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I second this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 01:32 AM
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excuse my ignorance but what is the fuckzone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 11:44 PM
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I’m you! You’re me! And me neither sista. But it’s okay we are safe and far away from them now. And we don’t owe them SHIIIIIT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 04:43 AM
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YES!! and then he made me feel so guilty for everything he was "helping" me with and how much of a burden it was on him to manage... when I DIDN'T EVEN FUCKING ASK FOR HELP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:26 AM
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literally could have written this about my ex. he had me convinced I couldn't navigate my mid-twenties/adulthood in general without him. fcking delusional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:40 AM
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whenever my ex would come home to our shared apartment, I would have to run to the bathroom (sped up digestion and extreme nausea)... I didn't put it together until after. Also the week leading up to the breakup I couldn't sleep or eat, and my skin crawled when he touched me or approached me to touch me. I didn't fully understand that my body was telling me to break up and I had no intention/plan to breakup, until by the end of the week of everything shutting down it just happened! my body gave …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 08:52 PM
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HEY SISTER LMFAOOOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 01:27 PM
5

I had the same thing happen to me! This guy I went on 2 dates with "soft ghosted" .. he texted me the day after our date saying he wouldn't be free until after the holidays and that he was still working through stuff and I said thanks for letting me know, deleted the thread (should have blocked and deleted, but didn't have the number saved and moved too quickly lol) FULLY intending to never hear from him again and never reach out. SO TELL ME WHY THREE WEEKS LATER I GET A PARAGRAPH TEXT EXPLAININ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 08:30 PM
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mine was when I started dancing in our kitchen to music I had playing and he said “umm what are you doing? Why are you doing that? That is so weird” and that’s when I realized I truly could never be myself around this person ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 12:57 AM
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this guy had been breadcrumbing me for months. I was sick of it so in my twisted backwards logical pre-FDS brain I figured asking him out would make him leave me alone. he said yes and he "had been thinking about it himself". ya ok. and all my guy friends thought it was sooo badass that I did that. please. anyway, I paid for dinner at the first place. we got more food and drinks at another place and I almost didn't let him pay. wtf am i ok?? we ended up back at his place (I paid for the uber) an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 04:12 PM
15

see above!! And of course yogurt for everyone always!! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 12:20 AM
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I was literally searching FDS earlier today for other posts about why we don’t make moves or ask them out!!! I’ve made it to a reasonable point with a recent prospect where I’m about to pull back and stop investing since he hasn’t made a move toward which direction he wants to progress whats going on - and a lot of my friends are telling me to be upfront and ask him out and tell him how I feel blah blah. And I’ve been resisting the advice and telling them I don’t want to be around someone who is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 12:19 AM
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this couldn’t have come at a more perfect time for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 09:31 PM
6

ovaries before brovaries! uteruses before duderuses! ​ chest & back flies before guys :)))
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 09:54 PM
25

my personal favorite is... "you say stuff"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:57 PM
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IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT YOU DO OR SAY .. YOU COULD BE PERFECT TO A T AND MEN WILL STILL ACT HOW THEY WANT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 02:29 AM
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"you get one chance and even THAT's generous" "come correct or don't come at all" "no offense to that guy but if he stopped talking to me I wouldn't even bat an eyelash" ^these are less deep but quick ones that I've picked up from comments/posts/tik toks on here - I know they aren't super applicable to a breakup but they help me feel like a badass and get my mindset back to the right spot when a guy even slightly disrupts it!! I will comment again if I think of more! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 02:04 AM
47

truly can't upvote this enough! you and your friend rock
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:04 AM
64

My ex did this at a wedding we went to across the country together. All the 20-somethings including us and the bride/groom were staying at an Airbnb for the after-party. He completely abandoned me with this group of strangers who I didn't know to go do???? idk literally anything besides be respectful toward me, but by that point I was so checked out of the relationship I let my lil social butterfly wings soar and had the best night playing games with new people I met there. And 2am rolls around …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 02:54 PM
25

