CoachNeat5724 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Why is having a preference for a virgin or low n-count partner looked down upon ?	Discussion	CoachNeat5724	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 03:09 PM

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1	Why is having a preference for a virgin or low n-count partner looked down upon ? YOU	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 03:54 PM
1	Why is having a preference for a virgin or low n-count partner looked down upon ? Nope. I'm pointing out your ignorant and arrogant attitude about how you think other's ideas and opinions are trash.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 03:52 PM
1	Why is having a preference for a virgin or low n-count partner looked down upon ? "Only my opinions and preference matter. Others opinions and preferences are from old ass time".	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 03:46 PM
1	It makes sense for men to care about promiscuity because it is often an indication of a woman’s self-respect, or respect for her partners Nah, matter of fact I'm agnostic. But neither I'm from Western Society nor do I live there. I come from a place where I have seen successful and happy marriages all around me. And guess what, people around me are not at all promiscuous. Only a few people are and they struggle with relationships as well. Hence the reason why my mentality is like this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 10:16 AM
17	What arouses you about your partner? That she is imaginary, faceless and doesn't exist in real life (yet). Mystery adds a lot to sexual tension.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 01:49 PM
0	If women have no genuine burning desire for you, should you stop dating? She loved me the whole time, but she had never any sexual desire. Your mother loves you, but she never has any sexual desires for you. Your sister loves you, but she never has any sexual desires for you. Your girlfriend/wife, who you're supposed to spend your life with, sex is an important part unless and until you both are asexual. So yeah her love didn't mean much here. She gave me the whole responsibility for our dead bedroom, because I must do something wrong. What if she was doing something…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/22 06:56 PM
2	If women have no genuine burning desire for you, should you stop dating? I was trying for years to improve our dead bedroom This is the first problem in all of this. I don't know the whole situation but the chances are she fell out of love slowly. There were signs and maybe both of you failed to see it. all the responsibility was on me. This is the second problem. What the hell were her responsibilities ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/22 06:43 PM
2	Traditionalism isn't binary But to really have a conversation about this, we would have to establish exactly what “traditional” means to you. Yup. But unfortunately it is not possible. Everyone twists their definitions according to their own benefits lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 06:06 AM
1	Traditionalism isn't binary Everyone possesses different amounts of traditional benefits, I'll make it a little easier for you and everyone else who reads this. Everyone possesses skills from the traditional and modern worlds that benefit them the most. For example, men fuck as many women as they want but want a virgin/low n-count woman to settle down with and the one who also has job to support financially. Similarly, a woman fucks with as many men as she wants but wants a traditional man who pays all the bills and buys h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 06:03 AM
–	Do you have friends? The word friend is a privilege I have given to only 3 men on this planet. That's it. There were 7 of them (and all of them I made friends with in my younger years except for 1), I lost contact with the 4 of them. I can call all of them brothers, is how deep our friendship is/was.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/22 08:29 PM
4	Sexless honeymoon - a sad reality But the sex was always lacking- she’s never been very attracted to me, Then being together for 2 years was a dick move and marrying her now is an even bigger dick move to be honest. If she's not attracted to you in 2 years, her mind and heart won't change in 20 years too. You're just delaying the inevitable imo, which is a heartbreak for yourself. But my brain is also conflicted because of the fact that why would she marry you if she finds you unattractive. Take all of this with a grain of salt …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/22 02:32 PM
1	how is anyone supposed to find someone I have only one piece of advice to give you, and that is to reduce or completely eliminate your time from social media because it's not real and it might have corroded your mind (as it does to everyone usually). Pictures on social media do not depict anywhere close to reality. The lightning, photo editing and make-up can make even an ordinary looking person look like a supermodel. So stop consuming social media and get back down to reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 04:28 AM
3	Is being ugly a dissablity for a man ? Nope, it is not a disability. You just have the end goal of women in mind hence the reason why you feel this way. But life is much bigger than women brother. You have all of your limbs and organs intact, your brain and heart are working all right and your senses are also fine. That's it you're not disabled. Ask an actual disabled person how difficult and harsh life actually is for him/her. I'm agnostic but I'll still say I'm grateful that I'm not disabled. Use these words carefully. It is true t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 08:03 AM
4	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. just own up to it it’s not a big deal. Nope I don't own up to it. but women do it all the time to men. And I condemn them equally. Its certainly an option Who's stopping you ? Go on ahead lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 08:40 PM
