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Of course I've had oneitis—and anyone who claims otherwise is a liar. The last time it happened to me was in 2000. However, even then, even as far back as 1986, when I fell hard for a girl, I always knew that I had to live by the motto Dignity Before All. That motto has served me well.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 05:52 PM
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You're welcome! And thank you for the kind words. CRP
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 05:50 PM
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My problem is : younger women don't want to date me because they think I'm old ( I'm 28 ). Then you're doing something wrong. Whatever it is, fix it.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 04:53 PM
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I once had a couple of cows take me to task for wanting nothing to do with children, flatly stating that [. . .] I should invest in some single mother's child That's a howler! As if the money you've spent decades earning ought to be casually given away to some random child who's not yours!
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 04:51 PM
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they despise people whom have individual agency and despise even more so those that actually utilise it. Agreed. The collectivists on the Left—far from being tolerant—an intolerant of anything and anyone who deviates from their norm.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 04:35 PM
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Totally agree with you. But a lot of guys here, especially young guys, college-aged kids, think as I wrote in the post: That any deviation is “beta-cuck”. Which is stupid, as you said.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 04:03 PM
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YES!!!!! Exactly right. Cheers, CRP
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 04:01 PM
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The concept of checkpoints is excellent. Good to see you've got your shit together. Pass that along to others who might need it—they'll thank you for it.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 04:01 PM
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A major cause of depression in some people [. . .] is a lack of future-focused action in their day-to-day lives. Exactly—especially among young guys. Gotta help them out on that score.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 02:59 PM
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There are no indiscrete questions. Only indiscrete answers.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 02:00 PM
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Fantastic insight on cold approaches—best I've ever read. I really like the idea of getting into the mindset of a waiter—it had never occurred to me before. But you are absolutely right. And what's best is that it's simple: “Just pretend you're a waiter”, what could be easier. And if you keep reminding yourself that you are a waiter, then you'll always stay on point insofar as the cold approach is concerned. Outstanding insight/tip. Kudos!
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 12:55 PM
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Appreciate the endorsement, very kind of you.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 12:11 PM
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Unfortunately, American women are a mess. That's why I only deal with European women. American women are fat, lazy, entitled, they don't take care of themselves or use makeup or nice clothes (unless it's for a social thing where they want to show up other women), they are loud, they can't cook, and they are uneducated and uninterested in the wider world. Frankly, American women are the bottom of the barrel. And that's the sad truth. It wasn't always the case. But it is now. My suggestion: Buy a …
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 12:09 PM
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Why do you keep bringing up sodomy? Is it because you're a repressed homosexual who has gay ideations? Fly your freak flag proudly, /u/lakesidelife! It's okay if you're gay! No judgment here, don't worry! Go on—live life! Don't keep repressing your homosexual urges!
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 12:02 PM
1

Yeah, just some nonsense that happened. In banking, that kind of crap happens all the time. Bankers are a lot like women, constantly testing boundaries, constantly shit-testing, only turning meek and docile when you crack the whip and show them you have options. And like women, bankers abandon you the second they sense weakness.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 08:15 AM
1

When you discuss being a self defeating alpha you are talking about noobs who go red pill rambo It's that there does seem to be a lot of this kind of attitude going on here, wouldn't you agree?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 08:14 AM
0

I haven't gotten into a fight since . . . high-school? Maybe junior-high? I haven't needed to. Why would I? I can get all that I want out of life without resorting to violence, or insults, or obscene language. I suspect that /u/lakesidelife is just a lonely and broken man, without any family or love in his life, who is lashing out on everyone and everything and anything he can. Thrashing about like a drowning man. I wouldn't be surprised if you told me he ended his days by chewing off the barrel…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 02:09 AM
1

Preach it! Preach it! Goodness my, this /u/TaylorWolf is a piece of work!
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 01:59 AM
0

You are amusingly pathetic. Did you work at it? Or does it come natural. Or could it be that you don't have anything in your life? Could it be that you're a sad and lonely grotesque of a human being, carrying a misshapen and deformed soul? A grotesque of a man who has managed to antagonize and alienate everyone and everything good and decent in your life? Is that why you find the need to fling fairly outrageous insults at strangers for no reason at all? Or does it drive you a little bit around t…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 01:53 AM
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You have a negative comment karma. Never seen anyone have a negative score before—but judging by your comments on this post, I am unsurprised that you do.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 01:13 AM
2

Thank you! Very kind of you to say!
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 01:06 AM
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Exactly. But a lot of guys on TRP seem to think you have to be alpha all the time—and if you deviate an inch from what they consider alpha, then you're automatically a beta-cuck-loser—both of which are of course absurd.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 12:42 AM
5

As per my post: This is an example of a guy who thinks he's alpha, but is just an asshole.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 12:22 AM
2

Thanks! And thanks for following me, I hope you enjoy the videos. They're a lot of fun for me to make. CRP
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 11:21 PM
1

Writing you a private message.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 10:52 PM
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Exactly right. How fucking smart is it to act all “alpha” and get a $500 ticket, when a “beta-cuck-loser” approach of saying, “Yessir, I'm so sorry, I'll never speed again” will save you the money and the hassle?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 10:51 PM
3

Son! You are so fucking wrong!!! My man, believe me: I do not care how great this woman is—you will find someone better.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 10:42 PM
2

You amuse me. Keep it up, please.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 10:36 PM
3

Don't understand your point. Please expand. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 10:35 PM
3

Son, you just move on! Remember words of wisdom: She's not yours, it's just your turn. PS: Believe it or not, you will find someone hotter, tighter, better. Because no matter how hot, tight, or good she is, there is always someone better.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 10:33 PM
1

Who says I didn't get what I wanted out of her? /smirk
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 09:20 PM
3

Exactly. After all, women are children, only with better vocabularies, and an ability to hide their irrationality and capriciousness. If you always remember that women are no different from capricious children, they are easy to manage.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 09:17 PM
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My heart was pounding as I read your story—you're a good writer! Good pacing, tight control of tension. And o.c., glad that it all worked out for your. Best of luck in everything else in your life.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 08:30 PM
5

So how do you prevent a girl from seeing you as a provider? You want her to see you as someone who can provide for her. Now, whether you will provide for her or not . . . that will depend on her complying with your exigencies.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 07:40 PM
1

Agree.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 06:19 PM
3

“You are the company you keep.” If I were you, I'd cut this guy loose and move on, make other friends. Friends can drag you down. Make no mistake about that.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 06:18 PM
10

So could one still be beta when they're trying to be alpha in the wrong situation? Absolutely, that's my point with my hypothetical example of “dominating” my toddlers and getting them to bed on time: I'd be a fucking asshole if I tried forcing them to go to sleep, instead of letting them play. I'd be acting “alpha” by imposing my will on them—but the net effect would be me being a loser.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 06:05 PM
4

Triggers are proof the SJW is living in a fake mythology. If the SJW could handle the Truth they would not have Triggers. Very good insight. Thanks! CRP
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 05:38 PM
5

I presume you're describing your wife, lol. Actually my wife just turned 27, she's skinny, medium-to-tall, very non-materialistic, and a wonderful, conscientious mother.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 05:37 PM
2

You completely missed the point of my post.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 05:20 PM
1

There are alpha traits and beta traits. No, there aren't. There are times when it's alpha to do X, and there are other times when it's alpha to do not-X. Which is my point. A real rookie error. Like confusing confidence with condescension.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 05:19 PM
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Thanks! And I couldn't agree more with what you said. Cheers. CRP
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 05:16 PM
11

