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| 46 | Half the comments have sense, the other half are… highkey horrifyingCutting off someone’s oxygen can cause serious damage as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 10:59 PM |
| 43 | I have no words...What was the pregnant nanny one about? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 01:23 AM |
| 4 | A man wrote a book for women on how to text men to get them to not be absolute trash. I just… what?I used to buy books like this when I was younger. So cringe worthy. FDS needs to publish a book to reach more women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 01:15 AM |
| 102 | If you dated men who expressed they were not attracted to women from their own culture, what red flags did they have? What other problematic behaviors and personalities did these men exhibit?A nutcase NVM ex of mine said he was not attracted to women of his own culture. I believed him and sometimes doubted he was attracted to women at all but that’s another story. Fast forward 10 years and he’s married to a woman from his culture. Not sure if it was arranged or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 01:55 AM |
| 7 | TW: nasty as hell. I don’t even have words..Came here to say this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 09:22 PM |
| 49 | I used to think there was something wrong with me...You are articulating everything I realized when I found FDS. A shitty therapist I went to years ago tried to tell me it was my fault and it was because of something I gave off that attracted shitty men that when a man walks into a room who could tell who to prey on. I knew even then that that made no sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 09:16 PM |
| 12 | Red pilled Twitter caught encouraging men not to wear condoms and thinks STIs are part of a government conspiracy to keep birth rates down🤡How’s this nut gonna feel when he catches herpes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 07:47 PM |
| 18 | Recounting Tonight's L's from a Hotel BathtubEspecially since he didn’t live in the city so got an almost free trip. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 11:45 PM |
| 8 | He’s crazy if he thinks Gen z/millennial woman are gonna put up with this😂💀Found his profile. He could have saved some time and just said date other men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 11:27 PM |
| 23 | The tinder swindler documentary 2022 on netflix: sex pozzy culture needs to end because it only hurts womenIt was very smart of him to pick very attractive women. If it was a normal or unattractive woman like a lot of swindlers pick then her friends or her intuition would tell her something wasn’t right but since he picked very attractive women it didn’t ring as many alarm bells. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 06:17 PM |
| 51 | Scrote obviously has a porn addiction and is neglecting his kids and gaslighting his wife. I can't even with these men anymore.I don’t understand why he can’t just masturbate to porn while everyone else is at school or work? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 05:50 PM |
| 8 | What do *you* think a pick-me is, and why do you think you used to be one?I gave opportunities to too many guys who didn’t deserve it because yOu nEvEr kNoW hE cOuLD bE tHe oNe. Even before FDS I got over it because I just didn’t have the emotional energy to go thru all that anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 03:16 AM |
| 21 | The Movie Star and Me: Very Well-Written Account of a Big-Time LVM Actor Messing with a 23-Yr-Old Intern's MindFrom reading blind item gossip over the years I was just shocked he is interested in women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 07:10 PM |
| 75 | Cautionary tale - a man will literally take your kidney and cheat on you with no remorseI came here to say this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 07:07 PM |
| 22 | The Movie Star and Me: Very Well-Written Account of a Big-Time LVM Actor Messing with a 23-Yr-Old Intern's MindGyllenhaal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 06:46 PM |
| 3 | How quickly widowers move on from their wives shows that they don't see women as people, just bangmaidsBack in my pickme days I briefly dated a widower. His wife had been more than 10 years older than him and started dating him when he was under 18 (he was an immigrant without family in this country). She was basically his mom and he asked me did I like to iron because he hated to iron. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 02:20 AM |
| 29 | No one seems to be asking where he got this STD?? And she gets frequent UTIs because of him 🤢🤮Im gonna be TMI here but I have it and haven’t had an outbreak in 10 years. The first one was uncomfortable but way way less uncomfortable than a yeast infection lol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 05:44 PM |
| 10 | Men can't admit they can't pleasure women and that's why we replace themExactly but the scrotes who are mad don’t realize that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 06:54 PM |
| 91 | Men can't admit they can't pleasure women and that's why we replace themSo many LVM are also triggered by Pete Davidson. I think it’s either that he’s tall, supposedly has a big D or is dating attractive women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 11:36 PM |
| 23 | A guy once wrote me a huge paragraph on how when a man offers to pay a bill, you need to argue and insist to pay for yourself. Pls, share your funniest and dumbest interactions about first date courtesy.So he prefers cold bread?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:59 PM |
| 9 | More of a Reason Why Blocking & Deleting is So Important“Possibly apologize and more” wth he still thinks he’s going to get laid? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 02:14 AM |
