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65

If I was the midwife I would have cussed at him and kicked him out. Like how does he think he got here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 05:42 PM
11

💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 05:40 PM
16

Whew close one. The last guy I saw doesn’t even know my real name😅I always use a fake name on dating apps. I stupidly gave him my number but I’m going to change it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:06 AM
42

And if a guy orders multiple drinks run because he’s an alcoholic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 10:28 PM
8

Sexual attraction is 60% of the relationship? Is his head screwed on the right way? Guys love to pick solely with their dick then get mad when their gf or wife turns out to be “crazy”. Then they get all bitter and have baggage after the break up or divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 10:07 PM
1

Anyone else heavily confused about the lobster part? Like that so random af 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 03:56 AM
3

Why do they do this shit. Ain’t nobody wanted to hear from you. Your apology is not needed get a fucking therapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 03:50 AM
5

What 10 wants to be with his broke ass unless they have low self esteem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 03:39 AM
5

So why is he texting her then???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:05 PM
3

Can’t wait to try this stuff out. I’m tired of looking like a high schooler
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:02 PM
6

She made the mistake of telling him. I would have never told him that. That money came from her family so it gets used for her family
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 07:51 PM
1

Microwave pizza is gross. At least order takeout. As for me I do restaurants only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 07:47 PM
29

Why is this even a thing 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 02:37 AM
2

He is a grown ass man why didn’t he eat all day?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:38 PM
3

Nope I would have dumped him. It’s clear he does not respect what the gf wants from the relationship. Men will waste your time because it benefits them. Watch when she leaves then he’s gonna buy the ring and set a date. It’s all fucking game and too many women get played
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:53 PM
9

Why do they do this shit like anybody wanted their apology
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 10:49 PM
21

That’s doing way too much. He knows what he’s doing so there’s no need to call him out just end it. Men only pay attention to action and words hold no weight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 10:38 PM
11

I always use ribbed condoms because I can feel the difference. If he doesn’t have them I’ll supply em. Dunno what makes you wanna take off a condom during sex and think you’ll get away with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 10:19 PM
2

Tf why would he require you to go all that way and split the bill. Whenever I invite a friend out I try to pay for the bill but they won’t let me. I’m convinced that guys act gentlemanly just to get ass. Some guy I saw won’t let me walk near the street side of the pavement. I thought he was cool but he just wanted ass. This is why women give the side eye when guys do anything nice for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:37 PM
172

More proof that men want what they can’t have. He was hoping he could be that special one to turn you straight. You’re lucky you’re a lesbian so you don’t have to completely deal with the full package
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:38 AM
5

He is too short for my attention
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:36 AM
1

Wow he showed up to the restaurant with his dick in his hand. Don’t feel bad for these fools. If they wanted to get to know you and cared they would have treated you better. Just allow yourself to analyze the situation and get control of your emotions. Think we’ll if I continue on this past then x will happen and that won’t make me happy. Men are only after their own needs so who cares if he doesn’t get what he wants. If it smells like shit it is shit and will always be shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:35 AM
7

I don’t get why they’re so touchy on the first date. I’ve had guys hug me expectantly. Like why are you going around hugging strangers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:29 AM
122

Lol what guy is gonna give up the hooha for a sex doll? Not the guys who are good with women. Let these guys weed themselves out of the gene pool. Even if sex robots became a thing the robot would leave their ass because they ain’t shit and can’t fuck lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:25 AM
1

Men don’t like to take responsibility for shit. Yeah you were hurt but now you’re an adult. You know what you gotta do but won’t do it. My ass can’t be bothered with em these excuses because I don’t care nor is it my issue 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:49 AM
5

What helped me is accepting the fact that you did the best you could will the knowledge and life experiences you had then. You couldn’t foresee that things would get that bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:45 AM
6

Hell to the fucking no. If you were my friend I would have gone to prison. What the fucking hell. That shit makes me angry. I wish you were lying about this so bad. That guy is a fucking psychopath that needs his dick puréed and force fed to him. I volunteer myself for the job. Anyhoo you don’t owe anybody any explanation about your past when you don’t know the guy. Why spill your business when you’re not even sure you wanna see him again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:30 AM
12

Why do they do this shit and how come you have over 1k unanswered messages 🤔😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 11:57 PM
12