First off: You are not a unique snowflake. Every guy—and I mean every guy, no matter how alpha he might seem—has acted as pussy as you have. So you did act like a giant fucking bitch-boy cuck-bottom herb-shit-eating pussy. But know that you're not unique. OK? Now, you dip your toe in the pool, it's gonna be cold and it's gonna scare you off. But you dive right in, and after the initial shock, you realize it wasn't so cold as you thought. In fact you realize that it's really nice. Call or text th…
/r/askTRP17/06/17 04:43 PM
2

Two mistakes: Mistake One, you didn't record the conversation with your cellphone. Always-always-always record any interaction with a woman, with video or if you can't then audio. It's so easy to do, I do not understand why everyone is not doing it. Mistake Two, you messed with crazy. When a girl immediately starts making out with you, then know that you are dealing with crazy—so you get the fuck out of there. Non-crazy girls do not start eagerly fooling around. Now, this is what you do: Don't c…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 04:24 PM
1

I wish I could do it. Then do it. What's stopping you?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 03:50 PM
1

Experience. There is no short way around it. You have to live the life to get the experience. Exactly right. You can't cut corners on experience.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 03:00 PM
1

I am a douchebag. Your point being?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 12:37 PM
3

My daily driver is an '86 Mercedes Benz 300SL. My family car is a late-model gelandewagon. My pride-and-joy is a 1952 XK120. But I should point out the obvious: A car doesn't define a man, nor is it an accurate measure of his worth. Anyone who thinks so is a fool.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 12:25 PM
3

Living your life trapped in the position where you are evaluating every decision you and others around you make as alpha or beta, is beta as fuck. Absolutely Goddamned Right. All decisions are contextual. Ask yourself, who is more “alpha”: The guy who acts “beta” on occasion in order to get what he wants? Or the guy who is relentlessly “alpha”—and fails to get what he wants.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 09:35 AM
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I fuck chicks for free So do I. I bought her the makeup crap after I was already with her.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 09:33 AM
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I'm not a god who never strikes out, nor am I some immaculate alpha Chad who kills everything I do. But consistent effort mixed with some luck has changed my life. Me too. For younger guys, remember this.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 09:19 AM
2

He didn't engage her because he has abundance mentality No. I was there, you weren't. He didn't engage her because he didn't have the nerve. By her smile alone, a blind man could tell he had the opportunity—but he lacked the balls. And btw, I'm meeting my Norwegian cutie in 15 minutes as I type.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 09:17 AM
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It's hard to pin down. The point is there's something intangible that younger women offer or are thankful for that older women tend to overlook. Agree completely. Younger girls are simply more grateful—and they show it to boot!
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 09:14 AM
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First your write: You're fooling yourself. Your examples are gold diggers. Your girls are nothing but prostituting themselves. Anyone can do that. You're a joke posting this crap. Then you write: Anyway I have questions. Where are you meeting these young women? be honest. In other words: “You're nothing but a dumb John who's fucking whores! . . . Where can I meet those whores?”
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 09:12 AM
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Everywhere except clubs and bars and discotheques.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 09:10 AM
1

Would I have talked about it with a girlfriend or girl I'm trying to date? No. But to someone I'm not interested in who I felt could help? Yes. Absolute agree, and good that you spoke to your coworker.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 09:09 AM
4

27 is “getting to that age”?!?! /laughing.too.hard.to.continue.typing
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 09:08 AM
4

I am settled down, with a family and kids and everything. It's not an either/or choice. It's a both/and.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 09:07 AM
3

No, that's female fertility. Guys go strong forever. Read Picasso's biography, as just one example.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 09:06 AM
3

Money is a tool YOUR whole confidence is built around. Without it i doubt you'd have any game at all. You're right, without money, I wouldn't have any game at all. But then, I did earn my money . . . so . . . here we are.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 09:05 AM
2

“Don't be a defeatist. Don't accept your miserable lot in life”—that is my sage advice.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 09:03 AM
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You dip your toes in a pool—and it's cold. So how do you get yourself into the water? You grit your teeth and dive in. And the funny thing of it is, once you're in the water, it's not as cold as you thought. Grit your teeth and dive in. It's 1,000 times better to crash and burn, than to live with the regret of what might have been. Best of luck.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 02:18 AM
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Stick with it, kid—the monk life is tough, but it's worth it, esp. if you're doing it right, which is what it sounds like from your comment. Just don't spank the monkey too hard, you Masturbating Monk. Cheers, CRP, aka, “Old Dirty Geezer”
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 02:15 AM
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My dick is my barometer. /v.amused So's mine! Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 01:35 AM
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Half my age minus 7. Now we're talkin'.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 01:33 AM
1

You are absolutely right. The women I date are draining my bank account, one taxi fare and one dinner date at a time. They are so damned sly and sneaky!
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 01:32 AM
1

You are absolutely right. The women I date are draining my bank account, one taxi fare and one dinner date at a time. They are so damned sly and sneaky!
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 01:32 AM
1

You're absolutely right. The women I date are draining my bank account, one taxi fare and one dinner at a time. They are so sly and sneaky!
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 01:31 AM
1

You're absolutely right. The women I date are draining my bank account, one taxi fare and one dinner at a time. They are so sly and sneaky!
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 01:31 AM
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If putting it that way makes you feel better, sure, why not, go ahead.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 01:20 AM
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Yeah, I know! Like I should be ashamed for not dating 40- or 45-year old post-Wall women! Also, the resentment and envy expressing itself as concern-trolling, or weird red-pill arguing . . . an object lesson in how hamstering is not just a chick thing. Oh well, I figure that if there's a substantial group of people criticizing me, I'm doing things right—and if everyone is agreeing with me, then I'm definitely doing something wrong. Cheers. CRP
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 01:18 AM
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Basically, this is true. You forgot to add that in most cases in antiquity, the older, more dominant and established male had several females as wives and/or concubines. The funny thing is, in the current deregulated sexual marketplace, we are seeing the same kind of concentration: A few men with multiple women, and a large swathe of men without access to any women. Which long-term is not good for the society as a whole, as can be seen in historical precedents. (Check out Unwin's “Sex & Culture”…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 12:34 AM
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Once again, you are right as rain: I don't have the fight in me to engage with more age-appropriate women, women who are 40, 45, 50 years old. Women who can compare me to other men like me, and realize that I am coming up short. Hence I'm not a true alpha. I am an ersatz-alpha, a pale and shoddy counterfeit. So I'll just have to stick to those dumb 22 year old hard-bodies who are so easily impressed by a loser such as myself, while those true women of 45, 50 years of age reject me for not being …
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 12:05 AM
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I'm glad. That was actually the purpose of the post: To tell young guys what they have to look forward to.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 12:00 AM
2

This sounds completely irrational, if not vaguely unhinged.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 11:59 PM
1

No you're not. You're a boy, with an IQ in the double digits.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 11:43 PM
1

DM me, and tell me in more detail what you are trying to say. Because I'm still confused, but I'm interested.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 11:40 PM
2

