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Fast track to diabetes. Atrocious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:52 AM
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Now that I think of it, ever since I hit puberty, women have been an obsession. Nearly 80% of all actions that have not directly aided my survival have been targeted at impressing women that I like. I talk slowly because one girl back in highschool said it was hypnotic, I don't wear shorts (even when I'm alone) because my legs are hairy and a lot of women say they don't really like it, I chose to get into STEM because girls in highschool would always be amazed when I would do something with thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:50 AM
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Went to a youth meeting of methodists. The preacher was talking about marriage. Apparently there are still some people teaching that women are emotional creatures and you had all the women nodding in agreement. So backward....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:28 PM
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CMV: When it comes to dating; Athletes > Musicians. Muscles mean you barely have to do anything to attract a partner whether you're male or female....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:50 PM
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Why won't you let me eat your pussy then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:49 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:20 AM
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Yesterday at work, a woman wearing a skirt that stopped just above her knees bent over to pick something from the bottom drawer and I saw a good portion of her thighs. She turned to look at me and gave me a quizzical look. As a high libido, heterosexual male, I don't know what I was supposed to look at in that situation. I think I might have leered a little and she probably has a lower opinion of me now...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:20 AM
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Bring romantic feels cringe. I sang this girl the song perfect by Ed sheeran on the piano. She said she liked but I felt so so silly....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 08:23 AM
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Everytime some of my female friends learn that I can cook, they'll say something like, "Your girlfriend is a very lucky woman." Is men cooking that rare of a phenomenon...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:01 AM
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I told a female friend that it would be an honour to see her bum. She just giggled and said, "You're crazy, I swear."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:30 PM
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If I post the screenshots, would you believe me?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:00 PM
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He struggled with girls in his early teens and only lost his virginity at the rather late age of 18 (Lol.) From there, he claims the whole thing became a sport for him and so that's the only reason he remembers the numbers. He was always trying to one up guys who'd enjoyed "success" earlier....And when for a while he lagged with numbers, he'd compensate with novelty.e.g. He's the person I know to sleep with sisters....Not at the same time, though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:56 PM
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Short and Handsome? Maybe. Short and Ugly? I'm calling BS on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:23 PM
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I only know of one guy personally with a body count of 100+....When I asked what his secret was he said, "2 things; 1. I'm tall... 2. You'd be surprised how many women relent when you're direct." He then showed me a text message exchange between him and a woman he met at a wedding a week ago. He basically told this woman straight up that his intentions were to take her out for dinner, get back to his house, have some wine, fuck her and then bring her back home before midnight. She then said it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:16 PM
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I'm sorry you feel that way. Maybe next time I should provide screenshots, but I doubt that would be enough to convince you....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:51 PM
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the feeling of being filled is deeply pleasurable in itself I am not a woman, but I cannot imagine penetration is as pleasurable as "bean-flicking," for women. I mean most modern vibrators neglect the penetrative aspect entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:49 PM
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Haven't found a woman willing to do it with me. All potential candidates have expressed they wouldn't do it with a man who is not their Hubby/boyfriend....I've found plenty sex workers though...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:40 PM
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What? I just wanted sex with no relationship...What else was I supposed to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:35 PM
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Someone help me square this circle; According to the literature, the path to the female orgasm is through clitoral stimulation. Yet when trying to see an escort last night, I stipulated that this would only go through if she could bring another female "workmate," for a threesome. This woman turned down the cash I offered her and said, "I prefer dick, to tongues and fingers." She said even 2 men and her alone would be preferable to lesbian sex which is strange because lesbians orgasm more frequen…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:28 PM
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I'm 31.. Comforting to hear I'm adequate in some areas...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:22 PM
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In a way, I kind of like it, since it means that every woman who has agreed to see me naked has been pleasantly surprised. It's like the ultimate reward for women who aren't shallow about height. Lucky. I still haven't managed to convince one to get naked with me...Hoping I can find her ASAP. On the other hand, I wonder if women would be more willing to give short men a chance if they knew that they might be packing a big gift in that small package? Yeah, I guess this is what Balthasar Gracian m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:30 PM
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Maybe, but what happens when a woman tells you, "Is it in yet?" when you proceed to engage in vigorous coital activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:54 PM
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I always heard 6 to about 7.5...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:52 PM
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Exception not the rule. Just like a shorter guy will have smaller hands, he'll probably have a small dick
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:19 PM
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7 inches is average....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:18 PM
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Lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:30 PM
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But it's not. Women love big girthy dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:29 PM
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5'8...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 12:02 PM
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One thing I hate about being a short guy is that women probably know that my dick is small. At 5'8, there's no woman who'll be saying, "Easy there, big guy," when I plug them with my 7 inch dick...Guess I need to work on my tongue skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:30 AM
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I think women will win because, men are awful at controlling their urges...What happens when they win? Women might know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:40 AM
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If beating and raping women was as common as you think it was, why then are women here so eager to get involved with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:11 PM
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Sounds about right...Btw They just do it by having sex with a bunch of different men and then pressuring one of them into only being with her. I haven't seen much of this in the richer world. It seems to me that women chase just a couple of "HVM" and then the rest are more or less hated by women. Hence all the talk of "Dating Crisis," "Sex Recession," and "Intimacy Famine."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:54 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:47 PM
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Don't african countries have high rates of polygamy? It's a lot higher than the West, but monogamy is still the default.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:47 PM
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This summer, I'm back home in Africa and one thing I've been trying to do is talk women here into western styled feminism. Once, I was talking to a 24 y/o single woman about how marriage would just end up being indentured servitude and that smart women don't bother with marrying a man. In an attempt to scare her straight, I told her, "When you get married, you'll be expected to do a lot of home management. Cooking his food, keeping him organized and all that kind of stuff." This woman gave me a …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:29 PM
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I was in the kitchen with a female friend in the kitchen whipping something up when she asked me to grab something from the top shelf. Instead of doing that I just lifted her up in the air and told her to pick it herself. When I put her down she became quiet and was just blushing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:27 PM
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I really envy beautiful people. What do you mean someone looked at you and is now trying to do everything in their power to become friendly with you? They only do that to me once they get to know me...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:35 AM
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Relayed as received.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:03 PM
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Yes, it was...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:51 PM
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I was told that all I need to win a woman's heart was confidence. Last night, I had a date and tried to be as smooth and charismatic as I possibly could. Towards the end of the date, this lady said she didn't think she was ready to be in a relationship with me because I was "too much of a sweet-talker," and that meant I was probably a womanizer. It's like as a man, there's just no solution, is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:56 PM
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Yep...Sitting there thinking, "If only I could show her that my intentions are good." You just bite your tongue and force yourself to stay put until you receive an approach signal...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:44 PM
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feelsbad...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:26 AM
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One thing I really hate about being a heterosexual male is the hair trigger libido. For as long as a woman has good personal hygeine and dresses well, every fibre in my being will be yelling, "Go talk to her. She might want you." Fat, thin, short, tall, any skin colour you can imagine. If she really wants to turn me on, I'm done for... I really envy the fact that women can sit there in a club and be like, "Oh, handsome guy. Muscles, height. Cool," and then carry on with their drinks...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:51 AM
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One thing I found disorienting about dating is how women are quite indifferent to male body counts but get the ick when they discover you watch porn. For many men, the other way round would be more preferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:43 PM
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Well, I can't help it...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:23 PM
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Would you say you have the same reaction when someone thinks your wife is hot? Without the pregnancy, of course...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 10:06 AM
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Being open about my perversions...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 10:05 AM
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Yeah....To those that are insecure about ageing..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 08:32 AM
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TIL: Saying you love pregnant women makes you a creep. The large belly, succulent breasts, tired face. Wow!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 08:30 AM
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Heated argument between the ladies at work today. The topic was whether men should have girlfriends even after marriage because you can't keep up with his libido. A shameful but common thing in my part of the world. Camp A ("No, he shouldn't") said the following: • Men should learn to control themselves. • Sex is not a necessity. He'll not die. • Why not just divorce and have his fun? Why disrespect me by doing that? CAMP B - ("Yes, he should"): • What are you doing in that marriage if you're al…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:52 PM
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Men will suffer more in the current gender divide because they handle celibacy far worse than women...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:15 PM
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What made you get involved with this deep dive analysis? The amount of women that complain about sexual satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:08 AM
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This is a serious enquiry....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 12:05 PM
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No, no, no, they are not the same. In your analogy, the man does not climax. The literaure claims clitoral stimulation is what brings ladies to a climax and not penetration. My question is; if a lady claims to have climaxed either by getting eaten out or fingered, why should she beg for penetration as well? If we argue that she didn't, Why moan "Fuck me!" instead of, "Eat my pussy!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 12:04 PM
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when the time um…comes Badum....tsss
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 10:32 AM
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As a guy, circumcised dicks used to seem cool. We were always told it's harder to catch certain STI's and STD's and that circumcised guys lasted longer because of the decreased sensitivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:55 AM
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Over the past month I've dedicated my time to learning how to get really good at eating pussy. I bought, Come As You Are, Becoming Cliterate, Vagina Obscura, She Comes First and read them cover to cover, taking down notes for me to remember. I even bought Betty Dodson, Kink University and Nina Hartley's videos on sexual instruction but ran out of funds before I could join the site OMGyes. Many of them seem to place emphasis on foreplay and clitoral stimulation which I have no problem with. But e…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:51 AM
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And idk, aren’t gay men often pretty picky? Not in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:26 AM
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I wish I could find more women like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:24 AM
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At my house. I would, but what I find is that for most of the women that I meet, best case scenario is that they now have doubts about your masculinity, worst case scenario is that they think you're a latent homosexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:23 AM
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I didn't really tell her I'd cook for her, I just invited her to my place and said, "Come hungry, there'll be food waiting for you." At first she thought I had a caterer come do something at home but when she witnessed me getting the dessert ready she dropped her doubts. It was only after she left that she then texts me saying, it was "too much," and she didn't want a guy who would "simp for a woman," like that. I was trying to impress her and it backfired.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:21 AM
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I cooked for a woman for our second date. She said it was too much and that I was simping. There are times I wish I was gay...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:29 PM
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If a man was to approach 100 women at random, what percentage of women would he need to say "Yes," for him to be considered attractive? 50% +1? 70%?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:06 PM
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No....5'8
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:57 PM
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I used to believe most women were far too wise to be love-bombed and that they would know that any flood of attention coming from a man in a relatively short amount of time was highly suspicious. But when I started online dating, I felt like some of these women wanted me to love-bomb them. I've only been talking to you for 3 days, how does me not sending a "good morning," text mean I hated you? You want flowers after a week of talking? Not dating. Talking. And what is it with women on these plat…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:09 PM
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I'm beginning to think so too, but I've been told that us blackpill thinking...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:26 PM
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Everytime I try to flirt it ends up sounding cringe. A woman asked me if she could taste some of my famous cinnamon rolls. I said "Sure, but they are not as yummy as you," and she rolled her eyes at me while giving me a smirk...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:28 PM
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Been talking for 2 weeks...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:50 AM
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Just asked a woman for nudes and she sent them. All I had to do was ask and yet people here have been lying to me saying she'll share when she wants to share...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:58 PM
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Yeah. It makes sense given the rest of their proportions. Bigger hands, bigger feet, bigger tongue, bigger dick....At 5'8 I'm not making any woman say "Take it easy now."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:37 PM
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One of the most frustrating things about being short is that my dick is probably smaller than that of a lot of taller guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:24 PM
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I sometimes wonder how differently my life would have gone if I never discovered porn. I feel my libido has always been on the high side but no one seems to think so and that may be because I aggressively masturbate to the most filthy porn at my disposal at least once a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:51 PM
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Based on asking, most women seem repulsed by it...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:40 PM
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I get the feeling that when I finally get lucky enough to eat pussy, my baser instincts will get the better of me and I will try licking her bumhole as well....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:21 PM
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There are no good alternatives left. The standard response to complaints like this is "Go outside," yet no one wants to admit things got so bad outside that people came in....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:32 AM
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Even Drake, with a wider selection of women than the average man goons to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:52 AM
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Why do I get a sense of sick pleasure from bullying women I like? I tickle them when they tell me they REALLY hate it. I put things out of their reach just to make them mad and I also smack their bums very hard even after they tell me not to. Anything I do that makes their eyes roll makes me so, so happy & I don't know why.....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:33 PM