12	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. Nope. Just made a general point that if the girl is conservative, chances are she will value the conservative nature of the guy too due to similarity in beliefs. Also, they could just lie What an excellent way to start a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 08:19 PM
1	Number of Sex partners only matters if you are looking for something long term That is true, but still it is my personal preference who I will date and who I won't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 06:34 PM
21	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. Conservative women have both lower standards and higher long-term quality: so perhaps men should pursue them more. Yeah sure, but will a conservative woman marry a promiscuous man ? If she herself values her beliefs, will she even give a chance to the man who has a sexual past of his own ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 05:36 PM
1	Number of Sex partners only matters if you are looking for something long term Look if anyone wants to believe in these studies and wants to date a person whose only past year has been clean, I'll say go on ahead, wishing you luck 😂. For me personally, it still will be a no, because I feel disgusted by a woman's sexual past no matter how old it is. Moreover, I have not seen a single person change in my entire life. So it is a little hard for me to digest that someone who was a complete party animal and now living a clean life for a year will change to a normal LTR type per…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 03:19 PM
-3	Number of Sex partners only matters if you are looking for something long term So wait, the number of sex partners doesn't matter for short term relationships, so you have sex without any worries. Then your n-count increases. Now you say you want something long term, but your number of sex partners has now increased, which reduces your value for a long term relationship. This means that having sex in a short term relationship was a stupid move. Am I right about this logic ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 03:07 PM
17	If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it? Yup, I will agree if she says that "men are problematic", not if she says that "only men are problematic". Because guess what, everyone is problematic. There are faults in both men and women. I agree that a lot of mistakes were made from men too. Hell, if men from our previous generations were actually good leaders, didn't use to beat up/ cheat on their wives, then maybe there never would have been feminists movements because there would be no need to. Everyone creates problems regardless of gen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 02:56 PM
12	If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it? What da fuq are you on about ? 😂 But seriously though, I didn't get the question. What defeat ? What war is going on ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 02:39 PM
–	Do I tell her my n-count? why should something stupid like n-count mess it up? Again I'll say it's stupid to you, but not me, and we don't even know about her. For some people it's a real deal breaker and there might or might not be any justification for this. I'm new to all this, I have just been on 5 dates and so far I have rejected all the women 😂. Why ? Because I come from a very conservative family background and all this open sexual culture is not for me. I'll say check her behaviour, and casually try to find out i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 01:03 PM
–	Do I tell her my n-count? Imo 62 isn’t earth shattering This is your opinion, not her's. Imo, you should discuss these things early on in the relationship so that you know you two are on the same page. Let's say 2 years later you tell her about your past, and she nopes out, a waste of 2 years for both you and her. Imagine if 2 years later she tells you about her past and it had been way too wild (let's say 699 n-count 😜), and you nope out. Again a waste of 2 years for you and her. Now don't even get me started if the sit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 12:47 PM
0	Why do men go out of there way to put down women based on their appearance? I don't do that. Moreover I have first hand experienced women bashing me with insults for politely rejecting her lmao. I have also read a lot of these cases happening to men on reddit too. I think this is not gender specific. Some people in general regardless of any gender just need to put other people down to boost their ego.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 11:34 AM
3	How many disagreements here could be understood by just revealing personal experience? Wrong. I really don't care about this woman anymore, we're over and I'm moving on to the next one. You would definitely want some advice for your future relationships. To know if you could have done something better, some useful advice and how to filter these kinds of people (who cheat) early on. I'd much rather have general information for the relationships after that specific one. You need to understand that posts with general information often brings a lot of heat. People who haven't even com…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 09:16 PM
1	Are the women who get approached constantly ~in person~ (not just online) a more accurate representation of what men actually want physically? But it did make me wonder if there was some truth to this - that men prefer really short women Men generally prefer women shorter than them because of biology. Just like women prefer men taller than them, it's that simple. I'm 5'7, and I have never faced any problems attracting women who are shorter than me. or do they just feel more comfortable approaching them first? What do you mean by this ? That the man might be afraid that a taller woman can beat his ass up if he approaches her ? 😂 Are the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 08:47 PM