| 4 | Sisters, walk away if he refuses to get a STI test and show you the results before having sexThey don’t want to know because they want to be willfully ignorant and keep fucking around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 03:13 AM |
| 3 | Ask men who want casual sex why they don’t just hire sex workers and watch them explode. Why? They chase women who want commitment because it’s predatory!I’ve tried that approach for a long time and they still argue. I even send them the website for a happy ending massage parlor that an acquaintance owns and they are still too cheap | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Why are there so many stories of shitty men not respecting women’s’ bodily autonomy?This makes me glad I’m over 40. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Always ask a guy when he got tested for STD's - AND always get testedYep that was how it happened | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 03:17 AM |
| 3 | True crime and age gapsI thought of Alexis Sharkey immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Some nonsense, and people calling it out lmaoBathroom vaginitis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 02:48 AM |
| 3 | Some nonsense, and people calling it out lmaoOne of my exes didn’t even have a woman to blame. He was a scientist with a PhD but he had black mold growing on his shower curtain. No hand soap in the bathroom at all. His half bath downstairs in his townhouse was right across from the front door and the floor of the half bath was covered in fall leaves up through May when he moved out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 02:44 AM |
| 60 | "dating for a free meal"And she was the friend of a friend makes it even worse! How could he ever face this mutual friend again after acting like that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:56 AM |
| 18 | Imagine feeling bad for cheating scrotes who abuse and exploit your body AND use you for free therapy sessions.Came here to say this. What escort has a client drive her home??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 01:51 AM |
| 52 | THIS Is Why FDS Advises Women To REFRAIN From Telling Potential Male Partners About Past Poor Treatment From Men...From The Horses Mouth On A Video Advising Men How To Game On Tinder. HORRIFIC.Yes 100%. I made the mistake of telling a guy about a past trauma at the hands of another guy and he effing re-enacted it. Never tell them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 05:14 AM |
| 50 | Literally every guy I meet that I’m nice too thinks this. It’s why they hate women who are snarky. Unkind women are the worst thing on the planet according to them.Yesss. Years ago this girl I worked with told a man she liked the cologne he was wearing. She was way out of his league and just being nice and he went home and told his wife this woman at work wanted him and he wanted to leave his wife and try things out with the coworker. The man’s wife came to the office the next day and it was a shit show. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 12:30 AM |
| 5 | Online Dating Field Report: TLDR; no, don’t botherYeah they really messed up ok cupid when they tried to make it like tinder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 03:27 AM |
| 22 | Has anybody been following the Armie Hammer situation? When they say consensual BDSM isn’t abusive...Me too I thought he was so hot in The Social Network but he’s become less attractive over the years and now absolutely gruesome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 03:57 AM |
| 22 | Just a heads up, this is MENA men and their way of thinking. Theyll string a girl along for 4 years, sleep with her countless times, and then once hes had enough using her as a cum rag he'll bring home a 'virgin' wife to marry, and if he finds out said wife isn't a virgin all hell breaks looseThey get way more sexually aggressive and are much less respectful than muslim arab guys in my experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 04:25 AM |
| 15 | Just a heads up, this is MENA men and their way of thinking. Theyll string a girl along for 4 years, sleep with her countless times, and then once hes had enough using her as a cum rag he'll bring home a 'virgin' wife to marry, and if he finds out said wife isn't a virgin all hell breaks looseMiddle eastern Christian guys are way worse than MENA muslim guys in my experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 04:02 AM |
| 2 | If a man says they are ______. They aren't.These types always end up ghosting before they have to put their money where their mouth is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:41 AM |
| 6 | If a man says they are ______. They aren't.I always swipe past guys who mention this in their profiles. It’s code for “I’m going to treat you like crap and I don’t want you to complain about it “ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:40 AM |
| 27 | Misogynistic scrote wants neurosurgeon wife to do all the housework. Tired wife hires a maid with her own money. Scrote calls it financial abuses. You cannot make this shit up 🤦🏻♀️Came to say this. Who wants their neurosurgeon tired because her scrote husband expected her to clean the house the night before when she got home from an already exhausting day? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 06:25 PM |
| 89 | Pornsick Limp Dick LVM shift blame to his VIRGIN wifeWhen you are young and sexually inexperienced men will think up the most ridiculous ways to blame you for their ED. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 11:14 PM |