Now that I think of it my one ex tried to do this to me. He said that if I use the other register then we’ll be out faster. Why not use the same check out so someone else can get in and get out? I still made him pay for some of the stuff we were going to share tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:02 PM
1

I think we found Charles Mason’s long lost son
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:23 AM
8

I generally don’t have a problem with them. They’re not worth a response 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:18 AM
21

The audacity. He’s got so much baggage. Who wants to deal with these snot nosed kids and baby mama drama? He’s needs to get the snip snip and sit his ass down. These guys want to be women so bad. People would raise all sorts of hell if a single mother did this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:11 AM
25

Guys always leave or disappear for another woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:48 AM
29

Quote of the millennium
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:47 AM
9

This! My one ex was deliberately hanging with his ex. I asked him to stop since he claimed she hurt him and made him feel depressed. Months later when we broke up he admitted he was still talking to his ex. He even blamed me for not know because I never asked. Uh no you said you’d stop talking to her and I was dumb enough to believe that lie 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 09:36 PM
10

These types of guys are usually the ones that got dumped and can’t get over their ex no matter how bad she treated him. Since they’re an emotional mess they can’t help but vomit all over you about their ex. I’ve noticed that they move too fast into a relationship. They talk positive and negative about their ex to the point that you feel sorry for them. They won’t do the things for you that they did for their ex. They know you’re not the one and will waste your time leeching off of you. My one ex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 09:30 PM
127

Lose this dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 09:16 PM
43

And I don’t have time to be dealing with that shit 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 09:00 PM
3

Oof this hits home. Whenever I invited my ex over I extra cleaned my room and the kitchen. His house should have been scheduled for demolition. Stuff was everywhere on the main floor. It smelled like a zoo due to the pets living there. His room had random shit everywhere and would stink when the cats would go poo in the litter box. I believe how you treat your living spaces is a reflection of you. This dude only washed every other day despite working in a hot kitchen. Makes me shudder because of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:57 PM
7

Realized this the hard way. I wanted to break up with some of the guys I saw but they begged me to give them another chance. Later on two of them dumped me. I was a bit salty because I knew they were trash and wanted to dump them. What you see is what you get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:54 PM
2

It’s because they view every last girl on OLD apps as hoes. Free prostitution buffet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:26 PM
1

Don’t try and get closure from someone who hurt you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:21 PM
1

This is why you don’t tell guys about your sexual past. They can’t handle it. If he thinks a black dick ruins a woman it’s means his IQ is below 115
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 10:40 AM
4

Um you’re suppose to put things on your profile that make you look good. This shows how low effort these guys are. They’re not even hiding their shitty behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 10:33 AM
7

Where do y’all find these people? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:01 AM
43

Lol who does he think he is, Ted Bundy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 03:29 AM
2

Broke guys take you to Applebee’s ma’am. Some guy I briefly saw invited me to Applebee’s. Now they had the two for $20 special so our bill was like $50ish because he had several drinks. Dude asked me to split the bill. I later found out he was broke as hell. He kept the heat off to save money 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 03:11 AM
12

The solution to this is not to give a fuck anymore. Who cares if you’re called names for acting wise. Tell them to kiss the inside of your ass if they expect you to drop your standards for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 03:48 AM
3

I could understand if she posted sexy pics and divorced him but come on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:17 PM
207

You’re no longer my priority if you take 12+ hours to text back. And you definitely get blocked after 24 hrs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 06:42 PM
9

Lol was he adopted by a pigeon?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 06:39 PM
4

Looking forward to John Wick 4 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 06:12 PM
22

The guy showed up wearing a hoodie? He couldn’t wear a decent t shirt or v neck with nice pants?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 11:08 PM
6

Hell to the naw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 02:48 AM
3

Fucking freaky as shit. I’m gonna have nightmares 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 05:34 AM
5

Ow you gotta stop 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 01:09 AM
25

Just when I think lvm can’t get any worse. I collect stuffed animals. The oldest I have is almost 20 years old. I would send someone to God if they used my plushies as a cum rag. This guy is retarded and has no respect for his gf. He’s not even ashamed about it either. Girl needs to dump his ass and block his number. And tell the truth when people asked why she dumped him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:00 PM
9

I’ve said this before. If men value sex so much and if it’s one of the ways they communicate and love then why do they cheat sexually? They claim the other girl doesn’t mean anything but sex is a way to show intimacy. Like pick one already geez
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 02:52 AM
1