5	How many disagreements here could be understood by just revealing personal experience? It seems idiotic to have three or four bad interactions with a class of people and extrapolate that to x billion individuals, but I rarely meet people who don't do that. Congratulations you have found one of those rare individual lol. Yup I agree that folks (at least on reddit) tend to generalize people on a specific kind of behaviour way too often than one would like to. If a guy cheats, the post straight up shouts "why do all men cheat ?", Or if one woman is promiscuous, some posts appear "Why…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 06:13 PM
3	In a perfect world, how often would you have sex? Or boyfriends who didn't seem to enjoy much teasing/foreplay, and just wanted to jackhammer for 15 minutes and then cum and roll over. Yes I can understand that. Always simply coming to your partner and asking for sex seems pretty boring versus when flirting and teasing starts from the beginning of the day, their is buildup, excitement and then when you finally meet after a hard day of work, that same sex which felt boring feels well earned and worth it in this situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 05:08 PM
4	Men are afraid of dating and marrying single mothers because they could be on the hook to pay child support for children that aren't theirs if the relationship end Yup, you do you. I can just say that I won't be able to bring myself to do such a thing. Anyways, wishing you and your family a long lasting and happy life 😀.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 04:33 PM
4	Are ugly people attracted to other ugly people? Girl said she is attracted to 1/200 men. Then uses the logic that people with similar attractiveness attract one another. So according to her logic, she puts herself to the top 0.5% of females in terms of attractiveness. Then proceeds to say "I'm slightly above average" 😂.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 04:21 PM
2	In a perfect world, how often would you have sex? Hey, I'm 21 and still waiting for my first time 😅. I’m 40 and felt like it must be my age since I am sometimes relieved when life gets busy and I miss a night, i.e. my girl and I are just tired and want to curl up. Yup, I understand, sometimes life gets in the way and you just want a nice sleep while cuddling your partner. But that's what makes life worth living for right, the unexpected changes in routine. The expectation (especially in redpill circles) seems to be if you’re virile you want to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 04:09 PM
2	Women will choose the nice guy cause free gold is better than expensive diamond Yup. People nowadays just think black and white. Like if a person is nice, he/she will be all nice and if the person is a douche, he/she will be all douche. These people need to realise that real life is not blue pill, red pill and purple pill. We all are a combination of a lot of good habits and a lot of bad habits. We just try to find someone who we are compatible with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 04:00 PM
4	Women will choose the nice guy cause free gold is better than expensive diamond Not in that sense. You do know that a lot of ordinary people are cheating right ? A lot of them must include typical nice guys too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 03:18 PM
2	Women will choose the nice guy cause free gold is better than expensive diamond How will you persuade me that ordinary 9-5 working, typical nice guys won't and don't cheat ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 03:12 PM
5	Women will choose the nice guy cause free gold is better than expensive diamond You do know that the man who people term as "Typical Nice Guy" generally is the one who has no spine of his own. People can persuade him, and mold him according to their own needs. Now let's say a woman chooses the nice guy according to your logic and she is in a relationship with him. Now, let's say some other woman flirts with him, the chances are he will sway towards her as well. That's because he has no stand of his own. The thing is there is no nice guy and bad guy thing, only bullshit term…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 02:27 PM
14	In a perfect world, how often would you have sex? I mean, 4 times a week seems to be pretty reasonable and healthy. Moreover there is no fixed number, whenever the mood is right. One thing you have to keep in mind is that sex will still become boring if done everyday. Special things remain special if done occasionally, there is wait and excitement. Doing it everyday makes it boring and you feel drained out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 12:45 PM
10	Thoughts on this tweet/vid? Also, nobody bats an eye when a man fucks shady, slutty women in his youth but wants to make the good girl the mother of his children. That is a women's job. If a woman doesn't like a promiscuous man, she has every right to reject him as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 10:45 AM
-1	Women have more to offer than men Look, I'll say I have almost everything in my life. All I need is a woman, who can offer me her love, purity, care and become a great ideal mother to my future children. Now if you do your math properly, I can weed out 95% of the women because they won't be able to provide me all of those things I mentioned above. And I'm a man of high standards. Women have always had the ultimate bargaining chip which is sex. Now I'm a man who values emotional love far more than physical love/sex, call me an an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 08:34 AM
