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The most sensitive boys have to flaunt how tough they are the most in order to mask their worry and attempt to prove to other men they are not scared of everything. Us "normies" see right through it. Imagine thinking someone is normal and considering it an insult.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/26 08:50 PM
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You arent okay if you are still expressing your perception of the world through the lens and on the terms of red pill. You broke up. Leave her alone. Leave her friends and family alone. Dont show up in her life physically, because that is being a stalker... Break ups fucking suck but you've said all over this post that it was a toxic situation. I'm glad she moved on and eventually if you get your mind healthy, you will be too.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/26 08:29 PM
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Mental illness.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/26 06:29 PM
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I think all your points seem like realizations someone makes when they are truly exiting the red pill mind set. Because of that, i wish you so much success!
/r/ExRedPill05/12/25 09:04 AM
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This is such a perfect description of the mechanics of how red pill ideology hooks men and boys.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/25 12:44 AM
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I get the impression that you take a shit then turn around and argue with it about the meaning of life. I hope you can figure out how to pull yourself out of red pill thoughts but at this point I don't think you are asking questions here in good faith or making a real effort to improve your thought processes. You appear to enjoy your mind set and arguing with anyone who has the stupid idea to convince you there is any hope, and I am done arguing with you.
/r/ExRedPill20/11/25 09:40 PM
4

Healthier than whatever you have going on bro.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/25 03:03 PM
4

Please explain your perceived similarities between red pill and feminism?
/r/ExRedPill18/11/25 02:59 PM
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You've been patronizing to every comment I made here. I guarantee that is how you speak to women in reality. They don't want to fuck someone or make a move on someone who's going to belittle them and speak down to them like they don't know what the fuck they're talking about at every opportunity. For what it is worth I don't think you have to dumb yourself down at all.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/25 02:48 PM
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This comment.... You're broken and you need therapy.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/25 02:43 PM
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People in successful relationships, actually know more about what works and what doesn't, but go off babe. Write your book.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/25 02:05 PM
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It makes me sad that you hold these beliefs at almost 30 years old. It's hard out there for young men trying to date, I believe you. But people in this thread have given you positive advice and you just argue with it. So I guess I will just apologize now since I guess you'll be alone forever, by your own outlook, and you are the one who is right. Right? Sorry about the lonely future.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/25 01:49 PM
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Oh I'm sorry I wasn't trying to be mean or fighting! Just very straightforward (again because of the sub we are on!) so the point of the interaction can't be missed or misinterpreted!🥰 I do genuinely hope you make a new pal at the minimum and do genuinely think you seem like a nice person, especially based off of the advice you gave OP.
/r/ExRedPill16/11/25 07:11 AM
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This is ALSO r/exredpill . Those of us who are here to help folks climb out of the muck can show the lurkers what a normal interaction should look like. How to make friends, how to think about nice things happening for others and also ourselves. Also I'm a lady like you, not a red pill guy.
/r/ExRedPill16/11/25 06:53 AM
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Beautifully stated and so true.
/r/ExRedPill16/11/25 06:29 AM
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I think something else you are failing to consider is that women are after partners but choosing a partner someone else has their eyes on can really damage relationships with the women who likes the person first. This exists within adult relationships with women just as much as childhood. I don't get the impression that men hold these loyalties in the same way. I spent time with many men I liked or would consider a potential relationship with, but if a close single friend has expressed interest …
/r/ExRedPill16/11/25 06:27 AM
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8 guarantee the girls you want to have intellectual conversations with would like hearing about those interests if you just learned how to speak to people without being patronizing.
/r/ExRedPill16/11/25 06:16 AM
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I hope he's single and you get a date, or even just a new pal to talk about your arborist hobbies with 🥳
/r/ExRedPill16/11/25 06:13 AM
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Buddy if I hadn't approached my partners for intimacy (one night stands included), I would be a 38 year old virgin. Your outlook is toxic and the women who are willing to be forthcoming in that way (and are focused on finding a long term meaningful partnership) won't fuck around with people who have a toxic attitude. For example, you have a real wife woman giving you advice. Instead of taking it in and internalizing what she said to you, you decided that arguing and trying to prove your point wa…
/r/ExRedPill16/11/25 06:10 AM
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Like I did, the women you interact with can tell pretty quickly that your gripe is about your lack of sexual gratification and although you are blaming the patriarchy, you are blaming women for partaking in it. Why do you think that men are competing for women, yet women are not competing for men? We are, we compete for the men who don't hold the ideals that you do. There are unfortunately few, and most others (like you) lie to get sex. Why are you only interested in young girls? What if you acc…
/r/ExRedPill16/11/25 05:56 AM
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It's all very relevant. Are you blackpill ya dork?