Oooh no he didn’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 06:59 PM
62

Was this written by a woman? Men don’t regret using women who give their all. They don’t wake one day and realize a woman’s worth. This is exactly why women need to know their worth so they don’t have to put up with jackasses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 05:56 PM
25

Oh please even if you tell them they get offended and don’t change. Men need to be told they suck in bed. I literally had to tell a guy that assaulting the clit won’t make me orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:43 AM
1

If you’re going to approach someone do it in a appropriate social setting. Like why do you want to chase after someone who you think is attractive but don’t know shit about? I notice guys tend to approach me when I look uber casual. I guess I should dress up all the time to keep these creepy dudes away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 11:33 PM
14

I usually go by don’t ask don’t tell when it comes to body count. Deals off if he cheated, visits hookers/strip clubs, is bisexual, ons, still friends with fwb watched/watches snuff/violent porn. That kind of stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:13 PM
30

Such a gawd fearing man 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 02:18 PM
2

Even if this is real karma will fuck him hard. How many times have we’ve heard about a cheating fuckboy getting cheated on by the one they fell for. It happens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 02:02 PM
2

I would spend the night at guys’ houses and not have sex because I knew I didn’t have to. I stopped doing that only because it could easily turn into sexual assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 06:35 PM
9

I had to explain this to a guy I was seeing once. It’s not always the amount of time that makes it a rebound. If you’re still fucking into your ex and not over them it’s a fucking rebound.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 06:28 PM
0

I think I kinda understand what he’s thinking. Guys think that if we say we want something serious that we have to start out serious like a couple. Like nah it just means we want the same thing not necessarily that we’re compatible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 01:10 AM
12

Plz this happens with guys too. One person I went out with was way skinner than he was in his photos. I found out he was so broke he would save money by cutting out food. And another was a fucking Oompa Loompa but I couldn’t tell because he only had selfies🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 03:00 AM
2

R e p o r t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 05:43 PM
3

Yeah he would have got cussed the fuck out. Creepy weirdo. Food shopping pisses me off as it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 04:23 AM
13

He backpedaled so hard I have whiplash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 04:32 PM
11

Damn check your messages 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 03:57 PM
8

I’m not saying you’re going to be immune to emotionally unavailable guys in irl. It just helps reduces the chance of any bad outcome. Irl people risk their social status and reputation so they can’t get away with the things they do online. If you’re looking for anything serious I wouldn’t touch OLD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 03:54 AM
20

I love how he gets his mama involved to tell OP to get an abortion. Such a man baby. If you don’t want a kid don’t have sex. I thought we all took health class in high school
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 03:40 AM
8

He’d be lucky he still has a dick in the morning. Throw the whole man away. No living thing deserves that shit even if it is a cockroach. Utterly disgusting piece of shit human trash. I loathe people who hurt or enjoy hurting animals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:40 PM
3

Blocked for the utter nonsense he’s spewing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:18 PM
27

I must have dated him after you 🤡😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:10 PM
9

Can confirm. I briefly dated someone who was obese and balding at fucking 23. My aunt calls that particular bald look the “stadium”. You know a big ol bald spot surrounded by a ring of hair that’s receding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:09 AM
26

They emit fuckboy energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 03:15 AM
2

I just subscribed to her channel. Too many truth bombs in that one video
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 09:01 PM
1

Um the oldest is 7 and she’s 23? Which means if he’s the father then a 20 year old impregnated a 16 or possibly 15 year old (accounting for pregnancy). This guy is sick and should be in jail Edit: i read the post. She was 19 when they had their first child I assume. But he still was with her when she was 17 when he was 21. Still predatory and considered statutory rape in some states
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 05:48 PM
7

And he probably wants you to fuck him on that nasty bed 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 03:55 AM
1

I just hate the smell of weed so it’s a deal breaker for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 06:40 PM
17

If you have to dtr you’ve already lost
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 04:35 PM
15

What in the holy hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 08:27 PM
2

They’d get desperate and fuck each other or try to rape women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 07:29 PM
9

That’s why I don’t accept gifts or gestures from guys I’m not into
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:02 PM
2

I used to match with people outta pity because I’d never match otherwise with the way they were looking. And the women on tinder look soooo much better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 03:01 AM
4