You are an idiot.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 11:39 PM
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Best comment here, hands down. You're right, pipeline is key. First off, I assume I can meet a girl anywhere I go, wherever I go. Second, I don't bother with bars or clubs—ever. Because clubs are where people are interested in each other on a purely superficial basis, and I can't compete there, for the obvious fact that I'm middle-aged. Furthermore, clubs are a mecca of bottle service girls and money junkies and other fairly trashy girls—not interested. I meet young women at random. Coffee shops…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 11:11 PM
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But don't delude yourself into thinking that it is the age that makes you just that, you would do so much better with those traits in a 25 year old body. No. When I was 25, I was much more impatient, less self-aware, and much less understanding of what drives women. Even though I was sexually active, with a gf and a wide social circle, I most certainly did not have what I have now, which is experience. From my direct experience, confidence and self-assuredness trumps youth and looks every single…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 10:59 PM
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I had sex on my 13th birthday, and got laid fairly regularly throughout my life. So I don't have any hang-ups about never having gotten laid in my teens or twenties or whenever, and finally now getting some. That might be your story—it certainly is not mine. As to my not being able to make a marriage last, which is what I assume you are implying in your last sentence: My marriage is fine. So all in all, I'm not sure what point you're trying to make. So please elaborate what you are objecting to.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 10:54 PM
1

I'm guessing you're from Holland or Germany or Denmark, by your diction. A more self-consciously equalist country like that—which strives to eliminate the innate differences in the sexes, turning boys into defective girls, and women into defective men—frowns on older men with younger women. It violates their equalist point of view. But in the rest of the world, it's natural. More to the point, it feels right to the people in the relationship. Young women are naturally more mature than young men.…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 10:49 PM
3

Things got easier in my early thirties, as regards women. It's when I finally understood them. Understood their true natures, understood that they are essentially toddlers with better vocabularies—and like toddlers, ruled by their impulses, easily swayed by their emotions. After that, I got all the pussy I could ever want.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 10:39 PM
2

Read this comment, didn't understand the bitterness, until I came to the final sentence commenter wrote: i didn't expect TRP to be so bluepilled to upvote this fairytale garbage. That's the key sentence—and that's when I understood the commenter. My post, this “fairytale garbage”, cannot be real. Because if it is, then commenter is failing. Remember, kids: Hamstering is not just a girl thing. But whereas girls are slaves to their hamster, a man can detach himself and study his own reactions. I s…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 10:34 PM
2

I'd never date someone past 25. I'll explain in a post I'll put up tomorrow.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 10:24 PM
1

By age 50 a man should have achieved a lot of the things listed, but also built a family which is the end goal of sexual strategy. I have a family. Wife and two kids. Your point being?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 10:16 PM
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You're absolutely right, I can't handle a woman my own age. A 49 year old woman is bitter, resentful, materialistic, needy, whiny, promiscuous and bitchy. Yes. Such women overwhelm me. On the other hand, a fresh young 21 year old? Bright, fun to be around, easygoing, up for anything, delighted when I get them a flower or take them on a sudden trip? Yes, I can handle a girl like that. Her being at the peak of her sex appeal is just a bonus.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 10:15 PM
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OK, I'll play along. Re. point 1, the girls I date, in their early 20's, aren't consciously looking to settle down with anyone. I'm sure if I were dealing with girls in their late-20's, early-30s, it would be a different story, and fit in with what you're saying here. But in my own case, dealing with 19 to 25 year olds, you are totally off the mark here. Re. point 2, in my own experience, I haven't been cheated on, I haven't been manipulated into paying off anyone's debt of any sort, and I haven…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 09:55 PM
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The way you structured your comment, and your emphasis on the visual as opposed to the tactile, and the rational as opposed to the emotional, makes me think you're a male. The fact that yours is a brand-new account also makes me skeptical as to whom you claim to be.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 09:35 PM
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Sounds to me like you're just a sugar daddy. Might as well just fuck a hooker. No judgement, it is what it is. Sounds to me like the envy and resentment of a white-knight beta cuck. No judgment, it is what it is.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 09:20 PM
2

Just because a girl is young and pretty doesn't mean she's stupid or ignorant. And I have a great time, in terms of conversations.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 09:11 PM
3

Yes, essentially. The last time I was with a woman over the age of 30 was 2000, I think (it might've been 1999, I've forgotten).
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 08:33 PM
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Her: “Are you going to miss me?” You: “[pause] I'm sure I will.” Her: “Are you going to miss me?” You: “Yes. Sure. Probably. Maybe.” (smirking all the while) Her: “Are you going to miss me?” You: “Yes, but Paula will help me get over it.” Her: “Who's Paula!?!?!?” You: “I'm teasing baby, honest. Paula's just a friend from work, she's nobody.” Her: “Are you going to miss me?” You: “[looking her right in the eyes, as if thinking about her question and studying her face] Not really.” Hope these help…
/r/askTRP16/06/17 08:16 PM
1

Read your other comments. You're either an idiot, or very, very young.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 08:10 PM
2

Yeah, us older dudes are warning you: Our C-PAP breathers are registered as lethal weapons!
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 08:03 PM
6

Totally, 100% agree. Envy and resentment are powerful emotions.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 07:59 PM
4

The woman who did this seemed to be a really generally good person, so I was a little surprised that she reacted that way. It has nothing to do with being nice, and everything to do with self-preservation. Let me put it this way: Would you date a girl who had had cancer before, and had 50-50 odds of getting it again? Of course not. No one wants to tie a stone around their necks, and see if they drown or not.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 07:45 PM
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this is all a post to convince themselves that they are more superior Kid, I am superior to most younger guys—even these mythic “Chads”, even “25 year old swole guys with style and game” that you referred to (whatever swole might mean). I am superior to these boys by the simple virtue of having lived longer and seen more and knowing more—and having my shit together, financially. But hey, you think I'm full of shit? OK. Best of luck. CRP
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 07:39 PM
3

I'm the guy that makes her laugh, doesn't care she's chunky, and takes her places she's never going to see otherwise. Whoa, whoa, whoa there, Cowboy! There are no chunksters in my corral! /smirk Other than that, I liked your comment, cheers. CRP
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 07:29 PM
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I don't date anyone over 25. Too much hassle. I'll write a piece about it tomorrow.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 07:20 PM
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No, it's not about buying stuff for hot girls—it's giving them what they want, which I insist is not stuff, but rather, strong positive emotions. They want to feel alive and happy and carefree. Certainly there are women who are all about the money, who are all about transactional relationships—and they are easy to spot. From experience, I can see them coming a mile away, the same way you can spot a beta orbiter a mile away, or you can spot a neckbeard virgin a mile away. Gold diggers are a non-i…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 07:20 PM
7

If our guy is going to patronize and be royal, then he better be ready to ace what comes after: the woman's unconscious and ungrateful attempts to take advantage of him. Agree. I never give a girl cash. And I'm always wary if she asks for or hints at wanting me to get her something that costs money. Most girls I date are smart enough to pick up on those no-gold-digger vibes I put out. But I'm not cheap with my girls either, because I know it is a definite turn-off. For instance, I always send my…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 07:12 PM
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Any woman over 30 just isn't worth the hassle. Not because they are unattractive, but because they are such a pain in the ass to deal with. Abso-fucking-lutely—you nailed it. In fact, I'm planning on writing a post as to why I never date a girl over 25. Too much hassle, too many headaches, not worth it at all.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 06:55 PM
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Good comment. I'm pretty firm about not falling into the beta bux trap. When I spring for something, it's usually a surprise, usually aimed at causing a specific effect. The makeup thing is a case in point: The girl never asked me for money to get makeup. She'd actually purchased some the day before, the day she arrived in London where we met up. It was the surprise of me springing for a makeup shopping spree that set her on fire. That's what I want to emphasize in this post, I realize now: Youn…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 05:52 PM
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By putting down my experiences, I hope other men, older or younger, can deduced why something I did—or did not do—worked. I'm not trying to lord it over anyone, or step on anyone's toes. Best, CRP
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 05:49 PM
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60? 70, if you stay in decent shape and have low body fat? In my experience, the D gets lazy to the degree that I get overweight and/or stop exercising. I'm 6'0". So long as I stay around 175lbs. and exercise semi-regularly, all is copacetic in the department. Of course, booze can send the D into a coma, regardless of age or body-fat or exercise routine. But you're 18—you have three decades at least before you have to worry about this issue, so long as you are moderately in shape. Hope this help…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 05:34 PM
9