/r/ExRedPill07/11/25 08:27 AM
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Yes he was absolutely conventionally attractive. OP is being a contrary butthead to take the piss.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/25 10:46 PM
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If you're ONLY interested in women you perceived as hot, those women will sense that and fucking hate you for it. We know we are and become "less hot" so none of us wants to be valued only for our physical appearance. You have a lot of growing up to do, or a lot of time to spend alone. The choice is yours !
/r/ExRedPill11/06/25 10:43 PM
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Way to ignore all the other solid advice that person gave you. Are you like 16?
/r/ExRedPill11/06/25 10:38 PM
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Man you need to continue to work on becoming less toxic. Your post is so full of red flags I don't think you've done nearly the amount of work to leave the community that you think you've done.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/25 10:36 PM
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Please pick up a middle school level science book and read it. And back away from YouTube Bros lying to you so they can steal your precious time and self esteem from you.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/25 07:39 AM
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No it isn't. It was originally a term coined by a straight woman. Incel wasn't a gendered term only for men. Furthermore, incel was a label one gave oneself. The misogynistic incel community altered the community into the misogynistic movement that we know today, which exists only to grip into and radicalize sad and lonely people. The incel community as it exists now is horrible and disgusting, so I agree it's a harmful label for someone to have on them now regardless of their gender.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/25 03:26 PM
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It's honestly really upsetting because I wish for all of us to experience personal growth. Oh well I guess.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/24 07:28 PM
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Bc he isn't actually ex red pill.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/24 05:46 PM
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Desperation stinks.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 11:41 PM
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Thanks for trying to explain further. I really hope I didn't seem like a jerk because I was genuinely not sure what you meant. For what it is worth I think a lot of the comments on this post are pretty trash. When I first met my husband I thought he was going to be a jerk because of his interests and how other men who were interested in traditionally male activities have treated me in the past. When I started to get to know him he was the sweetest person I ever interacted with. Further, I had to…
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 07:45 PM
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Is English your second language? If it is please try to choose simpler sentences and re explain because I'm very confused by what you're saying and I would very much like to try to understand.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 07:13 PM
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Lolololol I'm a fucking Yankee, northern USA resident and I only know a handful of Latin families but you do not fuck with the women, and all the moms have been scary AF if you get on their bad side! What a dumb dumb.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/23 05:16 PM
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So we all now know you, a red pill dill
/r/ExRedPill02/09/23 05:14 PM
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I feel sad that this is all you had to say in response to that person since they asked you so many good questions.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/23 06:10 PM
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Word! No worries and have a great afternoon home slice!
/r/ExRedPill18/08/23 05:02 PM
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No shame for masturbation here, just pointing out it's a cycle of loneliness in the most basic way possible.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/23 04:07 PM
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It's an ouroboros of angry tears and masturbation.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/23 05:31 PM
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What's the problem?
/r/ExRedPill02/08/23 04:01 PM
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🙌
/r/ExRedPill29/07/23 08:58 AM
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Okay well you're acting like your father is preventing you from driving for reasons that might not be illegal so eff the person you're replying to because they answered in good faith amirite?! Don't come here asking for help just to be rude.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/23 08:56 AM
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I too had the vibe that this is the same person from earlier this week ...
/r/ExRedPill29/07/23 08:50 AM
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You took the words out my mouth here. "Pilled trolls" hound this sub and try to claw anyone escaping their ideology back into it to the best of their ability. Misery loves company.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 06:40 PM
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Agreed ✌️
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 10:25 PM
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It's okay to feel that way as long as you're not outwardly just being a dick to people for it. You can have whatever standards you want for dating! It sounds like that is how you treat it so I'm sure you're good to go!
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 10:24 PM
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The other merit in the "they both rock" column is often just that the heart wants what the heart wants too ! Some people think they're disgusted by someone then get caught up with them years later. Attraction is complex and varied and wild!