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Yeah, you're probably bigger than me...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:42 PM
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Sure did...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:38 PM
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How would you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:37 PM
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Don't let the "women are just as sexual as men" crowd hear that one...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:36 PM
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Yep....4 days a week. Upper-Lower-Rest-Upper-Lower-Rest-Rest....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:34 PM
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Maybe so, but from my one experience, I really can't imagine this being a nuissance. Perhaps her actually touching me might have been problematic but her saying she thinks about doing is a little flattering...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:33 PM
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I see. Well, I think I want it to happen again to me...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:28 PM
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I really don't get why so many women hate being sexually objectified. As a guy, I got my first objectification experience last week when woman at the deli told me she saw me often and would sometimes fantasize about rubbing my chest muscles. As opposed to being upset, I found it amusing, yet I think of what would happen if I told her, "I sometimes wish I could fondle your boobs."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:04 PM
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I know that but wouldn't rubbing it forward and back be more pleasurable than the circular motion most do?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:50 PM
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When women masturbate, why do they use circular motion instead of forward and back one?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:59 PM
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Conservative country. I think that's what explains it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:58 AM
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I don't know what to tell you, pal...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:40 PM
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Me: What do you think would surprise me about women? Female Friend: How many are hoes. Many just pretend to be innocent and repulsed by things like sex but if you were to know which "buttons to press," you'd be disappointed. Me: For real? Female Friend: Why do you think many womanisers have really low opinions of women? Same reason magicians don't think too highly of their audiences. Do you think she had a point?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 05:52 PM
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Just heard that one of my former housemates, a 25 year old woman who works as a pharmacist now has a baby boy. The father of the son child is a 23 year old guy who went no further than high school and makes a living as an entreprenuer, more specifically, imports and exports. What I find interesting about this whole situation is that while she was still living in the house, she actually bad mouthed this man in front of us, saying he was irresponsible, unexposed and unreliable, yet here she is now…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:42 PM
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Whenever I ask men over 50 for dating advice, they always give me some variant of leading with money. Was there a point in history when this used to work? Because the few times I've seen it tried, the women simply try to enjoy the money without giving anything in return. Not sex, not companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 08:41 PM
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Why do men continue marrying them then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 08:10 PM
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He offers unconditional financial support? She just likes the status marriage gives her in certain circles? Those are a few I've heard...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 08:09 PM
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Listened to women in their 50s talk about sex in marriage to 20 something year old women and judging by that interaction, I'm beginning to think sex is a chore for most married women. Most admitted to faking headaches and illness to get out of it. One said sometimes when she's not feeling it, she'd just turn her back to him on the bed, hike her nightdress up and tell him to do whatever he wants but not disturb her. Yet when asked if they'd permit their man to get another woman on the side to hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 08:00 PM
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Shit. I guess I missed that stage...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 04:46 PM
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Maybe....However, they have ended up sleeping with women who had LTR only on their bio on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 12:50 PM
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Which would you recommend? Already tried Hinge, Bumble, Tinder and Badoo....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:11 AM
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That's my next strategy...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 10:52 AM
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I think geography might play a role. I've been told it's a lot easier to find hookups in liberal areas. Maybe you're matching the wrong people? Well 95% of them have LTR in their bios. The 5% that don't have always turned out to be scammers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 10:43 AM
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Most women I have spoken to about relationships want companionship, emotional support and then there are a select few that have openly stated they require financial support as well. Currently, I have no desire to make more companions, and I am not able or willing to give emotional and financial support to most of the women I meet. Given that, I also feel it would be unfair to make promises I have no intentions of keeping by dangling the prospect of a permanent relationship in exchange for sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 10:42 AM
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Apparently some are still afraid of being judged for being openly sexual or not fitting into the conventional mold of female sexuality....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 09:44 AM
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So apparently there is an age limit to casual sex. I [30 M] went on the dating apps looking for a hookup and 95% of women in that age group say they are looking for marriage. I swiped right on some of them because I've been told women lie about it but when we get to talking, nearly all of them get into relationship talk e.g. "When do you plan on getting married?", "Don't you think it's time to settle?", "Good women finish, you know?", "Fucking around at 30? Grow up..." I wish I had this info in …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 09:26 AM
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I don't mind. Maybe because she looked incredible in them....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:04 PM
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What's wrong with 2?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:51 PM
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Maybe it's my horny, porn-sick brain, but #2 looked like an absolute bombshell in her bikini pics. I swiped right but really doubt I'll match with her....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:42 PM
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My past 15 free swipes on Tinder before I [30 M] got bored of swiping. Set my age range to 25-40. 30 y/o Single mom with a 7 y/o son. 25 y/o Doctor doing residency. Not a lot of info but lots of bikini pics. 27 y/o woman. No profile pics. No info 28 y/o kindergarten teacher. Don't waste her time or ask for nudes please. 28 y/o Single mom of a daughter. Didn't put her profession. Looming for marriage. 29 y/o cashier. Looking for friends (On Tinder?) 34 y/o teacher. Don't waste her time or ask for…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:08 PM
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Yet they also don't like being in relationships with what they call, "Low-Value Men." Hence, they are presented with a compromise and going by historical precedent, "the maternal instinct leads a woman to prefer a tenth share in a first rate man to the exclusive possession of a third rate one."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:44 AM
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Majority of the women I know do not want it, yet they also don't like being in relationships with what they call "low value men." Since there are only so many high value men in circulation the only logical compromise I see is to legalize polygamy so that women can pick and share the few high status men available. They can then abandon the other men to their video games, porn or whatever else may occupy their attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:39 AM
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I don't think there's any government on the planet that recognizes "situationships." So a lot of women have no legal protections when they engage in such kinds of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:33 AM
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Reading the book by Lori Gottlieb and I believe that polygamy should be legalised. That way women can share the few top guys that they want so much instead of settling for mediocre guys they don't actually like....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:47 PM
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Telecom company
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 12:06 PM
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I shouldn't eat pussy and end up married with kids like my colleagues? Natural selection hardly sounds like an efficient mechanism....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 12:05 PM
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I hope so....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:50 PM
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Sounds a little spitefull
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:21 PM
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Damn it....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:57 PM
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Do any of your heterosexual female friends speak down on men that enjoy feasting on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:56 PM
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But they're married, why would they poison the well for the rest of us?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:54 PM
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So feasting while standing is okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:50 PM
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I too seem to notice that among "macho," cultures it's a huge no-no. In my mind, it means either the woman will think you're weak if you do it or your mates will think you're weak if they hear you're into that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:49 PM
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Don’t listen to guys who have zero experience. I just stated that they are married. They dated a handful of ladies, courted the one they liked, got engaged and then married. By virtue of that alone, there are few men more qualified than them to talk about making a woman happy in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:48 PM
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I was so deeply confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:44 PM
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They're not yet divorced, though...All smiles whenever they're in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:44 PM
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Is it true women don't respect men that eat pussy? As a male virgin, it sounds like pretty fun activity to do and from what I read, it has higher likelihood of producing an orgasm for her than penetration. Yet a lot of my married male colleagues say her opinion of you will drop if you do it so I'm now thoroughly confused. I really want to give her pleasure but I mean they ended up married so they probably know what they're doing...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:18 PM
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Thanks man...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:58 AM
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At one of my mum's brunches, her friend, who had a daughter a year younger than me, talked about how she was pressuring her daughter to transfer to another university because according to the daughter, there were too many guys that would approach her at the current one. When my mom told her, "But she's a big girl. I'm sure she's handled boys before," her friend remarked, "These are big boys we're talking about, not people like your son." I always like to bring that story up every time my mom ask…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:58 PM
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The few women that have learned of my status would beg to difffer (except the religious ones.)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:27 PM
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A lovely mix of being ugly, quiet and being brought up in a conservative religious household.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 01:29 PM
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Yeah, I know...ICK!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 01:16 PM
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are you stuck in this job? Sort of...Until I get rid of my student loans I have to be in this position. I'm forecasted to be done in the next 5 years. what field do you work in? Telecommunications. I think at some point you have to think to yourself if life is a series of humiliation and losses what's the point Well if they keep your belly full and lights on, can you really complain?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:58 PM
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How old are you? 30 Do they know you are a virgin? Not for sure, but they have floated their suspicions. For instance, they say I look at cleavage for a little too long and I get visibly uncomfortable when women get too close. That, they say, is "virgin behavior."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:56 PM
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I don't have a lot of options...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 10:03 AM
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Discovered I'm the only virgin in my dept. Of the 12 people (9 men and 3 women) 7 of the men are married while the other "doesn't believe in monogamy." The other man is me. Then 2 women are single moms while the other is married. I only discovered because there was talk at our office if giving women a day off to rest during their periods and everyone joked about the fact that I would probably allow a woman to take her day off on the 1st and 11th because "I don't know how frequently certain thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 09:38 AM
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Interesting that as I read ancient wisdom literature, they all seem to caution men about spending too much energy on women. I wonder what the authors would think about pick-up, redpill and the whole manosphere...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 08:23 PM
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I have no balls. I can't do it...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:58 AM
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It wasn't me she turned down, it was another guy who was almost exactly my height.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:42 PM
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Not me, but another guy my height. He asked her out and she said, "Awwww. Have you seen how short you are? How cute..."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:34 PM
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I (5'9) was chatting with a really beautiful woman (defo taller than 6'0) with big boobs and said something that made her laugh. At that point I had mixed feelings because while I was attracted to her both in the most wholesome and wicked ways, I couldn't act upon it because she would defo turn me down for being too short. She's done it before...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:24 PM
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She did but it wasn't after she met a guy that gave her the chaos and drama she craved so much. It reminded me of a passage from Robert Greene's The Art of Seduction. "We only abandon those who bore us. The ride on which you take your victims can be tortuous but never dull."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:29 PM
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I once posted the newsreport of Kaka's divorce on my Insta. For those OOTL, the reason his wife is leaving him is because according to her he's too perfect. A woman I knew from college saw and DM'd me saying she remembers breaking up with a guy for a similar reason. She would do her best to provoke him but he would always respond calmly or just leave her. She says the breaking point was when she was yelling at him one time and throwing all the breakable plates in his house on the floor. He quiet…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:16 PM
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Alright, so this is the 2nd woman in my social circle this year to get pregnant outside the bounds of a serious relationship. I just need to know where people get the courage to bang each other raw because I'm terrified of catching something. And it's not a knowledge issue for her. This woman has a Masters in a STEM field so she is at least aware of the risks....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:57 PM
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Are they? Why is it so conspicuouslh absent in RnB love songs tho...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:10 PM
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I just want to make her blush. I'm not doing that with a baritone...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:08 PM
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I really wish I had castrated myself as a teen. If I did that, I would have maintained the lovely tenor voice I had instead of it developing into baritone. Now, I can't serenade women because most swoon worthy songs were done by tenors (e.g. Bruno Mars, Anderson Paak, Usher, Omarion, Miguel, Justin Bieber, Justin Timberlake, Marvin Gaye)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:09 PM
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How do you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:52 PM
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Yeah. Music, mainly. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:36 PM
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Well, a few have said I have the accent of someone who's lived abroad for a while. I haven't. I just used BBC World Service radio when practicing my English so I took some of their accents. So she may also think I'm hiding wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:37 PM
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It is a little rare but they are out there. Precisely. Since it's rare (especially rich woman going for modest guy), I'm not betting on it happening now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:31 PM
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There's nothing more frustrating than a rich woman being attracted to you. Sweetie, your girl told me that your ex flew you to Bali in first class and the one before that one bought you a Lexus for your birthday. I still walk to work and it's not because I care about the environment. Leave me alone....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:20 PM
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On my socials, I posted that during the Easter break, people should reflect on the 1st quarter of this year instead of just banging each other all weekend. A lady I know replies, "Lol...You want to bang?" to which I replied, "If it's you, sure." She then texts saying," Why would you want to bang me when you wouldn't let me be your girl?" Apparently, she gave me all the signs she was ready to be in a relationship but I "rejected her." ( I swear I had no idea.) Also, why is she surprised I'd do he…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:17 PM
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-Get more attractive Easier said than done and sometimes the barriers to doing so might be impenetrable e.g. Height. I know that many women will overlook it in a relationship but still skeptical on whether they'd do so for a hookup. -Nichemaxx and socialmaxx in scenes where casual sex is frequent Apart from polyamorous scene - which I gather is invite only - which other scenes are big on casual sex? -Use the services of a prostitute Best possible option by my calculations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 07:32 PM