I hate when guys only cuddle before sex. Afterwards they just roll over and pass out. Like it’s so obvious you’re doing it for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 02:53 AM
3

That’s why I completely burn the bridge so they can’t even find a way back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 09:00 AM
1

If anyone complains about being single they are not doing it the right way 💁‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 08:57 AM
4

Your ego was hurt but I can assure you that walking away now is the best decision. If you stay it’s gonna be a three way relationship and you’ll get dragged into his past drama with his ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 08:53 AM
14

What the hell I don’t even know 300 people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 08:48 AM
3

Nah I don’t shave my private area for any guy. The ingrown hairs and itchiness aren’t worth it. I have really sensitive skin so I just trim it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 08:41 AM
154

Just get another man who will do the dishes 🤷‍♀️ No need to destroy the poor PS4 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 05:25 PM
44

Yes! I’ve always thought women were better looking than men and it’s not because I’m bi. Women put waaay more effort into their appearance than men ever will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:38 AM
22

Male fantasy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 07:44 PM
27

Make sure you lock the door when they come back 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 03:12 AM
14

No disrespect but I’ve encounter a lot of Muslim men who are thirsty af. Like I thought religion was suppose to reduce those behaviors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 07:33 PM
23

Just don’t depend on him to feel valued too much. There are some women that have kids because they know the child has no choice but to love them because baby daddy doesn’t. That’s how some women treat their sons like their man, which is not fair to the child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 05:14 PM
6

I could have gone on with my life not having to know that this exists. Thanks a bunch lol 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 03:55 AM
17

I was so confused by the use of cougar here for a second lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 06:15 PM
3

Men who think like this are retarded. You don’t wanna hurt her by breaking up but cheating on her is ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 09:12 PM
11

Ngl that pizza looks good lol But yeah this is one of the many reasons I no longer date broke and unestablished guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 08:28 PM
7

Yep so true. I noticed that guys don’t delete or block numbers when things end. I always delete a number when a relationship ends and just block if I don’t want to hear from them. One ex begged me to unblock him and be friends but he’s still blocked. I blocked another ex a few months ago because he accidentally face timed me. When I move on, I move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 10:41 PM
9

In my experience it’s because someone else came along but they don’t want to break up with you so they don’t feel like the bad person that they are. When they become involved with the other person that’s when you feel them become distant. They were just hoping that you’d get tired of them pulling away that you’d break up with them.I saw a survey that was done on how women and men view breaking up. The women preferred to be direct and just break up. The major of the men just do the slow fade to a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 10:31 PM
5

24 hours is my max. Few people go that long without checking their phones. Even if you don’t use your phone to text there is still the alarm, checking the time and weather etc. There’s no such thing as a bad texter. Either they wanna text you or they don’t. One guy used this excuse on me yet he was always on his phone when we hung out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 04:53 AM
1

That’s how I felt at first but it’s really about keeping your boundaries. He’ll recognize that if he fucks up you’ll leave and/or find a replacement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 03:22 PM
3

Only men have the ability to make women crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 05:01 AM
19

I’ve done similar things too lol. The upside is that we’ve learned from our experiences. I’ve always wondered why I had to go through the shit I did. I realized I would not be the same person if I hadn’t gone through those tough times. Just think of it as getting closer to your goals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 04:52 AM
9

Don’t do that shit. I gave a fat ugly guy a chance because I thought he was nice. The sex was bad and he only used me to get back at his ex who dumped him. I should have taken the hint.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 04:00 PM
2

But wow I thought I ran the school of clowns but she’s the damn president of clown nation 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 03:55 PM
41

Give him a few months and he’ll be crawling back 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 03:26 PM
1

Holy shit. Can we make sure this individual does not reproduce?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 02:32 AM
11

Lol with my experience I’m lucky if it gets to two minutes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 03:40 AM
13

I agree with everything but that last paragraph. It's not my job nor my business to love a broken person. They'll just break you in return. How can you expect a guy who is insecure and has low self esteem to know how to love? They need to know that they cant depend on others to make them feel desirable. But that's a bunch of hard work that they'd rather not do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:42 PM
115

In regards to the whole driving thing, I knew a girl whose friend was killed by a man with serious road rage. I think she cut him off or something and this man pulled out a gun and shot at her. She died from her car crashing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 03:49 PM
13