8	Thoughts on this tweet/vid? A WOMEN’S PAST DEFF MATTERS Women willingly give the wrong men their prime/best years, knowing those men aren’t husband/father material & when they start running out of time they look to settle for a sucker that will accept them with all their bad choices,trauma & fatherless kids This is the only comment I can agree with lol. Now I have no right to call any woman "hoe/slut", or any man "sucker/loser", but I personally will never date a woman like this ever, not even in my wrong mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 08:13 AM
1	Who else doesn't date people from broken homes and crappy families? I'm that guy who has very high standards and doesn't date any women from the list you've mentioned, and then including some standards of my own. What about people who went to therapy? Therapy is so common nowadays, people think that therapy will fix anyone completely like a machine. It is not like that. Therapy just gives you enough mental strength to handle your traumas on your own. Then again, scars do reduce with time, but they never heal completely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 08:06 AM
23	Men are afraid of dating and marrying single mothers because they could be on the hook to pay child support for children that aren't theirs if the relationship end Child support is not even the best reason why I shouldn't date a single mom. The best answer is I feel disgusted by it, intimidated by it because it is extra work for no benefit at all, and every task that will happen the child will be the priority rather than the two of us. Tell me again what connection I have with the child ? Why should I be feeding him/her ? Who is he/she to me ? What benefit is he/she providing me ? Why should I care what happens to him/her ? I mean, millions of children are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 07:45 AM
2	Do all men lack sexual boundaries? Hi, fellow 21 years old male virgin (by choice) here 😂. To answer your question, not all men are like this. I won't say I would like to objectify or dehumanize my hypothetical girlfriend/wife. But I'll say I will love her passionately, if it feels a little horny, objectifying or dehumanizing so be it. Also, my father told me to “accept the reality” that any man with options (ie, HV) will eventually cheat on his wife when I confronted him about cheating on my mom. Nope, your father is just projec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 09:04 PM
3	Question for all and a theory I have about choosing a partner... do you specifically look for someone that aligns with your values and behaviors I fall into this category. do you date people however they are and expect them to change to conform to your beliefs This I think is a recipe for disaster. The truth is no one can change a person. A person can only change himself/herself if he/she wants to. I'll say hoping that someday you'll find a bag full of 1 billion dollars is better than to hope a person will change according to your saying 😂. Why not just date …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 06:15 PM
1	Do you think disabled men/women deserve some sort of companionship? Do you think disabled men/women deserve some sort of companionship? Of course. Everyone (who's not abusive) deserves companionship. Do you think people people are who are considerably disabled deserve some of romantic partner? Of course they do. Everyone (who's not abusive) deserves a romantic partner. Should they seek out other disabled people Their wish. You cannot stop/limit a person from seeking out someone. They can seek out whoever they want to. should “normal” people take in interest in t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 05:51 PM
2	It is bizarre how much some women insist they do not need men, and it suggests some insecurity But women on here say that they're not marrying for money. So, they should be fine with broke men- I don't get what the issue is. I'm not a woman, so maybe a woman might be able to answer this better lmao. But I think that money is not the sole reason for attractiveness (although more money does mean better standards of living and women are selfish too), a guy with more money is oftentimes going to be more mature and hardworking and that quality in itself is attractive. What these women don't re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 05:40 PM
3	If you complain about “high n count slutty girls are no good for commitment”, it’s stupid to also complain about girls who dont fuck until the relationship is exclusive. Guys should just admit they want sex ASAP Not every guy. Source : A 22 year old virgin man by choice who values emotional connection far more than physical one and has rejected 5 women till date because of their past 😂.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 04:49 PM
8	If you complain about “high n count slutty girls are no good for commitment”, it’s stupid to also complain about girls who dont fuck until the relationship is exclusive. It is safe to assume that way. Why ? Because so much is at stake. So the woman has to prove herself that she's worth taking that risk. A similar scenario is, how safe will you feel with a random man walking down a very dark and lonely street ? You assume the worst so that your guard stays up unless the other person doesn't prove himself/herself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 04:36 PM
9	If you complain about “high n count slutty girls are no good for commitment”, it’s stupid to also complain about girls who dont fuck until the relationship is exclusive. This is what everyone is trying to explain to you 😂. It depends at what stage of her life she has become picky. 2 scenarios : She is always picky. This is a good sign and naturally her past will be less wild. She had her fun and her past is wild. But now she wants to settle down and hence is being picky. This is a big red flag for a lot of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 04:02 PM