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I heard some stories about some experiences with them that are not pleasant and downright traumatic. Now I'm curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 07:26 PM
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I would recommend irlmaxxing to a man like this. Just go to clubs, bars, social events and meet women. Sometimes men are not attractive enough for dating apps but succeed irl because women like their charisma, humour, personality and vibes. IME, this works more for relationships than hookups. I have heard of more women ready to date a funny guy than they are to bang him on the spot (if ever.) SWs is another good option if there’s a legal and safe way to do it. Only issue might be that a future p…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 07:25 PM
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What would you recommend to a heterosexual male who really wants to have sex without the emotional attachment but is not attractive enough to do it via dating apps? To me, the only other alternative is using sex workers which is almost always universally condemned. It's like if you are not handsome, your best bet at sex is a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:34 PM
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Sometimes people debate so that they may discover the truth through having someone reveal their blindspots. Unfortunately, what simply happens here is gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:30 PM
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Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:58 PM
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oh....Who's your favourite performer then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:18 PM
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Not that common among women, I hear. What was the appeal for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 12:03 PM
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Coming to the realisation that the women I enjoy watching in MILF porn are not really MILFs to me. They're just women in my age group. Excluding Nina Hartley. She may be in her 60s but she can still get it...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:02 AM
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I think I agree. The signs were there after the MBDTF roll-out but by Yeezus, Kanye had really lost the plot....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:33 PM
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One thing I find interesting about dating is how a lot of women are indifferent towards guys with high body counts and yet get strong icks for guys that watch porn. While anecdote is not evidence, I think my housemate is a good example of this phenomena. He is a womanizer. He doesn't brag about it, but he makes no attempt to hide it either. Yet nearly every woman that has learned this about him becomes even more curious about him (e.g. "I just want to know what lies he tells women," or "That's n…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:43 AM
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Where do you draw the line between the old kanye and the new Kanye? MBDTF? Yeezus? TLOP?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:29 AM
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Met with a team of British engineers and they are some of the most eloquent people I have ever met. Pulling out idioms, metaphors and similes like it's nothing. Had us wishing we just stuck to our indeginous languages instead of embarrassing ourselves with the Queen's language. I shouldn't be too surprised, though since it's their language.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:43 PM
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A lot tougher as a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:52 PM
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A lot of women tell me they hate being told to smile. Nearly every woman I've met over the age of 40 has asked me to smile. And when they do it, it's always self-centered. It's not, "Smile you look more handsome when you do" It's "Could you smile, please? You're scaring me."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:29 PM
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Do you recommend someone begin with casual sex to "find themselves," or jump straight to commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:24 PM
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And yet they don't
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:10 AM
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What culture is this? I don't want to get too specific, but it's one of the cultures within southern Africa. Perhaps due to how the society is set up the women value different things there? Women here tend to value excitement and safety which makes the trend all the more strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:42 AM
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So it shouldn't matter how old he is because you already know you'll be getting a baby as a partner, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:34 AM
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My relatives are always surprised at how age gap relationships are vilified in western nations. According to them, it's obvious women mature faster than men so to have a guy that is her equal in a relationship, she needs to date men 5+ years older. If she doesn't, the relationship will feel like she's just dealing with a baby. What's surprising is that women heartily support this cultural relic too. Back home, it is virtually impossible to get a date with a woman my age or older because, "You're…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 03:59 AM
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Just saw a really beautiful woman by a food truck. She was in a black skirt. She turned and looked at me and I could have sworn she smirked a little when she saw me. I wish I was brave enough to talk to her but one, a lady that beautiful probably isn't single. Second, if she was, she could probably do better than me. I mean, maybe it wasn't even me that made her smirk. Maybe it's just the male tendency to overestimate a woman's level of interest. I'll probably be never see her again and yet I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:07 PM
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Maybe she was
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 01:18 PM
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Condoms don't protect against everything, and there is no male test for HPV unless you already have observable symptoms of it. Which means you could potentially unknowingly infect your future wife someday if you end up married to a different woman later on. Which btw could lead to your wife, who you allegedly love, getting afflicted with cervical cancer all because of the actions you took prior. This. This exactly! Condoms don't seem to offer satisfactory protection against things like HPV and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:49 AM
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My face as I looked at that picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:51 AM
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Condoms do not offer complete protection against HPV or herpes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:50 AM
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A lady that works as a nurse showed me a picture of a pussy she was treating with really bad genital warts. Of course, the individual's privacy was maintained but after seeing that, I think It's best to just remain abstinent until I get a wife because, holy hell! Those warts looked like some strain of alien broccoli growing out of there. I've met a lot of couples who say they regret waiting but my god, if that's the kind of stuff you can catch by hooking up, what choice is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:21 PM
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What was the context? Like why was a woman randomly topless? I have no idea. I was just walking through the park and found her seated in a mini-shelter made of hedges. My guess is she was an exhibitionist that tried to hide there when she heard someone coming. Was she hot? She was alright. Not drop dead gorgeous, but I wouldn't mind dating her. Her tits were the hanging type, though. Which was surprising because she looked to be in her early to mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:20 AM
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As a virgin, it's always a little disorienting when you encounter public nudity. Early in the morning yesterday (we're talking 05 AM), I saw a woman outside completely topless. We made eye contact with each other and yet it was me that became embarrassed and started blushing. I told my housemate about it and he said I should have asked her if I could fondle them a little since I get, "no play."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 07:06 AM
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At a party, someone asked me to play a song on the guitar and I sang the song "Hey there, Vagina." by El Floppy Tacos. There were at least 8 women and I was expecting them to attack me but in the end they all just giggled and said stuff like, "You're crazy, I swear."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:19 AM
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The eternal debate with my friends. I claim women's standards never drop and in fact go up so much they become cynical about relationships altogether. They claim women become desperate and accept almost anything after sometime. After dating in my 30s I'm inclined to think they're wrong. The list of reqs women demand now is far longer than what they wanted in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:15 PM
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I guess it's insecurity. Like what if they decide to cut ties with me there in front of everybody? What if the public doesn't approve of me hanging out with women I should have no business being around? I know it's corny, but that's what goes through my mind sometimes...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:45 AM
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Correction: Housemate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:43 AM
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Still a little bit insecure. What if they decide to cut ties with me there in front of everybody...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:43 AM
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I didn't feel like leaving the house. Didn't have any headphones, earbuds or the like. They were loud. I think they actually wanted me to listen to them get busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:42 AM
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30 y/o male and I still get sheepish walking through the supermarket with my female friends. Meanwhile, my housemate just had some pretty loud and vigorous sex with a woman he claims to have met a week ago. He was saying some pretty devilishly graphic stuff (e.g. "Puke on my dick, I still wanna see how much you can take.") Truly levels to this confidence thing....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:05 PM
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The filled thing, I get, but if she wanted another orgasm, why not force his head down there instead of demanding him to put his dick in knowing full well that penetration is unlikely to get her there....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 07:54 PM
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Oh, I thought the multiple Os thing was a myth and women had a refractory period too...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 07:51 PM
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isn’t it common knowledge that (a lot of) women like to go for multiple rounds I'm a virgin. Didn't know about multiple rounds. All I know is that if you want to give her an orgasm, focus on her clit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:09 PM
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I see...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:08 PM
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Q4W. If it is uncommon for a woman to orgasm from penetration alone, why do some love it so much? My housemate performed oral sex on a woman until she came, (or at least she claimed she did) and yet when he backed off trying to give her a break, she grabbed him and started moaning "Fuck me! Fuck me, now!" Like, sweetie, you said you just came why do you still want to get pounded?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 10:41 AM
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Because in other fields, it's easier to ascertain whether the job taken was taken under undue duress....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 10:32 AM
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If a man needs relief, it should be provided by a woman and vice versa. He also believes that if a woman has sexual needs, she should only get them if a man provides them. But since women usually have no problem finding men to perform the action, they usually don't have to part away with their hard earned money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 06:50 AM
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To an extent, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:10 PM
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It is exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:49 PM
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That's why I said if porn is not used as an aid to masturbate, then no one is getting hurt. If one uses porn, the risk of coercion and trafficking still exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:48 PM
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I just finished arguing with a guy who claims it is better to use the services of a sex worker than to masturbate. I tried to tell him that in using the services of sex-workers he is probably supporting an industry that preys on vulnerable people through coercion or human trafficking. Masturbating - especially without using porn as an aid - hurts no one. His only argument was that masturbation is "Fucking yourself" which is both "unnatural" and "dirty." If a man needs relief, it should be provid…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:05 PM
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They're supposed to. Also he'd probably never have smelled them if he didn't tickle her...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:36 PM
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A lot of women have said they hate being tickled. It is literally a torture tactic and then you add something like "rotten," on top that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:31 PM
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Calling your wife rotten is not a good thing....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:29 PM
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I don't like the fact that handsome men can get away with bullying their partners? One of my friends told us he likes to tickle his wife until she farts and then tease her about it. To me it sounds like he's verbally abusing her. He'd say stuff like " Hoo, you're a rotten one," or "How can something so foul come out of something so pretty?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:29 PM
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And only 3 years apart...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:13 PM
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And only 3 years apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:13 PM
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Suspiciously so...More realistic end would have been either a. She sticks to her ideals and sinks deeper and deeper into depression. She turns to unhealthy habits such as drinking and becomes cynical about human relationships b. She compromises and becomes a bit more "free" and finds a man that leads her further and further away from her faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:46 PM
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A lot of evangelical ladies tend to be on the passive side, I'm discovering. My guess is she probably tried to be diplomatic about it and he kept side stepping.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:41 PM
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Last night at a youth meeting, a pastor told a story of lady that came to his office with a serious case of baby fever. With tears in her eyes and sobs in her voice, she explained that she had only ever been in one relationship with a guy from the time she was 19 until she was 28. Eventually, the man said he wasn't ready to marry and abandoned her. At 30, she would look at her age mates playing with their kids and weep telling her god, "I should have been a mother too. It's not fair." She sugges…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:14 PM
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How do you ask a lady for nudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 08:58 PM
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I would not have the courage to ask a second time. No means no. I'm out of your life for good...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:20 PM
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Yeah. Some men are Machiavellian
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 12:29 PM
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Friend of mine just told me one of our mates is now engaged to a woman who rejected him back in college. The man waited patiently by the side until the relationship she was in failed and then struck when she was most vulnerable. I need that level of security in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:27 AM
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Agreed. I once told a lady I was seeing I have no Facebook, Insta or X and she said, "Does your wife know you romance other women apart from her?" Apparently, the only reason a guy my age wouldn't have any socials is because he's afraid the women he's seeing on the side might blow his cover on social media! Lady, what wife? Even my lips are virgins how am I going to be hiding a wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:20 AM
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Woman thinks because I'm quiet, I'm probably aloof. I'm not aura farming, sweetie. I just don't have the balls to talk to you....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 01:58 PM
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Been lifting for 3 years now. I can see my definition but still don't fill my clothes up. I may have to bulk soon. Also, after working out, I realize there's a lot more muscular guys in my age cohort. Obesity epidemic might be exaggerated.....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 08:22 PM
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Trying to convince a woman to be more progressive is actually tougher than I thought. Here I am telling a lady that marriage was a bad deal for women and the addition of the man's last name to her own after marriage was meant to denote ownership. This lady tells me, "I'm his, am I not?"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:13 PM
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So beauty is completely subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:53 PM
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What if they were just trying to use me? Seeing how ugly I am they may use the prospect of romantic involvement to get whatever it is they may have wanted from me knowing full well how "starved," I might be...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 07:43 AM
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Would apps be a good way to determine how attractive I am? I really want to know because I don't really know what to believe anymore. I've had a few women tell me I'm handsome and that I should be married. In fact, I've had 2 who even offered to be my girlfriend if I wanted and I only rejected them because I thought it was some kind of set up. That's because I've also had women who've told me I was so ugly it would be impossible for someone to eat in my presence. If there are truly objective sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 06:18 AM
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All I know is that I've outperformed to the moon and back every single female I've ever competed against in academic settings from kindergarten to college. I'm sure you have
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:59 AM
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I guess you've not seen what's been happening in schools,huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 04:48 PM
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Most folks say boys just aren't trying anymore, but I remember studying like crazy for my A-Levels and only got 3 A's and 1 B. The best guy in our class got 2 A stars (or A+s) and 2 As whereas 4 girls got 4 A stars. Yet they still went to festivals, parties and brunches. I think their mental faculties are just a lot more developed and men can't compete.... Thats what explains the acheivement gap in academics...Women are smarter (& better looking.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:05 AM
