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| 1 | Are women turned off more by guys being okay with their pasts than they let on?Seek help. I don't have a hatred for men. A man posted looking for advice and I gave my opinion. Clearly if he knew what to do, he wouldn't be posting it on Reddit. I don't know OP better than he knows himself but he wanted help and I did my best to help. There is no trauma dumping, I'm not sure if you know what the words your saying even mean. Let me try and assist you. Fetish: a form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object or activity or a part of the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 11:08 PM |
| 0 | Are women turned off more by guys being okay with their pasts than they let on?I'm still not understanding your point about misandry. If there was a girl who posted that she had two separate boyfriends who mentioned that she was a gold digger after they had a few dates, me calling out what potentially could be wrong, wouldn't be misogynist. She asked a question and I gave a possible solution. You nor I know the full story about OP. No, I don't think it's men's responsibility to read women's minds. But unless you are autistic, and I don't mean that as an insult, I would thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Are women turned off more by guys being okay with their pasts than they let on?None of the girls OP mentioned said anything about them liking their past sexual experiences. For all we know one of them could have said "Yeah, I sucked off a guy behind the old gym because I thought that would make him like me but nothing came of it". So while she's thinking about how she regrets having that experience, OP out here diddling himself and asking her to relive that experience. You don't seem to be engaging with the conversation that occurred. He asked them about their pasts, they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 01:41 PM |
| 5 | Are women turned off more by guys being okay with their pasts than they let on?Some of the things they described got me turned on, and I wanted to encourage them to do those. However, both reacted like they were turned off at me asking to do something to me that was associated with past lovers. OP clearly describes hearing about their sexual history, being turned on by it, then asking them to do those things. If it were a mere curiosity on his part, then I'd be on his side. And this happened on more than one occasion. I could be wrong but it seems like the turning point is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Are women turned off more by guys being okay with their pasts than they let on?Forgive me, I'm not quite sure what your point is here. All I'm saying is, you can accept someone's past without fetishizing it. And if you do want to fetishize it, make sure you have their consent. Not everyone is comfortable with aspects of them being fetishized. If a guy has a smaller penis and he makes his partner aware. She sees the smaller penis and accepts it. But then when they have sex she keeps bringing up how tiny his penis is, I would think that guy is within his right to say, "I don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 07:46 PM |
| 6 | Are women turned off more by guys being okay with their pasts than they let on?Assumed?... You literally were trying to recreate their past sexual experiences. Asking them about their sexual history and being okay with it, is very different from you being turned on by that sexual history and using it in sexual play. I would suggest if you have a hotpast kink, that you should talk with your gf about it before bringing it up during sex. IMO I don't want this to seem like a personal attack but your post, especially the title is very misleading. If your own account is to be be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 06:08 PM |
| 5 | Why don’t women want men to help fix things?Yeah, women can work on their understanding of men, but men can also work on their understanding of women. Despite how rational you think you are, you're on a forum venting about your frustration with women even though, I presume, you already have the answers to your own question. Why ask a question, when you know the answer? Maybe something to think about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t women want men to help fix things?Most people, men and women, are not very emotionally intelligent. Most people, as far as I can tell, operate in a reactive manner. Something bad happens in their life and they react however they've been programmed to react. For women, often it's venting, they often know what the solution is but want to express their feelings about it first. For men, they often get detach. This means they will try to act upon a solution first without tackling any of the emotional ramifications of what just happen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather be a tall, good looking (high functioning) autistic guy or a short unattractive neurotypical guyAhh I see | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather be a tall, good looking (high functioning) autistic guy or a short unattractive neurotypical guyDo you have a link to that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 01:53 PM |
| 0 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.OP literally described the essence of what makes people who they are then says “this is the only reason why a woman loves you”. Like, what else are they to love you for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 06:56 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to even get a relationship nowadays?Agreed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 04:46 PM |
| 8 | Far too many people believe that men not being able to acquire sex/relationships is a MORAL failing. This could not be further from the truth.Which is exactly what women are doing in increasing numbers, as far as I can tell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 07:51 PM |
| 5 | Far too many people believe that men not being able to acquire sex/relationships is a MORAL failing. This could not be further from the truth.There are levels to desirability. If you can pretend to be a woman for a moment. Think about what you would desire in a partner. I'm guessing it would be a mixture of physical and personality traits. Tall, physically fit, masculine facial features, Funny, driven, opinionated. Whether we like it or not, men with psychopathic traits tend to at least be very desirable on the surface. The same can't be said for a "nice guy" who, more often than not, puts women on a pedestal and capitulates to her ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 06:46 PM |
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