6	If you complain about “high n count slutty girls are no good for commitment”, it’s stupid to also complain about girls who dont fuck until the relationship is exclusive. It means your approach/mentality/types changes as time goes on, just like men’s do. It's ridiculous to think a 30 year old is going to date the exact same way they did at 18. Which is completely acceptable. However, you need to understand that no one is obligated to date anyone. A woman will never understand how disgusted a man feels when he finds out a woman has a past. It just completely kills the vibe, and is more than a valid reason to reject someone imo. I won't even go into the statistics …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 03:42 PM
2	It is bizarre how much some women insist they do not need men, and it suggests some insecurity Okay I'll speak from a gender neutral perspective. So each and everyone regardless of what gender you are can use my advice if you want to. First of all, no one needs anyone. There is a reason we are taught in biology that a human being can survive without his/her sexual organs. Now, you can correct your statement by asking "Do women want men/Do men want women ?" Now, another thing I will say is that men don't want broke women and vice-versa (broke in the sense you don't have your life together)…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 02:51 PM
5	Yall really think that women "lose points" simply by turning age 30? I... I just cant lol In my 20s I barely knew how to even give a proper bj and I definitely didn't know how to last on top. Now im like a porn star in this bih. D all in my throat and shit breathing out of my nose. I think you yourself have stated one of the reasons why a lot of men would prefer a younger woman for a long term relationship than an older woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 11:26 AM
1	If someone cheats, but knows that they never do it again, should they come clean? That is great advice. Here, take my downvote.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 08:16 AM
0	The idea that women hold off on certain sexual things with a guy because he’s “boyfriend” material is an utter load of crap Yup, 100% agree with everything this guy just said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 08:04 AM
4	If someone cheats, but knows that they never do it again, should they come clean? Well if my hypothetical girl cheats on me, I would like to know the truth so that I can decide whether to stay or to leave. In which case my answer is always 110% leave, no matter what circumstances are. However, what's your opinion on this OP ? Edit : Oops, OP sorry I checked your post history and can understand why you asked this question 😂.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 04:55 AM
3	Women frequently treat men in ways that would be considered emotional abuse if the genders were reversed. But it's okay for the double standard to exist. Woman criticizes her man for the way he dresses I'll say she can do this but respectfully. Man criticizes his woman for the way she dresses I'll say I can also do this as well but respectfully. Woman giving the man the silent treatment If a major argument has happened, then staying silent for sometime is alright, but if it is done in a toxic manner, I'll throw her out of my house and out of my life for good. No place for bullshit drama in my life. Man giving a woman the silent treatment The same…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 08:38 PM
6	People from broken homes and dysfunctional families rarely make good partners. Yup I have been saying similar stuff in my previous comments. I said that we are molded by our childhood upbringing and surroundings. People who grow up in a promiscuous lifestyle are more prone to become promiscuous. People who grow up in a celibate lifestyle (like me) are more prone to become celibate. This basically applies to almost everything. This is the reason why the majority of the youth of the western society are suffering from depression and other mental problems. People need to reali…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 01:32 PM
14	Which is more selfish, refusing to have sex or having lots of casual sex? Which has more negative impacts on society? I don't understand how any of these two scenarios display selfishness ? If someone doesn't want to have sex with you, they won't (atleast not by their own consent). It's their choice. Learn to accept that everyone is not going to bend according to your needs/wants and move on. If someone is having casual sex, they are minding their own business, I have nothing to do with it either. It becomes selfishness in either of the following scenarios : When you degrade someone who's promiscuous. Their bod…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 12:25 PM
1	Nobody is judging you for having standards. We're judging you for being a dick about it. Feels like I have started to become famous on this post 🤣. Leaving aside men like u/CoachNeat5724 that basically want a woman with the same sexual experience Just wanted to address that sexual experience is not the only problem. It feels like an entirely different lifestyle tbh. Any woman who goes to clubs, bars, drinks, had ONS and casual sex is just a no for me because this is not the kind of the person I am. The hell, I haven't even tasted any hard drinks or went to clubs in my entire life lm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 01:56 PM
2	Nobody is judging you for having standards. We're judging you for being a dick about it. I'll say it goes both ways, but then again I'm speaking from personal experience. Habits which provide fun are easier to ingrain, regardless of what gender you are. Now I don't live in western society, maybe that is the reason why our viewpoints differ so much. But I'll tell you what, my mother doesn't have any male friends, and my father doesn't have any female friends. Both of them were virgins before they met each other as well. They are going to celebrate their 23rd anniversary in 2023. Matt…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 09:20 AM