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Not always. Also, most people that invite hookers to their actual homes get robbed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:06 PM
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Why not just go to her "house?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:18 PM
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The area is next to a gas station. Anyone filling up their car could spot me...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:18 PM
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Why would I bring one over?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:47 PM
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It would ruin my reputation...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:46 PM
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Not really. He's already a bit drunk though, so that might explain his loose tongue...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:12 PM
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Uh-huh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:52 PM
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Housemate is off to the red light district to bang hookers. Whole house to myself...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:51 PM
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But it would seem most, like a chatty guy. At least in my area...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:09 PM
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I wish I knew this earlier. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:05 PM
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Surprised me too. First date and she tells me she and her ex almost smashed after her mother's memorial. This was after she caught him in the bed with another woman Must've been the alcohol...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:05 PM
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I remember the time I took a woman out and tried my best to be a good listener. She talked for 3 hours straight about her family, work, her exes and sex. Given how much she talked, I thought I had done a good job. Little did I know there would be no 2nd date because as a man, I failed to lead the convo. I'm going back to video games and musical instruments. This dating thing is just to complicated for me....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:20 PM
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Lol...Your opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 03:52 PM
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Do those exist? Every lady I've met with the capacity to do so has said something like, "Put ypur hubby in a boxing ring and see if you still like him after 5 rounds."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:40 PM
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What if I'm not muscular enough to protect her? You think she'll still go out with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 11:41 AM
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As I interact with women in my day-to-day life, I am worried that I may not have the patience to become a husband. Here's what I mean. A Lady at the office told a story of how she once told the kids it was bed time and her husband said they needed to wait a little because he had just sprayed their room with insecticide. Someone had left a window open and so it was teeming with mosquitos. She then told us she was annoyed because in telling the kids that, he was undermining her authority. All her …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:50 PM
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Exactly. I don't want to be in a relationship where sex becomes a chore for her because I don't appeal to her. And so I must test my attractiveness first....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:14 AM
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Not on the apps it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 02:24 AM
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Pure app has such a strange business model. Men pay for likes while women get to like whoever for free. Anyhow, I'll just set up an account, leave my pics and see how handsome of a man I am. If I get zero, I'll get sex from prostitutes, love from pets and companionship from books
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:04 PM
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If she’s not only looking for that she’ll be glad she didn’t waste her time. Or repulsed she's met yet another man with a brain on the leash of his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 06:55 PM
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Womanizer told me I'd be surprised how far I could go by just being direct. I think he's trying to get me in trouble. I can't tell a woman, I'm looking for a purely sexual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 08:59 PM
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But it's her dropping it so it's her to pick it up...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 02:29 PM
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Told a lady friend we should shower together as friends and she said, "I don't think you could handle me dropping the soap." Is she flirting?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 01:38 PM
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If they're ugly in a humorous way, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 06:43 PM
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Why else might she be supressing a smile?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:01 PM
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Lady at the counter of the burger joint I went to kept trying to fight a smile when she started attending to me. Now, I'm anxious. Was I so ugly she couldn't keep it together and stay professional?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:59 PM
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Nothing's funny about this...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 07:58 PM
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Ikr
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 07:57 PM
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My thoughts exactly...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 07:57 PM
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Biggest culture shock at my current workplace is how open people are about their personal lives. Why do you want us to know that as a married man, you got another lady 15 years your junior pregnant and now she's trying to baby trap you? No, I will not find some ladies that will pressure her into getting an abortion. Jesus...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 07:46 PM
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CMV: Men with deep voices are wildly overrated. If deep voices were that attractive, RnB would have an overrepresentation Bass/Baritone singers. Hearthrobs like Marvin Gaye, MJ, Usher, Onarion, Justin Beiber, Chris Brown, Jodeci, Ginuwine & virtually all K-Pop acts are tenors . Vandross, Prince, Barry White and Frank Ocean are exceptions; not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 04:11 PM
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Went swimming today and a female friend of mine who is a doctor said I might have Klinefelter syndrome. My body is suspiciously hairless for a guy, my hips are wider than hers and I seem to have man boobs. I'll have to check my balls because she said that's the giveaway. If I do have it, I'll probably never be a father. That's humbling...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:06 PM
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Office mate ranting about how a man is playing her sister and then I hear, "We're emotional creatures, women and he knows that." I thought we had agreed that this was a relic of the misogynistic past? How is she the one propagating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:40 PM
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Come to think of it, having very few friends is not a flex. In my view, friends are people that provide, emotional, psychological (and sometimes) physical/material support. Therefore, saying you have few friends is simply a round about way of stating that you give so little use/value to people that few actually end up caring about your well-being. It's only when you view it through this lens that you realize you should be utterly embarrassed to have a tiny social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:05 PM
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Ouch...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 08:28 PM
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For some reason, my mother thinks it's my fault she's not a grandmother yet. It's always, "Maybe you didn't smile at her more," or "You should have asked if she needed help with anything." At some point, she'll have to accept that the boy she gave birth to is just not rich/handsome/charming enough for someone's daughter. At least not enough to have babies with...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 08:13 PM
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But I don't have titties? Spiciest I could go is probably a dick pic, but given how frequently I hear women complain about them, I'm not going to send one unprompted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:44 PM
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I asked a lady for titty pics. She said she didn't think a guy as "shy," as me had it in me to ask for such. I then told her that's how bad I want to see 'em. She laughed and said maybe another time. Well, at least I tried...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 10:03 AM
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Just read an interview about Prince and he was also insecure about his height. His pain medication addiction may have been caused by how his platform shoes affected his knees. Makes you think how even a talented, multi-millionaire couldn't get past his immutable physical features.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:30 AM
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Eating pussy is a taboo in our culture and yet it's something I would really want to do. According to the literature I've read, it's one of the most effective ways to give a woman an orgasm without using any toys. Having experienced an orgasm myself, it would be an honour to give a woman that kind of pleasure. Yet because of where I live, a woman may freak out if she sees my face going anywhere near her pussy. Idkwtd...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:58 PM
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I guess there's no hope for me, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:12 AM
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Are you sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:56 AM
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Exactly. Which is why I will excuse myself from this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:55 AM
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Just matched with a beautiful lady claiming to be a medical doctor on Hinge. After looking at her insta, I think I'll just end up ghosting her. I'm sorry baby girl, but I can't top a business class flight to Bali. I still walk to work, you need a man that can at least afford a car...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:19 AM
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"Just because he can't get a life, he wants the rest of us to be like him. This guy will struggle to get a wife" This was a statement a female coursemate back in muttered to her friends when the professor announced I was the only who'd done the lab experiment correctly. Given that I'm in my early 30s and have never had a fwb, drunken makeout session or even just a female bestie, I'm beginning to think she may have had a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:18 PM
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For a guy that has no desire for friendship or intimacy but would really like to have sex, wpuld prostitutes be a good option? If not, what alternatives would you advise?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:45 PM
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If the afterlife is a real thing, then I'm sure the frequency of my masturbation astonishes those that knew personally.... My fetishes probably terrify a few as well...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:06 PM
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...And sometimes they don't...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:52 AM
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Shit...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:41 AM
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The older I grow the more convinced I am beauty may be 100% subjective. To some women, I was so ugly they'd refuse to sit with me during meal times because they didn't want to lose their appetite and then to some, it's incredibly shocking I have no wife, girlfriend or baby mama... If there were objective standards, opinions should not vary that wildly...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:08 AM
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Me: "As men, we need to make the first move because women almost never do it." Guy 1: "Never? Every single fwb and hookup I've had has been their idea." Guy 2: "Yeah. I think he's talking about relationships, not hookups. If she's drunk and horny she can drag you to bed but most women never ask you to be their bf or for marriage." I've never felt so ugly in my life...Also, is there any truth to those statements...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:37 PM
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Yeah, my hips are wide...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:18 PM
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What about everything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:37 PM
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After asking women what I'd need to do to become more attractive (again), I have come up with the following list of things I need to change; Smile more: Apparently I look like Notorious B.I.G in that I have a permanent scowl and it scares women away. Talk more: I've been told I have a reputation for just sitting and watching people. As a guy, that's a no-no because they expect me to lead the convo. This one just aggravates the 1st problem. Bleach my skin: I have East African roots. To a few wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:30 PM
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Still tiny...By the same proportions, if I was 6'2 it would be closer to an average 8 inch one...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 02:29 PM
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7.2 inches is big? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:38 PM
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Confluence of factors. Main ones being religious upbringing (I no longer am) and graduating during COVID-19.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:36 PM
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In my 30s, all the women I meet say they'll only do it if I plan on marrying them. I haven't had it in me to lie...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 11:48 AM
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No, it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 11:17 AM
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ew, hookup culture. How else do I figure out what kinds of women I like? Sexually speaking...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 11:16 AM
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What frustrates me the most about being a short guy is that my cock is probably not as big as that of a tall guy. At 5'7 ~ 5'8 (nurses can't seem to make up their mind whenever I go for a check up) I'm almost certain my 7.2 inch "tool," will disappoint a future partner. Folks online tell me to use my mouth and fingers instead, but in our culture, that's a no-no. During what was supposed to be my first hook up, I offered to eat out one lady before we began and she stormed out on me... IDK what I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 10:33 AM
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Oh, he is a real piece of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:50 PM
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Asked a womanizer why he does it and he said it's fun. Even the fall outs are fun. He recalls masturbating while a woman yelled at him through the phone for cheating on her with her bestie and also having rough sex with another woman who came to confront him about impregnating her and then ghosting her. How on earth do you get that good at manipulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:43 PM
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30
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:49 PM
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Went to a red-light district to see if I could see a hooker who could take my v-card. I got as far actually looking spotting one I really liked, a short and chubby girl that was looking at her phone when I was walking through. Just as I was gathering the courage to ask what her rates were she looked at me, gave me the up-down look, smirked and went back to her phone. At that point I chickened out and took myself home because I had just proved that I am a bigger pussy than the one that was betwee…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:33 AM
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Lady invited me to her Youth night church meeting last night. While I was there, the preacher told a story of how a woman she knew had been complaining about her husband leaving his shoes by the door whenever he'd enter the house. When word got to him, the next day he came home, he found her by the sink doing dishes. He walked over to her, placed both his hands on her waist, kissed her on the neck and whispered, "I really don't know where I'd be if God hadn't sent you to me. I love you so much, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:32 AM
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The assumption is that no woman over 30 is looking to hookup, so chances are he's resorted to manipulation, coercion and/or deception. Therefore it would be better for him to just be upfront than use any of the above....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 02:01 PM
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"At 30, you looking to hookup is simply embarrassing. If you haven't yet married, just find a hooker." - 40 year old workmate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 01:51 PM
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Yeah. Ned would have performed far, far, far worse in a post #metoo/COVID society...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:06 PM
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Lol..."If I was a man, I'd be a hit with women." Evidently not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 10:22 AM
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<image> Source: "Self-Made Man: One Woman’s Year Disguised as a Man" by Norah Vincent This chapter is proving to be one of the most interesting in the whole book...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:54 AM
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<image> Source: Men Chase, Women Choose by Dawn Maslar Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:48 PM
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But I'm not sexy.... Women themselves have said so
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 01:48 PM
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Q4W: What is it with y'all and music? I did rendition of "So Into You" by Tamia in front of about 100 people. I was playing the piano while singing the words and after the show was over I had like 10-12 ladies giving me their numbers...This has never happened to me before. Is this unique? This is the version I played...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:41 AM
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Unless he's married he could easily cut off his financial support and give it to a more grateful recipient....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 08:51 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 08:50 PM
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I agree, but it's really difficult, dare I say; impossible for some guys to ignite that level of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 08:49 PM
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Agreed...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 08:47 PM
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Q4A: What exactly is wrong with a lady dating/marrying a guy because of the material lifestyle he can provide her? According to the literature (and personal experience) women find an overwhelming majority of men physically unremarkable. Since using looks is out of the question and personality is a trickier thing to improve, a man must use any tool at his disposal to attract a gf/wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 08:28 PM
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Someone please explain club hookups to me. Never been to one and so a little surprised how at just that particular location, women are fine with going home and banging a complete stranger.....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:44 PM
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I think I may be obsessed with boobs. I've seen so many and yet a lovely succulent pair can still grab my attention...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:20 AM