You'd be surprised. Ever seen “Cabaret”?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 04:56 PM
4

Ignore her. Don't reply back. If she insists on a response, make her wait, and make it monosyllabic. In other words, make her work for you.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 03:54 PM
2

You know the answer already—“She's not yours, it's only your turn”—so why are you asking? Move on. Keep her around, but be actively looking to find someone else. When you find the someone else, either parallel her, or dump her.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 03:40 PM
1

No. Online popularity does not do anything to your real-world popularity, unless you happen to be huge, like Casey Neistat or Philip DeFranco. In a small clique, say a high-school, online popularity will definitely not affect your real-world popularity, because they'll know you. Online popularity is merely an adjunct to real-world popularity in a small clique. The only exception to this is if your online popularity is massive, i.e. in the millions. It seems clear that in small cliques or groups,…
/r/askTRP16/06/17 03:25 PM
4

The best I can offer is, “Life isn't fair.” That's a shitty response, but unfortunately, it's the truth. Autistic guys will just have to work harder than non-autistic guys in order to get what they want out of life. We all have issues affecting our fortunes, we all have different hands we have to play. Some guys are born with a straight flush, other guys are born with nothing and just have to bluff their way. Autistics have to bluff their way. Sorry I can't be more helpful, but bottom line, for …
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 03:21 PM
3

Focus on work. That's the best medicine. It'll curtail distractions, and it'll steady your nerves, especially as you begin to succeed. Work is what gets men through life. Not relationships, not cars or apartments, not friends. Work.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 02:17 PM
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Take her to a doctor. This concerns both of you, as it's both your sex lives, so don't be shy about barging in there and asking the doctor questions of your own. Find out what's what from a professional who actually knows, as opposed to some random Redditor who thinks he knows. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 01:14 PM
4

Thanks! And btw, you're absolutely right that they all want a father-plus figure. But I don't mind, I find it makes them a lot more predictable.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 12:56 PM
5

I live in London as well, and I love my Russian princesses! They demand I be a man—which I love. Because sometimes, you need someone around who expects you to be the best version of yourself. Treat a Russian princess like a whore, act like a stone-cold alpha, she'll be your ride-or-die-bitch-4-life. I am currently experiencing such a wonderful relationship, so I believe I know whereof I speak.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 12:37 PM
20

Her: Have you ever felt depressed. You: Yes, once. When the Pirates didn't make the post-season in 2005. That is the one and only response you can make to such a question. A Russian girl once explained it to me perfectly: Women want men of stone. Men of stone don't get depressed, period.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 12:09 PM
1

Shit, you're absolutely right. I didn't notice the phrase: She said her boyfriend will be out of town and she doesn't want to spend evening home alone. This totally changes the odds. I'll edit my original comment. Thanks for the catch!
/r/askTRP16/06/17 11:39 AM
3

Walk away from crazy. Scratch that. Run from crazy.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 11:08 AM
0

I did a video about this, called “Your Passion Vs. Your Talent”. Check it out.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 11:06 AM
1

Triumph of the Will for a 9-y.o.?
/r/askTRP16/06/17 11:04 AM
2

Gone With The Wind: Rhett Butler as embodied by Clark Gable is the ultimate man's man, alpha-as-fuck, Amused-Mastery taken to the absolute pinnacle. The Everest of Alpha. Of note and interest: Women of all ages—even your 9 year-old sister—love Rhett. Hmm, I wonder why . . .
/r/askTRP16/06/17 08:45 AM
2

How do you become a man? Easy: Cut out your mother. I have been super close with my mom- mom's confidante since she and my dad have a strained relationship. Fucking not healthy—and likely the reason you're in this shape. Whether you know it or not, you've been Mommified: Your mother used you as an emotional crush, as a substitute husband, and it stunted you even as it made you afraid of women. (Listen to the Pink Floyd song “Mother”, which describes this to a T.) My suggestion: Move to a new cit…
/r/askTRP16/06/17 08:34 AM
3

+1. Never shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 08:28 AM
0

Oh wow, this is weird. Girls you pass on the street sometimes look at your dick? Because the girls I pass on the street always check out my dick. Look, don't feel bad about your situation. You have the support of the ASKtrp community, if it helps.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 08:27 AM
7

You're 26, raking in close to 6-figures? I assume this is a big bump up for you, and probably a first step on a much higher career path? And I assume you have student debt, right? Go to the cheaper area, and save 25% of your net income. At 26, your goal is to build your career and build your financial stability. If this is your first big career inroad, you want to consolidate it by working your ass off—but you also want to save for a rainy day, or in case this you're not cut out for this career …
/r/askTRP16/06/17 08:17 AM
5

It would be amusing if she wants to talk in order to tell you, “I'm pregnant.” /smirk Re. the “What are we?” talk: Always-always-always make it in person, face-to-face, because a girl will invariable be easier to convince of your frame, since she can't simply hang up, as she can over the phone. And always-always-always Deflect & Delay: Say that your relationship isn't anything yet, it's still in that indefinable stage, that you're both exploring a new relationship that could turn out to be Serio…
/r/askTRP16/06/17 07:56 AM
2

Me too, actually.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 04:06 AM
3

If it's delicate she might. Who knows, let's see how this plays out.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 04:05 AM
1

No girl wants a compliment. “I said she was very attractive”? Jesus, kid, might as well have lopped off your balls and handed them to her in a pink velvet box. You friendzoned yourself. Move on to the next, 'cause nothing's doing with this one.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 01:03 AM
1

Do both. Keep up the LTR, be a father to the kid (if you are so moved; though I myself have no problem with cutting a breeder loose). But build parallel relationships with other women. In other words, soft polygamy. That way you have the best of both worlds. Works for me. Life is not “This or that”—it's “This and that”.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 01:00 AM
10

Getting hit on by gay guys is flattering. Take it as a compliment and don't stress it.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 11:49 PM
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Two possibilities: She wants to talk about her bf/fiancé (who after all is your buddy), maybe ask you about doing something for him, or maybe asking about some obscure thing in his past/family that she's been gnawing on; or she wants to “explore her feelings” for you. The odds are 70/30 it's the former. Lots of times, girls on the brink of marriage want to know every last little thing about their guy before they tie the knot. So as the day approaches, they try to nail down every last bit of inte…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 11:47 PM
1

You don't like your work environment because of these harpies? Then quietly put out your resume and find another job. But don't go on a crusade to change the culture of your work place. If the owners don't have the balls or the interest to change it, there's little to nothing you can do for the better—and you'll be taking on a lot of risk for no clear benefit. Let it lie, and focus on your career.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 11:41 PM
2

Focus on the work. Women are a luxury you can't afford until you've got your shit together.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 11:08 PM
1