7	Are you loyal or do you just lack better options? If I'm already in a relationship with her, then my loyalty will stand with her, till one of our hearts doesn't stop beating or until one of us doesn't sign up for divorce (which I won't sign in case of your example). Call me sentimental or unrealistic, but I do believe in love stories. And no love story is all happiness, both the lovers go through painful moments and there are sacrifices. But these moments and hardships make life and happiness worth living for in my opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 03:02 PM
5	Are you loyal or do you just lack better options? Yes, I can at least be assured of myself that I will be loyal. Why if you ask me ? Because I won't get into a relationship in haste. I will clear all my doubts and would want to know the woman from inside and out, her past as well as her future goals to make sure that they align with mine. I will make sure that the girl is worthy enough to stand with me, become my wife as well as mother of my future kids before getting into a relationship with her. I don't settle. Moreover, all these stupid peop…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 02:41 PM
17	Nobody is judging you for having standards. We're judging you for being a dick about it. nor am I personally criticizing your preferences. I never said you did, but just because you don't criticize my preferences doesn't mean no one has criticized my preferences. What guys fail to recognize is that nobody gives a shit if you have a preference. We care if you're a dick about it. Not "nobody". This was the point of your post I was referring to. You don't give a shit about my preference, but as I have said a lot of people do. I have rejected 4 women in my life and first, I don't tell t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 12:12 PM
63	Nobody is judging you for having standards. We're judging you for being a dick about it. I'm not really sure about this. I have posted the same comment a lot of times now, that I myself am a virgin by choice and my only reason for respectfully rejecting women I have been on date with is because they had a past. I want a virgin for myself as well because I don't want a teacher who'll teach me how to have sex. I want to grow together with her. I want to have our awkward and painful moments together. Now tell me if I have said something disrespectful. Each and every time there is someo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 11:48 AM
1	Do you place more importance on masculinity or femininity in partners? As a straight man, in my entire life I have met only 3 women who I can say I wanted to spend my future with. And all 3 of the women were extremely feminine. Playful, loving and caring personality, basically everything you have mentioned in the feminine traits. I think what also adds is that I have almost all the traits that you have mentioned in masculine traits (apart from tallness 😂).	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 10:24 AM
4	Q4M - What Goes Through Your Mind When A Woman Tells You She Is Celibate? If the comparison does make you love your husband more, I'll say good for you and your husband. Then again it's you and your husband, not generalization. This is the reason we rely on statistics, to find the probability of securing a good future. P.S :- Wishing you and your husband long lasting and happy marriage and future 😀	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 03:22 PM
2	Q4M - What Goes Through Your Mind When A Woman Tells You She Is Celibate? Immorality, by definition, is "bad" and causes harm Lying is also immoral, but that doesn't cause harm, right ? 🤔 Who is being harmed by woman's sexual past Absolutely no one other than my gut who feels like it has been punched. So when I have the choice to choose, why will I choose you over the other woman ? a man's ego and fear that his peepee won't be as big as the guys she's slept with before? Well yes, kind of. When you know that comparison between previous and present sexual partners can m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 02:53 PM
2	Q4M - What Goes Through Your Mind When A Woman Tells You She Is Celibate? Casual sex isn't immoral. I'll choose my words more carefully if I was you. Casual sex isn't immoral to you. That doesn't mean it is moral to me or someone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 02:39 PM
6	Q4M - What Goes Through Your Mind When A Woman Tells You She Is Celibate? "Nah, you were a slut at one point so fuck you" I will tell you that this is how unfortunately the world works. Because if your logic of "past doesn't define you" is true, then all the criminals, including murders, rapists and robbers are innocent the moment they commit the crime because guess what, "your past doesn't define you." If you're dating a guy who let's say tells you that he has been in 5 relationships before you, and he has abused and cheated on some or all of his partners, will you f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 02:31 PM
1	Men are becoming less masculine and women are to blame I can think of one reason why men have become less masculine. While this may not be the entire solution to the problem, it definitely contributes. Ease of life. This is all I will say. From my personal experience (and I have seen it happen many times with others as well), there was a time in my life where I had to work very hard to improve my life. I succeeded, and the man who came out of the situation was a completely different man than I remembered. I was stern, strict, didn't accept bullshit …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 11:09 AM
5	Q4M - What Goes Through Your Mind When A Woman Tells You She Is Celibate? As a lot of people have mentioned in this post, I'll also agree with them. If she is a virgin, then I'll treat it as a green flag, moreover I'll go as far as to say that she has managed to impress me a bit. If she had "all of her fun" and now wants to settle down, sorry I'll run away faster than Usain Bolt lol. Better be someone's one and only rather than to become just another number.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 10:45 AM