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And why would simply stating you have preference for virgins qualify as jerkish behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:36 AM
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Both Well tbh, my virginity didn't bother me until I seriously started dating in my mid-20s. I discovered that most women tend to view a man in his mid to late 20s with no sexual experience as highly suspicious. This is by no means universal; I have found that religious women are a bit more accommodating of such a predicament but given that I left that space, it makes the process harder. I think my wife's virginity would only bother me if it'll be a potential source of conflict. Taking a page fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:33 AM
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I thought preferences were designed to guide the dating process? Not imposing them on someone I've met...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:59 PM
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I was raised religious but walked away from it in my early 20s as I was wrapping up college. So it defo contributed does it bother you or do you value different things? Does me being a virgin bother me or does my future wife's virginity bother me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:55 PM
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As an elderly male virgin (30 M), I ask myself what I'd do if I found myself a wife like Jasleen Singh? I don't think I am secure enough to listen to how my sweetie-pie used to pop her pussy back in college and actually misses it sometimes. And yet if I state, that because of that, I have a preference for virgins, that means I just hate women... I guess dating is just off the table for me...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:40 PM
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If you mean PUA? It never worked. What then, in your assessment, is the cause of the success of guys like Neil Strauss? I don't see how it could just be numbers and flirting....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:29 PM
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That's what I thought as well
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:27 PM
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Elaborate...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:21 PM
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Q4M: Do you think pick-up still works in the modern era or has exposure neutralized their tactics?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 01:05 PM
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As an elderly virgin, one of my biggest insecurities is that my dick might be too small. It's always been my fantasy to have her say "Easy there," instead of "Go deeper" when I'm all the way in. Do you think an escort would provide me with a review?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 08:09 PM
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I see
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:45 PM
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Yeah... about three times, I think
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:44 PM
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Alright. Next time I see her, I'll ask if I can smash...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:07 PM
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I know. The only other choice I have is singleness and boy is that worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:50 PM
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Wow....I thought this was normal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:35 PM
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I was thinking about that too but since I'm new to this whole romance thing, I thought spending on women was an obligation.....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:33 PM
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Not a dry panty around you, I see....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:31 PM
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Yes. Since I'm a 30 y/o vrigin, I need to do what I need to to keep my dating pool large...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:30 PM
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Q4M: When does a woman become a Gold digger? A woman I've been speaking to for a month asked me for grocery money last week and then money for hair this week.... I'm beginning to get suspicious but maybe I'm just stingy....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:39 PM
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<image> Well, shit...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:13 PM
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I used to believe lifestyle had a greater impact on attractiveness til I met my roommate. The man smokes 2 packs of Marlboro black a day, eats almost no veggies and smokes weed every Friday night. Whenever we head to the city to hit the nightclubs on the weekend, he will pull woman almost every time. Sometimes he doesn't even need to talk. A few looks and women find themselves by our table....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:42 PM
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Q4M: What should a man know if he wants to date a single mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:57 PM
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I see
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 01:19 PM
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I guess, it's time to quit the gym and load up on junk food, because with this level of horniness, it's just a matter of time until I do something spectacularly stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 01:17 PM
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>Shit sucks, a strong libido makes me feel alive. Wow, I feel the exact opposite. The urge is bothersome, distracting and exhausting. Actually spoke with a doctor about castration but he talked me out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 01:16 PM
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IKR? If gender wars weren't so intense, I would have definitely spoken to her....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 01:09 PM
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Shit! So this is my ball and chain for life?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:21 PM
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People say I'm fat...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:21 PM
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Q4M: At what age does libido decrease. I ask because I'm 30 and it is still pretty high. I saw a lovely woman at the grocery store this morning and can't stop thinking about how fantastic her booty looked in her sundress.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:58 PM
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Older secretary at a work dinner drunkenly told me my permanent scowl scares a lot of women away. Explains a lot, tbh. I could never understand why I was so, so, so much worse than my mates at cold approaching women...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:06 PM
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Was this going to be a first date? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 03:46 AM
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I guess...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:22 PM
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Perhaps but some of my friends smash on the first date. To think that she didn't even show up? Maybe there's something I'm not doing correctly....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:17 PM
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Thanks man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:15 PM
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It's truly incredible
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:42 PM
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My confidence has already been wounded, I'm afraid it'll tank further. I'll just ask for a dogbox and take my frustrated ass back home...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:42 PM
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Oh she didn't pick up, she let it ring and then texted me with that....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:41 PM
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Thanks, stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:40 PM
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Seconded
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:58 PM
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Alone Friday night at a restaurant. Just been stood up by a lady I was supposed to meet for a date. 1 hour ago, she told me she was 10 mins away. When I tried to call her 15 mins ago, she texts, "Sorry, I didn't tell you. I'm not going to make it tonight because I have to get some work done." Thank Zeus that I chose the seats close to the corner where few people can see me. I thought these games would have ended in our 30s but here we are.....smh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:57 PM
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42,000 minutes listening to music this year. Considering I had no earbuds for a month, I think it's reasonable. Gotta pump those numbers up next year
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:12 PM
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Meh, still "better," than me...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 07:55 PM
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Lucky you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:06 PM
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This might be a good one, if it doesn't get her mad...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:43 PM
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Shit. Back to finding another lady...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:41 PM
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Nope. I did spot a few tatoos, though....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:40 PM
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I don't think that'll work. She just bought herself a new car while I am nowhere near affording one, even with financing....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:40 PM
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What do you say to woman that tells you; "You don't look like you could handle a successful woman."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:06 PM
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I mean, I can eat your pussy too if that's what you really want. I'll even lick the bumhole while I'm down there. It's no problem, cupcake...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:39 PM
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When used on males, these drugs can reduce sex drive, sexual fantasies, and capacity for sexual arousal. Life-threatening side effects are rare, but some users show increases in body fat and reduced bone density, which increase long-term risk of cardiovascular disease and osteoporosis, respectively. Doesn't seem too risky. I'll check my options with my GP.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:15 PM
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Dear Women, Having high libido is torture. Believe me, if there was some way I could avoid being obsessed with you, I would. But as a heterosexual male, the moment I hear you talk and laugh, I'm weak. That soft skin, those graceful movements and those curves are genuinely disteacting. The effect is even more devastating when we talk about bums and boobs. I really wish there was some off switch but to this day, I can't find one. Ol' Ben Franklin said he couldn't find one either, so I guess it's a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:55 AM
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Lol....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:17 PM
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I actually think she still has feelings for him because part of the story included a part where later, he cornered her at a friends memorial and in her words "tried to sweet talk me into sex." According to her, he kept telling her how most nights he sleeps poorly thinking of what he did to her and how the other beach wasn't s*****t (e.g. She messed up his TV during an argument and doesn't provide the same level of support.) I really like her, but get the feeling she's not over him. If telenovela…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:17 PM
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Just got off a phone call where a lady I met via Insta spent 45 mins talking about how her previous relationship flopped. She said she caught him with another woman in the apartment she rented for him. At that point, I realised I'm not as handsome as I thought. Well, at least she doesn't hate men....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:59 PM
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An older lady I saw last night said a man that masturbates is an ick. She said it was better to use escorts than engage in such a beastly act. At least then you are using it as it was meant to be used.... I think I'm cooked, chat...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:47 PM
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Woman just told me all real men are chasers and viciously pursue the women they like. I guess I need to start buying tampons. What brand do you recommend?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:59 PM
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I think it would depend. If I'm attracted to her, she's my honeybunch-sugar plum now. If not, business as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:11 AM
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Q4W: Do you love flowers? My married male friends say it's really strange how powerful flowers are on women...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:08 AM
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Something like this has actually happened to me. Lady asked one of my work associates if I was married/engaged and if not whether I was open to "checking her out." My reaction: I was a little surprised and suspicious because she already had so many guys chasing her - some of whom I knew personally. Given that some of there guys were admitedly more impressive than me (e.g. Richer, taller, more ripped) I was sure this was just some kind of setup...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:57 AM
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Calorie counting is so exhausting. Also, why the fuck is protein so expensive! I was told I needed about 90 grams of protein per day to start packing muscle. Without supplements, hitting that goal daily is expensive. I guess having a toned body is a status symbol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:51 AM
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Met with the director of compliance of our institution today. He asked why I am usually quiet and I told him I prefer to only speak when I have something to say, not speak because I have to say something. His reply? "Spoken like a true virgin. Hey, good luck finding a wife like that." Everyone in the vicinity - including the ladies - laughed. I'm beginning to think he may have had a point. Talkative guys like him seem to have no issues finding wives....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:28 PM
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I think I may toss out my lifelong committment to sobriety in order to begin frequenting drinking spots. It's incredible how many business, career and even romantic relationships a poison like liqour is able to spawn. I feel like I am handicapping myself professionally and romantically by not going to bars, pubs and clubs.... What type of liquor should a newbie start with? I was told stay away from gin, whiskey and brandy until you're a seasoned drinker.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:31 PM
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...And yet, it is still an "ick." At least most women I've interracted with seem to think so....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:45 PM
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Walked through a red light district again last night in hope of finally getting rid of my virginity. I saw the ladies on the street dressed in their racy outfits but I just couldn't bring myself to go through with it. I kept feeling someone might be watching me and blow my cover. I'm going to have to figure out a way to lose it because it's almost like a facial scar to a man in his 30s...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:30 PM
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Yet, that's where I want to be...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:45 PM
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Even if it consumes me?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:44 PM
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It could be....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:43 PM
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As a black, heterosexual male, I sometimes think that my insatiable fascination with womens buttocks will lead me to very, very dark places....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:54 PM
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7 might be hitting on you I thought so too, until I heard from elsewhere she was engaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:36 PM
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1. Someone likes gold diggers It was a heterosexual lady that said it, which us why it surprised me. 8. Always smile more. I look ridiculous when I smile....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:33 PM
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Ah, so it is something that people actually do....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:30 PM
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I'm in sub-saharan Africa. We have very different standards when it comes to HR
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:19 PM
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Areu Indian by any chance? Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:37 PM
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I am the youngest guy at the office and still yet to marry. Because of that, many older guys (& women) feel the need to give me life advice. Here are some of the relationship tidbits people at the office have given me so far: Women will find it difficult to think straight if they believe you have money. A loose hand on a guy is like a mini skirt on a lady - 41 y/o lady If your wife wants to upgrade, get her pregnant first. Women have an unfortunate tendency of leaving men who helped them "build.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:09 PM
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We have none, in my locality...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 07:56 PM
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Ran past a topless woman during my early morning jog. She was also jogging and probably took advantage of our neighbourhoof being deserted on Sunday morning. She must have been in her late 30s/early 40s because they looked like they were just beginning to droop. She had large areolas, too.... To think that's the closest I've come to fully bare titties since I was breastfed speaks volumes....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 07:51 PM
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Imagine what it's like for me at 30. Pro-tip: Never reveal it to women unless they ask. IME, they get less accomodating the older you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 07:41 PM
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Oh, thank heaven's for that. After what I've read about clitoral stimulation and orgasms, oral sex is something I want to get really good at giving....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 11:08 AM
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i haven't met a woman who will look down on you (metaphorically speaking lol) I see what you did there....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:59 AM
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Really? That's comforting. Given what I've read, a clitoral orgasm is something I would love to give a woman. More so if I can learn to do it with my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:54 AM
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Why do you disagree with the author?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:49 AM
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A combination of being ugly, introverted, shy and brought up religious. At this point, I've resolved that seeing a hooker will be the best way to get rid of my virginity....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:34 AM
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Was reading a Pick Up Manual and the author says eating pussy is one of the worst things you can do as a man because, "it gives a woman too much validation which will make her look down on you." As a 30 y/o male hetero virgin, eating pussy is one thing I've been really itching to do, yet here I am being told women will disrespect me if I feast on them.....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:28 AM
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Doubt it .
