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| 3 | Don't be an unpaid therapist for men who never learned healthy coping mechanismsHe didn't even want that from me - he wanted to charm me so I didn't notice it. Then said he had deep emotional and physical connections to me, but not romantic...which makes it even more ridiculous that people think I should be sticking around to make him a better person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 03:20 PM |
| 38 | Don't be an unpaid therapist for men who never learned healthy coping mechanismsI just ended things with a guy this week who had some serious problems and hadn't gotten over his last breakup. One of his friends had the gall to say, after we had already broken up, that he needs someone like me in his life because I can see through his shit and tell him the truth about himself. Most people are charmed by the facade and can't see past it. There are people who are paid to do this! They're called therapists! Do people ever stop to consider what the woman in this dynamic needs? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 12:30 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Thanks. I did. I think he was more upset about the fact that I told him he was nothing to o me than the fact that he hurt me. I think I made the right decision. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 12:46 AM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Just ended things with a guy I really liked. He seemed really great, thoughtful, generous, supportive, emotionally available, respectful of boundaries...but when I pushed him to define the relationship, he slipped that his interest in me was "emotional but not romantic" but didn't want to break up...even though he was planning to leave town (news to me). He's apparently known for a month that he was leaving, and that he wasn't "getting there" with me even though he wanted to "see how it played o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 02:29 PM |
| 11 | Reminder: LVM say anything to get what they want.I'm sorry, when I read through that long fucking essay just to get to "nudes" I CACKLED. THE AUDACITY!!!!!! I'm weak! Oh my god. I don't even want to kn ow if he's been successful with this shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 02:45 PM |
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