Hear this, both of my parents are diplomats and have taught me everything there is to know about politeness If they're American diplomats, then no, they didn't teach you anything about politeness—because American diplomats only know arrogance, condescension, and I-know-best-ism. Kind of like your comment actually. So I guess you did learn from your parents! /smirk
/r/askTRP15/06/17 11:01 PM
2

It sounds like you don't have a direction—a goal to strive towards. That's what makes most men happy: Having an Everest that they're aiming for. If you've got a decent woman, but you're feeling unsatisfied, it sounds to me like you're just existing—not living. More women won't fix this lack you feel. You need to be doing something. Not just a job, not just a hobby, you need to build something. A business, a house, whatever. But a goal that will eat up all your attention, and set your life on a p…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 04:19 PM
1

See, those without confidence feel the need to be rude. Those who have self-confidence—or are developing self-confidence—learn magnanimity, and the importance of being polite.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 04:07 PM
-2

Shit advice OK, Mr. Excited4ButtStuff. Or is it Mr. ButtStuff?
/r/askTRP15/06/17 04:05 PM
0

What's my username . . .
/r/askTRP15/06/17 04:04 PM
2

Most people who give out hard advice—“Do this!” “Do that!” “Do what I do—or you're a fucking idiot!!!”—are essentially trying to validate their own choices by bullying you to agree with them. Now, from what you've written, you sound like a real piece of work who needs a total overhaul. So let's start. First thing: Set up a regular work-out schedule. You want to be running, and you want to be lifting weights. You don't want to be a marathon runner or a body-builder, but you do want your body-mass…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 03:54 PM
3

Work on your business first and foremost—everything else can wait until that's sorted out. Most especially, women can wait. Once you're on top of your shit, business-wise, then you can start looking to have fun. But settle your income first—that is your priority. So grind out this shit-time in your life. Believe me, you'll look back at this period fondly . . . so long as you succeed. Hope this helps. CRP
/r/askTRP15/06/17 03:43 PM
2

For the same reason guys do stupid daredevil shit when they're young—to attract the best mates possible. I did a video about this. Check it out here on YT. Hope it helps. CRP
/r/askTRP15/06/17 01:45 PM
2

Dignity Above All, son, Dignity Above All . . .
/r/askTRP15/06/17 01:42 PM
2

Why do they say “Women and children first”? Because women are children. Once you understand that, you've understood women.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 01:39 PM
1

+1, and thanks for the backing. CRP
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 01:38 PM
3

Disagree. There's no reason to be rude.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 01:37 PM
1

Obviously the “best friend” is feeling threatened—that's why he's flinging shit. Which is why he's no friend.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 11:46 AM
1

“Catching ideas from the ocean”? That's amusing. Look, I did Tai Chi for a bit? The most fucking stressful two weeks ever—fucking hated it. Now, a good game of squash? Pure heaven—and I walk off the court with my head clear and my focus set. Diff’rent strokes for diff’rent folks, y’know what I mean? You can find the benefits of something like meditation in other activities which are not meditation. My thinking is, anything that gets your head completely out of your current problems—and thus allo…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 11:44 AM
2

Pictured!! /v.amused
/r/askTRP15/06/17 11:36 AM
1

It works for some people, and not for others. Clint Eastwood is huge into Transcendental Meditation—and I don't think anyone thinks he's a fool or unsuccessful. In my own case, I think meditation is a waste of time—but that's me, and obviously OP as well. If it doesn't work for you, move on to something else. Don't grind your mind on it—that's just a waste of time.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 11:35 AM
1

Good one! Actually, I'm thinking the OP is a creep and a fool. One of those dumbbells who thinks he's actually clever. Probably a loner teenager, you know the type: “He was such a quiet boy, without many friends, but he'd never made any trouble—until he went on his killing rampage with his grandfather's .45.”
/r/askTRP15/06/17 11:26 AM
1

Rinse-repeat until you've shaped up some more. Kudos for the improvement so far.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 11:17 AM
1

In context, sounds like she meant “he's a jerk”. If a chick is complaining about a guy to her friends—and saying something like “does he think I'm gonna stay single and pine over him forever or something?”—then she's definitely into the guy and wants to be with him. When a girl doesn't mention a guy—or dismisses him as “creepy” without explanation—that's when the girl doesn't care about the guy.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 11:12 AM
2

You're kind of a creepy kid. Is it natural, or do you work at it. Because if it's natural, I suggest you hide it. And if you're working at it, I suggest you stop.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 11:09 AM
1

Go read Hume, Locke, and Rousseau. Then get back to me in two-three years.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 11:07 AM
1

Do you see your SO as the future mother of your children? No? Then trade up. Your SO would trade you in if she had the chance. And if she's blimping out and getting lazy—then definitely trade up. Remember, you are Tarzan, swinging from vine to vine. CRP
/r/askTRP15/06/17 11:05 AM
1

And your question is . . . “Do I stay with her or not?”? Come on, son, wake up. Leave her in your rearview mirror. You're not the first who's come across a whiny bitch. Move on, and be smart enough to cut off such a woman the very second you realize who and what she is. A complainer is just a waste of time—better next her immediately.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 10:59 AM
2

+1
/r/askTRP15/06/17 10:56 AM
1

You are way overthinking this. Humans are not equal for the obvious reason that we are not clones of a single exemplar—we're all different, hence it is impossible for us to be all equal. As to “killing and/or torturing the inferior”, the Nazis did that. Didn't turn out too well for them.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 10:53 AM
2

Absolutely right. Upvoted this answer.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 10:50 AM
4

If she gets into the whole, “Why aren't you calling me?” bullshit, just say outright, “I met someone else, and I thought it would be cruel to lead you on.” That'll blow her mind. There's no way she can respond without losing ground. At best she'll say, “Oh. Well, uh, I hope it's working out for you?” To which you answer, confidently and self-assuredly, “It is. [pause] Look, I really do have to get to class/work/whatever. But I'd love it if we could be friends.” She'll probably nod—and you are on…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 10:50 AM
1

Quote your edit specifically, so that I know what you are referring to.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 10:45 AM

Ask any male, raw-dogging is always best. All you have to do to avoid pregnancy is take a few simple precautions. Jesus, /u/RedEyesBlueShades will you get off your high-horse and let the kid have some fun? “Red eyes, blue shade”? More like “Red mask, blue soul”.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 10:39 AM
1

You see her—and she sees you. So you say, “Hi! Why haven't you called/texted? You’re toying with me, keeping me hanging! Oh!—gotta go to class—I’ll call you!” And keep on walking. You nexted her, so she's gone from your mind, your life, and your time.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 10:36 AM
1

Yes of course we are all equal. But some of us are more equal than others. Capisce? Look, in polite society, everyone is equal—which is what you should proclaim loudly. But in truth? Some people are simply naturally better: Smarter, taller, faster, more aggressive, more driven. So be smart, play the game: “Everyone is equal” is what you say in public—but everyone is definitely unequal, in private. You realize that truth, you're already better than the rest.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 10:32 AM

Don't worry about being experienced or unexperienced. Worry about premature ejaculation. Advice: Jerk off the morning before you bang her. Jerk off again in the early afternoon, if you'll bang her late at night. Do not drink booze on the day you're nailing her. Do not do weed, hash, or any other drug that relaxes you. Do not take any anti-anxiety meds or any personality disorder med. You don't want to get naked and have a limp dick in your hand—which is what you get from booze or meds or pot. An…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 10:28 AM
7