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:39 PM
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So apparently Gen Z is partying less than other generations and that is aggravating the sex rececession we are currently going through.....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:31 PM
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By longer, I meant the skill floor is low and the ceiling is really high. It doesn't take much for you to be an amatuer but to start playing the most interesting pieces by Liszt and Ravel requires at least a decade of practice.....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:49 AM
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That's what I meant by longer learning curve... Easy to become an amateur but it'll take at least a decade until you are playing stuff like La Campanella, Jeux D'eau and L'Isle Joyeuse....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:44 AM
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CMV: Piano has a longer learning curve than guitar.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 04:54 AM
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Brave
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 09:10 AM
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Some guy at work just won $300 by betting on a Chelsea win. He seems adamant that gambling is his way to financial freedom. With wins like these, it's hard to convince him otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 08:23 AM
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I seem to be noticing a trend and wish to find out if it is unique. When a lady is asked what works for her in bed, majority of the time she never seems to give a straight answer. I've even heard of some women that get mad when you try to probe too deeply. Guys, that are "good" say they just ask women to send them masturbation videos in order to work out what they might like. How on earth do you close the orgasm gap when the party behind doesn't seem willing to help close it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 09:46 AM
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CMV: Brawns beat Brains even in attraction....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 05:58 PM
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So one of our coworkers got pregnant out of wedlock. In Sub-Saharan Africa, that's a big deal (People no longer ostracize such women, but it does raise a few eyebrows.) Another female coworker told me one of the senior managers is responsible for the baby. I strongly suspect that this rumor is a smear campaign, but I often wonder how women are able to gather such information?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:46 PM
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That seems unsatisfactory....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:35 AM
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Humanity is dominated by tenors, like 80% of men are tenors. That makes this all the more baffling, particularly from a business point of view. You have a rare comodity, that is easily defensible (Without computer tricks, hard to lower the vocal register) and highly sought after. If women enjoy deep voices, we should see an overrepresentation of deeper male voices in RnB, much like we see an overrepresentation of busty women in pornography....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:51 PM
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If the majority of women enjoy listening to men with deep voices, why is RnB, a music genre heavily consumed by women dominated by tenors?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:00 PM
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A guy at the office tried setting me up with a lady from one of our suppliers. She said something like, "Eish! A man that dark? My poor, poor kids." I thought women were the emotionally intelligent ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:44 AM
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Well, a lot of ladies I've spoken to have said men are too preoccupied with their bodies to even notice their other qualities. Here's me trying to be different and it is going horrribly. Congrats on the great performamce at college.....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 03:11 PM
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Awful. It seems to be a sensitive spot for a lot of women.....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:52 PM
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Lately I've been asking ladies to bring their college transcripts to second dates because a lady with bad college grades...ICK! I want smart, hard-working babies sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:15 AM
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Would sleeping with hookers be a good way to learn the mechanics of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:15 PM
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29 and still have it. If it's not gone by the time I'm 30, I'll probably just get castrated because I have failed to use those nuts....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:43 AM
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Either the dry spell is getting to me or women are so beautiful it's shocking... Shame they don't like men, though.. .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:37 AM
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A fault happened in a location that lies outside my assigned locations. At the time the fault happened, I was the closest to it, so I just reported it to our boss and went back to my base. When the boss arrived, he first dealt with the issue and then came to my office to yell at me for not being proactive or taking initiative. My line of thinking was that I didn't want to be getting in another person's lane. I feel so, so humiliated that it happened infront of one of the most beautiful women I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:55 PM
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I'm not a sub, though....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:40 PM
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Boss blasted me in front of my workplace crush yesterday. I feel so castrated that I haven't been able to make eye contact with her since she saw me get dressed down. There go my chances, I guess.....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:25 PM
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CMV: Men are the more emotional sex....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:28 AM
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Alright so this is the 3rd womann to tell me I have a sultry voice. Interesting because I feel sick whenever I hear recordings of myself. You're telling me that gives you butterflies? Women are wierd, bro....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:20 PM
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What do boobs feel like? I just realised that I have probably not grabbed one since I was breastfed. Just a bump here and a nudge there...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:14 PM
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Does baking some cupcakes for a lady make you a simp? I don't know how she feels about me but I really like her. I get the feeling this might just be a futile attempt to attract a woman that sees me as nothing more than a "nice guy," who's a friend....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:16 AM
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Please don't bleach your skin. But I really want a girlfriend and it's the ladies themselves that told me them (and most of their lady friends) prefer light-skinned men.....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:54 AM
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Thanks, stranger...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:30 PM
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But if that is truly what YOU want to do I just want a girlfriend. If bleaching is what I have to do to find her, so be it....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:25 PM
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But the ladies I spoke to said that light skin is what most women like (e.g. Chris Brown, Michael B Jordan, Michael Ealy, Drake.) I have Akon's skin tone. No bueno
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:51 PM
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I might not even use the balls at the current rate I'm going....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:54 PM
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You really think so?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:49 PM
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Why would you even want to? Because I am currently not getting any results. Would you be happy with a girl who you knew would've rejected you had you not done these things? I don't think I would mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:32 PM
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Most of my friends that claim to have done so turned out just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:30 PM
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Are you active on social media? Nope. I have accounts but I never use them. I'd advise more to breed more social media presence, upload clips of your music there (in addition to more stuff). If you're savvy, you can kinda use social media as pretty much kind of a dating app You're right. I was told Insta is a lot more powerful than any dating app if you are strategic about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:29 PM
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After speaking with 12 ladies between the ages of (23 & 38) I have compiled my self-improvement list for a girlfriend; 1. Lose weight: Caliper test says I'm around 24%. Most ladies say I'll look nice if I can get it below the 20%~17% point. They've said I shouldn't go past 15% because I'll lose my baby face which they say is "so, so, cute." 2. Continue Weights and Expt with Steroids: If I cannot get anymore muscle definition by end of this year, I hope to start experimenting with steroids. 3. Bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:00 AM
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Would you recommend a guy with a high libido get married? Especially given the discrepancy between the average human male and female libido?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:52 PM
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LinkedIn is having a field day with this....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:49 PM
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Been reading a lot of medieval "mirrors of princes," literature (Before self-help became a thing.) and many tracts state that Women are particularly prone to flattery. I find this strange because most women just roll their eyes at me when I give them compliments?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:37 PM
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What do you do when someone is telling you their experience, but you cannot relate because you're not as impetuous as them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 10:23 AM
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Lucky you....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:40 PM
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That's the ideal, however, it can be difficult to pull off in an environment in which adults push you into going all in on school....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:39 PM
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People are not as forgiving at this age, I find...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:30 PM
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My cousin - the dark gray sheep of the family - said it's good I chose to remain a virgin throughout highschool and college. I disagree, telling him that he learned how flirt in his teens, lost his virginity at 15 and hence has had no problem attracting a woman that became his wife. I have not had the chance to develop such skills. He countered saying, the problem with that is that if you start that early, you have no self-control and it becomes something you want to do all the time. He said the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 04:04 PM
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IME, most men seem to overestimate the attractive power musical talent will give them. I'd say you'd have better odds as an athlete....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:16 PM
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Does it work?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:59 PM
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A friend of mine told me, since finding a date for guys is a numbers game, always be flirting. It's the only way you can determine which lady might be open to giving you a chance. Any lady you would consider dating, be sure to flirt with every now and then...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:26 PM
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CMV: Brawn > Brains. It is better to have average intelligence and a physique of an MMA fighter than have Stephen Hawking level intelligence with an average body....This is more true in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:55 PM
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My friend bought her chocolates and cooked for her on their second date and she told her friends he's a simp. What should a guy do to in the modern era?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 12:02 PM
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Yeah....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:50 AM
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I remember when I was in 8th grade, the 10th graders invited an 8th grader over for a soccer game just so they could injure him. They succeeded and broke his arm and he needed to be out of school for 2 weeks. They called it "initiation." Always wonder what I'd do if I was to meet to one of those 10th graders in person today....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:22 AM
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That doesn't sound fun....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 07:25 PM
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I think that might be helpful....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 07:24 PM
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I agree with the poison bit, but some tell me the memories it gives are worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:05 PM
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I have never been drunk. Freinds ask me how manage to resist the urge. Was never curious enough. What am I missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 05:51 PM
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Do you chew with your mouth open? Loudly? Or sloppily? Nope. At least, I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 06:13 PM
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Doubt it...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 06:11 PM
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I swear to the spaghetti monster, I don't know what to believe anymore! In college, a woman once shifted her seat away from me at lunch because she said she could not look at my face as she was eating or she'd be sick. So I concluded I was ugly. Fast forward to now and as I was waiting for my boss in his office, his secretary seemed genuinely shocked when I told her I was not married. To quote her exactly, she said, "Why is a handsome guy like you unmarried?" to which another lady passing by chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 01:42 PM
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I do... Am I not supposed to?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:47 PM
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Others say I'll just become an emotional tampon like that....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:05 PM
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Sometimes I think I wouldn't make a good boyfriend. Just got done with a 1 hr 45 min phone call with a female friend and at the end she complained that I don't tell her stories and that she does most of the talking in our friendship. I guess I need to become a talker to impress more women....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 11:36 AM
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I'm pushing 30, fam...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:51 AM
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Why is it so controversial for me as a guy to say I want to marry a virgin? I have been rejected because I've been too chubby, too dark, too short, too broke and too "boring." Yet whenever I tell people like some of my female friends or women on apps that I don't want a woman with a "colourful past," I get attacked for being an incel. Doesn't it make sense that I as a virgin should team up with a fellow virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:36 AM
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If women love deep voices, why are most of the best selling male rnb artists tenors?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 07:18 PM
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I asked a female friend for advice on what I could do to become handsome and among the thinga she told me were cut your beard, buy better clothes and bleach my skin. Now I know I'm dark even by African standards, but I didn't think it was something that was this unpopular. Is there any way to pull this off safely?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:46 PM
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A dollar, dollar bill, y'all!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:01 PM
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My sweet, romantic ass is cooked...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:36 AM
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It's like I have the genetic predisposition to simp for women. Saw a gorgeous, chubby lady at the store last night and all I could think of was how to make her life easier (e.g. I was a hair breadth close to asking if I could help her carry her bags.) I didn't do it because, you do not approach women in the parking lot. I pray the women I speak to don't discover this weakness because I can bet they will just abuse me.....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:08 AM
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It all seemed too good to be true....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:23 AM
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I will, as soon as I grow some balls...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:12 PM
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You really think so?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:12 PM
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That's the one that shook me a little bit...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:55 PM
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So my workmate tells me a really pretty lady in a foreign team visiting us was trying to flirt with me. The incidents highlighted to me were; Apparently she "stared" at my chest when I took my jumper/sweater off. When she offered her number, I told her I already had it to which she replied, "Yet, you never call," and gave a sad puppy face for a second. She kept trying to ask me questions about my personal life during tea break. She said I should consider a second job in radio because I had the v…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:47 PM