0	It seems most men pursue women for social status rather than loving relationships or company Just because you don't care doesn't mean no one cares. Everyone has their own preferences and expectations in a partner and no one is wrong lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 01:29 PM
0	It seems most men pursue women for social status rather than loving relationships or company I'll be lying to you if I tell you we look for a long-term partner only for love and company. Each and every one of us, to a certain extent wants a long-term partner who will elevate our social status too. For example, women want a man who stands out from the crowd because it increases their social status too. This is all subconscious. Therefore they desire a man who is tall, a little bit muscular and has a great financial income. Similarly, men ideally look for a beautiful woman who's a virgin,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 09:24 AM
1	Gender relations, and dating for men in particular, would be much improved if there weren’t so much societal pressure for men to get laid Sorry bud, but from your post you sound a little stupid and childish. Nope, there is no societal pressure for men to get laid, only their preference. I, much to my detriment, very heavily care about my “body count”, and internalize the concept that higher is better. I strongly associate that number with my self worth and success as a man. Well, then what will you call me as a virgin ? A failure as a man ? So many times us guys find ourselves going to approach that girl, or get that number, or “c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 04:30 PM
2	How many here are still virgins in their 20s? What is your reason for that? Nope, I don't think so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 03:44 PM
2	How many here are still virgins in their 20s? What is your reason for that? That is my problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 03:40 PM
3	How many here are still virgins in their 20s? What is your reason for that? The reason I told you. I want someone virgin for me and they are not, so I cut my losses and leave.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 03:25 PM
1	How many here are still virgins in their 20s? What is your reason for that? Nothing special lol. I'm a virgin, and I want someone virgin for myself too. Usually on 3-4 dates, I find out indirectly. Then I use the same old lame reasons like everyone does, like "There was no connection" or "Spark wasn't there" 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 03:22 PM
8	Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated? I'm sorry, but I don't think I will ever be able to look at any of my parents the same way if I would've found out. Matter of fact, I will feel betrayed in every way possible. Had it been 10 years ago, I don't know, but at the age of 21, I definitely will be pissed off to the point of not calling them for probably a lifetime lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 11:51 AM
2	Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated? The cheating was wrong. I agree with you on this too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 11:47 AM
4	Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated? I won't put it like that, I'll say it's the best choice available now. Still the damage is done, thanks to one person's immaturity and selfishness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 11:34 AM
3	Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated? Okay this is the last time I'll reply to you because I've understood that you and me, have completely different views on this and I think I know the reason why. Anyways I completely respect your opinions 😂. Now coming back to your reply : Wtf kinda logic is this 😂 Source : Trust me bro/sis, have seen and experienced this far too many times. everyone has lied. Nope. Not everyone. As I remember, I have hardly ever lied, neither has anyone in my family nor any of my friends. Again, the company make…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 11:30 AM
6	Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated? Then please detail how they would learn to cheat from their parent who they don't even know cheated. Because your behaviour is very well decided by what company you are with. Find me one person on this planet, who has never lied in his/her entire life, is always surrounded by good company and cheated. There are always signs, it starts slow, starting from lying, to hiding little details that paints you as the saint instead of the devil. And most often then not, it is learnt from a bad company. Ca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 11:03 AM
5	Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated? You don't need to learn about your parent's infidelity to learn and pick up their shitty behaviour. And I never said they should be removed from being a parent. But yes their involvement should be minimised. Regardless, this is my claim. You are free to choose what you want to. I have learnt from a very young age that the world is cruel, you can't trust any stranger let alone the only person who did something so bad to me and my child. Why do you think I will trust that same person to parent my …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 10:41 AM
4	Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated? A child learns from his/her parents. I think we all can agree on that. The person who lied, betrayed not only the spouse, but the family whole. What do you expect from him/her ? As I said, the person who cheats is immature, has his/her own shit to deal with. Give me one good reason if my hypothetical wife cheats on me, why will I trust her that she won't spoil my child ? Moreover the child deserves to know who and what caused his/her home to break apart.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 10:29 AM