After high-school, no man has real friends. He has friend-like acquaintances, and friend-like business associates. But no real friend, not even the ones from back in the day. Sad but true, it's one of those things you lose along the way.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 10:22 AM
0

Right! “Trickle-truth”! It was right on the tip of my dick—which she was fondling with the tip of her tongue. Couldn't resist.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 10:20 AM
5

College is four years? So say she blows two guys per semester, and has sex with only one per term—that's 16 guys she's given head to and 8 she's slept to by the time she's 22. Say after that her notch count goes down—to say 2 bj's per year, one intercourse per year. So by the time she's 30, she'll have had an additional notch count of 16 more blow jobs and 8 more sexual partners. All told, 32 guys she's given head to, and 16 she's slept with. And I think anyone here would agree that these guesst…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 10:15 AM
1

The guy is not your friend. Next time he says anything about you, say out loud in front of other people, “Well at least I'm not a virgin,” while looking him right in the eye. That will likely be the last time you ever see him.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 10:11 AM
1

He's trying to muscle in on your girl. And she's responding with interest. So you have to play a jealousy trap on her. Find a girl she knows and is insecure about—then meet that girl for drinks in a place where the info will get back to your gf. She'll hear about it—and she'll freak. But in a good way for you. Best of luck, CRP
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:53 AM
2

Yes, she's shit-testing you, and you've failed. What you should have done was, you should have texted her a time and place to meet for drinks—and when she doesn't respond, you go with some other girl and tell her you're going for those end-of-class drinks with another girl. That'd get her hamster hamstering. But it's too late. She pegged you as low value. Move on to the next girl, and learn your fucking lesson: Make her comply, and if she doesn't, show her that you have options. CRP
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:51 AM
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He hasn't done anything. You report him, and this is what will happen: You'll ruin a perfectly innocent 20 year old, just because the girl you like doesn't like you back. That's bitch-pussy behavior, plain and simple. You'll regret it. And it will forever mark you as a man of low quality. Even if no one knows—you will know. Tread carefully, kid. You're playing with your soul. CRP
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:48 AM
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In all aspects, women mature earlier—but in the long run, men end up being smarter, stronger, more self-controlled. Men and women have collectively made a pact: Women claim to be more mature and “better” in all respects—and men pretend to believe that's true. It's easier to humor someone's self-deception—and potentially take advantage of it, as we red-pillers do—than to fight that self-deception and delusion. CRP
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:43 AM
1

Yes. Practice always-always-always makes perfect.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:40 AM
1

You probably are getting stares from people who've seen how you were before—and the stares are indices of their surprise. Pretend not to notice it. And if your SMV is going up, learn how to handle it with understatement. Don't ever make an ass of yourself by humblebragging or some such. Best of luck, CRP
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:39 AM
1

You're overthinking the situation. I don't know how old you are, but suppose you're 20—and you're dealing with a bunch of 15 year-olds. How would you handle them. Easy. You'd know what they're interested in, and you'd be able to anticipate their reactions. So do that. Approach any and every group of normies as if they were gawky, silly teenagers. Be confident and laid back—amused mastery is your go-to stance. You'll see how people flock to you—especially women. Just don't overthink the situation…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:37 AM
1

Lose the weight first—at least 80 lbs. Then you'll have something to work with. CRP
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:31 AM
1

Women don't give a shit about how much or little hair you have—it's all about confidence. You don't sound confident in this post—more like you're trying to appease the reader—so I'm guessing you're shit at approaching women. No disrespect. Just a statement of likely fact. Weight training only gets you so far. You have to actually develop something that matters to earn true confidence. A business, studies, anything—but you have to be superlative at it. That's when real confidence will slowly fill…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:29 AM
1

Read Nash's Equilibrium and you'll understand why. It's a way to neutralize more attractive members of a pack of women, while simultaneously maximizing their own opportunities for success relative to their peer group. CRP
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:26 AM
4

When they fail to reply or fail to reply in a timely fashion, it's because they aren't that into you. Some are genuinely bad about not checking their phones, but 99% are playing games. Absolutely. If a girl wants you, your messages are replied to within seconds.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:24 AM
4

A butthurt text? Son . . . no . . . Never ever send butthurt text—no matter how badly she's reamed your ass. Even if she fucked you up the ass with a 10" dildo wrapped in barbed wire—never resort to the butthurt text or message. Remember my son: Dignity Above All. Forget this indiscretion and move on—but learn from it! Learn not to do it again! Best of luck, CRP
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:23 AM
3

When she says, “I think I have feelings for you,” you answer, “That's great, babe. You're getting me horny.” When she says, “I think . . . I think I might be falling for you,” you answer, “Aw, babe, that's so sweet . . . Get on your belly, I want to do you from behind.” When she says, “I love you, with all my heart,” you answer, “Prove it”—then demand the most outrageous and degrading sex act you can imagine. The second you answer any of her statements with, “I think I have feelings for you too”…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:19 AM
0

I fucking hate defeatist shit like this comment. It's basically, “Man up—and accept your miserable lot in life.” Fuck that noise.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:11 AM
1

Completely agree that there'll be a few moron BB's around to provide for the woman and her kid. Some guys can't accept being run over by circumstances—and other guys (a lot of guys, in fact) get in the way of the truck on purpose, all the while yelling, “I'm gonna man up! I'm gonna man up!”
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:07 AM
2

Do your thing and ignore her. Any way you can replace her for your vacation? That would be best.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 06:57 AM
1

Thanks. I've got a new YT channel, if you're interested. Look me up. CRP
/r/askTRP15/06/17 06:55 AM
2

Anyone accomplished, regardless of the field. And like recognizes like, btw, again, regardless of the field.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 06:54 AM
1

A liar, and a last-word freak to boot. Man, you've got it all covered, now don't you!
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 12:56 AM
1

Tough one. Usually XYZ is money: “I'll go to Hawaii when I get the money for the plane fare and a decent hotel. I'll work out when I get the money for the gym membership. Etc.” Best way to go about it is grit your teeth and go after what you want, ignoring the XYZ you mentally put as a condition for the thing you want. Do it often enough, you'll find it gets easier pretty quick. Hope this helps. CRP
/r/askTRP15/06/17 12:55 AM
2

And now you're putting down the entire subreddit? God you're annoying! Go away, fool. I'm not buying your brand of bullshit, and neither is anybody else.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 12:53 AM
7

Soft next her. You've dated her 6 months, and she's acting weird and standoffish. My guess is, she's seeing someone else. When girls are stressing about work, they vent to the bf. When girls are stressed about family, they vent to the bf. When girls are stressed about their friends, their apartment, their car, their whatever—they vent to the bf. When they don't vent to the bf? It's because the bf is the problem. She's either seeing someone else, or thinking it. She is moving you in her emotional…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 12:51 AM
4

Self-knowledge is the first step on the path to wisdom. You know what's wrong with your outlook—which is fantastic. Kudos to you, sincerely. Now all you have to do is let it marinate a little, before you peel off the eczema of the blue pill. I know I'm mixing my metaphors horribly, but you get what I'm saying. Be patient. Keep your flaws at the forefront of your mind, while you simultaneously try to fix them. Above all, don't allow yourself to be fooled by the mainstream bullshit narrative, or y…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 12:46 AM
2

Not at all. I object to messing with people's lives for not reason other than ego gratification. In the post about the young guy with the FWB who got pregnant and then deliberately lied to him about getting an abortion and is now trying to drag him into her drama: I'm all in favor of him fucking her over (metaphorically speaking, natch). After all, those two are involved in a mano-a-mano that will determine both their lives—and the FWB is clearly in the wrong. In that case? Go for it Machiavelli…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 12:40 AM
1