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We had a team of engineers from Japan come and walk us through semi-conductor design. Whatever these guys are doing with their education, it's working. 25 y/o engineer knew more than our 40 y/o team lead....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 04:00 PM
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He claims not....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:45 PM
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He does...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:36 PM
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I would like to say something but it might rub badly on some people DM. They are more lustful than romantic Still doesn't address the point. The point is compared to prostitution and porn, romance novels are a far smaller industry. If their drive was as high, why don't we see women spending substantial amounts of money on it....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:22 PM
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I'm arguing with someone and he tells me women are boderline asexual and almost always need to be coerced into sexual activity. He has mentioned some of the following points; Frequency of masturbation for women is almost always consistently lower than that of men. Lesbian bed death. Though exaggerated, the frequency of sexual activity in gay couples is higher than that of lesbian couples. You almost never hear of sexual abuse scandals that come from nunneries. If their drive was as strong as tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:32 AM
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So why was she hesitant at first?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:18 PM
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Wait, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:47 PM
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I've said before and I'll say it again because I find it baffling. How some of the worst misogynists I know are also rabid womanizers. One guy at work was just making fun of the fact he convinced a 25 y/o Catholic lady that anal didn't count as sex and so he got to butt fuck her....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:37 PM
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Sounds more like a porn plot....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:07 AM
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How exactly do bar hookups work? Do I just approach a table full of ladies? Then what? I ask them to leave? I don't drink so it's something I've never really seen happen...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:49 AM
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a common complaint women have is men yap and don't ask questions Giving a lady the lions share of talking time has been my modus operandi for dates and every single woman has still complained about it. Apparently I ask too many questions and they want me to lead the convo by telling interesting convos the way a man should...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:03 PM
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CMV: Listening is an overrated trait to have during the attraction phase. It is better to overwhelm your potential partner with words....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 01:53 PM
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Either ways it’s delusional to think you need an MCU body to be considered fit or hot. Way less than that With what social media has done to society? I have heard women call Henry Cavill's physique on a beach holiday a dad bod... If your face is not good, you need to be Anime level ripped...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 09:36 AM
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Been lifting for 1 and a half years, and I can finally see definition that wasn't there when I started. However, if I'm to attract modern women, I need to look like I'm from the MCU, and I'm not there yet. Really considering steroids to quicken the process of muscle building.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:23 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 11:50 AM
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"Dominance bro. You just have to be confident and dominant. Women can sense fear and nervousness from a mile away and it dries their panties up." Workmate when he heard I'm nearly 30 and have no ladies I'm currently talking to.....He's married, so maybe he knows what he's talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:05 PM
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Whenever married women at work talk about their sex lives, they make it seem like sex for them is a chore. Shouldn't you be happy that the man you claim to love wants to sleep with you a minimum of once a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 08:22 AM
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Do you contend that they are less free?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:14 PM
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not enough people can afford polygamy. I don't believe that would really be a factor. If we take historical record as a guide, the amount of men that can pull it off has always been few. Yet in many societies, it continued up until globalisation happened. I think that the men that can pull it off will happily do so, while the rest either settle for partners that were not their first choice or live in singlehood. All the same, monogamy will lose it's position as the default.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:12 PM
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CMV: Polygamy is the future. Since women are increasingly free to pick whoever they want and are no longer coerced into relationships with men they aren't really attracted to, the clustering phenomenon we usually see on dating apps will become more exacerbated. Hence women will choose to share the limited amount of chads available...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:40 PM
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What is your definition of "messed up?"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:19 PM
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Back when I was 19/20 years a fantasy a lot of guys in my circle had was hooking up with an older woman (e.g. +5 years older.) Only 1 guy actually pulled it off. He was 19, she claimed 26.... In my late 20s, I ask myself how he did it because even women 2 years older than me say the age gap is too much and they need someone on, "their level."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:50 PM
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An unmarried lady at work that claims to be a a Jehovah's Witness Christian has recently been spotted with a baby bump. Everyone is curious as to who the father is because you need to have playoff level game to talk those kinds of girls past the guilt of banging outside of wedlock....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:16 PM
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I used to think I did, til I discovered that I'm just incompetent...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:57 PM
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I sometimes envy narcissists. Career progression has to be so much easier if you enjoy being the centre of attention and shamelessly put yourself in front of anyone that will listen....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:00 PM
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The fact that word incel is used as a slur is indicative that a man's worth is based on the amount of women he attracts (or can attract.)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:04 AM
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I wish I was a narcissist. Climbing the corporate ladder is a lot easier when you love hogging the spotlight.... And promotions come with bigger salaries...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:34 AM
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Thanks for informing us, sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:40 PM
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So I hear...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:12 PM
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I really wanted to travel to the USA next year to watch the World Cup. If I am successfull, it would be my first visit to the land of the free... Being an African, I'll need divine intervation when it comes to Visas....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:31 PM
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Eish...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:10 AM
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Tbh, idk...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:04 PM
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Shit...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:54 PM
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Yep...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:53 PM
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You act like a last born...What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:07 PM
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Diogenes would have a wank in public...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 09:02 PM
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Also look at this dudes profile at your own fuckin risk lmao Scary stuff, ey?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 08:46 PM
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Been reading about Diogenes, the Cynic. I wonder what it takes to have that level of confidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 07:57 PM
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Just looked at a group pic at work and I am legit the ugliest guy in the pic. As in the ugliest one.... It was incredible...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:10 PM
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Maybe just a preference
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:40 PM
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Yeah...Strange since we're both black...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:40 PM
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"You sound like you'd be a very good father. I would have made you my hubby if you weren't so dark." Compliment or Insult?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:35 PM
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In a hotel room and I'm pretty sure the people in the next room are having rough sex. They've been at it for 45 mins. I hope that girl can walk tommorrow...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:08 PM
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An AmericanPope. To think that only 60 years ago, the pope making his first visit to the US was seen as such a controversial issue....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:01 PM
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It's surreal, bruh...I have no idea if she meant for me to see or she's just that, "reckless."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 04:49 PM
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My boss's secretary bent over right in me and yes I saw her panties.... I'm still recovering...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:41 PM
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Was it a cold approach? Yes. We had exchanged glances a few minutes earlier, and then she just approached me when I was alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:42 PM
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How should a man behave when approached by a gorgeous woman? A pretty woman approached me and I later heard her tell her friends I was mean to her. I don't really understand because this was my first time meeting her, I was as professional and stoic as I could possibly be.....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:07 PM
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Since prostitution is a no-no, what should you do if you're horny but not lonely?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:01 PM
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My mates tell me I will probably have a mid-life crisis because I focused too much on school and work in my 20s. They say soon I will realise that since I never got the chance to experiment with drugs, sex and worldviews, I'll probably end up trying to make up for it in my mid-30s and ruin my life..... I hope they're wrong, but what causes a mid-life crisis...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:09 PM
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She was just being nice, cuz...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:05 PM
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So an old associate told me that some people are unable to have "normal," relationships because of the immense hedonism they experienced back uni. He told me of a guy we knew who actually banged 2 prostitutes on his wedding anniversary because he missed the threesomes he used to pull-off in uni (The anniversary came while he was out on business but stories leak) Do you think he's right & that not having had hookups might be a good thing for people seeking LTRs?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:32 PM
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"Trying to be a playboy at 30? You're silly." - Workmate's IG. I suspect that she's complaining about her baby daddy. At what age should men stop pursuing casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:51 AM
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Wait til you hear Mobutu's full name...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:40 AM
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Neighbour said she saw me take off my dress shirt and put on a worksuit as I was preparing to do some yard work. I was wearing a compression shirt and thought no one would really notice, but she said she could see my, "muscular" chest from where she was sitting. So this is what it feels like to be objectified? I think I like it...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:26 PM
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Why do some women see a man that, "sees," prostitutes as rapey?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:03 PM
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IDK. I would like to try but most reject me...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:55 PM
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I don't know either. Maybe my clothes look cheap or it's cause I have to share the house to make rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:54 PM
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I guess...but my God was she pretty!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:21 PM
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Last night, my housemate came home with one of the cutest women I've seen in a while. She's a junior associate and is currently single. I decided to grow a pair and ask if she was open to going on a date with me to which she replied, "you don't look like you could handle a woman with her own money." Ouch!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:59 AM
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The quiet church girl got pregnant in her first year at uni while the party girl finished her degree as a virgin and is now getting married... Funny when what you've been told about the world ends up being proven false..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 08:06 PM
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No way am I doing that...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:20 PM
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My cousin's boss came to stay in my house for 2 nights because he offered me $200 a night. Yesterday, he stepped out at 6PM and only came back at 2 AM with a lady that wore some rather peculiar outfits.... I think I'll have to buy scrubs, goggles and masks when it's time to clean up that room...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:13 PM
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"Men are the chasers. If he doesn't make an effort to get my attention, then he simply doesn't want me." - 28 y/o lady yelling at me after I didn't text her for 4 days. I swear to Jupiter, I may not be cut out for this girlfriend-boyfroend schtick.....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 09:05 PM
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Yeah. Marination does the trick....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 08:37 PM
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Feels so good to finally have that load off my chest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 08:05 PM
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Of late, I just want to feast on a sweaty, bushy pussy. I keep imagining how lovely it would be to ambush my lady right after she comes back from her evening jog and taste how hard she pushed herself...Yum!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:51 PM
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So my housemate's girlfriend decided to reconcile with him after he did this to her. Incredible what you can get away with when you are good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:46 AM
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Not on these apps anymore as swiping is a huge time sink but IIRC: Profile: 29, College Educated (BSc. Engineering Physics), 5'7, about 22% Body Fat (pretty chubby). Most pics were selfie pics and pics of me cooking Over the course of 3 Months, I received 35 matches. Of those 35; • 13 did not even respond to a hello text. • 12 were quite unresponsive and so the convo went nowhere • 2 were pretty obvious scams (i.e. Send me some money and I'll email you nudes.) • Only 8 were ladies I would say I …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:09 PM
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I'm not sure what would you be trying to achieve with this. Parity in school performance...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:19 AM
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CMV: Boys should start school a year later than girls because cognitively, they mature slower. This is evident in sex differences in school performance rates when compared across age cohorts...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:18 AM
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You disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:20 PM
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On to the next girl. And the event that there is non?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:15 PM
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I guess...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:06 PM
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Last month, I met a girl and we got to texting and chatting. However, I noticed that it was always me calling or texting her first. Eventually, I ease off thinking the feeling was not mutual. I call her after a 2 week hiatus and she unloads a barage of complaints calling me a ghoster and emotionally unavailable. I felt attacked and asked why she didn't reach out to which she replied, "real men always take initiative. I shouldn't have ask." She's since been ignoring my calls and texts. I feel bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:34 PM
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How do guys even end up attracting "gold diggers?" Being a spend thrift?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:46 PM
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incredibly dangerous Dangerous? Yes. Incredibly? Meh. Not really. excruciatingly painful Yeah, but the benefits...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:49 PM
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“pain that will last for the rest of your life Exaggeration...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:47 PM