looks like this was molded together with boogers...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:24 PM
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Proud of you!! Only you can give yourself closure, you will never get it from him. Leave him behind and have fun visualizing your bright beautiful future filled with all the best things that you want and deserve because they ARE out there and they WILL happen for you. Be gentle and compassionate with yourself from here on out. Healing will take time so give yourself grace and check in with yourself on the basics.. food, water, brushed teeth, washed face, sleep, meditate, go on walks, anything to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:28 PM
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DO NOT tell him how you feel. He simply does not care. If he did care about how you felt, you would know. And this aint it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:29 PM
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I wish I had tips but I need advice for the same thing. We both ghosted each other though a year ago (he is the reason I found FDS!), and I ran into him while on a date with another guy. I said Hi how are you but wish I said nothing. Thinking if I see him at work, I'll look right through him. We are in different departments which is the silver lining
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:25 PM
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omg what. ghost him and block. bye forever sir
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:53 AM
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ugh this happened to me when I was renewing my drivers license a few months ago!! I was in rain gear, fully masked, waiting in line, all documents with my name were in my bag. this guy behind me must have been peering over my shoulder the whole time while I was on my phone and found my social media. he sent a message request later when I was all done and asked if I passed my test... I thought it was someone from work since the question made sense and was related to work at the time. So I said ex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 02:06 AM
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I’m so grateful for FDS. I’d always used to ask guys out, throw myself at them very obviously, or probably not so subtly try to put myself in their peripherals any moment I could (mostly via social media - thinking of the perfect message or photo to post or send in the most calculated way with the most brilliant caption that would surely make him love me!! ). Yeah so I kept getting used, discarded and hurt and never turned into the relationship I fantasized about. So after about a year on FDS, t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:31 AM
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I wish I had tips but came here to say I literally could have written this. It feels like whenever I have a new prospect, it’s exciting and intriguing for a second and then it’s boring and one big eye roll. And I just assume they probably only want sex anyway or the nice thing they said is bare minimum and cool wow I’m flattered for one second then totally over it Sometimes feels like I’m super skeptical almost to a fault and then I also stop caring. I think it took a few post-FDS dating experie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 03:56 AM
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good for you! BUT def don't feel disappointed since two dates is not nearly enough time to determine if this person is an HVM. regardless, not the guy for you and that's fine!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 01:32 AM
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i'm so excited for you!! you may feel like you've come out of a fog and your energy + everything in general may feel/seem different (in a good way!) also I love your username :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 06:15 PM
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I’ve been off bc for 6 years now and am way more in tune w my body and my cycle. Can’t recommend it enough!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 12:23 PM
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Yesss! Proud of you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:26 AM
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girlll block him and save yourself the pain of knowing what he's up to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 09:33 PM
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I feel like you just described my ex! He always questioned me on any of my original thoughts, ideas, etc interrogating me on where they came from and similarly, taking the opposition no matter what. Also, we spent nearly every day together and it felt like I was suffocating (even though I couldn't fully pinpoint how I felt at the time). I didn't dump him early enough, since he wasn't a "bad guy" as you also described, but as time went on, my body eventually started to signal to me what to do and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:45 AM
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🙋🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:42 AM
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woman* not female :) .... but I get your point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:06 PM
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I feel this in my soul. Are you me?? I often catch myself thinking if I had only listened to all of my friends who had a very clear outside perspective the first time around I wouldn’t have traumatized myself over and over and my mental health wouldn’t have ended up in the shitter. BUT I also wouldn’t have found FDS so silver lining. And I’ve seen more change and growth within myself in the past 10 months from when I joined FDS compared to the past 10 years. Anyway I digress. I feel disgusting a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:21 AM
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scroach lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:54 PM
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omfg YES QUEEN. I was not prepared for that ending but loved it and so happy you're free now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:46 PM
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you know what you need to do. block and delete this fool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:34 AM
4

You’re absolutely right, yes we will and thank you❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:45 PM
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thank you - I needed this today. I did something so small that any rational objective person wouldn't see as a big deal or anything worth writing about but here I am overthinking and analyzing it and asking myself why I did it. I wouldn't say it is a mistake, but rather, it was unnecessary if my goal is working toward self-preservation. It felt like a betrayal of self and I've been beating myself up about it all day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:41 PM
21

her bed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:23 PM
8

Next time save your energy and just ghost and block!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:14 AM
2

if you have to make a list, he ain't the one sending you all the strength to dump this fool. you will immediately feel lighter once you do, I promise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:57 PM
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I heard this too!! about how your pheromones are different when you are on birth control vs off birth control... which at a high level makes sense, given pheromones are what triggers a response/sexual attraction or arousal in others and could likely be impacted by synthetic hormones....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:51 PM
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thank you <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:01 PM
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Right!! Next time I wanna be like “oh? never heard of him”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:42 PM
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hi ladies...there's an LVM I was dating (pre-fds ugh) who dropped me like a hot potater after we hooked up when he suddenly "realized he thought he had some things handled but doesn't and still needs to figure them out" whatever a-hole. anyway, we have a lot of mutual friends and colleagues and he is generally VERRRY well-liked and popular and fun and outgoing, so it is so hard for me to reconcile this and not feel this weird instinct, to like him? because so many other people do? even though he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:24 PM
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Thank you! :) right back at you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 12:03 AM
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kind of fun yet spooky learning who I really am at my core, and the stark differences between that person and who I've been presenting myself as all these years and yes same here!!!! our future is so bright!!! + tying it back to dating where a lot of it surfaces - it explains all the over-the-top and emotional highs/reactions to normal events and to relationships/flings ending. it was never about the "rejection" or the relationship ending that I'm even upset about, it's literally my brain/body b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 06:40 PM
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girl same re: explaining so much of my life I've been trying to figure out I thought I just had a lot of "personality quirks" - but really it was my CPTSD symptoms/constant hypervigilance manifesting as all these habits and mannerisms... that are actually not who I am at all!!!!! I WAS SHOOK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:30 PM
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Just messaged you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:29 PM
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I second this - I was diagnosed with C-PTSD last year from years of childhood abuse. Looking back and realizing it was the root of so many other health-related issues I had over the years has been overwhelming and eye-opening and has made me even more motivated to heal and work to release my unprocessed trauma. Opening up to my best friends (some of 10+ years and had no idea any of this happened to me) about my past and the abuse that I experienced has helped a lot with the emotional release and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:51 PM
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same or days unfortunately :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 03:05 AM
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I went out with a guy who would be like “you’re probably thinking ‘he’s so hot when he takes forever to respond to my texts’” or “you’re probably telling all your friends how I do X Y Z” or “you’re probably listening to certain songs that mean you’re in love with me” It was so bizarre
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 02:04 PM
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same here sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:01 PM
1

Thank you for your comment - this made me feel a lot better :) and it makes more sense when I think about it this way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 03:28 AM
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Earlier this week I had a second guy in 3 months hit me with "I'm still working through some personal things and wanted to be transparent/up front" to essentially cut things off. It's hard not to internalize this or take this personally or comb through everything I said or did as if it was something "wrong". Mainly because it seems like both guys used the same script so I figured it was some vibe I was giving off, even though the first one made it clear it had nothing to do with me. I tell mysel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:16 PM
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