I just love how he puts her down saying if she can’t trust him she don’t deserve nobody. Like she clearly says she has a man. Same dudes in the same breath wanna complain that women aren’t loyal 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 09:06 PM
17

Lol I’m done. I’ve already dated a lying-az and broke-az. I’m hoping to stop there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 08:35 PM
9

Call every time he texts he’ll get the picture lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 01:58 AM
33

One of my exes wanted me to send him nudes and I refused. He swore he wouldn’t share them with anyone. Yeah I’m gonna send you pics of my nekkid body like you’d delete that shit if we’d break up which we did. Why send nudes when you can just have sex? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 01:25 AM
10

Gurrrl I used to see a guy that was so broke he had to steal tp 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 12:15 AM
17

I don’t get how men say sex is so important to them and that’s how they feel loved but will fuck random women and not give a shit about them. Like which one is it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 03:22 PM
60

If she’s willing to wait three years with that guy she can clearly start over with someone else. Geez that guys advice is shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:25 AM
20

I believe in being friendly with an ex if things ended on a good note but not actual friends. I have enough friends already what I wanted was a boyfriend. That’s disrespectful to your current or future partners anyhoo. If you don’t have kids with them or finances to work out, there is no reason to talk to your ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 12:02 PM
18

Everyone involved in that post is a hot damn mess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:39 PM
9

Damn that first guy is running the circus 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 02:11 AM
21

Gurl stop exposing my ass 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 11:08 PM
9

Obviously OP has a lot of work to do on herself. Her low value husband played a role in her utter disdain for her relationship. This is an example of why we shouldn’t waste our time on ain’t shit men. Please take this new start as an opportunity to heal yourself. You seem to have an unhealthy amount of rage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 03:46 PM
12

In the past I would write a text like that and save it to my desktop. That way you don’t feel embarrassed later. It also really helps to see your progress throughout the break. I’ve written journal entries when the break up was still fresh then read it maybe 3-6 months later to see how far I’ve come. Honestly it sounds like he was testing things with the other person. He didn’t want to officially end things with you incase it didn’t work with the other person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 03:00 PM
1

Reading this just damned me to hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 12:24 AM
6

They lie to spare their feelings because they think of themselves as inherently good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 01:44 AM
4

I realize that when they pull back you gotta do the same. Most guys can’t process their emotions in a healthy way. So instead of being courteous and communicating they’ve lost interest, they take the coward’s way out. Some don’t end it on purpose so they can come back later. When you start asking for reasons why they’ve distancing themselves it’s usually the “I’m busy” line. They’re obvious not that busy. At that point you need to put on your big girl pants and walk away. If he really wanted to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 01:42 AM
5

Yo stop telling on me 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 10:32 PM
3

I love Chinese dramas. They might be cheesy but they have their own aesthetics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 11:27 PM
1

Don’t think he’ll get away with that stuff. Things like that come full circle but karma never happens when you want it too. Take time to grieve and move on. Stop checking his social media. It’s gonna be embellished to make his life seem perfect. What he does with his life is none of your business now. Your job is to build yourself back up from all the fuckery he did. And stop focusing on the things you’ve lost. I believe that we have to lose somethings in order to gain something much better. It’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 11:17 PM
3

Oh gawd I’m going to hell for laughing at this 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 04:29 PM
3

I contacted my one exes just to block him because of this. I contacted him via an app to ask what his number was because I deleted it but didn’t block him. He gave me his number and then I blocked him on the app and on my phone 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 03:24 AM
18

Drop his ass and don’t feel bad about it. And what do they mean give him a chance? You already give him a chance to express his feelings and interest for you. I’m so tired of women being told to give men a chance and lower our standards. Fuck that. What that guy is doing is breaking things off with you without trying to feeling guilty. He wants you to break it off. He’s hiding behind that shitty excuse that he doesn’t have time and “understands” your feelings. Most guys lack emotional intelligen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 02:39 AM
3

I understand how you feel. It sucks when someone hurts you intentionally and then they move on. Yet you’re stuck picking up the pieces. I’d say have your moment of anger and vent it in a healthy way. Eventually you’ll reach a point in time when you realize that holding on to that anger only hurts you. That guy can careless about what he did. Letting go doesn’t mean you accept that horrible thing he did to you. It just lets you move on to a healthier state of mind. Block his ass too. And if he co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 09:36 AM
13

