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Cobainism/r/seduction12/08/14 03:55 AM
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Maybe something future looking like "what are you looking forward to this week?" This is good advice. Great way to learn about her hobbies and interests, and maybe segue it into a date
/r/seduction21/04/26 06:20 PM
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I’ve been there…this is textbook jealous friend cockblocking behavior. It can happen in nightgame when you approach a friend group. Humor would’ve worked well in disarming her. Something along the lines of: “Nope, just normal interaction, I promise” “I’ll do my best to keep it socially acceptable” “Don’t worry, I’m not trying to steal your friend away” “Don’t worry, this isn’t a FBI interrogation” if you’re more daring. Then immediately shift your attention back to the girl you’re exchanging con…
/r/seduction12/03/26 08:37 PM
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Yeah you clearly have along way to go. Believe or not women generally want some sort of connection even if it’s a casual fwb. Sex the first date is not that common unless you have something that stands out.
/r/seduction31/07/25 03:31 PM
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Lol ok you sound like a well-adjusted individual. You think he wants a relationship lmao when he’s getting laid left and right. A guy who was not compatible with you in the first place doesn’t make him “predatory”. The tourists he hooking up don’t have “trauma issues”. That’s just you projecting. Lots of weirdos in this part of Reddit, but at least y’all are entertaining. Good luck on your quest of finding a relationship, if possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:54 PM
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Being attractive alone doesn’t get you a constant supply of hookups, even with tourists. Still need to have game during dates. You don’t get laid that often without self-awareness — he knows what he’s doing. When he’s actually ready for a relationship, he’ll get one. In the meantime, why not have fun if he has the looks and charisma. Good for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:09 PM
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I know he hooks up with girls they just never go back for seconds. Mission accomplished. Whatever he’s doing is working for what he wants. Zero commitment. If you wanted a relationship then you two were incompatible from the start anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:48 PM
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From girls: “Just be yourself” - lmao From guys (naturals): “Just go up and talk to her, bro” - without any indication on how to avoid friendzoning myself. I’m not surprised about girls being clueless about why they hook up with the guys they do (the whole fisherman, ask for fishing advice analogy), but it’s amazing how guys who are naturally good with women can’t explain the “how” of their success as well. You have ask someone who struggled with dating and then became successful if you want any…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:08 PM
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Word of advice, this would’ve landed a lot better if you used “friends with benefits” instead of “serial monogamy.” You can be exclusive as FWBs or an while and not mislead her into thinking it’s a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:57 PM
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Lol it works. That idiot had no idea what he was doing. Playing hard to get doesn’t mean literally ignoring the girl. Gen z is young so he’ll learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:47 PM
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How is the attitude not the same? Its like you're giving them a pass bc they keep their misogyny quiet instead of typing it out. That's really all it takes? That's why I specified the player types of misogynists who get hookups from liberal women. They keep their views quiet and let their attractiveness/charisma do the rest. Yeah of course conservative staffers who openly worked for Trump in DC aint getting shit. I wouldnt want to be seen with them in public either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 01:57 AM
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You still didnt tell me how. I know one group has sex, and the other complains online. Ultimately the attitude toward women is same. Lmfao they do for hookups. Come to NYC see it for yourself. Finance bros women hookup with liberal women all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 01:11 AM
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But the other examples perpetuate misogyny to the same extent, even though they have sex. They share the same attitude as incels. They embolden other men more than incels. By your defintion, they are incels. Maybe not long-term relationships, but tons of liberal women absolutely overlook misogyny when it comes to casual sex if the guy is hot/rich/funny enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:55 PM
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But how are the messages fundamentally different? Players/Chads/whatever the fuck you wanna call them have these same misogynist attitudes, they just dont say it out loud and actually meet women irl. That makes them an incel according to your new definition, since its about attitude not sex. Otherwise what you said makes no sense. They are more effective bc they show other men that plenty of women, especially liberal women, will overlook misogyny as long as you dont talk about those attitudes an…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:12 PM
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How are the messages different?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:55 PM
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The language is different, but the message is more or less the same. Chads just dont type it out on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:51 PM
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Seriously? Becuase you literally said "Incel isn't actually about not getting sex, that's not the issue. It's the bitter dehumanizing language and attitude they adopt against women that marks them as an incel." Chads/fuckboys/players have incel or incel-adjacent attitudes towards women. Under your new definition, they would be incels bc since its about attitude, not sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:06 PM
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ok im speaking to a smoothbrain. Im literally talking about guys who get laid but still hold incel or incel-adjacent views. Because the other person who I was replying to said that "incel" doesnt have to do with whether a guy has sex, it's just about his views on women. So would a misogynist who actually gets laid but keeps his views to himself still be an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:01 PM
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So just to be clear under this new defintion, a misogynist who actually gets laid but keeps his views to himself is still an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:51 PM
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How? Fuckboys who have incel views but keep them to themselves are not incels?They dont spend time talking about those views online, but they still perpetuate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:44 PM
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But the fuckboys/Chads/players out there also hold misogynist views too, they just don't spend their time talking about it on reddit. Are they incels too?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:12 PM
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Its noteworthy because the definiton is then changed at a very fundamental level. It literally stands for "involuntary celibate". The whole point of defining themselves as such was that "Chads" can be misogynist and hold similar views as them and still get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:59 PM
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Then the original definition of the word has changed. A misogynist who actually gets laid but keeps his views to himself is still an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:00 PM
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Then the original definition of the word has changed. A misogynist who actually gets laid but keeps his views to himself is still an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:00 PM
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Coping can also manifest as grandeurs of delusion. Hope you get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:10 PM
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Lol. Yeah, you did read the rest of my comment. Funny how you never disputed that FDS are like incels when it comes to long-term relationships. Like someone else said, if believing that FDS is filled with college-age empowered girl bosses helps you cope, then go ahead. "Ignorance is bliss" is a coping mechanism used by many. Hope you get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:48 PM
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Bruh what are you talking about? Reddit is very popular with teenagers and college-age people lmfao. Just lol. Can't really take you seriously after that. I just provided you actual evidence that literally the top overlapped subs are all older women. By a lot. If your anecdotal "a lot of them are college girls who just dont like hookup culture" were so prominent on FDS we would see actual evidence of that in the sub overlaps. And some "no hookups" vid on Tiktok doesnt mean they are on FDS or fol…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:00 PM
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No shit any woman with a vagina can get laid. FDS are like incels when it comes to getting into long-term realtionships. They feel entitlted to "high-value men" committing to them, like incels to sex. You are also completely wrong about the demographics of FDS. That sub has by far the highest overlap with r/datingoverthirty, r/askwomenover30, and r/datingoverforty. You are in the vast minority if you are a college-age girl spending time in that sub. Sorry to hear you're one of those few.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:35 PM
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You can get that same dating advice without ever "swallowing the pill". RP can easily turn you into someone whose personality becomes too toxic to attract women in the first place -- then you blame women, thus confirming RP's "principles" in your mind (AWALT, hypergamy, etc). RP claims to reveal the truth, but it ironically leads to a lack of self-awareness and introspection. You end up not holding yourself accountable because it's always someone else's fault for your failures.
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