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 10:23 PM
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I was promiscuous because I never felt it was valuable to date someone long term if we had 0 chemistry. I have much older siblings and a large family and watched how the spark fades fast. For me sexual chemistry is so much more than "did we both cum?!", It is more like, omg that noise was funny and we laughed and kept going! Or the sheets are a mess, let's clean up together after. One of us tried something different and got hurt, so we stopped and talked about if boundaries were crossed and just…
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 10:21 PM
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People sort of experience "seasons* of their lives and some of us have a bit of a slutty " season". Male or female. This is super cheesy but it's true. Some people experiment young, some are later bloomers, some always want a monogamous partner, some never. Doesn't matter, shouldn't matter. The whole point being that someone's high body count might not represent a single fucking thing about who they are today, other than them being someone who is charismatic and gets along with people in such a …
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 10:14 PM
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"pretty privilege" The right for everyone around you to sexualize you constantly whether you like it or not? Because you're so pretty.. Because people just like you for no reason. Because you get "advantages" that other people don't have access to or would give anything for to have access to? *Just for being pretty *. One should be thankful to earn money off being sexually assaulted instead of thought to be too ugly to be sexually assaulted by sexual predators? Please explain to me.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/23 08:44 AM
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If you become a good man, all the women around you who value what you put into the world will find you attractive. Sincerely, A human woman.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/23 08:36 AM
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Thank you! Was shocked to see MM pop up here ina positive light - just, no.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 03:46 PM
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I'm glad you've found greener pastures, and thank you friend!
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 09:16 AM
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Those people, as you already know, are dumb as fuck. Best of luck to you!
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 07:33 AM
3

Congratulations on your recent graduation.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/23 05:33 PM
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Hey hey hey I was mean to him and his friend who are trolling here, so now they're accusing me of "harassing every person in this thread". I'm so sorry if I'm also making you feel harassed. 🙏
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 07:39 PM
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I said that I think there is something wrong with you. Which is all I wanted to say to you. You don't have to accept that, but you're in the ex red pill sub saying some dumb pilled adjacent shit. Expect blowback.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 07:00 PM
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Watching my comments like a hawk. Don't you have women to smash lady killer? Whatcha wasting time on Reddit for?
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 06:36 PM
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Thanks I knew I was right.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 06:34 PM
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Idk why you apologize. This reads like an incel fantasy to piss off the users of this sub and then maybe a humble brag.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 06:19 PM
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Lololololol your fantasy is so hilarious
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 06:18 PM
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I'd go as far as to argue that if you're only doing one nighters that you're actively bad at sex because if you are good at it some of those people would come back for more.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 06:14 PM
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So they are definitely incredibly boring.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 06:05 PM
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I'm guessing you hate women because your mother is disappointed in having an idiot for a son.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 05:47 PM
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Bro I know it is difficult to be 14, but grow the fuck up.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 09:25 AM
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You are too a virgin you fucking limp dick virgin.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 05:34 PM
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Dude yeah this guy is definitely 15 at the oldest. I know his post history is full of dick pics but I didn't look, and I'm assuming they're probably stolen from someone.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 04:52 PM
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No way, he supposedly fucked my mom 10 years ago!
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 04:46 PM
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But but but ... You don't understand.. he fucked ALL OUR MOMS so he knows everything about women.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 04:23 PM
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Dude idk why the loser you're replying to isn't banned from this sub yet he's just trolling on here on every post. Literally has no fucking life other than spamming reddit with dick pics and pretending not to be a fucking incel. I hope you have a lovely day on the other hand!