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I disagree. If survival and reproduction are the 2 metrics by which evolutionary success is measured, then anything that aids in acheiving those 2 outcomes should be seen as a net benefit. Adding more height is possibly one of the most effective means to improve reproductive success...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:44 PM
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Lillith of Babylon
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:35 PM
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Unpopular Opinion: As a single guy, there's nothing wrong with getting leg-lengthening surgery. This is especially true if your default means of meeting people is using OLD apps...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:35 PM
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Precisely. Which is why I say it's effects are greatly overstated by misogynists
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:41 PM
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Just finished chatting with a friend whose parents divorced after 35 years in marriage. His mom found a new husband 2 months after the divorce was finalized (Friend says he suspects they started while she was still on seperation.) His dad seems to be slipping into Nihilism. The effect of "the wall," is greatly overstated. Women always have the upperhand in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:35 PM
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Very good analogy...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:55 AM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:55 AM
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Able to cook different dishes without a recipe Nope. Vanilla Cake and Pepperonni Pizza are all I have memorized. Able to balance multiple stove tops burners at once without fucking up Check. Adding subtle ingredients that make huge differences in flavor Check. Cooks something visually appealing Check Can do different cook styles Nope. Still bound by the recipe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:54 AM
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What is the criteria by which we judge someones ability to cook? When I say, I can cook, I mean I am able to follow a recipe and I know what the terms whisk, fold and saute mean. But I am not able to just dream of something delicious when someone dumps ingredients with me. Am I an imposter?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:12 AM
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A lady I met on OLD just called me a sweet-talker. Is that a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:45 PM
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Learn to act and then perform a role when around women. It may come off as over the top for some, but it's a lot better than being socially inept IMHO....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:17 AM
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I see
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:41 PM
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Q4RP: Would you say the following man is an HVM? 30 y/o 5'9 19% BF BSc. Applied Physics making $60,000 per year. Can play 3 instruments (Piano, Guitar and Drums) Virgin Writes for a news publication once a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:35 PM
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Been trying intermittent fasting for a month and getting severe headaches while doing it. Already ruled out hydration as I drink 50 oz of room temp water everyday... May have to try another weightloss strategy...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 07:06 PM
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How do you think a, "distractingly sexy," joke would fare in today's ideological climate? For those that haven't caught the reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:51 PM
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Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:21 AM
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Herpes is spread via skin, so condoms are not as effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:39 AM
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To those of you that use sex workers, aren't you afraid of catching herpes?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:31 AM
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Q4M: Is a chest tattoo on a woman a red flag?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:24 PM
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My dark skinned friend (he has Kenyan parents, so that's how dark we're talking) shared his OLD results before and after getting his skin bleached. The results were....sobering.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:02 PM
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I remember one time my lecturer in electromagnetics asked me to visit his office after getting 31% in his test. He did not grade on a curve and pass mark was set at 40% for all courses in my program. He looked at my script, took off his specs and told me, "Judging from your performance, I genuinely don't think you have what it takes to be an engineer." Looking at how mediocre I've been in my career so far, I sometimes think he was right. Maybe, I did just force the issue by becoming an engineer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 08:31 AM
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He was bi?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:18 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:05 PM
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Just heard my cousin scold her 15 y/o son for flirting with girls instead of concentrating in school. She found his tablet on the dinner table and he left his message app open. It was full some messages to girls at awkward times (Midnight, 1 AM, 2 AM) She then made the connection with a report from his teachers about how he always falls asleep during the last periods of school... I thought of telling her that at least he's not awkward and that she'll probably not have issues having grand kids...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 11:38 AM
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I'm sorry for your loss... Honestly, I hope for the best for him, but given his condition, Zeus knows where he'll end up...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 09:13 PM
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Well, his parents tried a scared straight style thing once (i.e. taking him to prison to see where he'll end up.) Didn't work...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 09:10 PM
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Psychopaths tend to be expert manipulators, I doubt most women stand a chance. It's great his not violent, else we would have another Ted Bundy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 09:06 PM
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With parents as rich as his? He'd have to maim someone first.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 09:03 PM
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My cousin got diagnosed with mild psychopathy. In retrospect, a ton of things make sense with this info. The guy seemed to attract chaos. He was a classroom menace all through grade school and was expelled from two schools. Once for an accident involving fireworks and then another for having sex with a fellow student in an empty chem lab. After we finished school, I tried to avoid him because as he grew, his stunts grew more extreme and dangerous (e.g. Having a relationship with a woman 12 years…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:55 PM
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I found this really strange coming from a woman...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:02 PM
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It's funny how my mother believes it's my fault she still doesn't have grandkids. I have provided her with plenty of evidence that shows I am not what most women are looking for yet she still pesters me to quicken the process. She suggests I maybe flash some more cash to show that "I actually have a future," or find a nice, sweet lady and "wear down her resolve." Safe to say my parents lived in a very different world from the one I'm living in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:56 PM
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Hypergamy is a social construct and a choice made by the person who opts for it. If it were inherent to human biology, then all individuals, regardless of culture, would have that biological need or instinct that drives them to choose a partner solely for their status or the money in their wallet. From personal experience and irrefutable logical reasons, this is not the case. Personal experience, you say? I think you'll have to do better than that in presenting your argument. There are rucksacks…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:43 AM
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Pays a lot better than the rest, though...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:36 PM
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I need to sit with this mentor of yours. He seems to know a lot...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:45 AM
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I see...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:03 AM
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Glad it worked out for you...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:01 AM
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Any regrets?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:54 AM
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I agree. I find a lot of STEM grads find this aspect of human life deeply frustrating. A lot have no idea how to sell themselves in an interview, sell their ideas to someone looking to fund a project or sell their products to customers. For them, quality should be it's own advert, whereas in reality, it's rarely enough...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:53 AM
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Biology is easy mode as far as STEM goes so it's good if you just want to spend 3-4 years fucking around. I used to hear this a lot but had my doubts. Just because it wasn't math heavy, it was probably difficult in other ways. Also Biology is one of the few STEM fields with more women than men (not that it helped me any). Lucky...My degree was a pure pencil fest (engineering physics for the curious.) Women were treated like deities by both students and professors (worked for a few guys but not m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:51 AM
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Wish the game wasn't designed like that but since it is, may as well play hard...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:24 AM
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CMV: STEM is wildly overrated. The effort required for most people is massive, the pay is usually disappointing (unless you're in software or high finance) and nearly everyone I know that went into those fields is either cynical, depressed or transitioning to more profitable fields like marketing, finance or sales. You are doing your kids a massive disservice if you encourage them to take it if they have no interest in doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:15 AM
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I think his only concern is, "are they with me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:16 AM
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Lol...Yep..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:14 AM
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I just heard about an old class mate of mine, 28 y/o that flew his girlfriend out to Bali for summer holiday but only joined her a week later because he had to stop off in 2 other towns to cheat on her with his baby mama and a young, nursing student he met on Instagram. Amazing the kinds of stunts money allows you to pull off...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 10:03 AM
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I feel evasion might have the same effect as saying yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:58 PM
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I think I said something like, "Well, I might just be a natural with the right partner." Didn't seem to do the trick...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:59 PM
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Thought as much. I keep getting gaslit about it...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:44 PM
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It is forward, I guess alcohol does do that to some women. Really I've come to a point where I feel I have to make an ethically dubious decision to get past this. Either I lie to them or I just try losing it to one of the exes/hookers my friend keeps pushing at me...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:43 PM
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So virginity is a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:38 PM
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They ask for it. Conversations wiIl usually go something like this; Her: (Finishes talking about how amazing/attrocious her ex was.) What were your exes like? Me: I don't have any. Her: oh, come on, you were at ****** University. You probably had a short situationship or fwb? Me: ****** was a crazy place but while I was there, I thought it wise to focus on building the foundation for my career. Her: You are such a liar. You probably crushed some girls heart to powder. Me: I swear, I haven't know…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:22 PM
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I am a virgin (29 M). While it didn't bother me originally, I did start to think about it a lot once women started dropping me based on that reason. It's gotten to the point where my male friends have tried setting me up with their relatives, exes or even hookers, telling me if I hold on to it longer, it'll sink my chances at romance completely...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:08 PM
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Not necessarily. I think most men would not mind her having previous boyfriends, provided the guys she dated previously have been in "nice guy" territory. Whereas this; >"Don't you want to wait for that girl (who is now ready to settle down)? Or do you want to be the douchebag that girls will hook up with on their way to find the nice guy?" Gives the suggestion that the lady knew from the start that those men were not any good and perhaps just wanted to have the pleasure of having been with them…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:23 PM
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Basically, now that she's 25 she is ready to settle down - she's ready for the nice guys, like her current boyfriend. THIS. This right here. To many men, this is not the definition of "winning."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:03 PM
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I swear reading the posts on this sub are a masterclass in gaslighting...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:01 PM
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It could be how you lead with it. It’s not as if a woman would think of that as a net positive or negative. I disagree strongly. It is the very quality of me being a virgin this late in my life that puts them off. For instance, if someone tells you on the first date, "You probably don't know about kissing or foreplay," then it definitely qualifies as a net negative. You are being taken in as you present yourself. I disagree with this claim as well but let us work on the premise that you are corr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:48 PM
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This is such a young person problem. Is it? I am a 29 y/o male virgin and have lost quite a few dates for that particular reason. It would seem to me that it actually gets worse as one gets older...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:43 AM
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I remember my housemate offering to take me to another town and pay for hookers to show me the ropes when he found out I was a virgin. I am beginning to understand his reasoning when I see posts like this...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:48 PM
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What difference would that make?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:37 PM
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Yet still she feels he might be deficient. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:28 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fydn0u/my_date_is_27_and_a_virgin_not_sure_how_to_feel Explain this without using the theory of pre-selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:18 PM
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Hear say
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:46 PM
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I think you'll need to clarify what you mean by usage, because membership is about 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:14 PM
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CMV: There is absolutely no good evidence that women like attention more than men do. It is purely a construct of neurosexism that plagues most of modern psychology...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:49 PM
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Well, like the first commentor said, with the success of the manosphere and its adoption of religion, this should not be a surprising trend....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:48 PM
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I often wonder why some of the best womanizers are raging misogynists. One of my fellow engineers that's been known to have flings with several ladies tweeted, "You know, for a species that has to track their period, you'd probably think women would be better at math than men. " His superiors got cross and asked him to delete it but I often wonder, how can a guy with that attitude be so appealling to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:30 PM
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I wish I met more ladies like you. Nearly all the women I grew up with are into weed so I can never really romance them because of that. Just discovered one curvy girl I had a crush on did nearly everyday. Yet, she still looks like an Ig baddie...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:24 PM
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Yay!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:12 PM
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Shit!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:37 PM
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Flirting with a lady that laughs a lot is quite a confusing experience. Are you laughing because it's your nature to do so or because you enjoy the way I make you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:19 PM
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Wow. That was...sobering.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:32 PM
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Shit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:48 AM
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Any tips?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:45 AM
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People have said that OLD is an easy place to get hookups, yet since I joined about a month ago, nearly all women there say, they don't do hookups. Is there something I'm missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:24 AM
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