Gurl you tell me once you’ve found out lol I’ve had guys who were interested in me brag about sexual encounters with other women to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 08:19 PM
37

👍 LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:19 AM
21

I wonder if they’re having sex? Technically that could be consider a thing married couples do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:20 AM
31

Idk if this counts but a few years ago I was talking to a guy and he started to fade on me. I then blocked and deleted his number. Maybe a month later we ended up on the same bus from our college. He kept turning around and looking at me but I ignored his ass. You only get one shot to get it right 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 05:25 PM
6

I nearly choked to death on that 4th paragraph lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 06:49 AM
34

I cringe when I think about the time I dated a fat and ugly guy. I thought he was a kind person so I gave him a chance. He then turns around and dumps me because he’s not over his shitty ex. Fuck giving those guys a chance. If I’m gonna get dumped, the guy better be hot and good at sex lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 06:46 AM
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I’ve realized that most guys think it’s completely acceptable to either slow fade or ghost girls. They’re too afraid of confrontation and don’t want to be labeled the bad guy. But if you do the same thing to them they’d get mad. It’s stupid af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 06:36 AM
4

This can’t be real...I hope this isn’t real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 03:46 PM
12

My ex pretty much did this when he tried to get me to send him nudes. Never send nudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 05:19 PM
19

If you have to ask “should I give him a chance?”, you probably shouldn’t. It means you’re aware of his shortcomings. However, you’re willing to overlook them because you think you can’t get what you want. Being left leaning is apart of your core values. How do you think major milestones in the relationship will be affected by this dynamic? Are you willing to compromise for those values? It may seem fine now but you will butt heads over the matter sooner or later. Let him go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 07:25 PM
8

Holy shit I couldn’t make it through the entire post. You were right to dump him. The very reason you dumped him the first time will be the very reason he will dump you later. Listen to your gut and don’t second guess yourself. Just because things are fine now doesn’t mean they will be later. And what 30 year old grown ass man dates a 22 year old? That’s suspect to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 05:38 PM
10

Very interesting read. Most women are not made for hooking up. There is basically no benefit to a woman when hooking up. Some of the girls in the article complained about limp dick, porn obsessed guys and not reaching orgasm. For men, they get sex and a major ego boost. Did you notice how some of the guys in the article were dehumanizing women? They referred to women on tinder to “tinderellas” and how they keep a rated list of the women they’ve slept with. It’s disgusting and they’re proud of it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 05:13 PM
10

Oh good one LOL 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 01:26 AM
3

Lol I wouldn’t date anyone who had Pennywise from Stephen Kings IT as a profile picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 01:24 AM
2

Same sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 01:50 AM
21

Prime example of why you shouldn’t seek to change a man. If you don’t like him as he is now then leave him. Few people ever change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 01:36 AM
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Gotcha. I forget that some girls aren’t as aggressive as I am. If there were other people there, all you have to do is make a scene and they will leave you alone. Do whatever makes you feel safe tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 11:28 PM
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I wouldn’t had even said anything on the way out lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 09:12 PM
3

Been there done that. I always thought I was missing out when I first started college because everyone had boyfriends and was having sex. A few relationships later made me realize that if the guy ain’t a HVM it ain’t worth your time. Plus from my experience sex isn’t all that mind blowing. There’s at least a 99.9% rate of cumming when you masturbate vs having sex with a guy. I think I’ve only came once with a guy and even that was lack luster. I don’t do extra things like blowjobs, handjobs etc …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 08:14 PM
12

Men will blab on themselves if you let them. I don’t have have sex with them in the very beginning. For some reason they see this as an opportunity to brag about their sexual history. I had one guy brag about fucking a random girl at a party. Another bragged about getting a handy from a chick from bumble. Like that doesn’t impress me and neither did their skills in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 07:03 PM
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It could work both ways. I try to match with people with similar sexual history. If I’ve slept with many people then I’m ok if my partners have done the same. If I’ve slept with a few people or was a virgin, I’d expect the same. You gotta believe that if you want a certain trait, you can get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 06:55 PM
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Ew. We here on the FDS seek too improve ourselves by taking control of our own lives. Those guys are just mad no woman with half a brain would date them let alone have sex with them 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 09:32 PM
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