CocoLurks Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
41	If a woman is allowed to define a man loving her as him buying her flowers, taking her out to restaurants, spending quality time with her, then a man is allowed to define a woman loving him as cooking, cleaning, and fucking. I would add that fucking being an “act of service” is a very unhealthy view of sexual intimacy. It should never be done as an obligation or service within a relationship. Sex is for the enjoyment of both parties involved. Treating it as a service for one person leads to deadbed. Fucking should go under “physical touch” bc it encompasses both sexual and non-sexual touching. Edit: spelling	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/21 12:47 AM
7	If a woman is allowed to define a man loving her as him buying her flowers, taking her out to restaurants, spending quality time with her, then a man is allowed to define a woman loving him as cooking, cleaning, and fucking. Yes, I don’t not agree with that assessment. It’s all about communication are being honest about ones needs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/21 12:15 AM
23	If a woman is allowed to define a man loving her as him buying her flowers, taking her out to restaurants, spending quality time with her, then a man is allowed to define a woman loving him as cooking, cleaning, and fucking. Here’s the thing everyone gets to decided for themselves what each of those five love languages means to them and their relationship. I value quality time. But what I consider quality time isn’t going to be the same as what you would. For me it can be sex once the kids are finally asleep or binge watching Firefly. Sometimes my husband and I even consider quality time just folding our laundry together while the kids are occupied.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 11:38 PM
7	The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth. It’s really not that hard to NOT be a rapist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 03:46 PM
1	CMV: Being the object of visceral lust is the only way to have a truly satisfying sexual relationship I can only speak from my personal experience; I need to fully trust a person to feel long lasting passion for them. Trust is built by interacting and getting to know someone. My Husband and I are even more passionate now after a decade together than we were 5 years ago. It just gets better the more you grow and learn from each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/21 07:14 PM
1	What do women on this sub think of the "where are all the good men gone" types of women? Also the celebrity bit i don’t really know anything about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/21 11:15 PM
2	What do women on this sub think of the "where are all the good men gone" types of women? What you are saying is based on assumptions not what actually happens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/21 11:14 PM
3	What do women on this sub think of the "where are all the good men gone" types of women? My first source HeinOnline is a subscription-based resource containing nearly 3,000 academic and legal journals. But yeah sure FeMInIsM 🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/21 10:41 PM
3	What do women on this sub think of the "where are all the good men gone" types of women? I already listed my sources and YOU are the one that said men give up bc they THINK they won’t get custody. Which is in agreement with what I stated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/21 10:36 PM
5	What do women on this sub think of the "where are all the good men gone" types of women? Alleged or proven doesn’t even work against the father. They are more likely to win custody in those cases. The actual statistics show men are granted custody at a higher rate when contested. So those men who don’t even try bc they THINK they won’t, doesn’t make sense. It’s their own fault for giving up and believing idiots who talk out their ass. I’m still to this day upset my father never even tried to get custody of my younger brother. I spoke with two different lawyers who were very confiden…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/21 10:27 PM
3	What do women on this sub think of the "where are all the good men gone" types of women? Don’t get your panties in a twist, I didn’t do the research so it’s not personal. My sources however prove you are wrong. Besides anecdotal experience is not evidence. If one persons anecdotal experience was fact then I could just go off of my own experience which is fathers who don’t fight for custody.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/21 10:11 PM
5	What do women on this sub think of the "where are all the good men gone" types of women? That’s not even true. Men EASILY win custody battles but the key is only if they actually want custody. The majority do not want the responsibility. What’s even worse is when there is alleged or proven spousal abuse the man is 72% more likely to win custody The woman that have full custody is mostly due to the fact the father didn’t want it. https://scholar.google.com/scholar?q=Child+custody+gender+bias+statistics&hl=en&as_sdt=0&as_vis=1&oi=scholart#d=gs_qabs&u=%23p%3DY-FXAzgCkd0J https://www.wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/21 10:00 PM
2	Cheating Mega Thread It’s hilarious that you think woman can’t just pop of a fuckton of orgasms in a day! My last secession with my husband was at least 4. The difference is the mans abilities and level of trust/safety within the relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/21 07:09 AM
5	Shouldn't there be a shortage of men in the dating market? Earnest question 🙋🏽‍♀️ new to the sub. Do purple pill people just not “believe” in other sexual preferences? As in maybe more woman (and men) in 2021 are comfortable being gay openly now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/21 11:12 PM