| 25 | Ashamed to say I’ve been there. Got the dummy prize of “wow he’s spending $60 on me so this can be more pleasurable” and the “I’m a dumb pick me tshirt” lol grateful for this message and FDS, merry Christmas.Yeah exactly the buffoon even couldn’t pull out? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 04:27 PM |
| 55 | Imagine conceiving, birthing, and raising a male only for them to turn into such a pathetic, depraved, disturbed individual as an adult. I’m truly sickened.He looks like a serial killer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 03:55 AM |
| 22 | A man's opinion always matters. A woman's opinion only matters when she's right. (From What I Don’t Tell My Students About “The Husband Stitch,” a book by Carmen Maria Machado)This happened to my sister and her husband. She smelled gas but her husband couldn’t and he knew better than to argue. Gas company comes out and yep there’s a leak and in conversation the gas guy says yeah women can smell gas when men can’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 03:57 AM |
| 41 | Being gaslit and manipulated so much that your SO talking about murdering you doesn’t look like a 🚩It was bad enough but as soon as I saw the word pregnant I gasped. No way is that in any way a joke. Who jokes about killing their pregnant wife? Scott Peterson?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 05:16 AM |
| 8 | 🤡 They just never stop, do they? Between the audacity to ruin a girl’s future and the pick me behaviour, idk what’s worse tbh.Omg yes this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 05:10 AM |
| 3 | "johns" = Lowest life formCan you DM me please? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 02:45 AM |
| 32 | LVM pushes woman to the brink of insanity on thanksgiving so she throws the WHOLE turkey out of the balcony and has a breakdown.Came here to say this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 09:14 PM |
| 13 | How To Get A Man To Legally Claim A Child You Know is Not Biologically HisAlso a freaking vasectomy. Problem solved! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 04:43 AM |
| 11 | I paused dating this year because of how many creeps I encountered, this morning I found out staying home and not engaging with men doesn't keep me safe either.I agree about apartment complexes. Not to scare you but this happened locally a few years ago and really stuck in my mind https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/1622757/neighbour-strangled-half-naked-bride-to-be-to-death-and-taped-her-mouth-shut-before-setting-her-apartment-on-fire/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 01:36 AM |
| 9 | A (male) professor admitted he never had any intention of learning his wife's first tongueHow lazy. At the very least you should learn your SO’s language so you know if they are talking junk about you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 01:01 AM |
| 4 | Found this gem in my suggested posts. It’s actually crazy how delusional MGTOW are. Do they really think they need this much protection?The lawyer is going to laugh at him before he takes his money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 01:32 AM |
| 22 | You can’t buy a LVM’s love. This is disgusting.Totally premeditated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 01:31 AM |
| 11 | Scrote trying to get marriage benefits without marriage!When he doesn’t care enough to marry you but wouldn’t mind killing you for your life insurance and 401k.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 02:21 AM |
| 9 | That's how LVM treat women for hookupsMy pickmeisha friend was messing around with a total loser LVM who had her drive him to a parking deck when they had both been drinking and he wanted them to do it by a dumpster. Unfortunately she kept going back to him for sex until he found a woman with her own place he could move in with and mooch off of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 05:00 AM |
| 12 | Scrote forces wife to fire wonderful doula because he can’t be around an attractive woman due to his pornsick brainOmg was there even any indication the doula would want to be involved?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:35 AM |
| 14 | Always start as you mean to continue when it comes to dating! Don’t let men lowball you.I used to do coffee dates because they seemed safe but they rarely ended up suggesting to upgrade for the second date. They just wanted second date to be netflix and chill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:19 AM |
| 44 | Lol i’ve seen this all over Reddit & people fail to realize women would rather masturbate with sex toys that can provide them dependable pleasure than fuck any substandard dude 😂😂 This wasn’t the diss you thought it was sweetie, you agree that women are selective & dick is disposable 💅🏽He must not have read the coconut story on Reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:50 AM |
| 4 | Woman wonders why FWB doesn’t care about foreplay. She’s so close to getting it, as well. 🤦🏾♀️Sounds dry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:01 AM |
| 15 | This is how pornstars are treated. It’s an abusive industry that also profits off of CP. HVM do not watch porn.Omg thank you I have always been turned off by his look but never realized why until now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 06:27 PM |
| 16 | Women has height preference on dating app. Man decides to shame her, tell her she is ugly, ginger, old and 'dosen't deserve a man'.“Pushing 30”? Omg. The audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Men that you're talking to in quarantine are lonely sacks of shits and/or they are the dregs of society.This is absolutely why I am not swiping during this time. I would rather be alone watching Netflix than be inundated with LVM whining about wanting to meet up or wanting to have web cam sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 01:40 AM |