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 04:16 PM
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Either person can initiate interest. The reason being that clear communication is the foundation to a good relationship. Either person can start off that path by expressing themselves in a respectful and honest way, and understanding that rejection can happen and take that in stride if it does.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 04:06 PM
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🙏
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 03:17 AM
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This person doesn't know anything about anything. I think they might be a bored 15 or 16 year old, or maybe a lonely old man. Either way they are a giant loser.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 07:56 PM
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Happy anniversary!! ✌️
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 07:55 PM
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Damn dude your life must suck ETA: "Ffs, just look on the internet how many women are constantly on tiktok complaining about how they don't have a man? Have you ever seen a man doing that? Hmm🤔" Uhhhh ever heard of incels you fuckin dweeb
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 07:53 PM
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Even if women tend to skew dating someone older it is usually within about five years for relationships that wind up working long term. An age gap of 10+ years is I think what the OP is stating. I think there's a lot of reasons people date outside of their age group and honestly I think sometimes women have a more clear idea of their long term goals involving a partner and potentially having a family earlier on than young men (because we are told we have so little time) and men a bit older usual…
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 05:57 AM
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Honestly, usually less mature than the young women they pursue. Keep preaching to your home boys, because this shit needs to be the common thought process for people to see less abuse in relationships.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 05:53 AM
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🙏
/r/ExRedPill21/05/23 06:41 PM
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It's clear that you can read. I would suggest rounding out your mind's eye by reading about historical women in STEM. Humans accomplish things together not alone. Women can survive fine without men just as men can survive without women, but we should all want diverse communities ful of people with varied skills.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 10:22 PM
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The comment you've responded to is the most astute one here and really something you should remind yourself of when you see the idea of women being together or just having friendships in general is bad. I wish you the most growth!
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 08:45 PM
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I love to get drunk and force my friends to play soul calibur against each other against their wills. I'm really the only gamer now that we're adults and no one ever believes me that you can win by button mashing until they do it. The little confidence boost watching them play and win and spar is just so fricking fun to see!
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 08:42 PM
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Positive platonic friendship can be so euphoric! It's so lovely to spend time with someone who just loves you back. Spending time with my gal friends definitely does all the things you've said. I'm glad you're not threatened by your wife having a good time! ❤️
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 08:41 PM
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Friendships that last that long are like siblings. That's your community! You keep in touch to help each other during bad times and to love and celebrate the good times together too! Sounds like your wife has a great little community :)
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 08:38 PM
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Father??? No no no, lover.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 08:36 PM
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I also don't know but my assumption is going to be that they think we are looking for new partners or ways to take advantage of men and their money even if we already have a partner. I won't lie, sometimes my friends and I will talk to men when we are out, but the place I live isn't huge and my best friend grew up here so she knows a lot of people of all genders. Usually those chats with men are like, oh how's your kid/girlfriend/siblings/parents/job and then we exit the conversation when it is …
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 08:34 PM
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Beautifully stated!
/r/ExRedPill18/03/23 07:12 AM
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You're the only one saying polarizing things about the genders here, you are arguing in bad faith attempting to debate when it was explained the purpose of this sub is otherwise. I don't have to explain anything to you because you're being a willfully ignorant shit kicker.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/23 07:47 PM
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This comment containsa glimmer of self reflection. You feel like a troll because you ARE a troll.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/23 06:51 PM
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I agree 100%. I don't think OP asked this in good faith at all.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 07:04 PM
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Ah so you're clearly going for quantity over quality here I gotcha.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 07:29 PM
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I don't have empathy for people who treat their partners like dog shit because they started following a sick ideology. And yeah I'm bitter. People like you are why adults and their children wind up stuck in shitty abusive situations thinking their partner will eventually come around and be a good person. They most often don't. If I was in proximity to OP I'd happily help in whatever physical way I could, but cheering people on has it's value. Sorry you're hurt that someone rightfully called you …
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 07:25 PM
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I fucking hate when people are at their wits end and say something along the lines of "I can't win" or "there is no winning" because they have hit a wall, and then some complete ASSHOLE thinks hey I should fixate on that "winning" word. Guess what, the only thing OP wants to win back is her fucking sanity. Open communication with someone who is verbally abusing you and gaslighting you because of some loser they follow on the internet isn't great advice if he has become this way AFTER having a ch…
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 06:07 PM
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They don't. You still a teenager buddy?
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 06:00 PM
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Holy shit. Go outside, make a friend. Like, even a squirrel. You're losing it.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 05:57 PM
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🙌
/r/ExRedPill02/03/23 07:14 AM
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Glad you got out. And indeed, there is no winning with losers. Have a great day! :)
/r/ExRedPill28/02/23 07:02 PM
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It is my personal opinion that this is indeed another tactic employed by people who are just assholes with no empathy. They start the relationship out being nice and quite kind while constantly "joking" to boundary test. They choose a meek and less confident person as their first partner intentionally. Once in the relationship, they start breaking this person down to lower their self esteem. Once the self esteem is close enough to 0%, the abuser now feels comfortable seeking out a second person …
/r/ExRedPill27/02/23 04:49 PM
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I'm not OP but in my youthful experiences I dated guys who wound up acting this way. You date them to start with, because they don't treat you like shit at the start of the relationship, they build up to it.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/23 03:34 PM
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I am not trying to be polite, so that's good.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/23 07:18 PM
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It's not that you are phrasing your question in a poor or hard to understand way. Your question is just stupid, and unnecessary if you'd actually read what you're replying to. You don't want help, you want more information to add to your stupid ass write-up.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/23 06:22 PM
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🙌
/r/ExRedPill18/02/23 09:44 AM
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Lol thanks I am really stoned and it wasn't well articulated!
