CodnmeDuchess Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Advice with bf That is actually insane.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/08/22 11:52 AM
10	3 months into dating and no sign of something serious Just talk to the man in a non-confrontational way that centers the fact that your feelings for him are deepening. It’s not that complicated. Do not ask “where is this going?”	/r/RedPillWomen	30/08/22 11:47 AM
-4	What confuses me about men (since they like to be extremely honest on the internet) Lol this is such toxic bullshit. You are brainwashed.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/08/22 08:20 PM
2	In a new relationship with a less experienced guy-- the sex isn't great, how can I tactfully but efficiently go about this? Lol no it’s not, that’s total bullshit.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/08/22 04:16 PM
1	My father has potentially ruined most men for me Yeah I may have to tap out after this post, these comments verge on psycho	/r/RedPillWomen	12/08/22 02:03 AM
24	Girl Game: What are ways you invite men to chase you? While I still cringe at some of this terminology and these highly gendered characterizations, this is probably the best advice I’ve seen on this sub yet. I really believe that most good men do not want to chase. Obsession with “the chase” is a display of avoidant attachment and deep insecurity and, I think, it’s demonstrative of a need to prove that you’re capable to yourself—it’s not something that secure people do. Secure men want reciprocity. Secure men don’t want to have to convince someone …	/r/RedPillWomen	26/07/22 10:28 AM
7	I feel like I’m giving myself up (sexually) too easily to my partner..? You just need to talk with your partner. The notion that you need some ratio of who initiates or that you’re giving yourself to your partner is silly and childish imo. The notion that your partner turning you down when you initiate and put in effort makes you feel rejected and/or bad about yourself is not, but that can be addressed by simply telling your partner exactly that and talking with each other about how to best address each other’s needs… Just have a frank conversation with the guy.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/07/22 08:44 PM
2	There’s a lot of weird advice on this sub (DM me) I agree wholeheartedly. I’m a lawyer, effective communication is extremely important and there is some onus on the speaker to frame things in a way their audience understands. Hah, thanks—love your username too actually!	/r/RedPillWomen	09/07/22 02:09 PM
1	There’s a lot of weird advice on this sub (DM me) I feel you man, it doesn’t feel good to have people call you out with suspicion when you’re being well intentioned, but setting aside the red pill stuff for a moment, even I (not a woman) make certain assumptions about a man whose first response to a woman is anger or aggression — it sends red flags. That being said, it’s also the internet sure, and we say snarky hyperbolic things sometimes (guilty as charged) but I think if you had responded differently here, you would have achieved a better re…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/07/22 01:09 PM
3	There’s a lot of weird advice on this sub (DM me) I’m a man (and probably a “high value” one at that) and I agree with you generally about the sub, but I also think your aggressive and defensive response is off putting and if I were them it would make me not want to take advice from you either. It is not what you’re saying that’s the problem, it’s your approach…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/07/22 12:50 PM
2	There’s a lot of weird advice on this sub (DM me) This is weirdly and unnecessarily aggressive.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/07/22 12:47 PM
35	What am I doing wrong? Your problem is you’re boring. The vast majority of men have no desire to settle down with a conservative religious girl at 23, and the ones that do are also conservative and religious, so if your aren’t in a conservative religious enclave, you’re going to have a bad time. The other option is to find an older man who is looking for a young homemaker type I guess. But if your dating preferences are a laundry list of things that exclude the majority of people available to you, you’re gonna be sing…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/07/22 06:26 PM
2	Living together and the “wife experience” I mean, I am one, and I know lots and lots of people. I have pretty expansive social and professional networks, and I’m older than 35.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/06/22 11:19 PM
6	Living together and the “wife experience” Not that I know of, no. Maybe there are some among my older colleagues, but no contemporaries. And I know lots of people. I think it’s weird advice. Then again I think a lot of advice here is kinda weird—weird but fascinating.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/06/22 12:34 PM
30	Living together and the “wife experience” I’m always amazed at this advice—I don’t know any man who is going to propose to a woman having never lived with her.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/06/22 06:22 AM
1	Commitment Why not find an ugly guy who’s also looking to settle down with someone he loves? You do realize there are people all over the country, the world even, who are not conventionally beautiful and have found partners and created living relationships right? Maybe you need to re-examine your own standards? I don’t mean to sound like a jerk, but you kinda sound like an incel guy, so I’ll say the same thing to you I’d say to them: are you lonely because you can’t find a man who will love you? Or do you …	/r/RedPillWomen	29/06/22 12:29 AM
1	Does he trust me or is he just using me? Why not talk to him about it…?	/r/RedPillWomen	29/06/22 12:18 AM
6	I (26F) think the guy I’m interested in (30M) is porn sick Lol you think “high value men” don’t patronize sex workers? Girl. Come on.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/06/22 12:42 AM
1	I (26F) think the guy I’m interested in (30M) is porn sick This dude is going to dump you if you do this. I would. You’re making a big deal out of absolutely nothing. Just relax and get to know the guy and make your decisions about the relationship based on how he treats you and how you feel about him.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/06/22 12:40 AM