| 16 | Beware of aggressive drivers/truck guys.How funny this was brought up today. I received a wrong number at work from a truck driver. Since he didn’t sound like a total douche at first I looked up the correct number of the company he was trying to reach and gave it to him. He then told me how he needs to find a good woman like me (a baby needing a mommy). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 06:32 PM |
| 22 | Fuck. We’ve been found out. Ladies, we need to restrategize ASAP! They’re onto us.What got me was him complaining women won’t give their looks match a chance. Since when do men want a woman their own age and league??? Always the forty something and up neckbeards wanting the 20 year old hotties and upset that they won’t give them a chance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 01:59 AM |
| 9 | My therapist is becoming more masculine and it is triggering and making me feel less safeThey sound like they are having too many issues in their own life to be trying to help other people in that capacity. I would switch therapists ASAP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 02:36 AM |
| 3 | I keep meeting LVM with no successful careers to the point where I’m considering trying a sugar daddy dating website.Not surprised. Ive browsed these sites before and its obvious from their profiles that 99% of them are broke and highly unattractive losers who can only get women to talk to them if they make the women think there’s going to be money involved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 02:32 AM |
| 1 | The audacityWorst case scenario https://www.ibtimes.co.uk/husband-step-son-arrested-after-body-brit-author-found-shallow-grave-1673174 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 03:08 AM |
| 26 | r/Raleigh (North Carolina) and r/Croatia are in FDS’ top 10 subs with the most user overlap. Are the men there particularly bad lol?! Just curious!I live in North Carolina and it is indeed bad here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 11:09 PM |
| 48 | Triangulation is a big, red flagThank you for posting this. I’ve seen this not just in romantic relationships but at work and with female friends. My ex best friend from my school days was doing this constantly. I always wondered why every new friend she made always hated me and I eventually figured out what she was doing but I didn’t have a name to put to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 07:46 PM |
| 6 | How often did older men stare at you when you're younger?Very often and it stopped once I reached something around college age. If you ever read the subreddit Let’s Not Meet or Creepy Encounters you will notice how many creepy things happen to young girls/teens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 11:51 PM |
| 8 | HOLY SHIT! FDS made the Wall Street Journal!I will say there are some LVM men in the comments on the WSJ page. Just goes to show there are LVM in all walks of life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 12:28 AM |
| 12 | This website has helped me determine if a man was married. Here is how it works.Yeah I’ve had several sites mention people with Asian names as close family of mine and they are no one anyone in my family has ever heard of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 10:27 PM |
| 16 | ePiC pWn MY BOI! The best part is a highly upvoted comment, “minimalism is awesome” lmao. Nah dude you’re just lazy and broke. The average redditor is a LVM so let’s stop concerning ourselves with all their MRA trash subreddits and what they have to say about women. They are not on our radar.A year ago I went to a guy’s place and it was just like this. Of course he was never out of weed though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Separated, living at home with soon-to-be ex-wife -- he shouldn't be dating, right?Yessss that has been the case every time in my experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 12:08 PM |
| 36 | I feel so defeatedChocolate and wine is a cheap maneuver of trying to get to your house and have sex without putting in any effort. Why would that impress your cousin’s husband? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 12:30 AM |
| 2 | I pay $3/mo for an app that gives me their real name with their phone number. 100% worth it. Never met a murderer but lots of catfish.DM me please | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 09:36 PM |
| 9 | Is it just me, or are the WORST, sketchiest LVM on Plenty of Fish? I had a shockingly bad experience...I remember trying to block the LVM I wasn’t interested in on Pof but the more I blocked it seemed like the more new ones were incoming. Couldn’t keep up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 11:03 PM |
| 5 | AN INCEL DESCRIBES WHAT HE THINKS WOMEN FANTASIZE ABOUT AND I HONESTLY CANNOT STOP LAUGHING 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣He’s been watching too much cuckhold porn and thinks it’s reality rather than something manufactured for people with his fetish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 07:57 PM |
| 8 | Texas teen murdered unwed & pregnant older sister because she was an “embarrassment to the family”. EVEN MALE RELATIVES THINK THEY ARE ENTITLED TO POLICE AND JUDGE YOUR SEXUAL HISTORY SO NEVER TELL.He probably would have gotten away with it too if he hadn’t retrieved her body. Notice the police thought it was a “voluntary absence” as if pregnant women aren’t murdered all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 08:05 PM |
| 11 | This is a red flag right?Yep I won’t meet anybody I don’t have a phone number for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 03:37 AM |
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