Plenty more vitriol? Or plenty more stories? Or dare I hope, plenty more of both?!?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 12:30 AM
3

Did you swing through the deepest, darkest African jungles like Tarzan? Were you the original Tarzan?!? Did you climb Everest without oxygen, just like Reinhold Messner? Were you Reinhold Messner?!? Did you fly across the country in Christian Grey's Learjet? Are you Christian Grey?!?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 12:28 AM
2

Actually I've got a 49 year old face. Now I'm definitely sure you're a fabulist, what with all the vitriol in your last three comments. And lucky me, I just so happen to love fables! So tell me a good one, Baron Munchausen!
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 12:25 AM
2

You want to re-post pictures from your favorite porn site? /smirk You bore me.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 12:18 AM
6

Nothing wrong with being a newbie. Welcome. First off, men do not want “that one thing” exclusively. That's not merely reductionist, it's simply not accurate. Second, men can most definitely love unconditionally. For instance, I love my two children unconditionally. The issue insofar as getting red-pilled is concerned is, men should not love women unconditionally. They should be aware of their flaws, as well as their virtues. (And when I refer to “women's virtues”, I'm not referring to the virtu…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 12:17 AM
3

No, you just wanted to brag. /u/The-Devilz-Advocate was right initially, by calling you out on your bragging, and suggesting this post be deleted. I would agree with it being deleted. /u/The-Hardball-Player isn't showing how women's psyche works, he's just lording it over newbies and young guys, trying to show off what a big man he is; or claims to be at any rate. More to the point, he's inviting people to applaud what is in fact simply horrid behavior. Every man knows the rule: You do not fuck …
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 12:08 AM
1

Glad to help. And enjoy those books, they're all eye-opening.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 11:54 PM
3

This guy trying to advise you is not "alpha," he's just a psychopath. For a psychopath, abandoning his child to be raised by a stranger is no big deal. Psychopaths have very little empathy, or none at all. I can already tell from your OP and your comments, you are not a psychopath. You're already empathizing with this child even though it hasn't been born and you don't even know if it's yours. Even if you're about to trick yourself now into thinking it's ok to turn your back on this baby, you wi…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 11:53 PM
1

First off: Have the discipline to write properly, with correct spelling, punctuation, and grammar. “But to be clear: Is that why I developed a girl mentality?” Not necessarily. You're too young to realize that the Feminist bullshit sweeping the country is a new thing. It hasn't always been like that. Also, the whole “Everyone's a winner, no-one's a loser, we don't keep score, we just play to enjoy ourselves” helicopter-parenting crap is also new—and very destructive to the self-confidence of you…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 11:37 PM
4

You're dating the wrong kind of girl. Also, once you get red pilled, there's a phase where you look at women with a pretty jaundiced eye, not to say a cynical eye. That cynical disillusionment—which feels a lot like bitterness—can color your outlook on life, and hurt you long term. Don't let it. Understand that it's just a phase in development. Also understand that you really are dating the wrong girls. It could be that you're dating Daddy's Little Princesses because they come from the diametric…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 11:26 PM
1

We can't choose our parents, or the circumstances of our upbringing. But we can decide if we're going to be slaves to chance or masters of our destiny.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 11:18 PM
2

Amused mastery now? Oh tiger-with-a-little-t, you're too predictable.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 11:14 PM
1

I know, believe me. And believe me when I tell you, getting talked up by a hot girl never gets old. But don't let it throw you off your path or off your pace. Girls—especially when you are young—can throw you off your direction, off your goals. That fortunately did not happen to me—but I saw it happen to a lot of promising guys. So enjoy the adulation of your Catholic schoolgirl HB8—good on you! But do not let it go to your head, or make you roll over like a puppy for her. Enjoy her—but keep on …
/r/askTRP14/06/17 11:09 PM
2

No I don't get mad—I think you set a bad example. What you did is wrong—objectively. You went after some girl, knowing she was going to get married, for no other reason than to validate yourself. Which means that you're so bereft of accomplishment that you need to fuck with someone else's life—because you don't have a life of your own. You don't have any accomplishments of your own. Except your six-pack . . . or so you claim.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 11:06 PM
1

Look, I'm three times your age. When I wrote, “But then you act like a little bitch” in my previous response, I wasn't referring to you specifically, it was the general sense. You need validation. That's understandable, and in fact perfectly normal. But my point is, don't seek validation from subjective, relative metrics. Being an 8, or being Top-20. Seek validation by way of absolute, objective criteria. Get the best grades in class, run the fastest 10K of your school, read books like Solzhenit…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 11:02 PM
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Very amusing, kudos.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 10:57 PM
0

Please learn to spell. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 10:56 PM
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Agree and amplify? Come on, tiger, I'm sure you can do better than that.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 10:55 PM
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Fucking up a girl's life just for the sake of your ego? And that description of yourself in the comments section? You sound like a narcissistic douchebag—and an insecure one at that.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 10:41 PM
2

Exercise. Every day, at least 30 minutes.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 10:36 PM
1

Don't walk—run. Psych meds are as red a flag as can be had.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 10:35 PM
1

OK, say you're an 8 on the looks scale, your SMV being 8. But then you act like a little bitch. Your looks won't matter to the girl—not if you start acting insecure. There are two ways to come across as confident: One is to fake it, the other is to genuinely develop yourself. If you fake something, you'll always have to be on your guard, and odds are that you'll eventually slip up. If you have genuine achievement and confidence in your abilities? It'll shine through without effort on your part. …
/r/askTRP14/06/17 10:33 PM
1

Spot on. Can't add anything to what he said.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 10:28 PM
1

She was fucking some other guy, plain and simple. You handled that more or less right, and came out with dignity more or less intact. Move on.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 10:19 PM
1

Son, you can be a dwarf with a wart on your nose and hair growing out of your ears—but if you've got game, you can land a 10. Does that make you a 10? No. If you're a dwarf with a wart on your nose and breath the same smell as a steaming pile of dogshit, you are definitely not a 10—but who cares if you're a 1, if you are banging a 10. You see my point? I insist, as I told you in your other post: Don't worry about your relative position, or your ranking in your peer group. Worry about what you ca…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 10:15 PM
4

You're not considering the jealousy of older women when they come up against the sexual opportunities of younger women. Jealousy is what's going on here. And it can be lethal.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 10:06 PM
3

Don't jump off a bridge before you get to it. Focus on getting the guy to sign. Focus on convincing the girl that you will be a terrible father and provider for her. Focus on making sure that your name isn't on the birth certificate. It doesn't matter whose name is on it—so long as it's not yours. Be imaginative: Is there some beta orbiter who's always had a thing for your FWB? Some ex-bf of hers who's still carrying the torch? Bring him in! Muddy the waters—bring in as many other guys who've be…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:56 PM
1

Don't obsess about relative position—it's a waste of time. Like I said, worry about that which you can control: Your grades, your mental development, your physical fitness, your practice with girls. When you get good, you won't care about your ranking, because you'll realize it does not matter. Believe it.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:49 PM
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You don't have to show up a full hour before everyone else—use your head, son: You just have to show up before anyone else, even if it's just 5 minutes. Believe me, people will notice if you are consistently the first one at the office.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:47 PM
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I am a shit—I don't deny it. So your point is . . . ?
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:44 PM
3