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 08:59 PM
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I think you're stupid from concussions from facepalming so much Edit/ am dumb bye
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 07:39 PM
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It honestly comes down to trust and maturity being extinguished in those people when they say these things thinking it won't become known.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 06:32 PM
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I befriended a coworker once who knew I was in a relationship who can be called Bob. My boyfriend also worked with us. My bf hated Bob but I insisted he was just a friend! Meanwhile I met and befriended another guy, Jack, while hanging out with Bob. Now I wind up just clicking with Jack on a whole new level, genuinely love the guy and make fast friends. Jack is a perfect match for my best friend who is single, so I introduce them and they move in together within a few months. As soon as they're …
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 08:46 PM
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Be strong. Don't backslide. You got this!
/r/ExRedPill30/01/23 10:21 PM
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I'm sorry you've had that experience but I promise there are women who care about your well being even if you dont know any women like that personally. Just like I know not all men think the way OP is worried about. All people's s mental health is of the utmost imprortance! Not just women, not just men. Children need more mental health care, especially ! There are people who care about you and want the best for you.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/23 12:09 PM
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I get where you're coming from but it sort of sounds like that's the information OP is engaged with that is making her feel this way? I am genuinely not trying to be a piece of shit to you but the reverse psychology appears to be the actual source of the issue here.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/23 12:06 PM
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Okay but treating all people of one gender like they are the problem has been bad for women when men do it, so could we not assume it will also be bad for men if women swing the pendulum to the full extent in it's opposite direction? Which would cause major societal problems just like overwhelming patriarchy very much has? Solidarity across genders is the only option for improvement. Hating people they don't know because that person presents masculine is not doing OP any favors. Unless she's doi…
/r/ExRedPill28/01/23 12:02 PM
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Perfect response. Gender doesn't determine the quality of the person, you have to actually get to know them and build a relationship. TRP makes every relationship try to fit in a tiny box with strict rules, and no relationship can be confined that way. Every person is unique, yet we share many experiences and feelings. People who are unwilling to share and care about your experiences are usually not going to bring quality relationships to the table.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/23 11:48 AM
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Of course you care about the welfare of the person who gives you sex? I'm still saying that your partner deserves more and I hope they get that from someone eventually. Being with a person like you is detrimental to the self confidence of the other person. Just pay a prostitute.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 05:32 PM
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Your experience sounds depressing. I hope better for your partner that they can find someone who genuinely cares about them other than a means to an end for sex. Just, wow.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 04:58 PM
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Your experience sounds depressing. I hope better for your partner that they can find someone who genuinely cares about them other than a means to an end for sex. Just, wow.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 04:58 PM
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Watching people who are kind become rude people who think they should abuse everything and everyone around them to gain whatever it is that they want.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/23 08:50 PM
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It always takes me so long to remember what it stands for and my brain always goes straight to the FLDS church at first.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 07:17 PM
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My husband once asked me about how many people I had been with when we first started dating, but I was about to leave within like 20 min for plans I already had. I told gim, "I'm not ready to talk about this right now, can we discuss it later?". He never brought it up again and we've been together for over 6 years. Ultimately it doesn't matter. None of those people in the past matter. What matters is how you treat your current partner and that you let go of past partners so you're relationship h…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 06:19 PM
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🙌
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 05:51 PM
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I also read a lot of content like that and had many of these ideas around me when I was your age, and definitely internalized them. However. You have a weapon in your back pocket and you're using it right now! You're reaching out to a new community who can help you restructure those ideas and realize them for the trash that they are. It sounds like you have a lot of security with your partner. Like the comment you are replying to suggested, see the individual who you care for as they are, and as…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 10:33 AM
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This shit reminds me of trying to hit on my husband before I was actually dating him 😑😭😅
/r/PussyPassDenied16/02/22 08:15 AM
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