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| 3 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance.Wait, you’re saying we can’t use sitcoms as first-hand sociological evidence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 03:37 PM |
| 0 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance.Agree; they have no idea what they’re talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Younger women are just more attractive.What about gold digging, but it’s me, I’m a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 05:21 AM |
| 6 | Thoughts on new Louis Theroux Netflix documentary?Yeah, calling this an equivalence is bonkers. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/03/26 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Do women really sleep with the “hot guys” first and marry the average ones later?Where can I read more on this? Asking as someone who’s had some success with women, used to cheat, but now absolutely could not fathom cheating on my fiancée. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 02:46 PM |
| 5 | Why Marriages (Probably) Function Better in Rural and Impoverished AreasYes, OP really contradicts them self. If marriage is so valuable in rural areas, one wouldn't see higher rates of divorce. At the same time, in higher income/higher education cities, marriage being more of a "want" than a "need" (vs rural areas) leads people to selectively choose partners on more of a "who would be great to be with long term" vs a "I need a partner for financial stability." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 05:10 PM |
| 7 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsThis is wonderfully insightful and I wish it was higher up. A purple pill woman mentioned earlier in the thread that she doesn’t know any incels in real life, and were it not for the internet, she wouldn’t know about them at all. Same for me, a 30-something man. But incels now get to be part of a group, and they assimilate into that group identity… which gives them a sense of belonging (albeit one built on grievance that will only perpetuate the grievance flywheel). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 02:03 PM |
| – | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsYeah, I was pleasantly surprised when I brought it up on the first dates (just in case they hadn’t read my bio). None were turned off by it (which makes sense… if they’d read my bio and were turned off, they wouldn’t be on a date w/me), but were surprisingly supportive. They’d either open up more about their own (self-perceived?) “flaws,” relate about someone they knew who was in recovery, etc. And these women were all successful in their own right, intelligent, and objectively attractive. One w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 01:09 AM |
| – | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsThat’s an interesting theory. I guess it’s plausible that “if he’s being so upfront about all these (honestly embarrassing) flaws, I don’t have to worry about discovering anything else bad” is a good working hypothesis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 12:52 AM |
| – | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws6’1”. But I had a boss in my 20s who was like 5’7” and way more popular with the ladies whenever we went out. He just had that charm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 12:50 AM |
| – | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsAssumes women don’t read the bios, which who knows that that percentage is. But whenever I brought up my “flaws” on the first date, no one was surprised/taken aback, so at least they read my bio, saw the flaws, and decided I still had some merit (be it looks, the work is done on myself, messaging charm, etc). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 12:19 AM |
| – | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsRight, and I pointed out how “living at home with mom,” “divorcé, and “recovering alcoholic” wouldn’t pass any initial “flawless” check. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 12:10 AM |
| 1 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsYep. As someone bicoastal for work, it was night and day the level of attention lavished on me in NYC vs lake thereof in LA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 12:05 AM |
| – | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsI was upfront in my Bumble bio that I was a recovering alcoholic, divorcé, living at home with my mother (mind you, I was late-30s at the time). Explain how I got to be choosy myself in terms of who I went on dates with, with the 3 I ultimately chose being winners in every category? (Granted, one was a single-mom so she may have been looking for a provider, but that doesn’t explain the other 2, including a weather woman [err, meteorologist] one county over nor the wealthy ranch owner). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 12:00 AM |
| 8 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsYeah, no. I got to be choosy on Bumble, and revealed on all my first dates (in case they’d missed it from my profile where I was pretty clear about it) that I was: 1) living at home due to financial recovery from a divorce, 2) that caused by my alcoholism (to which I’d gone to rehab for, and been sober for more than a year). I got 2nd dates with everyone I wanted (and 3rd and many more with the one I’m now with), including a woman who lived one county away and we knew something long-term would b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 11:32 PM |
| 2 | CMV: women in relationships "setting up" their single male friends with their single female friends is complete fiction, almost never happens in reality.Also, even if it were to happen, women have options galore at their fingertips thanks to OLD and apps. Why would they bother with some random guy who their friend knows? Because women trust their friends to be able to discern who's a quality guy. For women doing online dating, there's sometimes zero way to deduce whether a guy's a creeper IRL or a psychopath or just a bad dude in general who's good at keeping it hidden, except to go on several (ultimately failed) dates with them or, in the case … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Your Last Ever Needed Guide On Conquering Approach AnxietyYeah, Maltz's work on self-image and the crucial insight that how you perceive yourself is the key to behavior change is the foundation for most of the better, modern self-help books out there... whether they acknowledge Maltz or not. | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 04:10 PM |
| 51 | Stop being a ClownThe number of strained metaphors here. Oof. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/16 06:10 AM |
| 8 | My life is over.Either OP is an idiot or this is fake as fuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/16 03:46 AM |
| 7 | Slut Radar: A Comprehensive Check List of Slut TellsIf your LTR does these pauses at ANY POINT when talking to you about things she's done or is going to do, soft next. Did you pause to consider that maybe your insecurity is unattractive and unhealthy? And now you're advocating doubling down on said insecurity. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/16 11:40 PM |
| 6 | Slut Radar: A Comprehensive Check List of Slut TellsWe are here to discuss sexual strategy, and everything pertaining to it, objectively. Presumably a good strategy wouldn't entail seeing the world through such warped lenses. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/16 11:37 PM |
| 34 | Slut Radar: A Comprehensive Check List of Slut TellsIn my experience, it's really rare for a girl or woman to have any significant opinion on anything outside of looking pretty, partying, or who their favorite country-pop musician is. You need more experiences then. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/16 05:12 PM |
| 0 | You should know: You're being watched, and branded, for taking part in this subreddit.Yes, certainly a script picking up your Reddit username is akin to being identified as a Jew in 1930's Germany. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/15 07:46 AM |
| 5 | Date with hot girl was leading to sex at her place. I said "nah- I'm good. Cya" and left.Congrats. Hope it was worth the Internet points. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/15 06:41 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Girls are just as shallow - Get in shapeTime for better fitting clothes. | /r/seduction | 28/08/14 07:16 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with "You know we aren't having sex right?"I prefer the "no, of course not!" route followed by eye contact and the slightest hint of a wry grin. Alternatively, you can follow the "of course not" line up with "you haven't even gotten to know me!" | /r/seduction | 05/05/14 07:24 PM |
| 1 | What I've learned from fucking girls I met on TinderHa, I can't argue with your logic. | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 10:40 PM |
| 2 | What I've learned from fucking girls I met on TinderThis is interesting. Mind sharing why she deleted ones you where you thought you looked good and what her reasoning was behind adding the new photos? I'm sure we all suffer from looking at photos from a self/male POV, which is obviously different from how our intended audience sees them. | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 05:59 PM |
| 4 | What I've learned from fucking girls I met on TinderExactly. If you copy someone else's lines but don't have a congruent persona, you'll come across as a fraud... which is way worse. | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 05:57 PM |
| 2 | What I've learned from fucking girls I met on TinderHe already gave you the blueprint. Would you like him to be on call with you mid-date so he could feed you lines, Hitch-style too? | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 05:55 PM |
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