Kid, don't worry about being “top 20”—this isn't Billboard Magazine, and Kasey Kasem’s dead in the ground. Worry about getting and staying in shape, getting good grades, staying off booze, and broadening your mind. Keep practicing getting girls, but focus on what matters: Grades, developing your mind, and physical fitness, in that order. Being worried about a hierarchy is stupid and pointless, because it is relative—it is not absolute. That's why you should worry about developing yourself on an …
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:42 PM
0

Agreed. WTF is this happy-crappy?
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:37 PM
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It's not the time when you leave that matters—it's the hour at which you arrive. Always be the first at the office—always. That's how you get the rep for being “a workaholic”. You arrive first at the office, you can leave whenever you want.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:35 PM
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You're overthinking this.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:31 PM
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The charisma comes from genuine accomplishment. You can't buy it or fake it, and it's instantly recognizable.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:29 PM
1

Never shit where you eat. Hooking up with a co-worker is a recipe for disaster, even if she doesn't work in your same department. Keep a professional distance from her, and if she keeps up with the sexual comments, inform HR. Not kidding, she can fuck you over hard at your job. So don't be stupid.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:28 PM
1

Practice. Practice. Practice. The more you do something, the more your insecurities will melt away. Grit your teeth and dive in. Always be pushing yourself. And never be afraid of failure. If you keep pushing yourself, and never avoid failure, you'll be surprised how quickly your fear vanishes, and you come into your own. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:25 PM
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Actually, I've met top-tier athletes like Federer and Djockovic in person. Their charisma is overwhelming. Every man around them becomes a sniveling suck-up (and I cannot exempt myself), while every girl wants to fuck them on the spot. Compared to these people, body-builders are nothing. Which is why they usually surround themselves with close childhood friends, and marry women they knew from before . . . or women who themselves have reality-bending charisma, and so are used to it.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:23 PM
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Yes, unfortunately it is. We can complain about it all we want, but only a fool would ignore the harsh reality. Or let themselves be overrun by it. Which is what I'm trying to help OP do.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:11 PM
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First off, I didn't let my two bastards “starve in the wilderness” as you so melodramatically and rather amusingly characterized it. As I said, both are being raised by other men, one knowing he's a cuckold, the other not. Second, petit bourgeoise morality is not “karma”. Petit bourgeoise morality is just the rules imposed on the slaves of our society. Since I am not a slave, I do not feel obliged to follow those rules. So if you want to say that I'm not a “real man” for not being a slave . . . …
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:08 PM
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Don't believe her. Assume that at some point in the future, she will demand money from you. The only way to avoid that is to make sure your name is not on the birth certificate. Don't be dumb: Don't think that some signed agreement will get you off the hook. Any agreement she signs promising not to go after you for child support will be overturned by a judge at some future date. The only thing that will guarantee you are not held legally and financially responsible for the child is if another ma…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:06 PM
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Don't fight the hens directly—be charming and friendly to their faces. But to the girl you're interested, say very casually and sadly, “Boy! That Hen who's trying to fuck her boss and whose husband can't get it up? A lot of negativity there. Kind of brings me down, to be honest.”—and then do not say another thing. the girl you're interested will connect the dots in a flash. The light touch is what you need—feather light. If you talk open shit about her friends, she'll drop you—but if you just ac…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 08:52 PM
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Cancel it, assuming you're fairly certain the kid's yours. If you think there's a decent chance (>25%) it's someone else's kid, then take the paternity test. But by all means, make it clear to her that you're a bastard who won't be around to take care of the kid. If you get to the point where she says, “Now I see your true colors, you asshole!”, then you're doing it right. You're a kid—which is why this seems so big to you now. But trust me, I'm an old fart who's been around long enough to know:…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 08:45 PM
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You can only get a gf to give you blowjobs by being domineering. That's the whole point of a bj: To dominate and subjugate a woman. To make her understand her position relative to you. Her enjoyment of bj’s isn't the point—and neither is yours. The point of oral sex is to make it clear who is who in the relationship. The person receiving oral sex in a relationship is the one controlling the relationship.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 08:39 PM
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No, nothing wrong with using women strictly for sex, and presumably procreation at some point in the future. Actually, it's better. Keeps things tidier, neater.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 08:35 PM
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You answer, “Yes”—with the biggest ambiguous smirk you can muster, and not say another word. Let her hamster engage warp drive.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 08:33 PM
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Don't run from your responsibilities. Be a man and own your shit. Really? The OP didn't want a kid. He paid for the abortion—she didn't get it. The kid's her problem, not his. You had a kid 29 years ago, and you wish you'd had a relationship with her? That's too bad. But don't put your regrets onto the OP’s shoulders. And don't try to guilt the OP into making a bad decision. He didn't want the kid, and he made reasonable efforts to unburden himself from the problem. He shouldn't have to deal wit…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 08:27 PM
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Christ, it's just a bastard. Don't overthink this so much. Legally, you never should have done the paternity test. Now you're on the hook—but you can get off the hook, if you're steely and resolved. Be sure her BB bf puts his name on the birth certificate—that's the key thing you have to focus on. Sweet talk your FWB, convince her you'd be a terrible father and that her current bf would be much better both for the child and for her. Be magnanimous about “not wanting to get in the way of the happ…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 08:16 PM
1

Never. Fucking. Apologize. Ever. Toss her a treat every now and again—but never bitch out and apologize.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 08:01 PM
1

Stop listening to the shit your woman says. Just watch her actions. Fuckin'-A
/r/askTRP14/06/17 08:00 PM
1

OP, that's brilliant. I'm 49. Two worries I've noticed from young guys posting here: Dating younger women when they are older without coming across as “creepy”; and financial security. Re. financial security, save 25% of your salary without fail, and invest it. Don't play any stock or bond market—go into businesses that generate an income. Real estate is ideal. But make sure there's a positive cash-flow—don't try for a “big score”, slow and steady wins the race. Re. younger women: I date girls b…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 07:54 PM
1

Absolutely. Horse girls are nuts as well as nymphos.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 07:35 PM
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If you're involved in parallel relationships, and one of your women finds out about the other women in your life, you have one and only one answer to her: “So?” Sexual/emotional exclusivity is feminine—not masculine, which is sexually and emotionally promiscuous. A woman screams at you about seeing other women, you don’t apologize—you simply say, “I’m a man. I see other people. If you don't like it, you can move along.” Three out of five times, the woman will stay with you. But if you plead and …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 06:42 PM
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Disagree: A guy who is nothing but a bully is never someone you want to share a beer with—bullies are like shit-testing women, they are always testing your boundaries. A bully is mastered—never befriended.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 06:29 PM
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Son, you owned that fucktard. Number 1: He was way out of line. You were there first. End of story. Number 2: The guy was bully—and you called him on it. See, big guys are often bullies because they can get away with it—but paradoxically, bullies will crumple almost immediately if you make it clear you're standing your ground. Why do they crumple? Because they've never gotten the shit kicked out of them—so they're afraid. They are what Mao called Paper Tigers. The very fact that you called him o…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 06:23 PM
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Bottom-line: Never stick your dick in “kooky” or even mildly crazy—and never ever marry such a woman. That aside, re. OP‘s situation: My friend, I am 49 years old. I can tell you from experience that you can blink and a decade can get behind you. Blink twice, and it's your whole life that's suddenly over. That being said, I would counsel you to take the hard decision, and cut out your mother from your life. Pack your things, tell the government's social services to deal with her, and leave that …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 06:05 PM
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