Cobalt_Bakar Archive

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4	My wife left me and I’m struggling with understanding why. Hi OP, I don’t know if this applies to your situation but it sounds like your wife came from a dysfunctional family and there may be some Cluster B Personality Disorder traits at play. Consider looking at a book about how to navigate divorce with an ex partner who has a “high conflict” personality: the book is called Splitting by Bill Eddy and Randi Kreger. You may also want to search for examples of “quiet BPD” and check out the BPDlovedones sub, which is a support group for people who are or h…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/09/24 11:58 PM
1	Paternity test or not OP, based on the wording of your post I get the impression that you consider that little boy your son. He is your son, because DNA aside, you are the only dad he’s ever known. Kids need dads, and so long as you love him and consider him your son, whoever his father is, is irrelevant. I tried to compose a comment earlier today but it got very long. I copied it to an email draft and I may try to paste it here in two or even three replies. But my big piece of advice is to look at your own words. Yo…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/05/23 08:46 PM