3	Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated? There is a huge chance that I might attract a lot of heat here, but screw it. I'll say at a certain age (when the kids are mature enough to understand), YES, you should tell them. If you ask me why ? My answer is pretty simple. I do not think that the partner who cheated is himself/herself mature enough, let alone taking care of your child. Chances are, he/she might teach your children similar kinds of behaviour, lies etc. Moreover, the one who cheated sets a really bad example of a partner and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 10:10 AM
2	Is the idea that divorce is unfair to men overhyped? I don't live in western society so my idea may be off. But I think one of the biggest reasons why younger youth are suffering from mental illness, depression and failing in relationships is the lack of availability of both the parents. A child needs both, a father as well as a mother. One harsh truth I know a lot of people won't like but still is truth regardless. A child after the age of 14-15 years of age stops fearing his/her mother. Now that doesn't mean the child won't obey her, but chances…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 08:19 AM
8	How many here are still virgins in their 20s? What is your reason for that? I still am a virgin. 21 years old and so far it's always me who has rejected women lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 02:01 AM
1	Your partner should be your best friend. Everything else is just details. Well, no one will tell women to stop looking for fitness, height and finances in a man and start looking at his personality to find a friend inside him. I can also point out the double standards that a woman's preferences are termed as standards, whereas a man's preferences are termed as insecurities. Moreover, since you said about finding a best friend and me who doesn't pursue casual sex at all. I don't have sex with my friends. A definition of a significant other is a lot different to me than…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/22 09:06 PM
0	All of you guys who judge women for having casual sex, are you ever trying to get it? Look at my comment history from past 3 days and you'll find my answer to your question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 09:51 AM
1	Body count doesn't matter as much as being her best. thoughts? Okay, wow first of all let me admit that this question is asked so so many times on reddit. I'm new here but, even in the past 3 days I have answered this question like 4 times 😂. Now coming to the point. As I've mentioned in all of my previous comments, I at least at this point of time want a virgin woman to be my partner because I'm a virgin myself. The only reason I say this is because I want sexual compatibility. I don't want a teacher who can teach me how to have sex. I want to grow togethe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 07:39 AM
2	Body count doesn't matter as much as being her best. thoughts? Even 7 ex-boyfriends say a lot. Think about it, if 7 of her relationships didn't work, why do you think 8th will ? You can blame one of her boyfriends, maybe two or even three. But believing that all 7 of the past partners did her bad is a huge assumption and kind of risk taking as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 07:21 AM
1	If you're boring in bed, your looks will not save you Yeah I know all of this stuff happens as well 🤣. But it's hardly arousing and kind of useless to me. I guess I might be in the minority here but I value emotional connection as equally as physical connection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/22 04:18 PM
1	If you're boring in bed, your looks will not save you How will she get me erect when I'm not physically attracted to her in the first place ? Moreover this never works for me. I've found a lot of women physically attractive but I've never had sex with them because I they all had some deal breakers. Hence your guy is still a virgin 🤟.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/22 02:14 PM
0	If you're boring in bed, your looks will not save you By your language, it seems like you are talking about ONS. If so, my apologies this is not my area of expertise at all 😂. For me if I'm looking for a long time partner, I will only want to know that girl more, whom I'm physically attracted to in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/22 01:57 PM
4	If you're boring in bed, your looks will not save you Well I'm a straight male, but I have a question ? Why will I get into the bed with a woman whom I'm not attracted to physically in the first place ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/22 01:28 PM
1	CMV Why Red Pill is Dumb Series Part 3: Red Pilled Men Are Overly Concerned With Getting Laid I'll give my answer as a response to each of the 3 points you have made. I Absolutely agree on this point . Men bend down in the name of sex. I'm not like this and I can't stress it enough how relieved I feel that even the most beautiful woman on this planet has no power over me. Oftentimes I have heard men saying that women gatekeep sex so it's a woman's responsibility to keep her legs closed. I say how about we as men show a little self control and stop having casual sex. Women will stop havin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/22 08:37 AM
7	Complaining about high N-count women is a fundamental misunderstanding of the red pill principles. Actually, you are right. I might be living in a different country than yours but the "casual sex/hookup" culture is trending here too. I consider myself fairly attractive, I workout, and have a good physique. I have no problem talking to girls. I get compliments from a lot of people, and girls/women love talking to me (in my school, college as well as in general). But I'm single and virgin because : Earlier was not the right time for me to date. Now whosoever girl I like, she probably has some p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/22 03:15 PM